Gosh as soon as my daughter told me I believed her & I never wanted to see nor hear that person & the people who were protecting him. Now worried about the hatred she has for those people protecting the abuser
I hope you to not trying to say somenthig like "uh, all the makes are the same" or other bullshit like that, this place should be only for give good comments for this women, share experiences and other things like that, not for trying to give bullshit opinions like that
I am not.blaming the victim on this satement that i am about to make ..thats why its a lot of insecure people in this country. Thats why the trust value is down to 0. Thats why good people.with good intenshion are look at side way because people.are over power mentally and spiritualy .by these .molesting demond. And fear plays a big role. And you have lying demons .to.that keep.you on edge that cause the inosent to .be victim of some thing.unthinkable .as far the earth is from the sky. Or beyond ...and because we allow these what every you want to call escape...the pentity call death. And family trust thats in the toilet and flused my sagestion is get a Spirtual family and i am not talking about that chirstain bs either .because. Yahsurah was not a chirstain...nor.a jew he was Yisrealites. Thats another topic for another time they say blood thicker than water. Mayde so but water is more powerful. If take blood and pure it in the water. Or ocean or what ever the case my be. The current fast or slow..its going to go in other diffrent directions. Its going to carry that thickness..so you could be of the same gens. But guests .what your spirt s dont.content thats why you me and yourself. Pray for Yahweh to.bless you with a Spirtual family. The bound are much stronger
My first wife became depressed and said she wanted a job , so she started working at an office . Everything was okay for a little while , and she started doing side jobs for a contractor that came in there . After that she started acting different , and became angry . Soon she starts accusing me of cheating for no reason . She was having an affair , and soon left me and took our 3 year old daughter . It was terrible , she divorced me , and he moved in with them . Soon after they moved to another town . My daughter started acting strange around 6 years old , and I talked to her about the wrong kind of touching , and kept mentioning it over the years . At the age of 10 my exwife came in the bathroom when my daughter was in the floor picking at sores , and her Mother knew what they were . Her boyfriend had given her vd warts , and she knew he had given them to my daughter . She took my 10 year old daughter to a Dr , and she had to have surgery . The Dr called the police , and the guy was arrested . There was a trial , and he was convicted and received 34 years in prison of which he did 13 years . After he was released , he had married a woman in FL , and went to Haitti to help rebuild a church and was hit in the head by a 2x4 and died in his sleep that night . I know now that the children of Haiti were and are preyed on by the relief workers and others , and child molesters don't change . GOD stopped him from ever raping another innocent child . I hope you're okay and can learn and grow and become an advocate for children and make others aware of what has happened in your life . These people seem to be able to spot that fear and weakness and prey on it in children and throughout the victims life until they stop it .
BLESSED good evening to you dear listening to those things you went through are very unsettling and what does hurt the most is when mo one don't believe you but at least hearing about that blow he got in his head pretending he is helping with the chruch well at least that is the best news i had for the day it does eat me out when people telling you crapp about forgiven the person because god does forgive us that is why these people does go on to keep doing it to other people because these scumbags does get more sympathy than the person they abuse but you are a sweet young lady and i hope and prayed that one of these days you will get your happiness time is a healer you are not guilty of anything sometimes fright make people give in to things and for those mothers that refused to believe they chridren ya all time will come some day
I was molested by my uncle , I don't know how old I was , But I knew things at a very young age. i did tell my mother ,she never said anything about it. She just left the room. After that I was assailted by several other people. I got so It was just normal for it to happen. I ended Up pregnant at 14. I didn't want it to happen but I knew it would do no good to say any thing. Your right It hurts to know they could be hurting other children.
jean skilling I’m so sorry to hear that! Nobody should have to go through that. I wanted to share my story because the man who did all those awful things to me told me to keep quit and don’t say nothing. So this was a way for me to open up and not feel so bad about it. It’s sadness me that people get away with things like this.
I found it difficult to sit through the entire video all I could do is think of my own similar experiences. Much healing & success to you Love. God Bless
any child out there, never keep quite.blow the wishtle. no matter who it is speak up.this is totally out of content. when you speak you are protecting younger members of you family.
I have a six year old I dont trust no one with her no one. I'm sorry this happened to u sis. A parent should know if a child is crying that something is going on.
god for give theas chikd abusers is all i can say the little children suffer no one listens no matter what yu say i told everyone at the time i told when i was 14 no one cared still haunts me but im strong and i love my children there all adults now god gave me strainght he helped me two be the woman i am two day
I hate to say it, but people who have been sexually assaulted or molested carry a tell sign in their body language that gives it away. This can sometimes attract other molesters/rapists to them because they can pick up on them just like that. I met a person a while ago who was molested as a teen and I knew before she even told me because of the way she was acting around men and other signs she was giving off of discomfort when in certain situations. By me having experience with people who have been raped or molested in the past I was able to understand how this person felt and what they were going through. I think the best thing you can do is go to counseling and talk about it, otherwise it will be hard to overcome it.
You should name your attackers. They dont deserve anonymity. You don't hv to be polite about protecting your body. You can scream out and call the police.
I agree why protect your abuser, name them imagine how many other children he has done this too when you could have possibly prevented it by exposing them.
People don’t know about The opportunistic ways of a pervert until they strike. I am so sorry you went through that.Most times pedos move on to your younger siblings after a while.Btw companies have insurance to cover sexual harassment.Keep records you can sue people who sexually harass you and in some cases the company can be sued. I had a very similar experience with my brother.He started doing things to me from the age of 6 to 14.I later found out he was violated.So it explained so much.A lot of times I feel it robbed me of the person I could have been.But I also feel it gave me a deeper sensitivity for others. I can look at people and recognize that they have been abused and I try to deal with them with love.i will be 45 and really been working on my healing.Never give up on healing.It is also important to bring awareness so others can protect their children.It is a tactic of Satan that if he can take our minds and preserve the body,we can just roam around doing any and everything self destructive never bringing glory to our creator.It took me many years to gain control over my sexual thoughts and desires because of it.And now I have freedom. I try to listen to music that empowers me like Johnathon Mc Reynolds And other artists who focus on positive messages versus music that evokes and brings up memories of my past. You are doing well. You are beautiful and may God bless!
Magnificent ! Say it loud. Don't keep those secrets for pedophiles to keep hurting other people or children. All pedophiles should be made known to everyone no matter what.
I myself am also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. As usual, it was at least 2 close family members. Back in my day, I had no one to turn to and stayed silent for 50 years. My abuse started in infancy and continued until my early teens. The situation then also made me an easy target and of course by my teens and all those years of abuse, the damage was done and the result is CPTSD. I finally got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and broke the silence. I'm 55 years old now and I'm still growing and recovering. At long last, I'm not having to do it alone now as I have an awesome councilor. Growing up, I had those same feelings of betrayal and helplessness. (One of my offenders held an a position of authority in the city) All of my offenders are now in the hands of a just God and slowly but surely I'm healing.
You are very brave and courageous for sharing this story. You are a daughter of the King. It was wrong for these individuals to do what they did. God is close to the broken hearted and you are helping people see that there is a way to rise above this. God bless you. You have a right to protect your boundaries. Even if someone speaks to you inappropriately and you are uncomfortable, tell your next immediate supervisor. You have a right to be comfortable in your personal space. Take care.
You are a strong beautiful black woman! Keep on being strong! Continue to stand up for yourself an have your own back! I'm so sorry that no one cared enough to pick up that you were being taken advantage of and to rescue you. These things are so heart breaking to me. I can never understand why ppl just allow these criminals to get away with what they are doing! It's so wrong! I pray that your story will help someone else who is facing or has faced any situation like the ones you went through.
I know your Pain. You poor baby girl. My heart goes out to you. God Bless Your Heart. We Love You! You are Beautiful. I Understand everything you feel. You do what you feel you can. You will get stronger baby girl.
hun, first off i wanna apologies for nothing happening for you in those situations. i don't know you but i do feel your pain and i admire your strength and grace. i wish you a pleasant and happy life. thank you first sharing your story and being brave enough to share it. thank you
That's nasty asf and sooo sad!! 💔💔😔😔💔💔 praise God you made it through to tell your story God bless you hun! I pray you God continues to give you strength to keep pushing forward. From one survivor to another You are more than Enough & Jesus love you 😊❤ God bless you
this was heartbreaking to listen to; imposible to imagine going thru. but kudos for telling what happened, because it is an object lesson for those who say "why didn't she tell anyone?". inwardly i groaned when you related that yr mom "took you over to confront him"... What - a child's word vs a grown man and her mother's sister, the child having to deal with feelings shame and embarrasment and going-against-loved-ones that are particularly acute for kids?? And no consequences for the dude other than restricted access to this victim? The moms might think it's been dealt with, but the take-away for the little girl - the lesson those moms helped teach - is that telling isn't worth the embarassment & hurt. And so the trash is past on so that the abuse can continue in other contexts, with all *sorts* of consequences -for the victim throughout her life, and for *who knows how* many other girls who encounter these abusers down the line. It's a lot of compound pain, which the abusers need to recognize by being arrested and taken out of circulation.
Sorry this happened to you 😔. I too was in a similar situation. From first cousins and a much older kid from the neighborhood. Thank GOD the kids from the neighborhood moved away. Sometimes I felt like I was passed around. 6 up to age 14, I fought back, stopped going around. I started working, eventually dating and spent my time between the two. You are sooo strong! I'm 35 and never told these secrets just bc of the backlash from it all. Not wanting to deal or confront family members/friends and their delusional minds trying to make it seem like I was. After a while my actions should of been enough to tell a story ( I started exotic dancing at 18yo and by the time I was promisicous at 23yo). I keep my kids(5yo & 11 boys) in sight at all times, educate them on their body parts and that no one should ever touch them inappropriately. I tell my kids that I'm always on their side and they can tell me anything so they can be comfortable telling. Ik. I am still paranoid. Being Silent is deadly! It's dumb that loved ones think being silent is okay and let's not forget the unforseen punishment of these abusers. Ij sit and wait for KARMA
You're a really a great and powerful woman, remember that it wasn't your fault amd thanks for share this, i fortunately haven't passed by that, but I'm pretty sure thatz form people in that situation, this video would help them so much!❤ You're really strong and brave for share this❤
I noticed at the end of Chiquila's post she say's "Hope you enjoy" I understand she meant no harm by that, but I do not enjoy reading or hearing about a child being molested or raped. It pisses me off and makes me damn mad. Anyone who touches a child inappropriately in any way, shape or form should be locked the f**k up and damned to hell. I just can't understand how the mother did not pick up on her child crying and pleadings when she would drop her off. That's usually a major flag to a mother that something is seriously wrong...smdh! Now that I've gotten that off my chest, I'm glad Chiquila is moving pass the abuse and has spoken up for herself. Speaking out definitely helps with the healing process, allowing you to fully take control of your body and your life. Thanks for sharing.
I pray for you sister...sorry this happened to you...what would you recommend for a father who has a little girl...what actions shoold I take or not take
Hueyn42 be careful who you leave your child with. Family are the worst please watch out for them. Another tip would be you know your daughter best if she same off pay attitude.
I am proud of you! You are a brave beautiful young lady! That’s why as a child growing up little kids. You were 7 yrs old. Both of them fools are the devil. They both need to be lock up in
so happy for you praying and have God in your life. You are a strong and brave young lady! Stay in the word of God. He will always be there for you! Thank You for sharing your story Amen 🙏🏿🙏🏿♥️
Pleaseee scream on the top of your lungs Stop!, Stop!, Help!, Help!!! . Dont say it in a soft voice, scream . Im sorry you went through that but i know your video has helped a lot of women who have experienced what you went through.
I wish healing for you little sister .. don't blame yourself.. you are gorgeous and beautiful inside too .. keep strong & focused ok ? Blessings Blessings
Was molested when I was 9, never told a soul...I'm now 22. I am learning to forgive and trust no one. When I have my future babies no one will babysit them.
fools donot know because they were not taught by their parents! I and am sure others like you coming forward with your story! You were a victim in all of these cases! God Bless You! Am
Yo I never knew this that’s crazy and it’s sad , I teared up that people I’m close to have similar stories of things with sick people that are suppose to be blood. I feel you me being sexual touched happened recently, You never know someone’s story or reason for them being the way they are. JUST KNOW IM ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU. ❤️
Thank you for being brave and sharing your story. You did not deserve any of that. You are a beautiful girl and know that despite your pain you can have a bright future. Trust in Jesus and know that you are loved.
It seems family would keep eye on the guys after having one incident. Thanks for sharing .. it seems like a magnet that recurs because some sense of knowing. These mind games are not the norm.
It takes a brave person to come out and talk about it
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Pedophiles have more then one victim. He is still molesting children if he is still alive. Victims often blame themselves and have problems with trust and relationships through out their life and have problems in many other areas of their life, including suicide. If this has happened to you, Please talk to a professional, this a violation of your life and effects your life in ways you may not understand.
I know this was so hard for you to talk about it was so difficult for me to listen to the whole video you are so brave beautiful and courageous and I hope the person that was responsible for this has been brought to Justice
My sista. The most powerful thing in the world is your mouth(voice). A dude know who to try and not to try. So open up your mouth ,now that you're an adult. It's unfortunate what transpired when you was a little girl. It is sickening. The woman that I'm dating now was molested when she was a little girl. So, my heart goes out to you. Just remember you are a woman and you are powerful. I love you my sista. Bless
you have to rid your self of those toxic family members. nothing was done because it's a generational curse and they have accepted and enabled that dysfunctional behavior. get counseling and start healing without them around. if you have kids NEVER bring them around that family
Commenting just to vent honestly. I was sexually abused by my father and my older brother for quite a while when I was growing up. I dont ever talk about it in detail because of the sheer amount of trauma I experienced. My brother gave me a poor excuse of an apology and my father flat out denies it all and my mom backs him up. These ppl are still in my life and idk what to do. I dont want anything bad to actually happen to them but having them around and in denial of my pain is so taxing for my mental health... I'm an adult and moved out but I dont want to lose my family.
I'm so sorry sweetheart that this happened to you it's really really sad how people think they can just get away with stuff I hope you get yourself some counseling and get some help God bless you sweetie I wish you the best
I'm sorry you gave up because there was no justice served! No offense but when you have children you must teach them not to run from there problems, never be afraid and never give up
FIRST OFF I WISH I COULD JUST MAKE IT ALL GO AWAY ICAN'T BUT I CAN SEND YOU MY LOVE LIL SISTA'YOU BARE A JEWEL SHINING FOR THE WORLD TO SEE MY HAT IS OFF TO YOU I LOVE YOUR LIFE AND YOUY AS IS YOU LEARN FROM ALL GOOD OR BAD ??
What pisses me off is why aren't these parents teaching their children about inappropiate touching?? And why the fuck don't these sorry ass boys know that their job is to protect black girls?!?! Not PREY on them.. I am disgusted.
Let's continue to help each other! There are some groups (private) on FB that everyone helps each other as well. 2 of which I am affiliated with. Silent no more is the main one for me because most have been through the same thing and many of the same symptoms.
This has most likely happened for generations in your family with the males and females. They're acting out what happened to them as well as there natural hormones coming into play. Either way it is TOTALLY WRONG!! Having it done to you is NO excuse to do it to another person. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Keep strong in saying NO and try as hard as you can going forward to keep a healthy distance from the males around you because as you have seen first hand people are not trust worthy in most cases
Being neglected by family n being molested by family. Who do you trust as an adult, no one. You’re a courageous girl. Let it make u a strong woman.
Maria Gonzalez my family don’t understand in my adult life why I don’t speak to them they didn’t protect me
While her mother continued to take her 7yr old child to a home full of males. Unbelievable
Gosh as soon as my daughter told me I believed her & I never wanted to see nor hear that person & the people who were protecting him.
Now worried about the hatred she has for those people protecting the abuser
I hope you to not trying to say somenthig like "uh, all the makes are the same" or other bullshit like that, this place should be only for give good comments for this women, share experiences and other things like that, not for trying to give bullshit opinions like that
Some families are just full of perverts and people need to watch their kids more closely and start a dialog.
I am not.blaming the victim on this satement that i am about to make ..thats why its a lot of insecure people in this country. Thats why the trust value is down to 0. Thats why good people.with good intenshion are look at side way because people.are over power mentally and spiritualy .by these .molesting demond. And fear plays a big role. And you have lying demons .to.that keep.you on edge that cause the inosent to .be victim of some thing.unthinkable .as far the earth is from the sky. Or beyond ...and because we allow these what every you want to call escape...the pentity call death. And family trust thats in the toilet and flused my sagestion is get a Spirtual family and i am not talking about that chirstain bs either .because. Yahsurah was not a chirstain...nor.a jew he was Yisrealites. Thats another topic for another time they say blood thicker than water. Mayde so but water is more powerful. If take blood and pure it in the water. Or ocean or what ever the case my be. The current fast or slow..its going to go in other diffrent directions. Its going to carry that thickness..so you could be of the same gens. But guests .what your spirt s dont.content thats why you me and yourself. Pray for Yahweh to.bless you with a Spirtual family. The bound are much stronger
If a family.member ever tried that on me iwould killed them. And went home drank some wine and watch dark shadows. And wouldn't.gave a dam
Let truth be told...
My first wife became depressed and said she wanted a job , so she started working at an office . Everything was okay for a little while , and she started doing side jobs for a contractor that came in there . After that she started acting different , and became angry . Soon she starts accusing me of cheating for no reason . She was having an affair , and soon left me and took our 3 year old daughter . It was terrible , she divorced me , and he moved in with them . Soon after they moved to another town . My daughter started acting strange around 6 years old , and I talked to her about the wrong kind of touching , and kept mentioning it over the years . At the age of 10 my exwife came in the bathroom when my daughter was in the floor picking at sores , and her Mother knew what they were . Her boyfriend had given her vd warts , and she knew he had given them to my daughter . She took my 10 year old daughter to a Dr , and she had to have surgery . The Dr called the police , and the guy was arrested . There was a trial , and he was convicted and received 34 years in prison of which he did 13 years . After he was released , he had married a woman in FL , and went to Haitti to help rebuild a church and was hit in the head by a 2x4 and died in his sleep that night . I know now that the children of Haiti were and are preyed on by the relief workers and others , and child molesters don't change . GOD stopped him from ever raping another innocent child . I hope you're okay and can learn and grow and become an advocate for children and make others aware of what has happened in your life . These people seem to be able to spot that fear and weakness and prey on it in children and throughout the victims life until they stop it .
BLESSED good evening to you dear listening to those things you went through are very unsettling and what does hurt the most is when mo one don't believe you but at least hearing about that blow he got in his head pretending he is helping with the chruch well at least that is the best news i had for the day it does eat me out when people telling you crapp about forgiven the person because god does forgive us that is why these people does go on to keep doing it to other people because these scumbags does get more sympathy than the person they abuse but you are a sweet young lady and i hope and prayed that one of these days you will get your happiness time is a healer you are not guilty of anything sometimes fright make people give in to things and for those mothers that refused to believe they chridren ya all time will come some day
if members of your family don't listen or believe tell a teacher or a cop
queen calloway yes!! Some adult will help! 💯💯
I was molested by my uncle , I don't know how old I was , But I knew things at a very young age. i did tell my mother ,she never said anything about it. She just left the room. After that I was assailted by several other people. I got so It was just normal for it to happen. I ended Up pregnant at 14. I didn't want it to happen but I knew it would do no good to say any thing. Your right It hurts to know they could be hurting other children.
jean skilling I’m so sorry to hear that! Nobody should have to go through that. I wanted to share my story because the man who did all those awful things to me told me to keep quit and don’t say nothing. So this was a way for me to open up and not feel so bad about it. It’s sadness me that people get away with things like this.
jean skilling SO SICKENING!!
jean skilling I’m so sorry🙏🏽🙏🏽💙💙
I found it difficult to sit through the entire video all I could do is think of my own similar experiences. Much healing & success to you Love. God Bless
any child out there, never keep quite.blow the wishtle. no matter who it is speak up.this is totally out of content. when you speak you are protecting younger members of you family.
I told me mother her husband molested me she didn't do anything I told my counselor at school nothing happened I tried to kill myself
I have a six year old I dont trust no one with her no one. I'm sorry this happened to u sis. A parent should know if a child is crying that something is going on.
When a child is crying a parent should suspect something hopefully u have recovered from your pain. DP
Ask GOD to put a hedge of protection around you. You are a beautiful, articulate and intelligent young lady. (It was NOT YOUR FAULT.)
May you always have safety and peace in your life. Sending love and light to you. Thank you for sharing.
god for give theas chikd abusers is all i can say the little children suffer no one listens no matter what yu say i told everyone at the time i told when i was 14 no one cared still haunts me but im strong and i love my children there all adults now god gave me strainght he helped me two be the woman i am two day
Wow so sorry this happened to you
I hate to say it, but people who have been sexually assaulted or molested carry a tell sign in their body language that gives it away.
This can sometimes attract other molesters/rapists to them because they can pick up on them just like that. I met a person a while ago who was molested as a teen and I knew before she even told me because of the way she was acting around men and other signs she was giving off of discomfort when in certain situations.
By me having experience with people who have been raped or molested in the past I was able to understand how this person felt and what they were going through. I think the best thing you can do is go to counseling and talk about it, otherwise it will be hard to overcome it.
You should name your attackers. They dont deserve anonymity.
You don't hv to be polite about protecting your body. You can scream out and call the police.
I agree why protect your abuser, name them imagine how many other children he has done this too when you could have possibly prevented it by exposing them.
Exactly, I dont know why they all keep the names.
Facts.
I hate hinding the person name
Literally makes no sense to have their identities protected..for what?!
People don’t know about The opportunistic ways of a pervert until they strike. I am so sorry you went through that.Most times pedos move on to your younger siblings after a while.Btw companies have insurance to cover sexual harassment.Keep records you can sue people who sexually harass you and in some cases the company can be sued. I had a very similar experience with my brother.He started doing things to me from the age of 6 to 14.I later found out he was violated.So it explained so much.A lot of times I feel it robbed me of the person I could have been.But I also feel it gave me a deeper sensitivity for others. I can look at people and recognize that they have been abused and I try to deal with them with love.i will be 45 and really been working on my healing.Never give up on healing.It is also important to bring awareness so others can protect their children.It is a tactic of Satan that if he can take our minds and preserve the body,we can just roam around doing any and everything self destructive never bringing glory to our creator.It took me many years to gain control over my sexual thoughts and desires because of it.And now I have freedom. I try to listen to music that empowers me like Johnathon Mc Reynolds And other artists who focus on positive messages versus music that evokes and brings up memories of my past. You are doing well. You are beautiful and may God bless!
Magnificent ! Say it loud. Don't keep those secrets for pedophiles to keep hurting other people or children. All pedophiles should be made known to everyone no matter what.
I myself am also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. As usual, it was at least 2 close family members. Back in my day, I had no one to turn to and stayed silent for 50 years. My abuse started in infancy and continued until my early teens. The situation then also made me an easy target and of course by my teens and all those years of abuse, the damage was done and the result is CPTSD. I finally got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and broke the silence. I'm 55 years old now and I'm still growing and recovering. At long last, I'm not having to do it alone now as I have an awesome councilor. Growing up, I had those same feelings of betrayal and helplessness. (One of my offenders held an a position of authority in the city) All of my offenders are now in the hands of a just God and slowly but surely I'm healing.
Keep saying NO and continue to break the silence! 💓
You are very brave and courageous for sharing this story. You are a daughter of the King. It was wrong for these individuals to do what they did. God is close to the broken hearted and you are helping people see that there is a way to rise above this. God bless you. You have a right to protect your boundaries. Even if someone speaks to you inappropriately and you are uncomfortable, tell your next immediate supervisor. You have a right to be comfortable in your personal space. Take care.
You are so strong !
Our stories are identical. You are such a brave and beautiful soul! I'm praying for you!!!
So sorry for your pain. May God Bless you. Brakes my heart.
I am very sorry for you. These things should never happen. You can never trust anyone. Not even family members. Sad but true.😞😞
You are a strong beautiful black woman! Keep on being strong! Continue to stand up for yourself an have your own back! I'm so sorry that no one cared enough to pick up that you were being taken advantage of and to rescue you. These things are so heart breaking to me. I can never understand why ppl just allow these criminals to get away with what they are doing! It's so wrong! I pray that your story will help someone else who is facing or has faced any situation like the ones you went through.
Am so PROUD of you!! I do understand...I was MOLESTED by and uncle and a family friend...it does have lasting effects!!
I know your Pain. You poor baby girl. My heart goes out to you. God Bless Your Heart. We Love You! You are Beautiful. I Understand everything you feel. You do what you feel you can. You will get stronger baby girl.
Hell no my momma wouldn’t have just confronted him it woulda been some shit🚮 but sorry for what happened
God help you young lady. I feel scared for you & enraged. I want to go & beat the devils.
Thank you for sharing. And by the way you look even more gorgeous when you smile ;) (It was like a sunshine at the end of a very difficult story)
This is so very heartbreaking. You are extremely strong.
You're courageous, speaking out is necessary. stay strong
Your not alone 🙄
dark window 😢😢😢
hun, first off i wanna apologies for nothing happening for you in those situations. i don't know you but i do feel your pain and i admire your strength and grace. i wish you a pleasant and happy life. thank you first sharing your story and being brave enough to share it. thank you
.....no protection.....
At age 17 I was raped by a older man around his 40s!!!
Sorry you had to go through that beautiful
Bless her heart . She really needs professional help to have a normal life. She needs to tell everyone & the police !
Why protect the names?
You are so strong girly. New subb right here. #SurvivorSisters
That's nasty asf and sooo sad!! 💔💔😔😔💔💔 praise God you made it through to tell your story God bless you hun! I pray you God continues to give you strength to keep pushing forward. From one survivor to another You are more than Enough & Jesus love you 😊❤ God bless you
this was heartbreaking to listen to; imposible to imagine going thru. but kudos for telling what happened, because it is an object lesson for those who say "why didn't she tell anyone?". inwardly i groaned when you related that yr mom "took you over to confront him"... What - a child's word vs a grown man and her mother's sister, the child having to deal with feelings shame and embarrasment and going-against-loved-ones that are particularly acute for kids?? And no consequences for the dude other than restricted access to this victim? The moms might think it's been dealt with, but the take-away for the little girl - the lesson those moms helped teach - is that telling isn't worth the embarassment & hurt. And so the trash is past on so that the abuse can continue in other contexts, with all *sorts* of consequences -for the victim throughout her life, and for *who knows how* many other girls who encounter these abusers down the line. It's a lot of compound pain, which the abusers need to recognize by being arrested and taken out of circulation.
Sorry this happened to you 😔. I too was in a similar situation. From first cousins and a much older kid from the neighborhood. Thank GOD the kids from the neighborhood moved away. Sometimes I felt like I was passed around. 6 up to age 14, I fought back, stopped going around. I started working, eventually dating and spent my time between the two. You are sooo strong! I'm 35 and never told these secrets just bc of the backlash from it all. Not wanting to deal or confront family members/friends and their delusional minds trying to make it seem like I was. After a while my actions should of been enough to tell a story ( I started exotic dancing at 18yo and by the time I was promisicous at 23yo).
I keep my kids(5yo & 11 boys) in sight at all times, educate them on their body parts and that no one should ever touch them inappropriately. I tell my kids that I'm always on their side and they can tell me anything so they can be comfortable telling. Ik. I am still paranoid.
Being Silent is deadly! It's dumb that loved ones think being silent is okay and let's not forget the unforseen punishment of these abusers. Ij sit and wait for KARMA
You are very intelligent and capable of covering any subject as a teacher of subjects. "Stay Gold" ❣
Sorry to hear your story im always interested in the perspective of people i cant relate to and havent had similar experience
You're a really a great and powerful woman, remember that it wasn't your fault amd thanks for share this, i fortunately haven't passed by that, but I'm pretty sure thatz form people in that situation, this video would help them so much!❤ You're really strong and brave for share this❤
You are Beautiful stay Strong. Heal Yourself. You are very brave to speak out. Continue to do so.
Babe your family been doing this for years..genaration curse..your...
I noticed at the end of Chiquila's post she say's "Hope you enjoy" I understand she meant no harm by that, but I do not enjoy reading or hearing about a child being molested or raped. It pisses me off and makes me damn mad. Anyone who touches a child inappropriately in any way, shape or form should be locked the f**k up and damned to hell. I just can't understand how the mother did not pick up on her child crying and pleadings when she would drop her off. That's usually a major flag to a mother that something is seriously wrong...smdh! Now that I've gotten that off my chest, I'm glad Chiquila is moving pass the abuse and has spoken up for herself. Speaking out definitely helps with the healing process, allowing you to fully take control of your body and your life. Thanks for sharing.
I pray for you sister...sorry this happened to you...what would you recommend for a father who has a little girl...what actions shoold I take or not take
Hueyn42 be careful who you leave your child with. Family are the worst please watch out for them. Another tip would be you know your daughter best if she same off pay attitude.
I am proud of you! You are a brave beautiful young lady! That’s why as a child growing up little kids. You were 7 yrs old. Both of them fools are the devil. They both need to be lock up in
so happy for you praying and have God in your life. You are a strong and brave young lady! Stay in the word of God. He will always be there for you! Thank You for sharing your story Amen 🙏🏿🙏🏿♥️
I'm praying for u thank u for putting your story out there I thank God for people like yourself
Pleaseee scream on the top of your lungs Stop!, Stop!, Help!, Help!!! . Dont say it in a soft voice, scream . Im sorry you went through that but i know your video has helped a lot of women who have experienced what you went through.
I wish healing for you little sister .. don't blame yourself.. you are gorgeous and beautiful inside too .. keep strong & focused ok ? Blessings Blessings
Was molested when I was 9, never told a soul...I'm now 22. I am learning to forgive and trust no one. When I have my future babies no one will babysit them.
fools donot know because they were not taught by their parents! I and am sure others like you coming forward with your story! You were a victim in all of these cases! God Bless You! Am
This is so sa..u cried and screamed but noone came to help u. U r strong though and it was never ur fault to begin with.
I hope u heal well💚💚
Yo I never knew this that’s crazy and it’s sad , I teared up that people I’m close to have similar stories of things with sick people that are suppose to be blood. I feel you me being sexual touched happened recently, You never know someone’s story or reason for them being the way they are. JUST KNOW IM ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU. ❤️
I think you very brave and not a selfish person to share your story to help others get over their truama
Your story resonates love. Thanks for being strong and sharing your story with us 💜 #metoo
Thank you for being brave and sharing your story. You did not deserve any of that. You are a beautiful girl and know that despite your pain you can have a bright future. Trust in Jesus and know that you are loved.
It seems family would keep eye on the guys after having one incident.
Thanks for sharing .. it seems like a magnet that recurs because some sense of knowing. These mind games are not the norm.
It takes a brave person to come out and talk about it
Pedophiles have more then one victim. He is still molesting children if he is still alive. Victims often blame themselves and have problems with trust and relationships through out their life and have problems in many other areas of their life, including suicide. If this has happened to you, Please talk to a professional, this a violation of your life and effects your life in ways you may not understand.
I know this was so hard for you to talk about it was so difficult for me to listen to the whole video you are so brave beautiful and courageous and I hope the person that was responsible for this has been brought to Justice
Thank you for sharing your story ❤️
Very brave of you to share your story. Thank you.
My sista. The most powerful thing in the world is your mouth(voice). A dude know who to try and not to try. So open up your mouth ,now that you're an adult. It's unfortunate what transpired when you was a little girl. It is sickening. The woman that I'm dating now was molested when she was a little girl. So, my heart goes out to you. Just remember you are a woman and you are powerful. I love you my sista. Bless
Thank you for sharing. You are very brave.
you have to rid your self of those toxic family members. nothing was done because it's a generational curse and they have accepted and enabled that dysfunctional behavior. get counseling and start healing without them around. if you have kids NEVER bring them around that family
Commenting just to vent honestly. I was sexually abused by my father and my older brother for quite a while when I was growing up. I dont ever talk about it in detail because of the sheer amount of trauma I experienced. My brother gave me a poor excuse of an apology and my father flat out denies it all and my mom backs him up. These ppl are still in my life and idk what to do. I dont want anything bad to actually happen to them but having them around and in denial of my pain is so taxing for my mental health... I'm an adult and moved out but I dont want to lose my family.
They are not your family. Anyone who would use and discard you is not your family.
I'm so sorry sweetheart that this happened to you it's really really sad how people think they can just get away with stuff I hope you get yourself some counseling and get some help God bless you sweetie I wish you the best
Yes yes, the same happened to me at the age of 4, it was my first cousin and uncle.
Wow, your mom should've been more protecting. Sorry you went through that. You seem like a sweetheart. You'll be a good mother. 🙂
Your feelings your innocence gone I can't tail you how much pain we feel but its important to talk about the hurt
Ok what was wrong with your mom.
I'm sorry you gave up because there was no justice served! No offense but when you have children you must teach them not to run from there problems, never be afraid and never give up
I can't express how sorry I am for YOU I will pray for u from now on. PLEASE GET counseling
Family should look out for what is going on
FIRST OFF I WISH I COULD JUST MAKE IT ALL GO AWAY ICAN'T BUT I CAN SEND YOU MY LOVE LIL SISTA'YOU BARE A JEWEL SHINING FOR THE WORLD TO SEE MY HAT IS OFF TO YOU I LOVE YOUR LIFE AND YOUY AS IS YOU LEARN FROM ALL GOOD OR BAD ??
I wonder what state she lives in. Because if this is Ny, I know for a fact Ny has a lot of aggressive sexual predators.
I have been sexually molested by my own father it hurts
I'm sorry that happened to you
So sorry darling
I am so sorry this happened to you. I pray that you will heal from this trauma.
I feel so dirty hearing this what's happening to these people...she seems so timid still dirty bastard.
What pisses me off is why aren't these parents teaching their children about inappropiate touching?? And why the fuck don't these sorry ass boys know that their job is to protect black girls?!?! Not PREY on them.. I am disgusted.
I wanna cry.
Let's continue to help each other! There are some groups (private) on FB that everyone helps each other as well. 2 of which I am affiliated with. Silent no more is the main one for me because most have been through the same thing and many of the same symptoms.
Y do u think u keep getting assulted. 2 different family members, at school n work.
Is this a serious question? Because if it is you're part of the problem!
She was around 7 years old.
When you keep secret for long like that makes you suffer long. Better seek help from other reliable sources like a church or school right away.
It happens in schools and churches too.
Church is the last place to go to my first experience with a woman before was with the choir leader and she told me not to tell anyone
Please expose them. This will continue to happen to other girl's
KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!!!!!
Strong young lady🙏🙏
This has most likely happened for generations in your family with the males and females. They're acting out what happened to them as well as there natural hormones coming into play. Either way it is TOTALLY WRONG!! Having it done to you is NO excuse to do it to another person. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Keep strong in saying NO and try as hard as you can going forward to keep a healthy distance from the males around you because as you have seen first hand people are not trust worthy in most cases
Much love to you 💜 stay strong 💚
Sorry sweetheart you keep doing what your doing an spread the world please trust I know how you feel I've been there!
So sorry for what happened to you
It's not your fault what happens to you as a child, keep moving forward, stop the cycle of abuse. Pedophiles go to hell....God promised.
🧡 you are amazing
Please talk to your children!!!
I understand these videos but why not share the person name so they can't do it to someone else. If he did it to you. They will do it to someone else.