Why No One Can Ever Control A Quiet Person
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- Why No One Can Ever Control A Quiet Person. Society often underestimates a quiet person's ability to take control because of their perceived timidity. But is this really true or only a myth? In fact, quiet people are the most difficult ones to manipulate.
Quiet individuals prioritize their own well-being and self-care, and they know the essence of maintaining healthy boundaries in relationships and interactions. By setting clear boundaries, quiet individuals assert their autonomy and protect their emotional and physical well-being. They communicate their limits and expectations, making it difficult for others to infringe upon or manipulate them. Clear boundaries also help quiet individuals maintain a sense of control over their own lives. They can effectively say "no" to requests or demands that do not align with their values or priorities. This assertiveness and self-assuredness make it challenging for others to exert control or pressure them into doing something against their will. Likewise, setting clear boundaries establishes a sense of self-respect and self-worth. Quiet individuals understand their own needs and honour them by communicating their boundaries. This self-awareness and self-advocacy contribute to their resilience and ability to resist manipulation or control. As a quiet person, can you also assert and protect your boundaries in your closest relationships?
A quiet person's power lies in their innate qualities and personal strengths. Their independent thinking and resistance to peer pressure make them resistant to control. So they can effortlessly stay true to themselves and maintain control over their own lives. As a quiet person, do you also think it's impossible for anyone to dictate your thinking? How can you resist the pressure to blindly conform every day?
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00:21 10 Because of their resistance to peer pressure
01:15 09 Because of their high emotional resilience
02:28 08 Because of their need for authenticity
03:48 07 Because of their unspoken power
05:04 06 Because they need trustworthy support systems
06:24 05 Because of their inner strength and self-reflection
07:40 04 Because of their thoughtful decision-making
08:56 03 Because of their independent thinking
10:05 02 Because of their impressive observational skills
11:13 01 Because they can set clear boundaries
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00:21 10 Because of their resistance to peer pressure
01:15 09 Because of their high emotional resilience
02:28 08 Because of their need for authenticity
03:48 07 Because of their unspoken power
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06:24 05 Because of their inner strength and self-reflection
07:40 04 Because of their thoughtful decision-making
08:56 03 Because of their independent thinking
10:05 02 Because of their impressive observational skills
11:13 01 Because they can set clear boundaries
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Because the less we talk the harder it is to manipulate us.
Just means more mental health support you will need and more work for the therapist.
Many quiet people have been abused and manipulated, but they can learn very quickly. I have observed a narcissist voice aloud, in my presence, just so I could hear “it’s the quiet ones to watch out for “, I did not respond because I could understand, and see past just the words, the tone, the body language, the eyes…..(hate, insecurity, contempt..) when you stay quiet, you observe more, you see, you learn to understand more. there’s a down side to being quiet, but also an upside.
Most of us are reclusive and do not socialise. We do not care what others think of us. Peer pressure is ineffective with someone that does not socialise nor cares about what others think of them.
That's the only way you can defeat and beat your enemies what ever you say and do will be use against you !!!!! I love and enjoy being in solitude!!!!!
Nobody's in control of anything outside of you you are only in control of you.
I’m NOT a quite person but definitely an introvert and I can also not be manipulated…. I grew up with a very manipulative mother so I can spot that shit from 100 miles away …..
Us quiet ones always pay far more attention then other people realize. We may not say much but we think things over. We may look complaint, may look like we agree but we wait to see if actions fit words and behavior's. I personally stick with the trusting someone until they prove me otherwise principle. Not a problem if you happen to be an honest, trustworthy person... if a pattern starts to emerge in our interaction with you where you come across as unreliable, flakey, don't back words with action, backstab people... we will eventually pick it up and once we stop trusting you well... goodbye, sorry for ghosting you, not.
Still doesn't give you a right to not respond and ignore people, though?
Never mess with quiet people, you've been warned. :)
I don't know, dude. I wouldn't say that but some are jerks and do it on purpose. Some also need mental health help.
You'll never hear them coming...
I think this is more a description of a true introvert rather than a quiet person. It is very much a description of a mature and healthy INFj personality.
The fact that you cannot control someone quiet is for some greatly discomforting these days.
As a quiet person, with the anointed awareness that the video describes, it was a bit rattling when the world noise dropped to near silence when the pandemic came. The only noise coming was from the rule relayers on part of the rule makers. For me, it was more demanding to pay attention from being shorted that daily input than, say, the everyday input. My quiet person's senses elevated when i realized that the rules are vastly different, oppositional in some cases, when quietness is forced and enforced upon the not-so-naturally quiet, like birds before the storm.
Thanks, it explains a lot. I have difficulty following the crowd, I'd much rather find my own way, I'm quite the non conformist tbh which helps being able to see through a lot of the bullcrap playing out currently. Quiet reflection and critical thinking are also essential tools that a lot of people don't seem to possess nowadays, and also being able to resist peer pressure is another useful trait, in fact the more they push the more it makes me resist and refuse to be coerced which drives some other people up the wall but I don't care, they can get screwed. Reminds me of an old saying, the emptiest tin is always the loudest.
Proud of the quiet me
There are a lot of assumptions about people solely based on they fact that they are quiet.
Different people stay quiet for very different reasons and throwing them all together like this video does makes no sense whatsoever.
I am quite but extremely kind. For this reason I was manipulated and oppressed for 5 years by my ex wife.
You were in a marriage and for obvious reasons had reasons to do everything you could to make it work. Of course we want to be kind to those we love, even if in the end you realise it simply isn't appreciated. In my experience 5 yrs is about the longest time that a sensible quiet person can continue to persevere against adversity in a relationship. I would be willing to bet that during those 5 yrs, you didn't always give in to your wife's manipulation, especially during the latter part of those 5 yrs. I hope things are better for you now.
@@justinmiles9096 thank you for your kind reply. Unfortunatly until the very end of the relationship I was totally submitted and manipulated. She knew too well my weak point: everytime I expressed my irritation or even disagreement she started immediatly crying and playng the role of Cinderella.Since I have a natural instinct of protecting the weakest, I always took her in my arms after one of her monumental scenes. When I finally ( too late I admit) realized she was manipulating me I took my stuff and I left her. After the divorce I luckily managed to get my house back.
@peek5548❤
I am still in this relationship after
fifty years I wish I was as strong as you are
I’m the same, thankfully I’ve not been in a situation like you have involving a spouse, but I have been manipulated and taken advantage of over the years by others because of my kind/unassuming nature.
this is me all out, just explained my entire being I will not bend I can not be broken i look at most people as if they were slaves to society, I am aware that many people do not even form their own opinions their friends and or family will provide it and they will get their own from from the propaganda they receive unknowingly. the social programming that goes on today is insane. I watch the world its passing me by but I am so aware of everything I do not gossip, moral virtue. I cant help but hear it. it doesn't interest me but i can learn a lot. the ego's around me I see them for what they are. people's insecurity's and need to fit in depresses me I want to wake people up but I can not it's like I am the crazy one. life is one big rat race and look I aint in this pissing contest. i know what i am about and i can tear people reasoning and arguments to shred's but i find it best to not let people close enough to even get a chance to effect my way of being. I need to find a woman who is like this but its near impossible when you dont fit in its like you have a disease i am no alpha male I am no beta male, what I am saying is I am no leader and I am no follower. I do my thing so its very difficult to find a partner because I am free in a mind and sprit ultimately very openminded but I am no fool. done loads of stupid stuff in my life I have to say I call it character building I am an ex drug addict of the highest order so i was a rebel from the start.
@1ukjunglednbraver
I can understand your worries about finding a suitable partner. There are very few women who possess these qualities; I know this because I am one, of 73yrs. Modern life & social media are dumbing them down & making them very narcissistic, unfortunately.
I don’t know what the answer is, but I wish you luck. You sound like a strong, persistent person & you deserve a similar partner.
@@GWAYGWAY1 thankyou for you're input. what you are saying don't I know it, people are going crazy we were better off without social media. people sharing their lives but only the best bits they are living a lie but try to keep up appearances I see some normal people and its like they have a PR team do everything for them. I speak to doctors even they are programmed its like a crime to think critically or question the status quo or new status quo. times are changing.
Yep well keep them guessing . Its all going on just not on display .
they dont say dumb shit that can be used against them.... they becomes forgotten and left alone
Being quiet or reserved is basically the same thing, and it's an introvert trait. "Liza is quiet but friendly".
My character is quiet, analytical and pragmatic.
I walked into a meeting of colleagues who screamed and ranted at me for three minutes straight.
I looked at them square in their eyes the entire time.
When they'd finished. I fixed the stare on them, in complete silence for at least another ten seconds.
This made them really uncomfortable, even squirm.
I then delivered my actions, told them we are all agreed, looked at them again for acknowledgement. I nodded and said yes. They too nodded.
I then turned on my heals and walked out.
Meeting over!!!
Like a boss! 😎
I'm a quiet person and no one can control me.
Minimal contact means minimal conflict...
That's just your personality it's okay bud just keep your chin up.
So true. I can honestly say that I have learned many ways to survive by being willing to impartially critique myself.
If I mess up, I do not sugar coat it and then try to figure out what to do in order to not mess up again.
As to friends, they are smarter than I will ever be. I trust them and stand by them as a loyal ally and friend. I am willing to fight with them in their fights until the bitter end.
I talk more than "quiet" but spend long periods of time saying nothing at all. When I speak, I expect you to listen if it's addressed to you. I'll make sure you hear. Most of this is spot on. The less you engage with people directly about your already-formed ideas, the less they try to pull you away from your values. I'm no king or general but I live a relatively peaceful life.
Excellent video. Very enlightening.
They are the ones who don't get manipulated, but manipulate other highly sensitive and emotional beings very well.... You never know what is breeding in their minds....
We have to because we die inside when we submit to other people's desires that go against ours. We are very sensitive to our own suffering.
Don't let this quiet demon of me full you....I'm not the one to be play with
That is why quiet people are hated in the workplace.
don’t bet on it. they got next level methods. read your mind and control your thoughts direct
So true!!
When you are able to resist control and manipulation, essentially and in the climate we currently have, you resist destruction.
Just remain quiet .
This is so me!
I would say something--but I'm quiet....
No one control me. I am my own boss. It's what i wanted to hear.
well, if one is so much pre occupied with "control", internal or external, they would have some control issues ... in fact you can only associate as much as you can, not as far as positive imagination goes.... balance needed
When your quiet thy think your a push over. But you wait for the right moment is when thy fuck up and enjoy watching lol 😂
If my family had a motto it would be " go ahead try and me do it". It won't work. All 7 of us have an allergy to authority.
Truth.
All of this is true but they still tell quiet people alot of times that they have low self-esteem if they can't control them. So I don't know if it's a mind game or what.
I'm an empath . I'm an introvert .
Quiet people are the most sure of themselves
Im a quiet person, and ill be damned if anyone can control me.😅
My ex told me that he meeded total control in our relationship in order for it to work. I told him "no one will control me" and broke up with him.
Correct Michael so much better person who always be good man.i prefer this kind
We together really comfort.he knows how to be good man .u don't know
Some people are quiet because they're withdrawn. No more no less.
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We can be manipulated, just meet a vulnerable narc
anyone can be manipulated depends on the mix
Aye, realised after 25 years that a dude I knew was a complet narcissist. Generally I'm good at reading people but we all helped build up his ego so it was harder for me to notice. Either way, that trash is out of my life lol.
Keep your eyes open, your ears open, your mouth shut, and your finger on the trigger....😂
My character is quiet, analytical, not trusting, anti-social
This video could have been quite a bit shorter...
Yeah, sure.
Yup🤐😂
I'm not even quiet just put on a act and take notes and evidence they fall for it also put on a act to look i have zero confidence in myself once I snap out of it game over for them time to come out of my act.
Happened at my workplace colleagues like wtf this dude played us. 😂 now everyone avoids me lol
Its not an introvert its a psykopath
Look , listen and feel. Not kind to condescending people.
I can lol 😂
"Why Ralph Kramden Had No Power in His Marriage
Real quiet people pov on this video:
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I rejoice that Jesus Christ is in full control of my life. ❤️✝️
Yeah but I also think you can do some work too as well to make that change.
@@Jtyoutube2467 I’m 61, disabled and on a good pension. Retired on I’ll health 13 years ago. How do you get from that statement that I’m not walking with the Lord who has brought me through so many trials in my life? Please don’t think you know everyone’s circumstances when you post. That could be so discouraging to many people. Surrender to Jesus is the only way in life. ❤️✝️
There's a few ways to control quiet people.
First is planting seeds of doubt, and then letting them think about it. Because most of their thinking is internalized, it will bounce around and possibly manifest in a way that makes them agree with your agenda.
Second, there's mood swings. Since they aren't emotionless robots, they will have some vulnerability with emotions. These emotions can be controlled by affecting things they like or hate, depending on what you want from them. This will either make them open up to you, or make them very angry. Either way, they are now vulnerable to manipulation tactics.
Third, is temptation. Offer them something they desire above anything in exchange for a favor or two. A lonely quiet mind always has a longing for something else, you just gotta find out what it is.
Fourth, is drugs. Under the influence, even quiet peoples walls come down and they show their true faces and motivations. This can be used for most people as well.
Fifth, is thoroughly planned deception. You could "save them" from a group of attackers who you hired or know, and gain their trust that way. Then you talk with them a bit and act friendly with them, offering to exchange numbers and maybe hangout later. Then you slowly become their best friend and confidant, until you have a juicy piece of info to blackmail them with. It's super shitty, but it would work unless they really don't care about their social image. It's also extremely difficult, since they can see through most lies on the spot.
There's other ways as well, but I don't want to type a wall on how to manipulate people.
your used to doing this huh
You would have a hard time with me as I am very paranoid and suspicious of any one trying to befriend me.i wouldn't tell U the truth either.
@@robertbruhcuh3634 Nah, those are just things I lived through. Except for the last one which I made up.
That's not how to manipulate quiet ppl. That's how to manipulate emotional damages individuals. 1) Doubt only works when they themselves already have doubts to begin with. 2) emotional manipulation only works if they trust you and most "quiet" ppl are really internally judging you like why is this person saying such things. They seem kinda off. 3) Quiet doesn't equate to coveting so for the most part the quiet person pretty much can talk themselves into not needing xyz so temptation is not likely. 4) Unless you sneak drug them they won't take it bc quiet ppl are suspecting of others in general or unless they have existing emotional damage bc like I said they talk themselves out of "needing" things bc they don't want to be bothered which is why they are quiet. 5) Your treading on psychopathic tendency/territory.
Quiet people, by the definition are thinkers bc that's how they organize their thoughts -by being quiet. You will be very hard pressed to out thinking a quiet person. It's the dif between extrovert and introverts. Some ppl think out loud and some think inside their head and if they are quiet, you can be sure they are thinking of all angles to a problem or situation. Most talkers are ppl who have a need to fill the dead air space which is a reason why they have problems assessing situations bc silence given them anxiety so they feel the need to talk to fill the space. But quiet ppl will take the silent time to work things out in their head bc they have no feelings of anxiety with silence where most ppl get uncomfortable without sound.
Won’t work
The thumbnail helped me realize I want a bald chick.
I'm going to Mt.Sinai!
Meh. Only a string psyche is hard to control. I dint think its veing quiet which affects this.
Its cool ..exept iff you ise it as a tool ore Even a Weaving to torture People into desperation and loneliness when they need help and support and shouting for Saviore.its tyran y its not just "a quiot person "
Is this AI generated?
We are normal people not abnormal so we have normal people brain but his brain non human.
Its not silence its ignorance
Sometimes, I think they just do it on purpose, to be jerks. That's how humanity is I think it's sad.
@@Jtyoutube2467 oh yes a bit pathetic off brainwashed ..🙄🤭🙄😝
@@Jtyoutube2467 are you seriose
Am 😂the only one who notices the Russian accent on this site? This is a propaganda channel.
Everything is propaganda bro.
I know that's why we always catch the unibombers to Goddamn late!!