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Macken Murphy
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 29 มิ.ย. 2017
“Macken Murphy is able to condense vast chunks of information into engaging and digestible episodes.”
- The New York Times
- The New York Times
Top 3 Reasons Women Say They Cheat on Their Boyfriend/Husband
Top 3 Reasons Women Say They Cheat on Their Boyfriend/Husband
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Women's Facial Hair Preferences: Shaved vs. Patchy Beard vs. Stubble vs. Full Beard
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From my podcast with @Luvbitesco: th-cam.com/video/M8o5q8h_zzc/w-d-xo.htmlsi=FIDehIV-L4o8zcvU Everything I do: linktr.ee/mackenmurphy
Why Many Men Prefer Heavier Women
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From my conversation with @Luvbitesco: th-cam.com/video/M8o5q8h_zzc/w-d-xo.htmlsi=PoaPTIIB0GW0b0ky
The Dual Mating Strategy | Evolution Lab Report #1
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Distributing the results of our research into human infidelity, which you can read, here: www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1090513824000710#bb0120 Find everything creative I do, here: linktr.ee/mackenmurphy 0:00 Introduction & Qualitative Method 0:53 Top 3 Reasons Women Cheat 2:42 Top 3 Reasons Men Cheat 3:27 The Limits of Self-Report 5:03 (Evolutionary section begins) 5:11 Why Infide...
Trad wives aren't particularly trad.
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Learn more about human evolution from my course: mackenmurphy.gumroad.com/l/humanevolution?layout=profile #ballerinafarm #tradwife #science
The evolutionary psychology of jealousy.
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The evolutionary psychology of jealousy.
Does watching p**n make people cheat?
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Does watching p n make people cheat?
Once a cheater, always a cheater? (Science)
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Once a cheater, always a cheater? (Science)
Mating Researcher Responds to Dating Qs | AMA #2
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Mating Researcher Responds to Dating Qs | AMA #2
The Myth of "The Myth of Man the Hunter"
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The Myth of "The Myth of Man the Hunter"
Mating Researcher Answers Your Dating Qs | AMA # 1
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Mating Researcher Answers Your Dating Qs | AMA # 1
Forgotten Apes | Dr. Susan Cheyne | Species Podcast
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Forgotten Apes | Dr. Susan Cheyne | Species Podcast
Your boyfriend is overrated (by you, probably).
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Your boyfriend is overrated (by you, probably).
The problem with polyamory (feat @lewishowes)
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The problem with polyamory (feat @lewishowes)
Discussing the new courtship pattern with Helen Fisher
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Discussing the new courtship pattern with Helen Fisher
The (Surprisingly) Dark Origins of Female Friendship
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The (Surprisingly) Dark Origins of Female Friendship
"You're just too manly for her." (Science of women's facial preferences)
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"You're just too manly for her." (Science of women's facial preferences)
How common is cuckoldry? (Statistics with sources)
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How common is cuckoldry? (Statistics with sources)
Pilled | Louis Bachaud | Species Podcast
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Pilled | Louis Bachaud | Species Podcast
Why men are uglier than women (science)
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Why men are uglier than women (science)
Women don’t like as much muscle as men think
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Women don’t like as much muscle as men think
Women overestimate how much men like thinness
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Women overestimate how much men like thinness
Unattractive people overrate themselves, plus a science-backed trick to tell how hot you are
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Unattractive people overrate themselves, plus a science-backed trick to tell how hot you are
"dorito shape" lol damn
Re: the "bad boy" in female fantasies like romance novels, I think it's important to keep in mind that said bad boys almost always have an arc where they become better for the main character (MC). If nothing else, they start to treat the MC in more loving and pro-social ways, but sometimes there's a ripple effect to a wider community. Regardless, a man demonstrably capable of being dangerous is depicted as being or becoming completely trustworthy and safe for the MC. There are male love interests (LIs) who continue to engage in questionable or even outright abusive behavior towards the MC, but it's much rarer for it to be blatant disrespect and physical harm, vs. something like the stalking in Twilight, where the LI's obsessiveness can read as romantic to people who aren't taking it too seriously, especially when the author doesn't give the behavior an air of danger on the page. The MC is also notably special for being the only person who brings out this better side in the LI. So I think attraction to bad boys in fiction is mostly about the power fantasy of winning over an obviously capable protector/provider who shows a willingness to invest and sacrifice for the MC ONLY -- no one else has been so important to him before, and presumably no one else will be after. Plus a little bit of danger in fiction is thrilling, right? I imagine that's also part of the allure of the femme fatale archetype that male readers enjoy in other genres. Beyond that, I wonder if, when it comes to attraction to fictional bad boys or real-life dark triad chads [picked that up from the F.D. interview 😆], there may be a connection to people gravitating towards dynamics that resemble their past traumas, hoping for a better "ending" and/or because it's familiar and normalized to them... but I don't know enough to say more about that with confidence. All just layperson speculation on my end, anyway.
Also throughout history isn’t the rate of cuckholdry about 1-3% though?
The interruptions tell us a lot about how much these men want to dominate each other.
What do you mean by hit rate as opposed to attempt rate? :(
Great clip
Macken, have you ever looked into female cuckoldry? Social media sites and DNA sequencing like AncestryDNA, 23&Me, etc has revealed hidden children of men, and their wives cuckolded. I personally know 3 people: 1st where they discovered thru 23&me that grandpa had a whole other family, the 2nd where she finds out her childless husband actually had a child he didn't even know about; 3rd where she found out her bf had an affair baby through social media. The 1st case widowed grandmother wasn't told about her husbands affair, but she would've been devastated, relatives are post mortem disgusted by the grandpa. The 2nd case wife wasn't quite cuckolded, but she didn't want to marry a single father so she feels bamboozled by this discovery, the 3rd case girlfriend dumped the cheating bf.
When ur a narcissist you always think ur the shit. So if you always believe your the shit why wouldn't anyone else especially girls.
Honestly, I'm done with what women think. No hate, I'll just be myself
Listen old man...the scientist is right. Know you don't wanna hear it to cope, but he's telling the truth.
No surprises here. In a sense both makeup and plastic surgery are genefrauding techniques. If the other person realizes you've done either, then it signals two things to them: a)your genes are not as good as you present them to be so the potential offsprings might be less attractive, and b)willingness to deceive, thus why men thought these women are more likely to cheat.
Men caring about money as much as women is quite simply nonsense.
How much women downplay sexual attractiveness in their romantic evaluation, doesn't help to reduce the number of incels angry to be lied to by society and women. "Stated preference" is always more or less a scam you should take too seriously.
Both sexes are doing what is attractive to them in the hopes it attracts the opposite sex but very few actually get it
Wanting an older man for his money is not the same as genuine desire...
The "Wall" is the point at which a woman's fertility and likelihood of having healthy offspring starts to decline. Men, typically men who have achieved financial and career success in life, thinking rationally and being deliberate want to have progeny not afflicted by birth defects. We want children who will be healthy and inherit whatever we can provide to them. We also want women who are less inclined to have a history, because women have a tendency to compare us to those in their past rather than focusing on the present relationship exclusively. So, the "Wall" is more than just some indication that some men believe women are now declining in their ability to find mates, it reflects their declining fertility. Frankly, though, the biggest and strongest competitor for any woman in her 30's or older is the young women who will seek to find advantage in having a relationship or marriage to an older, financially stable man. Men, at least Western Men, don't force younger women into positions as their paramours or wives. Consent is required and often granted by women. Of course, some men also have their wall, but on balance that is dependent upon the factors that make them attractive to women, like appearance, health, charm, and wealth. If you are fat, ugly, and poor, no amount of charm or humor is likely to help you secure a wife.
So much better than Rollos content nowadays, 'call my name' BS, only objective Truth matters
1. Because they have no morals. End of list.
Facts bro but sadly when i bring this up to women most of them don't think this is true
Well, well .. It simply means they’re not interested in pursuing anything long term with you and waiting for the better candidate to practice these things with
@@oumaima854 I was talking to those woman platonically, I meant they disagree philosophically like they didn't think the data backed up what I was saying.
Hearing that women understand that being attracted to good guys would be better for them, but still not being able to find them attractive might be one of the most disheartening things I’ve heard.
Look up James Harden with and without the beard
I tbink body shape and self perceived size strongly influences mate choice. Slim people more often pair with larger partners more than slim ones. Personally, I look shape over size and curvy women generally (but not always) have better curves.
Schooled him 😂
The saddest thing here is the horrendous fact that most men were lied to about mating and dating. If they knew how tough things are, they'd start putting in effort early. I realized how things work waaaayyy too late in life. 😑
Lol... You gotta look like Cavill or Hemsworth if you want the young ladies.
Kendrick needs to write a diss track against this old dude. Talmbout "genuine intimacy" with girls in their 20s. Sir, you're supposed to be a humble wise grandpa, not try to steal my date. Rich not like us 😤
I look like I’m flirting when I’m winning at chess
What I think when I see a man with a tattoo is “what baggage do you have?” So if a man with tattoos wanted to go on a date with me, I really wouldn’t take him seriously and be appealed to do so. If a man has a small tattoo in an inconspicuous place, it’s not as big of a deal but at best I consider it tacky and childish.
does this include non-consensual sexual encounters?
@@abdullahmertozdemir9437 no
if you cannot grow a beard try a minoxidil facial protocol with micro needling
"Scientist explains" haha...this kid is a woke activist, not a serious researcher.
A left wing idiot vs a right wing idiot. Both see their world from their ideological biases. Both clowns.
Ideology-based science from Macken; the overwhelming majority of modern day men do not prefer fat women. What a clown, basing his conclusiones on a tribe or paleolithic narratives to suit his woke beliefs.
a young ideologised academic, influenced by feminism, and clueless about women.
Here’s how I see it. Hair is gross and needs to be managed. Even head hair. The only automatically good hair on your body is eyebrows. Everything else takes maintenance or hygiene interventions. Facial hair is no different.
Revenge, falling short in the protector category, falling short in the provider category.
I love your videos man, I like how you acknowledge the overemphasizing of their primary partner being bad. I still believe that women cheat to leave, especially when the partner is not investing in her. But when she is also gaining emotional support from him, she could just be doing it for lust
Id say that reverse age gaps also work because women past 30 start declining in "popularity", and start being kind of at the same level as 20 something year old men.
Ladies stay fat skinny it doesn’t matter lol
In Australia, women cheating has now been normalised, it’s socially accepted and considered empowering and a sign of a strong successful woman. On the other hand, men are ore demonised for cheating more than ever, and currently there is state and federal legislation to imprison men for just looking/glancing at a fully dressed woman. This is called “visual r@pe”.
Love you man, but you rely WAY too much on self-reportimg regarding these issues. If we know that women lie about what they look for in a partner.....he's nice, loves animals, calls his mom regularly, etc..... we can be triply sure that they'll lie about this stuff even more. As someone who has often been the other guy, I can say this with a high degree of certainty: Nearly all women who cheat are 304s and often big time 304s (and I only say "nearly" because I've never met an exception) They're very unlikely to say to someone conducting a study that they're functionally incapable of monogamy, or even admit this to themselves.
@@LVSJT watch till the end.
@@murphymacken The point is, just bringing up their OBVIOUS LIES is a complete waste of time. You will never learn any truth from listening to women.
You acting like you have the moral high ground is the most hilarious part
@@ChickFenwick ?
@@murphymacken 1000 pardons. Got frustrated and gave up early. Yes... physical attraction seems to be a big thing for women stepping out. That's about all that I have going for me
I think the more accurate thing to say is that men are more WILLING to cheat but don’t get opportunity, whereas women are less willing but have more OPPORTUNITY. Most men aren’t attractive enough for women to have casual flings with, hence the chance of a woman acting on his lust in an opportunistic manner is rare. Whereas a woman can find someone to sleep with down the road or using apps.
Lads they do it for sport now. A bunch i have experienced have been married or had boyfriends, guys with their own places and nice cars and such. There is nothing a guy can do to stop them sampling all of their accessible options.
Anyone who cheats because their partner cheats has a lot of growth to do. You’re giving your body away because they did it too? Odd way to cope. Revenge doesn’t care who you hurt on your path.
Macken ppplease upload long form content more regular and maybe, just maybe I may be able to breed fml 😂 😅😢
Wimmen: "I'm unhaaaaapppy"
Also, I don't think it's as much about "revenge" as it is about desiring fairness/balance.
That's literally the same thing. You just said the same thing twice in one sentence. And why did you start with also?
I feel like these are all connected; if a man is not investing in her but is investing in other women (cheating), she feels unhappy/ dissatisfied & willing to risk it for the biscuits.
What are you going on about?
I think there are a lot more factors to consider here. I watched a study done to analyze a woman's preference and the difference when she is on her cycle vs not and they were opposite. Also, I like how a full beard looks but having sensitive skin and sensory issues, I have a preference to a soft smooth face on my face, lips and thighs. As well, it's a hygiene thing for me, personally. Lastly, I feel autonomy is important & that a man or woman should wear their hair, clothes, etc. any way they choose, regardless of the gender they want to attract's opinion or preference.
@@master11manifestor I’ve read this literature as well, ovulatory shifts have no effect on women’s beard preferences.
Interesting! One thing though: aren't 5 o'clock shadow and heavy stubble different things? I always thought that 5 o clock shadow is half a day, maybe a day of facial hair growth and heavy stubble is 5-10 days of growth.