HOW TO: STOP BEING INSECURE! OVERCOMING INSECURITY 101
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ส.ค. 2024
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Sometimes I wanna see myself through others people’s eyes 😭
You're beautiful
tbh same girl
there's a reason that we can't. embrace yourself without waiting for anyone else to embrace you.
Lol 🤣😂 same
Same
I feel like she knows what im goin thru😭😭
Same🤧🤧
I DOOOO
@@TatyCokley omg hii u made my day💛
She drops these videos at the right time frl 💕
Sameeee
I wasn't insecure until people started pointing things out😞
I wasn’t insecure until I saw myself in the mirror
Same
Same my fcking siblings
It was my dad :(
I wasn’t insecure until I was bullied back in 3rd grade
insecurity comes from unsatisfaction with yourself, normally through comparison with others, focus on yourself and what you want to improve instead of what others will think, say or do, you will never be like them, you are in a class of your own, a blueprint, once you realize you dont have to compete and compare you will love yourself and when you love yourself you gain confidence
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@@janesamal5385 ?what do you mean
This is where I am. I'm just searching for actual ways to implement changes in my thought process. The same way I think so highly of others and extend patience, compassion, and grace- I want so desperately to do so for myself 😢
The best thing I ever did was delete social media when I was building my confidence and working on my self-worth. Learn to love yourself before loving pictures of people you think you want to be because you'll realise you're who you have always wanted to be
Agreed ❤️
how did you do that?
I did the same babeee
Ur beautiful ;)
Period
did i stop doing hw for this? yes. any regrets? no. ❤️
Yuppp 😭so did I
Sameeee
LMAOOO DO YOUR HOMEWORK!!!
Same
Fr I put up my math homework for this💀
beyonce said, if you point out your insecurities people start to notice them! ❤️
trust me no one will notice unless you bring it up
accurate 💯
@@brownskin.babeee :)
@@shannonxpaige7 wow this helped me so much
@@gl0bae24 glad it did
Didnt sneeze but she blessed us anyways😅😍😍
LMAO THIS CLEVER!!
😂😂
🤣
Dang, you probably copied this, but that’s a good comment🤣
@@aa0750 fr
I'm so insecure and I'm trying hard to be confident but every time I listen to such motivational videos I just end up crying and I cry hard..it really sucks to be this way...just hope that it will pass soon
I understand where you coming from 🙁We are our own worst enemy 💯 Don't give up on yourself 😊.
oh honey, i feel you. right now i‘m also in a kind of emotionally unstable kind of time because sometimes im just unhappy with myself. and sometimes i try so hard to be confident that i automatically overthink every little things so that it‘ll turn out confident. sometimes our brains are our biggest enemies, but it‘s also where you get to start changing things. i truly hope for you to get better and i know once in your life you‘ll be the confident queen you always wanted to be
Hey its totally normal to be insecure. It happens to every one. If you cry, that's okay. The best thing you can do for yourself is allow yourself to feel how you feel. You can do it. You can become confident, it may take time but I believe in you
It won't just pass unfortunately. It's an ongoing work in progress. It's possible tho. Every secure person was a former insecure person
Right...😒 but surely one will get there. It's a process tbh
Working on an assignment that’s due tomorrow and Taty’s notif pops up **clicks on video** 😭
ikr shelby
LMAOOOO GO FINISH BABYY!!!
Same 😂
I'm going over ur chan next
My insecurities came from failed relationships throughout my life. I allowed men tear me down. I also have childhood trauma which multiply these feelings. I am on a self love journey now! ❤️ Finding me again.
Same for me, too, but sometimes I feel like I'm insecure for not reason
@@user-qd9uj2st8lsame.. I'm working on fixing that now.. with therapy and genuine friendships and family love
I got taerdownded by both guys and girls cause of bullying but I am slowly trying to get over it!
Same here😔
Something I say to myself when I see someone who I think is prettier than me “she’s pretty but so am I”
I say this, too. I also go a step further and say, "another person's beauty does not make me inferior." It really helps.
Prompts:
A. When did you first notice your insecurity
B. Where were you
C. What events were going on in your life
D. Who was present/not present
I hope all of you become confident and overcome your insecurities❤️
For a long I would always listen to what other had to say about me such as saying that I was ugly or I had a big nose. Consistently picking at me and I would cry and wish I could change the way I looked. But I started journaling, going to therapy, reciting affirmations to myself. I look back and ask myself why did I EVER listen to others? I found that I truly love myself and I’m comfortable within myself. 💕 be who you are and love yourself 🦋💕🤗
Beautifully said💝
Period❤
I was filling out an application and I seen this and was like "this has to be a message"
YESSS
That moment when you realize it‘s your mother who makes you feel insecure every day...
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Is her fr always the moms 😑😒
Always the mothers 😢
“maybe you don’t feel like you deserve to like anything about yourself” 🤭
Im trying to be more confident and love my body but my mom always points things out and makes me feel worse like she points out how my boobs sag and just stuff that I cant change unless I have surgery and its just frustrating cause I cant just stop talking to my mom. I realize that all my insecurities come from everything that she says about my face and body.
If it means she’s ruining your energy, then yeah you would need to spend less time around your mother.
@@frotondi86 I agree, ik she's your mom but just a girl helping another girl out, I think whenever she points those things out to you, you should say " you know what I like that about myself I think it's beautiful" even if you don't think that YET. and you know what she might not like it but hey your standing up for yourself and you cant allow negative energy to come in and mess up your vibe like pls✋
girl ur beautiful, don't listen to what anyone says. you're ethereal, sending love
@@EN-ru2lw Exactly! Even if you agree with the shit she says you can't let someone talk down on you like that. Eventually you'll learn to love yourself😘
@@jadewest8020 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
i completely agree when you say you need to find out the root of your insecurity. it wasn't until i went BACK to find the source of my trauma that i was finally able to move FORWARD.
I'm insecure because my family is constantly degrading me, i know they probably dont mean it, but they make me feel insecure about what i eat, what i wear, etc
@Grace I've tried but they really don't understand. Their words have led me to many mental breakdowns and suicide attempts, but they just don't realize it's them, besides all I tell them. I feel so alone all the time, I have to turn to strangers on the internet for comfort. I'm too young for all of the shit I've been through.
@Grace Thanks so much, I'm not really religious, but I'll try it out
@@twilightlor I’m so sorry this is happening to you, I hope your situation has gotten better. I also want to build off of what the other person said about the Bible. In the Bible, God tells us that we mean so much to him. He has unconditional love that NO-ONE has ever seen/or has given besides Jesus who God sent. God loves you so much, He sent His Son Jesus to die for you, so if you believe in Jesus: that He has died for you, risen from the dead and repent from your sins, your shall not perish but have everlasting life through Him. We are made in Gods image, so we’re all beautiful. He loves you and sees what we’re like on the inside and not the outside/he looks at our heart. God MADE you just the way you are and you know what, what he creates is beautiful. Every person is sinful and falls short of the Glory of God so they can’t see what God see’s, and what God see’s is a daughter that he died for. Following God will leave you fulfilled. When you start understanding God’s unimaginable love for you, you don’t pay attention to what others think of you because what God thinks of you is ALL that matters. God wants to build a relationship with you. It’s NOT a religion. It’s such a beautiful thing to have a relationship with God, it brings you so much peace, joy and love knowing how much you’re loved by Him. If you want to learning more about God, like the previous person said, you can download the Bible app if you don’t have a Bible, because that’s the best place we’re you can grow in your faith/learn about God. Also watching TH-cam videos about God will help you if the Bible is to overwhelming. Romans 13 verse 9 : But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” Psalm 139 verse 13-15: For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth.”
If you want to learn more about God, feel free to ask me questions, I would love to! :) ❤️ God bless you!
@@Ash-qj7ul Thank you so much
@@twilightlor I’m so glad! If you have any questions feel free to ask, I truly don’t mind. Also that’s terrible that kids would bully you, NO-ONE deserves that! God tells us to love one and other and bullying is not loving at all. I love this verse in the Bible about Love which God tells us to be like/shows us what love is: 1st Corinthians verses 13: “4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” Please don’t think what those kids did to you or what your family did as a representation of who God is. I’ll pray that your search and understanding of God as you study will be revealed to you! Also if your interested, I highly recommend the book “I don’t have enough faith to be an Atheist” by Frank Turek and Norman Geisler. I’m reading that book right know and I love it so far. The books about evidence that supports the Bible and they do it in as much of a unbiased way they can, just seeing what scientific evidence among other things to see if it actually supports the Bible. God bless you!
I'm very thin people tell me and I try to hold it in but I start thinking suicidal thoughts and like not want to live and people dont realize that it hurts to be called thin or stick etc. But now I'm not insecure anymore no suicidal thoughts anymore I'm more confident thanks for the video😍😘💖
Same that shit hurts really bad
I get the same thing people always oh your so thin look at your legs
Am so insecure on my body that I don't even feel comfortable in my clothes that's way 8 don't dress up and go out and if I go out I feel so weird like it feels like people look at me like what was she thinking
I feel your pain am still working on that but am glad that you working on yourself much love
@ACKAH Abigail ❤️
Oh im also south african and same
@@irmaj0212 thank you so much for the advice
My sister has the same problem what people can say to a person who is thin is very rude they are people too. My sister has dramatically been affected by it positively and negatively. I wish I could done something but I went to a different and probably would not be brave enough
i already learned how to love myself from tatys old vids but ima watch bc it’s taty and she’s iconic 👏🏼
We gotta maintain!!! Love youu
@@TatyCokley omfg i cannot believe u replied! love u girlll
How is it that when I'm experiencing/dealing with something, she posts a video about it during that time?........I'm not complaining but DAMNNN 🤣 love u Taty I needed this ❤
Im in yalls HEADSSS lol
I was born with lots of hair on my arms and people would bully me about it and call me a monster. That’s what made me so insecure
Girl hairy arms just mean we stay warm in the winter time😂💕
@@Heavin_ true true
Ask yourself.... is that masculine body hair something that affects your health? Do people's opinions rlly matter?? U didn't choose to have hairy arms so why beat urself for it??
That's why I started shaving my arms in high school and have never stopped. It just makes me feel better about myself personally. Just a suggestion but of course you don't have to do anything you don't want to.
I used to be so insecure about my height. I used to blame my height for women not wanting me and be like "dang no girl wants me cause I'm not over 6ft." I'm 5'10. I don't think like that anymore tho and I'm very confident in myself.
I’m glad you were able to overcome your insecurities 👍
5’10 is still a good height
5’10 is tall tall👁
Proud of you!!
good for you! im happy you are confident in yourself now, as you should👏. btw 5/10 isn't that short and I'm a girl and I think that soo......
I feel like I was always insecure, but up until this year I've been thinking more about my insecurities. I remember I was in the 4th grade, and I body shamed two girls, because they were smaller than me and I was overweight. I'm 13 today and I still feel bad about what I did in the past. Very soon I plan to do the things I have to do in order to be confident.
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@@zoricagarcia8157 who is the number to?
@@jamerablack1374 Dr baba contact him directly on WhatsApp for any help
Start now!
I don't even need to look at instagram models to feel insecure the fact that I own a mirror does it for me. But again thank you for making my day 💜
if that's u in ur pfp then u are literally gorgeous
@@shannonxpaige7 Aww thank you 💞
I am backkk , I’m so sorry , I’ve been dealing with a “break up” and working on my TH-cam channel and missed so much of your videos 😩😩 BUT I AM BACK and ready to binge what I missed ❤️
That's good love, focus on YOUUUU
I feel like insecurity is the root of why the mind goes all over the place. It’s a process of getting over it. Oh and your make up is poppin as always❤️
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Baby girl you are GLOWING! So crazy how much you have grown through the years 💛 I’ll continue to root for you sis
Omg thank you so much I really needed this. And I saw a crow in my dream and I searched it up, it said something about negative thoughts about yourself and anxiety, hate etc. But then it said "Crows can show up in dreams to help guide you through self-transformation and long-term change." Im happy about that can't wait to see what the future brings to me. Ilysm ❤️❤️
I NEEDED THIS RN LMAO im at a park bawling my eyes out to sad music
You're going to get through it love I know you are
i needa stop highlighting my insecurities. literally, no one else is. i AM deserving. very.
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What I really like about this video is that a lot of what she’s saying is taking ownership for your life
And that ultimately will get you what you want in the end
There's a world outside your window don't let it pass you by because of danm insecurities.
God bless y'all!!!♡♡🌼
I feel my insecurities come from myself & comparing myself to others so much. I point out all of my flaws & I place others on the top of the pedadtal. My biggest problems are comparisons, not thinking I'm good enough, and not accepting myself for who I am
Worry about your ETERNAL soul and not about your temporary life.
Ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
Jesus said:
Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
_ Matthew 6:26-27
“ Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think about such things.
Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me-put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
_Philippians 4:6-9
"For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, 'Fear not, I am the one who helps you.”
_ Isaiah 41:13
“For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
_ Matthew 6: 32_33
I feel like my self-esteem just boosted with your talk girl! Self-love is so important to practice!😍 I’m learning day by day to be patient with myself and love me for me regardless.
I have a facial birthmark, thank you! I'm learning to truly not allow anyone's opinion affect me. Its sounds easy but I never let go of the bullying from middle school
From the way you talk, right down to your personality, in my perspective, you are sweetest sweetheart youtuber everyone should pay heed to. Love from Ghana 🇬🇭 🥂🥰
You actually look like you could be Saweetie’s little sister. So beautiful 😍
I was thinking the exact same thing. They even kind of sound alike
I’m so happy I found this video. I’d found myself insecure in a relationship I had going on and I really had to face a few of them head on. After making some changes, I low key found myself second guessing the changes I made 🙄 then I stumbled on this video and you gave confirmation to every positive change I made. Thank you!
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more people need to watch this! sis out here speaking the truth!!
My "friend" keeps calling me hairy. One time my arm was exposing and he said I was hairy and my friend next to me laughed I just wanna end going to that school I nearly cried that time. Now I cover my arms and make sure no one sees it. I let my tears out on this vid you are very helpful I love you❤
I wanna see a video like this from someone who’s not above average/attractive. It’s easy to be secure when you’re beautiful
preach sis . i have been having a lot of insecurity when it comes to dating. I have been getting ghosted etc.. but you are so right its not about me.
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I was about to sleep but I was like ‘Na fuck it my big sis just posted’ 🤩
I got a scar from surgery as a baby. But I got so insecure when people started pointing it out. It made me feel different from everyone and I felt like an outsider.
Girl... let me tell you! You have a gift. Every single thing you said in this video touched me and made me tear up. I'm going to actively try to heal my insecurities and work on being kinder to myself even when it's hard or easy to just put myself down because other people have or my anxieties of what people think. Thank you for this video 🥺🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This video really helped inspire to begin my healing journey once again but to do it the right way. After journaling for an hour about the topics and questions you discussed I honestly feel so much better. I know for a fact keeping up with journaling will make a huge difference in my confidence🥺💗
I believe that we make our own realities and then if we believe hard enough, our brain start adapting to what we believe.
This 100%!!!!!!!
@@Malitubee glad you agree!
The fact that I saw this after I started feeling insecure and sad because all my friends are getting into relationships...
GIRL.
G I R L
SAMMMEEEEE
Its like I'm the boyfriend fairy.. everyone I'm friends with manages to pair up with someone ! Like bruh
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Thank you Taty I’ve been having a rough time with my self esteem when I compare myself to my family I feel so fat and ugly I have a party I’m going to this Saturday and I promise you to try my best to feel confident in myself :)
every time i get over things and start being more confident and stuff, it’s always brought down because i look in the mirror for too long and get compared to my siblings. it’s really hard to get over little details when i’m still constantly worried about if my body will be good for my boyfriend even though he tells me like everyday that i’m perfect in his eyes and there’s no girl like me. like i’ll look in the mirror and think i look so dang good than i’ll stare for too long and be like “…nvm bro i look like poop. go change”
I'm going thru the same thing worried about my first date with a guy soon, if I'll look good enough etc, he's the first, I've always had girlfriends in the past.
First for once! I love you taty❤️
Third
I noticed that i became insecure in my relationship. My fiance is crazy attractive, and not just to me but tons of women. We recently had a situation where he was communicating with another woman, although he put a stop to it and proved his love for me, ive been wstching her social media page and shes absolutely beautiful. And from her posts i can tell that they would be perfect together. I deleted my social media and started looking within myself, and questioning what do he even see in me. So my behavior towards him changed a little. I started acting like an obsessed fan of his. Always telling him how amazing he is, gushing over the sound of his voice, and obsessively complimenting him, he does the same to me a little, but all of this is giving me anxiety!!! So i needed this video. Hoping that after today i can be normal again. I just pray every day that he isnt settling with me. Im pretty basic and lately ive been telling him lies about how exciting my life feels. I would tell him a bunch of fun things that im doing during the day while laying in bed just so that he doesnt think im some boring square. Smh
I started watching this girl's videos and now she's my therapist
she's such an inspiration
Taty always be dropping these video’s at the perfect time love your videos
I haven’t been watching Taty in a while, but when I do and read the comments, I instantly feel uplifted. We’ll get through this 💗! Self love is a journey.
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I’m trying to be more confident and feel beautiful in my own skin. I also feel like I’m not pretty enough and I get into arguments with my fiancé about it. So I definitely needed this
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Omg, you’re so gorgeous! 😍
She's literally perfect 😍
Thank you babe
so are u boo❤😘
I’ve been so busy girl flu+school= no energy and personal time so I’m finally getting to this video and I’m soooooooooo excited 😀 would love to see the new crib and graduation videos when it comes up I’m so happpppy for you all love 😘
ive never seen anyone match their makeup to the rest of their body better than you do omg. you are so so stunning
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You’re so wise for your age! Thanks for r helping this 50 yo.
its like taty be reading my mind, i been feeling down lately and homegirl just popped up and made my day 😭❤️ ❤️
Literally been binge watching your videos all morning, been in my feelings about my ex and feeling a mess about myself. Your videos are amazing! I even took notes to try to get myself together!
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!!!!! You're exactly what I was looking for, thank you so much for this video. Love your no nonsense advice and charisma. I'm always so neurotic and in my head. Hearing certain things out loud really helps reframe thoughts.
Worry about your ETERNAL soul and not about your temporary life.
Ask for the kingdom of God , and God will give you anything that you need. Your eternal life will last much longer than anything you could get here..
Jesus said:
Jesus said "Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?"
_ Matthew 6:26-27
“ Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think about such things.
Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me-put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.
_Philippians 4:6-9
"For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, 'Fear not, I am the one who helps you.”
_ Isaiah 41:13
“For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
_ Matthew 6: 32_33
you ARE my therapist. i love you, you’ve made me so confident and honestly i would still be in my shell if it wasn’t for you.
Good video sis. The self work that it takes to put these things into practice isn’t easy but very much worth it.
Uhmmm makeup tutorial?😅
Por favor
thank u for this vid I never realized how insecure I am till now like I go on insta and look at rly pretty peoples stories and it just makes me feel so ugly
youre such an intellectual person who gets her points across in such an articulate way ily. ur vids help me sm
Getting ride of insecurities is important topic, 💪
Just last night I finally understood where my deepest insecurities come from. In middle school I remember a boy rating me a 5 out of 10, my brothers making fun of my “thunder thighs”, hearing lil wayne say dark skinned girls just weren’t attractive & that being carried into the predominately white school’s I grew up in…I finally realized, I’m insecure w my skin tone bc I feel I’ll never be one of those “pretty dark skin girls”. Idk how to overcome an insecurity like that tbh
well if that’s you in your pfp then you are a darkskin baddie. insecurity is normal and im tryna overcome mine too, but we are all beautiful
i think to overcome that you should try to just compliment yourself and stuff. like stuff that you like about yourself. darkskin women are attractive and you are too
Omds, if that's you in your pfp, you have nothing to worry about sis😭❤
I just looked at your photo. You are beautiful. ❤ I whole heartedly mean that.
I like your insights. I work with people struggling with mental health and insecurities. I found your video as a guide for me to be able to find more ways to help them. I do always tell other people when they worry about what others make think about them or feel. I do always tell them that it’s always about the other person and never about them. They are only hurting themselves more by internalizing it and making it about themselves when it really never has anything to do with them personally!! Love that you pointed this out!
I just pray to god when I feel insecure and I pray for the person/people who I start to feel insecure about (Including jealousy and envy). Feels good after that :)
Girl, your videos always come when I need them most!
Who tf disliked it 🙄Taty, thank you ❤️❤️❤️
so full of knowledge
I persoanlly see my self as funny. Im a quiet kid in class, I’m not insecure as much as i used to be.and i feel confident ,and my head is always up ,but i wish i could show off my personality if i got to know myself better.
"you are craving to reinforce the idea, that you would be better off !? if you looked like that." wow.
thank you so much for this video, taty! forever grateful to you for helping me
That last part about thinking we more important than we are, people with a great understanding to life will accept that its so true. He chose her over you had nothing to do with you it was just his choice he is the main character in his world.
How is she hittin' every nail on the head??
Grate advice love.
I be doing those thing to myself a lot and I think this video helped me realize them and make me want to change that insecure thing about me.
BTW I love your videos sis❤️ they are always informative. Stay blessed and stay safe ❤️
I’ve missed you so much 🥺✋
I MISSED YALL MORE
Girl I literally feel you. As soon as I changed schools everyone looked at me as a creature because I didn’t looked like their expections. Love you ❤️
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This has been a game changer and saved me so much time and grief and gave me some new awareness about how I view myself and the world and relationships. Thank you!!
Loved the video ❤️❤️ this year I have found happiest through your videos and your girl isn’t insecure anymore 😌😂
@Grace same
The energy in ur vids tatyyyy✨✨
Nah you saving me rn. Just today I’m like ok I gotta see a therapist. Saw your video I just signed up. I hope things get better for us!
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Your videos helped me get over HIM, and now they’re helping me with self love. Ugh I love you thank you taty
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You're a true motivated person 💗👑, you helped me to see what I need to do more about myself !!❤️
Spitting facts and looking like a snack...I love you 😍😍
The body struggle is so real, my weight has fluctuated forever and I either feel too thin or too fat, when I was fit and going to the gym I never had things proportioned the way I wanted, I’ve never been content, but I’m fucking over it, I love my body in every stage, it will never stay the same but that’s what makes it beautiful
Why is she so pretty,like,can we just take a moment!
Thank you for this video I really needed to hear this . And working on myself each day to benefit my thought patterns and been focusing more on me 🙏🏾🕊❤️
I can connect you with someone who helped me attract my ex back to me after the breakup. 👇👇👇👇👇👇
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okay stop girl, you look SO GOOD!!!
I so needed to hear this sometimes we arent really open minded to see a different perspective of life and we just dont know until we hear it from someone else.
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Helpful indeed taty😍, i have just started to loose loving and embracing myself over all these insecurities I've been having.
Gotta say, you just put me back on track to work on myself and just be who I am😍
Thankyou so much.
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