Yaar fazool and fire nahi chorna - sets the scene. And please don’t be thinking that the podcast is too long. Baat kartay raho. Haan okay four hours might be too long but 3 hours 59 theek hai
Oh my goshhhh you girls!! Where were you a decade ago!!! We desi girls are raised so naiveeeeee, we never ask all these questions when in love! I know I didn’t and such issues come up later in marriage and then you just have to deal with it!!
Awesome advice, ladies ❤ I wish I had such advice about 19yrs ago 😅😅 Been through many of the topics talked about here; the jealousy, spouse debt issues, anger problems, & and living with parents after living alone for a few years. Living with "interfering" parents gets more complicated once you have kids, especially once they're teens! Anyway, so relatable as usual, and I love how in depth you get in the topics in each video! Thank you! ❤
Tell me why I’m married 10 years and listened to this as if it was so pertinent for me lol just here to say I love you guys and this all super great advice ❤ & hope to get you to 10K 🎉
OMG!! So true about the chai…i have invested in a insulated travel cup, no matter where I go I bring my chai with me…if I am travelling, I always have my own tea along with every day milk and I make my chai! I even got a portable kettle/cup lol!!!
Wow this episode could not be more perfect timing. I'm actually soon to be travelling for the intention of physically seeing them. Been talking to them beforehand for purpose of marriage but still need to physically see. I better take some good notes...😅
Girl one time I asked the guy ‘ how many cars he sold in the last year’ he said zero. Asked last 6 months? Zero. That’s when I realised he was pretending to be a business man for the whole year engaged to me. No one asked him these questions because he was seen driving old cars that needed to be worked on and assumed he was having his own business. He also wanted to join tableegs after shadi and leave me in a room next to kitchen back home in pk. Straight out of a movie situation 😂
I don't know if this applicable to everyone but guys usually keep alot to themselves and prefer not to share personal feelings such as going through trauma. My husband does not share about the difficult parts of his childhood even though I feel like it does impact his personality and how he deals with his emotions.
I love Matcha 😂😂 I’m such a Match snob! Also toronto slang is very similar to UK slang but not derived from it. Both slangs are derived from jamaican influence due to a large Caribbean diaspora in both places!
IMHO, with no offense to anyone, I am brown myself so i know what i am saying. (wrt cultures and norms) I feel like the discourse is or has been around of what if or only if "they allow" and they could mean anyone when it comes to decision making about education, life, finance, religion job, kids etc, even though all of us here are from a very privileged background, we can't stop having the conversation of making sure girls are taught from the get go about being independent and responsible for their own selves. In our cultures and countries it is vital to have this conversation where we raise our boys and girls to accept the new reality, girls are independent and equally responsible for financially looking after themselves than raising girls to be educated for the sake of it and to bound her to a marriage and jail her at home when she probably has her own dreams and aspirations..this is specially for people who don't value or appreciate the choice, the freedom and the autonomy it brings for women. I feel like for the next few decades, We can't not have this conversation. We have to accept the fact that there will be daughters who will refuse to be married early or be married at all, we have to accept the fact that there will be girls who will not want to have kids in life... it starts with small conversations about making choices and teaching and equipping them to make smart choices ahead in life without NEEDING another person. A lot of Today's generation women, WANT marriages, kids, partners etc They don't NEED them.
Hey ! I am watching this video of yours now and I am very worried since this morning my mom told me that some rishthy wale (boys side )are coming to see me on Friday. I have asked my mama to tell her to bring the boy along so that we both can see each other and if there is something to talk about, and my mama when I talk to her, she says what? They are bachy and they don't believe in adults,( barho per yakeen nahe ha kya bacho ko ?)the boy will not come, but we will definitely come. Let's see
Your mom should tell them it's an equal right of theirs to see ajs talk to the boy as well. This is so wrong of the boys side to come and SEE you and judge you but not bring their son whose to be married. Please talk to your mom about this and put your foot down that you won't be going in front of the guests if the guy is not with them. Period.
Yaar fazool and fire nahi chorna - sets the scene. And please don’t be thinking that the podcast is too long. Baat kartay raho. Haan okay four hours might be too long but 3 hours 59 theek hai
😂 thanks for the love!
Oh my goshhhh you girls!! Where were you a decade ago!!! We desi girls are raised so naiveeeeee, we never ask all these questions when in love! I know I didn’t and such issues come up later in marriage and then you just have to deal with it!!
Awesome advice, ladies ❤ I wish I had such advice about 19yrs ago 😅😅 Been through many of the topics talked about here; the jealousy, spouse debt issues, anger problems, & and living with parents after living alone for a few years. Living with "interfering" parents gets more complicated once you have kids, especially once they're teens! Anyway, so relatable as usual, and I love how in depth you get in the topics in each video! Thank you! ❤
Thanks for sharing!!
Tell me why I’m married 10 years and listened to this as if it was so pertinent for me lol just here to say I love you guys and this all super great advice ❤ & hope to get you to 10K 🎉
You're the best!
OMG!!
So true about the chai…i have invested in a insulated travel cup, no matter where I go I bring my chai with me…if I am travelling, I always have my own tea along with every day milk and I make my chai! I even got a portable kettle/cup lol!!!
Wow this episode could not be more perfect timing. I'm actually soon to be travelling for the intention of physically seeing them. Been talking to them beforehand for purpose of marriage but still need to physically see. I better take some good notes...😅
Late to the episode but it was again sooo nice❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for watching!
Girl one time I asked the guy ‘ how many cars he sold in the last year’ he said zero. Asked last 6 months? Zero. That’s when I realised he was pretending to be a business man for the whole year engaged to me. No one asked him these questions because he was seen driving old cars that needed to be worked on and assumed he was having his own business. He also wanted to join tableegs after shadi and leave me in a room next to kitchen back home in pk. Straight out of a movie situation 😂
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I don't know if this applicable to everyone but guys usually keep alot to themselves and prefer not to share personal feelings such as going through trauma. My husband does not share about the difficult parts of his childhood even though I feel like it does impact his personality and how he deals with his emotions.
Thanks for sharing!!
I love Matcha 😂😂 I’m such a Match snob! Also toronto slang is very similar to UK slang but not derived from it. Both slangs are derived from jamaican influence due to a large Caribbean diaspora in both places!
Thanks for sharing!!
Whatever you said regarding the cricut is on point. I have so much khalara because of cricut and getting yelled at all the time from my mom 1:17:43
Cricut gang is withering away
@@OKMomPodcast true
Cant find you on apple or Spotify. For some reason not able to view from Pakistan
For some reason it’s not showing up on Spotify in Pakistan but we are on Apple Podcasts and TH-cam
Can you share link for apple podcast?
Let’s go 10k🧿
So close! ❤️
IMHO, with no offense to anyone, I am brown myself so i know what i am saying. (wrt cultures and norms)
I feel like the discourse is or has been around of what if or only if "they allow" and they could mean anyone when it comes to decision making about education, life, finance, religion job, kids etc, even though all of us here are from a very privileged background, we can't stop having the conversation of making sure girls are taught from the get go about being independent and responsible for their own selves. In our cultures and countries it is vital to have this conversation where we raise our boys and girls to accept the new reality, girls are independent and equally responsible for financially looking after themselves than raising girls to be educated for the sake of it and to bound her to a marriage and jail her at home when she probably has her own dreams and aspirations..this is specially for people who don't value or appreciate the choice, the freedom and the autonomy it brings for women.
I feel like for the next few decades, We can't not have this conversation.
We have to accept the fact that there will be daughters who will refuse to be married early or be married at all, we have to accept the fact that there will be girls who will not want to have kids in life... it starts with small conversations about making choices and teaching and equipping them to make smart choices ahead in life without NEEDING another person.
A lot of Today's generation women, WANT marriages, kids, partners etc
They don't NEED them.
This is all so important and true! Thank you for sharing
Hey ! I am watching this video of yours now and I am very worried since this morning my mom told me that some rishthy wale (boys side )are coming to see me on Friday. I have asked my mama to tell her to bring the boy along so that we both can see each other and if there is something to talk about, and my mama when I talk to her, she says what? They are bachy and they don't believe in adults,( barho per yakeen nahe ha kya bacho ko ?)the boy will not come, but we will definitely come. Let's see
That’s so wrong! You both have every right to discuss everything.
Your mom should tell them it's an equal right of theirs to see ajs talk to the boy as well. This is so wrong of the boys side to come and SEE you and judge you but not bring their son whose to be married. Please talk to your mom about this and put your foot down that you won't be going in front of the guests if the guy is not with them. Period.
Lets do "Periods" do's & dont's of desis ders lot of crap out der.😅
Someone showed up with a costco cake to a wedding, it was delicious but still 😭😭😭
Ngl those costco cakes the tuxedo one especially is SO GOOD!
@@OKMomPodcast that's the one they actually brought 😂
Chalo, my adopted behens have come round for coffee.
Welcome
should I ask what her love language is or just try to figure it out? She's not a talker.
You can ask you can also just see what things make her happy. Asking is always good though
Matcha ice cream is yummy but matcha latte is disgusting 🤮
I remember someone on TikTok tried matcha with rooh afza!
How was it😂
Yay! It almost 10pm here, I'll be going to bed late 😅
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Must say, seeing the both of you always makes me smile. Let's go 10k! 🥳🎉🪅