Why you should NOT date K-pop idol *SPILLING THE TEA*

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  • @lauraviatelaecheverri1009
    @lauraviatelaecheverri1009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12316

    I feel bad for the secret girlfriends of the idols.

  • @amandachoi826
    @amandachoi826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13401

    the story just shows that there are so many hidden relationships and we have No Idea abt them like jeez

    • @natalias3502
      @natalias3502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1037

      you should be aware though, we only their job side, they have a life outside and offcamera

    • @natalias3502
      @natalias3502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      know*

    • @amandachoi826
      @amandachoi826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Natalia Silva ok

    • @sugartokki3888
      @sugartokki3888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +248

      But at the same time, he was a trainee too, but it shouldve been know that there are hella hidden relationships that we don’t know about

    • @amandachoi826
      @amandachoi826 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      Bambam’s Wife this topic is very touchy because American media is such a different story. Feels like everything is public. Really dawns on you sometimes 🤔

  • @gal922
    @gal922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5133

    Lessons to learn:
    -Don’t hate idols gf‘s cause they suffer already
    -Don’t waste your money for gifts cause you don’t know who get it in the end
    -Don’t be delulu about your idols image cause you see just what they want you to see it’s an illusion
    -Don’t love them tooooo much cause you don’t really know them.
    Love yourself and your time;)

    • @vivi-ht8so
      @vivi-ht8so 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      SAY IT LOUDER‼️

    • @gal922
      @gal922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      @@sangavinaidu3860 yep but what I want to say was don’t put people you don’t really know before yourself. Some fans go overboard and literally waste their life and money for their idols. Time is precious, pay more attention to yourself and your family. know your values and watch and follow them for entertaining:)

    • @phenomonal
      @phenomonal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow

    • @jeorgiemiranda5879
      @jeorgiemiranda5879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This really help me too your right

    • @usha8979
      @usha8979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right

  • @kookknowsme4725
    @kookknowsme4725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8557

    Imagine going to your idol’s concert and his girlfriend is right next to you and you think hah wow she’s A FAN TOO

    • @Mayan10098
      @Mayan10098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

      And when you say anything more about idol she's ready there to hit you for nameing his man

    • @hyejin_min5513
      @hyejin_min5513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      I'm worried about BTS duhh..

    • @letssmile3564
      @letssmile3564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +329

      @@hyejin_min5513 I think you should be happy when your idol found their love partner 💖

    • @Nusuiii
      @Nusuiii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@hyejin_min5513 lmao same

    • @gem1047
      @gem1047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Mayan10098 and she'll get dragged lol

  • @trexzieplania358
    @trexzieplania358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26322

    Topic: *"DATING WITH KPOP IDOLS"*
    Me: *_I can't even date any normal guy, how much more a kpop idol?_*
    (why is this still getting attention? it's been a year already 😃)

    • @looneyzany
      @looneyzany 5 ปีที่แล้ว +358

      I know I should be feel sorry for you... But I just laugh out loud reading your comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mintchoco1017
      @mintchoco1017 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      Sisssssss ikr!

    • @shriyamakeupvanity9166
      @shriyamakeupvanity9166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Same😂😅

    • @kharismachandra2874
      @kharismachandra2874 4 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Glad to know I'm not alone 😂

    • @lilylestari3959
      @lilylestari3959 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      LOL

  • @jentlemoni3546
    @jentlemoni3546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6464

    *After this, im getting a conclusion that some kpop bois don't react to girl group performances on award shows because their secret girlfriends will get jealous.*

    • @gabby_.4312
      @gabby_.4312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +592

      Not just jealous but get their ass kick 🤘

    • @yolandaagustin4812
      @yolandaagustin4812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +279

      OH, THIS SLAPS😂😂😂😂

    • @gabby_.4312
      @gabby_.4312 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@yolandaagustin4812 yep (┛◉Д◉)┛彡┻━┻

    • @gyuyanna
      @gyuyanna 4 ปีที่แล้ว +478

      No, its a rules from agency. They can't react to another girl/boy group when performing, and talking very carefully about girl/boy group at show or live.
      Cause some fans didn't like to watch their idol talking or reacting too much abt another group.
      Sorry for my bad english :'(

    • @shreksmain
      @shreksmain 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      @@gyuyanna WhAt!? I actually like it when they react but I can't do anything about it

  • @anneb6639
    @anneb6639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4188

    I admire a Chinese famous actor once said "Please just pay attention to my hard work and like the dramas I film. Don't pay attention to my personal life. I'm just a normal person like you. Not someone special." That is the real truth about the entertainment industry and celebrities. No matter which country. Being a celebrity is just their JOB! Fans are their source of income.

    • @mantashakhan8795
      @mantashakhan8795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      ACCURATE 💓

    • @kc_1329
      @kc_1329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Yes agree, I also rember a kpop idol I.M of MonstaX also said the facts the truth same what that Chinese actor says

    • @mangakuota122
      @mangakuota122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Also Kim Heechul

    • @arissa1467
      @arissa1467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True

    • @_kuhi_5457
      @_kuhi_5457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@khushithawait7049 yep

  • @shimla5384
    @shimla5384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2786

    Her : why you should not date a kpop artist
    Me : I even can’t buy a ticket for a concert-

  • @athena718
    @athena718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14167

    Chen's wife be saying "You just got the wrong man"

  • @imthelettere
    @imthelettere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3439

    She lived the Y/N life...
    Edit: WOW didn’t expect so many likes. Thank you everyone!

    • @v3nus894
      @v3nus894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Rose Smiley loool fr tho

    • @user-ug8fv8hh6k
      @user-ug8fv8hh6k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      A sad Y/N life

    • @baybeetacoo8734
      @baybeetacoo8734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@user-ug8fv8hh6k what does Y/N mean?

    • @sorry5415
      @sorry5415 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      only for like 1-2 months

    • @marymargaret2613
      @marymargaret2613 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lolzzzzz

  • @beezlegacy
    @beezlegacy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1364

    That is why I have mad respect for Chen and his wife. Maintaining a relationship is not easy and Chen owning up to it despite his fame says a lot about his character.

    • @caribbeanstudies5340
      @caribbeanstudies5340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yup

    • @EllaSoh
      @EllaSoh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Yes! Chen is so brave. I love daddy chen.

    • @ifyoudontlovebtsthendontwa1426
      @ifyoudontlovebtsthendontwa1426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He is a true gentleman even though I was not a fan but his this step made me respect him more then anything ✨✨

    • @001AsanohA100
      @001AsanohA100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I still remember on "Knowing brothers" when he said: I take responsibility of my actions. Then when he found out his gf was pregnant stay with her and get married. I still like him and was really sad when fan hate him for that. I would have liked also Bek and Taeyoung would follow that path.

  • @nusaibamanifa926
    @nusaibamanifa926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1120

    To the kpop idol who dated her,
    Watch this video and reflect on how you hurt her so that you do not repeat the same thing all over again with someone else.

    • @meghanasamgiskar5407
      @meghanasamgiskar5407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Well said I can see her sorrow behind the smile .... Felt bad for her

    • @rosalynn_13
      @rosalynn_13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I know 😭 my heart hurts for her 💔

    • @yssy550
      @yssy550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      true!

    • @prithvivasanth3114
      @prithvivasanth3114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      It's better she move on...the idol should marry their own standards...cz she'll always feel insecured...and he always may think I deserve better and that feeling is forever!

    • @purple.com_
      @purple.com_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯

  • @drevianspade7852
    @drevianspade7852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4473

    Plot twist: he was actually watching this...
    Wait- i think he definitely saw this😂😂

    • @michin_cleo9120
      @michin_cleo9120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +273

      I actually wish he saw this 😂 whoever he is 😂

    • @tanvikills409
      @tanvikills409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      And I think he he is kim taehyung😂😂😂 because she said angel , and his smile 😂😂, seriously dude is taehyung on tinder😂😂. ?? I m dead😂😂

    • @gurpleraven
      @gurpleraven 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      @@tanvikills409 ?🙄

    • @7teen_wonu
      @7teen_wonu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      @@tanvikills409 She said he used to sing songs about break ups and taehyung never did
      So...🙂

    • @tanvikills409
      @tanvikills409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@7teen_wonu I was just kidding of course he is not 😹😹😹😹

  • @kkoodumps8576
    @kkoodumps8576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9806

    "why you should not date a kpop idol"
    me: i cant even buy an official merch-

  • @kawiismistake
    @kawiismistake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6626

    *Her: Don't date K-pop idols*
    *Me: Thank God Suga is a cat*

    • @iiii80000
      @iiii80000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +387

      Me : thank God jungkoook is a bunny

    • @bluegreyfictions
      @bluegreyfictions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      😂

    • @emiy444
      @emiy444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

      Someone call animal protection service

    • @shofiyzulfah6165
      @shofiyzulfah6165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      HAHAHA

    • @unitedchampionofindia3475
      @unitedchampionofindia3475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      My favorite comment I've ever saw 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @littlevoicesinsidemyhead
    @littlevoicesinsidemyhead 3 ปีที่แล้ว +718

    Sometimes i just want to have a k-idol friend so that i may know all the things happenings in the kpop industry

  • @fannyoctavia2319
    @fannyoctavia2319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6403

    I think the hardest thing for being a kpop idol's gf is insecurity..

    • @shejustafriend3213
      @shejustafriend3213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      nahh it cant be. if love is in the relationship, then why would they let insecurities get into their way??

    • @sooa2241
      @sooa2241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      IKR

    • @abh1kxa
      @abh1kxa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +351

      It's true. The fear of getting bashed by fans and all.

    • @deprimeplatypus490
      @deprimeplatypus490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      idk i think as long as they're confident that should be ok but the problem is saesangs adm cyberbullying i meanif they got exposed they'd have such a hard time

    • @surendrachitnawis4963
      @surendrachitnawis4963 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      And most importantly, *JEALOUSYYYYY*!!!

  • @vianeyaguilar2436
    @vianeyaguilar2436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3971

    Not only did she have a idol boyfriend, she also has kpop friends.

    • @haigabavtqqtfafahg
      @haigabavtqqtfafahg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Vianey AGUILAR exactly what I thought hahahahaha

    • @jessicacallender
      @jessicacallender 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Vianey AGUILAR fr like wth

    • @hellothere7389
      @hellothere7389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      the biggest f l e x

    • @kyufilm
      @kyufilm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      who are them?

    • @hk-ql8zo
      @hk-ql8zo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      life is better in Korea :(

  • @freyjaahura4832
    @freyjaahura4832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1705

    "why you should not date a kpop idol"
    thank god, Seokjin is a moon.

  • @markzenoftheyear3631
    @markzenoftheyear3631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    The hardest pill to swallow is that idols are just normal person and could hurt you as much as normal persons. Some have attitude problems, commitment issues, etx but you of course cant see it on tv. So if you have a chance to interact with one, or befriend an idol, it’s better to stay friends than just pursue a relationship with them.

    • @shinryujinanswermycalls6648
      @shinryujinanswermycalls6648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm aware of that

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KlaineAnimals No it won't and you aren't the one who should be telling people what to do in their lives

    • @asmrlowkey5043
      @asmrlowkey5043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@KlaineAnimals I prefer to know them so that i can snap myself back to reality and remimd myself that they're just regular human beings with flaws in their personality

  • @amilydrew5833
    @amilydrew5833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4507

    Why you shouldn't date an idol?
    Chen's wife: that's why I married him instead?

    • @billyjean9818
      @billyjean9818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      USVJSBSJSBJSBSJS😭😭😭

    • @sumelynooren475
      @sumelynooren475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      No one is like chen in this whole world.❣️

    • @imalionimaqueen7234
      @imalionimaqueen7234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +245

      That girl be living the Y/N life for real

    • @marymargaret2613
      @marymargaret2613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      Sis got the ring

    • @aliffahiman
      @aliffahiman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      •Happy• •Blank• he is one of the main vocal in exo

  • @abigailarmstrong2069
    @abigailarmstrong2069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8746

    kpop idols are humans too. not every human being is nice and kind. it's hard for kids to understand that but once you get older you start to realize that things aren't always what they seem.

    • @Lavender0810
      @Lavender0810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Deep comment.

    • @winterismyfavseason
      @winterismyfavseason 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      True

    • @moon_cafe4148
      @moon_cafe4148 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Facts.
      Beat that Karen...

    • @extradrippypicklejuice
      @extradrippypicklejuice 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I’m sure everyone knows that but they forgot that it’s hard to not treats someone who is famous or special kinda in a way so I’m yeah I have no point I do but I can’t explain

    • @winterismyfavseason
      @winterismyfavseason 5 ปีที่แล้ว +225

      @@extradrippypicklejuice Famous people are just normal people who got famous (obviously). If you're gonna treat them like royalty just for their fame then you should treat average people the same way, they're not Gods, just treat everyone nicely and continue on with your life it's not that hard

  • @morallygay9355
    @morallygay9355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1650

    "Why you should not date a kpop idol"
    Me: Thank God BLACKPINK is a color

  • @_ulie
    @_ulie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    As a good detective as I am (lol), I tried to search for more information to try to at least have a hint of who could possibly be her ex. I thought about a few things that she said in the video, plus some more info that I searched online (guys, have in mind that I did this just for fun, and not trying to harm anybody, or anything like that).
    Info that I analyzed:
    - She said "it was a long time ago" - Tinder started in 2012 BUT got to Korea only in 2015, so I guess that the history happened around this time (2015-2016);
    - If he was on Tinder around that time, it means that he was not under age, cause you need to be an adult to use the app - so, he was at least 19-20;
    - She is around 33 y.o. by now, and she never said that they have a huge age gap, so I think that the guy must be around her age (maybe 29 - 33);
    - She said that he was from a big company BUT, she said back in 2019 that it was hard to still see him on TV, which means that he was still active, at least until 2019;
    - All of this means that it was a guy who debuted quite late, when you think about the age that idols usually debut in Korea - besides the fact that she said that to be able to debut was his dream, cause he trainned a lot for it - which kinda confirms my assumption;
    - The groups that debuted around this time (2015-2016), that were/are from a big company: Monsta X, N. Flying, DAY6, Seventeen, iKON, UP10TION, VAV, Astro, Imfact, KNK, NCT 127, NCT U, Pentagon, SF9, Victon.
    - Analyzing what I said, about the age, I think that the guy (probably) was born before 1992, so, the options that we have are, finally: Shownu (Monsta X), Seunghyub (N. Flying), Jae (DAY6), St. Van & Baron & Ace (VAV), Jino (Pentagon).
    What was REAL interesting about searching for all of this was, I suddenly remembered the part where she said that she got his attention on Tinder saying "Hello" in 4 languages (Spanish, Korean, English, (...)) AND, Jae, from DAY6 was born in Buenos Aires, Argentina (Spanish language), grew up in California (English language) and went to Korea around 2012 (Korean language) 👀
    And, as a DAY6 fan myself, I know a lot that Jae never got really used to the Korean culture around K-pop and stuff, and the fact that he left JYPE last December kinda proves me right. Maybe he put this info on his profile on Tinder (about the languages, or whatever).

    • @lelenimat684
      @lelenimat684 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Guh damn. You did your homework.
      I enjoyed reading that. Detective shit.

    • @_ulie
      @_ulie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@lelenimat684 Thanks? 😂

    • @leeminhwa738
      @leeminhwa738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Such a detailed investigation,you truly are a good detective 😄

    • @charliegabriel788
      @charliegabriel788 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Yeah. Interesting.

    • @Ilrosh
      @Ilrosh ปีที่แล้ว +14

      14:58

  • @Sarah-zn1mu
    @Sarah-zn1mu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5321

    “You shouldn’t date kpop idols because-“
    Me: *still picking who in NCT I should marry*

  • @nanapferd925
    @nanapferd925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4086

    First step to date a kpop idol... - being pretty.
    Me: Can't relate

    • @xyh3152
      @xyh3152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😭😭😭

    • @sramdogara8621
      @sramdogara8621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      For each of us „a beautiful person” is someone different. For you shawn mendes can be pretty but for me it's Norman reedus. So saying „I have to be pretty to date xyz” is kinda stupid.

    • @queennoralevi3426
      @queennoralevi3426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I cried so hard reading this
      I use to think I'm pretty but Korean skin gives me headache

    • @whiffingcream7111
      @whiffingcream7111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Queennora levi
      Maybe because the beauty standards in your country and Korea is different. There’s people that would prefer your kind of beauty. There’s no need to compare yourself to others.

    • @loront8983
      @loront8983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Most people can't honestly don't worry

  • @MC-ko2mx
    @MC-ko2mx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    All these K-Pop idols professing they *never* date.
    Then you, and Grazy Grace come along, and spill the tea LMAO

    • @katakana1268
      @katakana1268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @michellegarcia5337
      @michellegarcia5337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And so much more that we don't know. Some other are spill the tea too about peculiar chats idols have to find other thing. Specialy in gay idols. Because.....yes theirs gay idols too. They are as nomal as people around you......but with money of course🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @MC-ko2mx
      @MC-ko2mx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@michellegarcia5337 I don't doubt it.
      I just wish LGBTQ+ individuals could be out, and still be part of mainstream K-pop.

  • @alevillegas7005
    @alevillegas7005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    I think something we kpop idol forget is that we’re not really in love with them. We’re in love with the image their giving to us, which is not always true. In reality your fav idol can be someone completely different and maybe if you even met them as how they really are you wouldn’t even like them anymore as the image they are giving us it’s not true, it’s all marketing. And I know this is so sad I’m in love with hongjoong ateez but in reality I dont really know him at all 🤧

  • @stephanie5843
    @stephanie5843 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3652

    I can imagine that there's a lot of idols that broke up with their girlfriends/boyfriends because of their company. But then there is Hyuna and E'dawn breaking the rules 💖

    • @omtypofficial1747
      @omtypofficial1747 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      and they lived happily ever after.

    • @bangtanstay3603
      @bangtanstay3603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought they broke up?

    • @stephanie5843
      @stephanie5843 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bangtanstay3603 did they?

    • @andreahl3494
      @andreahl3494 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      Don't romanticize it too much. Seeing them as heroic rebels who fought for their love. They are just people too and they were blinded by their emotions that time (that they revealed it even if it's against the rules). Their relationship is not more special, it is just as sweet and/or chaotic as other relationships. They might even had depression or regrets for a while because of what it brought to them. Just support them on whatever they do from here on forwards.

    • @stephanie5843
      @stephanie5843 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@andreahl3494 I wasn't romanticizing. Fan culture there needs to change because they act like dating is a crime.

  • @sophiaaschw3544
    @sophiaaschw3544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4794

    I actually would prefer to be friended with the idols because they seem funny but i also wouldn't date one
    Thx for my first 1k likes

    • @Luwaloo
      @Luwaloo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      Sophiaa Schw
      Yh, me too... some ppl think that I’m lying but I’m not, like Minho from Shinee, or J-Hope, I agree that they’re so cute but I would love to be their friends I don’t feel like I wanna date them, but it’s not like they’re gonna notice or love me anyway💀💀

    • @ndpd7695
      @ndpd7695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Finally someone normal

    • @sophiaaschw3544
      @sophiaaschw3544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @@Luwaloo yeah i mean its dumb to think or hope you ever get to date your bias bcs its never happening and i feel like that many girls or boys are setting their conditions in their future partner too high bcs of that thoughts so for me its realistic to hope of a friendship bcs if you do that your lovelife is not going to be impared

    • @jhana717
      @jhana717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @Luwaloo
      @Luwaloo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sophiaa Schw
      Yh

  • @istanygfamily3106
    @istanygfamily3106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +416

    When the part came how jina suffered through her secret relationship after his agency found out that he was in a relationship . I was thinking what did exo Chen's wife have gone through with much scary entertainment which is really naive in handling dispatch

    • @instalover4532
      @instalover4532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      It's not about agency
      Chen loved his lover genuinely
      That's y he got married
      Otherwise he could dumb her

    • @EllaSoh
      @EllaSoh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Imagine what chen's wife had been through. Mad respect for daddy chen for being so brave. I love you daddy chen

  • @doyochii127
    @doyochii127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Key points
    √ Don't give gifts to your idols
    √idols DM famous and pretty girls
    √Entertainment company will interfere
    √Many beautiful Artists/idols in the industry
    √Dating an idol is very expensive
    √emotional turmoil
    √don't believe what your idols told on television.
    ~~ Dating an idol for us normal people is just a dream. ㅋㅋㅋㅋTime to wake up.

  • @justiceforjimin9622
    @justiceforjimin9622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7258

    "Do not date a kpop idol"
    *me staring at the engagement ring I bought for namjoon*

  • @Tiffany-ov2jf
    @Tiffany-ov2jf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3409

    hmm... let's see why we shouldn't date idols
    -dating bans
    -hate from 12 yr old fans
    -unwanted popularity
    -nosy papparazis
    -saseang fans
    *I wonder why we shouldn't* 🤔

    • @jadesx96
      @jadesx96 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      Sasaeng fans are also a pretty big nOPE

    • @Z5Z5Z5
      @Z5Z5Z5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Yeah not ideal at all. I would hate to be famous and never be alone and everyone knowing who you are

    • @Tiffany-ov2jf
      @Tiffany-ov2jf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jadesx96 I'll add saseang fans to the list

    • @kookiecream7259
      @kookiecream7259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hmm I can't find the reason too XD

    • @rosaqiangweiluvr
      @rosaqiangweiluvr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ツTiffany
      Delusional fans, like IDOLS ARE HUMANS TOO.

  • @Talis1717
    @Talis1717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I feel like I’m sitting at a girls night with these two talking about our Ex’s
    Very entertained

  • @EpikNotEpic
    @EpikNotEpic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I feel so sorry for her :(( She’s so brave for enduring what she’s been through, and I hope she finds someone better for her 💗

  • @flowergogh9685
    @flowergogh9685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4019

    Why does everybody think it’s Tae, when she clearly told us it’s not someone from BTS

    • @importantbusinesseu3680
      @importantbusinesseu3680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +207

      yea finally someone commented about thissss 👍🏻

    • @sanskrutimali2010
      @sanskrutimali2010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +366

      8:41 she said on his Instagram I could see him hanging out with other friends... And tae don't have an ig account

    • @rose-qk1xy
      @rose-qk1xy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      @@sanskrutimali2010 but he can have a private secret IG account (who knows)

    • @sanskrutimali2010
      @sanskrutimali2010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      @@rose-qk1xy do you think he will post smg on his private secret ig account and army will not find that out

    • @bell-ns3qo
      @bell-ns3qo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      fr

  • @alishagul9643
    @alishagul9643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5171

    Jina : you should nt date a kpop idol
    Chen's wife: EXOcuse me

    • @xyh3152
      @xyh3152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      this is underrated ahahha

    • @mahalakshmiganesan5313
      @mahalakshmiganesan5313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Who is Chen idk about him I am new to army 😭💔

    • @Kessho2204
      @Kessho2204 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

      @@mahalakshmiganesan5313 He's from EXO.Not all people here are army.

    • @jaysan2674
      @jaysan2674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@xyh3152 laughed harder than i should have ngl

    • @fina4340
      @fina4340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LMAOOO

  • @roseannare
    @roseannare 3 ปีที่แล้ว +427

    “You should not date a kpop idol”
    “He was so cuteeeeee”
    “His lips was so softttttt” 🥲

    • @lovelyferr
      @lovelyferr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@seca3247 but there’s plenty of cute k-pop idols like Jimin from BTS, Hueingkai from TXT, Hoshi from SVT, Jaemin from NCT dream but there’s plenty of more🥺

    • @seca3247
      @seca3247 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lovelyferr 😔😂

    • @Ariss_.754
      @Ariss_.754 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@lovelyferr it can't be jimin as she told it's not BTS and I don't think it's Kai I mean he is small

    • @kpopdaebak1948
      @kpopdaebak1948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@seca3247 it's definitely not hyunjin i mean he's too young and i think the idol he's talking about is from 3rd gen so 4th generation can't be one because they're still very young and as she said it was years ago so..

    • @seca3247
      @seca3247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kpopdaebak1948 not saying that i think its hyunjin just wanna say hes cute and his lips are soft lol.

  • @yasmineosm2228
    @yasmineosm2228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    11:11 The Chinese fan who give the wallet and watching this video be like: 👁👄👁

    • @aa_809
      @aa_809 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      dont worry, chinese fans cant access youtube

  • @Alex-ve6ey
    @Alex-ve6ey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11714

    Why you should NOT date a K-pop idol
    Koreaboos: *surprised Pikachu face*

    • @ayo_hitman_bang_introduces
      @ayo_hitman_bang_introduces 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      😂😂😂😂😂 you made my day

    • @candygirl4life
      @candygirl4life 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      What is it about that. Pikachu is that like a thing or do they just like Pikachu.

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      hehehe

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@candygirl4life Actually, Pikachu is a Japanese Pokemon character..hehe

    • @m3imeiji
      @m3imeiji 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      *Rip koreaboos*
      *lived since kpop exist*

  • @dumbass8003
    @dumbass8003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2636

    *My reasons :*
    *3rd* : Fans will attack me
    *2sd* : He is super busy
    *1st* : I am potato

    • @nivaranvideo5133
      @nivaranvideo5133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      i like you

    • @imalionimaqueen7234
      @imalionimaqueen7234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Yea that's why I wouldn't date my Idol no matter how attracted to them I am. I don't want death threats no thank you😂

    • @kimchitaekimio8993
      @kimchitaekimio8993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      IM SNORTING

    • @user-nj7bv6bn9g
      @user-nj7bv6bn9g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Some fans are jealous us but most of them are really supportive 😊

    • @havingabiasisimpossiblewhe6598
      @havingabiasisimpossiblewhe6598 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      4th : we speak different language

  • @SNS23456
    @SNS23456 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    she is smiling but you can feel her pain. She seriously was in pain. Don't forget that celebrities are also human so they can be nice or bad too. They can use you too. Please protect yourself and your mental health

  • @ashlingotoole4011
    @ashlingotoole4011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    "Don't date a k-pop idol"
    Me, living in Ireland: Damn, there goes my hopes and dreams of having a meetcute J-Hope 😔

    • @syraimnida9565
      @syraimnida9565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hi I stan who stan Our sunshine J-hope.. Saranghaeyo 😘

  • @karissabreanned4906
    @karissabreanned4906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4067

    Plot twist : this is just a huge commercial for tinder

  • @dopecactus8513
    @dopecactus8513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8590

    Imagine this Idol seeing this video bow being like: 👁👄👁

    • @stherru360
      @stherru360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      actually those who's not that bad be like @chen HAHAHAHAH jist joking around

    • @swaglala7589
      @swaglala7589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Jin cult!💜

    • @shaillamaeb.revilla7949
      @shaillamaeb.revilla7949 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      He better be.

    • @vickyangel8510
      @vickyangel8510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I WAS THINKING THE SAME LMAO HAHAHHHA

    • @larissa8326
      @larissa8326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      hahaha I just kept thinking about it

  • @UniverseIsUnknown
    @UniverseIsUnknown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +412

    "Why you should not date a kpop idol"
    Thank god Namjoon is our President
    Thank god Seokjin is our Moon
    Thank god Yoongi is our Meow Meow
    Thank god Jhope is our Sunshine
    Thank god Jimin is our Mochi
    Thank god V is our Bear
    Thank god Jk is our Kookie

    • @nikole9642
      @nikole9642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Please 😭💜👑

    • @D_Space
      @D_Space 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💜 they are not humans ..they are angels 💜💜 and yes idols have to be like that to protect their girlfriend not themselves!!! If crazy fans got to know about his girlfriend they won't leave her at ease😌!! So idols have to do this!!

    • @pinkysingh570
      @pinkysingh570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How can people be so dumb

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pinkysingh570 In what sense?

    • @armyshope
      @armyshope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@D_Space no they are human

  • @MWolfe-rd4jb
    @MWolfe-rd4jb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Idols seem to be a "product" that companies try to sell to the public and the idols need to be "perfect" - though no person is. So what we see is just one aspect of the person. We don't see their flaws and imperfections. Sadly, there are so many fans who think the idol is perfect and he/she's not.

  • @lo_Ovung
    @lo_Ovung 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6640

    Hmm Bambam really wasn't joking about the tinder thing huh?
    Edit: It's a joke 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @vladintsendov885
    @vladintsendov885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5701

    I know you are searching through the comment section to find who the guy is -.- .

    • @lovingfullsun555
      @lovingfullsun555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +337

      U know that, dude 😂😂😂
      And one of them is me. Lol

    • @lululala1535
      @lululala1535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Uuuuuhhhh

    • @cosmicpop3945
      @cosmicpop3945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +330

      Someone if you do get the idea who it was, let us know over here

    • @boitumelolamola9582
      @boitumelolamola9582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      literally this is me hahaha

    • @jacquelinemalowa9626
      @jacquelinemalowa9626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Opse.. Busted!

  • @aemjncz
    @aemjncz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    “Why you should NOT date k-pop idol”
    Thank God Jimin Is A Mochi🙂

  • @Jay23487
    @Jay23487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Ty so much for spreading this meaningful message out in the world cause literally all girls are so in love with popular idols they have dreams that they can't fulfill it's time they know reality before jumping into conclusions and doing something stupid.

  • @izaya6606
    @izaya6606 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5060

    Her story is really sad cause like she is there when that "kpop idol" is just a trainee and reaching his dream to become an idol, but when he finally reach his dream he just like broke up with jina and forgot everything about them its just so sad :( some kpop idols are not allowed to date publicly cause like it could end their careers, and their fans will get angry at them and throw hate to them. Some fans are really obsessive and delusional so they can't accept the fact that their idols are dating. They're humans too so we should respect their decisions in life and If ever that they are dating we should be happy for them because thats what makes them happy. :)

    • @funnygummy5370
      @funnygummy5370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      Right? Like they arent even real fans tbh if they dont support their celebrity crush and their partner:// I hope no one attacks me for this:((

    • @jacksonwangsbaby9537
      @jacksonwangsbaby9537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      funnygummy 5 No❤️

    • @kawaiiology
      @kawaiiology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      it’s so crazy to me bc like western celebs date all the time and people get jealous or whatever but they don’t seem to face backlash like idols do 🥺

    • @danicabrice4205
      @danicabrice4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      That’s actually really crazy that their careers can end because they’re dating someone😭😭like we don’t even do that over here in the US or any western country. It’s actually very sad how the kpop industry works over there.

    • @m34nismind9
      @m34nismind9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That was jungkook did too

  • @user-hs7sc1wx1z
    @user-hs7sc1wx1z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1720

    Jina: Don't date idols
    Also Jina: he was so cute, his smile was so cute, he was such a good kisser, his lips were so soft

    • @roginamaeespiga5745
      @roginamaeespiga5745 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Lol did you even watch until the end of the video? She was fuming mad 😂

    • @claranguyen2738
      @claranguyen2738 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Trash_aesthet :3 I think it doesn’t apply for every idol. I feel like she’s generalising.

    • @baybeetacoo8734
      @baybeetacoo8734 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@roginamaeespiga5745 sue was fuming cause the company stopped her from dating her

    • @lovemylifebeauty2090
      @lovemylifebeauty2090 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every man are not perfect 🙃

    • @Vaishushi
      @Vaishushi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I remembered jimin abd lips part

  • @latifahcore
    @latifahcore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This strong woman should be on one of those program that teaches fangirls life lessons. She could win the world🤝.... I wish I could be more like her 😤✊🏻💜

    • @Saini968
      @Saini968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi, our last name are the same☺

  • @user-ib1is7ny7r
    @user-ib1is7ny7r 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    i’m just thinking how many of them got secret girlfriends like this, kpop obssesive fangirls currently having a stroke

  • @morosis6335
    @morosis6335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4926

    Fans: give gifts that are probably expensive to their idols
    The idol: gives it to his girlfriend

    • @kimchitaekimio8993
      @kimchitaekimio8993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      I dont want anything else, just their true love

    • @ericanozak4544
      @ericanozak4544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Ultimate plot-twist

    • @rizkia1094
      @rizkia1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      yeah mostly like that....

    • @poorvalele9761
      @poorvalele9761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +181

      That's why if I ever meet them I'll give them a drawing or something 🙂

    • @coldmilk2786
      @coldmilk2786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@poorvalele9761 good idea😁

  • @jailynshade3027
    @jailynshade3027 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5547

    I thought I should watch this video. Because in my delusional mind me and Jackson Wang are getting married

    • @boitumelolamola9582
      @boitumelolamola9582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +323

      Bruh, I'm like wife to Park Jimin, Lord I must stop

    • @stellabella-bello6178
      @stellabella-bello6178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      @@boitumelolamola9582 girl, V baby mama😁

    • @jailynshade3027
      @jailynshade3027 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Boitumelo Lamola when they actually start dating idk what I'll do😂

    • @rosie-o.7762
      @rosie-o.7762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I feel this 200%

    • @yunikalm
      @yunikalm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Me and Lim Jaebeom have been together since winter of 2012 and married for 3 years in my dreamland so yeah, hahahaha

  • @Certified_Simper
    @Certified_Simper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Jina: "We first kiss was infont my apartment"
    Me: what in the name of Fan Fictions-

  • @aishwaryaanand8750
    @aishwaryaanand8750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The latest news of Ok Taecyeon dating a normal office-going girl for 4 years(even when he went for military service) was trending, which was even confirmed by his agency. And to be honest, after hearing her story I feel he is like really into his girlfriend.

  • @shaneanngelasque2501
    @shaneanngelasque2501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4454

    her: that's why you shouldn't date a kpop idol
    me: thank God NCT are vloggers

  • @png7725
    @png7725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5662

    *Why you should not date a Kpop idol*
    As if like we're even gonna meet one.
    😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭
    Edit: WOW! So many of us connect on a spiritual level😂
    Let's make a toss for the idols who will be our boyfriends forNEVER!
    Cheers🍻

  • @lucyjames8818
    @lucyjames8818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Jina looks so unique to me. She doesn't look like a typical Korean. She looks rather like a Japanese actress

  • @far.9398
    @far.9398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3773

    "Dont date a kpop idol"
    Im grateful that TXT are tiktokers

    • @masochisticdoll
      @masochisticdoll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      😭😭 & clowns

    • @j-hopeshamburgerandspriteu7086
      @j-hopeshamburgerandspriteu7086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      (•̀ᴗ•́)و

    • @formula1fan542
      @formula1fan542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Yeyyy. I foung Moa's. Can I ask you guys some things? Like........ I am a new moa. And I want to know more..

    • @masochisticdoll
      @masochisticdoll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@formula1fan542 sureeee

    • @far.9398
      @far.9398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@formula1fan542 ofc,you can

  • @montaine7692
    @montaine7692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3775

    “why you shouldn’t date a kpop idol”
    me: i'm ugly

  • @listerine.bottle_nikki2387
    @listerine.bottle_nikki2387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    "Dont date kpop idols".
    Thank god bangchan is a therapist

  • @siaa6448
    @siaa6448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I think every Kpop idol just has a persona that they have to present to the public because that’s what their company wants. But in reality they are just regular people that want similar things like love, relationships, money, etc. . . Sometimes fans forget that!

  • @ezracua6391
    @ezracua6391 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3929

    "I met him to TINDER"
    me: *starts downloading tinder* pls be got7 or exo----- jk HAHAHSHSHSHHS

    • @marykazumifr
      @marykazumifr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      PLS BE EXO DJDBDBR

    • @passiondimi8068
      @passiondimi8068 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      If I fell on any Got7 members I will be so happy 😭(mostly on Jaebeom)

    • @jungminjeon6250
      @jungminjeon6250 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      this was literally me,, after she said it i downloaded tinder app 🤣

    • @rinrinchandesu
      @rinrinchandesu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      UNLESS

    • @heeyitsrin4103
      @heeyitsrin4103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@passiondimi8068 samee 😭😭😭

  • @artemisjane331
    @artemisjane331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5329

    I have no chance with a regular guy , how much more a kpop idol haha hahaha hahaha

  • @venuss1818
    @venuss1818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    She is so supportive, she seems genuinely interested in your stories.

  • @coolstudent4992
    @coolstudent4992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Instead of dating we should just focus on ourselves, love ourselves and pursue our dreams .

  • @beeautie1729
    @beeautie1729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4179

    i don't understand how fans think theyre gonna be with their idols, its ridiculously funny .

    • @user-ib6ol1ze6v
      @user-ib6ol1ze6v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +269

      It must have something to do with how much fan service the idol is giving to them. I mean, it might truly depend on how the idol act with his fans. As an example, some idols treats their fans so dearly (just as if they were their girlfriend) like a major part of NCT as far as I know (the flirtuous line up at least), and so much more idols.
      If you look at Mamamoo, they are acting freely and use this "open-minded" image so fans will obviously feels so happy for them to be in a relationships. (But more or less, girls band have way less problems to be accepted by their fans as a couple than boysbands /if girls don't date any other male idol i mean ovb/) So yes, fans will react that way because this is how companies makes money. This is litteraly a business and idols will gives fan services so that those crazy fans will still buy a lot and a lot of things from this group. And since the majority of fans in kpop are female (even for girl groups), of course male can give "romantic" thought to them and girls can be a sort of model for them to grow.
      (I don't know for others but as a Choi Yoo Jung stan, I'm so excited to see who will be the soulmate of ma girl, and it's kinda like that for girl groups stan)
      Anyway, this is very bad but the main culprit of that attitude is the company itself.

    • @raine93
      @raine93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂

    • @emo_weeb_stanie1019
      @emo_weeb_stanie1019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      fr like wtf kinda crack f2f are u on

    • @KIMTAEHYUNG-qo6kw
      @KIMTAEHYUNG-qo6kw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      IKR 😂😂 it's so funny lol

    • @goldeneyes581
      @goldeneyes581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fr fr

  • @sabina3046
    @sabina3046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1386

    this video makes me feel more confident that many kpop idols are actually secretly dating with someone, and the fans are so innocent believing everything what their idols saying...

    • @saloni8603
      @saloni8603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      And I'm so happy for them.

    • @aiki5435
      @aiki5435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      Fans should set boundaries from their idols. In the end of the day, we (us and idols) are still strangers. Fangirl responsibly! Haha

    • @imalionimaqueen7234
      @imalionimaqueen7234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      I wish there weren't so many delusional fans out there who think the idol they like belongs to them.

    • @palmmandy
      @palmmandy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      This happening makes me happy for them.. I hope they are loving their women in a healthy way even in secret💜

    • @shirin3166
      @shirin3166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I always thought that lol
      In my imagination
      Another um let's just say my imagination were making different kinds of story
      In this story
      The idol has a girlfriend and I'm just a friend joking around with an idol lol

  • @knwld15
    @knwld15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    She's still inlove i swear,look at her eyes:((

    • @runkirunrun
      @runkirunrun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She's need a real closure :(

    • @thv353
      @thv353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@runkirunrun She deserves it 🥺

  • @dandani_g
    @dandani_g 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    "Why you should not date a K-pop idol"
    Me: thank God D.O. is a penguin

    • @thegamebaar8994
      @thegamebaar8994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Oh yeah totally 😂 and Kai is a bear❤️

    • @user-yo3xz5rk2i
      @user-yo3xz5rk2i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tao is a panda, Yixing is a sheepbee, Suho is a rabbit, what else ? 😂

    • @thegamebaar8994
      @thegamebaar8994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@user-yo3xz5rk2i Xiumin is a cat, Chanyeol is a tiger😂

    • @moonlightshower8190
      @moonlightshower8190 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Baekhyun is a puppy, Luhan is a deer and Kris is Galaxy fanfan

  • @autumn_fell_385
    @autumn_fell_385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1392

    I lost it when she got lots of gifts from him that were actually from his fans jsjjsnsjksnxixjskn

    • @e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47
      @e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      It's true tho... I have a cousin, he's part of a trio here in our country, they're group is not famous, but they have fans... And some of the Fan's gifts were given to me lol

    • @e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47
      @e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Their*

    • @autumn_fell_385
      @autumn_fell_385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Well isn't it nice to receive presents LOL

    • @e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47
      @e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@autumn_fell_385 it's really nice tbh... But I'm also a fan so I'm not fully enjoying those things...

    • @autumn_fell_385
      @autumn_fell_385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47 ofc it's understandable

  • @AliahSufitaMuntasya
    @AliahSufitaMuntasya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5303

    Me during 18 minutes video : trying to figure out who's that idol 😝

    • @honganh1750
      @honganh1750 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Have u?

    • @rahmamukyala1851
      @rahmamukyala1851 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      MeToo

    • @andreadaay
      @andreadaay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Me too lol

    • @naritruwireve1381
      @naritruwireve1381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

      same here lol but she said it's a long time ago and I only got into kpop a few years ago

    • @susanshuws
      @susanshuws 4 ปีที่แล้ว +200

      Me during the video thinking if V could be like this 🤔 and thinking if it's him, but I don't think he is. Looks like she was talking about someone older than V.

  • @chipsand
    @chipsand 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    "Why you should not date a KPop idol"
    Me: Thank god NCT are just antenatal classes

    • @kirryyy
      @kirryyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I just had to think about Mark‘s face scrunching up again, when Ollie mentioned that 😂
      Still one of my fav interviews.

    • @tsul4533
      @tsul4533 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg someone actually wrote this 😂😂

  • @CosplayerCelty
    @CosplayerCelty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3080

    Unpopular opinion: This just shows that ordinary people CAN date their kpop idols.
    Thank me later.
    I have no plans to date Suga but I want to cheer you up so here you go.

    • @AinishGhost
      @AinishGhost 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      True

    • @fizariaz9170
      @fizariaz9170 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Yeah but not international fans, so its verryyy low to date a kpop idol near to impossible. And dont cheer us bcs it is impossible but some doesnt think that and turn into sasaengs like that Josh who has a cruch on nayeon and even followd her on thr plane

    • @priscillalee5233
      @priscillalee5233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Tbh as an ordinary person, I have no intention to date them because I think it'll be very depressing. So I just see from far

    • @isratjahan-qu5ro
      @isratjahan-qu5ro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @Snigdha no a lot of kpop idols wants to date international peeps including bts

    • @isratjahan-qu5ro
      @isratjahan-qu5ro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@fizariaz9170 no a lot of kpop idols wants to date international peeps including bts so country doesn't matter😊

  • @rubicolin4692
    @rubicolin4692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1551

    Jina: do not date a Kpop idol.
    Me: I pray every day so the lord could give me the opportunity to even see him in person.

    • @mishall_j4fri
      @mishall_j4fri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Same XD I just NEEEEED to see Mark in person 0-0

    • @sk-gi1kl
      @sk-gi1kl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@mishall_j4fri IF U ARE TAKING MORK CAN I HAVE TAEYONG PLS LSKELWMAJS

    • @mishall_j4fri
      @mishall_j4fri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Liu YangYang SuRe! NOW WE JUST NEED TO PRAY

    • @alexandraanindyaayukartika1072
      @alexandraanindyaayukartika1072 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @hanscheesecake4200
      @hanscheesecake4200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Liu YangYang S HDJDHSJ I REMEMBER LAST YEAR AT THANKSGIVING I WAS MARCHING IN THE THANKSGIVING PARADE AND I SAW SOME IDOLS ON THE FLOAT BEHIND ME (the parade didn’t start, and yes we were allowed to walk around as long as we didn’t get separated from our groups) AND I HAD NO IDEA WHO IT WAS AND IT WAS NCT 127 AND I STAN THEM NOW AND I HATE THIS KSVSKGSJS

  • @hahahaseyo2897
    @hahahaseyo2897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    “Fans, don’t give gifts to your idols, they give them to their girlfriends.”
    Nah KimHanBinBar can’t relate.

  • @EllaSoh
    @EllaSoh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is the reality of dating a kpop idol. Most fans just see the glitz and glamor of kpop. Imagine what these idols' gf or bf has to go through. At the end of the day, these celebs are humans too just like us.

  • @nanikore9349
    @nanikore9349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1577

    This sounds like a whole ass fanfic with a Y/N and everything
    Tysm for 1.2k likes :0

  • @xoxobtsbpjimin6153
    @xoxobtsbpjimin6153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1422

    _I feel bad for her_ , _when you have fallen for someone who isn't feeling the same anymore_ ╥_╥ _Jina deserves to have a better boyfriend that really love her_

  • @nikan.6574
    @nikan.6574 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Them: Dont date kpop idols
    Me: Thank God BIGBANG is just a theory

  • @alyssadelacruz3096
    @alyssadelacruz3096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Whoever that k-pop idol is. I kinda' feel disappointed in him. All those years of training you must have known that in the future your lifestyle is very different from normal people. So why date her in the first place I feel so sorry for you. You don't deserve it. People might say "It's not his fault" WELL ITS HIS CHOICE FROM THE BEGINNING. Why date her if you cannot handle the relationship? And no. Busy schedules are not excuses. If he really wants to be with you he will. He was just immature at that time. And giving gifts to her from fans hurts HER and the FAN wtf. I do not care if he is an Idol or not. Every girl needs to know her worth. And I hope you are fine and doing well today. Keep strong!!!!

  • @Rita-ri4jq
    @Rita-ri4jq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2024

    They broke up but she’s clearly still in love with him
    *hiding the pain* stonks

    • @ellya2941
      @ellya2941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

      ya ikr. its became unforgottable coz he made her felt so worthless. i hate those kind of human

    • @caratmoa5081
      @caratmoa5081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      I feel so bad for her. She was with him when he was nothing and he left her when he got famous. I hope this sweet lady find a better man who would love her forever

    • @everykelmemeiscanon3712
      @everykelmemeiscanon3712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@caratmoa5081 feel the same way, I hope she finds a forever partner.

    • @onlyfrog
      @onlyfrog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      she isn't necessarily in love with him, people can talk about past things and express pain about those memories because they lived it. if you remember a past relationship, maybe you gonna be sad, but it doesn't mean you still love that person.

  • @lydiabuhril4349
    @lydiabuhril4349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1759

    Every youtuber who said “I dated a kpop idol”
    Also “this video is not about bts, no” haha

    • @aethynaa
      @aethynaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ly Dia i havent watched the whole vid yet but did she say this vid was not about bts in the video??

    • @azrael3376
      @azrael3376 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Athirah izham lmao and even if it was one of them, watcha gonna do

    • @aethynaa
      @aethynaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      petrichor sg. um if it was one of them i wouldnt even care at all lol they have their own private lives why would i care about that?im just curious if she said that in the video 🙄 chill

    • @azrael3376
      @azrael3376 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Athirah izham sorry if I offended you in any way, I didn’t mean to sound rude

    • @army4ever512
      @army4ever512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah of course...our boys wouldn't break hearts like that idol did to this girl😭

  • @Miggy___Love
    @Miggy___Love 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    To be in love and to love is one of the hardest thing ever. And that's why I have massive respect for Chen and his relationship. Despite his fame and popularity the way he maintained his relationship without backing off no matter what people said... it just says a lot about his character. And the fact that he owned up to the relationship while protecting his girl, it's just so beautiful

  • @meghana9290
    @meghana9290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Imagine going to your idol's concert and his girlfriend is right next to you, and you thought she's just a fan because she's just cheering like you and other fans.
    *JUST IMAGINE.*

  • @embodyinnerg
    @embodyinnerg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2326

    We all know BamBam is on tinder so I believe you Jina 👀

  • @ann1iu
    @ann1iu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2269

    “why you shouldn’t date a kpop idol”
    me: THANK GOD SEVENTEEN ARE COMEDIANS

    • @aishikwon
      @aishikwon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I was gonna write this

    • @kimh.8176
      @kimh.8176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Ahhaahah I love this but SVT treat us like we are their friends which is so cute. Cuz I prefer them than romantically

    • @ncteentiffy4770
      @ncteentiffy4770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      EXACTLY CARAT

    • @elvirajaga635
      @elvirajaga635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah, carat can marry them😂

    • @namjoonslostairpods7486
      @namjoonslostairpods7486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      THIS RIGHT HERE

  • @iamricalyn4640
    @iamricalyn4640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    *"You should not date a kpop idol"*
    me: *"Oh thank God, SEVENTEEN is a number."*

    • @faizininsss7524
      @faizininsss7524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hehe correct 😂❤️

    • @ratzy0716
      @ratzy0716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      PLS NOT THE NUMBER-😭

    • @lunadeangelis
      @lunadeangelis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank god dk is a pigeon 😌

    • @yowaylmi593
      @yowaylmi593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Seventeen also known as 17 the word seven has 5 letters. What also has 5 letters? Fruit. 17 has 2 numbers 1 and 7. 7 has 1 digit. What also has 1 digit? y if you were to add y to the end of fruit you would have fruity. In that case you are fruity.

    • @yn2sy
      @yn2sy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@yowaylmi593 i-

  • @ariann9714
    @ariann9714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow, this girl is so honest, I like her personality and I think she deserves to be happy with someone who will put her first, she’s beautiful

  • @luandanuredini6168
    @luandanuredini6168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1134

    Like how she just assumed we ever are gonna get the chance to even MEET a kpop idol

    • @leasteenberg392
      @leasteenberg392 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Luanda Nuredini facts

    • @lovekxtri
      @lovekxtri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      well we can always download tinder and match with a trainee...🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @ReptilianTeaDrinker
      @ReptilianTeaDrinker 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly. I'll probably never get the chance to. lol

    • @luandanuredini6168
      @luandanuredini6168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lovekxtri WHY didn't i think about that? What the hell that's genius

    • @lovekxtri
      @lovekxtri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@luandanuredini6168 like the video legit starts with the story of matching with a trainee on tinder XDD

  • @user-xn9tf9wk8b
    @user-xn9tf9wk8b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2223

    Who else is scrolling down the comments to find who Jina's talking about??

  • @hiba_m4
    @hiba_m4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    whenever people make videos like these I literally die inside wanting to know who they're talking about😂😭💀

  • @anilaben24
    @anilaben24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    1.He is a singer
    2.He is having a personal ig account in which he posts pics of him hanging out with friends
    3.He is cute
    4.He was a trainee for a long time
    5.He was from a big company
    6.They dated a long time ago
    7.The company was rude
    Conclusion : Obviously, its not BTS because :
    1.BTS members doesn't have personal ig accounts (in which they posts pics of them hanging out with friends)
    2.None of the singers of BTS (JK,V,Jimin,JIN) trained for a long period. RM and Suga were the only members who trained for a long time.
    3.Back then, BIGHIT was not a big company
    4.BIGHIT staffs are not that rude to the members
    5.None of the BTS members are jerks (like that one idol she mentioned)
    6.BTS members are the same before and after their debut.
    7.BTS members always remain loyal and they are not blown away by their fame.

    • @user-fz5xg6lx6t
      @user-fz5xg6lx6t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      They won't dare cheat to y/n

    • @lylica_
      @lylica_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@user-fz5xg6lx6t 😆😂😂

    • @odabravo9680
      @odabravo9680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, I needed this clarification:( lol

    • @anilaben24
      @anilaben24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Major hints : 1. she got her first bf at the age of 25. Its not the idol because she said in the video that the idol was much more cute than her previous bf's.
      2.she got her 1st bf at the age of 25 which means in the year 2012 ..so the idol belongs to a group which was debuted after 2012

    • @gabrielaneira5732
      @gabrielaneira5732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wtf????

  • @karinalee7990
    @karinalee7990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1332

    What people don’t realize is that if you were to date a kpop idol and like dispatch or something found out, your whole private life would be invaded, and it could actually put you in danger (from like insane sasaeng and stuff)

    • @pnym
      @pnym 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      learn from wattpad y'all,,
      dON'T DO IT

    • @arbn6898
      @arbn6898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Dispatch only exposes celebrity couples

    • @ImmaRokstar
      @ImmaRokstar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      you should be on the idol’s and s/o’s end, no. Dispatch and sasaengs have no lives and are to blame

    • @WAFFLEDOM
      @WAFFLEDOM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Yeah,many people doesn't realize that you would have to take so many dangerous risks if you were to date an actual idol.Don't think that you're Y/N and be happy and safe with the idol that you'd be dating.

    • @allyzaunabia4817
      @allyzaunabia4817 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@pnym what story? Lol HAHAHHAHA

  • @teasea4879
    @teasea4879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1302

    Lesson learnt: Tinder works guys, Tinder works...🌚

    • @youngforever1445
      @youngforever1445 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sayz Shaterida 😂😂

    • @adelalazur3341
      @adelalazur3341 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Only if you pretty

    • @teasea4879
      @teasea4879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@adelalazur3341 well, there's photoshop and make-up haha😜

    • @igrashsyimintv1346
      @igrashsyimintv1346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@teasea4879 TRUE😂😂😂

    • @ellaausr5411
      @ellaausr5411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mah friends kept...telling me to download it....okay now i get it ....oof