Sadly very accurate. My ex told me after 5 yrs of me hanging on that he only had ‘feelings’ for me the first few mths. Which meant he watched me divorce rapidly for nothing - as i refused to have an affair .
Mine said after 5 years and being caught cheating with a coworker IN OUR HOME " I just wanted to fuck you and it went too far". We were engaged, lived together for years, owned a home and had a dog. He moved The New in a few weeks later before my stuff was completely out. THEY ARE INSANE!
I just subscribed. Spot on videos on covert narc. Forty years plus dealing with covert narc mother. I realized several months ago this was the case and it has been painful to accept it.
Very hard to accept, but absolutely true. The 3 phases - Lovebomb, devalue & discard were so apparent - especially the love bomb and then devalue. But we 'need' the lovebombing back and its why we hang on in till we've had enough and we break. Then, after a few months of hoovering to see if we're still around they disappear and you don't exist ever again. Tks for the video Kat, best wishes, Russell :-)
I tele ski..you in Summit Co ? There is zero way to connect with a cov narcist..they will never let you in..and you really don't want to get in..I seek deep authentic..if one does not then .the sooner y'all see and actualize there red flags right up front the less pain you will experience...truth is we need to really know our selves and our intentions..that takes work..usually occurs thru pain..self deep dive.
Yes their relationships are very superficial and very shallow…
I like when you quote Corinthians 13:4-8 . It's a good way of looking at what love truly is vs a narcs toxic love.
He prides himself in never loving me. 11 years living a lie.
Absolutely true....unfortunately
God bless you!
Sadly very accurate. My ex told me after 5 yrs of me hanging on that he only had ‘feelings’ for me the first few mths. Which meant he watched me divorce rapidly for nothing - as i refused to have an affair .
Mine said after 5 years and being caught cheating with a coworker IN OUR HOME " I just wanted to fuck you and it went too far". We were engaged, lived together for years, owned a home and had a dog. He moved The New in a few weeks later before my stuff was completely out. THEY ARE INSANE!
@@missminti ahhhh what a bastard! Im so sorry😔
I just subscribed. Spot on videos on covert narc. Forty years plus dealing with covert narc mother. I realized several months ago this was the case and it has been painful to accept it.
Very hard to accept, but absolutely true. The 3 phases - Lovebomb, devalue & discard were so apparent - especially the love bomb and then devalue. But we 'need' the lovebombing back and its why we hang on in till we've had enough and we break. Then, after a few months of hoovering to see if we're still around they disappear and you don't exist ever again. Tks for the video Kat, best wishes, Russell :-)
Fantastic message to hear. Even though I know it, even though I've come to terms with it, I still need to hear it. 🙏
Thank you! I SO needed to hear all of this. Very helpful.
I tele ski..you in Summit Co ? There is zero way to connect with a cov narcist..they will never let you in..and you really don't want to get in..I seek deep authentic..if one does not then .the sooner y'all see and actualize there red flags right up front the less pain you will experience...truth is we need to really know our selves and our intentions..that takes work..usually occurs thru pain..self deep dive.
Hi Kat! Hard to accept but easier with time. Did you get some skiing time this weekend?