How to get people to DO WHAT YOU WANT

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  • @guitar911rock
    @guitar911rock ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Fire your audio guy ryan

    • @luxhorizononline
      @luxhorizononline ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Haha looking forward to getting fired ! inshallah 😂

    • @geargrinder69
      @geargrinder69 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah, this sucks

    • @petermajewskicom
      @petermajewskicom ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it’s just his inner demon talking

  • @ruizeduardobr
    @ruizeduardobr ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Principle #1 understand your opponent
    Principle #2 acknowledge their points
    Principle #3 never push for a "yes"
    Principle #4 let your silence do the talking
    Principle #5 keep it positive

    • @Aiworld2025
      @Aiworld2025 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      coming through clutch

  • @TheConorMLife
    @TheConorMLife ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Silence is highly underrated. Never be the first to speak after asking for the close. Thank you Ryan for a phenomenal video :)

  • @matthewbolinger2277
    @matthewbolinger2277 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I’m reading "never split the difference” by Chris Voss and this is right on par with all the same principles

    • @MiguelPerez-fx9jw
      @MiguelPerez-fx9jw ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Many social media influencers portray their “expertise” based on what they read.
      You can pretty much read books, and speak in the language of them and sound like you’re a professional at whatever message you’re trying to provide.
      Welcome to the influencer world 😊

  • @theajayaugustin
    @theajayaugustin ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Honestly, this is the best video I have watched for selling or negotiating. THE BEST. GOT SOOOOOOOOO MUCH VALUE IN THIS PIECE OF CONTENT HERE!!!

  • @Fuku94
    @Fuku94 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The sound distortion is way for Ryan to keep you hooked and listening.

  • @anamariae
    @anamariae ปีที่แล้ว +27

    One of the best videos I've seen on negotiation. Please keep them going about different skills - it's so awesome when someone matches your energy and you can actually relate. Most of the trainings are so plain sometimes that my brain cannot focus at all.

  • @TheSushmaHomeSellingTeam
    @TheSushmaHomeSellingTeam ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Very timely, I really need to hear these words. Thank you for these principles, Ryan. 🙌

  • @edwinduque7544
    @edwinduque7544 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are amazing!!!

  • @TheRealEstate
    @TheRealEstate ปีที่แล้ว +6

    These are definitely tips that I use to close deals. Great information.

  • @meeekzster
    @meeekzster 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hey Ryan, I’m a 17yr from a small town and not much exposure to the world of business. Recently I have been working towards starting a little Shopify business. I’m working through the process and taking it as a learning experience. Your videos have helped me a lot with learning ab many aspects of business! This video taught me some key points about communication and closing deals that not only are applicable in the business realm but also in everyday interactions. Just wanted to thank you!

    • @user-ek7nx6xf7b
      @user-ek7nx6xf7b 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing story, and at 17. Keep going. You are on your way... I wish you the best of outcomes. ❤

  • @sllc1081
    @sllc1081 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Seems sped up

  • @bogdanb32
    @bogdanb32 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ryan is always giving us gold nuggets!

  • @adamwilliamthomas8334
    @adamwilliamthomas8334 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Is this an AI? something is off.

  • @whysitstill9475
    @whysitstill9475 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im rocking with you bro. Keep dropping game.

  • @hebertojustiniano2019
    @hebertojustiniano2019 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Min 1.33

  • @gerhardbouwer8721
    @gerhardbouwer8721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a legend thank you

  • @susanritzmann7694
    @susanritzmann7694 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this Ryan.
    Great points😊

  • @talentekhuzwayo2705
    @talentekhuzwayo2705 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The shirts Ryan wears are honestly superb

  • @josephsuarez650
    @josephsuarez650 ปีที่แล้ว

    Incredibly helpful tips though this is great information!!

  • @harshdarji1122
    @harshdarji1122 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You just summarised the book ‘Never split the difference’ 😂👍 rlly valuable stuff 👏👏

  • @Felix-ms5yd
    @Felix-ms5yd ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely brilliant❤❤❤❤❤

  • @satoriebedes
    @satoriebedes ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Brilliant 🌺love from Hawaii Luxury Real Estate

  • @jessicaliu1512
    @jessicaliu1512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a great video, thank you for the pointers. Next time, if you can increase the volume of the audio or make it clearer, that would help. I've maxed up my volume and still had to really lean in to listen.

  • @MaxMcCuddy
    @MaxMcCuddy ปีที่แล้ว

    Should make a video doing an updated office tour!

  • @JEReyes-cd3zf
    @JEReyes-cd3zf ปีที่แล้ว

    I liked Ryan when he was on tv, he had me at hello. We’re reading out of the same book. Never know when your gonna learn something new, pay attention!

  • @SomeOne-jz7cn
    @SomeOne-jz7cn ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video. However, what's up with the sound?

  • @user-wq8sk4xs7e
    @user-wq8sk4xs7e ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for advices

  • @luxuryrealestatemiamiflorida
    @luxuryrealestatemiamiflorida 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant 👌

  • @josephsuarez650
    @josephsuarez650 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    why tha audio so pitchy

  • @manuellaemonyrealtor
    @manuellaemonyrealtor ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome tips

  • @Fitness.Fanatics
    @Fitness.Fanatics ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video!

  • @lchristianrojas3713
    @lchristianrojas3713 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content Ryan.

  • @user-mn8hw6vk4d
    @user-mn8hw6vk4d ปีที่แล้ว

    Ryan, do you listen to anything while you're working. If you're feeling particularly tired one day, is there a specific thing that you do to keep going? All my respect, all my best,
    Mare

  • @lilydayxx
    @lilydayxx ปีที่แล้ว

    haha love this video! thank you for sharing !

  • @abrasionthermals9172
    @abrasionthermals9172 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mirrored Ryan looks better 🤣 Older and MUCH wiser. Aristocratic, even.

  • @aleksandrolkhovskiy4075
    @aleksandrolkhovskiy4075 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    this is so confusing with the sound. I'm questioning whether it is me or a video, haha.

    • @proagarg
      @proagarg ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's the video. I think they switch the sound to emphasize things, but tbh, it's not well done.

    • @MusicMotivator
      @MusicMotivator ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep, one could say a cool trick but really just a distraction.

    • @lucasmonteiro9886
      @lucasmonteiro9886 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It looks like the video was made with AI. I'm 99% sure about that

    • @aleksandrolkhovskiy4075
      @aleksandrolkhovskiy4075 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lucasmonteiro9886 if you are correct - that would show what AI is - I couldn't watch it longer than 30 seconds.

  • @anonmadara6123
    @anonmadara6123 ปีที่แล้ว

    exceptional

  • @powerwashgirl
    @powerwashgirl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this 🙂👍

  • @chrisz7083
    @chrisz7083 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never split the difference

  • @karan9868
    @karan9868 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1.understand your. Opponents (to whom you are dealing with ) , understand their body language , tone etc (physically) AND also check it out what they are emotionall conveying, means if they have big ego , they will always want to win , then make a conversation about what they will do at their position , this way you will understand and get insights. Also get that who is your opponent and always guide them something,if they are new give them that you will do this if you are at their positions. ALWAYS MAKE THEM FEEL ITS “US” doing the deal.
    2. AKNOWLEGDE THEM , MATCH THEIR BODY LANGUAGE , tonality , style etc (make them feel comfortable) repeat their points so that they feel listening.
    THE KEY TO NEGOTIATING IS NOT NEGOTIATING.
    People don’t want to be sold instead they want to be buying. Show them empathy , don’t be dominating
    3. DONOT PUSH FOR GETTING “yes”
    Nah… this is wrong way YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT.
    Instead get them question that they will answer no. THIS WILL MAKE YOU ONE STEP CLOSER! This will develop a fear among them.
    4.MAKE YOUR SILENCE YOUR TALKING!
    This will do that other party will feel dominant, they will try to speak more BECAUSE EVERYONE HATES SILENCE.
    5.keep it all positive, STAY CALM AND HAPPY THROUGHOUT THE DEAL.
    THE BEST DEALS HAPPEN WHEN BOTH PARTY ARE HAPPY. 🤝😁

  • @therichbuddha3277
    @therichbuddha3277 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great stuff, thank you S. psst, sound is too quiet.

  • @kadiprincess9975
    @kadiprincess9975 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @telaviv007
    @telaviv007 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ryan superstar. Hi from Israel

  • @mjradi4371
    @mjradi4371 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, even for a lawyer

  • @dawitalula8812
    @dawitalula8812 ปีที่แล้ว

    that is smart

  • @Lion_McLionhead
    @Lion_McLionhead 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Processing your voice with intermittent fake stereo always wins the deal.

  • @ggdc11
    @ggdc11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Harvey Specter in real life!

  • @rachelpatterson2327
    @rachelpatterson2327 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Would like to get your thoughts on the condo market in Florida when the new laws pass end of 2024 due to Miami collapse and insurance companies leaving the state? you think developers will be swooping in to buy a bunch of condo communities and mass amounts of sellers all at once not being able to afford the higher HOAs?

  • @youssefhady20
    @youssefhady20 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @9balls.
    @9balls. ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro just achieved a goal by getting me to subscribe

  • @AcesizOfficial
    @AcesizOfficial ปีที่แล้ว

    💯🇬🇧

  • @zonaxmd
    @zonaxmd 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looks like a test for IQ 😂 Who turns up the speed of this video to 0.75 pass it through ))

  • @SebastianCristanchoYT
    @SebastianCristanchoYT ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is sped up right? I do video work and I can usually see it in the blinking

  • @PJP_site
    @PJP_site ปีที่แล้ว

    Sold

  • @TonyKimCre
    @TonyKimCre ปีที่แล้ว

    Art of real estate negotiations

  • @yojirex6374
    @yojirex6374 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is he on 1.5x speed 😭😭

  • @Ridesltd
    @Ridesltd ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a deal tomorrow and I needed this and nature brought it to me. So timely. I'm confident I'll close my deal tomorrow

  • @matthewbolinger2277
    @matthewbolinger2277 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just started my real estate career and this is great info! Working on my first deal now

  • @lefteris1976
    @lefteris1976 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What's wrong with the audio? Sounds like a robot

  • @talentekhuzwayo2705
    @talentekhuzwayo2705 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Was this sped up?

  • @marygrech7644
    @marygrech7644 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yha since when I ded what people tell l s me to do your dreaming

  • @BBartistic
    @BBartistic ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lately your youtube team is doing not so good job. This video is fastened a little bit (just like some previous were), it makes your voice sound like a chipmunk 😆

    • @RosardaR
      @RosardaR ปีที่แล้ว

      He also had a time limit on this video. Specifically, 12-15 minutes before he had to call his client back. This video took 11:29.

  • @jway202
    @jway202 ปีที่แล้ว

    The ego seller are definitely most difficult people 😂

  • @davidpham9353
    @davidpham9353 ปีที่แล้ว

    The value is super good but I really hate this AI work =)))))

  • @9balls.
    @9balls. ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes my mom calls me a chameleon because am what people want me go be when i want something they have, when I get it i move like G

  • @albertozennaro3380
    @albertozennaro3380 ปีที่แล้ว

    Try doing this in the EU 😂

  • @zenzenthaiamulethobby7109
    @zenzenthaiamulethobby7109 ปีที่แล้ว

    Volume soft. Need to change to better mic.

  • @DeBoRL
    @DeBoRL ปีที่แล้ว

    @GrantCardone come take some tips from this guy, he's talking about people like you, little man.

  • @AzulWells
    @AzulWells ปีที่แล้ว

    How does vid just have 35k views? Great advice delivered by one of the best in the biz …Ryan! Love your vids!!
    … see how I did that? Stroke the ego baby!!
    🙊 Azul

  • @ptrbask640
    @ptrbask640 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    when you make that commission buy a new microphone

  • @jesseshirtsmusic
    @jesseshirtsmusic ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is ai

  • @frankm5019
    @frankm5019 ปีที่แล้ว

    if you don't have an ego and have an internet connection you don't need a R.E. agent

  • @daletrade5178
    @daletrade5178 ปีที่แล้ว

    YOU STOLE THIS FROM CHRIS THE HOSTAGE NEGOTIATOR

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster ปีที่แล้ว +1

    how to get a girl u like on a fking date!

  • @dac8939
    @dac8939 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude dye your hair

  • @tkokflux6322
    @tkokflux6322 ปีที่แล้ว

    yo I gotta be honest I love ryan but why does some of ur vids have messed up audio

  • @beatrizweck6457
    @beatrizweck6457 ปีที่แล้ว

    You’re awesome, handsome and funny and succesful im learning a lot with your videos, I suscribed and follow you on insta. Thank you for your knowledge and expertise.