Nightmare in Suburbia: For the Love of Money S2E2 | A True Story
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- Produced by Nine Lives Media, Nightmare In Suburbia covers Real-life suburban crimes, mixing expert analysis with dramatic re-enactments. This Episode was the fifth episode from the second series.
This episode covered when a young mother vanished in Hertfordshire. Police suspected she'd run off with a lover so when they found her body they had only one suspect in mind.
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Red flags from the start as a martial arts teacher he should never have been having an intimate relationship with one of his 16yr old students. Narcissistic, controlling man
Exactly. Pedophile behavior.
He is not the only one.
Older chaps interested in a school girl to me have pedo tendency it’s a pity she ever got involved with him but her dad wouldn’t have stopped her going she would have gone always see a clear picture in the beginning something is odd about a person
Exactly 🎯
@@nicoleantoine7568 I can't even watch past the first two minutes. The language they're using is so disturbing.
There's no question he's a pedo. The age of consent may be 16 in the UK but not w/a teacher or any adult, serving in such a capacity. This is a British series! So, why are they leaving this out of the equation?
Secondly, we have to stop using the language of these predators. They stated in this show they were having a relationship. They were not having an intimate relationship anymore than you can say any adult who preys upon any child is having an intimate relationship w/them.
If he was preying upon a toddler, would they say they were having an intimate relationship? Of course not, so at what age have they decided a minor is having an intimate relationship w/an adult?
This isn't the first show that's used this language. I've seen it on numerous US productions, as well.
A woman is reported missing. A few days later her car is found abandoned. The police do not do a forensic examination of the car before handing it back to the primary suspect. Sherlock Holmes would be appalled.
Yes. Bad policing. Why pay them then to protect n serve?!
What?????? How stupid 😡😡
Very negligent. disgrace the way that the investigation was conducted. She was dead when she was reported missing. Imagine the police stating that they would need to wait 6 weeks. Wow by then any evidence would be long gone. Are these services really serving the public? I think not.
Totally agree with you.
Very incompetent and idiotic police work....
He couldn’t believe Garry killed his wife 😱, The same Garry that groomed a 15,16 year old girl 🤷🏻♀️. SHEEEESH.......
Yes it’s not like there weren’t RED FLAGS glaringly obvious from the very start
@@lukebignell7846 high level sports coaches for young people seem to have a particular swaying power and huge access to the young people, the teenagers . A swim coach in Ireland sexually abused a number of high performing teenage female swimmers and got away with it for years. It only came to light when a guy who was also a talented swimmer as a youth and noticed how many of the girls did not do well in adult life, he trained as a doctor and then went back asking questions and many told him. It was all in the newspapers. Later on the coach went to Scotland to work and the business woman in charge of employing him was able to discount all these ”stories”.
Having said that there is a piece that one would wonder about a parent being a chaperone, even if they had to fund raise. In the movie industry there are strict rules for underage actors- I imagine that did not come about without horrible mistakes in the past.
Hard for me to understand how a 16 year old is allowed to go away with a man twice her age.
It's easy when you understand her parents let her.
So gross, they could have said H🤮LL NO! Or one parents goes WITH her!
They would have thought back then, that it was an organised karate competition event,....which it was...
@@LadyLsound As parents, they had a responsibility to confirm the exact nature of the trip. The organisers of the trip. How many other adults and children will be attending, the accommodation on offer, and who will be chaperoning and ensuring the safety of their child.
From what was said, it appears that they discovered the exact nature of the trip before their daughter left the UK with Gary.
@@Sparrowdean Exactly.
Gary and Paula got off so easy. That’s a crime in itself. 🙏
Love the aunts wisdom. He didnt value the small things...unless they were diamonds.
Çash not class 😊😢
@@lindajames978(
So well said. 😂
Many British parents are like that. At 16 she is classed as an adult and can make her own choices. This is a relatively safe country and so whilst concerned, parents don’t tend to intervene. Mine were like that. I didn’t realise how much they disliked my husband until after I divorced him. I think it’s a bit different now.
He’s out now and living in Spain and has changed his name to Ralph Kirque
Once again, 16 year minimum for murder. What does it take in the UK to get a whole life sentence ?!? That is ridiculous!!!!
I keep watching this programs and I think the uk criminal justice is the worse
Same situation in Italy!! It’s just horrible!!
I just don't understand it.
As a brit I don't understand either 😢
Where is this murderer now now, pure monster
I was on the same teacher training course as Sharon, at Universityof Hertfordshire. . She was a really lovely, quiet woman. We just got told she was missing. Then, she was murdered. Totally shocking!
How did he murder such a lovely woman 😭Sharon is soo cute 😔💔
Did you know Paula?
I’m so sorry for your loss of your friend, Sharon.
It’s lovely you remember Sharon in such a lovely way. 🕊️ peace and prayers to Sharon’s family.
I did my nurse training at that university
@@christinaburns6645 Who would want to know Paula? She was a horrible person and never a friend. Disgusting woman.
How idiotic and dangerous to tell a wife to move back in with the man she is divorcing. It's dangerous and high risk. The law should not push that in order for a spouse to get fair compensation. Also, who puts their guitars above providing for their children...or paying off debts... he was delusional, selfish and stupid. The police were moronic handing the car to the most likely suspect, then slowly realising they should maybe have tested it!! The betrayal by paula is really low. I hope she rots in hell.
I'd be taking that clown lawyer to court to get him disbarred.
It’s common advice unfortunately. I’m not sure if they’re asked if it’s safe for them to return to the marital home.
@@bevsartsandcrafts715well it's a stupid advice..She's dead and I wonder what a clown advisor thinks about that?!
Unfortunately, in a divorce if you leave willingly the matrimonial home, you risk losing it. Had he been violent with her, the police would have got involved, she would have got a non-molestation order and kept him out of the house.
It’s obvious the husband is a malignant narcissist and sociopath - an incredibly dangerous person
I'm surprised Paula didn't get any jail time. What a terrible 'friend' she turned out to be! Gary should have received 'life imprisonment'. He deprived Sharon of her promising future and deprived her children of their mother. May you rest in peace, Sharon.
🧡 Exactly...
"TRUST NO ONE"
He was a cold manipulator,, darkening her name,, like what happened to me, with my ex, & with her friend, something my ex did also...
They don't care who they hurt, as long as they are fine...
The children also suffer by those characters, that poison there minds against the mother,, so sad...😎
16 years for murder? Is this a joke?
WTF 😒
Typical in the UK and Australia.
It's still a life sentence, with a minimum term of sixteen years (more depending on behaviour), then released on license if paroleis granted.
@hypsyzygy506 no it's not lol it's a joke. A life sentence means no parole
@@hypsyzygy506 There shouldn’t be a possibility of parole in such cases of heinous crimes, in my opinion. It defeats the purpose of life imprisonment, which should be for life.
Poor Sharon, she was obviously a very bright young woman. Those dear boys have lost their mother and father. I also think 18 years is not enough prison time. The law is strange.
Make it 16 years now.
She was a lovely, very quiet woman.
His sentence was reduced to 16 years upon appeal, and he has already served it. He was released from prison a few years ago.
@@Sparrowdean That's disgusting. Justice was not served.
The law in the UK is ridiculous.... Not an even safe place to visit. The left in America is gotten worse. In these same laws.
He didn’t lose his temper . It was premeditated. Remember she fell down the stairs when moving the bed bunk with Gary . What is wrong with these police officers?
When you’re trying to leave an abuser it feels easier at times to give up and stay. You’re completely drained mentally, emotionally and physically all the time which makes planning and acting even harder. The abuser is terrorizing you nonstop and you just want it to end. You’re afraid of losing everything and you’re terrified of the retribution.
Trauma bonded
You are right but most certainly you will probably be murdered later or sooner.Once you decided it’s over you shouldn’t agree to return and not even to a date unless it’s in a very public space. We should teach our daughters. I would suggest that every girl should know and learn o out their safety.
Just yesterday I watched a TH-cam video on Tea and Therapy about why people stay in mentally/emotionally abusive relationships. I found out that changes actually happen in the brain. Yep. And it's the part of the brain you need to get you out. It makes sense when I remember asking myself why I stayed, what was wrong with me, etc. ( Of course when there are children and you don't have enough money to support them leaving looks impossible.)
Plus, it’s hard to make a plan as you have no privacy as they search everything you have
He look like the grinch
Sharon's aunt is so sweet. Janet really loved her niece😢
Gary smeared Sharon's name after murdering her.
Paula not only had an affair with her best friend's husband, but also after knowing he killed Sharon (cell phone record indicated that she was at where Sharon's body was found), she lied to cover up the crime. They both are despicable !
With friends like that you don't enemies.
Agreed
'best friend ' many times is a horrible one ,sorry to say that.
Mobile phone
Sorry
I'd suggest, to anyone else in this position, to forfeit the house. Don't go back and live with anyone who is remotely threatening. I know a house is a big deal, but any material things can be had again. You can possibly get another house later on. And even if you can't, at least you'll be safe.
I wish they would stop harping about the allegations that she had a boyfriend. Even if she had one, it changes nothing. And here her husband acquires a new one with no judgement.
💯 agree
It's ludicrous. As if that changed things.
Trust me, I was with her on teacher training. You had no time to breathe never mind an affair!
She was not having an affair. Gary is a malignant narcissist.
Gary was projecting like the hypocrite he is
Solicitor advises client to move back in with abusive karate master husband.
So her father chose to believe that his daughter was living on the streets than look at the man who groomed her from a young age with far more scrutiny. A daughter that had loved and cared for her young sons, took them out of a toxic home, moved back with her parents and changed her life by doing a post graduate degree.The Red Flags started at 16! This man Gary has all the hallmarks of a narcissistic cad and poor Sharon was betrayed even by her best friend. These type of people will not change and 18 years reduced to 16 is a pathetic sentence.
Yeah so that selfish, lying, scumbag excuse for a human is probably out now and getting to live his life. The justice system here is so disappointing and really messed up. RIP Sharon. My heart goes to the family, especially her two sons 🪽👼
It's apauling how lineant are prison sentences for most outrages crimes!
What about her “best friend?” Isn’t she a scumbag?
Yes she is. Karma is coming
I don't understand the UK justice system. He murders his wife, has no remorse, gets 18 yrs to life, appeals and gets 16 yes to life. That's crazy!!
He is rotten to the core to rob his children of their mother. He was no oil painting either & goodness knows why these other gullible women fell for his BS. R.I.P. Sharon😢
He's a flipping warthog! Poor girl. 💔
Listening to her dad waiting for his daughter to return, it is heartbreaking.
The father seems like a kind soul who has experienced a significant amount of grief.
❤
The father seems like a dimwitted plonker who let his 15 year old girl go abroad with a paedophile. What kind of parent does that?
I don't feel sorry for any father that allows a man to SA his daughter... Then push her into marrying her.
@@lyndawadsworth8572 I know. He should have put his foot down in the begining.
@@lyndawadsworth8572Nobody s.a. his daughter you us morron!!! Age of concent in Europe is between 14- 16. You can disagre with your child's choice of partner (s) but, just like in your stupid us, you can stop her to be with him/her.
For such devasting crimes, there is absolutely no justice in the uk. Life should be life, end of story.
This evil individual first manipulates a 16 year old girl to have a relationship with. which should have been considered rape, as she was a minor. Then he marries and has children with her but refuses to support them and get a job. Ultimately, he takes her life. Pure evil.
I agree with you completely, but unfortunately 16 is legal age of consent in the UK.
Some man is so week that the only thing they can accomplish is broke a woman.
@@heatherangel9700yes that is true.
The problem with going by age alone is that it can't take into account when there is a huge power imbalance. There's a big difference between if 2 16 year olds have sex but really different if there's a much older person who obviously groomed them and used their position of power (teacher/coach, etc) That's a predator. I believe we're just in denial of how often this happens, so we still keep these antiquated laws that aren't really adequate to protect the victims.
"What do you say? Put your foot down snd say you can't go?"
Yes, yes you do...
Paula was clearly not Sharon's friend. I'd be very surprised if Paula didn't know what happened...she knew and she clearly didn't care.
EXACTLY! With 'friends' like that, who needs enemies? I hope ppl in U.K. know her for what she is & don't socialize with this snake. SHAME HER since she wasn't held accountable for HER part!
Um... did you watch this? It states right in there that Paula helped him move the body!! So um... ya, Paula did know what happened... maybe re-watch this...
@@AnneOhn123 no need to...read my comment again...smh
I can NEVER understand people that would want to be with someone who would kill their spouse. If you watch enough true crime, you will see this all of the time. What makes them think that they aren't next?
@@peggypeggy4137they think they’re special and it won’t happen to them. I hope Paula gets what’s coming to her.
That's the way Covert Narcissists are; good to people on the outside so as to protect their image, but horrible to those who are in an intimate relationship with them. Many people are confused when confronted with their evil deeds. They are very manipulative.
I totally agree
@@clairevirgo2129I also totally agree. They are extremely cunning
16 years Jail, what a Joke, pathetic sentence. 🤷♂
England
@@FC-hj9ubThe whole of Europe unfortunately, Canada, Australia..
If you have a teenage daughter who is getting ready to go on a trip with a man who is more than twice her age, you don't say a word to her. You call the dude up and say, "Hey, are you familiar with the term Statutory R***? If you take my daughter with you, the police will be waiting for you when you get home." Any man with half sense and one eye would decide rather quickly NOT to take the girl with him.
Amen! My husband would have stomped old boy out and dared our daughter to see him again! Thank the Lord we have a great daughter whom is highly educated and has a wonderful husband. RIP Sharon you deserved SO much better than this and may God bless your boys.
I hope you do know that every country every state every province I’m just naming off different things that there is an countries they all have different age limits for statutory rape some are 14 years old some are 15 and some are 16 Yes, it’s wrong, but that’s the law. So instead of blaming the parents, let’s blame the people that everyone votes in and let’s blame the guy that did this to her.
That couldnt have applied back then
@@madelinebryson to be honest, they probably didn’t, and Canada all they did was a lower, the statutory rape, it’s freaking disgusting and no offence but we take after England for some reason that’s what Canada does and that’s where that was in England Obviously it hadn’t changed even back then because let’s be real the father sat there and said she’s going to be this age and she was going to take off and do it anyways, if you wanna rewatch the video, you can hear him say that.
@@madelinebryson sorry that’s not all I got from what I said to you. I also said let’s quit blaming the parents and let’s blame the person that murdered her. I just find it kind of sickening that so many of yahs want to blame the parents but nobody wants to blame the guy that murdered her
Who thinks it is okay for a 16 year old girl to go on an international trip with a grown man and no other people?
England.
@@whosaidthat9265indeed; also totally completely accepting of the despicable child-grooming gangs .....
she was 15
No one, even in England
@@FC-hj9ubExept for the law makers.
What a snake her " best friend" Paula turned out to be! She had known her since childhood and betrayed her not once but twice.who needs enemies????
IKR?!?! Seriously 😐
It called breeding
We must Remember this girl was 16 her dad allowed her to go with aan older enough to be her father
What father let his teenager daughter go with a brute.all For sex pay that price
@@dianaveronicakambanis9690 I do not know how many 16year olds listen to their parents especially with the culture of taking the side of any young person against the parents.
Only 18 years ? And the girlfriend who helped him hide her gets 8 months? Geez this is disgusting.
His sentence was reduced to 16 years upon appeal, and he has already been released after serving it. His girlfriend received a suspended 8-month sentence so served no jail time at all.
@@Sparrowdeandisgusting beyond words. And the Crown Prosecution Service- the British Legal System is meant to be one to look up to.
Yeap. That's Europe for you.
Shows how much they value Sharon's life and think she's worth.
Don't wish to be unkind but Sharon's dad isn't the sharpest tool in the box and his judgement is shockingly poor. How he could have had any doubt that Gary murdered Sharon or the evilness of his nature is beyond me. So many red flags and he chose to overlook them all.
Where is the justice?
The murderer's son was acquitted although he assisted him and perverted the course of justice.
The murderer's lover who assisted him and perverted the course of justice received only an 8-month suspended sentence over lying to give him an alibi.
The murderer received only 16 years for such a brutal and cruel murder and has already served his sentence.
Yea the father was a bit soft in many ways.
Obviously a case of pre- meditated murder which he couldn't have got away with for so long without the help of Paula who deserves a nice prison sentence. Why are detectives so ready to say she must've said something and he lost his temper, a common saying repeated in these crime stories. Looks like he killed her while she was asleep. The cops are supposed to be trained to notice these things. The poor dad he was totally in new territory and I am sure he spends the rest of his life with lots of "what ifs".
And yes, you DO tell your 16 year old CHILD no 🤦🏻♀️
The killer is a disgusting piece of filth, along with the son and the piece on the side. Guttersnipes the 3 of them.
Even if he is dumb he's still a victim. I'd have forbidden my daughter to go on holiday with a much older man, too. Would it have done any good? Doubtful. Teenagers always know better and the forbidden thing becomes more interesting. It's scary to think how helpless we are when a person we love decides to ruin their life😢
With respect.....her father was clueless from the start, complete nonchalance from her going to Canada as a child with an adult.
In NI and Scotland you can marry at 16.
@@Marigold502in a lot of states in the US it’s the same. Many just don’t understand the law. Right and wrong versus legal and illegal.
@@Marigold502 Can you marry at 16 without the permission of your parent?
@@Sparrowdean
Hi, in Scotland yes, without parental permission. The reason being, if allowed to marry they shouldn't be infanticised.
@@Marigold502 Thanks for your reply. In England, Wales and Northern Ireland, the age of majority is 18 years. Until I checked, following your reply, I had no idea that in Scotland children are considered to have full legal capacity from the age of 16 years.
RIP Sharon what a decent loving woman taken cruelly by evil itself Garry and Paula conniving together. Hopefully they'll both never rest. May her beloved boys live the best life and be happy.
This has given me chills, we sometimes take the dog for a walk at the church by North Mymms house, never knew the poor ladies body was found there.
Even though our brains know when our children are grown and independent, our hearts only know they're our children. It's unimaginable what the families go through. I'm glad her mother didn't have to live through the loss. I believe Sharon's mom was there to embrace her when she died. The monster who did this must pay on another level for what he did to her, her family, and most of all her innocent children.
Feel so bad for Sharon's dad ... he just couldn't accept that he'd lost his daughter so quickly after losing his wife.
The 'animal' Gary had his grandsons and treated them well so against all, in his grief Harry couldn't believe that Gary had murdered their Mum, his daughter and only child.
Grief has a way of blinding you, of taking you off guard and giving you false hope. He's accepting the reality of it all now but needs time to work it out in his own heart, be kind.
Don't judge him until you've been down that road.
Condolences to family and friends.
Well said.
Yes Amy this is a very fair comment. The poor man what horrendous suffering. I hope he and Sharon’s aunt never read the comments here.
This happened 23 years ago and the British Police are still making the stupid mistake of giving back Property ( Car ) before being forensically searched. It has happened again recently in the UK with a high profile case.
Poor Sharon doesn't seem to have been much of a CHOOSER. First a slime like Paula, THEN a husband like Gary. It would be hard to see HOW she could have chosen more poorly. I've made the same mistakes myself, but luckily my "Gary" didn't actually KILL me -- except, of course, emotionally.
I know he snapped after she said something that hurt him bad. Psychos act that way I've been there too. When my ex accused me of carrying someone else's baby i told him " i feel sorry for your future because whatever you doing to me goes back to yourself and you will have miserable life". He snapped and pushed me onto the floor and started choking me . Our 2 little kids were just beside us crying because i was screaming for my life to get out of his hands. Alhamdulillah he couldn't kill me that day and eventually after 3 years of that incident i divorced him
Praise God you survived.
What was bad in what you told him?
Oh my heart is so hurt for Harry the aunt and those innocent children...lord have mercy ❤
For Harry ,her husband who killed her?
I really hope both Gary and Paula gets what they deserve,
Poor dad! I hope he has a relationship with his grandkids.
Idiot of a solicitor could tell her to move back to home where she was in danger
I can’t believe all the millions of children in the world become orphans because of evil monsters 👿
The worst enemy is your friend. Especially your best friend😢😢
Paula is like the village bike. Everyone has had a go on her.
Well Yes you are the father its up to you.!!!16 yr old what does She know. There Is a Word For that behai
Who needs enemies when you have friends like that
I totally agree! who let's a 16 yr old be the boss ?? she was groomed by a pedophile! ! while dad did nothing!
He may have not known how.
Not a pedophile but a murderer.
@@isabellajanelee both
Dad did not approve. Sharon had her mind set on going. Remember that the parents were under the impression that she was going on the trip with a group of people.
@@isabellajanelee both
What do your 16yr old going overseas with a 32yr old? Call the cops she is underage.
@abibrown4310 not in England. 16 is an adult. 16 is age of consent and 18 they can drink
EXACTLY!!!
She was going for a competition series overseas, with her 'trainer', so they might have thought it was all official...be kind to her parents who were trusting the system.
@@whosaidthat9265 16 is Not an adult. 18 is adult. The age of consent is 16, but you still have to get your parents permission to marry. So he would have had the dull backing of the law, as this man was clearly a pead. Had probably been grooming her, and possibly Paula from when they jhoined his club at 14
@@hogwashmcturnip8930how does your comment modify the outcome of the cops hands being tied if called? At 16 she can consent. They didn’t get married when she was 16. I personally don’t think dad did everything possible but the law was not on his side is the point
Holy Moly that Gary was a top notch Scoundrel.
A dirty, rotten one!!! 🗑️
A classy dame killed by a parasite. Sharon seems to have been a devoted mother, and would likely have been a competent and dedicated teacher. Dad and Aunt seem to be real salt-of-the-earth, kind, decent folk who adored Sharon. I wish them and the boys all the best, and may Sharon rest in peace. Gary's son and Paula got off too lightly - at worse they were part of the plot, and at best they failed to call the police after the the fact, and knowingly helped cover up a murder.
Poor Sharon, surrounded by people who didn't love her. Poor children 😢
Sharon was very much loved. People did care about her.
What the hell are talking about??? 2 of the worst people in her life hated her. 🤬 apart from that I’m tipping she had a great family and friends 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Exactly - her father let her go to a paedo's arms, then was happy to use her as a carer - use, use ,use.
Any relationship that starts when one of the partners is underage, always ends in tears in some way.
Before criticizing her father, go back and listen to what he said starting @ 2:11. With ALL these horrible stories so widely available on YT, I sincerely wish Narscissim and Dark personalities would be discussed in High Schools. People don't believe anything like this could happen to them. Especially the young.
Have you personally tried to get a 16 year old daughter to do something that she doesn’t want to do? Easier said than done.
It certainly is!
I would sooner lock my daughter in the house and forbid her to go out, however much she moaned, than let her go abroad with a pervert
That's why one quickly conversation man to man is necesary. The old guy only did this because He dont sense that The young teen have man in her family to take care of her.
@@jackflash743 that What real man do, and a quicly call to te pervert. When man dont senses The woman has another man taking care of her this happen. He marry, have to kids and dont wanna work.
She was 15, and that is a yes; most of us have tried to change the mind of their teen. It is a parental responsibility to protect. They could have gone to both parties and said this is a firm no. An attempt to change the plans was never made by the parents.
Not even two minutes in and I'm uncomfortable already... Sharon was only 15-16 years old and her parents allowed her to accompany an older man (twice her age) on a trip abroad. This makes me really concerned and unsettled...
The father shouldnt get rid of Sharon's household stuff. The kids would probably like it for when they set up home.
My daughter at 16 was enjoying orienteering excercises in ROTC classes...pre military classes. She competed in events. These oftrn involved trips they were group activities but still they were i the woods and anything COULD have happen ed.Anyone that age can meet someone and be infatuated with an older man...my daughter wasnt, but it could have happened. My daughter was lucky and never ran into anyone evil...she is in her early 50s now and a retired air rescue military and thank God nothing untoward has happened to her daughter or two sons either. However, anything can happen to anyone at any time...
You need to be parents. That may mean you will make your child angry but at least they will know you love them and will protect them at any cost.
What a friend ,knowing what her friend was going through and still ended up messing around with her husband and helped him trying to set her up , what a despicable b****
There are few things worste then a female friend. They will always betray you. The question is not even when, but how and to what digree they'll go!
He didn't work for anything. She built and earned the house and everything else. She was the bread winner 🏆. To me she owed everything she should have gotten him out legally and for good
feel so sorry for those boys.. lost both parents - I hope they are doing well. Granpa weak hadling of the situation from the start!
If that was my ‘coming up to 16’ daughter I’d have called the police
Gary is a deviant, selfish and arrogant man. He took a beautiful and meaningful life. He destroyed the lives of his children and Sharon’s loved ones. His punishment did not fit the hideous crime he committed.
He should be in prison for life
What a vile individual- as was ‘friend’ Paula who should have been an accessory.
Very sad story. Can't help but feel that her father should have stopped relationship at the start. He seems to be a very placid man maybe he felt intimidated due to him being a karate instructor nevertheless the father should have taken action at the start. She was only 16yrs you don't sit back and hope for the best
She was groomed, he was a pedo$:&#e the father was ridiculous for not stopping it
In England, age of consent is 16 and they can drink at 18. Not much dad could do other than voice his disapproval
@@whosaidthat9265doesn't that depend on the age of the other party? Two 16 year olds can consent but I doubt a 16 and 32 yr old. Let me Google.
@@GhislaineMutombo no, that doesn't matter. Again, these are the laws in England but also in many states in the US as well
Have you ever meet a strong minded teenage girl who thinks she’s in love. It’s like holding on to a wild cat. One of my girls wanted to marry the worst boy in town he was trouble with a a chip on his shoulder a mile high. Her dad and I tried talking to her for hours, ground her to the point of walking her to and from school. Her friends and brothers and sisters tried to tell her but to no avail. She was determined to marry him. She did in the end and of course it was a disaster. he was violent kept her short of money, seeing other women, you name it he did it. Eventually she came home with 3 children in tow We were all so shocked to see how thin and bruised she was. Her dad went straight to the house and gave him a few bruises of his own. She was terrified to go out the door with out one of us with her. Eventually he got another poor girl pregnant and he stopped bothering her. She married a wonderful man 6 years later and found happiness. But she turned into the wildest child you could imagine over him. Teenage girls are a force to be recond with if the fall in love with the wrong guy. So I can well imagine just how difficult it was for her parents.
The lawyer who told her to go back with him should be in jail !!
I could be wrong but shoddy police work! when that car was found, the police should have did their search and police work prior to returning the car to Sharon's evil hubby! Sharon made wrong choices; but she turned her life around and this twat took her life away!!! evil fk! Paula, gives a whole new meaning to the word FRIEND!!! RIP Sharon🙏🙏
Im afraid the police have better things to do than to investigate murder, for instance scanning the Internet to see if anyone has dared to slag off peodofiles etc
@@jackflash743it’s really sad those days, weeks and months of not knowing. Hell and so avoidable. The dad rang the police within two days and was told without hesitation that she was over 18 and had every right to “ disappear”
Love and Prayers for this family, as they have grieved their loss. She was a lovely person who wanted the best for her children. God bless you all. 🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜
I don’t need a reenactment of the murder.
Words are enough.
Bless her heart.
And nothing happens to Paula? How?
Honestly, the UK needs to pull up and change their sentencing. That’s disgusting that’s all he got was even more disgusting than that girl got an eight month suspended sentence. Just sickening.
Typical narcissist, who only cared for himself
Ohhh my goodness...Her best friend...🤦🏾😢😢😢
What do you do?!? You don't bite your tongue!! You do what any good parent would do and then deal with the consequences. That is what parents do. Biting your tongue didn't help, did it? He didn't care enough and made no effort when he should have done so, then whinged, complained and bitched about the police when he expected them to do something about her, but felt that they didn't perform to his expectations. I have lived among people who are like Harry. 😡😡😡
Big age gap, mistake 1.
Why didn’t her dad go and see GARY he was twice her age and at 16 why would he let his daughter go with Gary to Canada ? Crazy situation his daughter was underage
The age of consent is 16 in England. She was young, but not underage.
I agree, would never let my 16 yr old, go with such an older man, very wrong, IMO
@@paulaellis6242 I know this man has had a terrible loss loosing his daughter, 🙏🏻but he seemed almost void of any parental care of duty , at 16 your child isn’t able to make some decisions but him saying what can you do ? A lot of things could have been put in place to safeguard his daughter, the police would have no doubt interjected as imo Gary was a groomer
@@jackiemetters5320exactly. A lot of people seem not to grasp that the law was not on dad’s side. All he could do was voice his concerns. Nothing he could do about it though
@@flossydonnellon4893 Exactly!
Sharon was completely alone with her children. Her father was almost demential. There was nobody to protect her. She decided to put herself into the wolf’s mouth😢
It’s illegal in America for a man to date a child, much more so to take her out of the country.
Terrible for Sharon, and her sons very very sad.
Those poor, poor boys. 😔
There is no way on this earth I would let my daughter go away with a predator at 16 years old I’m sorry but these predators choose clubs like this to carry on their offending.. I blame the family first and foremost here..
Good episode. Thanks for posting.
She was 15! Parents didn’t say no because apparently they were attempting to predict the future rather than deal with the present. A minor travelling out of country alone with a much older man is a no. I’m sorry it turned out so terrible.
This is so sad. I can really feel the dad's pain. I wonder if keeping and using the items Sharon had purchased would give a sense of her being around. And her boys would like to have them one day. The items were purchased with hope in mind. Hope for a fresh start with her beautiful boys.
After reading all these comments i cant belive how horrible people are towards this beautiful sound father, dont forget this was filmed after the events, here in the uk the age of consent is 16 and he was right, he told her she would have to pay for her trip obviously not knowing that Gary would pay for her, it was his way of trying to stop her going without forcing her into garys arms, also, he has not only lost his wife and daughter but his grandchildren as well.
RIP Sharon
My hearts braks for Harry and Aunt Janet, who obviously loved Sharon dearly 💙
Life should mean life 😢
He’s living in Spain now under the name of Ralph kirque
wow...the" best friend" with friends like that ....
You could extend that to 'with a father like that'
@@hogwashmcturnip8930 father is really misses her, but her girlfriend is a real c...nt
Paula was not her friend! She was her enemy. I’m sure she conspired against her, they should of given jail time for all the false allegations against her. And to her attorney, her father should of sue for given her and advice that took her to her death. 😢😢😢😢
Paula is an enemy
What a best friend Paula. Omg with a friend like that who needs enemies
How can the parents let her go away with him she was a child !! That’s crazy she was 15
So many many evil people in this world. I just don’t understand. With so many bad people in this world, I feel lucky that I live a safe live…(so far, that is). I’m 76 so hopefully the rest of my life will continue to be normal.
Thank you; love these videos.
I'm no detective, but surely the first thing they should have done was check the car for fingerprints etc instad of giving it back to the husband. That is negligent. Even if they didn't suspect him, they would want to rule out a third party.