Dr. Daniel Amen's Simple Tip to Change the Dynamic in any Relationship

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  • One of the most powerful tools Dr. Amen ever discovered to radically change relationship dynamics came from an unlikely source: a penguin named Fat Freddy. In this clip, taken from Dr. Daniel Amen's television special "Raising Mentally Strong Kids", Dr. Amen tells the story of how he learned this incredibly powerful lesson and as a result, became an entirely different type of father.
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  • @MrsRildaReads
    @MrsRildaReads 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    See the good in others. I'm hearing, "Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you, and love one another." Jesus was right. Again. 😮

  • @wheaties1435
    @wheaties1435 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    It’s a true business management technique… “catch people doing things right”… and praise them for it.

    • @kimhadley4446
      @kimhadley4446 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s also a Master Teaching technique that works miracles in instruction & achievement. 12:1. Twelve positives to every correction. “Catch them doing it right & Praise and Affirm!”

  • @maryc9312
    @maryc9312 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    It’s interesting how focusing on the positive in others helped to heal Jesse’s brain. We really do have the power to heal by focusing on ourselves and our own choices

  • @confusedwhynot
    @confusedwhynot 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Thank you Dr. Amen for this message. This is a very good lesson for my family. I love each one of them. They all have good qualities. The problem is they spend so much time focusing on each other's failures. They say things like you always and you never. It hurts my heart to hear those words and other similar phrases. I hope over time my family can heal from the past.

  • @marieem1648
    @marieem1648 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    My 5 years daughter nailed alone. I started to suspect me of ADHD I clearly overreact I can’t focus when she’s all around…She tells me how much she loves me only when I do right with her and she’s so natural every time. She teaches me how to care about myself 😢 I am really blessed and I awake. Thank God

  • @barbaramariemua
    @barbaramariemua 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Wow this is game changing! I’m going to show it to my teen daughter, maybe we can improve things.

  • @zibifranz2429
    @zibifranz2429 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Genius story but it also shows how simple is our mental construction, I will remember your penguin forever! 🙂

  • @alcelynpedrique5069
    @alcelynpedrique5069 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Dr. Amen, I wish I would have known of you twenty eight years ago. I admire what you do and your approach to Mind Health. Thanks for what you do!

  • @sharondoan1447
    @sharondoan1447 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I call this technique of only responding to the good, “ refusing to rise to the bait”. Fisherman will understand. But, it’s not only applicable to fish.

  • @lsmith8659
    @lsmith8659 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    raising mentally strong kids requires mentally strong parents 💪😂 having kids has taught me how wrongfully I was raised lmao I definitely have a conflict seeking mother of my own.. along with a dad who is conflict avoidant 🤣 married over 50yrs and still cant figure it out smh.. if u ever have to live with your parents as an adult, how quickly you will realize the origin of your mental problems 🤯🤬🤣🤣 but this video was very helpful 😇 breaking the cycle is crucial!! so much great psych content on yt! keep up the great work dr Amen! 🙏💗💯 (penguins are also my favorite 😁)

    • @KellenAdair
      @KellenAdair 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Mine, too. 🐧
      No wonder I think so of Dr Amen and all of his wonderful advice

  • @maddyruscoe2707
    @maddyruscoe2707 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Dr Amen you are such a gift to humanity

  • @julianagregori5888
    @julianagregori5888 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Dr Amem is a present to society!

    • @mikeskel45
      @mikeskel45 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He really is. They need to teach his program in every high school.

  • @rebeccar4971
    @rebeccar4971 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is amazing. Going to implement today. Appreciate you!! And BTW you helped me heal when I had very had panic attacks by reading your books and understanding the brain.

  • @KimberlyKelly2000
    @KimberlyKelly2000 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Praise is the only thing that teaches love

  • @trudysoole1447
    @trudysoole1447 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This is absolutely BEAUTIFUL! Thank you Dr. Amen!!!

  • @Atikyne
    @Atikyne 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    "focus on what you want to see more of" -visakanv

  • @jerkov420
    @jerkov420 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    My god what a touching story. It was a touching story within a touching story. Made me reflect on my relationship with my mother (non-existent at best) and with my daughter (amazing) and how I can make them better. Thanks dr. Amen!

  • @edierhoads5880
    @edierhoads5880 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    That was deep

  • @wqrf940
    @wqrf940 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Noticing the present moment is the key ...

  • @nelanigoonawardena9149
    @nelanigoonawardena9149 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is really helpful.
    Thank you 😊

  • @ancientwisdom108
    @ancientwisdom108 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good stuff for any relationship.

  • @echoes8
    @echoes8 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Wow this hits deep. So true. so grateful for the advice/reminder 💜

  • @eftsoulpath333
    @eftsoulpath333 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So simple and yet so powerful period thank you❤

  • @earthdakini
    @earthdakini 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Right on Dr. Amen. 💕🥰🌟🕊

  • @pearlchang5775
    @pearlchang5775 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Change yourself and show appreciation

  • @paulvoas3328
    @paulvoas3328 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    What if you do that, notice what they have done well, as a teacher or coach but then they keep doing things that are negative. This is the approach in many schools, PBIS schools especially, and all this social and emotional training and curriculum and yet behaviors are still out of control? Sincerely a frustrated teacher/coach

  • @slkonnaris8477
    @slkonnaris8477 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Brilliant! Very wise words❤

  • @tamb7587
    @tamb7587 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you for a good reminder of what we need to do!

  • @Cassiaski
    @Cassiaski วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for making it available! ❤

  • @lisajane4330
    @lisajane4330 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    So glad I came across this, great advice ❤

  • @leighd301
    @leighd301 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    What an amazing story! I love it, thank you!❤

  • @michaelynmanarang9740
    @michaelynmanarang9740 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Catch them being good!

  • @katjuliano5105
    @katjuliano5105 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    You made me cry Dr Amen. 🐧🐧🐧

  • @tr9066
    @tr9066 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    That’s it. I’m buying a stuffed penguin today.

  • @izabelamagierska5457
    @izabelamagierska5457 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Thank you Dr Amen 😘

  • @aliyam5291
    @aliyam5291 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Super!

  • @anastasiatrushkinaxelrod6544
    @anastasiatrushkinaxelrod6544 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    ❤thank you

  • @cherylpereeia1756
    @cherylpereeia1756 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    What great advice Dr. Amen! ❤❤❤

  • @jasminejojoellerton9647
    @jasminejojoellerton9647 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Beautiful, thank you ❤

  • @kimberlyknight3011
    @kimberlyknight3011 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Oh my heart ❤ beautiful story. Thank you Dr. Amen. I appreciate you moreover your brain 🧠

  • @Captaincrunch280
    @Captaincrunch280 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Love this guy

  • @dolce9876
    @dolce9876 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks. So true.

  • @jackieR8983
    @jackieR8983 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wow, thank you so much!

  • @thehautergroup
    @thehautergroup 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    SO good. Thank you.

  • @Sylvia_Aparicio
    @Sylvia_Aparicio 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Great Reminder🌷

  • @bemadewhole
    @bemadewhole 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you, Dr Amen! 😍

  • @sb733
    @sb733 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Dr

  • @blanchehanstein3450
    @blanchehanstein3450 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Very interesting one...

  • @dianemoril7612
    @dianemoril7612 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you!

  • @user-et3tm2mg4m
    @user-et3tm2mg4m 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Brilliant

  • @melissabeckham6917
    @melissabeckham6917 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wonderful talk, thank you. But I’m sad thinking about all the wild creatures in Sea World type situations. They deserve better from humans.

  • @AlchemysMom
    @AlchemysMom 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sold

  • @gailfagan7579
    @gailfagan7579 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Works very well with wives, too. And husbands...

  • @simonar6492
    @simonar6492 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    So now the kids have to have better emotional intelligence than the parents?

    • @emmax0000
      @emmax0000 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My exact same thoughts

    • @graceg3250
      @graceg3250 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      They always have been expected to be more mature than adults. They can’t talk back, argue, do things with their own timing, etc.

  • @courteneyhall9640
    @courteneyhall9640 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve tried this. Doesn’t work on everyone… and if it does, often not long enough to change much. I’m keep trying because I have no other choice.

  • @rebeccaw1772
    @rebeccaw1772 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

  • @habibaroyees
    @habibaroyees 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    ❤😊

  • @zioncityinternational3757
    @zioncityinternational3757 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Isn’t this how to love xxx

  • @midlifemom5829
    @midlifemom5829 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My husband has focused on the negative not positive. He is hlass half empty. It has damaged the relationships within my family

  • @golfer462
    @golfer462 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is ABA therapy.

  • @user-oc7ph2qs2e
    @user-oc7ph2qs2e 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had Teachers mock me for being a stay at Home mom, and when i had my second child, who absolutely LOVED, the new baby, and wanted to be Home all the Time and take care of "ME" & the baby. The Teachers would tell me how wrong this was, and that my oldest should be outside with Friends, not with us... .
    When i look back now, and found out that Teachers take child phycology classes, those nasty Witches meant harm to my family 🔥🗡️

  • @kathleensmith644
    @kathleensmith644 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I agree with what he says, but you can’t praise everything. Sometimes children need to be told that wasn’t the right thing to do. Otherwise children become arrogant, entitled teenagers.

  • @mtets2459
    @mtets2459 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    From Jordan Peterson

  • @GiGi-nd5cx
    @GiGi-nd5cx วันที่ผ่านมา

    🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧

  • @hollyweaver7292
    @hollyweaver7292 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2