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I’ve roommates most of my life, and I’ve come to realize that my one non negotiable would be to love other introverts who don’t necessarily want to be friends/have movie nights/talk, etc. Needy roommates are the kids sofndeath for me 😕

I have back problems (scoliosis), my back has been giving me hell thr past few months. I also feel like I'm damaging my kidneys with my current job. I'm currently waiting for december to receive my bonus paycheck (we get double paid in December) so I can leave

Are you me

Today I left my badge and office keys on my desk and emailed my resignation letter after my shift. In the letter I asked to mail my check to my address (even though I filed a direct deposit) two days prior). I will mail them my parking pass and make sure to have them sign it. However, I received a voicemail stating to come into the office and sign a formal resignation letter in order for them to release my check. Seriously? I choose to be at peace with all this.

Watching things like this always manage to make me cry or become misty. I am currently in the process of trying to upload animations on youtube. I realized almost 3 years ago (when I was 30) that this 9 to 5 is not for me. I seriously am trying my best to get out but it is so hard when you have bills pay and cannot just "quit." Honestly wish I could though. I do not have kids and I don't feel like I want any, but theres no way I can even factor a child in doing this job if I wanted a kid. It literally burns me out. I would continue going to college for animation but I do not even agree with going into debt doing classes that do not mean anything. I wish it were simple to just draw or animate one day and then BOOM make money that way. Let me know what you did if you can cause I'm seriously that desperate.

Literally this. I no longer care about what I’m doing at work, I’m not passionate anymore, and it’s long days of manual labor, for barely a livable wage. I put in my notice today and I feel euphoric

This video was so helpful for me. I quit my toxic job two months ago and had another job lined up. I was such a mess from the first job, that I quit the second one three days into it. Now I'm feeling like such a failure but I'm trying to remind myself that things will work out. I was going through the same things you describe: couldn't sleep at night, racing heart, trouble focusing, angry all the time. Thanks for posting.

When you did Rover, did you have to sign up with Stripe?

2 weeks notice? When I leave it will be effective immediately.. just like when they’re easy to fire you or lay you off.

Some people dead Monday mornings. I dread Sundays..period .. not good at all.

I recently submitted my resignation from my toxic 9-to-5 job, and I can honestly say it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. The immediate sense of relief was profound

Hi. How did you survive financially if you quit? Did you have another job to go to?

How about second week on the job and the supervisor had nothing planned for you to do? Exactly.

working on your time off is allowing your employer to steal your labour. And its not your fault, you have no protections, no back up to stand up for you as a human who needs time off. It comes from a fear of being unemployed and being screwed because the bills don't stop. You could do everything right, and still get fucked over by the company. This is the hellscape of being a worker, you are not a human, you are not a person, you are a cog in a wheel.

Nobody enjoys a life of constant frustration, limitation, dissatisfaction and quiet resignation.

It really just sounds like your employer didn't respect your personal time. I'm thankful to have worked at a few companies now where PTO was well respected. They're definitely out there. That said, going freelance and building consistent long-term clients does sound WAY more appealing.

Holy crap! Thank you for posting this. I recognize so many of the symptoms. Deep down I knew it was related to my job, but it helps immensely to hear another person validate the same experiences. The teeth grinding, the irregular periods, the random forgetfulness. Not many people understand, so I appreciate you being openly transparent in your video.

It’s insane because I am experiencing the same symptoms. I take pills to sleep everyday. I drink more than the usual. I have zero energy and I am very unhappy. Unfortunately I cannot quit as I have bills to pay . But everyday I just feel stuck . It’s the worse feeling ever.

Just found your video. How old are you? I can relate. I can't sleep.

I’m literally trying to not quit, I’m beyond burnt out and hate my job. Money is the sole reason i haven’t.

I basically have insomnia it’s horrible, this has never happened to me before The whole sick time and PTO packaged together is so greedy and evil.

I'll stick with Amazon flex and door dash for now. I don't want lawsuits for a dog dying😅

Great video. I’m in the UK so not all applicable to me but super informative. Good job.

Liked your video, by the way. Thanks.

Specific chore assignments, an idea I got from another person's video, tackles one dilemma that everyone seems to have. A roommate who doesn't clean well could be assigned the PERMANENT duty of taking the garbage out and/or mowing the lawn. Assign permanent job duties (except for, of course, dishes and laundry); specific duties that they/each can do and/or understand.

I've had an account for a month and haven't got a single booking. I hope this video is able to help!

I have a dorm mate who’s just self absorbed. She doesn’t communicate, she’ll go home for the weekend without saying anything about how long, if she’s bringing anyone in when she comes back, whatever. She’ll give me like a 1 minute heads up text for guests, and has let a whole middle aged man into our room while I was fresh out of the shower changing. I try to say hi/bye, and let her know when I’m leaving for most of a day, have conversations, but she’s a brick wall. I’m also generally a really clumsy person and I have accidentally hurt myself so many times and I’ll be cursing and bleeding and she just 😒 at me and go back to her tv show or her 7th phone call of the hour. Which sucks because you can’t set rules about your roommate not caring.

The stress was causing hormonal issues as well for me causing issues with my reproductive health. As soon as I went on sabbatical , body and mind is much healthier

No posts for a while, hope all is well.

Dude this is so good! Thanks

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I quit my job today. I literally felt like unaliving myself so many times while working there and the way my boss acted so nice but seemed shady.. all this started because I couldn't work weekends for a month and a half. Yes it was rushed but now... while I am scared... I think I made the right choice. That job was bad for me. It left me in a horrible state. I'm scared but kinda glad

I wish you a fast recovery, all thebest!! ❤❤❤

Sorry if this is TMI but for me it is flare up in haemorrhoids and also a type of eczema on my hands amd feet

Living with egotistical people is such a headache. Everyone is just out here too get something from you. But not respecting boundary. If you feel I'm a threat but start abusing me. That is really hypocritical. My best advice is never living with people who use to live in the ghetto. Avoid avoid avoid.

Nahh. I know it’s stress from that place making me sick. Put my two weeks in today.

Will you run my house!!!

wow, I like You!!!

You are so beautiful

This is BY FAR the best review of 75 Hard I've watched. Thank you so much for the motivation you have given me.

I like that you have put a lot of thought into everything, but what's your plan if 5 years from now you become a single mom with two kids and no job? It might sound overly pessimistic, but I always follow the mantra 'hope for the best, plan for the worst'.

Problems with sleep I wake up at 2 or 3am and coudnt sleep more. Teeth grinding. Vomiting in the morgning before going to work. I coudnt eat. Brain fog. Anxiety. Fear. Loosing self confidence.

Im a HSP. I was pushed twice to leave my jobs (i liked and had good results) due to narcisstistic HR women leaders. I was sick working around their anger, manipulation, gasligting, lovebombing and devaluation.

Its not "the work" its people wit h names and surnames. And their actions and itentions and abuse. Its not "the company".

Problems with sleep. Problems with apetite. Problems with thinking. Anxiety. Anger. Fear. Isolation from the team.Doubting own competencies and actions. - sysmptoms after work with narcisstistic women leader. It happend in HR department.

You had a mentor at work? Cute!

A lot of these people have ZERO clue. You want a hard job? Be an engineer.

i'm kinda curious.. why did you go through all these assuming you're the problem steps before eventually reconcluding the same thing that the job was the problem?

The bullying, lying, gaslighting, unwanted touching, abuse.. HR knew about the toxic workers and all they told me was to "just ignore them." Really???? REALLY????

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