If the dating ban wasn't there in the first place there wouldn't be any problematic fans cause then we would all be used to seeing our idols date like :/
Nah, "dating ban" is pretty much here just for fans to be calm and not worried that their fave isn't actually dating some pretty idol) There is also no information about dating ban in any other company except for JYP with their 3 years rule (and I think I heard about some rule in YG, but I ain't sure), I've never heard anything like this about Bighit, SM, Pledis, etc.. Dating isn't really encouraged (mostly cause of fans' reaction if they found out), but the main rule is: everything is fine till it's not known publicly.
@@yarikun325 as was stated, if dating wasnt hidden or banned there would be no issue. In the US our music artists date, and are married and have families. It doesnt bother fans, and is actually expected. It's hard to write and perform good music if an artist isnt experiencing life.
@@jonok42 I think it is somehow the downside of kpop industry. In US or even in my country, we stan or support an artist because of artistry and talent. Lots of kpop idols sure have those talents and artistry but their companies attract fans by putting those delusional mindset to them. "They can be ur oppa. Look at them, choose what type of looks u like." They even make idols play some sort of "personality". Damn. If they rely solely in their talents, they can actually debut w/o caring much about image. But the question will be: In a very competetive industry, how would u create ur own fanbase? As bullsh*t at it is, the idols are actually very well aware of these but they agreed. Same goes for senior idols who wants to start a family but can't. The fans are delusional but it will always be their choice if they will choose career or lovelife. I don't agree w/ the bashing and everything cause thats totally insane. But I think the idols know what they signed for when they chose idol life.
noone seriously it sucks they have to follow up bc it's their dream to debut but i hope slowly ppl will accept it and idols can date one day but for now i don't see that ever happening but idk hyuna and e'dawn give me so much hope for the future of kpop
@@Unknown-ph8ii Jihyo and Kang Daniel's news just got out and seems everybody's reaction is positive. ❤❤❤ Seems your wish is granted. They are starting to accept now. Lol. 😁
IKR? Last video with Grace I remember they said "All humans date" and I'm just like "wow okay, I must be a fucking cactus then. No one wants to touch me." But this makes me think aren't there idols that DON'T date too? They make it sound like every single idol date. There's definitely people like us who just haven't found anyone they are interested in yet, people who really aren't sociable, or people who are not interested in dating in general....
@@Mibs-Mibby Yeah, I had never thought about that but you're right! There might be idols who don't date for some reason. It is really hard to think of any 'cause all of them look so young and attractive etc. but yeah... There are some for sure. Thank you, you just made me not feel that awkward about myself (well, at least for now). Btw, how old are you?
@Luiza Marques no problem! It just sorta annoyed me how people who date or have dated seem to forget that there are singles in the world... like it's an obvious thing to have a boyfriend or girlfriend... I'm turning 20 this year and I've still never truly been in love. I've had short-lived crushes who didn't like me back and some guys who liked me but I wasn't interested back... just never happened to me! But I'm trying not to be bothered by it anymore. I have priorities lol. I'm trying to graduate university and find meaning to my own life. Finding a boyfriend is at the very bottom of my "necessities."
@@Mibs-Mibby I am turning 23 this year and I've already graduated, so I'm just working (and that gives me more time to think of stuff that stuff). Besides that, I write some songs and sometimes I find it difficult to write about love and things like this (as they said in the video) and sometimes I wish I had those pure and innocent teenage love stories, but I guess I'm already too old for that so I get very frustrated.
Thank you for the informative video!! 1:12 Inkigayo sandwiches 3:05 how do you get other idol’s numbers? 6:47 Did you ever not have a phone? 7:01 No phone? Can you still date? 9:34 Have you ever dated while you were an idol? 11:11 Tips on dating secretly 13:58 Storytime 16:10 Dating in the industry 17:18 same occupation vs. different occupation 19:10 outro
I like what Alex said that in order for them to write songs they need to date and experience love and I totally agree with that, I just don’t understand why idols aren’t allow to date it’s still 🤯 to me ....I mean I know there’s a lot of shitty reasons why they aren’t but to me that’s garbage honestly
soobeanie_ yeah I guess so... it’s just so irritating how idols have to deal with jealous petty fans but I do hope with time it will get better and Fans will be more accepting because it’s happening 😂
@@choutzuyu8915 oh wow, that's good and understandable since they need to have some sort of footing in the industry before getting into a relationship. More companies should make that a policy instead of no dating
LOL I know what you mean. But RM did say that with sarcasm, presumably so that those of us who aren't dumb know they have to give that blanket statement on paper, but likely aren't actually adhering to it. And you can totally just hook up with people without getting into a relationship. I wouldn't be shocked if that happens a lot too.
@@soobeanie I don’t even care for who’s dating who I wanna know the real tea. I wanna know who hates who and if anyone has ever tried to fight anyone soooo???? why not?
I think even my boys bts are dating, I mean is impossible for a 20 year-old boy not to have a relation for 7 years... but we don't know, I'll be happy if they do. It would be a demonstration that they are just normal people. 💜
Yes honestly though. Like I’m not saying that they definitely ARE or NOT dating but they are HUMAN as well. It’s sad that some people don’t see them as that and think that they “own” or “can control” them. Like NO they are not anyone’s “property” they are human beings just like you or anyone else. So I do hope that they are happy, healthy, and just doing good because at the end of the day everyone deserves to have love and happiness in their lives!💜
Yeah even if they are not currently dating someone/ are single I genuinely want them to date and find their partner and live a happy life. They deserve all the happiness in the world they all work so hard to make music and I really appreciate that. I just want the guys to be happy with their lives💜💜💜
I think I understand bit of restrictions especially when you just debut and doing well in the business should be priority for those season but if they became to have sertain sucses then entertament should loosen some restriction such as dating. I want see who is my favorit idol choosing their partner. I want to see them in love with someone serious. but they should prioritize being sucsess until they hit sertain point. but I guess entertainment will worry any bad thing or bad image or more problem gonna happen. I want to see my favorit idol having healthy relationship. I don't want them to sacrifice their private so much. I want them to have good life with their private too.
Would be very interesting but I think they probably won't know of any LGBT idol unless they were really close friends with them as I think those idols would try to hide that as best as possible and therefore not a lot of people would know about it.
If all Kpop idols that wanted to date in the public eye (and it wasn’t rare) dated i feel like there would be less scandals, because with American artist it’s been normalized so like it’s not bad to their fan base and press.
what alex is saying about u need to experience something like love so that u can understand the music or what ur singing is very true. I was a big fan of Taylor Swift since i was young but i never understand her song bc it was all break up songs and stuff. I didn't experienced any break ups at that time but when i got to experienced being my heart broken I was literally in awe of how beautiful and relatable her lyrics was.
honestly speaking i really want to see idols date. like damn share cute selcas and let the fans make adorable video editings of yall 😭 i don't have a love life can't i just be happy for my idol?! damn companies and toxic fans...
Y'all just letting you know but some idols put on masks because they didn't shave...that's why its more often that you see male idols wearing it. 😌😏 You're Welcome.
bittie katie Either their company pays a big amount of money to hide their relationship(s) or they just don’t date at all lool orr they just too good at hiding it
@@salinadeled2629 i think sandara park fro 2ne1 once said she went on a blind date in a car once. i bet a lot of idols date in cars with tinted windows or for those who have their own apt, they date at home
Well, first of all there are a lot of other people, beside fellow idols, who idol can date and information about which wouldn't be so easily found out or spread. Just few examples: dating non-celebs (like daughters/sons of rich ppl, for example) won't be even published in news, it's kind of not really allowed, same gender relationships won't be ever published as well, dating ppl from different area of entertainment world (actors, models, etc) is also harder to track, also there is such thing as "some relationship" which isn't actually dating but a lil bit more than just a hook up but is also harder to track. Plus you should realise how dispatch actually work in case they found a couple: they don't put news about it immediately, they send info about it to idols' companies and ask for money (basically blackmail) if the company wants cover it up and not reveal it to public and then it depends on what company actually wants. Also if you think that sasaengs will reveal everything once they find out idol is dating then it's also not exactly how it works, cause basically they'd do it only if idol pisses them off. So yeah, a lot of opportunities actually)
I know bighit has a dating deal with dispatch. This was because after dispatch said that BTS has no scandals like non dating ones. They started to look more into their relationships and it came out that bh has a contract to keep all their relationship news and news of their s/o out of the press
*"The more you cover, the more you get caught."* That's why JenKai didn't cover themselves with sunglasses and face mask when they were spotted on a date.
Can you make a video talking about the people on your team and all the positions. As in like how many managers you have for a group and what are their roles and who’s the driver etc and who makes the final decisions for a group, who gives schedules to the group, and also do you have seperate makeup artists/ stylist for a specific group and stuff. So basically just all the people who work for a group but not the actual members, and their roles. Thank you ily xx Also I’m rlly curious, how expenses work in the industry like money spent for flights and hotels
POTATO CHIPS I don’t know if this might answer your question but try watching Seventeen’s episode on Omniscient Interfering View. They kind of showed their new manager struggles.
@@jadoremusic620 In my opinion its the opposite. I find most of the time its the managers who are the jerks unless they are close in terms of understanding each other in work and struggles of pressure. I seen enough reality shows or vlives of idol groups to know this. It could be as simple as managers walking in and their whole demeanour changes. Like they are scared or very careful of everything they do. other examples like managers not knowing they are being filmed and they look like they are going to hit them, grabbing phones off idols and going through them. Telling a member they are not eating particular dish and they are suppose to be on a diet etc... Of course not every manager is this intense but I mean i would be shocked if idols dont get into arguments with their manager from time to time. IDK ive just seen too many examples of idols that wont say anything back cuz you know 'disrespectful'. Sometimes i think without the idol you dont even have a job but then again some cases its just the managers following rules.
Remembering Kaistal.. Their relationship wasn’t about attraction, it was about love. They pretty much grew up together and their love was built from that friendship.. so sad.
Definitely managers encourage it (which actually doesn't mean that idols can't be touchy naturally). The thing is that skinship between same gender as a marketing tool (just like a concept of kpop in general) kind of came from Japan (& jpop) to where it came from stuff like yaoi, which is marketed for women a lot. How to say, the implication of smth going on between boys sells very good for females, plus it allows to fans kind of imagine how idol behave in a relationship (or even imagine themselves on the place of one of them) without involving a female figure (and without revealing any info about actual dating, which is dangerous when it comes to kpop) and thus getting jealous, plus it makes an illusion that idol is already taken and thus there is no chance for him to have smth with pretty female idol plus skinship implies that idols are close to each other (which is not always the truth, but for outsiders it looks like it cause in general there is that idea that ppl don't touch or ven hug/kiss someone they don't like). A lot of pluses in overal but main reason is that fangirls like it and pay money to see it. Same goes for female with female skinship, I mean, that's one of popular fantasies for males. I mean, it's kind of a known thing, that managers/company push it, but I still would love to watch a video about it)
YaRiKun fr and acting cute as well u can see a lot of idols are so awkward and feel embarrassed when they do it but they have to, it's interesting what companies think fans want
Let's all understand that our boy Jimin in BTS couldn't give us those bedroom eyes he's so famous for if he didn't have experience in that department uh ho
In Philippines we have a lot of love teams in the industry and we still support them because seeing them flattered is aww.. and cute, I just don't understand and dislike the fact Korean industry control personal life
Tbh, if I’d be dating an idol, the last thing I would want is someone to know that. Gosh, I get shivers from thinking about crazy fans and public in general knowing me. Hell no! If that kpop boy goes: I really like you, I want to have a future with you! We have to keep it a secret for now but I promise after my contract ends we can be openly together. And I’ll be like: I don’t think so. Just let’s never tell anyone 😬
Your series are always super interesting. I felt kind of dumb learning that "Inkigayo Sandwiches" had nothing to do with the quality of the sandwiches hahaha.
when celebrities from the west date, everyone is out here celebrating but when a korean idol dates, it’s the worst crime ever committed towards mankind? *logic 404 not found*
Me too, woukd love to see them and how they act ect. Hate how they have to keep it hidden must be exhausting, and probably scary, like people would attack their partners smh
I was just wondering if you know of any idols who have dated non-idols? while being in the industry and if it's possible? just curious if that actuallly happens
Changmin just confirmed a relationship with a non-idol, and we all know about Jongdae! I'm actually pretty sure a lot of idols are dating outside of the industry... Can you imagine how complicated finding time to hang out must be if you both have idol schedules?
Alex, lol, we human, we need loving tooo. So cute! Yes, the best music is made from falling in love, and heart break. Love is learning, thank you for a great video.☺👍👌💟💟
I love Soobeanie she's so open with herself this is what we need more of in kpop then all this secret shit won't happen because the sunlight is always the best disaffect!!!!
you can also keep phone numbers written up as passwords, just add letters or symbols. Keep in wallet - tada I think all Idols need to date openly. It really will stop the sasaengs except for a few. Right now they are put up as innocent, pure, saving themselves for the lucky fan. Take that away and it will be safer for everyone.
I love yours video thank you sooo much 💕 i was wondering if you could do a video about how sexuality is perceived in the korean culture and the Kpop industry . Because I feel like theres more and more sexy concept, outfits and dance move than before :0
You guys are so pretty/handsome with such interesting characters and it's just so fun to watch you guys. If koram/English speaking idols and vlogging were as popular 5 years ago as it is know you guys would've been on top
Such a great video and it was interesting hearing everyone’s experiences. You’re so full of energy and that energy plus the humor just made this so much fun. Keep up the good work!
Can you make a video about branded clothes idol wears? I'm curious does most of the clothes idol wear is sponsored or they buy it themself? If it is sponsored, can you explain about how those clothing sponsorship works? Thanks
Melissa S I think a lot of them get to borrow clothes that the company buys for them to wear to get photographed in. As it is know that a lot of idols that are not BTS level famous don’t make that much money. Most idols only wear really expensive peaces once so I think that get them from a wardrobe that the company has and they give them back after an event, variety show or outing.
I HIGHLY recommend to read the Manga/Manhua titled "IMITATION" on Mangatoon.. The characters are KPOP idols themselves in it says there how KPOP idols are "behind the scenes" including the "dirty deeds" of some idols and their agency... How other idols date secretly.. There was also a scene there which is a alnost a same situation of what happened to Kai and Jennie. It's a very good manga especially it you love KPOP.
thank you! I also have a recommendation: Lost in Translation, on Line Webtoon :) The webtoon is about a kpop idol who is severely misunderstanding, and shows the behind the scenes
i just remembered once a photo card (It's not exactly a photo card but a picture that comes inside the cd) of Twice appeared in one of the Bangtan bombs
LOL I laughed so much watching this. Alex is such a New Yorker ("word"). I live in Germany right now and whenever I do meet another American in public, the American slang comes out, too. "Yooooo." Hahahahaha
@@nalaa9618 As an American living in Europe, I can assure you I hear less "Yooo"-ing out here than I do in the States from the locals here and while traveling. I'm not saying it's ONLY American but it is something I've heard mainly from Americans as a way of greeting or an expression of surprise/shock/amusement. Also, as an American missing home, it is something special when you hear it and gives a sense of camaraderie. :)
The whole dating ban from the company/fans makes NO sense at all. That’s like your employer or boss getting mad at you for being in a relationship or caring about what you do with your paycheck. Idols are just entertainers and as long as they do their jobs satisfactorily there’s no reason why people should be heavily invested in their personal lives. 🥴
Kpop idols are dating👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 It’s just that they and their companies prefer to keep their private lives well ‘private’ Not only this, but a lot of western artists do the same too. Not all of them likes to expose their love lives randomly. They’d be like ‘b***ch what’s yo business?💀😂😂’
Well, I do agree but as a person that is a westerner, it actually is quite common for celebrities over here to be open about their love lives and who they date/ have romantic relationships with. But I definitely see your point of view and I agree!
Aw this gets me so sad :( I hate to think that idols have to date secretly. Love should be able to be free. I would be so interested and happy if I could see my idols dating with someone. I would be happy and support.
Wow I watched this during quarantine and you guys are so cool and chill now Im sad because I miss chilling with my friends too 🥺 anyway, content is great! I was smiling the whole time. Its good to know that our faves are possibly dating too and are not deprived of love 💜 thank you
Another great informative video 😊 This topic is a pretty big one that a lot of people are so interested in, and again, you always give us great Insider info on it 😊 only 7000 more to 100k! Lol you should do vids with them more often aha
A few companies do allow their idols to date. For instance, Pledis allows SVT (Seventeen) to date and to have days off. They are just encouraged to be discreet about it.
I also think that our bangtans are also dating,i mean look at them they are hot,talented, and many more and its natural to date even if they are idols,they are human they have feeling too. So I would be happy for them becoz I love them so much,may be feeling a little sad but I know that I will be happy for them they have the rights to be happy and as long as they are happy ,i am happy too💜💜
This is kind of a private topic so I understand if you don't want to answer or talk about this in a future video. But something I have been wondering about is can/do idols 'relieve' themselves sexually? It's something that everyone does (and is healthy for you, to a limit), but I have never heard or seen anyone talk about it in Korean culture or media (aside from dirty jokes). Also, events where a bunch of 'attractive' people come together like the Olympics has shown to have a really high rate of sexual contact (between the athletes), this isn't that different from many of the competitions/variety shows that idols participate in. I've also read in the past that JYPE (as well as SM) make all their idols complete a sex-ed course while trainees (thank goodness). I guess my question boils down to; do idols masturbate/have intercourse, is this allowed or frowned upon by their managing staff or company, how do they manage to keep it out of the public knowledge so well. This is not meant to be a creepy question/topic of discussion but I do realize it is just inherently that way. I guess it just came to mind since this video is on dating, and the whole 'Burning Molka' scandal that has been happening over the past few months. EDIT: From a few replies I can tell I worded my question really poorly, ofc they masturbate, they are human, much like the rest of us... It was more leaning towards does your company allow it (and intercourse amongst idols)? I don't think it would be that out of character for companies to not allow their idols to do such things, seeing as they have no problem removing some other fairly basic things like phones and snacks. Also, when you live in an apartment with 8-9 other members (for example TWICE or Cherry Bullet, or living with the manager) it could be really rare that you ever get "alone time". Question wanted to also lean towards, how do you deal with that as an idol?
There’s an interview from MBLAQ G.O. mentioning that he asks his friends or people around him to buy condoms. Pretty sure that means that some idols are sexually active during their career. And some idols are open about watching porn and that usually leads to masturbation. I don’t think a company would be that strict to restrict that.
this is my first video of them I watched, they were idols? which groups were they in? and is it different for more high profile idols? I feel like it’s more difficult to date if they’re very well-known/famous
I mean, it IS delulu to think people are dating just because they once smiled at each other, or even just acknowledged each others existence. It's not that they can't accept the fact that idols may be dating or anything but that most shippers and shipping rumors just don't make sense at all, lol (then there are the ones who call other shippers delulu because they have a ship themselves, but that's another story)
If the dating ban wasn't there in the first place there wouldn't be any problematic fans cause then we would all be used to seeing our idols date like :/
Nah, "dating ban" is pretty much here just for fans to be calm and not worried that their fave isn't actually dating some pretty idol) There is also no information about dating ban in any other company except for JYP with their 3 years rule (and I think I heard about some rule in YG, but I ain't sure), I've never heard anything like this about Bighit, SM, Pledis, etc.. Dating isn't really encouraged (mostly cause of fans' reaction if they found out), but the main rule is: everything is fine till it's not known publicly.
@@yarikun325 as was stated, if dating wasnt hidden or banned there would be no issue. In the US our music artists date, and are married and have families. It doesnt bother fans, and is actually expected. It's hard to write and perform good music if an artist isnt experiencing life.
@@jonok42 I think it is somehow the downside of kpop industry. In US or even in my country, we stan or support an artist because of artistry and talent. Lots of kpop idols sure have those talents and artistry but their companies attract fans by putting those delusional mindset to them. "They can be ur oppa. Look at them, choose what type of looks u like." They even make idols play some sort of "personality". Damn. If they rely solely in their talents, they can actually debut w/o caring much about image. But the question will be: In a very competetive industry, how would u create ur own fanbase?
As bullsh*t at it is, the idols are actually very well aware of these but they agreed. Same goes for senior idols who wants to start a family but can't. The fans are delusional but it will always be their choice if they will choose career or lovelife. I don't agree w/ the bashing and everything cause thats totally insane. But I think the idols know what they signed for when they chose idol life.
noone seriously it sucks they have to follow up bc it's their dream to debut but i hope slowly ppl will accept it and idols can date one day but for now i don't see that ever happening but idk hyuna and e'dawn give me so much hope for the future of kpop
@@Unknown-ph8ii Jihyo and Kang Daniel's news just got out and seems everybody's reaction is positive. ❤❤❤ Seems your wish is granted. They are starting to accept now. Lol. 😁
If i dont have a phone my biggest concern is not “how do i date” its “HOW DO I CALL MY MOM”
IKR
Same. Idgaf about dating lmao but my mum needs to know I'm alive and well
Same
For me, it's "HOW DO I FIGURE OUT WHERE I'M GOING?!" I need Google Maps. Although I get lost even with a map...
If I were an Idol, I wouldn't be surprised if my mom went to the record company and started raising hell for not calling her lol.
Every time they say "We're people too. We date" I'm like "Damn, then what am I?"
IKR? Last video with Grace I remember they said "All humans date" and I'm just like "wow okay, I must be a fucking cactus then. No one wants to touch me."
But this makes me think aren't there idols that DON'T date too? They make it sound like every single idol date. There's definitely people like us who just haven't found anyone they are interested in yet, people who really aren't sociable, or people who are not interested in dating in general....
@@Mibs-Mibby Yeah, I had never thought about that but you're right! There might be idols who don't date for some reason. It is really hard to think of any 'cause all of them look so young and attractive etc. but yeah... There are some for sure.
Thank you, you just made me not feel that awkward about myself (well, at least for now).
Btw, how old are you?
@Luiza Marques no problem! It just sorta annoyed me how people who date or have dated seem to forget that there are singles in the world... like it's an obvious thing to have a boyfriend or girlfriend... I'm turning 20 this year and I've still never truly been in love. I've had short-lived crushes who didn't like me back and some guys who liked me but I wasn't interested back... just never happened to me! But I'm trying not to be bothered by it anymore. I have priorities lol. I'm trying to graduate university and find meaning to my own life. Finding a boyfriend is at the very bottom of my "necessities."
Siim! Somos ets talvez ksksk
@@Mibs-Mibby I am turning 23 this year and I've already graduated, so I'm just working (and that gives me more time to think of stuff that stuff). Besides that, I write some songs and sometimes I find it difficult to write about love and things like this (as they said in the video) and sometimes I wish I had those pure and innocent teenage love stories, but I guess I'm already too old for that so I get very frustrated.
Thank you for the informative video!!
1:12 Inkigayo sandwiches
3:05 how do you get other idol’s numbers?
6:47 Did you ever not have a phone?
7:01 No phone? Can you still date?
9:34 Have you ever dated while you were an idol?
11:11 Tips on dating secretly
13:58 Storytime
16:10 Dating in the industry
17:18 same occupation vs. different occupation
19:10 outro
Bernadette M THANK YOU SO MUCH
minty b you’re welcome!
Thank you so much♡
Bernadette M thank youuuuu
Lena you’re welcome!
Everyone who thinks their idols are pure or saints should see this! I'm glad that even in a sneaky way they can date like any other human being.
exactly!
I think not all idol is dating friend
maybe im an 👽 because until now, I have been single my whole life
@Estela Lopez asexual people can still date but it wont include a sexual relation
Idols be shaking again with more information about how numbers are passed after the news of the inkigayo sandwiches lol
And how they exchange numbers during exchange the album cd.... 😏
AHAHAHAAHAH OPPIESEE
I understand now why a lot of idols talk about how good the inkigayo sandwich is .... It was not about the taste ...
do you know what grouops alex and eddy were in?
Kx JJCC and high4
Imagine being young, hot and talented but your company (and psycho fans) won’t let you have a partner 🤦🏻♀️
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Imagine being hot and even pretty xd
Ikr I hate them psycho fans they so crazy abd controlling
Like nayeons stalker such a psycho if nayeon dates anyone he would kill her
Sliding into them sandwiches instead of dms👀
AHHAAAHAH TOO FUNNY
soobeanie_ nahh youu
This made me crack up
Minji Sol ayye
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I like what Alex said that in order for them to write songs they need to date and experience love and I totally agree with that, I just don’t understand why idols aren’t allow to date it’s still 🤯 to me ....I mean I know there’s a lot of shitty reasons why they aren’t but to me that’s garbage honestly
It sucks sometimes but I get the companies reasons too. Its a business at the same time too :(
soobeanie_ yeah I guess so... it’s just so irritating how idols have to deal with jealous petty fans but I do hope with time it will get better and Fans will be more accepting because it’s happening 😂
Because business is business.
JYP lets his artist date after three years of debut that's why TWICE Jihyo can date Kang Daniel
@@choutzuyu8915 oh wow, that's good and understandable since they need to have some sort of footing in the industry before getting into a relationship. More companies should make that a policy instead of no dating
We Fans don't own them. They have their own private life and we should support whoever they choose to date.
I laugh at the "we don't date we are focusing on our music right now" statement. Umm yeah sorry but the world is not stupid LOL
RM 💀
LOL I know what you mean. But RM did say that with sarcasm, presumably so that those of us who aren't dumb know they have to give that blanket statement on paper, but likely aren't actually adhering to it. And you can totally just hook up with people without getting into a relationship. I wouldn't be shocked if that happens a lot too.
@@khanyag6092 the first time I saw the interview ,I was like really????????? But I mean we never know
@@danibellerika what is hook up with people without getting into a relationship means?
@@emerald442 Casual sex without commitment.
I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS VIDEO
Joan Kim us too sis 👏🏾👏🏾
YESSSS 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️
me too me too
@@soobeanie I don’t even care for who’s dating who I wanna know the real tea. I wanna know who hates who and if anyone has ever tried to fight anyone
soooo???? why not?
I think even my boys bts are dating, I mean is impossible for a 20 year-old boy not to have a relation for 7 years... but we don't know, I'll be happy if they do. It would be a demonstration that they are just normal people. 💜
Yes honestly though. Like I’m not saying that they definitely ARE or NOT dating but they are HUMAN as well. It’s sad that some people don’t see them as that and think that they “own” or “can control” them. Like NO they are not anyone’s “property” they are human beings just like you or anyone else. So I do hope that they are happy, healthy, and just doing good because at the end of the day everyone deserves to have love and happiness in their lives!💜
Yeah even if they are not currently dating someone/ are single I genuinely want them to date and find their partner and live a happy life. They deserve all the happiness in the world they all work so hard to make music and I really appreciate that. I just want the guys to be happy with their lives💜💜💜
Definitely, I just hope if they do have SO's they're happy together 💜💜💜
Whatever it is we should respect that :)
@@Fifi-jb3yx I totally agree with you.
Jin doesn't, others have a great deal of maybe 😂
Spilling the tea about the truth behind variety shows and the humiliation kpop idols get would be also nice to see
it always baffles me that grown adults aren't allowed to do basic human things, such as having a phone, or dating. how can they live lmao
I can barely survive without my phone these days. At least let them have wifi okayyyy 😭😭
I think I understand bit of restrictions especially when you just debut and doing well in the business should be priority for those season but if they became to have sertain sucses then entertament should loosen some restriction such as dating.
I want see who is my favorit idol choosing their partner.
I want to see them in love with someone serious.
but they should prioritize being sucsess until they hit sertain point.
but I guess entertainment will worry any bad thing or bad image or more problem gonna happen.
I want to see my favorit idol having healthy relationship.
I don't want them to sacrifice their private so much.
I want them to have good life with their private too.
its a fecked up industry...dno why people wanna be an idol
There's a lot more to life than your phone and dating. Those are two really small aspects when you think about it.
Do you guys get to know the secret couples within the industry even before the public knows about it or along with the public?
May be yes cuz I heard that jimin had know before even we know about jennie and kai
Would you be into the idea of doing a video on LGBT idols and how they date or just experience life as idols? ;o;
ayee chloe
Yaas light needs to be shed on this topic!
yes pleaaaase
Would be very interesting but I think they probably won't know of any LGBT idol unless they were really close friends with them as I think those idols would try to hide that as best as possible and therefore not a lot of people would know about it.
That would be very interesting
LOOOOL this video was so entertainingggg!!! So fun seeing the 3 of you togetherr!!!!! :)
“CAN I HAVE YO NUMBERRRRRR”
Was it cool that Alex was so forward when asking for ur number? Or were you more flustered? ^^
AHAHAHAHHAHAH CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBERRRRRR CLASSIC
If all Kpop idols that wanted to date in the public eye (and it wasn’t rare) dated i feel like there would be less scandals, because with American artist it’s been normalized so like it’s not bad to their fan base and press.
what alex is saying about u need to experience something like love so that u can understand the music or what ur singing is very true. I was a big fan of Taylor Swift since i was young but i never understand her song bc it was all break up songs and stuff. I didn't experienced any break ups at that time but when i got to experienced being my heart broken I was literally in awe of how beautiful and relatable her lyrics was.
honestly speaking i really want to see idols date. like damn share cute selcas and let the fans make adorable video editings of yall 😭 i don't have a love life can't i just be happy for my idol?! damn companies and toxic fans...
Sameeee!!!! 😭
So true. Thats why fans keep doing the ship thing ahahaha
Alex would be me as an idol. I would be so obviously American haha i wouldnt last
HAAHAHAHAHHAA omg love this comment
Same
Y'all just letting you know but some idols put on masks because they didn't shave...that's why its more often that you see male idols wearing it. 😌😏
You're Welcome.
Good to know!!!
👏👏👏
I just love how She *Spills Tea* revealing all unknown facts about k-industry...
I'd like to know how some of the biggest kpop idols who have eyes on them 24/7 manage to date with people
bittie katie Either their company pays a big amount of money to hide their relationship(s) or they just don’t date at all lool orr they just too good at hiding it
@@salinadeled2629 i think sandara park fro 2ne1 once said she went on a blind date in a car once. i bet a lot of idols date in cars with tinted windows or for those who have their own apt, they date at home
Well, first of all there are a lot of other people, beside fellow idols, who idol can date and information about which wouldn't be so easily found out or spread. Just few examples: dating non-celebs (like daughters/sons of rich ppl, for example) won't be even published in news, it's kind of not really allowed, same gender relationships won't be ever published as well, dating ppl from different area of entertainment world (actors, models, etc) is also harder to track, also there is such thing as "some relationship" which isn't actually dating but a lil bit more than just a hook up but is also harder to track. Plus you should realise how dispatch actually work in case they found a couple: they don't put news about it immediately, they send info about it to idols' companies and ask for money (basically blackmail) if the company wants cover it up and not reveal it to public and then it depends on what company actually wants. Also if you think that sasaengs will reveal everything once they find out idol is dating then it's also not exactly how it works, cause basically they'd do it only if idol pisses them off. So yeah, a lot of opportunities actually)
I know bighit has a dating deal with dispatch. This was because after dispatch said that BTS has no scandals like non dating ones. They started to look more into their relationships and it came out that bh has a contract to keep all their relationship news and news of their s/o out of the press
@@dinelleworrell6340 hmmm. A contract ey?
Idols deserve to date out in the open. They’re normal people too lol.
*"The more you cover, the more you get caught."* That's why JenKai didn't cover themselves with sunglasses and face mask when they were spotted on a date.
I don't get it.
Aww they were such a cute ship :(
@@marocaine1283 he’s talking about Jennie from BLACKPINK and Kai from EXO.
@@peaceful_chaos14 ik
But it's different now.
I mean, it's corona 😂
Can you make a video talking about the people on your team and all the positions. As in like how many managers you have for a group and what are their roles and who’s the driver etc and who makes the final decisions for a group, who gives schedules to the group, and also do you have seperate makeup artists/ stylist for a specific group and stuff. So basically just all the people who work for a group but not the actual members, and their roles. Thank you ily xx
Also I’m rlly curious, how expenses work in the industry like money spent for flights and hotels
POTATO CHIPS I don’t know if this might answer your question but try watching Seventeen’s episode on Omniscient Interfering View. They kind of showed their new manager struggles.
omg yes ! very curious as well !
I'm also curious about whether idols are jerks to their managers like what's portrayed in the dramas. Or, how often?
@@jadoremusic620 In my opinion its the opposite. I find most of the time its the managers who are the jerks unless they are close in terms of understanding each other in work and struggles of pressure.
I seen enough reality shows or vlives of idol groups to know this. It could be as simple as managers walking in and their whole demeanour changes. Like they are scared or very careful of everything they do. other examples like managers not knowing they are being filmed and they look like they are going to hit them, grabbing phones off idols and going through them. Telling a member they are not eating particular dish and they are suppose to be on a diet etc...
Of course not every manager is this intense but I mean i would be shocked if idols dont get into arguments with their manager from time to time.
IDK ive just seen too many examples of idols that wont say anything back cuz you know 'disrespectful'.
Sometimes i think without the idol you dont even have a job but then again some cases its just the managers following rules.
@@LeaLeaA7 - Ahh, I see. Thank you for that.
Remembering Kaistal.. Their relationship wasn’t about attraction, it was about love. They pretty much grew up together and their love was built from that friendship.. so sad.
They didn’t exchange numbers through a stupid sandwich lmfaoooo
Ikr :(
Ikr. They’re so perfect for each other.
can u do a video on skinship, do managers encourage it, or are idols naturally that touchy
yes please!!!
Yes pls
Definitely managers encourage it (which actually doesn't mean that idols can't be touchy naturally). The thing is that skinship between same gender as a marketing tool (just like a concept of kpop in general) kind of came from Japan (& jpop) to where it came from stuff like yaoi, which is marketed for women a lot. How to say, the implication of smth going on between boys sells very good for females, plus it allows to fans kind of imagine how idol behave in a relationship (or even imagine themselves on the place of one of them) without involving a female figure (and without revealing any info about actual dating, which is dangerous when it comes to kpop) and thus getting jealous, plus it makes an illusion that idol is already taken and thus there is no chance for him to have smth with pretty female idol plus skinship implies that idols are close to each other (which is not always the truth, but for outsiders it looks like it cause in general there is that idea that ppl don't touch or ven hug/kiss someone they don't like). A lot of pluses in overal but main reason is that fangirls like it and pay money to see it. Same goes for female with female skinship, I mean, that's one of popular fantasies for males. I mean, it's kind of a known thing, that managers/company push it, but I still would love to watch a video about it)
YaRiKun fr and acting cute as well u can see a lot of idols are so awkward and feel embarrassed when they do it but they have to, it's interesting what companies think fans want
@@yarikun325 your right, but some others shippers took it seriously, and they start a FAN WAR by arguing the others favorite ship! 😢
Let's all understand that our boy Jimin in BTS couldn't give us those bedroom eyes he's so famous for if he didn't have experience in that department uh ho
lmaooo you got it right
Delusional!!
I remember his GoGo performance during MOTS-ONE, legit knowing he's experienced
I really hope none of them ever gets caught. Hopefully some day idols will be able to date publicly 🥺
I think they'll be like Chen :")
5:40 "yo, can i get ur number" he sound exactly like nct's mark 😳
i laughed so hard at the "instant replay" -- i bought my own sandwiches ...
I JUST HAD TOO
“I’m from phone era so i never experience a pager sorry”
“Oh dude I’m sorry that i’m from pager era”
I’m dying 😂😂😂
OPPSS AHAAHAAA
Athaya Sungkar Lol 😂
bruh i just saw that jihyo and kang daniel are dating and suddenly this video appears in my recommendations💀💀
same, youtube knows
Manager: DELETE EVERY BOY
Me: Derek>Denise
Paul>Patricia
Zeke>Zarin
James>Jessica
JADEtheLEEder Same 🙃😂❤️
Same😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Eiiiii you know the way
Dennis, Pauline, Zane, and Jessie
Be like 2PM Junho. Asking Sooyoung number on the stage lol 😂😂😂😂
WHAT?! THAT REALLY HAPPENED?? LOOL >
Yasmine yes haha th-cam.com/video/p92Y3jjJYn8/w-d-xo.html
Hahaha
In Philippines we have a lot of love teams in the industry and we still support them because seeing them flattered is aww.. and cute, I just don't understand and dislike the fact Korean industry control personal life
And here is me watching such videos to convince myself that my oppas are dating someone secretly and that I should move on😂🤣
hold up this is a bit too relatable
This comment needs to be pinned 🤣🤚
Same sis .... I'm watching ship videos to clear my head XD
I just KNOW chanyeol helped jongin with that inkigayo sandwich
Ikr
Yeah. That's why having a good chemistry with your teammates can help you dating
Really?
I feel like he was the messenger for all the members 🤣
OMG EDDY AND ALEX. I LIKE THEIR GROUPS SO MUCH
Sami Bts trash what group are they from?
What groups r they in
Eddy is from JJCC and Alex is from high4
Yesssss my peeeps~
You a real one. I love their groups too.
I really like alex he is so friendly though
Who’s here for the tea?
Loll 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️
Tbh, if I’d be dating an idol, the last thing I would want is someone to know that. Gosh, I get shivers from thinking about crazy fans and public in general knowing me. Hell no!
If that kpop boy goes: I really like you, I want to have a future with you! We have to keep it a secret for now but I promise after my contract ends we can be openly together.
And I’ll be like: I don’t think so. Just let’s never tell anyone 😬
lmfao alex i'll buy u an inkigayo sandwich
Your series are always super interesting. I felt kind of dumb learning that "Inkigayo Sandwiches" had nothing to do with the quality of the sandwiches hahaha.
Alex is such a mood 😂
I agreee
Ooooh the tea is being spilt ☕️
Opppppsieeee
Interesting perspective, Thank you so much for the insight!
when celebrities from the west date, everyone is out here celebrating but when a korean idol dates, it’s the worst crime ever committed towards mankind? *logic 404 not found*
*We gotta be friends*
LOL i totally relate to Alex's enthusiasm whenever I meet Korean Americans here in Korea ㅋㅋㅋ
I chuckled to myself when it got to the part about masking. Bro, you guys in 2019 had no idea wtf was coming...
imagine seeing idols dating, omg how happy could we've been seeing our ults being happy too 🥺
Me too, woukd love to see them and how they act ect. Hate how they have to keep it hidden must be exhausting, and probably scary, like people would attack their partners smh
I was just wondering if you know of any idols who have dated non-idols? while being in the industry and if it's possible? just curious if that actuallly happens
pretty sure that block b member ukwon or b bomb?? is dating non idol openly and all the fans know for a long time too...
An ex member from Day6 is one of em
Changmin just confirmed a relationship with a non-idol, and we all know about Jongdae! I'm actually pretty sure a lot of idols are dating outside of the industry... Can you imagine how complicated finding time to hang out must be if you both have idol schedules?
Chenle's baby says hi
Of crs, Jongdae and his wife are an example:)
Tina - you know inki gayo sandwich right?
The boys - yah it's delicious.
Tina - * mental face-palm *
OMG I miss JJCC and BLADY :( Love u Tina
LOLL HIIIIII thanks for watching
JJCC, BLADY, and High4
and then still, there are people like jae from day6 and he actually wants to focus on his music and he doesn't want to be distracted with dating.
Alex, lol, we human, we need loving tooo. So cute! Yes, the best music is made from falling in love, and heart break. Love is learning, thank you for a great video.☺👍👌💟💟
I love Soobeanie she's so open with herself this is what we need more of in kpop then all this secret shit won't happen because the sunlight is always the best disaffect!!!!
you can also keep phone numbers written up as passwords, just add letters or symbols. Keep in wallet - tada I think all Idols need to date openly. It really will stop the sasaengs except for a few. Right now they are put up as innocent, pure, saving themselves for the lucky fan. Take that away and it will be safer for everyone.
You guys are so chill but so straight up with your answers. You all should get plenty of work. Duces!
DUCESSSSSS THANKS FOR WATCHIGGG
who was screaming ipod when they were trying to guess what he says XD only a 90s kid can relate
I was like ipod goddamnit!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Meee!!!!
As soon as they mentioned the sandwich I remembered when Kai did that to Jennie
Alex is that type of people that I would love to be with for 24/7 he’s soooo fun 😂😂😂😂😂😂
And I loveeeeeee Eddy’s smile 😍
I love yours video thank you sooo much 💕 i was wondering if you could do a video about how sexuality is perceived in the korean culture and the Kpop industry . Because I feel like theres more and more sexy concept, outfits and dance move than before :0
You guys are so pretty/handsome with such interesting characters and it's just so fun to watch you guys. If koram/English speaking idols and vlogging were as popular 5 years ago as it is know you guys would've been on top
Such a great video and it was interesting hearing everyone’s experiences. You’re so full of energy and that energy plus the humor just made this so much fun. Keep up the good work!
Can you make a video about branded clothes idol wears? I'm curious does most of the clothes idol wear is sponsored or they buy it themself? If it is sponsored, can you explain about how those clothing sponsorship works? Thanks
Melissa S I think a lot of them get to borrow clothes that the company buys for them to wear to get photographed in. As it is know that a lot of idols that are not BTS level famous don’t make that much money. Most idols only wear really expensive peaces once so I think that get them from a wardrobe that the company has and they give them back after an event, variety show or outing.
This was such an interesting video! Definitely make more with Alex and Eddy. They’re so entertaining haha
I really hope my faves are dating and falling in love 🥺
I HIGHLY recommend to read the Manga/Manhua titled "IMITATION" on Mangatoon.. The characters are KPOP idols themselves in it says there how KPOP idols are "behind the scenes" including the "dirty deeds" of some idols and their agency... How other idols date secretly.. There was also a scene there which is a alnost a same situation of what happened to Kai and Jennie. It's a very good manga especially it you love KPOP.
thank you! I also have a recommendation: Lost in Translation, on Line Webtoon :)
The webtoon is about a kpop idol who is severely misunderstanding, and shows the behind the scenes
There’s a Kdrama adaptation of that WEBTOON that came out in 2021
This is the best video I've ever watched about the kpop industry!!
0:05 omg she looks like jisoo and rose omg you're so pretty 😭😭😭😭😭but more jisoo but still I'm jealous now 😅😭😭
i just remembered once a photo card (It's not exactly a photo card but a picture that comes inside the cd) of Twice appeared in one of the Bangtan bombs
LOL I laughed so much watching this. Alex is such a New Yorker ("word"). I live in Germany right now and whenever I do meet another American in public, the American slang comes out, too. "Yooooo." Hahahahaha
I'm from Texas but honey this isn't American slang. People all over the world use "yoooo". It's just street slang nothing special
@@nalaa9618 As an American living in Europe, I can assure you I hear less "Yooo"-ing out here than I do in the States from the locals here and while traveling. I'm not saying it's ONLY American but it is something I've heard mainly from Americans as a way of greeting or an expression of surprise/shock/amusement. Also, as an American missing home, it is something special when you hear it and gives a sense of camaraderie. :)
oww 3:23 he looks so sad when she interrupts him o.o
Alex is like so dope, I vibe with him a lot
The whole dating ban from the company/fans makes NO sense at all. That’s like your employer or boss getting mad at you for being in a relationship or caring about what you do with your paycheck. Idols are just entertainers and as long as they do their jobs satisfactorily there’s no reason why people should be heavily invested in their personal lives. 🥴
Kpop idols are dating👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It’s just that they and their companies prefer to keep their private lives well ‘private’
Not only this, but a lot of western artists do the same too. Not all of them likes to expose their love lives randomly. They’d be like ‘b***ch what’s yo business?💀😂😂’
Well, I do agree but as a person that is a westerner, it actually is quite common for celebrities over here to be open about their love lives and who they date/ have romantic relationships with. But I definitely see your point of view and I agree!
Aw this gets me so sad :( I hate to think that idols have to date secretly. Love should be able to be free. I would be so interested and happy if I could see my idols dating with someone. I would be happy and support.
Me too, if they date publicly, not secretly. I hate liers. Most if them liers, they should be open about their relationships.
Alex talks a little bit like Jessie from Breaking Bad :0
YO YEAH YO
btw great video
Wow I watched this during quarantine and you guys are so cool and chill now Im sad because I miss chilling with my friends too 🥺 anyway, content is great! I was smiling the whole time. Its good to know that our faves are possibly dating too and are not deprived of love 💜 thank you
okayyy three of my favorite people, i feel blessed
Loll yes it happenedd
Another great informative video 😊 This topic is a pretty big one that a lot of people are so interested in, and again, you always give us great Insider info on it 😊 only 7000 more to 100k! Lol you should do vids with them more often aha
MMMMM HMMM i plan to~~
@@soobeanie Giving the atmosphere more livelihood :)
you are so pretty in love with your channel
Aww thanks sweetieee
Tina's MC was great!!This video was really interesting💕Thanks:) And I am relieved alex look so fine.
A few companies do allow their idols to date. For instance, Pledis allows SVT (Seventeen) to date and to have days off. They are just encouraged to be discreet about it.
I also think that our bangtans are also dating,i mean look at them they are hot,talented, and many more and its natural to date even if they are idols,they are human they have feeling too. So I would be happy for them becoz I love them so much,may be feeling a little sad but I know that I will be happy for them they have the rights to be happy and as long as they are happy ,i am happy too💜💜
I luv u sooo much u just made my day ur so pretty like why ❤️❤️😫😫😭😭
Awwwww glad you liked the videoo
This was such an interesting video!! Thank youu and having Eddy and Alex was really fun too, it was interesting to hear different perspectives! :)
This is kind of a private topic so I understand if you don't want to answer or talk about this in a future video. But something I have been wondering about is can/do idols 'relieve' themselves sexually? It's something that everyone does (and is healthy for you, to a limit), but I have never heard or seen anyone talk about it in Korean culture or media (aside from dirty jokes). Also, events where a bunch of 'attractive' people come together like the Olympics has shown to have a really high rate of sexual contact (between the athletes), this isn't that different from many of the competitions/variety shows that idols participate in. I've also read in the past that JYPE (as well as SM) make all their idols complete a sex-ed course while trainees (thank goodness). I guess my question boils down to; do idols masturbate/have intercourse, is this allowed or frowned upon by their managing staff or company, how do they manage to keep it out of the public knowledge so well.
This is not meant to be a creepy question/topic of discussion but I do realize it is just inherently that way. I guess it just came to mind since this video is on dating, and the whole 'Burning Molka' scandal that has been happening over the past few months.
EDIT: From a few replies I can tell I worded my question really poorly, ofc they masturbate, they are human, much like the rest of us... It was more leaning towards does your company allow it (and intercourse amongst idols)? I don't think it would be that out of character for companies to not allow their idols to do such things, seeing as they have no problem removing some other fairly basic things like phones and snacks. Also, when you live in an apartment with 8-9 other members (for example TWICE or Cherry Bullet, or living with the manager) it could be really rare that you ever get "alone time". Question wanted to also lean towards, how do you deal with that as an idol?
I'd really be interested in a video like this!
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AHH the "we will ruin your live non disclosure agreement."
pretty sure they do masturbate i mean it’s a normal and private thing i doubt they ask them about this
There’s an interview from MBLAQ G.O. mentioning that he asks his friends or people around him to buy condoms. Pretty sure that means that some idols are sexually active during their career. And some idols are open about watching porn and that usually leads to masturbation. I don’t think a company would be that strict to restrict that.
Yoowwww christine, thankyou for bring alex with you again. I miss him and both of your interaction ❤❤❤😍
this is my first video of them I watched, they were idols? which groups were they in? and is it different for more high profile idols? I feel like it’s more difficult to date if they’re very well-known/famous
More videos with these two please, they’re hella chill and funny!
AHAHHAA the favs
Other fans called us delulu when we "ship" where in fact they're the delulu fans. They can't accept the fact that their idols have secret lovers🤣.
I mean, it IS delulu to think people are dating just because they once smiled at each other, or even just acknowledged each others existence. It's not that they can't accept the fact that idols may be dating or anything but that most shippers and shipping rumors just don't make sense at all, lol (then there are the ones who call other shippers delulu because they have a ship themselves, but that's another story)
Thanks for all interesting info!! Looking forward to seeing Eddy and Alex in other videos!
does anyone else think that Eddy is kinda cute 👀
yazz finallyyy alex christine and eddyy!! this is gonna be my favouritee videoooo
In my mind during this video .... "no no we are not dating someone, we don't have time, we want to focusing in our careers..... "
😅🤣🤣🤣