stop commenting "this and that person isn't abusive and shouldn't be in the video". have some respect for my hard work please. just because I put their scenes into the video doesn't mean that I think they're abusive but the scenes FIT for the theme of the video and that was the point. the point of the edit wasn't to direct at each character personally and attack them but to give an overall vibe about the toxicity of abusive families and that's why those scenes fit. so please stop commenting that, be mature and respectful. also, all movie and TV show names I used are in the description box!!
hey, i wanna know some of these shows/series/movies names, it would be helpful for me and many others, thank you. and btw great editing skills and song choice, loved it thoroughly!!
Abusive parents wonder why their kids dont want anything to do with them, but never think about the amount of trauma they put the kids through. It's hard to grow up with abusive parents. Because in most cases the kids hate their parents but love them because they feel the need to make them approve of them. I know that's how I feel about my abusive parents
@@maggie_29 hey. I just want to let you know, that you matter and you are in charge of your destiny. Dont let cruel family members take your future or happiness away from you
My mom only wanted me cause I was a girl and she thought we could bond but I ended up not liking dresses, make up, and pink.... she told me I’m a disappointment.... sorry if I spelled it wrong
Yeah that’s actually a big fear of mine: Having a kid and hating the responsibility, regretting it, and being sick of them. But I would never take it out on them because I hate seeing people in pain and it’s not their fault how their parent feels. I’d probably have really bad postpartum depression and just ask family and friends to help.
Imagine bringing a kid to this World, always love it and then Marry an abusive man and leave your Kind alone, abuse it... Thanks for nothing mom. For nothing.
Sometimes it’s because of the stigma of abortion. Sometimes when you don’t want a kid and you’re forced to have one or you’re raped and forced to have one you hate it. It could be because you married someone abusive and it carried out onto the kids. If it’s in foster care the parents are only taking care of it for money. There’s thousands of reasons.
Thats why I never want to be a mother. Ever. I'd rather die childless than treat my kids the way my mother treated me and my siblings. Im gonna break that vicious cycle of abuse...forever!
God doesn't give up on people! And we may talk about the trauma but the war doesn't stop that's where the survivors unite and we become a family! We fight everyday! We aren't our parents!
As soon as I saw that little kid crying I started sobbing. Don't bring a kid into this world if you know that you won't be able to love them for who they are or will be.
Yeah, when you do everything you can to not be there like so many sports, clubs, going over to friends houses, after school things, but even then you still have to come home at some point
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I'm always jealous of one of my friends, cause her mother always puts cute emoji and "I love you" after nearly every text message, and my mother will never do that. my mother doesn't even text me, unless its some useless article she wants me to read
I’m not allowed to cry, have friends, have my own preference, dress like how I want, watch what I want, text people, and so much more. They hit me when I’m trembling and force me to be okay accept that they’re good parents. Emotional blackmailing too. When I don’t feel like eating they talk about how I’m not gonna be able to eat soon because I refused and just force myself to shove it down the throat. If I cry I’m weak. It’s always do better.
@@am.ruth.aliya2168 You need to call 911 because the police actually will arrest someone for this type of abuse. Tell them exactly what you are going through, this can end the abuse.
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something,but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.
When your parents call you stupid cause you don't know how the real world works, but they haven't teach you how the real world works, how am I supposed to know? (Sorry for my english)
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.
My parents didn't have to teach me how the real world worked. Because the real world beat them to the punch. I saw the crew reality filled with abuse and poverty because I lived in a ghetto neighborhood and in a scary household was scary parents and scary family members. But luckily I had someone who loved me enough to show me how family should be treated
My mom just said I talk too much non sense because is asked her to stop generalizing strong women as "bossy" or "too bold" or "they'll never get a man". She loves saying the word "nonsense" to me. Like my opinion,words, thoughts doesn't matter because I'm kinda anti social and i don't have real world experiences too much. She'll continuously compare me with others and call me dumb, too much imaginative, dreamy, she says I'll never achieve anything. But I'm strong and I'm surviving these bs. The sad thing is...she is 100 % sure she's being a great parent and she will never understand the way she broke me. Literally out of all the times I've cried.. 98% were because of my mom's words and hatred.
@@sista363 they always think they are the best parents cause maybe they don't beat you up or they didn't abandon you like if the traumas are not there anyways. I hope you stay strong, i hope i stay strong 🤜🤛
The fact that this happens everyday is...just heartbreaking. I'm so sorry. You dont deserve any of this. You deserve so much more. I doubt anybody is going to listen but its okau
i hold my breath every time my parent passes by me as if that will help me be invisible. To everybody including me who silently cried while seeing part of ourselves in the clip i hope it gets better for us.
My parents are verbally and emotionally abusive and sometimes physically. My whole life they’ve been and I’ve always excused it because then they have their redeeming moments.. that’s why I thought it was all normal up until this year. Idk if I want kids... but I just can’t imagine bringing someone into this world and then treating them like this. If I do have kids... I want to treat them as I always wanted to be treated growing up.
Sometimes I'm scared of the thought of having children beacuse how can I be sure my partner will be a good parent? What if I'm not around, how will they treat my child? Ik I'll do my best to be a great parent for my child beacuse I never want them to feel what I'm feeling rn with my parents... But how can I be sure my future partner won't be abusive? Or won't slip up... This is why I have trust issues
I’ve always been interested in these types of films / shows. I grew up with abusive parents so I know how it feels. Not only verbally but physically as well. This montage is so saddening. And the song “Trauma” by NF is one of my favorites and fits the video perfectly.
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.
@@supravietuitoriblog547 Thank you so much for your comment, I really appreciate that. Recently I’ve gone through a lot of trauma but I’ve held a strong head on my shoulders and have a strong faith in God who has got me through my struggles. I’m also here if you ever want to talk, I’ll be with you.
This made me even more thankful for my loving parents, who always support and keep me safe. I‘m really sorry for all the people who are having parent issues, I really hope it’s getting better.
@@C0ffeeobssesed DAMN-...your Parents are NOT GOOD! :/ Sorry if that came off as rude but that had to be said. Because NO Parents in their right mind do/say these kind of things!
This comment section is literally making me cry.. Idk how many are going through abusive households including mine, I hope anyone who's reading this, they get happiness soon. Please stay strong and happy everyone ❤✨
I feel like it’s impossible to stay happy with all the bad memories and thoughts that I have. I try to distract my brain but I always think about the thoughts
OMG, I’M CRYING !! MY LOVES, I LOVE YOU ALL SOO MUCHH MY BEAUTIFUL ANGELS !! SENDING Y’ALL LOADS OF LOVEEEE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY, BIG HUGS AND KISSES !! MAY GOD BLESS Y’ALL SOOO ABUNDANTLY !! I can totally understand, both of my parents are physically and emotionally abusive and it breaks my heart that soo many of us have to go through such traumatic and heartbreaking experiences !! I’M SOO EXTREMELYYY PROUD OF Y’ALL NO MATTER WHAT !! MY LOVES, I’M ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED ME !! YOU’RE NOT ALONE MY ANGEL, WE’RE GONNA GET THROUGH THIS TOGETHER !! PLEASE PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND BE KIND AND COMPASSIONATE TO YOURSELF !! SOOO MUCH LOVEEE, POWER, STRENGTH AND GIANT HUGS TO Y’ALL !! We might not know each other but I deeply means this !! I’M SOO EXTREMELYYY PROUD OF Y’ALL NO MATTER WHAT !! Y’ALL ARE INSANELY WORTHY AND YOU ALL DESERVE THE ENTIRE WORLD MY LOVELY SOULS !! Y’ALL ARE SUCH BEAUTIFUL, AMAZING, ADORABLE AND LOVELY SOULS AND YOU MATTER SO DAMN MUCH !! MY LOVES, Y’ALL ARE ALWAYS MORE THAN ENOUGH AND INSANELY WORTHY NO MATTER WHAT !! I LOVE Y’ALL SOO DAMN MUCH MY BEAUTIFUL SOULS !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️😭🦋
When I say Billy Hargrove my heart shattered. All Billy knew was ABUSE! He loved Max with all his heart, and wanted to keep her safe. But he only knew what his father did, so he tried to keep Max safe by using his fathers ways. He wanted to express love to her but he didn’t know how... He only knew pain and hate. He was in pain and needed someone to love him. He needed comfort, but no one showed him love.
I used to think that once I leave home, once I'm older, I can finally start living. The truth is the hurt comes with you and consumes you all at once. you realise you have so much trauma you thought didn't exist.
I live in a emotional abuse family and I ran away when I was younger but got caught and I sit here every night crying and talking to my only friend I’m so tired of it I’m so sad I wish I could just die or live in a place where people would accept me
You got this be strong dont let that shit happen no more fight bsck you have to pray to god call his name and if you need anyone to talk to im here to talk my discord account is dstgirlshriser 1915
There are shelters. Or if you have friends you could stay with them. Or if you're able to get your own place you could do that and move in without telling them. And just buy what you need after (I'd suggest taking what you can carry in hand and leaving the rest, unfortunately). Are you an adult now? If so, and your family calls the police, the police can't bring you back because it's legal for you to go.
What hurt the most is when they say it's out of love when your on the ground crying and screaming for help but they cover your mouth and tell you to shut up. But it's out of love right?
@@jcharmaine1 They're trying to brainwash YOU into thinking it's love. Abusers have a plot, they're wicked and the Bible literally states that "The wicked plot and scheme" and these people plot their entire approach, maybe not most of the time, but their tactics are SO similar, people can relate to having Narc abusers to the point where it seems like they're getting their manipulation tactics from a book
I don’t know why but somehow this video is…strangely comforting? And coming to the comments is even more and I can’t really explain it. I feel less alone. Thank you for this video. Even if the characters are fictional, the message and meaning is not ❤️
This video reminds me everytime of how lucky I am to have parents who would go off their limits to provide me everything I need and will need no matter how much struggle, anguish they have to go through and all I want them to know is I AM SO GRATEFUL for everything they've done for me and will do for me. I'm so sorry if I wasn't the daughter you both deserved trust me i'm trying my best and I promise I won't ever let you down !!!
I've seen a lot of these abusive parents multifandom videos and I've got to say this really is the best one. The editing and emotion of this video is well done and as someone who had an abusive mother it hits home.
And then my mother asks me that why I don't want to be around her and dad, that why I don't want to spend much more time with them. You see.. mum it's complicated.
Damn!! As someone who was abused by a parent, I relate to this on so many levels. My father never told me he loved me, always belittled me, screamed at me, and everything. 😭😭 I'm so sorry for anyone who had to deal with a horrible parent or parents. @Petrova Army, you did a great job on this montage. 👏
I’ve been physically, and psychologically abused for so long that as I grew older my mom wonders why I’m not close with her and plays victim if I don’t cater as her “best friend”
i just want someone to hold me so i can cry into their shoulders because i didnt have friends that would do that but what hurts the most is i dont have parents that would do that
I got abused emotionally, physically by both my parents, and severel other family members. I never met someone with similar experiences and I feel so fucking sick because of it, I'm only a kid. I saw so much sickness, death, fear. I want to end me, I'm just a broken human not able to live properly, I feel kinda like a bird with a fear of heights, not being able to do what all the others do, not even able to exist.
Same bro...my father breaks me down emotionally every day...his actions hurt me a lot..he doesn't care about me ....neither he talks to me.....whenever I do a mistake he punishes me verbally otherwise he doesn't open his mouth to appreciate me despite of my good rankings every year in school..he never said me happy birthday but he used to say it to my cousin that hurts a lot
it hurts when they take everything out on you even if it’s something they don’t like about themselves and then they wanna act like nothing ever happens
I guess it wouldn't have fit, but I wish Nick's relationship with his dad from New Girl was on here. I never really related in how our dads were terrible but the feeling of explaining over and over again how terrible our father was and him being able to charisma his way into everyone thinking that we just never gave him a chance has always rattled me to my core. I've been able to relate with many other characters with abusive parents before, but it's one of the few times that I've seen that particular thing portrayed.
The feeling when despite the threat of bullying and school shootings and whatsoever you feel safer and happier at school then you ever can at home and feel better away from it
And they wonder why we don’t open up to them, why we don’t talk to them like when we were younger, why we distance ourselves, why we stop calling them mom and dad.
You know what hurts more than physical and emotional abuse? It is the feeling of being trapped and controlled and live by ur own parent's rules. It is that you want to fly high but ur wings have been chained so deep every time you try to fly. It's the fact that ur parents loves u in their own toxic way but doesn't understand you.
I feel bad for anyone who has gone through anything even close to this. Please know you are loved. You don’t have to feel worthless because of the way your parents or anyone treat you. You’re amazing by yourself, and anyone who is deserving of you will surely show you the love you deserve. ❤️
i have started having mental disorder at the age of 6 i am tired both mentally and physically no i am 14 my birthdays are like hell all i get in gift is curse or got beaten by them even my young siblings beat me and i can say nothing my parents say that my feelings are drama i have tried my best to be happy but i cant thank to BTS their songs save me give me hope of happy life my parents say that i am not afraid of anything actually i am i stay in my room all day all i do is study or spend time on internet but its become dark in my room i gt scared when i go downstairs to them bcz i am afraid they told me to go back in a rude way i am tired
aeri-ahh don't cry , you are not a disappointment , you are the best , don't think like that you know what? if you have any problem say it to me i'm here ,our fandom is here . just think i'm your sister say your problems to me . ok?
All I remember was being beaten almost every day for something as simple as forgetting to fold the laundry, or treated with hate and being called a corpse..she changed over time, but I can never get my childhood back and those are trauma.
I almost cried. I really did want to. But I didn’t want to cry in front of my family, it’s not like they’d notice anyways but I don’t want to walk to my room crying. Its really sad to see all of these people with parents who hate them and all the parents treating them in various ways, leaving them, abusing them, ignoring them, and so many more ways and it just hurts to hear about it.
This messed me soo much , I get overly attached to people who notice me . I've sufferd relationships because of it , my parents didn't love me that's ok but my girlfriend my love, I never think I loved anyone more than her , left me it still leaves me numb all I do when Im alone is miss her , I wanted her to stay even she didn't want me. She gave me love and care which I never had, I just miss her presence those really were the best days of my life.
Being honest...this brought pain in my soul and heart, for anyone who has been abused by there parents...I am so so so sorry you had to deal with that, and I pray things will get better
This video hits way too much to "home"- it makes me tear up because everytime i see a scene it reminds me of my abusive household- It sucks but it comforts me...
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stop commenting "this and that person isn't abusive and shouldn't be in the video". have some respect for my hard work please. just because I put their scenes into the video doesn't mean that I think they're abusive but the scenes FIT for the theme of the video and that was the point. the point of the edit wasn't to direct at each character personally and attack them but to give an overall vibe about the toxicity of abusive families and that's why those scenes fit.
so please stop commenting that, be mature and respectful.
also, all movie and TV show names I used are in the description box!!
Exactly
Exactly!!
I think this video was amazing!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Petrоvа Armу oh I’m sorry I didn’t see this comment. Ignore the comment I posted.
hey, i wanna know some of these shows/series/movies names, it would be helpful for me and many others, thank you. and btw great editing skills and song choice, loved it thoroughly!!
Abusive parents wonder why their kids dont want anything to do with them, but never think about the amount of trauma they put the kids through. It's hard to grow up with abusive parents. Because in most cases the kids hate their parents but love them because they feel the need to make them approve of them. I know that's how I feel about my abusive parents
I never had abusive parents but i had a friend that would get in my head mentally it hurts like hell
Im sorry
What the na me of the movie in 2:59 please
@@tiya2958 no idea
@@tiya2958 its riverdale :) and its series
*imagine bringing a kid into this world and hating it*
My dad indirectly admitted that he doesn’t love me... it f**king sucks💔
@@maggie_29 hey. I just want to let you know, that you matter and you are in charge of your destiny. Dont let cruel family members take your future or happiness away from you
My mom only wanted me cause I was a girl and she thought we could bond but I ended up not liking dresses, make up, and pink.... she told me I’m a disappointment.... sorry if I spelled it wrong
Yeah that’s actually a big fear of mine: Having a kid and hating the responsibility, regretting it, and being sick of them. But I would never take it out on them because I hate seeing people in pain and it’s not their fault how their parent feels. I’d probably have really bad postpartum depression and just ask family and friends to help.
Imagine bringing a kid to this World, always love it and then Marry an abusive man and leave your Kind alone, abuse it... Thanks for nothing mom. For nothing.
How can you have children only to treat them like that? It's something I'll never ever understand.
well, our parents do that.
Because a bunch of people think abortions are wrong and think it's better for kids to end up in shitty lives like this
Sometimes it’s because of the stigma of abortion. Sometimes when you don’t want a kid and you’re forced to have one or you’re raped and forced to have one you hate it. It could be because you married someone abusive and it carried out onto the kids. If it’s in foster care the parents are only taking care of it for money. There’s thousands of reasons.
Thats why I never want to be a mother. Ever. I'd rather die childless than treat my kids the way my mother treated me and my siblings. Im gonna break that vicious cycle of abuse...forever!
My mom gets drunks every day 😭😭😭😭 no joke i just wanted to die everything IT HAPPENS
I want every single person watching this video to promise me promise we won't grow up to be like our parents.
I promise hahah
but quick question: is it just me or does it start to be normalized for parents to beat up their children
I promise
I promise
@@lol-wr4dx it's getting normalise for no reason..... Sadly
I promise
being abused both physically and emotionally for almost 17 years is not an easy thing to forget
I can feel you it's ok just accept the fate. Now I think God is also slowly giving up on me 🙃🙃
God doesn't give up on people! And we may talk about the trauma but the war doesn't stop that's where the survivors unite and we become a family! We fight everyday! We aren't our parents!
bestie I hope ur feeling ok I luv u and I care abt u it hurts to see u so hurt so pls get better :< I'll be here if u need to chat
@@Kate-gg4ws thank you just a nice person that means a ton to me and same to you
@@hollytyler2111
Shameless sad edits just hit diffrent dont you think?
Ong they do .
@@miyah7946 yea
Fr
yes
Yea I cry every time I see them
7: I wanna be older
13: I wanna be younger
21: I wanna die
Please stay strong
Plz stay strong
50:I'm glad I stayed this strong 💖
5 I want to be older
8 I want to be younger
12 I want to be dead
16 still want to die
Why do so many people relate to that? Wait, no, I know. Hope you’re okay.
“This place might be my house, but I can't remember the last time it felt like home.”
- Me
Same way I feel most times😞
Same
literally, never feel safe anywhere
@@m4h4liaexactly. worst feeling is when you don’t wanna go home from school but you don’t want to be there either.
fr
As soon as I saw that little kid crying I started sobbing. Don't bring a kid into this world if you know that you won't be able to love them for who they are or will be.
That would literally happen to me daily
Thats why i dojt want kids. Im afraid im gonna be like my Parents
That scene reminded me of all the times I did cry and couldn’t because my mom would threaten to beat me again if I did
@@melisauniverse4453 Unfortunately, I am still going through the same thing but with my dad. I hope you're okay and know that you are loved❤
@@Catloafcafe I hope your doing okay as well stay strong 💖
the worst feeling in the entire world is being scared of your own family. your own home.
Tbh idk if i have a place to call home. For 7 years idk if i have a safe place. I agree to you, it is very very scary to be scared of your own family.
Yeah, when you do everything you can to not be there like so many sports, clubs, going over to friends houses, after school things, but even then you still have to come home at some point
In any home with them it was never safe..
Yes, then I am the unluckiest person in this entiree world. I am scared of my parents.
i know that feeling very well.
It’s a sad and painful feeling when the two people who brought you into the world makes you wanna be out of the world......
Yeah oh my god yeah beyond hell
Yea it definitely is and I feel exactly the way you sad every single second of every day
it hurts to relate to this. ive attempted so many times because of them and i know i will in the future aswell..
Relatable
3:35 I broke down after seeing this scene and I'm still crying because I know what that feels like
Im sorry u had to face that, if u ever need someone to talk to I’m here
makes you feel disgusting
Mm, The fact that my own dad told me To go and kill myself when I was 11years old
i've been through the same if u ever want to talk about it
@@MinTae07 im so sorry. are you okay?
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Germany. Really need
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
Is he on instagram?
Yes, he is dr.porassss.
Microdosing helped me get out of the pit of my worst depressive episode, a three year long episodeenough to start working on my mental health
Imagine not getting gaslighted and abused by the people who we’re supposed to care and love the most.
Must be nice...
Yes it's is nice...
Really sorry for all of you, stay strong I'm sure you will find someone who is you're sunshine and will take care of you
@@rishitasplaylist6679 You know what, that’s exactly what I was thinking, I like people like you
yeah, i can only imagine:( it sucks.
I'm really happy that there are people who don't have to go through that. Sometimes just knowing that is comforting.
I'm always jealous of one of my friends, cause her mother always puts cute emoji and "I love you" after nearly every text message, and my mother will never do that. my mother doesn't even text me, unless its some useless article she wants me to read
I’m not allowed to cry, have friends, have my own preference, dress like how I want, watch what I want, text people, and so much more. They hit me when I’m trembling and force me to be okay accept that they’re good parents. Emotional blackmailing too. When I don’t feel like eating they talk about how I’m not gonna be able to eat soon because I refused and just force myself to shove it down the throat. If I cry I’m weak. It’s always do better.
Omg that’s HORRIBLE I’m so so so sorry
igy,i go through this everyday. we're just helpless.
@@am.ruth.aliya2168 You need to call 911 because the police actually will arrest someone for this type of abuse. Tell them exactly what you are going through, this can end the abuse.
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as someone who is abused by my parents i dont want anyone to go through this. i can feel what they felt and it makes me really angry and sad
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something,but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.
same same mine even threathned to kill me when i was 8 :D
my mom is abusive but my dad tries to protect me
Non of my parents are abusive they help me to grow in live . I'm happy !!
When your parents call you stupid cause you don't know how the real world works, but they haven't teach you how the real world works, how am I supposed to know? (Sorry for my english)
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.
@@supravietuitoriblog547 You are lovely, thank you ❤️❤️
My parents didn't have to teach me how the real world worked. Because the real world beat them to the punch. I saw the crew reality filled with abuse and poverty because I lived in a ghetto neighborhood and in a scary household was scary parents and scary family members. But luckily I had someone who loved me enough to show me how family should be treated
My mom just said I talk too much non sense because is asked her to stop generalizing strong women as "bossy" or "too bold" or "they'll never get a man". She loves saying the word "nonsense" to me. Like my opinion,words, thoughts doesn't matter because I'm kinda anti social and i don't have real world experiences too much. She'll continuously compare me with others and call me dumb, too much imaginative, dreamy, she says I'll never achieve anything. But I'm strong and I'm surviving these bs. The sad thing is...she is 100 % sure she's being a great parent and she will never understand the way she broke me. Literally out of all the times I've cried.. 98% were because of my mom's words and hatred.
@@sista363 they always think they are the best parents cause maybe they don't beat you up or they didn't abandon you like if the traumas are not there anyways. I hope you stay strong, i hope i stay strong 🤜🤛
The fact that this happens everyday is...just heartbreaking. I'm so sorry. You dont deserve any of this. You deserve so much more. I doubt anybody is going to listen but its okau
That made me feel a little better,I’m so grateful thank you🥺❤️
Thank you army ⟬⟭💜
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i hold my breath every time my parent passes by me as if that will help me be invisible. To everybody including me who silently cried while seeing part of ourselves in the clip i hope it gets better for us.
How can parents expect their children to respect and still love them, when they have put too much trauma to them
Fr tho... Then make fun of who you love.
My parents are verbally and emotionally abusive and sometimes physically. My whole life they’ve been and I’ve always excused it because then they have their redeeming moments.. that’s why I thought it was all normal up until this year.
Idk if I want kids... but I just can’t imagine bringing someone into this world and then treating them like this.
If I do have kids... I want to treat them as I always wanted to be treated growing up.
Trust me I can sympathize with that my dad was also both physically and verbally abusive with me and my mother.
Sometimes I'm scared of the thought of having children beacuse how can I be sure my partner will be a good parent?
What if I'm not around, how will they treat my child?
Ik I'll do my best to be a great parent for my child beacuse I never want them to feel what I'm feeling rn with my parents...
But how can I be sure my future partner won't be abusive?
Or won't slip up...
This is why I have trust issues
I can guarantee they thought the same way when they were young. Then you grow up. It's a cruel world out there.
i hope youre safe and i hope you now feel loved... im proud of you
Same honestly I don't want to be a parent because I have this fear of becoming like them I don't want my child to cry like I do because of me
Billy from stranger thing is my favourite “hated child” kinda concept because rlly nobody knew what was happening while everyone hated him
I’ve always been interested in these types of films / shows. I grew up with abusive parents so I know how it feels. Not only verbally but physically as well. This montage is so saddening. And the song “Trauma” by NF is one of my favorites and fits the video perfectly.
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you want to talk to someoane who understands, i'm here for you.
@@supravietuitoriblog547 Thank you so much for your comment, I really appreciate that. Recently I’ve gone through a lot of trauma but I’ve held a strong head on my shoulders and have a strong faith in God who has got me through my struggles. I’m also here if you ever want to talk, I’ll be with you.
@@thechelseachannel794 I'm happy for you! Thanks!
"daddy dont leave me, please, daddy dont leave me!" That hurt me so bad..
This made me even more thankful for my loving parents, who always support and keep me safe. I‘m really sorry for all the people who are having parent issues, I really hope it’s getting better.
This absolutely breaks my heart. Let’s try, as a generation; to do better for our own kids 💜
you should say that to my dad he just broke my nose the other day and my mom was cheering for him 👁👄👁
@@C0ffeeobssesed Same my mom encourage my dad to beat me
@@user-iq2ie4qk5x I'm so sorry that you have to go through that I hope one day our lives will get better mate :')
@@C0ffeeobssesed DAMN-...your Parents are NOT GOOD! :/
Sorry if that came off as rude but that had to be said. Because NO Parents in their right mind do/say these kind of things!
it's kinda sad how we can't say our problems to parents, but have to keep them to ourselves.
"kinda" sad
KINDA!?!!!
My whole family is like this constantly, and being a single child I'm generally alone. I completely feel what these people are
This comment section is literally making me cry.. Idk how many are going through abusive households including mine, I hope anyone who's reading this, they get happiness soon. Please stay strong and happy everyone ❤✨
I feel like it’s impossible to stay happy with all the bad memories and thoughts that I have. I try to distract my brain but I always think about the thoughts
It's better to say you are fine then telling them what's killing you inside - Joker
“i wish you’d just love me back” I wasn’t what he wanted. i disappoint him. I’m scared of him. i’m not allowed to be a child.
OMG, I’M CRYING !! MY LOVES, I LOVE YOU ALL SOO MUCHH MY BEAUTIFUL ANGELS !! SENDING Y’ALL LOADS OF LOVEEEE, BLESSINGS, POSITIVE ENERGY, BIG HUGS AND KISSES !! MAY GOD BLESS Y’ALL SOOO ABUNDANTLY !! I can totally understand, both of my parents are physically and emotionally abusive and it breaks my heart that soo many of us have to go through such traumatic and heartbreaking experiences !! I’M SOO EXTREMELYYY PROUD OF Y’ALL NO MATTER WHAT !! MY LOVES, I’M ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU IF YOU NEED ME !! YOU’RE NOT ALONE MY ANGEL, WE’RE GONNA GET THROUGH THIS TOGETHER !! PLEASE PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND BE KIND AND COMPASSIONATE TO YOURSELF !! SOOO MUCH LOVEEE, POWER, STRENGTH AND GIANT HUGS TO Y’ALL !! We might not know each other but I deeply means this !! I’M SOO EXTREMELYYY PROUD OF Y’ALL NO MATTER WHAT !! Y’ALL ARE INSANELY WORTHY AND YOU ALL DESERVE THE ENTIRE WORLD MY LOVELY SOULS !! Y’ALL ARE SUCH BEAUTIFUL, AMAZING, ADORABLE AND LOVELY SOULS AND YOU MATTER SO DAMN MUCH !! MY LOVES, Y’ALL ARE ALWAYS MORE THAN ENOUGH AND INSANELY WORTHY NO MATTER WHAT !! I LOVE Y’ALL SOO DAMN MUCH MY BEAUTIFUL SOULS !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️😭🦋
When I say Billy Hargrove my heart shattered.
All Billy knew was ABUSE! He loved Max with all his heart, and wanted to keep her safe. But he only knew what his father did, so he tried to keep Max safe by using his fathers ways. He wanted to express love to her but he didn’t know how... He only knew pain and hate. He was in pain and needed someone to love him. He needed comfort, but no one showed him love.
I used to think that once I leave home, once I'm older, I can finally start living. The truth is the hurt comes with you and consumes you all at once. you realise you have so much trauma you thought didn't exist.
You may find thousands of amazing people in your life but not having loving parents can never be healed, a huge part of you will always be broken.
I live in a emotional abuse family and I ran away when I was younger but got caught and I sit here every night crying and talking to my only friend I’m so tired of it I’m so sad I wish I could just die or live in a place where people would accept me
keep on being strong, you got this. it will all be better one day, you just have to hang in there.
You got this be strong dont let that shit happen no more fight bsck you have to pray to god call his name and if you need anyone to talk to im here to talk my discord account is dstgirlshriser 1915
There are shelters. Or if you have friends you could stay with them. Or if you're able to get your own place you could do that and move in without telling them. And just buy what you need after (I'd suggest taking what you can carry in hand and leaving the rest, unfortunately). Are you an adult now? If so, and your family calls the police, the police can't bring you back because it's legal for you to go.
Sometimes you have to call 911
SHAMELESS IS SO SAD
What hurt the most is when they say it's out of love when your on the ground crying and screaming for help but they cover your mouth and tell you to shut up. But it's out of love right?
They were brainwashed into thinking it's love
@@jcharmaine1 They're trying to brainwash YOU into thinking it's love. Abusers have a plot, they're wicked and the Bible literally states that "The wicked plot and scheme" and these people plot their entire approach, maybe not most of the time, but their tactics are SO similar, people can relate to having Narc abusers to the point where it seems like they're getting their manipulation tactics from a book
I don’t know why but somehow this video is…strangely comforting? And coming to the comments is even more and I can’t really explain it. I feel less alone. Thank you for this video. Even if the characters are fictional, the message and meaning is not ❤️
Thank you for including Sam and Dean! John was an absolute horrible father. This is amazing! You’re talent is unbelievable!
Imagine being told your entire life mom will always be here for you no matter what and than she just walks out
Can we all make a promise that we would never traumatize our child? Unless its something that cant be avoided, and at least try to hide it?
I promise
"i'm proud of you" said john, and dean knew. that wasn't his father.
This video reminds me everytime of how lucky I am to have parents who would go off their limits to provide me everything I need and will need no matter how much struggle, anguish they have to go through and all I want them to know is I AM SO GRATEFUL for everything they've done for me and will do for me. I'm so sorry if I wasn't the daughter you both deserved trust me i'm trying my best and I promise I won't ever let you down !!!
I've seen a lot of these abusive parents multifandom videos and I've got to say this really is the best one. The editing and emotion of this video is well done and as someone who had an abusive mother it hits home.
And then my mother asks me that why I don't want to be around her and dad, that why I don't want to spend much more time with them.
You see.. mum it's complicated.
why do the people who are supposed to love me unconditionally cause me so much pain?
Damn!! As someone who was abused by a parent, I relate to this on so many levels. My father never told me he loved me, always belittled me, screamed at me, and everything. 😭😭 I'm so sorry for anyone who had to deal with a horrible parent or parents.
@Petrova Army, you did a great job on this montage. 👏
I’ve been physically, and psychologically abused for so long that as I grew older my mom wonders why I’m not close with her and plays victim if I don’t cater as her “best friend”
i just want someone to hold me so i can cry into their shoulders because i didnt have friends that would do that but what hurts the most is i dont have parents that would do that
I just want someone to make me feel safe, because no one has ever shown that to me
I was 14. and a victim of child abuse by my mother. She was kidnapped I was 18. She's about my disappearance.
0:10 Billy deserved so much 🥺
The way I'm crying because I've been through all of this
"I waited for you for years, but you didn't come."
That hit me so hard.......
I got abused emotionally, physically by both my parents, and severel other family members. I never met someone with similar experiences and I feel so fucking sick because of it, I'm only a kid.
I saw so much sickness, death, fear. I want to end me, I'm just a broken human not able to live properly, I feel kinda like a bird with a fear of heights, not being able to do what all the others do, not even able to exist.
Same bro...my father breaks me down emotionally every day...his actions hurt me a lot..he doesn't care about me ....neither he talks to me.....whenever I do a mistake he punishes me verbally otherwise he doesn't open his mouth to appreciate me despite of my good rankings every year in school..he never said me happy birthday but he used to say it to my cousin that hurts a lot
Please stay strong. God loves you
They'll never know what it feels like inside. Finding comfort in other people's pain is concerning, sickening but at the same time beautiful😅
it hurts when they take everything out on you even if it’s something they don’t like about themselves and then they wanna act like nothing ever happens
3:48 I can't explain how badly I want to do this but I can't
Praying for all the people who dealt with parents that were abusive🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
reading these comments made me feel so warm and appreciated. Thank you everyone for your nice words
Thank you for making this video it shows exactly what it is like to grow up in a dysfunctional family.
Yeah this is why if I ever have kids, I’m going to adopt. They deserve to feel safe and loved
Stiles father wasn't abusive, stiles was hallucinating
Read her comment.
@@redhairedhoe I did
Just seeing the little boy at the end there cry made me tear up😭😭😭😭
"No thanks to you cause you Weren't HERE!" That hit me the most. Just like what my mother did 6 years ago
3:21
I guess it wouldn't have fit, but I wish Nick's relationship with his dad from New Girl was on here. I never really related in how our dads were terrible but the feeling of explaining over and over again how terrible our father was and him being able to charisma his way into everyone thinking that we just never gave him a chance has always rattled me to my core. I've been able to relate with many other characters with abusive parents before, but it's one of the few times that I've seen that particular thing portrayed.
The feeling when despite the threat of bullying and school shootings and whatsoever you feel safer and happier at school then you ever can at home and feel better away from it
My parents aren't directly abusive. It's just they watched me get physically and sexually abused by my brother and did nothing about it.
And they wonder why we don’t open up to them, why we don’t talk to them like when we were younger, why we distance ourselves, why we stop calling them mom and dad.
Underrated video. This editing is perfection.
thank you so much!
*The worst feeling ever is being in your own house, and feeling like you need to go home.*
You know what hurts more than physical and emotional abuse? It is the feeling of being trapped and controlled and live by ur own parent's rules. It is that you want to fly high but ur wings have been chained so deep every time you try to fly. It's the fact that ur parents loves u in their own toxic way but doesn't understand you.
I can hear this without crying cuz I'm used to it. I'm numb.
"why didnt they call for help?"
we're scared. if it doesnt work out, wont our parents act worse? them finding out..
Through foster care through mental and physical abuse i wouldn't ever put my kid through what ive been through. A mother protects her own ❤️
You did a great job. The song ( I already knew him before and the artist of it is my favourite one) fits perfectly with the cuts you did.
i remember first watching this before further watching teen wolf. i was so hurt to see stiles’ dad to treat him like that. im (odly) relieved now
He is the best dad🥹
@@TibornéPálmai agreed! i love stilinski so much :,) seriously can’t think of a better father
"You were my mother too" this line makes me cry everytime💔
Is this only me but I live my most of the time in imaginary world, because reality is harsh 🙃
same :/
Emotional physical abuse feels like you're drowning in an ocean with no shore only a black hole that keeps pulling you down
3:38 props to that woman!!
I feel bad for anyone who has gone through anything even close to this. Please know you are loved. You don’t have to feel worthless because of the way your parents or anyone treat you. You’re amazing by yourself, and anyone who is deserving of you will surely show you the love you deserve. ❤️
i have started having mental disorder at the age of 6 i am tired both mentally and physically no i am 14 my birthdays are like hell all i get in gift is curse or got beaten by them even my young siblings beat me and i can say nothing my parents say that my feelings are drama i have tried my best to be happy but i cant thank to BTS their songs save me give me hope of happy life my parents say that i am not afraid of anything actually i am i stay in my room all day all i do is study or spend time on internet but its become dark in my room i gt scared when i go downstairs to them bcz i am afraid they told me to go back in a rude way i am tired
"You were just pissed off you couldn't control me anymore". I didn't realise this until now...
I am not abused physically but mentally and I literally feel that the moment I disappoint them will be the last second i would be their daughter..
aeri-ahh don't cry , you are not a disappointment , you are the best , don't think like that
you know what? if you have any problem say it to me
i'm here ,our fandom is here . just think i'm your sister say your problems to me . ok?
All I remember was being beaten almost every day for something as simple as forgetting to fold the laundry, or treated with hate and being called a corpse..she changed over time, but I can never get my childhood back and those are trauma.
Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child!
the fact that i relate to almost everything in this video
I almost cried. I really did want to. But I didn’t want to cry in front of my family, it’s not like they’d notice anyways but I don’t want to walk to my room crying. Its really sad to see all of these people with parents who hate them and all the parents treating them in various ways, leaving them, abusing them, ignoring them, and so many more ways and it just hurts to hear about it.
Fr:(
OMG DID ANY OF YOU NOTICED THE ORIGINALS AND TVD
Also i cant be the only heartless person trying to make themselves cry rn
This is the most painful and traumatized situation in the world.... This is showing my past life 😭💔
i open up already to my parents now the situation got worst
Shameless ):
This felt like the longest 4 minutes and 5 seconds every.
I can relate to this cuz of my mom
im so sorry.please get out before its too late
This messed me soo much , I get overly attached to people who notice me . I've sufferd relationships because of it , my parents didn't love me that's ok but my girlfriend my love, I never think I loved anyone more than her , left me it still leaves me numb all I do when Im alone is miss her , I wanted her to stay even she didn't want me. She gave me love and care which I never had, I just miss her presence those really were the best days of my life.
Being honest...this brought pain in my soul and heart, for anyone who has been abused by there parents...I am so so so sorry you had to deal with that, and I pray things will get better
This video hits way too much to "home"- it makes me tear up because everytime i see a scene it reminds me of my abusive household-
It sucks but it comforts me...