Reflections with Shay
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Does What I Do Even Matter
I hope everyone is having a wonderful #christmas season! I’m excited to share early access to a video I recently created, which will go public around New Year’s.
Before anything else, I can’t take full credit for the charity featured in this video. It was made possible by the generosity of incredible people like Batsignal, Stephen DC, Joe, a dear friend, and several others whose names were on a list I somehow misplaced-my sincerest apologies for that oversight. Thank you all for your kindness and contributions!
The Christmas Charity event went smoothly, and your donations reached a local elementary school in Valencia. These included badminton rackets and accessories, volleyballs, basketballs, frisbees, and 136 toys for kindergartners. The school has 1,157 students, so while we couldn’t provide every child with an individual gift, the sports equipment was donated for communal use.
You have all played a meaningful part in my 2024, and I’m incredibly grateful for your support. Wishing you a joyful holiday season and hoping to see you all in 2025!
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  • @yaimavol
    @yaimavol 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    We don't know or won't know the full impact of our life on this side of it. The reality is too dense and we are too disconnected even from parts of ourselves like our subconscious mind to know everything we are doing here. Shay has great friends and family and is certainly appreciated by them and her viewers.

  • @jozah2148
    @jozah2148 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Shay honey, The Filipina Pea just explained why Filipinos cut grass with shears. I now understand why you do it! Sorry.🤔🇬🇧

  • @TedMoulding
    @TedMoulding วันที่ผ่านมา

    Filipina single mothers are just like any other single mother if they would have kept their legs closed in the first place they wouldnt have a kid and no partner or husband steer well clear of these harpies they just want your money

  • @johnbowen35
    @johnbowen35 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy New Year Shay!. I wish you a happy and peaceful year!

  • @bipolarpunt5721
    @bipolarpunt5721 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Be very careful of Foreignors in PH, 75% of them are failures in their home country and relocate where they are unknown. They will paint a picture of their past, for the Filipina, that is not true. They want a Redo of their life, and envision starting over their failed life with a young Filipina and having children. If you cant research them through online sources and Social Media, stay away.

  • @lanec5672
    @lanec5672 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hmmm.. let me think about that..(j/k).. 🤔😅😉 Happy New Year, Shay!

  • @KoryOssman
    @KoryOssman 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shay, All previous comments have posted it all. Nothing further to add. A reminder perhaps. ' To those pure hearted who walk through life by His side. With vale of goodness and shrouded with kindness and generousity...By others - appreciated or not - such as you, Shay. "There Is Always The ONE That Watchs Over Them." Thank you for sharing and Much appreciationS for the good work that you are Doing... 😇

    • @reflections_with_Shay
      @reflections_with_Shay 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hello, Kory! I hope you had an amazing holidays with your family and friends.

    • @DeanPearson-uz2ek
      @DeanPearson-uz2ek 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Shay, as your points and perception are hopefully well-received. For those who still doubt their actions matter, try looking from the opposite perspective; as in What if I didn't do what I do? Would that matter? Or do my actions make a difference? Tne answer should be an obvious Yes. There are 3 constants as long as humanity exists on Earth; birth, death and the life we lead in between the other 2. How we go through our own life is, of course, our choice. We can have a positive or negative impact on others. Or we can lead a rather obscure life, never having a positive or negative impact on others. Now that we've entered a new year, I want thank you Shay, for this past years "reflections" on your channel. They have surely caused viewers to do their own reflection. I of course, encourage continued "reflections" for the coming year also. My hope is for continued self and group-growth of all of you I call the "fabulous foursome". I also wish that whenever any of you feels confusion, frustration or assuredness, that you receive the calm, peace and solace needed to move forward. Wishing you a bountiful new year.

  • @briangreer8463
    @briangreer8463 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes you matter You are loved You are beautiful Happiness in the new year 😊

    • @reflections_with_Shay
      @reflections_with_Shay 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hello, Brian! Hope you're having a wonderful start of the year.

  • @robertruck5501
    @robertruck5501 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Miss Shay., everything you do matters. Hearing your lovely voice, and you sharing your lovely mind.

  • @timwiebe1453
    @timwiebe1453 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well, does what you do even matter? What do you do? You reflect on life, the good, the bad and the ugly. You gently speak reality to the conditions that have made you who you are. You have also helped me reflect on both my past and my future. And in reflection is the space for us to hone our humour, empathy and sympathy for those that we share this beautiful world. So in short, YES what you do matters a lot because you do it from your heart. May God continue to richly bless you as you bless others ❤

    • @reflections_with_Shay
      @reflections_with_Shay 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you, Tim! How was the holiday celebration?

    • @timwiebe1453
      @timwiebe1453 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ Christmas was great but I’ve caught a flu for new years. Hope you enjoyed time with friends and family.

  • @blackwonderBW
    @blackwonderBW 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Here's my unsolicited advice, Shay. Don't rely on sex appeal. You'll get donations from many western simps who will never visit PH. You'll get paid, but do you really want to be known for that? Focus on providing meaningful, useful content. Educate us. Don't be another Filipina Pea.

  • @bipolarpunt5721
    @bipolarpunt5721 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He installed hard wood flooring for 17 yrs, no education then all of a sudden he's a Leadership Consultant. This Guy is a Con selling the "I can help you be all you can be" dream.

  • @crocodiledundeee
    @crocodiledundeee 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes ❤

  • @bipolarpunt5721
    @bipolarpunt5721 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I see Vloggers in particular referring to grown women as Girls, which is condescending and disrespectful. Any Boyfriend/Husband should support his partner to improve herself and help her reach her goals. It is sick and perverse to view a person as solely a sex object. I have noticed what you are referring. Some men are insecure and fear helping their spouse meet education and business goals will cause her to walk out the door. This would indicate she was dependent on him and her new success frees her from this dependence. IMO No one should be in a relationship where one is totally dependent on the other.

  • @bipolarpunt5721
    @bipolarpunt5721 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God gave us all life. God wants us to do his will, being loving an kind to others, avoid the seven deadly sins etc. What I do to boost my spirits is to do something kind and giving to a stranger and dont tell anyone. Dont look for recognition from others or God. The result is I stop feeling sorry for myself and love the person I am. Yes what you do does matter and you matter.

  • @1beerfilms24
    @1beerfilms24 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If it matters to you, it matters to me,

  • @curtiscagle6261
    @curtiscagle6261 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy new year sunshine. You are a beautiful person, inside and out.❤

  • @rolandmueller7218
    @rolandmueller7218 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shay, Thanks for another good thoughtful video! Manigong Babong Taon

  • @PEKing672
    @PEKing672 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Welcome to the Existential Blues cafe, Table for one?

  • @BuzzSargent
    @BuzzSargent 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So very profetic. Is this the line between being depressed and trying to accept things because that is all they will be. Sounds sad.

  • @jozah2148
    @jozah2148 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy new year Beautiful Shay.🙏🏾🫶🏻👌🏾🇵🇭🇬🇧

  • @robertnorkus5582
    @robertnorkus5582 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The question to you should be,does it matter to you?do you feel something inside tells you I need to get this out,someone needs to hear this!this is my purpose,it's what I believe..

  • @Michael_Lane_Fishing
    @Michael_Lane_Fishing 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well done Shay, keep the great content up.

  • @barrydanish6008
    @barrydanish6008 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think you are the most beautiful Filipina on TH-cam. Not just because of your outward appearance, but because of your inner beauty as well. Your intelligence never seems to quit astounding me.

    • @reflections_with_Shay
      @reflections_with_Shay 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for all the positive comments Barry! I hope you had a great festive celebration with your love ones.

  • @rorybellamy2533
    @rorybellamy2533 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes it matters , Shay is valuable , generous , caring. feed the poor and roof for the elderly , Shay has treasures in heaven .

  • @DavidAnderson-ev1be
    @DavidAnderson-ev1be 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t mean put you down , put on your big girl boots and do something, go abroad and see stuff , or go help schools with the poor kids , all I see on most channels is Philippine girls showing off there body’s taking dumb about sex hoping they get money for subscribers, maybe you need find a good man that would love you, and forget about your past , we have a short life and you need to live it , I am luck I found my Philippine woman very religious and one person woman , never asking for anything, I help her daughter in school being a veteran, one more year she done .

    • @reflections_with_Shay
      @reflections_with_Shay 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks, David! I'm committed to pursuing my goals-to become the Shay who makes a meaningful impact on others' lives through reflections.

    • @expatguideph
      @expatguideph 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She is helping a lot of kids and senior citizens, maybe Shay you need to put it out there how much you are an angel to a lot of people by reflections 😊

  • @American_Splendor
    @American_Splendor 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Does the sun really set if you aren't there to see it, will that beach swing, swing if you are not there to swing it, maybe someone else will, or no one… questions without answers

    • @KoryOssman
      @KoryOssman 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes, indeed... perplexing Q?s , to say the least... With endless subjective, definitive answers!...🤔

    • @reflections_with_Shay
      @reflections_with_Shay 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love this!

  • @davidkarl5192
    @davidkarl5192 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Years ago, when I saw you feeding stray dogs and cleaning the beach. it changed me forever. now I'm a good deed machine. I have always been a giver but it's different now, Shay my words don't always come out right (I'm medicated at night and have made dumb comments/email) so please forgive anything I have said that was misunderstood. I appreciate you deeper than I'll ever find the words to express. I'm so proud of you learning to swim and all of the other challenges that you take on. I hope to be as fearless as you. my father died about the same time I saw your early videos. it was you who got me through the sadness. (not my 4 sisters) (not my mom). you have healing powers in your voice and actions. I remember commenting that you were a saint. I truly meant that and still do. I owe you for all you have done for me, even though you don't know how helpful you have been and still are. whenever you feel like you are at the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hold on because there isn't anyone like you.

    • @reflections_with_Shay
      @reflections_with_Shay 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Reading this comment at 5:40 AM brought tears to my eyes. I truly feel so lucky to have found people like you in this community with such kind hearts who not only discovered this little outlet of mine but also appreciate it. I hope you have a joyful and meaningful celebration this festive season. Life is good, despite it all.

    • @davidkarl5192
      @davidkarl5192 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@reflections_with_Shay I will forever care what happens for you. I would carry you through alligator water for miles. 😅you can count on me dear friend

  • @WaynesWorld12
    @WaynesWorld12 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy New Years 🎉

    • @reflections_with_Shay
      @reflections_with_Shay 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey there, Dwayne! I hope you had all the love from family and friends especially this festive season.

  • @GaryLocke-z1p
    @GaryLocke-z1p 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh honey, what you do, give & who you are absolutely matters. I’m pretty familiar with existential questions & sometimes we can overthink things. You matter to all the right people. And we love you back.

    • @reflections_with_Shay
      @reflections_with_Shay 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hoping you had a great new year celebration with your family Gary!

  • @keltic_nomad
    @keltic_nomad 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ...so you're giving your garden a haircut ❓

  • @bipolarpunt5721
    @bipolarpunt5721 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think that cow was playing hard to get, he ignored you.

  • @bipolarpunt5721
    @bipolarpunt5721 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shay was getting better and better. Looked like fun.

  • @gregsarah430
    @gregsarah430 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Awesome , Happy New Year !

  • @Jerry92128
    @Jerry92128 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shay, a weed Wacker is much faster.

  • @SoloPilot6
    @SoloPilot6 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sure you can cook . . .you're making a SALAD, right . . ?

  • @jozah2148
    @jozah2148 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shay, sweetie pie…I’m afraid to ask what you done with the goats!🐐😱🇬🇧

  • @jozah2148
    @jozah2148 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shay darling…where’s the lawnmower?🤔🙄🇬🇧

  • @kbtred51
    @kbtred51 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    To be fair it is tough to lift a bike in sliders/thongs

  • @miketrahan777
    @miketrahan777 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shay you can cook I'm sure by watching and seeing your good yummy looking food you're a very good cook. The grass looks very good very good cutting. Anything you do I'm sure your good at it, You're a Lady Jack of All Trades, very talented. 🥰

  • @rorybellamy2533
    @rorybellamy2533 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Shay I am so impressed by You ,