You're absolutely right The father's decision to leave the money with his lawyer speaks volumes about his trust in the lawyer's judgment over the mother's It's a clear indication of his intent to protect his daughter's future and ensure she has the support she needs
I get the feeling he figured out what kind of woman the mother was and took precautions to protect his daughter when he was gone. The whole town hated her for a reason it seems.
If your dad saw you now, he'd say something along the lines of: "good for you taking care of yourself and being strong enough to stand up for yourself and handle your business. You got that from me kiddo!"
OP's father left the money for his bio daughter not children of some other man. OP is following her father's last wishes. OP's mother chose the family she supports, and it isn't OP.
OP should also post her so-called mother's response. No explanation, no more stating facts, just the plain, horrible response. Did that step-dad know about OP's money? It sounds like that may have been part of the attraction to OP's mom.
If your father were alive today to witness this vengeful and malicious side of you he would be terribly disappointed and wouldn't even want to be related to you. Says the "mother" 😒 woman 😮💨 who wants to give her late husband's money to her new family and forget about her own. Yeah, that wasn't late husband responsibility. That's why the late husband left it to his own kid. P.S., if the father was still alive, the money was still go to Her. Duh🙄
NOT YOUR SIBLINGS ! THEY MISTREATED YOU ENTIRE TIME KNOWING YOU ! NEVER EVER ! BOUGHT YOU A BIRTHDAY 🎂. GIFT 🎁 CHRISTMAS 🎄 GIFT 🎁 ! DUDE NEVER TOOK YOU ON FAMILY VACATIONS
You have no obligation to pay for the education of your step siblings!! Your dad set up your fund because he obviously had his doubts about your mom!!!
Mother is manipulating the OP, without a doubt. It's only a matter of time before she calls saying 'i'm so sorry for everything, would you mind sending me money?'
Even if you get the scholarship you could use that money for a down payment on a house . It's dead setting up for his future not for his mother and step kids
MOTHER PROMISED. HUSBAND ALL OF YOUR INHERITANCE ! IN HOPE HE WOULD STAY AROUND ! YOUR INHERITANCE IS ONLY REASON DUDE STAYED ! WAITING FOR YOUR MONEY 💵
You should not let your Mum manipulate you . Your Dad left you the college fund not your step siblings. Have fun and enjoy your time at the college that you chose. Stay safe , all the best .
Nope. She can't just kick you out. She has to give you 30 days notice; people think this only applies to tenants - it doesnt. Stop down there at the court clerk and they'll give you the statute and help you file. If they lock you out, you call police, otherwise you just deal with the civil court.
That money was left for YOU not your step siblings. if your mother wants to send her stepchildren to college, her and her husband can pay for it... that has NOTHING to do with you.. personally I would've been done with her when she allowed her stepchildren to treat me like crap for year's... when she actually fixed her mouth to ask me to share money my father specifically left for me & my education. . She would be dead to me..
Your father was not THEIR father. Also, if your father was alive, he would have been very upset with you if you had shared with them. He would have probably told her, “that’s why we were divorced”. God bless you. 🙏🏻✌🏻
OP needs to also learn how to move in silence. They never should have told Mommy Dearest about their resolutions but just gotten the heck outta Dodge, so to speak.
the kid should question if her fathers parents dident contact her by ther choise or wasent let past the so-called mother. and possibly try to connect with them if nothing else just to learn a bit more about her father (oh and make it clear to them that it isent about finnancial gain but to learn about her father and that side of her extended family)
When it comes to money donor eggs and sperms always show their true selves. Also let the lawyer who handled your dads affairs that she’s giving you a hard time
DID MOTHER SHARE YOUR SURVIVORS BENEFITS ?? FROM FATHER SOCIAL SECURITY. , WITH YOU ? THAT CAME EVERY SINGLE MONTH ? PAPER CHECKS CAME IN BOTH YOUR &. MOTHER NAME ! PROBABLY CAME DIRECT DEPOSIT ! SO SHE COULD GIVE 2. DUDE AND HIS CHILDREN
So sorry you have gone through this. I’m with you. Not easy to share especially when they are step siblings. Your father did a good thing for you. Mixed marriages are so difficult. Parents just assume that their kids will get along and like each other. Not do. Even a new wife not always easy to accept the father’s child.
INHEIRETANCE. WAS ONLY IN YOUR NAME ! FATHER DIDNT TRUST HER ! EVEN AFTER GIVING THEM ALL YOUR SURVIVORS BENEFITS ! THAT WASNT ENOUGH ! SHE PROMISED THEM INHERITANCE !
I agree 100% with your decision. You have grown up quickly due to a crazy mother and step family? You created your own bubble growing up. If your mother wanted you in her bubble you would have to follow her RULES. Be GUILTED TO SHARE YOUR Inheritance WITH ignorant entitle step siblings. Trying to seek approval of love from your mom who will never give it to you will only waste your time. 😅Move on and find your own happiness as well your father looking down at your own accomplishments.
Forget everything else. OP IS AN ONLY CHILD. What will the mother do when she is old, husband dies and she is not wanted by her step children. OP's mom really burnt her bridges
Guaranteed the mother had resentment because she wasn't able to touch the money but she was also able to get child support from moneys and it ate at her that her daughter had more she couldn't get to .. Her daughter would have gotten death benefits and of course in order for her to be able to have that trust, there would have had to be some money to give to the mother to help support the child.. But that whole time, she had resentments toward her daughter guaranteed that her daughter had some money put away and the other kids were probably resentful because they knew that money too.. She grew up in a situation where there was real resentment..
I have one thing to say ,, does your mother or step siblings pay rent to be running around in your HEAD trying to make you feel guilty. THY OWN SELF BE TRUE ROCK ON AMEN 🙏 🙏 🙏
op your dad did right by you by letting the lawers look after the funds. as we've all ready how to meny times mum or dad dips into it and then years later theres nothing left.
I think you are honouring your father by using his money sensibly to get through university and set yourself up in life as he would have done if he still lived. Why didn’t your stepdad save a fund for his kids? Was the plan all along to use yours?!
Try reaching out to your dad's parents maybe they'll have something to do with you maybe not at least you have tried and maybe it was just your mother telling you that they were horrible people that didn't want anything to do with you
If this is real sounds like the stepfather supported her for a majority of her life and when asked for help she said nah also since she can't name anything specific just feelings sounds like op is selfish sounds like I'd want to know the other side of the story
The backgroung screen for the narration is HORRIBLE. the moving around hurts the eyes and makes it hard to follow the story. I didnt catch most of the story ' i usually have to read captions. IF I SEE THIS again I'll just skip it.
written by AI, it forgot how to end the story and that she had put the video online to claim "can't use as evidence". anyways, pretending this is real. The stepkids have the mom and stepfather's assets for them. She had no one, not even her own mother, that alone to be equitable would entitle her to keep her college fund.
'Pretending this is real' is exactly what I tell myself when I watch these videos. It's a bit of a waste of time but provides a good chuckle. I always want to see how extreme these totally made-up rage-baiting stories get.
Your father left the money for you education and not to be given away your step siblings has their own father and stepmom you have no one your mother is a sick mother and no feelings for you
L FUCKIN BOZO im a baptist so yes i'm religious but that's the most ridiculous things to say get with the times even in the bible God noted that times and normalities change
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The is a reason OP's father left the money in the control of his lawyer and not OP's mother.
OP's a real idiot not seeing that. She's been treated horribly, but keeps giving her more opportunities. A real idiot and masochist. ;-)
You're absolutely right The father's decision to leave the money with his lawyer speaks volumes about his trust in the lawyer's judgment over the mother's It's a clear indication of his intent to protect his daughter's future and ensure she has the support she needs
I get the feeling he figured out what kind of woman the mother was and took precautions to protect his daughter when he was gone. The whole town hated her for a reason it seems.
YOUR DAD WOULD BE PROUD OF YOU. THATS WHY HE LEFT CONTROL TO THE LAWYERS NOT YOUR MOTHER
This is why a parents worst fear will always be, “what will happen to my child if I’m not around.” Well a good parent at least
If your dad saw you now, he'd say something along the lines of: "good for you taking care of yourself and being strong enough to stand up for yourself and handle your business. You got that from me kiddo!"
Well said.
Stepfather's failure to plan and prepare is not your emergency.
OP's father left the money for his bio daughter not children of some other man. OP is following her father's last wishes. OP's mother chose the family she supports, and it isn't OP.
I'd wager that the egg donor probably told the new family this plan before the stepbrother even left highschool.
OP should also post her so-called mother's response. No explanation, no more stating facts, just the plain, horrible response.
Did that step-dad know about OP's money? It sounds like that may have been part of the attraction to OP's mom.
If your father were alive today to witness this vengeful and malicious side of you he would be terribly disappointed and wouldn't even want to be related to you.
Says the "mother" 😒 woman 😮💨 who wants to give her late husband's money to her new family and forget about her own.
Yeah, that wasn't late husband responsibility. That's why the late husband left it to his own kid.
P.S., if the father was still alive, the money was still go to Her. Duh🙄
5 head late father imo, he knew the mother belong to the street, and make his last will to give his entire money to op
Aren't you glad that your dad saw through your mother's character and kept your money safe from your mother?
NOT YOUR SIBLINGS ! THEY MISTREATED YOU ENTIRE TIME KNOWING YOU ! NEVER EVER ! BOUGHT YOU A BIRTHDAY 🎂. GIFT 🎁 CHRISTMAS 🎄 GIFT 🎁 ! DUDE NEVER TOOK YOU ON FAMILY VACATIONS
You have no obligation to pay for the education of your step siblings!! Your dad set up your fund because he obviously had his doubts about your mom!!!
It's not your fault it's your mother's fault because your mom is selfish.
Mother is manipulating the OP, without a doubt. It's only a matter of time before she calls saying 'i'm so sorry for everything, would you mind sending me money?'
Even if you get the scholarship you could use that money for a down payment on a house . It's dead setting up for his future not for his mother and step kids
If her Father were alive today she wouldn't have this problem.
I hope everything resolves smoothly and you find peace in your decision
The way I would've shared those texts under the og fb post😂😂😂
There was a woman standing on a street corner with a sign begging for money for her daughters college fund. Maybe OP's mother could do the same thing.
If I had a parent like that and tried stunts like it, I would've gone to the police after the first heartless act
MOTHER PROMISED. HUSBAND ALL OF YOUR INHERITANCE ! IN HOPE HE WOULD STAY AROUND ! YOUR INHERITANCE IS ONLY REASON DUDE STAYED ! WAITING FOR YOUR MONEY 💵
Exactly. I bet he divorced her once he found out she was fibbing.
I think so too. It's probably why she was so desperate.
They are nothing to you. Why would you give them anything. ?
MOTHER is PITIFUL ! THEY ARENT EVEN HER CHILDREN ! THEY HAVE THEIR OWN FAMILIES ! YET MOTHER IS TRYING TO STEAL ! ONLY THING LATE FATHER LEFT HER
Tell the truth, does this sound like it was written by a teenage girl? No. THIS IS FICTION.
THEY STILL HAVE BOTH PARENTS ! BOTH HAD 16_18. YEARS TO SAVE 4. EDUCATION ! NO MOTHER PROMISED THEM HER INHERITANCE ! ALL THOSE YEARS
YES HONEY TH-cam MADE IT VIRAL HOPE SHE ENJOYS HER FAME LMFAO! GO ENJOY YA LIFE YASSS YA DADDY KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING GOD BLESS YA!
You should not let your Mum manipulate you . Your Dad left you the college fund not your step siblings. Have fun and enjoy your time at the college that you chose. Stay safe , all the best .
Your dad left the money for school, not for your mothers step kids
Nope. She can't just kick you out. She has to give you 30 days notice; people think this only applies to tenants - it doesnt. Stop down there at the court clerk and they'll give you the statute and help you file. If they lock you out, you call police, otherwise you just deal with the civil court.
In other words, they were sad their "mother" was a gold digger, so they decide to become gold diggers...
That money was left for YOU not your step siblings. if your mother wants to send her stepchildren to college, her and her husband can pay for it... that has NOTHING to do with you.. personally I would've been done with her when she allowed her stepchildren to treat me like crap for year's... when she actually fixed her mouth to ask me to share money my father specifically left for me & my education. . She would be dead to me..
Walking away and not looking back. Sorry you have lost both of your parents. Good luck with your new life.
Your father was not THEIR father. Also, if your father was alive, he would have been very upset with you if you had shared with them. He would have probably told her, “that’s why we were divorced”. God bless you. 🙏🏻✌🏻
Hence why he left a lawyer in charge instead of your mother.
OP needs to also learn how to move in silence. They never should have told Mommy Dearest about their resolutions but just gotten the heck outta Dodge, so to speak.
your right to stand your ground
the kid should question if her fathers parents dident contact her by ther choise or wasent let past the so-called mother.
and possibly try to connect with them if nothing else just to learn a bit more about her father (oh and make it clear to them that it isent about finnancial gain but to learn about her father and that side of her extended family)
the stepbrother took a year gap. He could have worked and saved some money. HE choose to be lazy. His fault.
OP's mom let the situation get outta control over money.
When it comes to money donor eggs and sperms always show their true selves. Also let the lawyer who handled your dads affairs that she’s giving you a hard time
DID MOTHER SHARE YOUR SURVIVORS BENEFITS ?? FROM FATHER SOCIAL SECURITY. , WITH YOU ? THAT CAME EVERY SINGLE MONTH ? PAPER CHECKS CAME IN BOTH YOUR &. MOTHER NAME ! PROBABLY CAME DIRECT DEPOSIT ! SO SHE COULD GIVE 2. DUDE AND HIS CHILDREN
I just wanna know where the video at?
So sorry you have gone through this. I’m with you. Not easy to share especially when they are step siblings. Your father did a good thing for you. Mixed marriages are so difficult. Parents just assume that their kids will get along and like each other. Not do. Even a new wife not always easy to accept the father’s child.
Girl thought that was the last she's gonna hear from her mother
INHEIRETANCE. WAS ONLY IN YOUR NAME ! FATHER DIDNT TRUST HER ! EVEN AFTER GIVING THEM ALL YOUR SURVIVORS BENEFITS ! THAT WASNT ENOUGH ! SHE PROMISED THEM INHERITANCE !
I agree 100% with your decision. You have grown up quickly due to a crazy mother and step family?
You created your own bubble growing up. If your mother wanted you in her bubble you would have to follow her RULES. Be GUILTED TO SHARE YOUR Inheritance WITH ignorant entitle step siblings.
Trying to seek approval of love from your mom who will never give it to you will only waste your time.
😅Move on and find your own happiness as well your father looking down at your own accomplishments.
Op got their wish, and TH-cam got ahold of this story😂😂
You are a good person!!😊😊
Also, your friends may list toward taking advantage of you because "its easy for you".
Don't your Mom is manipulating you.
Your Father left you the money for your future.
Forget everything else. OP IS AN ONLY CHILD. What will the mother do when she is old, husband dies and she is not wanted by her step children. OP's mom really burnt her bridges
She's guilt tripping you and doesn't feel sorry at all. NTA at all!
Get a restraining order.
Guaranteed the mother had resentment because she wasn't able to touch the money but she was also able to get child support from moneys and it ate at her that her daughter had more she couldn't get to ..
Her daughter would have gotten death benefits and of course in order for her to be able to have that trust, there would have had to be some money to give to the mother to help support the child..
But that whole time, she had resentments toward her daughter guaranteed that her daughter had some money put away and the other kids were probably resentful because they knew that money too..
She grew up in a situation where there was real resentment..
I have one thing to say ,, does your mother or step siblings pay rent to be running around in your HEAD trying to make you feel guilty. THY OWN SELF BE TRUE ROCK ON AMEN 🙏 🙏 🙏
I had a dad like that he always mean to me and he say he hated me
Every negative comment your mother said about you can be turned back on her. Go LC or NC.
Should’ve shared the posts too.
Sounds like stepfathers problem not OPs
You are not the red flag, they all are 😮
op your dad did right by you by letting the lawers look after the funds. as we've all ready how to meny times mum or dad dips into it and then years later theres nothing left.
Don't share money you won't be able to replace for your own essentials.
I think you are honouring your father by using his money sensibly to get through university and set yourself up in life as he would have done if he still lived. Why didn’t your stepdad save a fund for his kids? Was the plan all along to use yours?!
Try reaching out to your dad's parents maybe they'll have something to do with you maybe not at least you have tried and maybe it was just your mother telling you that they were horrible people that didn't want anything to do with you
If this is real sounds like the stepfather supported her for a majority of her life and when asked for help she said nah also since she can't name anything specific just feelings sounds like op is selfish sounds like I'd want to know the other side of the story
Most likely: not only AI sounded, but also AI generated :)
22:10 a youtube channel in fact DID catch this 😂
I would guess you could use the video as proof if you decided to get a restraining order…I don’t know.🤷🏾♀️
Link the video?
You also might want to get a graduate degree too
The backgroung screen for the narration is HORRIBLE. the moving around hurts the eyes and makes it hard to follow the story. I didnt catch most of the story ' i usually have to read captions. IF I SEE THIS again I'll just skip it.
written by AI, it forgot how to end the story and that she had put the video online to claim "can't use as evidence".
anyways, pretending this is real.
The stepkids have the mom and stepfather's assets for them. She had no one, not even her own mother, that alone to be equitable would entitle her to keep her college fund.
'Pretending this is real' is exactly what I tell myself when I watch these videos. It's a bit of a waste of time but provides a good chuckle. I always want to see how extreme these totally made-up rage-baiting stories get.
IS HOUSE 🏡 ? REALLY YOURS ?? ARE YOU SURE ! HOUSE 🏠 IS MOTHER. , ,??
Was going to like the video, but alas, you can't take criticism because you disabled the dislike button. Oh well, no like for you.
This is so fake it's not even funny.
Your father left the money for you education and not to be given away your step siblings has their own father and stepmom you have no one your mother is a sick mother and no feelings for you
Living in sin without marriage is adultery. Stop living in sin
L FUCKIN BOZO im a baptist so yes i'm religious but that's the most ridiculous things to say get with the times even in the bible God noted that times and normalities change
NOT YOUR SIBLINGS ! THEY MISTREATED YOU ENTIRE TIME KNOWING YOU ! NEVER EVER ! BOUGHT YOU A BIRTHDAY 🎂. GIFT 🎁 CHRISTMAS 🎄 GIFT 🎁 ! DUDE NEVER TOOK YOU ON FAMILY VACATIONS