You are not what he did to you, you are not what they did to you, you are not what she did to you! You are stronger! it might not feel like it but you will get through this you are not alone there are people who will care and be there for you.
I am 12 and I shouldn’t have to be afraid because I was raped by a teacher and a picture of me was shared between people and it’s so hard to think that I have actually been through it
I am 15 when I was fourteen I was raped by a seventeen year old boy and if you ever need to talk I am here I know what you are going through I am so sorry you are so strong and worth a lot more than you know and what happened to you doesn't define you and it was no shape or form your fault for what happened I will be by your side if you want me to ❤️
Dear depression Dear girls who made me feel ashamed of my body Dear ex’s Dear friends who broke me Dear *boy* who left me like I was a joke and ruined my life Dear anxiety Dear parents *you fucking win now I’m broken.*
I've never been raped but I've been sexually abused, I'm so sorry for everyone that had to go through this. Remember you are loved and you matter, never stay quiet, speak up
hello me I was not raped but sexually abused when I was little by a student of my age whether you are a boy or a girl people will either not believe you or not understand you where to make fun of you and even your loved ones by the way
@@guenardjulia4407 I've already explained this to loads of people, this is just a sad multifandom video with loads of things that I had to vent out at the time. I had to put a trigger warning for rape since there are a lot of scenes about that in there, the whole video is not based on rape.
I wasn't raped but i was so closed to being raped. And that it was one of my close people, makes it even worst. sexually assaulted... i am slient because i am scared of the embrassment the world will give me we. It haunts me.. Be strong
Good luck ! I support u ! If u want to talk , it is my instagram : manondrea . I don’t know if i was raped or no but it seems like so I can understand ...
*reads all comments* *searches how to put 447 people who hurt the 447 people in the comments in jail* *also searches how to give 447 innocent people a hug and encouragement over the internet*
I have never been raped or sexually assaulted, but I have been physically and psychologically abused constantly sense I remember, and the worst thing is that I am 14 turning 15 this year, and I need to be hated and seen as the bad guy, I need to be feared and abused or mistreated to feel like I am alive, because I don’t remember what is like to be happy and I do not know how to be happy. I was in a swimming competition team for over 5 years, and in all that time they always abused me mentally and physically, I would tell them I had injuries and I was hurting and I had to stop, and felt judged and mistreated, that I needed to be treated in another way, and for a couple of months they followed thru, and then they got back to how it used to be, but this time it was worse. In completion your push yourself far enough so you improve, and in swimming you have to be willing to break in the middle of the competition, and it hurts like hell because all your muscles are on 1000% and then they just fall to 20%, which is still fast and incredible, but you start feeling the pain and the weight of your muscles and start to realize what is going on around you, start hearing clearly the names people are cheating for, and when you have over 20 parents from your team, and none of them is cheating for you, not even team mates or coaches, you want to give up, but then they will say you didn’t put on effort. I have broke in the ending of a competition, of 200m, because they told me to use everything I had, after I did a 800m competition in which I was the only one who didn’t break because I managed effort, and it was horrible. I have almost drowned 4 times and none of them gave me trauma, but this team did, I can’t push myself into swimming in a pool in a class or practice because of the trauma associated with swimming, but I still love to swim and to be in the water, it relaxes me, and they took me the chance of being able to swim without being on the ocean, which I can never do. In school, thru out the entire 5th grade I had a girl hugging me and kissing me and saying she was my fried and all that, after I told her to stop and that I didn’t want her to touch me or talk to me like that and she kept on going, in the end of the year I called her several bad things, and her parents blamed me for emotional and psychological damage to their daughter. I can read people and tell when they lie and who or what they are, I can tell what is behind the “curtain”, I can manipulate and desire people without even thinking about it, and I can adapt to an environment almost instantaneously, and it doesn’t always seem like it, but it’s always in the ways that most suit me in long therm. I have mental characteristics that make me have it a little harder then “normal” people, but I never used that as an excuse, until this year, because I would rather be broken and damaged, and unfixable, then to try to be the perfect student and child and friend and sister, and failing, as I have been doing sense for ever. I have been told that I need masks to fit in society, but what no one realized is that never have they ever seen me without one, because I have several different characters I use in different environments and different people, and I need to remember who I am, so I am never truly present, because I am somewhere else at the same time, being myself, in my mind, so I won’t forget. Sorry for the long text, but if you read it, I am pretty sure that you have your own problems, and I hope you are capable of dealing with them better then me.
Don’t ever say that your problems are irrelevant. Everyone deals with trauma differently and I am sure you are dealing just fine. Don’t let anyone get you down because you are a queen and you deserve to be happy. Sending good thoughts your way x
Life has seem to have taken a liking to you,one thing I think of is from this anime series that i had watched a little bit ago. It was about these artist growing up in the golden ages where artistry was a big thing. But the main character master had his own master as a kid growing up the master talked about how his own master had treated him a lot harder then he would treat his other students, when the younger master was noticing the difference on how he got treated as most people would do is feel emotions and sometimes not rationally, but than he had taken his time to think why his master would treat him harder than he would for the others so he looked at their art work compared to his. His work was a lot better because his master was hard on him he was pushing him to be better since he believed in him. Now im saying this because maybe you dont see it but the world wishes to push you harder than others for it believes you can be better than what you think. Your struggles may be hard yet you have pushed this far the world isnt stringing you a long its guiding you and your choices arent set in stone until the end, which means that you still have choices you still have that fight in you to find yourself and to keep going and no matter what you can do this cause not only does the world believe in you but I will also be cheering you on ^^ good luck human!!
I had a similar situation with my paddling club there was this one coach that constantly yells at you or gets mad for pretty much no apparent reason, for the final straw was when me and a few of my teammates tipped ( we were in a team boat) and the coach took at least five minutes to fish us out (the boat was sinking) and after when we wanted to get changed he yelled at me and another kid for joking around to tip another teammate, which we were not doing also doing the entire practices we were not allowed to talk to one another
Reign, Riverdale, Lucifer, 13RW! This Edit is fantastic And to all the people who have gone through this, It’s Not Your Fault, You Are Strong You Are Amazing. Don’t Let them Win Stay Strong and prove them wrong. Show them you are strong and they will never break you ❤️
I've been through a lot. I have been sexually assaulted several times in my past. They always told me it was my fault and I asked for it. I no longer feel safe with people, especially with boys. When you're on the right track in a relationship it's all about 1 thing and they want me for my body and not who I am. No more, nothing less......
I am so sorry this happened to you. I wish you the best because you deserve the best. I want you to know that it's not your fault and never was. You are strong and brave ❤. It takes a lot of courage to share your story. Hope you are better.
@@dee59 you will find that there are guys out there who will love you for your personality. I know its hard to see it rn, but it's true. Remember healing isn't linear and that I'm here for you. It wasn't your fault, you did nothing wrong.
My traumatic memories is coming back these 2 last days.. I just don't know what to do, I can't said the word "rape" in my language and I just don't know what to do
I feel this. All the memories of it come crushing down on us. This week has been awful. For me. Trying my best to stay above water. Please remember you aren't alone. You are strong even when you don't think you are. If you need someone please feel free to reach out to me or someone
I was raped at 5 or 6.. one of my guy best friends at that time was with me but he got raped as well :/ we never told someone about it cause we knew no one would believe us.. and we were right a few months ago we finally told our parents and they don’t believe us :/
I’m so sorry that happened to you! You’re so strong and your story is valid and I’m proud that you got the courage to tell someone and the fact that they don’t believe you is disgusting parents should always believe their children and people should always believe the survivors first!
I am so sorry I believe you if you ever need to talk I am here I know what you are going through because I was raped too and my dad didn't believe me either
This is why I stay in my house and don't talk to people- so sorry for all my girls (and boys) who HAVE been through this, or anything like it. You have my heart.
He was my bf at the time - I was 14, he pushed me on the floor, I didn't know I had been crying til I opened my eyes. He was my employee, a cook - He grabbed my legs when I fell asleep in a booth & started thrusting between my legs as he held them & scared me awake. He was my manager. It was last week & I cried
Omg Kay, I am so sorry for you and so angry at that jerk. Please ask for help, tell someone who is close to you, talk to them. You should go to the police also. I fucking hate mens 🤬🥺😥😢😢😢😢😔😔😔😔😔
Call a suicide prevention line, tell them, tell the fire brigade, tell your colleagues that you are close to, get some justice please, he's a mistake and doesn't deserve to exist
Girlies I’m so fucking sorry 😭 really can’t wrap my head around what you go through! I promise I will always speak up when you can’t, I’ll help when you need it. I’ll never stop standing with you😔 you girls have us gays back and we will always have yours 💖 stay safe darlings
thank you ♡︎ i have: Machettie stabbing Flashers (both sides of my neaest river) multiple cases of Rape Multiple cases of sexual assult more stabbings aroumd my area relative amount of theft And like the machettie stabbing happened 20 min before school ended and was about 5 min away, on my way back home. One rapest was 10 min away from my home, the rest was a while ago involving girls in my school. There was a break in next door. I walk home alone, likk with no friends or anything. And a flasher basicaly next to my school, and in one of my local parks... i am kinda scared ngl but anyway ty ❤︎
for real I am so fucking scared to go out. at any time. even when I’m going to school with my guy friends I feel so insecure, I know I can trust them but what if not. I never know if the person is looking at me or my ass. it sounds cringe but it’s every day like this I’m so scared
@@1c4ru56 Hey, are you okay? I read your comment, I'm so sorry you've gone through that (and still do). I have social anxiety too, so I know how that feels like. I know you don't know me, but if you need someone to talk to, I'm here to listen (or read actually). Take care, be safe, and I really hope things get better for you💜
@@1c4ru56 wow damn first I think the same when I go out especially the one with terrorist since I’m wearing the hijab wow and second I’m so sorry for you if u don’t wanna tell ur parents but you are over 15 I think u should be allowed to go to the doc and he won’t tell ur parents
Reading the comments of what girls and women have gone through just breaks my heart and makes me think more about providing assistance to all the women who had this experience in their life.
the sexually harassment I’ve been through is already something traumatic, I can’t imagine how it feels to be sexually assaulted.. I’m so sorry to everyone in this comment section.. I love you you’ll get through it I promise, you’re a fighter 💕
I spent 5 years to realise what my stepuncle did to me over 2 years (I was 8 when it started) and first talked about it after 6 years of the assaults and rapes, I want to make people speak...It came out threw a chat I had with a stranger on the internet because my mother read it, but I had people then around me who supported me and still are there for me. And I reported, they found child porn and also I wasn’t the only victim. If you speak you can help others, too! Please always keep it in mind...
I hope nobody else has to ever go through such a horrible experience such as this. *NO MEANS NO, NO MATTER WHETHER YOU KNOW THEM,WHETHER YOU ARE A MARRIED COUPLE* Please everyone we need to stop this right now because it is ruining lives and breaking hearts of others,not just the ones who experience it. 💔❤💓
Tho I'm not gonna rant about my story cuz I know I won't be able to finish it cuz of my cries, I just wanna say that this video fills me with warmth and comfort that no one has given me before. Being sexually assaulted left me so broken, but being that by 5 different people and different phases left me so numb. Tho my mom only knows about one, I still don't feel safe. This thing has left me so broken inside that I felt suffocated in my own body. The parts where they touched. It feels like it still has marks on it. I rarely trust people now. Whenever I see a car coming my direction or a man walking towards me, I get so anxious. I shouldn't feel like this. Seeing this video's comment section has made me feel so much better. As if I'm not alone. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Tho all of us have different stories and different levels, we all have one thing in common. WE'RE STRONG! If you're alive rn and breathing, I'm so freaking proud of u. You've been through so much and u deserve so much better. Just stay with me everyone. We'll got through this, TOGETHER!
I am so sorry for everything that happened... I want you to know that you deserve the best in the world ❤. Sharing your story takes a lot of courage and I know that you are so strong and brave even I don't know you, you are amazing and you are my hero. Keep dreaming for your life I wish you the best ❣
comment section is heartbreaking but i hope everyone here feels better and i really really hope you'll be okay and happy please know its not your fault and your so so strong doesn't matter if you spoke up or not your still the strongest person ever
For all the survivors not victims, out there it will never be your fault it doesn’t madder what you were wearing, how drunk you were, or how you were acting NO MEANS NO and some people don’t understand that.
Is it bad that I watch this video every single day about 10 times repeatedly because it the only place I feel safe knowing I didn’t go through it alone even tho it makes me cry and my mental health has gotten worse ?
Hi I hope you’re doing okay! I’m so proud of you and you definitely didn’t go through this alone there are millions of people who understand what you went through and you are so strong!
I was 9 when it happened to me . It was by my aunties husbands nephew he took my virginity...something I can never share again with someone I love . I didn’t confess or spoke out until I was about 13,14 years old . My mother blamed me for not saying anything earlier but how could such trauma make you speak when you just stay silent and confuse about what happen see it never happened to them so they don’t understand but if it happened to them they probably would’ve felt the pain I experience. All she ever said to me was that quote if it was me I would’ve said it when I exactly happened and I would’ve never let that happen to me” , my aunts he was responsible for it but she didn’t even care she always looked at me like I was some type of tramp. I told so much people lots of guys because it was eating me up and I was scared and I thought that going to them , maybe they can give me some advice but all they did was take advantage of it and continue to make it a living hell for me...bringing back those moments that I wouldn’t think I would experience again. People takes us to be a cliché thing and honestly... I never got over it I just try to bury it under so much 🍂 until I can’t see you anymore can I get into relationships and I don’t feel anymore at least for guys or anyone I just feel disgusted and I just don’t want to be loved by anyone anymore at least that way cause I never was loved for real in that way... (ps sorry if it doesn’t make any sense Bare with me it took a lot to write this😞)
ladies and gentlemen who have been hurt like this, it was theyre fault, you did nothing wrong, you did not give them consent and you did the right thing trying to get them to stop, i love you
Hi I’m so sorry that happened to you you’re so strong and it’s totally okay to feel afraid there are so many people who understand what you’re going through and you’re not in this alone! I’m so proud of you :)
i didnt realize until months after the breakup. he wanted to do so many things and i ALWAYS said no bc we were young but he would touch me anywhere he could. and i kept on saying no. and MONTHS after the breakup, was when i realized that he was sexually assaulting me.
this is so sad. This makes me cry. people of our own kinds can do such a thing to someones life. Its never okay. It hurts. Its trauma, and it haunts you. its more common then u think.
I’m so sorry to any girl this happens to please stay strong I love u💕I pray to protect all of us it’s scary out here we’re never safe 😪I also wanna say I know it is very hard to speak out about these things.But there are so many people even men that this happens to the more you speak up the sooner these monsters can pay for what they did.I love you queens and kings ❤️
The worst thing is after 8 years I can still feel him on me, his hands, this body, I can feel him inside me. I act like I’m fine but I’m not. This never leaves you it gets better, but it never leaves you
I have never been raped but sometimes I just feel like I have been ounces but I'm not sure, and I'm so sorry for the people who have had to go through that and deal with that no one including males do not deserve that and I hope everyone out there stays safe.
This touches my heart, ive been through so much and i just act like im okay but im really not but trying to be strong , its hard too get through stuff when you been raped, or abused or inn any kind of things like that, if your going though something you got this stay strong dont give up i know its hard. its hard for me right now, but always remember your not alone and i love you and your beautiful dont give up love itll be okay i promise. ]
My stomach literally dropped watching this. The amount of times we walk home with keys between our fingers, nervously laughing off a creepy comment, pretending to be on the phone, walking a little faster than normal. And it’s not okay girls gotta stick together
This is fantastically done. I’m so sorry you are feeling like this though. I don’t know you, but I’m sending a big hug your way. Nothing that happened was your fault 💕💕💕
Just want to say to all of you SPEAK UP, DON'T KEEP SILENT and at least one person will hear you and help you! You are strong, my girl and I'm proud of you and wish you happy life!
I told my parents... They said it was my fault because we were high and me and this guy had sexual relations before. I said no and he mocked me for it.
Everyone in this comment section please remember, if your car was stolen..it is still YOUR car and nobody can change that unless you give them your car. You’re so strong. You’re not a victim, but a survivor and well done for it. I’m so proud of you.
Atheists and others, if you see this comment, please *please* don't start saying shit like "bUt tHeN wHy dID gOd LeT tHiS hAppEn tO uS?" Like please, this person was just tryna write a nice wholesome comment
It took me two years to realize what my father done too me. At the time , I was his girl ,I was a daddy's girl. Always stuck by him when I could ,cause he was in jail most of life (he's back in jail now) ,I do not like my father anymore ,I do not forgive him. What he did was wrong but maybe I deserved it. I've only told my best friend and my lover. I'm scared of everyone I come in contact with ,friend ,family ,or not. I still remember the whole day and everything that happened that night.
Noooo don’t ever say that nobody deserves that yet alone from YOUR FATHER someone who is supposed to protect you from the bad guys not become one I’m sorry luv
hey, this is really difficult for me to share, so please be gentle. :') since i was a little girl, my dad had been doing bad things to me. he took away my innocence, and since he's my dad, i thought that what was happening was normal, until i realized it wasn't. when i figured it out, my world fell apart. this was recently. i'm still trying to heal from everything that he put me through - i'm still trying to be okay. i'm still trying to come to terms with the fact that it wasn't my fault & i didn't deserve what happened to me. one of the most difficult aspects of sexual assault that i & so many other people experience is the fear of people not believing you. i have trouble telling people about what happened to me because of this fear. i know how hard it is for people to tell you that you're a liar when you disclose something so personal to you. my worst fear is becoming a liar to myself. so, to anyone in my situation or who have experienced any type abuse at all, please know: no matter what happened, i believe you. so many people believe you. it is NOT your fault. it never will be. like i said, i'm still trying to learn to take my own advice. but we'll get better & we'll do it together. you're not alone.
I had the same problem I was sexually assaulted by my ex and raped and I haven't told anyone about it because I was scared it happened like a few months ago and I did not eat or sleep or came out of my bedroom at all, whenever someone tapped me on the shoulder or touched me I would always flinch or jump a little but I'm kind of over it now although I still get little jumps and flinches
The comments are baddier than the video I’m so sorry for all you girls that go through this shit like I know what it feels like it hurts like hell and you can’t stop it and all you can do is cry.
There was this situation where a guy took advantage of me. I was drunk and I just wanted to go home. I told him I was okay with some stuff but not full-on intimacy. He did it anyway and I told him I said no, he admitted he was wrong and apologized but then did it again. I pretended to like it and thought about someone else because if I pretended I wanted to do it, I thought could go home faster. After that incident, I was never the same...
Holy fuck I seriously felt it when she said “I’m always in that house. I’m always in that room I can’t get out” cuz I always remember and see it everytime I close my eyes the room(s) it happened in.
My non-biological cousin raped me from ages 7-9. I'm 13 now. All of my family knows. I've been called an attention seeker, a liar, a bitch, a whore. All because of what he did, and all by my family. I cant deal with it anymore. My parents literally told me that they don't care, and that I was obviously lying. They told me, "This accusation could ruin his whole life!" So what? He ruined mine already. He took my innocence away from me at SEVEN, and kept taking more of it. It gets so bad to the point where I'll have flashbacks in the middle of class, then have a mental breakdown. And I'm just so stressed, because my parents hate me already. I cant handle all of this. But somehow, I'm still pushing through.
I'm sorry. I believe you. I know how hard and painful it is for someone to do that to you. Your feelings are valid. I hope you can surround yourself with people that can understand how you feel and help you heal.
I believe you. I'm so sorry you've had to go through all this. It makes me angry the way your parents try to laugh and forget about it. They should be rooting for you. I hope you can reach out to friends or trusted adults and keep talking about it. Don't try to forget it. Keep fighting. Thank you for sharing your story, I'm just so sorry you had to go through that and your cousin is just walking around doing whatever:(
One night I got raped by a couple guys at a party. After a while I opened up to my mom about the situation. She basically told me it was my fault cause I shouldn’t have been wearing such a skimpy top saying quote on quote “Every action has consequence and if you throw a bone a dog you shouldn’t expect anything else.” She’s yet to apologize and still stands by her word. I’m in college now. She’s been trying to reconnect with me but I’m always very cold and distant with my responses. I can’t look at her the same anymore and honestly I want to just cut her out completely. But I’ll feel super guilty for doing that cause she’s always been a good mother before that. She paid for my school trips, bought me gifts, made me food, etc. Any advice?
I'm really sorry about what happened to you, what your mum said is truly disgusting and she should have never said that to you. In my personal opinion I would want her out of my life especially since she hasn't even apologised for such harmful words. You should not feel guilty for wanting her out your life, you did not nothing wrong.
@@georginab512 I told her once in the past that after her insensitive response I didn’t want her in my life anymore if that’s how she truly feels. But then she said that when she dies I’m gonna be devastated for not having spend any time with her. And I’m afraid that’s what’s gonna happen if I cut her out completely.
I got sexually harassed by my brother and never knew that. I told my friends about it and that was the day I realized it was all sexual harassment. It was not a something a brother can do. I confronted my brother through text. He sent me some disgusting messages. Like it was my fault and he won’t stop. I never told my parents cause I didn’t want to.....Since then it feels like my brother hates me. Especially after my dad became a bit stricter to him. It feels like my fault but, at the same time I’m glad I finally managed to have courage to open up. Cause this frickin pisses me off how I kept everything to myself when I could’ve just told my close ones and everything would’ve been fine. My brother is a bit more aggressive towards me..But, that’s way better than being sexually harassed so idc....Ladies and Gentlemen please speak up. Don’t hide it. Don’t cover it up. Don’t lie to yourself. Don’t blame yourself. You’re better than that, SPEAK UP why the heck do you have a voice for? Why the fudge was the light bulbs invented or a candle? To light up the dark and see what was hiding in the dark. Please for the love of God and your mama speak up and make sure those idiots regret their decisions of touching, harassing, assaulting, or raping you. Make every second of their life hell. You’re not alone I’m here with you. We’re all here with you. You don’t have to walk alone. You can walk with us. Just remember it’s not your fault, not the clothe’s fault, not because you were high but, because they couldn’t control themselves. And it’s their frickin problem. You deserve better. God Bless you all!!! Stay Safe Ladies and Gentlemen!!!!
I am so sorry I believe you know what I am going to tell you this rape doesn't define who you are as a person and you are worth more and you got this if I am strong enough to get through of what happened to me then you can if you ever need to talk I am here I believe you are heard and be strong
if this happend to you remember there are people that can help you. there are help lines you can call you are not in this alone. i don't know if you believe in god but remember he is always with you and loves you no matter wat happens. you can pray and he will answer maybe not in the way you wanted but he is always there.
@@shel1314 hey I am so sorry that happened I was fourteen when I was raped so I know what you are going through if you ever need to talk and I am going to tell you this what happened to you doesn't define you and you are amazing and worth a lot more than you know i am here for you
“Do you need..do you need someone?..”💔that broke me insides because right now I need someone to hold me and tell me everything will be alright..”you are broken on the floor and your crying crying..” that’s me everyday and night..if you ever need someone there’s that one person who is there for you don’t hide the pain okay! Love you all
I am so sorry for what happened to you and for what you're going through... you are so strong and brave. You deserve hapiness, you deserve to live without fear and pain, you deserve the best. I hope you are doing better, if not please try to remember that you are an amazing person. I'm here talk to if you need to. Sending you my love 💜.
I am not raped but in our class boys talk about our breast size and but size... They talk about our body and sometimes look at us as it we are a meal... We girls tried to talk to our teachers but they didn't take any action... Our uniforms are skirts which kinda makes us self conscious and I hate it... Before anything I do I just think thousand times that how am I looking... When I sometimes speak about this to my friends they just say that you are being a feminist...
I just finished watching the movie with the girl from the first video shown and she didn’t tell anyone no charges were pressed even though she told him to not touch her there. I’m glad Netflix is bring awareness to things like that
I feel like I will never be able to get so close to someone and be able to have sex. I can't stand people touching me, especially boys. The truth is, men only want us for pur bodies, not for who we are. The only men I know that is diffrent is my father. Him and my mom been merried for 34 years and they were very young when my mom said she doesn't want to have anything with him in that way and that's what happend. But they are still together and merried, even if they don't have sex. The respect, love, friendship comes first for them. And they get along pretty well. Both of them are introverted and I think that's why they understand eachother so well and accept eachother as they are.
This song is so powerful. I was sexually assaulted twice and I’m a dancer… I picked this song for my first solo to bring awareness to it. My heart goes out to everyone going through something like this❤️
I have been through some stuff I would rather not have been through. But Im here. I survived. Slowly but surely I know I will feel better. Its just hard.
i feel so worthless… and he made me feel like i was worth something and then he shattered me completely, into pieces, when i feel like i might get over him i go back and fall again into him and i’m so lost, i just want to get over him. he doesn’t deserve to know what i went through when i was a little kid and why this break up has messed up with my head. i’m so lonely.
14 years ago, my brother's two best friends destroyed my life, and I was only 10. It still haunts me. I worked a lot on therapy and I feel ok (but so angry). Some people say "you're not concerned about that" But I was concerned when I was a little girl. And I'm scared it could happens again, even if I'm a man now
I was five. It was my cousin, my parents say I’m pathetic. I’ve been keeping the incident a secret for 11 years now. I am so tired…the memories keep me awake at night, the memories scare me in the daylight, I feel so tired.
I am sorry for what happened to you... you are so brave and strong... it takes a lot of courage to share your story and I want you to know that you deserve hapiness, you deserve the best ❤. I hope you are doing better.
I honestly dont know if it was sexual assault at this point. I was 6 and she was 7. she didnt know what she was doing. I said yes anyways so it was my fault. I just wish it never happened. I never wanted it to happen but I was scared to say no. it doesnt matter anyways. it's been years nobody would believe me anyways
It isn’t your fault children can’t give consent!!!!! I think you should tell someone what happened your story is valid even if no one believes you but you don’t know if people are gonna believe you unless you tell them I hope you’re doing okay tho :)
First of all, you were a child, you didn't understand anything, nobody can give consent at that age, second of all, you are allowed to change your mind, that's how people live, that's how life works and it's accepted in other places so why isn't it accepted here in a literal life or death situation.
Also please tell someone, go to your doctor tell them, tell a suicide prevention line, they are literally the only people that will listen. Please do this
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You are not what he did to you, you are not what they did to you, you are not what she did to you! You are stronger! it might not feel like it but you will get through this you are not alone there are people who will care and be there for you.
Thank you ❤️
Thank you
thank you so much
I don’t wanna be that person but or she
It could be a she who can do such a horrible thing to anyone. Like my mother did to me for years
The comment section is breaking my heart all over again, I'm so sorry to y'all beautiful people.
Whats the film name?
@@asalj4535
These are many shows mixed
thank you... ❤️
@@Vjjgjcj the first
@@asalj4535 the edge of seventeen i think
sometimes I think that it wasn’t “sexual assault” cause it was my ex-boyfriend but it was, I said no, I told him to stop..
It was the same with me. It was someone that I knew so it took me ages until I realised that it was actually still classed as rape :/
I am sorry to both of you. It is not your fault.
I am so sorry if you need to talk I am here I was fourteen when I was raped and I know what you are going through
I'm so sorry. U gotta friend here, okay?
l am so so sorry for both of you this is insane and it's not your fault guys
Jessica from 13rw. I always felt bad for her. Then became her.
🥺
I felt bad for Jess but I kinda feel like Hannah overrreactedddd
Im so sorry
@@jannawhite7216 how? They broke her heart, her mind and her soul.
I‘m so sorry baby. Keep going!
I am 12 and I shouldn’t have to be afraid because I was raped by a teacher and a picture of me was shared between people and it’s so hard to think that I have actually been through it
I'm sorry that happened to you
Please don’t be silent about this. You are survivor and it wasn’t your fault. We all support you and give you much love ❤️
i am 12 too and i was sexual assaulted over 10 times bc i was too afraid of speaking up.
I am 15 when I was fourteen I was raped by a seventeen year old boy and if you ever need to talk I am here I know what you are going through I am so sorry you are so strong and worth a lot more than you know and what happened to you doesn't define you and it was no shape or form your fault for what happened I will be by your side if you want me to ❤️
@@akeelahandrews1205 if you ever need to talk I am here I was fourteen when I was raped now I am 15
Dear depression
Dear girls who made me feel ashamed of my body
Dear ex’s
Dear friends who broke me
Dear *boy* who left me like I was a joke and ruined my life
Dear anxiety
Dear parents
*you fucking win now I’m broken.*
I've never related to anything more in my life ever
It’s sad how much I relate to this..
I'm so sorry...I can relate to this as well
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I've never been raped but I've been sexually abused, I'm so sorry for everyone that had to go through this. Remember you are loved and you matter, never stay quiet, speak up
hello me I was not raped but sexually abused when I was little by a student of my age whether you are a boy or a girl people will either not believe you or not understand you where to make fun of you and even your loved ones by the way
Same
Not just by 1 not 2 but 3 guys
Every girls are sexually harrased by this world where can we live safe atleast in heaven or hell??
I talk but it was never enough
Me too by my dad my mom doesn't believe me tho
This is perfection
It bothers me that some of the stories she put don't have any link with rape
@@guenardjulia4407 I've already explained this to loads of people, this is just a sad multifandom video with loads of things that I had to vent out at the time. I had to put a trigger warning for rape since there are a lot of scenes about that in there, the whole video is not based on rape.
I wasn't raped but i was so closed to being raped. And that it was one of my close people, makes it even worst. sexually assaulted... i am slient because i am scared of the embrassment the world will give me we. It haunts me..
Be strong
Good luck ! I support u ! If u want to talk , it is my instagram : manondrea . I don’t know if i was raped or no but it seems like so I can understand ...
Dont be afraid what others said it happened to me it took 7 years to say something:(
I am so sorry I know what you are going through if you ever need to talk I am here for you
Corpse Girl I can relate with you a lot. I always get terrified being in a place full of people I don't know I'm sorry you had to go through that
❤️🙏🏽
*reads all comments*
*searches how to put 447 people who hurt the 447 people in the comments in jail*
*also searches how to give 447 innocent people a hug and encouragement over the internet*
Now it are 627💔
Im trying top make ppl laugh and lemme just say there's literally 666 comments before I comment 😂 (I hope u smiled)
This helps, thank you.
It's 1k now. I hate how fucking cruel this world is these beautiful people deserve every happiness for what they went thru
It's 1.4k now 💔
I have never been raped or sexually assaulted, but I have been physically and psychologically abused constantly sense I remember, and the worst thing is that I am 14 turning 15 this year, and I need to be hated and seen as the bad guy, I need to be feared and abused or mistreated to feel like I am alive, because I don’t remember what is like to be happy and I do not know how to be happy.
I was in a swimming competition team for over 5 years, and in all that time they always abused me mentally and physically, I would tell them I had injuries and I was hurting and I had to stop, and felt judged and mistreated, that I needed to be treated in another way, and for a couple of months they followed thru, and then they got back to how it used to be, but this time it was worse. In completion your push yourself far enough so you improve, and in swimming you have to be willing to break in the middle of the competition, and it hurts like hell because all your muscles are on 1000% and then they just fall to 20%, which is still fast and incredible, but you start feeling the pain and the weight of your muscles and start to realize what is going on around you, start hearing clearly the names people are cheating for, and when you have over 20 parents from your team, and none of them is cheating for you, not even team mates or coaches, you want to give up, but then they will say you didn’t put on effort. I have broke in the ending of a competition, of 200m, because they told me to use everything I had, after I did a 800m competition in which I was the only one who didn’t break because I managed effort, and it was horrible. I have almost drowned 4 times and none of them gave me trauma, but this team did, I can’t push myself into swimming in a pool in a class or practice because of the trauma associated with swimming, but I still love to swim and to be in the water, it relaxes me, and they took me the chance of being able to swim without being on the ocean, which I can never do.
In school, thru out the entire 5th grade I had a girl hugging me and kissing me and saying she was my fried and all that, after I told her to stop and that I didn’t want her to touch me or talk to me like that and she kept on going, in the end of the year I called her several bad things, and her parents blamed me for emotional and psychological damage to their daughter.
I can read people and tell when they lie and who or what they are, I can tell what is behind the “curtain”, I can manipulate and desire people without even thinking about it, and I can adapt to an environment almost instantaneously, and it doesn’t always seem like it, but it’s always in the ways that most suit me in long therm. I have mental characteristics that make me have it a little harder then “normal” people, but I never used that as an excuse, until this year, because I would rather be broken and damaged, and unfixable, then to try to be the perfect student and child and friend and sister, and failing, as I have been doing sense for ever. I have been told that I need masks to fit in society, but what no one realized is that never have they ever seen me without one, because I have several different characters I use in different environments and different people, and I need to remember who I am, so I am never truly present, because I am somewhere else at the same time, being myself, in my mind, so I won’t forget.
Sorry for the long text, but if you read it, I am pretty sure that you have your own problems, and I hope you are capable of dealing with them better then me.
Don’t ever say that your problems are irrelevant. Everyone deals with trauma differently and I am sure you are dealing just fine. Don’t let anyone get you down because you are a queen and you deserve to be happy. Sending good thoughts your way x
Life has seem to have taken a liking to you,one thing I think of is from this anime series that i had watched a little bit ago. It was about these artist growing up in the golden ages where artistry was a big thing. But the main character master had his own master as a kid growing up the master talked about how his own master had treated him a lot harder then he would treat his other students, when the younger master was noticing the difference on how he got treated as most people would do is feel emotions and sometimes not rationally, but than he had taken his time to think why his master would treat him harder than he would for the others so he looked at their art work compared to his. His work was a lot better because his master was hard on him he was pushing him to be better since he believed in him. Now im saying this because maybe you dont see it but the world wishes to push you harder than others for it believes you can be better than what you think. Your struggles may be hard yet you have pushed this far the world isnt stringing you a long its guiding you and your choices arent set in stone until the end, which means that you still have choices you still have that fight in you to find yourself and to keep going and no matter what you can do this cause not only does the world believe in you but I will also be cheering you on ^^ good luck human!!
I had a similar situation with my paddling club there was this one coach that constantly yells at you or gets mad for pretty much no apparent reason, for the final straw was when me and a few of my teammates tipped ( we were in a team boat) and the coach took at least five minutes to fish us out (the boat was sinking) and after when we wanted to get changed he yelled at me and another kid for joking around to tip another teammate, which we were not doing also doing the entire practices we were not allowed to talk to one another
I am actualy happy to of read that whole thing. I actualy learnt a few things...
Ily so much
I felt bad for Alyssa especially because Bonnie didn’t even know what happened and was trying to get revenge.
yes Alyssa´s story broke me what if james wasn´t there on the right time?....
@@theabared2959 james was there before that guy came in the room he just hid under the bed, and came out when he heard alyssa screaming
@@hannahameera1988 I know i have watched it but what IF he really wasnt there to protect Alyssa
@@theabared2959 idk cause james was always there for her
@@theabared2959 Wait,what happpend?? Who's Alyssa? Why Bonnnie?? Who's James??
Reign, Riverdale, Lucifer, 13RW! This Edit is fantastic
And to all the people who have gone through this, It’s Not Your Fault, You Are Strong You Are Amazing. Don’t Let them Win Stay Strong and prove them wrong. Show them you are strong and they will never break you ❤️
and teotfw
And euphoria
And
The end of the fucking world (?)
And the 100
And unbelievable
And pretty little liars
I've been through a lot. I have been sexually assaulted several times in my past. They always told me it was my fault and I asked for it. I no longer feel safe with people, especially with boys. When you're on the right track in a relationship it's all about 1 thing and they want me for my body and not who I am. No more, nothing less......
boys can want us only for our bodies but nothing was your fault, you're a survivor ❤
(l mean they think about for one thing but it's wrong)
I am so sorry this happened to you. I wish you the best because you deserve the best. I want you to know that it's not your fault and never was. You are strong and brave ❤. It takes a lot of courage to share your story. Hope you are better.
I usually feel that way too guys only like me because of my body not for who I am it's a really gross feeling am still single because of this reason
@@dee59 you will find that there are guys out there who will love you for your personality. I know its hard to see it rn, but it's true.
Remember healing isn't linear and that I'm here for you. It wasn't your fault, you did nothing wrong.
@@lucifer_333_bones7 tell me the direction of a guy who wants to know me for me. because i've never seen one. i've never met one.
My traumatic memories is coming back these 2 last days.. I just don't know what to do, I can't said the word "rape" in my language and I just don't know what to do
Please calm down and tell someone about it I know it's difficult I have been through it , try to get proffesional help .
first calm down and tell someone you trust, it'll help you and you can talk to me
Have u told someone
Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Matthew 11:28 from the bible. May God heal your wounds🤍🤍
I feel this. All the memories of it come crushing down on us. This week has been awful. For me. Trying my best to stay above water. Please remember you aren't alone. You are strong even when you don't think you are. If you need someone please feel free to reach out to me or someone
I was raped at 5 or 6.. one of my guy best friends at that time was with me but he got raped as well :/ we never told someone about it cause we knew no one would believe us.. and we were right a few months ago we finally told our parents and they don’t believe us :/
I’m so sorry that happened to you! You’re so strong and your story is valid and I’m proud that you got the courage to tell someone and the fact that they don’t believe you is disgusting parents should always believe their children and people should always believe the survivors first!
@@idameeuwis8419 thank you and yeah my parents still don’t believe me and making jokes about it :/
@@ave2039 that’s so awful :( no one should make jokes about something like that
I am so sorry I believe you if you ever need to talk I am here I know what you are going through because I was raped too and my dad didn't believe me either
@@shelbiyounger8563 thank you so much and I’m sorry for you
This is why I stay in my house and don't talk to people- so sorry for all my girls (and boys) who HAVE been through this, or anything like it. You have my heart.
He was my bf at the time - I was 14, he pushed me on the floor, I didn't know I had been crying til I opened my eyes.
He was my employee, a cook - He grabbed my legs when I fell asleep in a booth & started thrusting between my legs as he held them & scared me awake.
He was my manager. It was last week & I cried
Omg I’m so sorry
Omg Kay, I am so sorry for you and so angry at that jerk. Please ask for help, tell someone who is close to you, talk to them. You should go to the police also. I fucking hate mens 🤬🥺😥😢😢😢😢😔😔😔😔😔
Stay strong. We are here for you x
Call a suicide prevention line, tell them, tell the fire brigade, tell your colleagues that you are close to, get some justice please, he's a mistake and doesn't deserve to exist
Thank you ❤ I didn't expect people to notice but thank you
Girlies I’m so fucking sorry 😭 really can’t wrap my head around what you go through! I promise I will always speak up when you can’t, I’ll help when you need it. I’ll never stop standing with you😔 you girls have us gays back and we will always have yours 💖 stay safe darlings
thank you ♡︎
i have:
Machettie stabbing
Flashers (both sides of my neaest river)
multiple cases of Rape
Multiple cases of sexual assult
more stabbings aroumd my area
relative amount of theft
And like the machettie stabbing happened 20 min before school ended and was about 5 min away, on my way back home. One rapest was 10 min away from my home, the rest was a while ago involving girls in my school. There was a break in next door. I walk home alone, likk with no friends or anything. And a flasher basicaly next to my school, and in one of my local parks...
i am kinda scared ngl
but anyway ty ❤︎
Thank you!
i'm trans and bi and thank you so fucking much. just thank you, thank you thank you. @bradtrowell826
for real I am so fucking scared to go out. at any time. even when I’m going to school with my guy friends I feel so insecure, I know I can trust them but what if not. I never know if the person is looking at me or my ass. it sounds cringe but it’s every day like this I’m so scared
@@1c4ru56 Hey, are you okay? I read your comment, I'm so sorry you've gone through that (and still do). I have social anxiety too, so I know how that feels like. I know you don't know me, but if you need someone to talk to, I'm here to listen (or read actually). Take care, be safe, and I really hope things get better for you💜
@@1c4ru56 wow damn first I think the same when I go out especially the one with terrorist since I’m wearing the hijab wow and second I’m so sorry for you if u don’t wanna tell ur parents but you are over 15 I think u should be allowed to go to the doc and he won’t tell ur parents
If only my mom knew what happened that night she would understand why I act the way I act he was supposed to be my bestfriend
Stay strong you're beautiful inside and out. I am really sorry for what you've went through but trust me happiness awaits you!
Im so sorry, I know how you feel
Reading the comments of what girls and women have gone through just breaks my heart and makes me think more about providing assistance to all the women who had this experience in their life.
the sexually harassment I’ve been through is already something traumatic, I can’t imagine how it feels to be sexually assaulted.. I’m so sorry to everyone in this comment section.. I love you you’ll get through it I promise, you’re a fighter 💕
Yeh me too
I spent 5 years to realise what my stepuncle did to me over 2 years (I was 8 when it started) and first talked about it after 6 years of the assaults and rapes, I want to make people speak...It came out threw a chat I had with a stranger on the internet because my mother read it, but I had people then around me who supported me and still are there for me.
And I reported, they found child porn and also I wasn’t the only victim. If you speak you can help others, too!
Please always keep it in mind...
IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!
@@idameeuwis8419 Thank you
Very proud of you! Stay strong and take care of yourself
13 Reasons Why is one of the most sad series I have ever watched in my life 💔
Sad?
@@piaschlomer8630 Yh have you not watched it? It's sad, cruel and twisted
What the series called? Ik I’m late.
I hope nobody else has to ever go through such a horrible experience such as this. *NO MEANS NO, NO MATTER WHETHER YOU KNOW THEM,WHETHER YOU ARE A MARRIED COUPLE* Please everyone we need to stop this right now because it is ruining lives and breaking hearts of others,not just the ones who experience it. 💔❤💓
It really does destroy and mess up a life to go through this. Then to Find out I was pregnant as a result of it
@@shel1314 im very sorry to hear that
No means no.
But also if you don't have continuous engaged enthusiastic yes then it's time to stop and ask questions.
Tho I'm not gonna rant about my story cuz I know I won't be able to finish it cuz of my cries, I just wanna say that this video fills me with warmth and comfort that no one has given me before. Being sexually assaulted left me so broken, but being that by 5 different people and different phases left me so numb. Tho my mom only knows about one, I still don't feel safe. This thing has left me so broken inside that I felt suffocated in my own body. The parts where they touched. It feels like it still has marks on it. I rarely trust people now. Whenever I see a car coming my direction or a man walking towards me, I get so anxious. I shouldn't feel like this. Seeing this video's comment section has made me feel so much better. As if I'm not alone. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Tho all of us have different stories and different levels, we all have one thing in common. WE'RE STRONG! If you're alive rn and breathing, I'm so freaking proud of u. You've been through so much and u deserve so much better. Just stay with me everyone. We'll got through this, TOGETHER!
I am so sorry for everything that happened... I want you to know that you deserve the best in the world ❤. Sharing your story takes a lot of courage and I know that you are so strong and brave even I don't know you, you are amazing and you are my hero. Keep dreaming for your life I wish you the best ❣
no girl should ever go through this. its the worst pain a girl could ever experience😢
No human should ever go trough this. Even animals.. this world is fucked up
comment section is heartbreaking but i hope everyone here feels better and i really really hope you'll be okay and happy please know its not your fault and your so so strong doesn't matter if you spoke up or not your still the strongest person ever
For all the survivors not victims, out there it will never be your fault it doesn’t madder what you were wearing, how drunk you were, or how you were acting NO MEANS NO and some people don’t understand that.
Hehe some people like me was child we didn't know what was happening and something abusers do so you can't talk or either say no
Im so so sorry for everyone who has been r@ped:( I just wanna tell you you guys are sooo strong keep fighting🥺
Song: Broken by Isak Danielson
Ur welcome :)
Is it bad that I watch this video every single day about 10 times repeatedly because it the only place I feel safe knowing I didn’t go through it alone even tho it makes me cry and my mental health has gotten worse ?
Hi I hope you’re doing okay! I’m so proud of you and you definitely didn’t go through this alone there are millions of people who understand what you went through and you are so strong!
I feel this alot but I replay it every single day
Gosh sis you're so strong. If you want to talk we're always here
Same!! I’m glad that I’m not the only person who does that
you are not alone
I was 9 when it happened to me . It was by my aunties husbands nephew he took my virginity...something I can never share again with someone I love . I didn’t confess or spoke out until I was about 13,14 years old . My mother blamed me for not saying anything earlier but how could such trauma make you speak when you just stay silent and confuse about what happen see it never happened to them so they don’t understand but if it happened to them they probably would’ve felt the pain I experience. All she ever said to me was that quote if it was me I would’ve said it when I exactly happened and I would’ve never let that happen to me” , my aunts he was responsible for it but she didn’t even care she always looked at me like I was some type of tramp. I told so much people lots of guys because it was eating me up and I was scared and I thought that going to them , maybe they can give me some advice but all they did was take advantage of it and continue to make it a living hell for me...bringing back those moments that I wouldn’t think I would experience again. People takes us to be a cliché thing and honestly... I never got over it I just try to bury it under so much 🍂 until I can’t see you anymore can I get into relationships and I don’t feel anymore at least for guys or anyone I just feel disgusted and I just don’t want to be loved by anyone anymore at least that way cause I never was loved for real in that way... (ps sorry if it doesn’t make any sense Bare with me it took a lot to write this😞)
hi bestie how are you feeling today ?
I'm sorry really
1:17 broke my heart 💔
what movie or series is that?
@@goaway7288 Reign on Netflix.
Adelaide was so good in This scene..
@@Rebecca-qf1ed I know right
This is just pure talent. Thank you for this. This is simply a work of art.
I just wanna give you all a hug😭❤..... Don't lose yourself girls...... Stay strong....... ❤
YOU ARE MORE POWERFUL THAT YOU THINK
DONT STAY IN SHADOWS
i was in fourth grade.
i thought it was normal.
oh my I hope your doing better
ladies and gentlemen who have been hurt like this, it was theyre fault, you did nothing wrong, you did not give them consent and you did the right thing trying to get them to stop, i love you
It was my own father that tried it to me. I was around 7. I'm 16 now and still trying to live with what he did to me and my family
... please stay strong
I'm just so tired of feeling afraid every moment of every day since it happend
Hi I’m so sorry that happened to you you’re so strong and it’s totally okay to feel afraid there are so many people who understand what you’re going through and you’re not in this alone! I’m so proud of you :)
Same
i didnt realize until months after the breakup. he wanted to do so many things and i ALWAYS said no bc we were young but he would touch me anywhere he could. and i kept on saying no. and MONTHS after the breakup, was when i realized that he was sexually assaulting me.
Rue ❤
This is very powerful, i love it!
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0:14-0:15 legacies
0:16-0:17 the 100
0:18-0:20 the end of the fucking world
0:21-0:22 13 reasons why
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0:27-0:29 TVD
0:30-0:30 13 reasons why
0:31-0:33 riverdale
0:34-0:35 regin
0:36-0:40 13 reasons why
0:41-0:44 the end of the fucking world
0:45-0:45 TVD
0:48-0:4713 reasons why
0:50-0:53 ????
0:54-0:57 shadowhunters
0:58-0:58 ????
0:59-1:05 13 reasons why
1:06-1:08 legacies
1:09-1:11 euphoria
1:12-1:13 the end of the fucking world
1:14-1:19 regin
1:20-1:23 TVD
1:24-1:27 the end of the fucking world
1:28-1:29 riverdale
1:30-1:30 unbelievable
1:31-1:33 13 reasons why
1:34-1:35 the end of the fucking world
1:36-1:37 ????
1:38-1:38 unbelievable
1:39-1:40 13 reasons why
1:41-1:44 ????
1:45-1:47 regin
1:48-1:50 TVD
1:51-1:52 euphoria
1:53-1:54 ????
1:55-1:56 euphoria?
1:57-1:57 The edge of seventeen
1:58-1:59 13 reasons why
2:00-2:01 unbelievable
2:01-2:04 13 reasons why
2:05-2:08 euphoria?
0:50-0:53 the 100
1:36-1:37 lucyfer
0:58-0:58 TVD
1:41-1:44 pretty little liars
1:53-1:54 teen wolf
this is so sad. This makes me cry. people of our own kinds can do such a thing to someones life. Its never okay. It hurts. Its trauma, and it haunts you. its more common then u think.
I’m so sorry to any girl this happens to please stay strong I love u💕I pray to protect all of us it’s scary out here we’re never safe 😪I also wanna say I know it is very hard to speak out about these things.But there are so many people even men that this happens to the more you speak up the sooner these monsters can pay for what they did.I love you queens and kings ❤️
The worst thing is after 8 years I can still feel him on me, his hands, this body, I can feel him inside me. I act like I’m fine but I’m not. This never leaves you it gets better, but it never leaves you
97 % guys. this is horrible i’m so sorry if you went through this. if you wanna talk i’ll always be there for you ! you’re strong !!
Hey
at all the strong woman who have gone thru SA, you are so strong, you didn’t deserve that. you are worth so much more. you are beautiful.
I have never been raped but sometimes I just feel like I have been ounces but I'm not sure, and I'm so sorry for the people who have had to go through that and deal with that no one including males do not deserve that and I hope everyone out there stays safe.
This touches my heart, ive been through so much and i just act like im okay but im really not but trying to be strong , its hard too get through stuff when you been raped, or abused or inn any kind of things like that, if your going though something you got this stay strong dont give up i know its hard. its hard for me right now, but always remember your not alone and i love you and your beautiful dont give up love itll be okay i promise.
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I love edits like this because you can tell the editors work hard.
My stomach literally dropped watching this. The amount of times we walk home with keys between our fingers, nervously laughing off a creepy comment, pretending to be on the phone, walking a little faster than normal. And it’s not okay girls gotta stick together
This is fantastically done. I’m so sorry you are feeling like this though. I don’t know you, but I’m sending a big hug your way. Nothing that happened was your fault 💕💕💕
Just want to say to all of you SPEAK UP, DON'T KEEP SILENT and at least one person will hear you and help you! You are strong, my girl and I'm proud of you and wish you happy life!
Told that few closer friends. Nobody can do anything about it. Nobody cares, even police. And he lives happily ever after🙂
I told my parents... They said it was my fault because we were high and me and this guy had sexual relations before. I said no and he mocked me for it.
Everyone in this comment section please remember, if your car was stolen..it is still YOUR car and nobody can change that unless you give them your car. You’re so strong. You’re not a victim, but a survivor and well done for it. I’m so proud of you.
I’m praying for everyone! God is always with you!
❤❤
Atheists and others, if you see this comment, please *please* don't start saying shit like "bUt tHeN wHy dID gOd LeT tHiS hAppEn tO uS?"
Like please, this person was just tryna write a nice wholesome comment
Taken me years to finally have someone believe me and it’s my boyfriend and I’ve never been happier then hearing him say he’ll stick by my side
It took me two years to realize what my father done too me.
At the time , I was his girl ,I was a daddy's girl.
Always stuck by him when I could ,cause he was in jail most of life (he's back in jail now) ,I do not like my father anymore ,I do not forgive him.
What he did was wrong but maybe I deserved it.
I've only told my best friend and my lover.
I'm scared of everyone I come in contact with ,friend ,family ,or not.
I still remember the whole day and everything that happened that night.
Hey 👋 I think you should know it’s ok you didn’t serve it
@@someoneelse3943 thank you
Noooo don’t ever say that nobody deserves that yet alone from YOUR FATHER someone who is supposed to protect you from the bad guys not become one I’m sorry luv
@@bugggg9319 Tysm:(
It means alot knowing people are on my side in this
i always felt bad for people who got raped. then i became one of those people.
I am sorry for what happened... you are so strong and brave. I hope you are ok, sending you my love 💜.
hey, this is really difficult for me to share, so please be gentle. :')
since i was a little girl, my dad had been doing bad things to me. he took away my innocence, and since he's my dad, i thought that what was happening was normal, until i realized it wasn't. when i figured it out, my world fell apart.
this was recently.
i'm still trying to heal from everything that he put me through - i'm still trying to be okay. i'm still trying to come to terms with the fact that it wasn't my fault & i didn't deserve what happened to me. one of the most difficult aspects of sexual assault that i & so many other people experience is the fear of people not believing you. i have trouble telling people about what happened to me because of this fear.
i know how hard it is for people to tell you that you're a liar when you disclose something so personal to you. my worst fear is becoming a liar to myself. so, to anyone in my situation or who have experienced any type abuse at all, please know: no matter what happened, i believe you. so many people believe you. it is NOT your fault. it never will be.
like i said, i'm still trying to learn to take my own advice. but we'll get better & we'll do it together. you're not alone.
I cried so hard when I got home cause I realized I let him do that too me😔🥺
I told him no and he covered my mouth and kept going
You are strong. You can make it. I know right now it feels hopeless but you are a fighter and if anyone deserves the world it is you. Yes, you.
I had the same problem I was sexually assaulted by my ex and raped and I haven't told anyone about it because I was scared it happened like a few months ago and I did not eat or sleep or came out of my bedroom at all, whenever someone tapped me on the shoulder or touched me I would always flinch or jump a little but I'm kind of over it now although I still get little jumps and flinches
I am so sorry this happened to you. I want you to know that you are strong and brave. Hope you are doing better because you deserve the best ❤
imagine having to just , hold it in for years . then everyone wondering why your so unstable at such a young age . If only people knew wha can happen.
Don't know if someone is reading this, but if you are: You are amazing and beautiful! I believe in you!❤
Hala you are amazing and beautiful too🌈
And i believe in you🍀
“maybe i did something i shouldn’t have, but i didn’t deserve that.” damn.
you are worthy of love
you are worthy of support
you are worthy of healing ❤️
i believe you. and i hear you. and it’s going to be okay i promise x
My stomach has been sick ever since that day. It’s like a stomach ache that won’t go away
I am so sorry for what happened... you are so strong and brave. If you need someone to talk to I'm here for you. Sending you my love 💜.
Hannah is like the most saddest character I’ve ever seen
The comments are baddier than the video I’m so sorry for all you girls that go through this shit like I know what it feels like it hurts like hell and you can’t stop it and all you can do is cry.
Protect women
And never betray them
WOMAN POWER
There was this situation where a guy took advantage of me. I was drunk and I just wanted to go home. I told him I was okay with some stuff but not full-on intimacy. He did it anyway and I told him I said no, he admitted he was wrong and apologized but then did it again. I pretended to like it and thought about someone else because if I pretended I wanted to do it, I thought could go home faster. After that incident, I was never the same...
I am sorry for what you went through... I want you to know that you are strong and brave ❤.
Beverly marsh should be on here with the situation with her dad !great edit ❤️
Holy fuck I seriously felt it when she said “I’m always in that house. I’m always in that room I can’t get out” cuz I always remember and see it everytime I close my eyes the room(s) it happened in.
My non-biological cousin raped me from ages 7-9. I'm 13 now. All of my family knows. I've been called an attention seeker, a liar, a bitch, a whore. All because of what he did, and all by my family. I cant deal with it anymore. My parents literally told me that they don't care, and that I was obviously lying. They told me, "This accusation could ruin his whole life!" So what? He ruined mine already. He took my innocence away from me at SEVEN, and kept taking more of it.
It gets so bad to the point where I'll have flashbacks in the middle of class, then have a mental breakdown. And I'm just so stressed, because my parents hate me already. I cant handle all of this. But somehow, I'm still pushing through.
I'm sorry. I believe you. I know how hard and painful it is for someone to do that to you. Your feelings are valid. I hope you can surround yourself with people that can understand how you feel and help you heal.
I believe you. I'm so sorry you've had to go through all this.
It makes me angry the way your parents try to laugh and forget about it. They should be rooting for you.
I hope you can reach out to friends or trusted adults and keep talking about it. Don't try to forget it. Keep fighting.
Thank you for sharing your story, I'm just so sorry you had to go through that and your cousin is just walking around doing whatever:(
When Alyssa said she's always in that room i felt it because I'm living in that room and I'm living in that same house all my life 17 years of hell
I just wanna hug them so hard
One night I got raped by a couple guys at a party. After a while I opened up to my mom about the situation. She basically told me it was my fault cause I shouldn’t have been wearing such a skimpy top saying quote on quote “Every action has consequence and if you throw a bone a dog you shouldn’t expect anything else.” She’s yet to apologize and still stands by her word. I’m in college now. She’s been trying to reconnect with me but I’m always very cold and distant with my responses. I can’t look at her the same anymore and honestly I want to just cut her out completely. But I’ll feel super guilty for doing that cause she’s always been a good mother before that. She paid for my school trips, bought me gifts, made me food, etc. Any advice?
I'm really sorry about what happened to you, what your mum said is truly disgusting and she should have never said that to you. In my personal opinion I would want her out of my life especially since she hasn't even apologised for such harmful words. You should not feel guilty for wanting her out your life, you did not nothing wrong.
@@georginab512 I told her once in the past that after her insensitive response I didn’t want her in my life anymore if that’s how she truly feels. But then she said that when she dies I’m gonna be devastated for not having spend any time with her. And I’m afraid that’s what’s gonna happen if I cut her out completely.
Dresses contribute a lot... Yes. But it no matter what you wear, you don't call for such.
I got sexually harassed by my brother and never knew that. I told my friends about it and that was the day I realized it was all sexual harassment. It was not a something a brother can do. I confronted my brother through text. He sent me some disgusting messages. Like it was my fault and he won’t stop. I never told my parents cause I didn’t want to.....Since then it feels like my brother hates me. Especially after my dad became a bit stricter to him. It feels like my fault but, at the same time I’m glad I finally managed to have courage to open up. Cause this frickin pisses me off how I kept everything to myself when I could’ve just told my close ones and everything would’ve been fine. My brother is a bit more aggressive towards me..But, that’s way better than being sexually harassed so idc....Ladies and Gentlemen please speak up. Don’t hide it. Don’t cover it up. Don’t lie to yourself. Don’t blame yourself. You’re better than that, SPEAK UP why the heck do you have a voice for? Why the fudge was the light bulbs invented or a candle? To light up the dark and see what was hiding in the dark. Please for the love of God and your mama speak up and make sure those idiots regret their decisions of touching, harassing, assaulting, or raping you. Make every second of their life hell. You’re not alone I’m here with you. We’re all here with you. You don’t have to walk alone. You can walk with us. Just remember it’s not your fault, not the clothe’s fault, not because you were high but, because they couldn’t control themselves. And it’s their frickin problem. You deserve better. God Bless you all!!! Stay Safe Ladies and Gentlemen!!!!
IT WAS MY COUSIN AND THE ONE PERSON I WANTED TO TELL DIDN'T BELIEVE ME! I WAS 7 AND I AM NOT OKAY AHEKVSISBS ITS DRIVING ME INSANE🤮🤮
I’m sorry that happened to you! I would try and talk to someone else about it and maybe they wil listen I hope you’re doing okay :)
I am so sorry I believe you know what I am going to tell you this rape doesn't define who you are as a person and you are worth more and you got this if I am strong enough to get through of what happened to me then you can if you ever need to talk I am here I believe you are heard and be strong
It was my cousin too I feel your pain 😔
Francis and Mary..... Oh. My. God... Thank you so much. For this video, for being you, for everything you have done. Thank you, so, so, much. ❤
Really having a hard time sleeping. Sometimes I dont think I can take on much more. Of this. I don't know what to do anymore.
if this happend to you remember there are people that can help you. there are help lines you can call you are not in this alone. i don't know if you believe in god but remember he is always with you and loves you no matter wat happens. you can pray and he will answer maybe not in the way you wanted but he is always there.
and if you think it's your fault remember. it is not your fault this happend to you and you can get through this don't ever stop believing that.
@@zowiezo_zoevanbrandwijk2342 yes it did happen. And I did blame myself. For while. I know I'm not alone in this. And one day I will over this
I'm sorry that happened to you
@@shel1314 hey I am so sorry that happened I was fourteen when I was raped so I know what you are going through if you ever need to talk and I am going to tell you this what happened to you doesn't define you and you are amazing and worth a lot more than you know i am here for you
“Do you need..do you need someone?..”💔that broke me insides because right now I need someone to hold me and tell me everything will be alright..”you are broken on the floor and your crying crying..” that’s me everyday and night..if you ever need someone there’s that one person who is there for you don’t hide the pain okay! Love you all
I am so sorry for what happened to you and for what you're going through... you are so strong and brave. You deserve hapiness, you deserve to live without fear and pain, you deserve the best. I hope you are doing better, if not please try to remember that you are an amazing person. I'm here talk to if you need to. Sending you my love 💜.
I am not raped but in our class boys talk about our breast size and but size... They talk about our body and sometimes look at us as it we are a meal... We girls tried to talk to our teachers but they didn't take any action... Our uniforms are skirts which kinda makes us self conscious and I hate it... Before anything I do I just think thousand times that how am I looking...
When I sometimes speak about this to my friends they just say that you are being a feminist...
I just finished watching the movie with the girl from the first video shown and she didn’t tell anyone no charges were pressed even though she told him to not touch her there.
I’m glad Netflix is bring awareness to things like that
I feel like I will never be able to get so close to someone and be able to have sex. I can't stand people touching me, especially boys. The truth is, men only want us for pur bodies, not for who we are. The only men I know that is diffrent is my father. Him and my mom been merried for 34 years and they were very young when my mom said she doesn't want to have anything with him in that way and that's what happend. But they are still together and merried, even if they don't have sex. The respect, love, friendship comes first for them. And they get along pretty well. Both of them are introverted and I think that's why they understand eachother so well and accept eachother as they are.
I hope you get better soon.
This song is so powerful. I was sexually assaulted twice and I’m a dancer… I picked this song for my first solo to bring awareness to it. My heart goes out to everyone going through something like this❤️
I’m always in that house and I’m always in that room is so true
I have been through some stuff I would rather not have been through. But Im here. I survived. Slowly but surely I know I will feel better. Its just hard.
Song: Broken- Isak danielson (he is super talented) 😍🤩
👍🏼 What a comment
I really need someone to hug him and cry on this shoulder 🥺🥺🥺
Hannah and Jessica from 13 reasons why broke my heart 🥺🥺💔
i feel so worthless… and he made me feel like i was worth something and then he shattered me completely, into pieces, when i feel like i might get over him i go back and fall again into him and i’m so lost, i just want to get over him. he doesn’t deserve to know what i went through when i was a little kid and why this break up has messed up with my head. i’m so lonely.
Oh great, youtube has decided to make me cry.
14 years ago, my brother's two best friends destroyed my life, and I was only 10. It still haunts me.
I worked a lot on therapy and I feel ok (but so angry). Some people say "you're not concerned about that" But I was concerned when I was a little girl. And I'm scared it could happens again, even if I'm a man now
I am so sorry this happened to you... sharing your story it takes a lot of courage, I hope you are doing better now because you deserve the best ❤
“Not all men” but it’s 2% away from being all women. Stay safe 2%
I was five. It was my cousin, my parents say I’m pathetic. I’ve been keeping the incident a secret for 11 years now. I am so tired…the memories keep me awake at night, the memories scare me in the daylight, I feel so tired.
I am sorry for what happened to you... you are so brave and strong... it takes a lot of courage to share your story and I want you to know that you deserve hapiness, you deserve the best ❤. I hope you are doing better.
I honestly dont know if it was sexual assault at this point. I was 6 and she was 7. she didnt know what she was doing. I said yes anyways so it was my fault. I just wish it never happened. I never wanted it to happen but I was scared to say no. it doesnt matter anyways. it's been years nobody would believe me anyways
It isn’t your fault children can’t give consent!!!!! I think you should tell someone what happened your story is valid even if no one believes you but you don’t know if people are gonna believe you unless you tell them I hope you’re doing okay tho :)
First of all, you were a child, you didn't understand anything, nobody can give consent at that age, second of all, you are allowed to change your mind, that's how people live, that's how life works and it's accepted in other places so why isn't it accepted here in a literal life or death situation.
Also please tell someone, go to your doctor tell them, tell a suicide prevention line, they are literally the only people that will listen. Please do this
How on earth did she know such at 7?