Thank you Lisa and I want to add that meeting a high value man does not necessarily mean he’s a million dollar man 💵 Please note I am 100% in agreement with Lisa and only injecting my own opinion separate from her statements. I think there’s been a prevalent misconception that leveling up means that we are all going to end up attracting the affections of the men who make millions. That is not true! So please ladies don’t associate the job title,credit cards, cash, and bank statements as your sole focus. Don’t brag to family/friends about your partners career and money unless they are benefitting your life in a way that demonstrates long-term investment. Do keep in mind a senior level project manager could show you a world you’ve never had and give you a happy marriage. Whereas a business mogul can give you a handbag and more stress than a married couple. Lastly don’t learn these tips to be haughty or look down on others. Learn these tips to simply realize you deserve kind and generous treatment.
Oh absolutely! I never said otherwise. A high quality man is not necessarily a millionaire. It's a man that is gentleman, that treat you well, that is respectful, that is responsible and provide for his family 😊 Someone you can count on, that you feel safe and secure with. The world to focuse on is : gentleman 😘
@@Lisaglamour I just injected my two sense. I already know you are definitely an amazing influencer who advocates healthy principles for women! Much love Lisa ❤️
I'm starting to try and see it like this, I want to form a family and when I have my children I want to be the one raising them so my future husband needs to be able to support us in a comfortable lifestyle even if I stop working.
Great video! ❤️❤️❤️ I try not to think about dating too much these days because I need time on my own, and videos like these remind me that the actual best thing you can do single is just to improve yourself! Level up and your choices in dating will elevate as well
I would love a video on fashion/style ideas for a high-value woman. Outfits for all occasions including college, date nights, casual dates or casual outings, to the grocery store etc 😉
I met my ex of 5 years on a dating app and my current partner of 2 years too. I think if I had the options for meeting men socially I would have definitely gone more down that route but going back into dating as a 38 year old woman was much harder this time, especially when you move to a new area nd do not know many people to go out with.
Hi Lisa !!! I'm a really big fan of yours and I love binge watching your videos ❤ I really want to try and incorporate a lot of your femininity advice into my life, but it's kinda hard right now since I'm not really going out much and my social interaction is limited pretty much to texting and Instagram. I was wondering if maybe you could do a video about elegant conversation or feminine conversation tips for these kinds of digital situations? Like how to be alluring and mysterious through text but still keep up a conversation? I would love it, and I'm sure a lot of stuck-at-home college students like myself would really appreciate it! Either way, I love your videos and I can't wait for your next upload! 🤗❤
Gosh, I'm so glad I'm over my low-caliber men days. For some reason I attract the perverts, but I've learned to keep a nice steel door between them and me.
Men players testing the waters , not ready to commit , long distance relationships players so as not to run into the other person. Your detailed information with examples with legitimate reasons i find exceptional
Where can a woman who lives in rural Midwestern United States while going to college in her twenties meet a high value man? That’s probably my biggest problem. 😂
You can meet a good guy in college! Something I wish I did more was spend more time on campus (I was a commuter). A guy who values his studies over parties is a great start. Being respectful, polite and being gentlemanly is what to look for. Try to be involved in clubs and societies on campus!
Lisa, ur videos are awesome❤🤗 Just a question: can women of age bracket between 35-45 years of age also follow these tips n tricks, or are they for much younger women in their 20s?
@@Lisaglamour Oh Lisa thanks so much for this advice! It made my day, also i am a big follower of ur channel, n literally binge watch all ur videos everyday to level up in my feminine journey, in fact this video :dating mistakes just helped me today to walk away from a man who was low value n trying to make me feel bad about wanting the best for myself as a woman, i walked away n ur videos n advice gave me the courage n motivation to do that, you're truly an Angel for women n as u said age has nothing to do with n i treat myself as a prize n have to thank you for that❤🤗 You're doing an amazing job helping women of all ages to know our worth🌟 Cannot thank you enough🙏, ur channel is a blessing n great motivation, sending you so much love and kisses and hugs, we need more women like you to support each other, and you are sooooo beautiful n gorgeous and love ur dressing style and ur personality is pure goddess energy 🌟❤💃 Sending you lots of love all the way from Mumbai, India, your reach is all over the world, you are my favorite TH-camr n a true queen👸👑 thank you Lisa😘
“3.5 billion men on the planet... You really think that you will not find someone that meets your standard, and fall in love with.... and.... and.....” Me: YES! Because my standards are way too high that I literally need a GOD to be my husband
Lisa is wonderful! Gals...she isnt kidding..the masculine quality dudes will do anything for ya when ya "hook" em! We like to play like they are our toy mice..i do! But keep in mind..their Hearts are in your HANDS. Be WORTHY of their Love ! Dont be a predater looking for gains. Youll get FAR more! Be all he deserves and youll be glad.but remmember they will hurt themselves if you steer them toward destruction. They are all like "little children"..so very fragile..esspecially the "ultra-masculine" ones. Trust me i know.😆
Don't play house and give men wife benefits until you're married, otherwise you will be giving him what he wants and wont see marriage as anything to move on... it is like he is just using you for those benefits, even if it wasn't his intent.
I agree, but could you clarify exactly what you count as wife benefits please? I'm in a group that talks about this very thing and I'm never clear on this. I cook for my boyfriend at his or my home, (we don't live together) and I help him with chores at his house, we enjoy time together and apart. I've never been married and perhaps I'm not 100% clear on this "wife benefits". Thank you so much for your help and advice 😊
@@oliviaknight1123 I would say don’t do anything that you would regret if the relationship ended. If you love cooking then I don’t think it is a problem. One boundary can be abstinence until marriage. It is really up to you to decide what your standards/boundaries are.
@@oliviaknight1123 he should hire an housekeeping or lady cleaner to do his chores instead of getting it free from you. Don't spoiled him badly. He is saving too many money to get a new gif until he could get married to her instead of you.
@@luccianalewis9473 hello there!! You know what, I have thought this very thing before, thank you for your honesty.😊 He has a very good job and therefore plenty of money, but he is such a penny pincher!! He wouldn't hire a housekeeper, purely from the point that he would have to pay her😂
What do you do about disgusting men that tell lies about you? When you didn’t want anything with them in that nature (either casual or serious) If you would please do a video on liars that good at manipulation like that I’d very much appreciate that.
@@melissamelissa2603 let him be. Don‘t care, he‘s not your level. He will get bored if he sees that you don‘t care. Don‘t react to him at all. That‘s all he wants- your attention. Don‘t give it to him. 😘💃🏼👱🏽♀️ act kind and nice to others- they‘ll find out that he‘s a liar.
I am not seeing anyone, but I couldn’t resist watching this because of your gorgeous outfits. I wish I could dress like you. Yes, being picky in this case is good, and I refuse to lower my standards. It is a tragedy when highly intelligent women have low standards with relationships - they end up disappointed or devasted, and such relationships have even ruined their lives. Thus, I can’t stand anybody (man or woman) who doesn’t treat me right (and I can’t stand any man who is not a gentleman). 😘❤️👗
I once had an older man just out of the blue tell me in front of other people, at a formal corporate event, that I "need to lower my standards or else I'm going to regret it when I am old" (finger pointing at my face and everything) I only stopped myself from asking him if his wife lowered her standards for him because he was a friend of my then boss. Turned out he was single LOL. (no one even brought up the topic of dating or relationships at this moment) Super unprofessional
He was projecting, he must have mistaken your kindness as weakness or your innocent looking face as a punching bag. You were so gracious towards that man. Sorry you had to deal with such a public slight. Have you ever looked into narcissism> You are so classy and have an admirable level of self control. A true lady of distinction and courage.
I was so happy I already behave like this without trying😅...It just come natural to me..I know my worth and what I want in a relationship,won't settle for less.I am still young so it's great to have a role model like you Lisa 💕
how can we stay elegant and classy as a collage student everyone wears crops and mom jeans type of thing when ı wear dress they're looking to me like ı m weirdo
Just wear discreet dresses, like without patterns and not revealing, with modern shoes (sneakers, mules, etc). Your good appearance and feminine personality will do the rest. That's what I did when I was in high school, I hope it will help you :)
same i'm in secondary school and no one wears skirts or dresses, my friends don't make me feel bad for it, thankfully. some people stare but that's ok since I love the attention😀. they're the weirdos, not you, just keep wearing dresses
Dear Lisa, I wish you a lot of success on your endeavors. These informations about labels are pearls to adorn our beautiful women. Congrats for your excellent portfolio and splendid expertise.
Hello Lisa! I am still in my early teen years, but your videos have helped me throughout my femininity journey. I got out of my gothic/masculine phase and it is nice to see that there are still women out there who preserve their worth, keep high standards, have proper etiquette, put effort into how they look, etc. Sometimes, I feel like a 35 year old in a young body. These days, a majority of people have stopped putting effort, which is horrible for your mental and physical health. I am entering high school this year and a video suggestion I have is how to be charming and magnetic to everyone you meet. Another video suggestion I have is how teens can dress feminine but still look modest and our age. Keep up the outstanding work! xoxo
It's not really "men can do it but we can't". A guy who has been with other women casually has displayed a lack of respect for those women. Men can be too easy, too. If he regrets that past, that's one thing (of course, anyone can change and be forgiven!). But, on its own, it's not attractive. That kind of lifestyle is not something that we should just tolerate as being a fact of life. A real gentleman will treat all women with respect - not just "high quality" women.
The attractive mindset from a guy toward a possible casual relationship is: "You're worth more than that, and I want to show you that you are worth more than that by not taking advantage of you. I want to help you realize your own worth, not use you because you don't know your own worth." Honestly, this is just an attractive mindset from anyone, really, not just guys.
Exactly. I think part of the problem is the toxic feminist movement and the fact that us as women tolerate this from men. Many women are no longer confident or kind to themselves and it manifests in devaluing who they are especially in a relationship. It's a masculine quality to have multiple partners and it's a newer (a few decades) mindset that serves NO ONE. This lifestyle does not come without consequences, regardless of who u are. Imagine what it would look like if all women started behaving with high value standards and confidence?? The men would HAVE to step up and if all women were setting these boundaries like they should be, the men would have no choice but to respect those boundaries. I'm not saying it's completely women's fault, but we play a much larger role and have far more power than we realize. This is why channels like Lisa's are a GODSEND to this generation 🙏
@@Hannah-td3vv is it possible that this kind of " players" also go away from you if you clearly say or show signs of wanting an actual relationship ( nt with them but in life in general) I met one of those guys that I really liked but when he got to know I was religious, went away from me
I have my gym, my Hiking, my work and my reading and my two beautiful daughters! If a man is in my life , he’s absolutely going to be high value because I abhor wasting time and not doing what I love. It’s impossible to be too available when you love what you do in your life. All my female friends forgot about me for guys. It’s very low and those guys lost interest in them and they come crying to me about it. It’s because they dropped everything for a man. Ever since I was in highschool I saw females do this. Dropping me for guys.
Soo true! Hahaha Gilda movie🍀 -Gilda, are you decent? *Flips hair in a sexy way* -decent? Me? I started to watch old movies to take notes about mannerisms, posture, movements... The were soooo elegant🌸🌸🌸
My goodness, you are a vision in this dress! My jaw is on the floor 💎 I really love the softness and gentleness in the way you speak, it's so feminine and respectful...who speaks like this these days? It's so rare. Thankyou ❤️
Lisa! As a Filipina I wanted to thank you for including a clip of our queen, Catriona Gray. I’ve admired her ever since I first laid eyes on her and find her to be one of the classiest, most intelligent, elegant and glamorous women. I love all of your advice and am on my own level-up journey! Watching your videos continue to fuel me and motivate me to be a high-value woman. Love you 💋
Thank you so much for this amazing video! I just broke out with my boyfriend of 2 months who was a very low quality men. I had very high caliber men in my life who treated me like a princess.. I just forgot my value for a little while. THANK YOU a million time for making me remember that has a high caliber woman full of qualities I can do so so much better! It's so easy to be blind by "love" and sometime forget your standards.. We need more people like you!! Sending you love and lots of positive energy
Absolutely gentlemen still exist! They are just more rare. There are still respectful men out there, the key is to be selective, and to know how to recognize them 😊
You are like Sunshine. A guy ghosted me just the day I saw this video . Thats what I needed .Im sure he really got intimidated by me. your voice is so soothing.
What about if a guy ghosted you but you never really dated you were just friends, and then he wrotte you apologizing and saying you are his best friend. He is not a quality man because he dates multiple woman and cheats on them constantly also takes a lot of drugs . But I love him as a person. Its true that we have a close friendship. Is it ok then to writte him to hang out? This is what I would do with a nornal gilfrind of mine. I it ok to writte a guy if you dnt exoect to have anything romantic wirh him?
I don't know if you already figured it out yourself, but I think that it is ofcourse okay to talk and meet with him. You don't need to be romantically involved with a guy to write them 😉 sure, it's not very optimal that he takes drugs and cheats, but if you are careful and won't get dragged into taking drugs bye him, I'd say, if this friendship really is that precious to you, DON'T give that up! 😊 it doesn't matter if it's a man or woman ^^
@@hang-ah thanks a lot I really apreciate your answer! Yes I wrotte him and we laugh and talk a lot its a good friendship like kind of cousins or sibilings. I just have to be carefull bcs when I am in a vulnerable moment sometimes I feel I like him. But its not always, just sometimes. If I feel good about myself I dont like him romantically at all as I wouldnt wish to anyone to be involved with him as he is a pathological cheater and changes his girl every week. As long as I dont develop feelings for him I think its ok to be friends and simply laugh and suport each other. As a friend he is so good. As a work partner too. As a boyfriend... Teerrrible. Some people are good but have deep issues with the love stuff I guess. But I think that doesnt mean you cant be friends with them🤔
Ok so just to be clear so I know that I understand well…If you start dating a man …your standards should be that he should pay for all of the dates ? And then when he becomes your boyfriend he should continue to be the provider? Is it that ? What if a man expects you to pay as well ? Does that mean that you are dating the wrong kind of man? Thoughts??
I loved everything, however am I the only one who jumped when Lisa said “do not text them first”? I do believe my time is precious and for the same reason I do encourage myself to text or ask out myself, instead of waiting around. Most of the times it’s a yes and if not, I can move on and stop worrying about it. I hate living with “what if” thoughts, so I believe it’s a good way to get it out of my head not to mention most of the times for men it’s more intriguing to be direct. most likely they will recognize you for it than butterflying around them and playing hard to get. It looks like Lisa’s standards are towards old Hollywood Gentlemen tropic and that’s lovely, nothing wrong with it. She’s sharing female empowerment with class, but let’s keep in mind than just as women there are a lot of different kinds of man. So not necessarily because he won’t pay for every dinner or text you first is lower standard. However if he’s unpleasant, have a nasty personality or holds a lot of pride but pampers you that’s a whole different story that you don’t wanna be part of... but pretty much what I’m trying to say is that besides those two topics the rest of the mentioned standards are definitely general and a must! Texting and paying it’s more of a personal taste, but I’m not gonna lie, it always feels good to be fully taken care for. thank you for the videos and encouragement 💕
Haha yes don't worry I just said "don't text first" for the first message, to make sure that he is the one chasing you first ! Afterwards it can be natural of course 😘 but at the end do whatever you feel is the best for you, these are just advices to help you, and all women 😊
I don't agree that raising your standards inherently increases your mate value. I think it's good advice for someone that is undervaluing themselves but if anything I think people have a tendency to be overconfident. Perhaps you can retain someone via the sunken cost fallacy but I wouldn't consider someone that falls for this high value. Also, from a theoretical standpoint being passive and waiting for suitors is a bad strategy in the stable marriage problem. You are more likely to end up with a desirable partner if you actively ask desirable people out; in the real world this is also associated with much higher investment and risk however and you need a reliable way of determining mate value. And finally, I 100% disagree that criticizing someone should be off the table. I absolutely hate people who are too proud to admit when they are wrong or make mistakes. To improve anything you first need to recognize that there is a problem. Of course you shouldn't be an asshole when you criticize someone and ideally you would be able to present an alternative to the thing you're criticizing.
I think you did not understand the video. I noticed women nowadays undervalue themselves more and more. Chasing is masculine, men are the hunter, it you chase a man, he will not respect you (exept if you want a more passive feminine man who will prefer a more dominant masculine woman.) I don't think criticism is elegant. I personally don't criticize ramdom people. Defending yourself in case someone is critisizing you on the other hand is obviously important, but the best is just to ignore. People should just focuse on themselves and stop trying to change other people.
"You are the prize"❤❤❤ Lovely Lisa, you are my hero for saying this!! I feel like I want you as my friend to remind me of this and to tell my boyfriend occasionally too... trust me, he needs to be reminded of this from time to time. This will be my new mantra for 2021. ❤ I AM THE PRIZE ❤ Thank you darling, stay safe and well 😘💋❤
Really love your attitude. I have never understood why women are insistent if they are right for the man, it is the opposite. Why waste time on a man you are not into.
Thanks love. I appreciate your work! Something that could help, is for ladies over 35, who are single tend to be higher masculine energy. Can you find someone to connect with (older) & help then out?
Ohh nooo, I couldn't do a long distant relationship because I'd rather have a woman who is close to me. I think this one you mention depends on how a person gives and receives affection. I was raised by three very affectionate women (My Grandma, Mother and Aunt). So, as an adult man, I give and receive affection with physical touch (hugs, cuddles, kisses, massages, etc). I MUST be able to do that often with the woman I am with. Perhaps you are not as needy of physical affection, which is why you can be far away from your mates. I know other women like you. It's usually the women who have never engaged with a man like myself or never received it growing up.....so to them, they're not missing anything. You are a stunning woman....definitely BETTER than all of the celebrities you feature on your videos. Perhaps the Mother of my children will be a carbon copy of you somewhere in the 2020's...haha!
Thank you so much for the compliments! Oh yes no worries I was just sharing my experience a little bit. But a long distance relationship will work if someone move at a certain point, I believe of course :) And since I do not plain on staying in Belgium, I'm open to move out. Otherwise it can be very difficult to stay far away for too long of course 😊
I really Love your videos I subscribed after the first one. One of the reasons is because I too love old classic Hollywood movies. With feminine leads. Do you think that you can start listing the movies that you use in your videos? Maybe even do a video of your fav top 10 movies and why. Thanks
Who wants a man that doesn’t want you? NO THANKS! GOOD BYE ! We need to protect our souls. Being alone is good for building yourself until a Good man comes
I agree, I also absolutely love long distance relationships, or relationships where you don't live with one another and have your own space. Time apart does wonders for your connection
But overall you're so right many women don't even know how to be feminine anymore not fake feminine drama Queens but real quiet confidence Queens am I right?
"Rejection is God's protection"
Yes
Amen!!
Just like karma ;)
EXACTLY.
Thank you Lisa and I want to add that meeting a high value man does not necessarily mean he’s a million dollar man 💵 Please note I am 100% in agreement with Lisa and only injecting my own opinion separate from her statements.
I think there’s been a prevalent misconception that leveling up means that we are all going to end up attracting the affections of the men who make millions. That is not true! So please ladies don’t associate the job title,credit cards, cash, and bank statements as your sole focus. Don’t brag to family/friends about your partners career and money unless they are benefitting your life in a way that demonstrates long-term investment.
Do keep in mind a senior level project manager could show you a world you’ve never had and give you a happy marriage. Whereas a business mogul can give you a handbag and more stress than a married couple. Lastly don’t learn these tips to be haughty or look down on others. Learn these tips to simply realize you deserve kind and generous treatment.
Oh absolutely! I never said otherwise. A high quality man is not necessarily a millionaire. It's a man that is gentleman, that treat you well, that is respectful, that is responsible and provide for his family 😊 Someone you can count on, that you feel safe and secure with.
The world to focuse on is : gentleman 😘
@@Lisaglamour I just injected my two sense. I already know you are definitely an amazing influencer who advocates healthy principles for women! Much love Lisa ❤️
I love this extra comment ✨✨thank you for the nuance 🤍
I'm starting to try and see it like this, I want to form a family and when I have my children I want to be the one raising them so my future husband needs to be able to support us in a comfortable lifestyle even if I stop working.
@@sofiasoto2214 Oh yes!! I am the same way. 👍🏾🧠
Great video! ❤️❤️❤️ I try not to think about dating too much these days because I need time on my own, and videos like these remind me that the actual best thing you can do single is just to improve yourself! Level up and your choices in dating will elevate as well
I would love a video on fashion/style ideas for a high-value woman. Outfits for all occasions including college, date nights, casual dates or casual outings, to the grocery store etc 😉
I love your videos! ❤️✨
Thank you 😍✨
Thank u so much Lisa for this video cus u helped open my eyes ❤keep it up I love u girl ❤
I’m so happy I found your channel . Your videos are so enlightening and they always confirm everything that I have always believed in ♥️ thank you !
Thanks Lisa!!! You look sooooo elegant and perfect in this outfit as you do on all your videos!!!
Thank you very much such a compliment ❤️
I love that you did that little clip of Catriona Gray! You look just like her! Very beautiful!
Oh waw thank you 😍
I would love to hear your opinion or advice on modern dating apps... some tips to help us feminine single women navigate the apps.
Yes please I would love a video on this
Me, too! I’m lost!
Me too :)
I met my ex of 5 years on a dating app and my current partner of 2 years too. I think if I had the options for meeting men socially I would have definitely gone more down that route but going back into dating as a 38 year old woman was much harder this time, especially when you move to a new area nd do not know many people to go out with.
I'm a mature Siren model and to see and watch your channel and advice for women, I'm so impressed. You are gorgeous darling.
Hi Lisa !!! I'm a really big fan of yours and I love binge watching your videos ❤ I really want to try and incorporate a lot of your femininity advice into my life, but it's kinda hard right now since I'm not really going out much and my social interaction is limited pretty much to texting and Instagram. I was wondering if maybe you could do a video about elegant conversation or feminine conversation tips for these kinds of digital situations? Like how to be alluring and mysterious through text but still keep up a conversation? I would love it, and I'm sure a lot of stuck-at-home college students like myself would really appreciate it! Either way, I love your videos and I can't wait for your next upload! 🤗❤
I really love your lipstick color this red is my signature color!!
I absolutely love your channel and the content you create. You are a QUEEN!
i struggle with this, thank u for doing this!
You are beautiful! Thank you for your content.
That dress looks so great on you omg. Oh well you look great in everything but that dress is 🔥🔥🔥 and thank you for guiding us lol
Thank you so much dear Lisa for this video💖💖 very needed🥰
I absolutely love your emerald green dress I need it in my life!💚❤💚💃🏾
I love the way she speaks hahah so funny like a friend to me
Love your videos! Sending love from Brazil 🥰
All I needed to hear ❤️ thank you
Hello!!! I have one question😊 from where is that beautiful blue with black floral dress? IT'S AMAZING I'm obsessed with it😍😍😍😍😍
Femininity Means Self Love
Thank you so much Lisa 💖. I wish you can be my personal mentor in this matter. 💐
Gosh, I'm so glad I'm over my low-caliber men days. For some reason I attract the perverts, but I've learned to keep a nice steel door between them and me.
You are my role model!❤️😍
So sweet 😍😍
You have changed me for good really thankfullll❤❤, lots of love from.India
Ohmyy Catriona Gray was one of your examples ❤ I am a Filipino, too. Thank you, Lisa for sharing your knowledge and inspirations
Catriona is fabulous! So happy you like my videos ❤️
@@Lisaglamour I am Filipina, and I love Catriona gray. Thanks Lisa 🌸🤍😍
Great video. Thank you
Men players testing the waters , not ready to commit , long distance relationships players so as not to run into the other person. Your detailed information with examples with legitimate reasons i find exceptional
When your biological clock is ticking, you simply choose to lower your standards just to have babies. Has happened to many of my friends.
Where can a woman who lives in rural Midwestern United States while going to college in her twenties meet a high value man? That’s probably my biggest problem. 😂
You can meet a good guy in college! Something I wish I did more was spend more time on campus (I was a commuter). A guy who values his studies over parties is a great start. Being respectful, polite and being gentlemanly is what to look for. Try to be involved in clubs and societies on campus!
@@kathleenjohnston3582 that’s great advice! Thank you! So, I guess staying in my room studying all isn’t going to help me?😂
Could you move to New York or LA? I think sometimes you just have to be near a big city.
@@booksboundnoveljourneys1122 you gotta make yourself available so they can find you!! 💝💗
@@plantberet5045 I desperately want to move to New York! I have to finish my degree first. I have another year left.
Could you show your wardrobe? We would love such video!!! Bien à toi :)
Can u pls pls pls do a video on how to hold a conversation wit a guy or what to talk about when ur in a car wit him
Lisa, ur videos are awesome❤🤗
Just a question: can women of age bracket between 35-45 years of age also follow these tips n tricks, or are they for much younger women in their 20s?
Women of absolutely all ages can follow this tips 🥰 Women are the prize always, it has nothing to do with age 😘
@@Lisaglamour Oh Lisa thanks so much for this advice! It made my day, also i am a big follower of ur channel, n literally binge watch all ur videos everyday to level up in my feminine journey, in fact this video :dating mistakes just helped me today to walk away from a man who was low value n trying to make me feel bad about wanting the best for myself as a woman, i walked away n ur videos n advice gave me the courage n motivation to do that, you're truly an Angel for women n as u said age has nothing to do with n i treat myself as a prize n have to thank you for that❤🤗
You're doing an amazing job helping women of all ages to know our worth🌟
Cannot thank you enough🙏, ur channel is a blessing n great motivation, sending you so much love and kisses and hugs, we need more women like you to support each other, and you are sooooo beautiful n gorgeous and love ur dressing style and ur personality is pure goddess energy 🌟❤💃
Sending you lots of love all the way from Mumbai, India, your reach is all over the world, you are my favorite TH-camr n a true queen👸👑 thank you Lisa😘
You so gorgeous 😍😍😍😍
Thank you
I like your dress you are so beautiful
You’re a genius❣️
Where have you bought your dress?
I really love your videos, thank you! #Picky
Where is your dress from? 😍
Where is the dress from?
It's from Asos, she replied one of the subscribers who enquired
True!!
You look so lovely 😍
like for miss philippines
Just ❤️
Pls what is the name of the woman at 3:47?
Catherine Zeta Jones
Wait but what if you’re both broke college students? I would feel really bad not at least offering to help split the bill.
♥️♥️♥️
“3.5 billion men on the planet... You really think that you will not find someone that meets your standard, and fall in love with.... and.... and.....”
Me: YES! Because my standards are way too high that I literally need a GOD to be my husband
and u end up single for the rest of your life
@@omara4726 YES!
Lisa is wonderful! Gals...she isnt kidding..the masculine quality dudes will do anything for ya when ya "hook" em! We like to play like they are our toy mice..i do! But keep in mind..their Hearts are in your HANDS. Be WORTHY of their Love ! Dont be a predater looking for gains. Youll get FAR more! Be all he deserves and youll be glad.but remmember they will hurt themselves if you steer them toward destruction. They are all like "little children"..so very fragile..esspecially the "ultra-masculine" ones. Trust me i know.😆
Don't play house and give men wife benefits until you're married, otherwise you will be giving him what he wants and wont see marriage as anything to move on... it is like he is just using you for those benefits, even if it wasn't his intent.
Absolutely! Well said darling 😘
I agree, but could you clarify exactly what you count as wife benefits please? I'm in a group that talks about this very thing and I'm never clear on this. I cook for my boyfriend at his or my home, (we don't live together) and I help him with chores at his house, we enjoy time together and apart. I've never been married and perhaps I'm not 100% clear on this "wife benefits". Thank you so much for your help and advice 😊
@@oliviaknight1123 I would say don’t do anything that you would regret if the relationship ended. If you love cooking then I don’t think it is a problem. One boundary can be abstinence until marriage. It is really up to you to decide what your standards/boundaries are.
@@oliviaknight1123 he should hire an housekeeping or lady cleaner to do his chores instead of getting it free from you. Don't spoiled him badly. He is saving too many money to get a new gif until he could get married to her instead of you.
@@luccianalewis9473 hello there!! You know what, I have thought this very thing before, thank you for your honesty.😊 He has a very good job and therefore plenty of money, but he is such a penny pincher!! He wouldn't hire a housekeeper, purely from the point that he would have to pay her😂
When you laugh at the idea of the man being the prize 🤣
At first (even for 2-3 months) most men are nice. With time one can see how they really are, though. It's very important to wait and see.
Absolutely 👏 Taking time to get to know him is important
@@Lisaglamour
You look like an old Hollywood star🤩 absolutely stunning
Thank you so much that is the best compliment 😍
Really stunning, elegant and breathtaking! You inspire me!👱🏽♀️❤️
What do you do about disgusting men that tell lies about you? When you didn’t want anything with them in that nature (either casual or serious) If you would please do a video on liars that good at manipulation like that I’d very much appreciate that.
@@melissamelissa2603 let him be. Don‘t care, he‘s not your level. He will get bored if he sees that you don‘t care. Don‘t react to him at all. That‘s all he wants- your attention. Don‘t give it to him. 😘💃🏼👱🏽♀️ act kind and nice to others- they‘ll find out that he‘s a liar.
She's beautiful and classy👸
I am not seeing anyone, but I couldn’t resist watching this because of your gorgeous outfits. I wish I could dress like you. Yes, being picky in this case is good, and I refuse to lower my standards. It is a tragedy when highly intelligent women have low standards with relationships - they end up disappointed or devasted, and such relationships have even ruined their lives. Thus, I can’t stand anybody (man or woman) who doesn’t treat me right (and I can’t stand any man who is not a gentleman). 😘❤️👗
Right? I'm engaged, and will be married in June, but I still like to watch these. Love her content
@@That-Wanderer congratulations! No matter what phase we are, we always learn from Lisa! 😊
Absolutely Gretchen love it, keep your standards high, you absolutely deserve a gentleman 😘
And Congratulations Andrea for your wedding 😍🎊!!
@@Lisaglamour Awwew! You’re so sweet! You deserve one, too! 😘♥️💐
I once had an older man just out of the blue tell me in front of other people, at a formal corporate event, that I "need to lower my standards or else I'm going to regret it when I am old" (finger pointing at my face and everything) I only stopped myself from asking him if his wife lowered her standards for him because he was a friend of my then boss. Turned out he was single LOL. (no one even brought up the topic of dating or relationships at this moment) Super unprofessional
He was projecting, he must have mistaken your kindness as weakness or your innocent looking face as a punching bag. You were so gracious towards that man. Sorry you had to deal with such a public slight. Have you ever looked into narcissism> You are so classy and have an admirable level of self control. A true lady of distinction and courage.
@@fatima-zahrakajji4821 Thank you for your kind words dear, but I would have sassed the hell out of him if he wasn't my boss' friend 😂 😂 😂
@@janyuen123anytime! Yes girl!!!! He's so lucky
His ego was hurt bc he knows he’s not good enough
@@agatainventio9464 YES!
I was so happy I already behave like this without trying😅...It just come natural to me..I know my worth and what I want in a relationship,won't settle for less.I am still young so it's great to have a role model like you Lisa 💕
how can we stay elegant and classy as a collage student everyone wears crops and mom jeans type of thing when ı wear dress they're looking to me like ı m weirdo
Just wear discreet dresses, like without patterns and not revealing, with modern shoes (sneakers, mules, etc). Your good appearance and feminine personality will do the rest.
That's what I did when I was in high school, I hope it will help you :)
F them
same i'm in secondary school and no one wears skirts or dresses, my friends don't make me feel bad for it, thankfully. some people stare but that's ok since I love the attention😀. they're the weirdos, not you, just keep wearing dresses
or u can stare back like they're weird, it makes you feel a tad bit better
Start by not needing others validation
Can you do a day in a life of a feminine women? Or maybe perhaps a feminine women morning, night, or self-care routine?😊
A shot of vodka to start your day 🤫
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Dear Lisa, I wish you a lot of success on your endeavors. These informations about labels are pearls to adorn our beautiful women. Congrats for your excellent portfolio and splendid expertise.
Thank you very much for the support 😊
@@Lisaglamour It's my pleasure dear. Happy weekend ahead with joy, prosperity, peace and health.🌟💝💐
Hello Lisa! I am still in my early teen years, but your videos have helped me throughout my femininity journey. I got out of my gothic/masculine phase and it is nice to see that there are still women out there who preserve their worth, keep high standards, have proper etiquette, put effort into how they look, etc. Sometimes, I feel like a 35 year old in a young body. These days, a majority of people have stopped putting effort, which is horrible for your mental and physical health. I am entering high school this year and a video suggestion I have is how to be charming and magnetic to everyone you meet. Another video suggestion I have is how teens can dress feminine but still look modest and our age. Keep up the outstanding work! xoxo
It's not really "men can do it but we can't". A guy who has been with other women casually has displayed a lack of respect for those women. Men can be too easy, too. If he regrets that past, that's one thing (of course, anyone can change and be forgiven!). But, on its own, it's not attractive. That kind of lifestyle is not something that we should just tolerate as being a fact of life. A real gentleman will treat all women with respect - not just "high quality" women.
The attractive mindset from a guy toward a possible casual relationship is: "You're worth more than that, and I want to show you that you are worth more than that by not taking advantage of you. I want to help you realize your own worth, not use you because you don't know your own worth." Honestly, this is just an attractive mindset from anyone, really, not just guys.
Yes of course, I absolutely said that "players" than are going with many women, are not gentlemen and are not the men you should look for.
@@Lisaglamour You're right, you did say that! Thanks, hon. Love your videos :)
Exactly. I think part of the problem is the toxic feminist movement and the fact that us as women tolerate this from men. Many women are no longer confident or kind to themselves and it manifests in devaluing who they are especially in a relationship. It's a masculine quality to have multiple partners and it's a newer (a few decades) mindset that serves NO ONE. This lifestyle does not come without consequences, regardless of who u are. Imagine what it would look like if all women started behaving with high value standards and confidence?? The men would HAVE to step up and if all women were setting these boundaries like they should be, the men would have no choice but to respect those boundaries. I'm not saying it's completely women's fault, but we play a much larger role and have far more power than we realize. This is why channels like Lisa's are a GODSEND to this generation 🙏
@@Hannah-td3vv is it possible that this kind of " players" also go away from you if you clearly say or show signs of wanting an actual relationship ( nt with them but in life in general)
I met one of those guys that I really liked but when he got to know I was religious, went away from me
I have my gym, my Hiking, my work and my reading and my two beautiful daughters! If a man is in my life , he’s absolutely going to be high value because I abhor wasting time and not doing what I love. It’s impossible to be too available when you love what you do in your life. All my female friends forgot about me for guys. It’s very low and those guys lost interest in them and they come crying to me about it. It’s because they dropped everything for a man. Ever since I was in highschool I saw females do this. Dropping me for guys.
i Really like this makeup style on you.. you look amazing
Thank you very much 😍
I love when you said that a gentleman does not criticize a woman.
Loved when you said "he is NOT the prize" and laughed so genuinely. 😆
You look absolutely fabulous! 🥰
Thank you so much 😍
Soo true!
Hahaha Gilda movie🍀
-Gilda, are you decent?
*Flips hair in a sexy way*
-decent? Me?
I started to watch old movies to take notes about mannerisms, posture, movements...
The were soooo elegant🌸🌸🌸
I personally prefer to watch old movies over modern ones because people really were classier back then!
@@shanaeb4814 soooo true🌸🌸🌸
I love Gilda too!! I made a whole video on this movie here 😘 : th-cam.com/video/gx-ceqJrEXE/w-d-xo.html
Can you please suggest me some old gold movies? Thanks in advance!😇
My goodness, you are a vision in this dress! My jaw is on the floor 💎
I really love the softness and gentleness in the way you speak, it's so feminine and respectful...who speaks like this these days? It's so rare. Thankyou ❤️
Oh thank you so much 😍
Lisa! As a Filipina I wanted to thank you for including a clip of our queen, Catriona Gray. I’ve admired her ever since I first laid eyes on her and find her to be one of the classiest, most intelligent, elegant and glamorous women. I love all of your advice and am on my own level-up journey! Watching your videos continue to fuel me and motivate me to be a high-value woman. Love you 💋
Love your dress, where is it from?
I really love her dress
Thank you! It is from Asos 😘
Thank you so much for this amazing video! I just broke out with my boyfriend of 2 months who was a very low quality men. I had very high caliber men in my life who treated me like a princess.. I just forgot my value for a little while. THANK YOU a million time for making me remember that has a high caliber woman full of qualities I can do so so much better! It's so easy to be blind by "love" and sometime forget your standards.. We need more people like you!! Sending you love and lots of positive energy
I love this channel. You are so beautiful ❤️
Thank you so much 😍
Are there still any gentlemen? Young men (not all) do no longer know how to treat women
Absolutely gentlemen still exist! They are just more rare. There are still respectful men out there, the key is to be selective, and to know how to recognize them 😊
@@Lisaglamour Could you please do a video about it? Where to find them, how to recognize them?
Thank you so much Lisa, absolutely love your videos!
they do!!!! I have found my true gentleman (he's 21, I am 20) & it's not just a facade. The most sensitive and kind artistic soul.
@@Lisaglamour yes pick the right target 🌸🤍
You are like Sunshine. A guy ghosted me just the day I saw this video . Thats what I needed .Im sure he really got intimidated by me. your voice is so soothing.
What about if a guy ghosted you but you never really dated you were just friends, and then he wrotte you apologizing and saying you are his best friend.
He is not a quality man because he dates multiple woman and cheats on them constantly also takes a lot of drugs .
But I love him as a person. Its true that we have a close friendship.
Is it ok then to writte him to hang out?
This is what I would do with a nornal gilfrind of mine.
I it ok to writte a guy if you dnt exoect to have anything romantic wirh him?
I don't know if you already figured it out yourself, but I think that it is ofcourse okay to talk and meet with him. You don't need to be romantically involved with a guy to write them 😉 sure, it's not very optimal that he takes drugs and cheats, but if you are careful and won't get dragged into taking drugs bye him, I'd say, if this friendship really is that precious to you, DON'T give that up! 😊 it doesn't matter if it's a man or woman ^^
@@hang-ah thanks a lot I really apreciate your answer! Yes I wrotte him and we laugh and talk a lot its a good friendship like kind of cousins or sibilings.
I just have to be carefull bcs when I am in a vulnerable moment sometimes I feel I like him.
But its not always, just sometimes. If I feel good about myself I dont like him romantically at all as I wouldnt wish to anyone to be involved with him as he is a pathological cheater and changes his girl every week.
As long as I dont develop feelings for him I think its ok to be friends and simply laugh and suport each other.
As a friend he is so good.
As a work partner too.
As a boyfriend... Teerrrible.
Some people are good but have deep issues with the love stuff I guess.
But I think that doesnt mean you cant be friends with them🤔
Ok so just to be clear so I know that I understand well…If you start dating a man …your standards should be that he should pay for all of the dates ? And then when he becomes your boyfriend he should continue to be the provider? Is it that ? What if a man expects you to pay as well ? Does that mean that you are dating the wrong kind of man? Thoughts??
I love your message ! I just love the way you break things down for us ! 💕💕 always uplifting, not putting down.
I loved everything, however am I the only one who jumped when Lisa said “do not text them first”? I do believe my time is precious and for the same reason I do encourage myself to text or ask out myself, instead of waiting around. Most of the times it’s a yes and if not, I can move on and stop worrying about it. I hate living with “what if” thoughts, so I believe it’s a good way to get it out of my head not to mention most of the times for men it’s more intriguing to be direct. most likely they will recognize you for it than butterflying around them and playing hard to get.
It looks like Lisa’s standards are towards old Hollywood Gentlemen tropic and that’s lovely, nothing wrong with it. She’s sharing female empowerment with class, but let’s keep in mind than just as women there are a lot of different kinds of man. So not necessarily because he won’t pay for every dinner or text you first is lower standard. However if he’s unpleasant, have a nasty personality or holds a lot of pride but pampers you that’s a whole different story that you don’t wanna be part of...
but pretty much what I’m trying to say is that besides those two topics the rest of the mentioned standards are definitely general and a must! Texting and paying it’s more of a personal taste, but I’m not gonna lie, it always feels good to be fully taken care for.
thank you for the videos and encouragement 💕
Haha yes don't worry I just said "don't text first" for the first message, to make sure that he is the one chasing you first ! Afterwards it can be natural of course 😘 but at the end do whatever you feel is the best for you, these are just advices to help you, and all women 😊
Please make a video on how to deal with singleness when you are too picky and only want high quality man
Your voice sounds so soft and delicate, and your giggles are just cuteness overload ( ꈍᴗꈍ) you go girl 💫
I don't agree that raising your standards inherently increases your mate value. I think it's good advice for someone that is undervaluing themselves but if anything I think people have a tendency to be overconfident. Perhaps you can retain someone via the sunken cost fallacy but I wouldn't consider someone that falls for this high value.
Also, from a theoretical standpoint being passive and waiting for suitors is a bad strategy in the stable marriage problem. You are more likely to end up with a desirable partner if you actively ask desirable people out; in the real world this is also associated with much higher investment and risk however and you need a reliable way of determining mate value.
And finally, I 100% disagree that criticizing someone should be off the table. I absolutely hate people who are too proud to admit when they are wrong or make mistakes. To improve anything you first need to recognize that there is a problem. Of course you shouldn't be an asshole when you criticize someone and ideally you would be able to present an alternative to the thing you're criticizing.
I think you did not understand the video. I noticed women nowadays undervalue themselves more and more. Chasing is masculine, men are the hunter, it you chase a man, he will not respect you (exept if you want a more passive feminine man who will prefer a more dominant masculine woman.)
I don't think criticism is elegant. I personally don't criticize ramdom people. Defending yourself in case someone is critisizing you on the other hand is obviously important, but the best is just to ignore. People should just focuse on themselves and stop trying to change other people.
Darling, you're glowing!✨ That red lip and dark hair emphasize your magnetic aura 💕
Thank you very much darling ❤️!!
I like u am single ❤❤💑💑😍😍🙋
"You are the prize"❤❤❤ Lovely Lisa, you are my hero for saying this!! I feel like I want you as my friend to remind me of this and to tell my boyfriend occasionally too... trust me, he needs to be reminded of this from time to time. This will be my new mantra for 2021. ❤ I AM THE PRIZE ❤ Thank you darling, stay safe and well 😘💋❤
Really love your attitude. I have never understood why women are insistent if they are right for the man, it is the opposite. Why waste time on a man you are not into.
Absolutely 👏
Thanks love. I appreciate your work! Something that could help, is for ladies over 35, who are single tend to be higher masculine energy. Can you find someone to connect with (older) & help then out?
As a 39-year old woman I still just follow these advices because it’s the same principle no matter our age! Xo
Ohh nooo, I couldn't do a long distant relationship because I'd rather have a woman who is close to me. I think this one you mention depends on how a person gives and receives affection. I was raised by three very affectionate women (My Grandma, Mother and Aunt). So, as an adult man, I give and receive affection with physical touch (hugs, cuddles, kisses, massages, etc). I MUST be able to do that often with the woman I am with. Perhaps you are not as needy of physical affection, which is why you can be far away from your mates. I know other women like you. It's usually the women who have never engaged with a man like myself or never received it growing up.....so to them, they're not missing anything. You are a stunning woman....definitely BETTER than all of the celebrities you feature on your videos. Perhaps the Mother of my children will be a carbon copy of you somewhere in the 2020's...haha!
Thank you so much for the compliments! Oh yes no worries I was just sharing my experience a little bit. But a long distance relationship will work if someone move at a certain point, I believe of course :) And since I do not plain on staying in Belgium, I'm open to move out. Otherwise it can be very difficult to stay far away for too long of course 😊
I really Love your videos I subscribed after the first one. One of the reasons is because I too love old classic Hollywood movies. With feminine leads. Do you think that you can start listing the movies that you use in your videos? Maybe even do a video of your fav top 10 movies and why. Thanks
Who wants a man that doesn’t want you? NO THANKS! GOOD BYE ! We need to protect our souls. Being alone is good for building yourself until a Good man comes
We are High value woman!!!! Yes!!!!🍀💚🍀💚
I agree, I also absolutely love long distance relationships, or relationships where you don't live with one another and have your own space. Time apart does wonders for your connection
But overall you're so right many women don't even know how to be feminine anymore not fake feminine drama Queens but real quiet confidence Queens am I right?
In reality, no one HAS to do anything, however it IS nice when they do , because that’s what we LIKE. 😉
Of course I will raise my standards doesn't mean I will become high maintenance
You do raise your standards however you want dear 😘
@@Lisaglamour thank you for correcting me I'm just mentioning the difference that's all
@@Lisaglamour love your work please keep it up
@@Lisaglamour could you do a video about balancing masculine and feminine sides by the way?
please collab with Anna Bey--you two are like two peas in a pod
Being positive is traditionally male trait of personality