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Alison’s testimony is really…something. So disturbing and thought provoking. Wow. I’ve learned so much.

Wow so beautiful!

What an incredible film this is! Thank you for making it. Thank you to all the women who were willing to be open and honest about their experiences. I have some experience of this. I'm grateful that I had a strong sense of self before I met my first boyfriend. He told me he was a lesbian trapped in a man's body, I told him that wouldn't work for me because I am a heterosexual woman, not a lesbian. He told me, "All women are lesbians to some degree." I told him I wasn't and that our sexual relationship had to end. I'm grateful he was honest with me early on in our relationship (although, I wish he'd been honest before we were in a sexual relationship). We remained very close friends up to his death (not suicide, and he wasn't a victim of antitrans violence).

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Like all victims of narcissistic behaviour there is usually more support for the perpetrator than the victims. This is such a grounded documentary, this is so heartbreaking listening to these women.

transgender ideology is a machiavellian and modern men's rights activism movement, disguised as feminism. the idiom "wolf in sheep's clothing" comes to mind.

It was difficult holding in my vomit watching this. Imagine living your life and all you can think about is getting boners because apparently nothing else matters. Absolutely vile, the whole lot of them.

A really important film, thank you to everyone who had the coursge to share their story, you have been heard!

Thank you for this film . Women and children sacrificed on the altar of trans for selfish men

1:02:39 Oh my god, that is so disturbing. Tranquilizers?! "Lots of women enjoy this"?! It goes to show the deep the gender cult goes. It's like you're in an episode of Twilight Zone. Also being told to "Get over it"...This is just misogyny in a new age with a new face. You had to get over a man dressed as a man abusing you. Now the only difference is that man dresses as a woman and has she/her pronouns.

A well researched documentary.

Nearly 20 minutes in and unfortunately going to have to watch this in installments today. This may well be the most significant documentary of 2024. Thank you, Vaishnavi, for bringing these women's stories to our attention.

I was shocked by the stiries of men competing women in woman sports, even the Olympics . This documentary was shocking, too. Keep on speaking out; the world needs to hear this stories!!

Thanks and respect to all those involved in this film and working to support and protect women and change the culture on this. The cartoon style with little bits of movement was great. One technical gripe: it's a pity the producers didn't take dialogue from the more remote respondents using a better sound recording app - there's one on almost any laptop, tablet or phone, so they could record it locally and send via email for editing - instead of relying on online video connections, as this would have vastly improved the sound quality of those parts.

I’m glad I got to watch this in a room full of people (mostly women), to feel and hear the reactions of the other audience members. Very powerful film.

Thank you so much for making this important film. It brought it home to me how important it is that women are allowed to have female only spaces. A woman starting to deal with this doesn't need bozos interrupting online conversations calling her a "bigot". In Australia we had an app called "Giggle" that was biological female only and the Human Rights Commission helped a transitioned person, "Roxy Tickle" sue the app owner for discrimination. Tickle won because our discrimination law doesn't distinguish between biological sex and gender identity! If you're Australian, please help influence people to understand this problem, we need the law changed back.

Brilliant!

Gender is a secular stand-in for the soul

I have been waiting about a year for this to come out! Im so proud and happy!! I am a trans widow myself and let me tell you I first saw the trailer for this when I was still with my AGP and it gave me SO MUCH HOPE. To know there were other women out there that agreed with and supported me, and that there were other trans widows that escaped and found success and happiness. I can’t even explain how much it means to me to have a documentary i can share with people who want to understand my story. Thank you so so so much for making this, and persevering thru all the setbacks. It means so much to me. 😭❤️‍🩹

Ok. It must be horrible to be a wife/child of a TIM. But what do HSTS have to do with this?

My best friend of 20 years turned out to be autogynephilic at first I thought he was a normal trans person but slowly I could see the sexual nature behind it. I lost him as a friend, as a person it feels like he is dead and there's some sick perv in his place.

this is crazy! i can't imagine these women didn't flee instantly from these crazy men..

Transwidow 8/25/2024©LABeaulieu It is the strangest feeling to fall weak in the knees not in a happy way but in deep unspeakable grief when the heart breaks the world breaks and sanity is long gone into the mist of ambiguous loss as you fall on the floor time moves slower the only sound you hear is the shattering of reality no pain is quite so exquisite as that of losing everything in one moment of honesty after ten years of denial is it even betrayal when what you thought was reality never existed except in your own mind? how are you supposed to feel upon hearing that the person you built that life with is gone even worse was just a mask for a world that was so threatening the real person was hidden inside so sad for them who start anew at the price of ten years sanity taken from you. Now a widow of a life you can't speak about to do so is hate speech an arrestable crime the widow sits lonely lost in her mind tears keep falling for her love's denial

Thank you, a vital film. We need to hear this side of the story more often.

Remember, cult leaders are overwhelmingly male, just like rapists, murderers, and misogynists. Some women just go along.

All of us owe Helen Joyce, Helen Staniland, J.K. Rowling et al a huge debt for taking the risk of speaking truth when all around them are declaring scientific truth dead.

This was a satirical idea thirty years ago, men parading around pretending to be women. Now it's "reality". Of course, it's money--pots and pots of it--that is behind this catastrophic, sudden institutional embrace of what is obviously untrue. Jennifer Pritzker, Martine Rothblatt, what's-his-face Stryker: these are extremely narcissistic billionaire men with obvious autogynephilia (which can be understood as sexual narcissism) who have poured millions of dollars into charitable organizations to push this rhetoric. Money speaks louder than anything else, and it can induce otherwise clear-headed people to embrace insane ideas.

Such a tale of bravery from these women. And such a professional production by Lime Soda Film. It’s shocking but not surprising that this has been demonetised. TH-cam is more than happy to allow and monetise videos that encourage transitions and body modification/ mutilations. But won’t allow women it critique the motives behind transitions. Why are we not surprised.

Desperate stuff, very powerful

Very informative and impactful documentary.

This was a really great one. Good job to everyone involved in making this. Amazing!!

Thank you so much for this. I am glad to see that some people will speak out even when everyone tells them to shut up. AGP is what peaked me on all of this shit. Also, FYI, I tried to search for this on YT and it would NOT show me anything other than trans reactions to this film. Google brought it up first result. REALLY MAKES U THINK HM

Here is my comment for the algorithm! ❤ Everyone should watch "but what was she wearing" "dysphoric" and this masterpeace!! Reading the comments from women with similar fates breaks my heart... I will always support you!

When I tried to search for this film, the only results were trans reactions to this film. Luckily I had saved it under my watch later playlist. Thank you for making this documentary and uplifting women's voices!!

I’m sorry for these trans widows. I’m sure they’ve been thru hell. However not all trans people are sexual fetishists and abusive assholes. To group all people of a distinct sex/sexuality in a negative way is wrong and very prejudicial. I have an ex who came out gay years ago. We remained friends for a while until he tried to rip me off. I don’t condemn all gay men for what he did. Assholes come in all sizes, genders and sexualities.

This has already been taken down by TH-cam

Look into the ``Ambassadors of Kindness`` in Iran. The all woman police forced used to police, subjugate, interrogate, publicly beat, kidnap, torture and traffic women and girls who will not ``OBEY`` Sharia Law in Iran. They are known for kidnapping women and girls in broad daylight off the streets who violate ``morality laws``, and knowingly bringing them to groups of male police to gang rape as a form of ``corrective rape``. They are who the ``Aunts`` in ``The Handsmaid Tail`` are based on. The subjugation of women and girls RELIES on other women betraying them to the Patriarchy. This is the EXACT same thing with the exact same playbook but with different branding. The ``Ambassadors of Kindness`` FREQUENTLY engage in victim blaming, and state that what happened to the women and girls they victimized is because of moral failing, and ``unkindness`` from their victims eroding social order and ``endangering others``.

Deepest gratitude to these women for telling the truth, despite the risks. We will end this abuse by standing together.

Not all transsexuals are really dysphoric. But some are. We should keep that difference in mind. What do you all think? I am curious.

Because I was on a certain medication, I was not aloud to breastfeed. I was sad but would never think of potentially poisoning my baby. That is what a real mother does. You can not tell me the hormones used to have men lactate are harmless.🤬

I’m not a trans widow but I’m just so saddened & horrified (if I’m honest) that this issue has hurt so many women & children with full support of governments & institutions. A very important film & so many important voices that need to be heard.

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Anti-trans propaganda. So many toxic people and organizations in the US are promoting this, the same organizations that are promoting doing away with protections for women and minorities and dangerous conspiracy theories.

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This is a good documentary. I have spent time around transgender people and in most cases they were not overbearing and domineering however that started to change and what is happening now is very different. The Queer gender thing seems very narcissistic. These gender people, mostly men are very domineering, controlling and aggressive. Basically you have men not really committed to changing genders so much as being more into the dressing up , role playing and gaslighting others. They still act and talk like men. And it is very fetish like. I feel for any woman in a relationship with one of these people. There seems a generation now that is so self absorbed there is no room for anyone else and yes they do groom others.

they really just hate women, huh? if there was even a CHANCE that a man was in a female only space with me, i would panic. i have such extreme paranoia from my experiences with the opposite sex and i KNOW i'm not the only one who feels genuinely safer when i know there's not a single XY in sight. trying to make a RAPE SHELTER into a place that could welcome MALES is so incredibly offensive and belittling of womens' real trauma and lived experience. the fact we can't even talk about it without being called transphobic just goes to show how much we really need feminism right now. i hope i can add to this fight and make some good art about it. we need change.

i will always fight against things like Lupron for kids. i've been on it as a 16 year old (for endometriosis). i'm 24 and still have side effects. it isn't exactly one of those things you can just undo. also it's all just so horrible for LGB people. i was bisexual as a kid, as a teen, and i'm still bisexual as an adult. it is as unmuteable as my sex or race. but these days the TAs try to tell us that sexuality isn't real. that i'm not attracted to men because they're men or women because they're women---but that i am in fact attracted to their gender presentation. how backwards is that? i like vaginas and penises, not dresses and pants. it honestly seems like a rebranding of conversion therapy. misogyny and homophobia seem to be the biggest factors in this whole messed up shitbag we have here today. hopefully kids of the future will have it better.

the "losing caution" thing is really important i think because i for one am on like 3 different drugs right now, two of which are antidepressants. yes i've been diagnosed with depression, but i wasn't medicated until recently. wanna know what they claim they've prescribed them for? pain management. instead of actual pain management (for migraines and endometriosis), i'm given the happy pills and told to shut my mouth. and i'm not the only chronically ill person that has had this treatment. and guess who it mostly affects? women. because doctors actually listen to men and don't just try and "settle" them. also how insane is it that i am 24, been "sick" since i was 14, and i STILL am trying to find ways to manage it, trying to find the right providers and medicines. yet these kids can go in and after 1 session they get medicated???! make it make sense :(

i grew up a tomboy, and i started puberty early. those first couple years of puberty make it so painfully obvious how separate women are from men. i remember a younger boy telling me "what great melons". i was 10, he was 9. then it was normal for me to cover my chest with my binder, to avoid groping and eyes. but it didn't stop. my "friend" in highschool said "why don't you take it as a compliment?"--i'm a multiple time SA survivor and the first thing my friends asked me was "why can't you remember it perfectly? you must be lying." the world is a cruel place for women from everyday things like the ways our families and friends treat us, to the more extreme side of things like SA and femicide. it takes root at such a young age. i hated being a female from the moment i noticed how i was treated differently from my male peers. for god's sake, i was even scared of my own brother and father because my mom told me "men only want one thing" and "you shouldn't wear that in front of your brother/father/uncle, it's too revealing." these are CHILDREN you are talking to. make the men change their behavior before making a girl have a lifetime of paranoia against the opposite sex (that only magnified when i went through those SAs--now i literally will not leave my house unless accompanied by someone...my sister wonders why i am so afraid... i hope she never has to find out). ALSO claiming those parents are being "abusive" for trying to help their kids is insane. there are real abusive parents out there. these are just parents trying to help. it's not the same. and it makes all of us who've been through abuse look like we're lying for attention.