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Climb Out Of Trauma With Coach Kat
เข้าร่วมเมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2018
Channel to help survivors overcome trauma, Narcissistic Abuse, Codependence and Complex PTSD.
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Check out my website for private coaching and resources at at www.coachkat.org
Life after Narcissistic Abuse
It’s important we cultivate a wonderful life after Narcissistic abuse. We take back our power and decide to thrive no matter what. I would love to hear some positive stories of good things that have happened as a result of surviving this type of abuse.
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Should you warn the new source of supply?
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Is it helpful to warn the new source of supply? Should you tell them your ex is a narcissist?
Covert Narcissists refuse to take personal responsibility for their actions
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Covert narcissists will not take any responsibilities for their actions. They can’t acknowledge they are less than perfect. They don’t feel much if any empathy, compassion, remorse or guilt. They live in a fantasy world.
How can you tell the difference between a narcissist and a victim of narcissistic abuse?
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The survivors are seeking help. The narcissist who is “playing” the victim doesn’t go to therapy, they don’t try and understand their part. They don’t question themselves or try and change that’s what the survivors do.
Narcissists will always devalue including the new supply
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Idealization, devaluation and discard. These are the 3 phases of the relationship with the narcissist. They will repeat this pattern over and over throughout their lives. The new source of supply will go through it in time.
Narcissist’s and blame shifting
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How the narcissist shifts the blame unto the other person. They are master manipulators and will use this tactic to avoid any personal responsibility. They cannot ever acknowledge their part, grow up and own their mistakes.
Narcissists lie. Stop expecting them to tell the truth.
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Sex addicts, porn addicts, substance abusers, narcissists, sociopaths lie. Stop expecting them to tell the truth. They are pathological liars.
Will a Narcissist be in a relationship with another Narcissist?
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Narcissists and relationships. Narcissistic relationships. Toxic dance between a narcissist and another narcissist.
Narcissistic men and their narcissistic mothers
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Narcissists and their mothers. Toxic relationship
Reactive Abuse in Narcissistic relationships
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Reactive Abuse in Narcissistic relationships
Narcissists and their children
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Do narcissists discard their children and step children? Do they abuse their children? Aren’t they afraid their kids with hate them? They have no moral compass so even the kids are not safe.
Why are covert narcs so dangerous (male or female)
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Female and male covet narcissists can be very dangerous because you don’t see them coming. You don’t realize what they are until you are already hooked or trauma bonded. They are wolves in sheeps clothing.
Female Narcissists (emphasis on Coverts)
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Females can be overt or covert narcissists with entitlement, exploration and low empathy.
Female Narcissists
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Females can be narcissists. Some possible traits of female narcissists.
How to avoid relationships with Narcissistic people
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How to avoid relationships with Narcissistic people
Yellow and Red Flags of someone with Narcissistic Traits
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Yellow and Red Flags of someone with Narcissistic Traits
What things have helped you heal from Narcissistic abuse? Exercise is very important.
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What things have helped you heal from Narcissistic abuse? Exercise is very important.
The 3 stages of a Narcissistic Relationship
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The 3 stages of a Narcissistic Relationship
Video 3. How to get closure in a narcissistic relationship
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Video 3. How to get closure in a narcissistic relationship
Video 2. Closure in Narcissistic Relationships.
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Video 2. Closure in Narcissistic Relationships.
Getting Closure in Narcissistic relationships.
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Getting Closure in Narcissistic relationships.
The Narcissist Never Loved you. They don’t bond
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The Narcissist Never Loved you. They don’t bond
How Trauma Bonds are formed with a Narcissist. Why no contact is needed to break them.
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How Trauma Bonds are formed with a Narcissist. Why no contact is needed to break them.
Yeah that would be me..I only see women as sexual objects. Completely dislike their persona. and dismiss their needs. But I figured it out and decided to distance myself from them.
My x had a bisexual past. When I asked her about why she had sex with women she said it was mainly about control over the other woman.
Toxic self centeredness that breadcrumb, control, withhold, and dismiss is the name of the game for sure.
Best video ever. This describes the phantoms of my life that are like sneaky ghosts wanting to be served.
True..but when they bring you home a disease, you definitely slow down or cut back if you are married. No one wants to die because someone else is selfish
Good video. Now address the adult children who have to be the “baddies” by society because there’s zero point in continuing a mother/daughter relationship with this type of mother. Shes exactly like this but I’m the ungrateful daughter for protecting my peace. Win win sitch for me pfft Oh and I was deaf as a child
Font forget some Narcs esp covert go off the grid after disgard ,,and hide new supply from everyone and everything...
You make so much sense, you’ve explained everything to a T, Thankyou
They are so dam sensitive
I know the smirk. It happened to me over 20 years ago and i can picture it perfectly. She knew i was devastated and she liked it. Now her health is going to shit or she’s faking for attention and financing. Yet i still am here questioning her being a narcissist.
It’s important to remember that there’s a scale of value to the supply that is provided by people so as you comply with everything they want your supplies value goes down. This is why you can’t win. You will devalue no matter what because you become common and routine. You are setup for failure.
I feel compelled to comment on any of these narcissist posts that these people do not get better. And if one of them is your parent PLEASE STOP TRYING. They get worse with age, and will guilt you into remaining in service to them based on all the faulty programming they've installed in you. You are not responsible for them at all. You did not ask to be born, and you certainly didn't ask to be born to them. LET GO. You have to ditch what society tells you about what a relationship with a parent is. These people didn't experience what you did. Whether they were abused or not. They aren't you. Do what's best for you and maybe get therapy to deal with the guilt and pity you have for them. But stop trying to get their approval. Stop.
im not married but my narcissist family is acting like this to me.
I think I'd listen more if you were in a better sound system
How terrible, makes a woman feel completely useless We get only one chance 😔😔
GOAT... LOVE IT ,AND ITS TRUE 😂
So greatly explained mam❤❤
Exactly
Oh my gosh!! Do you know me?!! This totally explains my ex. He is a narcissist that also has extreme alcoholism. I think he was struggling with alcohol for many many years, but of course he hid it. He was always a narcissist but the alcohol makes it worse. He has no emotional connection at all with his mother. They lived in the same house of course growing up, be she was never present in his life. I think he was lonely as a child and has made up an alter arrogant ego that he cant part with. He would tell her all these dramatic lies, about what he owned, his job position, his 401K savings.... complete lies. She would verbally express praise, but never showed up for him in childhood or adulthood. He took his anger out on me, verbally and physically. He says he is the best looking man, all women want him, he is the most athletic, he is the best in bed, etc etc etc. we have 3 kids. He is jealous of our kids. He is not there for them at all, emotionally, physically, or financially. When/if he talks to them its stories that he makes up bragging about himself. He is pathetic.
The description you gave on this video is such a precise portrait of my mother that I feel like you've met her and been exposed to her for years!!! I've known for awhile that my mother is a narcissist; but, most of the info desribes them as raging and volatile. Thank you so much!!!❤ This has been so helpful to me!!!❤
So informative and helpful. Thank you!
Yes we are so blessed 🙌
Ewww.... its really gross
Nothing what so ever!!
I had to go to a recovery center from this! Omw
Yeah girl scarry
You guys ARENT crazy
This shit is dangerous
Oh God, THIS! ...especially the "sexy time". O.o
Mine is so blatant with her cheating. She thinks she's so cleaver. I love my kids. She thinks I'm weak. LOL
I was never love bombed, just ignored to death 😢 Starved out my daughter.
How do you change if you are a covert narcissist?
Stumbled upon this video, yes I was with a neglectful covert narcissist, this explains everything perfectly, thank you. He was great in the beginning, all lies though 😢 Just hooked me in to hurt me later. Now I've been discarded and I was to blame, he said I complained so much that he had to leave 😢
This is what made me find answers to my dilemma. I watch this all my life and the man always goes to jail. Then I looked into the family and saw men walking around like a hurt puppy that chewed the couch but they walked around like this all the time. They started the argument in the bed room and took it to the living room and then they shut down and it always looked like I started the argument and was a ass to them. I figured it all out.
Great presentation and spot on
Not to mention they're not good in bad. Anyway, they don't know what the hell they're doing. They just go through the motions, thinking you're gonna be okay with it And you're gonna be satisfied, but I'm just hoping it's over soon.😂
What does dating feel like after one of these marriages?
This describes my husband but he has so many friends/acquaintances but I guess they aren’t really friends because he doesn’t confide in them or anything like where he’s emotionally connected to them
OMG lady, who ever you are you rock! I’ve been in a RealAudio ship for 15 years with a covert religious narcissists she had sex with me on our first days and again 6 months later on my bday and never again using her religion as a barrier but I knew and felt she was with other people and I found that she was subscribed to a google group that ended up being an escort service for women and I could feel it all along but it crushed my spirit and I was waiting to marry her all that time and it just became evident that it was an excuse after that long now she says menopause is an issue and she’s too old but she still active out there so I got duped and not functioning right I seem to not care what happens to me and it’s sad I wasn’t looking for someone when I met her she pursues me and knew all along she would dump me and it makes me angry . But I’ve been searching you tube for 4 years to see if this happened to anyone else and haven’t heard anyone talk about this specifically thank you thank you can you talk more about this in the future, I need help.iam a stranger in my own life I met her when I was 36 now I’m 51 and I know now it wasn’t real for her in fact I may not have even been the primary bf all this time but at any rate I can’t get the time back that was wasted and it’s heavy on me , in a strange way I am lucky she didn’t have sex with me except 2 times because I know she doesn’t use protection and I estimate she has cheated many many times and now that I learned about her being a member of an escort service for women there must have Ben hundreds of thousands of people in 15 years time she probably has diseases if she doesn’t use protection and she didn’t with me so I’m sure she doesn’t maybe God was sparing me in that way? Thank you thank you I feel like I got some answers today after so much frustration- who are you? Do you offer therapy ? I’m in Honolulu I doubt your here but maybe phone or video or I don’t know but you are the one I’m turning to from this point in I can’t believe you brought this up this is life changing for me I’m sad but still life changing
Porn addicts.
They are pathological liars.
Devoid of empathy spot on 🙏
AMEN to all you stated.
They do
😊
Narcissists are the laziest creeps you could ever meet,normally Alcoholics and weed heads
When in recovery they crush the narcissist ,the flying monkeys and their mentors. A recovering alcoholic is pretty awesome 27yrs sober.
I would say,these narcs are bordering insanity
This is the most accurate description of the female covert narcissist I have ever come across. I married and then divorced one. Just awful from start to finish.
Perfect
I must say this video is amazing, and thank you. My story is so much like yours, and I’m so grateful for your help and insight- wow