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Vassia Sar
Netherlands
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 17 เม.ย. 2017
If you are struggling with finding a way out of anxiety, overwhelm, burnout, or unbalanced relationships, you are at the right place.
If you don't remember when it was the last time you felt genuine joy and satisfaction in life and work, and you can blame your perfectionism for that, then I got you.
If your past traumatic experiences sabotage your present calm and your future potential, then here is your place to find the right tools to heal and grow.
Welcome to my channel, I am Vassia Sarantopoulou, licenced psychologist, a Perfectionism expert, a Relationship Counselor, a Mental Health Ambassador, and the proud owner of AntiLoneliness, a company which supports people through hard times in life (anxiety, depression, divorce, grief, burnout, loneliness, trauma).
Here is the place for more Self-Exploration and more Self-Growth, through Self-Acceptance and Self-Compassion.
Find more about me at www.antiloneliness.com
You are not alone.
Kind regards,
Vassia Sarantopoulou
If you don't remember when it was the last time you felt genuine joy and satisfaction in life and work, and you can blame your perfectionism for that, then I got you.
If your past traumatic experiences sabotage your present calm and your future potential, then here is your place to find the right tools to heal and grow.
Welcome to my channel, I am Vassia Sarantopoulou, licenced psychologist, a Perfectionism expert, a Relationship Counselor, a Mental Health Ambassador, and the proud owner of AntiLoneliness, a company which supports people through hard times in life (anxiety, depression, divorce, grief, burnout, loneliness, trauma).
Here is the place for more Self-Exploration and more Self-Growth, through Self-Acceptance and Self-Compassion.
Find more about me at www.antiloneliness.com
You are not alone.
Kind regards,
Vassia Sarantopoulou
Are Perfectionists Happy?
Today we're discussing ...Are perfectionists happy? As a recovering perfectionist myself, I want to explore the reasons why perfectionists are often less happy (and how we can recover and be a healthy perfectionist that actually enjoys their life)!
In this video we are going to discuss:
🟠What makes perfectionists happy?
🟠10 ways perfectionists can sabotage their happiness
🟠How perfectionists be happier
Please don't forget to like, comment & SUBSCRIBE!🔔
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📍TAKE THE PERFECTIONIST QUIZ:
www.antiloneliness.com/how-much-perfectionism.html
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🍿 WATCH NEXT:
👓Healthy Or Toxic Perfectionism
th-cam.com/video/Nc1Pg3YKc10/w-d-xo.html.
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🫂MORE SUPPORT FOR YOU:
Mental Health Services
www.antiloneliness.com
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🪅MY SOCIALS:
🧡Facebook: vassiasar
🧡LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/vassia-sarantopoulou/
🧡Instagram: vassia.sar
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⌚️CHAPTERS:
00:00 Intro
00:57 What makes perfectionists happy?
04:02 1 - Chronic self criticism
05:28 2 - Minimizing good things
06:08 3 - Conditional happiness
07:07 4 - "I'll be happy if..."
08:23 5 - Compromised by others
08:42 6 - Fear of success
09:56 7 - External validation
10:35 8 - Focusing only on work
12:10 9 - No joy in the day
12:52 10 - We postpone celebration
14:22 Summary
#perfectionism #perfectionist #happy #psychologist
In this video we are going to discuss:
🟠What makes perfectionists happy?
🟠10 ways perfectionists can sabotage their happiness
🟠How perfectionists be happier
Please don't forget to like, comment & SUBSCRIBE!🔔
.
.
📍TAKE THE PERFECTIONIST QUIZ:
www.antiloneliness.com/how-much-perfectionism.html
.
.
🍿 WATCH NEXT:
👓Healthy Or Toxic Perfectionism
th-cam.com/video/Nc1Pg3YKc10/w-d-xo.html.
.
🫂MORE SUPPORT FOR YOU:
Mental Health Services
www.antiloneliness.com
.
.
🪅MY SOCIALS:
🧡Facebook: vassiasar
🧡LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/vassia-sarantopoulou/
🧡Instagram: vassia.sar
.
.
⌚️CHAPTERS:
00:00 Intro
00:57 What makes perfectionists happy?
04:02 1 - Chronic self criticism
05:28 2 - Minimizing good things
06:08 3 - Conditional happiness
07:07 4 - "I'll be happy if..."
08:23 5 - Compromised by others
08:42 6 - Fear of success
09:56 7 - External validation
10:35 8 - Focusing only on work
12:10 9 - No joy in the day
12:52 10 - We postpone celebration
14:22 Summary
#perfectionism #perfectionist #happy #psychologist
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What has your experience of perfectionism been (either for yourself or a loved one)? Let me know in the comments❤️
Mam i have anxiety and i think that my intelligence is litrally lowered mam does anxiety tends to lose of intelligence
Hello
This is so on point ❤❤❤ 😆😆 I’ve got to let go of explaining just keep everything to myself 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Some people tend to not respect your boundaries and keep asking question and even throw an attitude when you say no politely. That is why there is such a thing called ghosting. You cut them loose...
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Is your perfectionism healthy or unhealthy right now?
Damn you are so beautiful ❤️😍
This channel should have a million subscribers. Wonderful tips.
@amsterdamtypewriter6410 thanks so much for believing in what we do 🫶
This explains me to a T. They abandoned me anyway.
Thank you ladies. So helpful. My poor brain is almost always hooking onto something
I'm glad it's helpful for you🙏
Such a nice video, and lovely presentation. i have seen a few lengthy videos on this subject and none of those explained it so well, i am taking it on board, thank you - subscribed !
@ellakouzmenko4240 thank you so much! I'm so glad to hear that you found it useful!
Your video is awesome! I currently pay for a lifecoach and I find this video interesting.
Thank you so much! I'm glad you find it useful! 😌
Love this series ❤
@@vicious_panda Happy to hear that ☺️
It was not over explained 😊😊
@@connie27100 phewww, good to hear that 😂
Do you see yourself in this video? You're not alone!🌻
I like how you point out that the foundation of overexplaining is blurred boundaries.
After my burnout two years ago, friends and family constantly refer to stuff that happened that I should be able to remember. Stuff concerning my children or my late mother. It's deeply concerning.
Our memory functions suffer the most during a burnout and it takes some years for the brain to recover. Don't blame yourself and don't feel bad about it. You are doing your best, one step at a time. 😊
Thank you for making this video. Despite extensive research, I had never encountered such a compendious overview of the most prominent therapy approaches. It is profoundly useful to people in distress who need to evaluate the different possibilities.
I'm so glad to hear that, Haris. I hope that it will help both individuals who are searching for the right therapeutic approach for their needs as well as Psychology students who are looking for the right training in the modality that suits their style. Thank you for your valuable comment! 🙏
@@vassiasar I'm sure it will! I'll definitely share the link with clients and friends next time I'll have a relevant conversation.
The idea that someone can just *give* us confidence blew my mind! I always thought "I" had to build confidence. But if I don't have any confidence to begin with I don't even know how to start building confidence.
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I'm glad you like this video ❤️
Have you been to therapy before or been thinking about going? I'm here to answer your questions if you want to learn even more too🙌
@babameresathhai I'm so glad to hear that this has been helpful. There is another video about finding the right therapist. Have you found it or shall I post it here?
This is brilliant Vassia, thank you! I hope the webinar went well x
Thank you so much, Mariana! Yes, it was a great webinar! I enjoyed it a lot and so my attendees 😍
@@vassiasar excellent. Very glad to hear it 💚
Thank you for sharing this. Is there any content that you would suggest as a follow up to work on these fears?
I would suggest learning more about trauma responses and boundary-setting. Let me know specifically you are looking for and I can give further recommendations.
@@vassiasar After listening to this I felt that the desire to be recognised within a conversation was actually acting as a barrier to connection. I think what I'm curious about is if there are any practices that are useful for cultivating a less anxious approach towards social interactions!
Some say that overexplaining is autistic behaviour.
Love it
So happy to hear that!
Leave your questions below and I'd be happy to answer them!🤗
Enlightening tips 🔷️ Vassia how is Counter intuitive thinking better than other thinking models and what are some habits books to learn this method for achieving success faster in career..
Thank you! I haven't done a video on this but I have done one on overthinking that might be helpful. Here's the link!🤗 th-cam.com/video/6hNOtxqskjA/w-d-xo.htmlsi=qQNTPGsWOcQijd80
About the habits books, I absolutely love the book Atomic habits, by James Clear. Have you read it?
@@vassiasar Thanks a Ton 😊 no i haven't read it yet but will add to my list 📚
Procrastinating right now...😅 thanks for the reminder to get back to work! 😊
You've got this!💪
@@vassiasar thanks! 🫂
I procrastinate due to my newish brain injury
Take care friend🤗
I had to learn to slow down to go faster. I remember that mindfulness book called 30 Days to Overcome Procrastination by Corin Devaso helping a lot.
Thanks for sharing!📚
Have you experienced this feeling of overwhelm? What helped you and what hindered you?❤️
I'm only 36 and already feel like a dinosaur fossils and my best days are behind me and I'm terrified of turning 40 and what that means for my career. Thank you for this video, I hope you make more videos about this subject of aging and midlife crisis.
I understand how you feel, it can be really scary to age. I will absolutely be making more videos to help you on this🙏
I couldn’t trust his need for “space.” It meant he was off with another woman or women. No way to go but out with this one.
The need for space in healthy relationships is not used as an excuse to alienate and to seek connection elsewhere. It is only used as a way to self-soothe, collect our thoughts, connect with ourselves and soon connect back with our partner. I'm so sorry that your kindness and patience was misused. I hope you are doing better now.
When we judge ourselves we think we are: 🔸Protecting ourselves and others 🔸 Preventing future mistakes But what we actually do is: 🔸 Create anxiety for ourselves 🔸 Stop trusting ourselves 🔸 Expect failure What about if you learned to trust yourself? Through self love and compassion you can trust yourself.🤗 Check out my channel to watch the full video and learn more▶️
It's really healthy for perfectionists to learn to see failure as: How we learn ✔️A part in our success ✔️A part of life ❌Rather than the end of the world. We don't grow without failure, it's how we learned to walk and talk and write! Embracing it is one of the most powerful things you can do for your perfectionism.🤗
What do you procrastinate the most?