Nightmare in Suburbia: Till Death Us Do Part S3E4 | A True Story

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  • @MsAbby1234
    @MsAbby1234 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    I’m really impressed with the members of the community that came forward and helped solve the crime with lightning speed.

  • @joanannewallace
    @joanannewallace ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Poor Collette murdered by her cold-blooded swine of a husband. Well done, the investigation team and the public in helping solve this murder. Her loving, heartbroken mum and family are still suffering.

  • @brendadion7868
    @brendadion7868 ปีที่แล้ว +548

    Could we have some warm words of thanks for all the members of the public, who were not afraid to speak up or get involved. You don't find that often enough. Bless all of you and all the victims of this tragedy.

    • @frontlinersaudi8076
      @frontlinersaudi8076 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      it's just this time that people don't want to get involved, especially if it is about other people's welfare. 😢

    • @jeandalgleish6460
      @jeandalgleish6460 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I agree. God Bless all of them!

    • @TNT-km2eg
      @TNT-km2eg ปีที่แล้ว +4

      - Who is "we " ?!
      - "God bless them all " ?! He really did , didn't he ?

    • @ninaballerina2807
      @ninaballerina2807 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@TNT-km2eg Count me in too...I for one definitely belong to the 'we' here.

    • @wendyhannan2454
      @wendyhannan2454 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said, thanks to all.🙏

  • @nancycurtis488
    @nancycurtis488 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    And losing a child is so incredibly painful. I lost my oldest son 4 years ago just 3 days before his 54th birthday…he was also born in 1965. So smart, such a wonderful person. My son’s name was also Richard….James Richard. He worked his way through college, became a CPA immediately after college. His death is still an open homicide investigation. He owned his own accounting firm in Allen, Texas. I miss him so very, very much.

    • @maqui8667
      @maqui8667 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      So sorry for your loss and praying your child’s murder will be solved soon .

    • @ogeukpabi4938
      @ogeukpabi4938 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      So sorry, wishing you peace

    • @Macias8200
      @Macias8200 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So very sorry for your loss.

    • @mmoore3743
      @mmoore3743 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I am so sorry for your loss.

    • @wendyhannan2454
      @wendyhannan2454 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Nothing worse than losing a child, but not knowing makes it so much worse.
      Love to you. 💕

  • @l.c838
    @l.c838 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    I don’t think he could have ever been a nice person. To have that in you to kill your wife for money is just evil.

    • @pamelaglasgow2450
      @pamelaglasgow2450 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It was never there,wicked sob 😡

    • @mmmfun77
      @mmmfun77 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Big time

    • @IwasBlueb4
      @IwasBlueb4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      v common in usa

    • @ruthquetant7375
      @ruthquetant7375 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯‼️

    • @Moeporcelli57
      @Moeporcelli57 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@IwasBlueb4 I've watched a lot of crime programmes from the USA, and I noticed a lot of them the wife or husband was murdered for a huge insurance policy payout.

  • @mssramsunker4820
    @mssramsunker4820 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Robbed her parents of their child, a parents' heart-break💔💔 talk from experience, lost my sister last year (not the same manner) but my folks have aged 10x since my sister's passing!!!! Excellent police work. RIP Collette 🙏

    • @pattjer
      @pattjer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss.😢

    • @mssramsunker4820
      @mssramsunker4820 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@pattjer thank you so much 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @tinaglotfelty2276
    @tinaglotfelty2276 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    My heart is broken for Colette’s mom. I cannot imagine losing one of my children and the pain it would cause. I was crying with her.

    • @michellewalsh1150
      @michellewalsh1150 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes the poor woman is absolutely heartbroken, bless her.x

    • @lizakwa4289
      @lizakwa4289 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I often says, it is good that we can not read each other's inner mind other wise we will all be paranoid of ourselves. One minute I love you darling, next minute
      I'm at the junction to mow you down. What a world we living in nowadays?????

    • @millwallholdings
      @millwallholdings 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lizakwa4289 Come in this has been going on for years not just "nowadays"

  • @mirage_sr
    @mirage_sr ปีที่แล้ว +48

    My heart goes out to all parents who bury a child. Time doesn't make the grief any less, it just helps us to carry it better.

    • @pattjer
      @pattjer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So true 😢

  • @jujulionesselsa1416
    @jujulionesselsa1416 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Where this terrible tragedy happened to Collette is where i am from in Chesterfield Derbyshire. It completely shocked us all, and the shock lingers to this very day. Totally heartbreaking. RIP Collette.

    • @nataliesutherland7222
      @nataliesutherland7222 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m from Brazil and a long time ago my mum took us to visit family in the Uk and your area is the most beautiful I can remember , I’m very sorry to hear this happened to a community that I perceived as so friendly and peaceful when I went to visit. I still remember breakfasts at b&bs very fondly.

    • @suemassey5076
      @suemassey5076 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was born and brought up in Chesterfield, for me the best town and county in the world, with the most warm and real people. Praying for the family

  • @dianegilchrist677
    @dianegilchrist677 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The sentences are so lenient! 25 years for murder is not justice IMO.

    • @hirainawhaanga6253
      @hirainawhaanga6253 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Its no longer about justice it's about financial costs. To run the prison system is extraordinarly expensive.

  • @8888-9
    @8888-9 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Sociopaths are Sleepers. Going along like Chris Watts, appearing to be invested in his marriage & family, til something better comes along in their eyes. Then it's cut throat. No feeling. No regret. Except getting caught.

    • @samporter2146
      @samporter2146 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I once read somewhere, the phrase " Not all cheaters are sociopaths , but all sociopaths are cheaters ." The financial and psychological abuse that is cheating to me though does appear sociopathic , as so many abusive elements are involved in defrauding a trusting partner.

    • @donnabowen2398
      @donnabowen2398 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That describes my ex to a t. He broke my heart, my mother's heart and the children's hearts and nesrlywe were all duped by trusting him.

  • @JenniferNefdt-tm5cv
    @JenniferNefdt-tm5cv ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Imagine how her sons feel that their father had killed their mother. Must be the worst feeling ever.

    • @poetcomic1
      @poetcomic1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You lose your mother and you forever hate your father.

    • @liscatcat8756
      @liscatcat8756 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ffs stop spoiling it and keep your mouth closed .

  • @hailiedawn
    @hailiedawn ปีที่แล้ว +108

    It’s always the life insurance policy. That should be the first thing detectives look at if anyone in a marriage dies a suspicious death.

    • @kathykay6602
      @kathykay6602 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      well said. its money or an affair. he did for both reasons.

    • @user-jy3zl2vp4b
      @user-jy3zl2vp4b ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I keep wondering why insurance companies aren't scrutinized for these large policies on people that never make that much money. I think they are complicit; they get the monthly payments and then when the beneficiary gets arrested, they don't have to pay out- win-win for them. Despicable.

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-jy3zl2vp4bthat’s true

    • @itsagooddaynycwnikki_lilpete
      @itsagooddaynycwnikki_lilpete 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      very American way of finish a marriage...so sad

  • @margaritasommers6551
    @margaritasommers6551 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    25 years for premeditated murder, I can not understand that. May God bless the her family. RIP Colette.

    • @RedheadLondon
      @RedheadLondon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As long as he serves the time and no getting out early.

  • @Ann-g7v9s
    @Ann-g7v9s ปีที่แล้ว +310

    I feel so bad for her family, especially her mother who was left heartbroken 😔 it's stories like this that make me happily single, I don't need a man, just my lovely cat.

    • @mssramsunker4820
      @mssramsunker4820 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      very heartbreaking esp when the Mum was inconsolable! Another single here, happy with my 1-year old Pekingese, he is my life😍love from South Africa!

    • @moodrider
      @moodrider ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Another grateful single here, no fur family yet. Retire in a couple of years, fingers crossed, then I will find my furry companion.

    • @brendamarcum2798
      @brendamarcum2798 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I’m single also and the more I see stories like this I’m staying that way!! How can u love someone enough to marry them and then kill them??!! It’s so sad and scary!!!!

    • @stephaniesamra7960
      @stephaniesamra7960 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Same and have adopted a feral cat. She ignores me most of the time except when she wants to be fed - lol.

    • @sophiejameson4064
      @sophiejameson4064 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I'm a widow. No one could have been kinder or more loving than him. We were together for more than 16 years. There are lots of good, loving men about. Honest!

  • @jeandalgleish6460
    @jeandalgleish6460 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Narration very well done on such a sad unnecessary death. The police were fabulous.

    • @Warmfireandtea
      @Warmfireandtea ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes but I couldn"t understand the Mum.accent too local .

  • @zombiechicken7114
    @zombiechicken7114 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Thank god for the wonderful witnesses coming forward. What a stupid and unecessary crime this was. Just for greed. Just get divorced and you can all live your lives. Rip Collette and much love to those who loved her.

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They don’t want to get divorce, because they want to collect the life insurance.

  • @B1TKZH47
    @B1TKZH47 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Blinded by fantasies, and living in the darkness of evil. First it was the secret 'girlfriend', then the money, and finally the killing - that he foolishly thought he could get away with. What an awful tragedy!

    • @rehab5355
      @rehab5355 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      With every wedding license...there should be a cautionary amendment.....That if a partner dies prematurely; The spouse will be immediately investigated b4 there is an Insurance Pay-out!!!!

    • @jacquelynskye295
      @jacquelynskye295 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He probably could have gotten away with it if he hadn't raised red flags by being so cold after she died. 😢

    • @RedheadLondon
      @RedheadLondon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rehab5355 The first person the cops look at in a murder is the spouse, then family, friends, workmates, neighbours etc. Strangers are the last ones to suspect. 80% of people knew their killer.

  • @karenoconnor4180
    @karenoconnor4180 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    How on earth did he think he could get away with this?? .. he literally got arrested 7 hours after mowing her down 🙄

  • @kathykay6602
    @kathykay6602 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    No parent should have to bury a child.EVER! RIP Colette...you were loved!

    • @WindDancer435
      @WindDancer435 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is utterly ridiculous. In the bible, parents buried their children quite often, so why not now?

    • @charlottebruce979
      @charlottebruce979 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They were saying we shouldn't Bury our children because of the order of things, but of course, parents buried their children all the time in the past, not just in the bible!!

    • @errr5863
      @errr5863 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@WindDancer435 Mostly of natural causes though

    • @WindDancer435
      @WindDancer435 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@errr5863 If you are referring to children dying from natural causes in the bible, then you haven't read the bible. God struck down the first born of both animal and human as punishment to Pharoah not letting the children of Israel, His people go.
      King Herod ordered the death of all children 2 and under because he feared the savior child. So how is that "natural causes"?

    • @WindDancer435
      @WindDancer435 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@charlottebruce979 Yes, I was referencing the bible in order to tell the writer that children have died before their parents for thousands and thousands of years! It is just first recorded in the bible.

  • @suzimonkey345
    @suzimonkey345 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Our “Family Liaison Officers” when my brother died were wonderful! They made an unbearable situation easier to endure.

    • @Poeticfloetic
      @Poeticfloetic ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Peace and blessings to you. 🥲♥️

    • @marciajones2993
      @marciajones2993 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So sorry for your loss I’m glad it was handled with sensitivity. May your Brother R.I.P bless you all. 💙❤️✨✨

  • @ktermalkut8332
    @ktermalkut8332 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Insurance companies should personally meet the person who is supposed to have taken the life insurance policy and should verify their identity.

    • @DaniHMcV
      @DaniHMcV 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      They don’t care. As long as customers pay their premiums, they’re not worried about any sinister reasons for getting the insurance. Greed asks no questions.

    • @RedheadLondon
      @RedheadLondon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It doesn't stop the murders. Google Justin Barber who killed his wife on a beach in Florida. There's video documentaries on it. She had a $2 million life policy and and it was payable to him. She knew about the policy, but still went on a lonely beach walk at night. He shot her and pretended it was a random mugging. Similar to this. He has got life in prison, and still says he didn't do it.

    • @Suzyfromtheblock
      @Suzyfromtheblock 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@DaniHMcVthey do if they have to pay out then it’s a big enquirey

    • @marleneschulz118
      @marleneschulz118 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Suzyfromtheblock. I am sure that the insurance companies have had a cost analysis done and made a financial decision that’s all about maximizing profits.

    • @ElaAusDemTal
      @ElaAusDemTal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some countries, like Germany, do require you to show up in person for signing life insurance policies.

  • @carolann3249
    @carolann3249 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Her poor mother , such a loving person . Truly heart / breaking to see the legacy of grief he left

    • @wendyhannan2454
      @wendyhannan2454 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh, it just breaks your heart, the love they had, working together as well. So sad. 😢

  • @anupamsircar111
    @anupamsircar111 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    It is so great to see all institutions working together honestly and sincerely to see that justice is done and the victim's family gets a closure. I am an Indian and am sorry to say that this almost never happens in my country. Bribing and counter-bribing; pilferage, tampering, and destruction of evidence by the investigating agencies themselves; incompetence; and everything that can muck up a case all come together invariably in almost every case so that no one ever gets any justice. Citizens who are hoping for something from the justice system just waste decades of their time, money, energy, and resources getting nothing in the end. This case took under two years; it would not get solved here in 20 years. Here, Christopher would be told that the police had found the car and let him decide what he wanted to do about it: For a little bit of bribe (say 500 Pounds), Chris would be allowed to go burn the vehicle and come back to the police station!!! For a little bit more, police would themselves do it for him!!!

  • @tufalike1796
    @tufalike1796 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    25 years for PREMEDITATED murder... that's a slap on the wrist!

    • @shirliepovey4886
      @shirliepovey4886 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I doubt he will do the full sentence, would not be surprised if he is out by now, poor Mum

    • @mikeboothe
      @mikeboothe ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I don’t know what country this is in, I assume England, but the US is the only country in the developed world who gives lifetime sentences with no parole or the death penalty. I agree in this case he should’ve gotten longer.-Susan

    • @wendyhannan2454
      @wendyhannan2454 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s totally disgusting. I believe in no parole. He’ll get out and live his life.
      How terrible for her family.

    • @fly89
      @fly89 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      in UK 25 years is already plenty .

  • @Sunshine-zp8hh
    @Sunshine-zp8hh ปีที่แล้ว +85

    This police department did an excellent job 👏 👌

    • @sarai373
      @sarai373 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Proud of them, they wasted no time. Excellent work.

    • @Faristol7
      @Faristol7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@sarai373The man should have been given life without parole Ridiculously soft sentence - he'll be out by he time he's 60. What will his sons have to say to him then? You murdered our mother for the insurance money so you could impress your girlfriend, SB?

  • @HettiedeKorteDiplomaat
    @HettiedeKorteDiplomaat ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Such a senseless killing. Colette never really knew the man she was married to. I’m so sorry for the family.

    • @mrsbluesky8415
      @mrsbluesky8415 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I bet she suspected at times how low down he is.

  • @michhaynes7272
    @michhaynes7272 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Well done for great police work, I don't say it often in a lot of cases, so I think it's important to say they did a great job!

  • @101life9
    @101life9 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    INJUSTICE to the deceased. She could easily have live beyond that sentence on the murderer. How about for life? This law OUGHT TO BE CHANGED.
    This justice system has more leniency to the murderer than being murdered. What kinda of mentality is that? Sicko!!

  • @ridehead8771
    @ridehead8771 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Amazing job by the police for not delaying the arrest of this murderer. But the 25 years imprisonment is a joke, should have been life with no parole.

    • @petergibbs1683
      @petergibbs1683 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you kidding, a minimum of 2 years is an excellent sentence. Many of these sort of crimes the perp will do less than 10

    • @bluecollarlit
      @bluecollarlit 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It doesn't make any difference how long the sentence is, it does not work as a deterrent, apparently.

    • @WendyHannan-pt7ez
      @WendyHannan-pt7ez 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      25 years is an absolute disgrace , he should never be released. I don’t understand the law sometimes, the police must feel very disappointed as well.

    • @kevinmayers4346
      @kevinmayers4346 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's English criminal law working for ya

  • @appledoreman
    @appledoreman ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I can't understand the family's utter disbelief at his guilt. A. The vast majority of crimes of this nature are committed by the spouse & B. He wasn't showing any normal signs of grief, quite the opposite.

    • @elizabethsohler6516
      @elizabethsohler6516 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Consider that no one would actually WANT to believe that about someone who has been a member of their family for years. Denial is a powerful thing.

  • @oldcollegecoed
    @oldcollegecoed ปีที่แล้ว +110

    What always shocks me about crimes like these, is how often the perpetrators are absolute idiots! In today’s world, with DNA advancements, GPS trackers, cell phone data, and CCTV and/or private security cameras everywhere, how could one think they’ll get away with murder…especially murdering a spouse? Even worse, it’s insane how often these monsters fail to get rid of incriminating evidence, which ties them directly to their crime!

    • @nataliesutherland7222
      @nataliesutherland7222 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree! The sheer stupidity just baffles me

    • @sampsonroofing7377
      @sampsonroofing7377 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Exactly. Did he think the police would ask around town for a few hours, and then move on to more important matters, allowing him to enjoy his financial windfall?

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      A lot of these murderers are narcissistic and believe that they are invincible and that the law can’t touch them. They live in their own world with them as the “stars” and “victim.”

    • @TheDarkDresser
      @TheDarkDresser ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It works in reverse also.
      I often watch the evening news of a well-known Caribbean island, and it astounds me how many people there appear to get away with murder, either because they are considered physically attractive or are of a high socio-economic status and therefore well-connected. Other times it's gullibility, laziness and/or incompetence on the part of investigators; a heavy case load also adds to it.
      If a dead male prostitute was found in a politically -connected person's expensive home, then the investigation would stall for years and likely never solved.
      In one incident just the person posting on social media how distraught he was was about the death of a group of family members was enough for him to walk free, despite the fact that his account of what happened would change depending on what turned up, and so he would often backtrack/contradict himself, and the investigators saw nothing suspicious about it.

    • @oldcollegecoed
      @oldcollegecoed ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@TheDarkDresser Also very true! They either aren’t charged or they can afford the best attorneys to represent them!

  • @cg9616
    @cg9616 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Deepest condolences for Colette’s family. Especially her boys who lost a loving mum & dad

    • @celiacrockett9954
      @celiacrockett9954 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They lost a loving Mum their Dad was and is and always will be a monster and the one who took their Mum from them. 😞

  • @dwdwdwdw22
    @dwdwdwdw22 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    He could be out.... He should have gotten life. He wqs married to her for years and years....just to hit her with a car?!? He is disgusting and despicable

  • @janetspell1396
    @janetspell1396 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The Dad seems so sweet and gentle.

  • @Elle-xf8mw
    @Elle-xf8mw ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Wow! kudus to that woman who made a right call and arrested him!

  • @kimberlylaughner5067
    @kimberlylaughner5067 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Wow UK laws are too lenient 😡 Should be life sentence! That’s horrible for her family knowing he’s gonna be out to live his life eventually 😞

    • @wendyhannan2454
      @wendyhannan2454 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same in Australia. He should never be released. What a piece of crap he is.

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s ridiculous.

    • @chelsealouise3137
      @chelsealouise3137 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They are, but our police are usually on it. Sadly the courts and police don’t go hand in hand. Thing is they say 25 years thing is most likely he won’t ever get out. Some do after being model prisoner and “rehabilitation” apparently but I believe it should be life like US

  • @mario-qi3yw
    @mario-qi3yw ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Colette’s parents are wonderful people. I would have been thrilled to have parents like hers. God bless them both❤

  • @mariajara8165
    @mariajara8165 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Only Twenty-five years for killing your wife ? That is not justice 😢

    • @millwallholdings
      @millwallholdings 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Just in time to pick up his state pension

    • @somanygins.
      @somanygins. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Justiceee

    • @rocioaguilera3555
      @rocioaguilera3555 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's the (in) justice British system.
      It seems like they don't care about the safety of the society 😢

    • @thelilacbutterflyflower
      @thelilacbutterflyflower 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It says a lot that as a British citizen I thought "ooh 25 years a decent sentence for once." 😢

  • @selvanmuruvan4793
    @selvanmuruvan4793 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What an evil, wicked man. May her beautiful Soul, rest in peace.. 🙏🌹💜

  • @MegaToti26
    @MegaToti26 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Very sad indeed…
    I ll never understand why the name of the monster who killed her is written on her grave…I ve seen this so many times..,It s not fair, is it?
    RIP Colette❤
    My heart goes to her family and friends ❤

    • @wendyhannan2454
      @wendyhannan2454 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really, I would never of thought that ?

    • @janerohr8055
      @janerohr8055 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 👍 Big time with you

  • @NedKellyIreland
    @NedKellyIreland ปีที่แล้ว +23

    very upsetting the poor mother is broken

  • @lisasame9463
    @lisasame9463 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Her parents seem so loving.. the pain in the mother’s voice hits hard..

  • @bonniesuesmith717
    @bonniesuesmith717 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    So sad. RIP Colette. Prayers for her family. A good woman killed by a greedy unfaithful man. Heartless sod. Thank you, police, and public for excellent working together to get Colette justice. Solved in 72 hrs? Amazing. Thank you all. Glad he confessed, (her family would still be defending him) but doesn't it give him automatic 1/3 off of the 25 yrs?

    • @Warmfireandtea
      @Warmfireandtea ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ohh nooo.

    • @petergibbs1683
      @petergibbs1683 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No, you get an automatic life sentence if guilty of murder. The 25 yerars is his minimum time he must serve, they just didnt put it that way.

  • @MegaToti26
    @MegaToti26 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I congratulate the Police 🎉🎉🎉They ve done a wonderful job. EXCELLENT !!!

  • @jacquelinedeigan776
    @jacquelinedeigan776 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Peace to Collet peace to Collette and her poor Family..parents and friends.
    What an evil thing to do.
    Poor Beautiful lady.

  • @janeclarkson8471
    @janeclarkson8471 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Heartbreaking. The mother of Collette pulled tears from my eyes. I felt her heartbreak. The husband was unbelievably selfish and callous. He destroyed that family. I hope he suffers with a life without parole sentence. What about their children. Unbelievable!

  • @suzannep8371
    @suzannep8371 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I feel such sadness for the family. RIP fine beautiful lady 🌹

  • @sheilagadde5975
    @sheilagadde5975 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Excellent Police Investigation Team work.

  • @Suzyfromtheblock
    @Suzyfromtheblock ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Good work Derbyshire constabulary, love for Colette’s mum bless her 😢

  • @Harassed247
    @Harassed247 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    So tragic, this poor poor family, how do you get over something like this.. You don't! RIP beautiful lady. ❤️

    • @Warmfireandtea
      @Warmfireandtea ปีที่แล้ว

      An Eng.rose. She glowed . Worked hard too. Not like she was a slug or a shrew .

  • @lucymerkom9571
    @lucymerkom9571 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Amazing witnesses, without them he could have quite easily got away with murder. The police were on the ball, brilliant police work. Then again 25years for premeditated murder. Should have been a life term.
    God bless Colette's children and family
    RIP 🙏🏻❤️🌹❤️🙏🏻

  • @juliefrith1401
    @juliefrith1401 ปีที่แล้ว +652

    Definitely better off with cat or dog been on my own 10 years completely happy 😇

    • @brendamarcum2798
      @brendamarcum2798 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Totally agree!! This is terrifying!!!

    • @jujulionesselsa1416
      @jujulionesselsa1416 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @juliefrith1401 same here I live alone with my Cat and I am so contented and happy.

    • @aimbetternotperfect
      @aimbetternotperfect ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Agreed! I can happily and certainly say that I will never be killed by my child or my partner - whew! Now, if my chihuahua gets mad….

    • @cg9616
      @cg9616 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Not all partners are killers 😅

    • @arcticgoddess
      @arcticgoddess ปีที่แล้ว +19

      same 😂

  • @denisewarner8287
    @denisewarner8287 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    A great job well done by the Derbyshire Police and I give a huge thank you to the witnesses that came forward with information. Another EVIL with a capital D - DEVIL of a man. RIP Collette and much love and prayers to her family.

  • @inktvis6453
    @inktvis6453 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Well done and thank you for dedication of the police force.❤❤

  • @moniquetheobald889
    @moniquetheobald889 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Kudos to the police, sad case, what an evil greedy bas&a*d, never understand why people want more and more, when they have it all. RIP Collette, I hope your family and children find some peace and comfort 💔🧡💙

    • @angelam886
      @angelam886 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can write the word bastard. This isn’t Facebook.

    • @wordivore
      @wordivore ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@angelam886 TH-cam flags certain words. Although we don't know exactly which ones.

  • @joannawilk2731
    @joannawilk2731 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Excellent detective work!

  • @ebonypenguin2899
    @ebonypenguin2899 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If the instructions of the solicitor are to answer "no comment" to any question, follow those instructions! If you're already under arrest everything you say can be used against you, so don't say anything! If the matter proceeds to court, defence counsel will present your case. How many actual innocent people were naive enough to believe that the truth would keep them out of prison.

  • @karesage2889
    @karesage2889 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As she said no mother expects a child to leave this world before them. I know that feeling very well.
    What a wicked man, planning his loving wife's death while living a normal life with her. My heart really goes out to her family as not only did they have to deal with grief of losing Collette they also had to grieve the loss of who they thought was a wonderful husband to Collette

  • @AACE73
    @AACE73 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Spoiler
    Well done to law enforcement & the community for working together to solve this one so quickly! The husband, did he seriously think he could get away with it?? What a clown!
    May Dear Collette Rest in Peace xxx

  • @maryw1129
    @maryw1129 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This investigation was excellent

  • @kimberlyanne434
    @kimberlyanne434 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My sincere condolences and prayers for Collette family and friends.
    Her mom’s heartbreak, I could really feel her pain.
    I pray her heartbreak will heal.
    RIP Collette🕊️✝️

  • @elishadoyle8191
    @elishadoyle8191 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    At the end where the mum says "nobody knows what it's like to bury their child", it made me break down because it's the hardest thing anyone could ever go through. I lost my daughter and it's killed me. I've been through alot in life but losing my daughter is the worst and I feel this mother's pain

    • @marleneschulz118
      @marleneschulz118 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My heart goes out to you. I think that losing a child is every loving parents worst nightmare. I hope that you have been able to hold tightly to the good memories of your daughter.

    • @evapektas
      @evapektas 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am so sorry for your loss..
      Hope you are better every day

    • @elishadoyle8191
      @elishadoyle8191 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@evapektas Thank you

    • @evapektas
      @evapektas 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@elishadoyle8191 wish you the best, and that you can be Happy again, you deserve it

  • @lorrainebennett7528
    @lorrainebennett7528 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I noticed when he kissed her at the altar he kept his arms down by his sides. The mountain biking officer was so respectful when speaking about where Colette came to rest. What I don't understand though is why out of the 66 vehicles in the area they didn't spot the one registered to Chris Daffin? RIP Colette x

    • @wendy860
      @wendy860 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because he bought it under an assumed name and never re-registered it.

  • @paulineosullivan9654
    @paulineosullivan9654 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    What sick people we have in this world, devastating to us readers, my heart goes out to her family, you just wouldn't want to believe your son in law was to blame, so very sad 😢

    • @yolandascholten2012
      @yolandascholten2012 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nothing can justify murdering anyone. But can you even begin to imagine that the person you have lived with for 16 years and share two children with is the one that ends your life so brutally? So ghastly. Heart wrenching.

  • @cookiegalleria6916
    @cookiegalleria6916 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    He only got 25 years? Goodness. It should have been life.

    • @fergusfarm3793
      @fergusfarm3793 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      25 is considered a life sentence I think

  • @veronicaisl
    @veronicaisl ปีที่แล้ว +16

    25yrs sentence isn’t enough, he should be locked up in prison for life without parole

  • @lotusgift4212
    @lotusgift4212 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Money and third party are the number one roots for evil in couples lives 😢

  • @c.o3301
    @c.o3301 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Fantastic and thorough police work.

  • @theresarossi6306
    @theresarossi6306 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I can't believe that judge only gave him 25 years, all premeditated

    • @jacquelynskye295
      @jacquelynskye295 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Judges have guidelines. The judge gave him the near max that was allowed by law. Do you understand the judges have to follow the laws of the land? There will be a range In sentencing guidelines. He gave him almost the absolute max.

    • @theresarossi6306
      @theresarossi6306 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jacquelynskye295 i understand, but like you said " he gave him near the max and he gave him almost the absolute max", he should have given the max period not almost or near the max. You have a almost good day.🙂

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The law in the UK is a joke. They really need to change it.

  • @Moeporcelli57
    @Moeporcelli57 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Evil man, after 16 years of marriage and his affair , he then falsifies an insurance policy in her name and then runs her down and kills her. Her family did not believe he could do such a thing to their daughter, how wrong they were. Such a lovely family and Colettes poor mother my heart broke for her. I have a grown-up daughter and understand what her mum means by her daughter and best friend. I hope he rots in hell and I hope Colettes family eventually find some peace.

  • @susansage7218
    @susansage7218 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Anyone else see Mike from “That Chapter” do the life ins. dance after the announcement at the end?

  • @aglaisio
    @aglaisio ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Bless you Collette's mother, I was a social worker in Chesterfield and my son was born there, so I know the area well. May your beautiful daughter rest in peace. Too bad there isn't a death penalty is all I can say for that lowlife.

  • @c.o3301
    @c.o3301 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Collette’s mother’s grief is heartbreaking.

  • @rubychurch3466
    @rubychurch3466 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Why didn’t he just leave her? He had no right to take her life.

    • @taraalan1131
      @taraalan1131 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Money…….

    • @bee12355
      @bee12355 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He wanted the insurance money

    • @taraalan1131
      @taraalan1131 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bee12355 £250,000 , and he’d been unfaithful previously.

    • @mona_moalim
      @mona_moalim ปีที่แล้ว

      The oldest motive ever; money and cheating

    • @ceceliagrgin8324
      @ceceliagrgin8324 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He wanted her insurance money...

  • @eommablink6478
    @eommablink6478 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I heart 💗 breaks 💔😢 for her mother. No one deserves to lose a child to murder. May God 🙏 Almighty continue to send her comfort 😢.

  • @elizabethannegrey6285
    @elizabethannegrey6285 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Excellent police work.

  • @bbloni6767
    @bbloni6767 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    What happened to her sons? Hope they can move on from this.

  • @tajmahal5572
    @tajmahal5572 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sweet mother feel her pain 😢
    Hope day by day you recover strength to carry on with your life xx

  • @lynnetudor863
    @lynnetudor863 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Those police need to be greatly commended for their great work. Tragic case.

  • @aigerimbekbolatova8233
    @aigerimbekbolatova8233 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What an injustice 😢😢😢😢😢He was sentenced to prison only for 25 years. 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @johnroddy8756
    @johnroddy8756 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Excellent police work. R.I.P poor girl.

  • @tinasam9996
    @tinasam9996 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Saddest story. God bless her family.

  • @kareenwatson6084
    @kareenwatson6084 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    She was lucky to have lived 16 years after marriage because there was another case in England where the wife was murdered by the husband a few months after marriage.

    • @CWebb-yr7vc
      @CWebb-yr7vc ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just finished watching that one! Young bride named Mary was killed by her psycho husband, Chris. That guy planned it before he even married her!

    • @Lauriej117
      @Lauriej117 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I don’t think she was lucky. No one should ever be murdered by their spouse, regardless of how long they have been married.

    • @judibiggerstaff8054
      @judibiggerstaff8054 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CWebb-yr7vc Never marry a man named Chris.

    • @alsmith9853
      @alsmith9853 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's up with the name Christopher? It literally means Christ bearer. They should live up to the name

  • @joewright6095
    @joewright6095 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'll never understand how someone can say they love someone then attempt to murderthem. Smh

  • @tammyshirks6948
    @tammyshirks6948 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is so sad heart breaking.. The love of money is the root of all evil.. That is in the bible.. I have two son's I couldn't imagine if something like this happened two one of them at all.. Seeing mother cry just broke my heart for her.. God bless this family in your name Jesus Christ our Lord King and Savior the King of all Glory!! Amen... 🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌🙏🙌

  • @joanneel9708
    @joanneel9708 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    GREAT Job Of Investing this crime ❤

  • @rehab5355
    @rehab5355 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sharp Bunch of Investigators!

  • @MaryLove-d5w
    @MaryLove-d5w ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So sad, done out of pure greed. He was an abuser, a financial abuser, and they are capable of anything. Sometimes it’s worse because they are so secretive and calculating. So sorry for her family, it’s destroys your trust in people.

  • @sherylrodgers4817
    @sherylrodgers4817 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watching shows like this makes me glad I'm single 😂

  • @Snwman_
    @Snwman_ ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thoughts and prayers to Collete's family.

  • @sarahbright5231
    @sarahbright5231 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Scary you can be with someone for years and not have a clue who they really are

  • @aimaradiaz1840
    @aimaradiaz1840 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Only 25 years? Here in Florida, USA, he would have probably gotten the death penalty , if not, life in prison without the possibility of parole.

    • @mneves3079
      @mneves3079 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same in Canada life= 25 years and criminals are released earlier for good conduct😮

    • @bluebellmcloughlin
      @bluebellmcloughlin ปีที่แล้ว +8

      In Ireland its even worse he probably would have only served about 10 years here like every thing in my country its a joke

    • @tradeladder146
      @tradeladder146 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Death Penalty is all about Revenge and not Punishment, glad we dont have it in Europe, its been proven time and time again that the Death Penalty is not a deterrent, the Murder rate in Florida for example is a national disgrace, just like Ron Desantis. 😒

    • @andream2110
      @andream2110 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hardly a deterrent is it ?

    • @aimaradiaz1840
      @aimaradiaz1840 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@andream2110 the thing is that if you take the life of someone premeditated and in such a cruel way, you don’t deserve to live. Now, remember , America is a huge country, almost the size of Western Europe. So yes, you will hear in the news more about this type of murders.

  • @helenk4309
    @helenk4309 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The British police is awesome!

  • @charlesgraham9954
    @charlesgraham9954 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    England has the same damn problem the rest of the countries do.

    • @user-jy3zl2vp4b
      @user-jy3zl2vp4b ปีที่แล้ว +3

      But, thankfully, on a much SMALLER scale than here in the States. We have something seriously wrong here. And the guns don't help the situation.

  • @daintyflygirl4va
    @daintyflygirl4va ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What a cruel husband

  • @SuePeg
    @SuePeg ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a coward! Her poor mother and father are destroyed! Why not just walk out? What a sick guy to go through with this heinous act.

  • @lynnreeves451
    @lynnreeves451 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    a life for a life, we are a soft country on murderers… the punishment should fit the crime.. he took his wifes life away prematurely, why should he still be able to get out of prison and carry on…i do have empathy but not for killers with premeditated plots.

  • @yolandasoro
    @yolandasoro ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That is so sad my condolence to the family❤😮❤

  • @mominlok4042
    @mominlok4042 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It's difficult to trust anyone 😢