@@kimuknwamda1 That’s true. There are people that don’t listen to good advice, but will listen to stupid stuff all day. It’s because it’s what they really want to hear.
I’m sick and tired of people saying individuals need therapy. Tbh if your not ready to change why waste your time, the therapists time, and your money. At a certain age your set in your ways. It’s a wrap trying to fix someone
Imagine letting 2 Men get you pregnant and forgetting who they are. The price of Vagina is at an all time low, thanks to silly women like this. She even thinks she can do what Men can do. Meanwhile, She's getting stuck with Babies and not being in a fulfilling relationship.
Thank you, Kendra, for getting serious and telling her the truth about her actions. We women are trying to behave as men, but we have different goals than men. Being in the streets is not empowering, especially if we are not getting what we want out of it, a relationship. I hope this trend ends soon. Smh
Sista you told no lies I hope women get it that we ain’t shaming y’all we are tryna put y’all on games when we tell y’all something opposite of what y’all think
It sounds nice but it will never end. Biologically only so many men are “fine” in women’s eyes. Height muscle confidence nice facial structure etc. I didn’t even mention income personality type addictions etc. Think about if how many fine men do you see in a year maybe 2-5 if you’re lucky? And most women want the fine men and most women are at least average. Their are more fine women than their are fine men. Women are born with beauty big booties an breasts since they are 12-14 men have to earn a nice body over years of effort. Just like how men can have kids till they 80 years old and women can only till they 47. Women have a short clock to reproduce and they overly fixated on looks and those men are in short supply thus like how this woman you end up with multiple kids by multiple men. Women overlook character and commitment when a fine man enters the room cause she knows there’s only a few fine men she will encounter so they go all out for them. But men don’t marry women left and right why? Cause they know there are plenty of nice looking women around and men don’t need a fine woman average will do just fine for most men.
@@andrebundy3773 If a woman has a job that's taking care of her basic needs (housing, food, etc), then she doesn't have to change her behavior. Her job is undergirding her.. And this gives her the ability to break relationships with every man she encounters.
@@cheyb2257 in general most cannot but some can have them past 47 yes. I agree but no one would tell a woman to wait till she’s 47 to start having kids.
She done told everyone that she’ll let you hit it before she asks for commitment. Ma’am, don’t give the answers to the test and then expect them to study 🤷🏽♂️
Lmao spot on analogy. Honestly all the single strong independent i don't need no man operate the same way. They don't need a man however that doesn't mean their celibate. She just made the mistake of saying this out loud but the same ones who are always talking about they don't need a man and are single ate absolutely still fkn. Hell most of the women i dealt with were career having, strong, independent, i don't need no man type
She didn’t have to say it. Most women who are single mothers with multiple baby daddies who never married her tell on themselves. Plus based on her description of her life most men who are worth a damn won’t take her serious. This is why women gotta protect their womb and marry before you carry and vet these men
@@jfelton3583 What’s weird about it is she definitely doesn’t act like she doesn’t need a man, but she puts a front that she doesn’t let them play her lol 😂. She is truly lost and doesn’t even comprehend that 🥴🤦🏾♂️
Kendra, your perspective on this one was A1. She has manipulated her mind to think she's beating the game while the game is literally f*cking her then leaving her. Imagine how ran thru she is. Yikes.
This is sad. She doesn't date much, but she will have sex and children with men who are not committed to her...and she doesn't seem to see the reality of her situation.
I wish women would take their womb more serious. She says she doesn't play games but gave two men she "can't remember" if she was in a relationship with a baby.
I'm glad you said that as a woman. Women for whatever reason think they can play a man's game when ur comes to body's and they can't. Kendra made a few good points. 1 is basically the man u want may not be the man u need. Especially if ur seeking a relationship, companionship.
She just likes sex and this is a BIG issue in our community. Ladies are so sexually charged, men are so sexually charged and just out her making kids and broken families.
Why we acting like having a child(ren) isn’t the biggest commitment relationship wise? This is not a flex to say you don’t date but pop out babies for dudes
Not at all. Honestly, your best bet is to lie to him and avoid telling him about your kids until he's really committed. How? Only you and God would know how to do that. Otherwise, just stay with the men you had babies with.
@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI The man will eventually find out, like you said she needs to work it out with her babyfather or she needs to do some reflecting and change her mindset. I don’t think single babymothers/fathers should never date again but they definitely need to date when they are in a better position mentally. Nobody is responsible for your children but the parents and you would think after 1 kid they would avoid the same mistakes
women dont give men kids (pop out for dudes). They have babies for their own personal reasons. Companionship, financial gain, running out of time etc.... The phrase "giving a man a child' has been outdated!
@@mercylinemoindi4815 Common sense isn’t common I see. A woman that can’t identify more then one red flag in itself is a major issue not to mention other stuff. Y’all women love to come to each other’s rescue but if she was a man you would be singing a different tune.
Did she say giving herself too early is her only flaw? That sounds good on paper but of course she has more flaws, she just figures she’s said too much already and don’t wanna tell any more than she has already put in the atmosphere
This is taking social media to seriously. You will run into this if you have this energy. But for me n my bros these are the "she fine as hell" we fuckem n dumpem. Yall niggas wonderem
I wish she was an outlier. I afraid she falls into the 80% of black children being born out of wedlock. In my opinion black are well past the point of returning to traditional values. Without a large number of healthy 2 parent homes, there is no way we can advance as a people. We are judged as a group, based of the behaviors of the worst! Sad! Only God can save us ! 🙏🏽
This was so sad to watch. 😥A gorgeous woman of almost 40 years, 2 kids with 2 men, can’t remember her relationships with either of the men she had kids with, never has been in a committed relationship, opening her legs for every Tom, Dick and Harry. I truly wish her peace & healing and hope she’s able to change her ways to get what she desires.🙏🏾
Bra I think it some kind of mental illness Fam I think it really is. I dnt see the logic plus I’m the type that dnt even play them zodiac sign games so I can’t give her a pass on being weird she gotta own up to it this reality we live in not fairytale land 😂
I’m not a literary scholar, but this doesn’t read like ANYTHING I’ve read that is attributed to Mark Twain. I did a quick search and a few others agree with me, but the sentiment is understood and agreed with.
@@Roccofan if you do a basic web search you’ll see all of the pictures with him dropping the exact same quote. I cannot confirm if it’s from him or not but it’s still a good quote for this video. Just soak it in and keep it moving.
this is the verbal equivalent of trying to “polish a turd 💩 “ The situation isn’t good and she’s trying to make it sound better… this is laugh to keep from crying…
Blame social media... it allows people to get on there and become whoever they would like to be seen as through a myriad of perfectly cultivated pictures, videos, and situations. Then they go back to their real lives where they are sleeping on an air mattress, riding public transportation, living on government assistance, and eating ramen noodles for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. All the world's a stage...
Beautiful Virgo sister, please hear Kendra out. She told you not one lie. Watch this on repeat 🔁 because you couldn’t hear past your defenses when it happened live and then review this film with a psychotherapist. Best wishes ❤
It's funny when Kendra asks "what are three flaws you have to work on?" when most of us can see their flaws during the video, but the person doesn't realize their flaws.
I think a lot of Black ppl need help with dating and marriage. This includes both Black women and Black men. At Louis Farrakhan mosque, they have "How to be a Wife" and "How to be a Husband" courses. They make their members go thru these mandatory courses. I think ALL BW and BM should go thru these courses too. This will help w how to properly for a woman for men and their roles they should play. For men's they also learn how to provide & be a dad. For women, they learn the wife duties ,how to be a good mother & not to give ur body up to any man who didn't court them exclusively. This is what I recommend.
She did it in a way that wasn't disrespectful! I prefer her method than KS. I think women are more open to hear the facts in the way Kendra explained it w/on being condensing or disrespectful/mean. I wish this woman the best. And she isn't the only one like this, they're are a lot of Black men & Black women who never been in a relationship, don't know how to court or be courted etc
She is in her late 30's, she has never been in a relationship, she popped out 2 KIDS (still no relationship), and she is currently casually sleeping around . . . . But now ready to be a WIFE??!! 🤔🤔🤔 DELUSIONAL!!!!😂😂😂
@@newtrollaccount384when’s the last time you heard a man say “I want to be married” or “I need a woman” I literally need a woman for one thing and that’s it 😂.
38 year old mother of TWO that’s never been in a committed relationship is crazy. We’re looking at an eternal side chick that all of a sudden wants to be “pursued”… FOH
@@Lmao10752 at what point does a desire become a delusion? That's the biggest problem with y'all. Y'all delude yourselves and attack anyone who tries to snap you out of it and bring you back to reality. Maybe if you get your head out of the clouds and you might find it's actually been up your ass the whole time.
@@Lmao10752 Who's offended lol... I saw someone state facts. This lady has been a side chick for 20 years and at the very late age of 38 wants to be taken seriously. Shorty said she pays her bills on time as an attribute lol. Come on now. She need to head to Pet Smart, buy a dog, die alone... It's not looking great. Maybe Kendra can help though so we'll see...
Our choices come with consequences that we have to accept good/bad. And here's how most us men see it.Because she has two kids by two different men and had never been in a relationship means she be letting dudes smash wit no commitment which means she lose wit her body and a poor decision maker and the visual evidence of this is her 2 kids by 2 different dudes so because of all that she can't turn around and require things of the new man that she didn't for 2 dudes she had children for. It's like y'all tryna punk us when y'all do that shit and a lot of us ain't going and going for it whether she claim she can't change the past
Who cares idk why people expose they business it’s a lot of females out here that’s in relationships creeping around putting babies on me that ain’t they kids so this relationship mess don’t be holding no weight lol
Kendra told her something that maybe no one else took the time to say to her. I hope she can receive it. It's what she needed to hear. It's the truth Sis. Please listen. Thank you Kendra. 💕
She is a very beautiful woman. She’s 38, but looks 28 and has never in her life lacked for male attention. I’m thinking her father was not in her life , and now at 38, if we were to peal back the layers, all we’d see is pain and longing. Kendra took the easy way out by saying looks and money. Love Dorsey would have gotten to the tear soaked heart of this quickly.
@@Roccofanwhat are some of your favorite dating books you have read? You a love Dorsey fan I know you know some good ones. I’m just looking at y’all while y’all looking at me. Breathe b*tch let that marinate. I love love Dorsey !!💯💯
@@ceeb107 No dating books for me. I’m on the side lines observing. I’ve been married for 25 yers. I’ve only dated about 5 girls/women in my life. Love has her lane and while her “clientele” inhabit different circles, her advice is always the right way to go.
I've known and back in the day dealt with girls like her she's the super cool chick never took life too seriously that never gave you any grief that would always down to get smashed.... But now she's finally realizing 40 is upon her
FACTSSSSSSS!!!!! Trust me 😂😂 had a few, they're cool, fun, available but that same no stress vibe about them is the red flag why you don't wife because you know how easy going, social and care free they are and so easy to smash..lol
So let me get this straight she let men bust her down back in the day now she wants a man to get on one knee and marry her & accept two mouths to feed foh
@@l.t.3857literally story of my life. Men think I don't care about them because I don't nag them or go through their phones smh that let's me know they used to drama and that's the only way they feel loved lol men really feel some type of way when u not jealous about them. They think u don't care. I had a guy purposely post a picture on Instagram with his shirt off and had all the girls liking and commenting and he admitted he did that to see my reaction lol I was like o no I don't need those problems. Imagine what u would do when I really don't care lol sis trust being single is a badge of honor
The fact that she thinks her being committed to a relationship is the highest honor and not her allowing men in her womb and risking her life birthing their children isn’t WHAAAAAT tells me she’s listening to the wrong people. She got it backwards . It’s sad to think how many other women there are out there who think like her getting used up. She probably doesn’t have close friends or parents didn’t teach her anything. It’s sad to know that she has been taken advantage of most of her life she’s gorgeous and looks young for her age. And on top of that immature. She barely understood what Kendra was trying to tell her. It went in one ear and out the other . I can already tell the predators are going to FLOOD her dms because she is attractive and said she isn’t asking for a man to pay her bills and etc so they are going to get what they want for free and be out the door on their merry way. I wish her luck. Can’t save everybody.
Very beautiful woman but older women need to educate young women on reserving your body for your husband.Kendra definitely starting to understand what’s going on out here.
Reserving their bodies for their husbands? Boy bye!!! You can have responsible sex and not have a high body count or kids. That woman wanted her kids. Most baby mommas WANT to be baby mommas.
She is a broken little girl and her looks have been her down fall. She is beautiful but she needs to heal. Baby girl you are 38 with no real plan and still given kitty to dudes that don't value you. You have to learn to value yourself before someone else can. Men keep telling women the same thing, we don't want to marry y'all if you have too man bodies. So if your desire is to get married, you should stop or be intentionally with who you sleep with. She seems to be a social butterfly, but needs to learn a simple fact. Just because you can sleep with whoever doesn't mean you need too. Everyone that shows you attention is not good for you.
Men need to worry about their own bodies. Where are women getting all these bodies? If men exercised some self control, valued women and had some good intentions this wouldn't be an issue.
@@newtrollaccount384 I completely agree with you but we can't ignore her ignorance at 38 and many others, men and women alike. That's truly unacceptable.
I’m sure Kendra G has always been smart and wise, but man doing this show has really increased her wisdom soooooo much. She is so spot on with the advice. This is what happens when you talk to different people(male and female) and just gain a wealth of knowledge! This young lady way of dating is not working for her for 38 years, she may want to try a different approach❤
Kendra isn't spitting any new wisdom. If people followed God's wisdom they would avoid a lot of heartache and pain and diseases. No sex before marriage, no kids before marriage. Respect yourself and your body. Just basic moral principles makes life a lot easier.
@ameej2u it's not my belief it's the truth. What part do you disagree with as I'm curious. You don't have to be a Christian to live a moral life, but it's OK not to either...you just have to deal with the consequences.
@@ariamason9324 I have been watching Kendra Singles live since she started and I have seen the evolution in her assessment and her wisdom on certain topics. Never said she was spitting any " new wisdom". I simply was making an observation of her assessment skills. I also disagree that following this moral rulebook makes life easier, it sounds good but in reality, it does not. I'm a Christian and a good person overall, but I know that doesn't make me or anyone immune from problems.
I told a guy I was seeing that I was not having sex with anyone without a serious commitment and I am not sleeping with my friends. He said I am not like any other woman he has met. We have been together and married 10 years in January. A man will only commit if you make it a requirement.
Man, this lady is playing the game in reverse. She sleeps with men and then waits to see if they'll come back to chase her 😂😂. Chase what? 😵💫 Kevin Samuel's is in heaven right now tapping his 'slap' soundboard sound furiously. She gave 2 different men the highest honour a woman could give to a man, yet she didn't demand a relationship from each, nor did she demand these men marry her. Yet she wants the new man to come in and pursue her and do everything that previous men didn't have to work for. This woman is delusional. Just admit you like sex and move on.
She keeps saying the ball is in her court after giving up the goods. Ma'am, you're not even playing the game. What ball?? She got a softball on a basketball court. This is very embarrassing
The inability to self reflect is a serious flaw amongst our women. Our women seriously don’t think they have flaws and it’s so problematic. Our relationships, families, and communities cannot sustain when one party believes they are flawless and unable to be humble.
Neither does men. Love the finger pointing at just the women. When men lay with these women because they can’t bear children and choose not to participate in raising the child.
It’s not just women though. Many people, male and female have a hard time with self awareness. It hard for many to look in the mirror and admit their flaws. Many times we are the problem and admitting it Is getting closer to being better.
When men say "accountability is kryptonite" to western women, THIS is what we mean... This woman has had kids with men whom she don't even remember being with, sleeps with more men without them committing, then has the NERVE to say she wants a relationship and doesn't play games...smdh... And then when called on her hypocrisy, she tries to rationalize that nonsensical position... WOW...
I mean people are allowed to change right? After realizing the error of her ways she's decided to change the direction of her life and adjust things moving forward, is that so bad?
@@ASerrant2 Of course people are allowed to change, grow, adjust, evolve, etc....whatever other synonym you can come up with. I agree with you... But put on your critical thinking cap. You heard her....does that sound like what she is actually doing? Based on the man she is 'dating' now, it sounds like she is doing the exact same thing she has been doing all this time. Did her current situation sound different to you?...
@@ASerrant2if you fail most of your courses and drop your GPA to dismal levels, then start to bust your ass to bring it back to passing, you still can't demand high honors, class president, and magna cum laude. And that's exactly what these when are trying to do by fking up in dating, having casual sex and out of wedlock children with jokers and then claiming they got their ish together and demanding the highest achieving men who didn't play around and who all these other women also want. Get realistic.
That's false bravado on display. People like this pride themselves on leaving first but they're really afraid of getting left or being taken advantage of by someone they really open up to. I knew a girl like this that would talk about how relationships are overrated and how she'd rather just "rotate" guys. But guess what? Months later she was talking about how she really wishes she could find that one special guy to commit to her instead of guys that just act like it until they sleep with her.
@@newtrollaccount384 all it really shows is that in a culture where sex is handed out like grape juice at church on a Sunday morning, men that women want to sleep with will always benefit the most
She started off so good then BOOM massive red flag. You have two children but never been in a relationship at 38? Basically you are difficult to deal with and it’s not always the man. trust she met a man she wanted but he didn’t want her
Men don’t be ish . Sleeping with men behind the scenes while they married and etc …. If you ask me this whole world is damaged frfr idk why people sitting around point fingers judging 😂
To say you don’t remember not only one, but two different men you were pregnant by for 9 months says so much more than she realizes. Another commenter hit it on the nail pointing out that she’s got some deep-rooted issues that she’s buried behind that bubbly personality. The fact that her looks work to her favor to attract short-term sexual attention from men (which has a double effect of satisfying her sexual desires/urges) works against her as she’s giving the milk away for free time and time again. A lot of what she said suggests her body count could be very high because there’s no way a woman who looks like that should be able to say she’s never been in a relationship. I pray she finds the direction and discipline needed to get a better outcome for her hopes of marriage.
4:19 She has two kids by two different dudes and said that she has never been in a relationship 🤔 And then she said that she doesn't really remember the dudes that she had her kids with 🤯
She tried to clean it up because it sounded embarrassing. After all SHE START out saying, "this is embarrassing ." Then she says "let me think ." Listen, no matter the age of the relationship, one doesn't have to think if he/she was in a committed relationship or not. Whew chile, pleeease!!
The tree in my backyard said the lady said she had only one red flag but this entire video red flags been flying all over the place like a Chinese perade.
My mouth DROPPED WIDE OPEN WHEN SHE SAID SHE DIDNT EVEN REMEMBER THE FATHERS OF HER CHILDREN . JUST WOW Random sleeping around and bragging about never being in a relationship. I PROMISE YOU THAT I CAN MAKE THIS UP 😫
Laughing My Ass Off. Kendra, you gave great sound advice. The caller fully understands what you are saying... Here's what Kendra should learn during this conversation. Your advice should be for the unsuspecting man that encounters her. I completely doubt she would be faithful. She is who she is and she knows it. As Project Pat said back in the day, and what J.Cole reiterated more recently... Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved
Why not be in a committed relationship before having two kids 🤔 she definitely working backwards. The dads didn't have to be serious and was just smashing but the next guy she looking for will require marriage and now she have standards 🙃
She should definitely have kept that shit to herself. Women these days seem to always require more from their future partners than from their previous baby daddies.
Most black men don’t do commitment. Most black men don’t marry and when they do it’s by their 40s and up. She could have been child free had she been dating out. Most non-black men don’t play games about condoms and having children out of wedlock. Black men however don’t care about having kids out of wedlock. They are the main demographic who doesn’t like using condoms😂😂.
It don’t always work that way . I see females get left with kids all the time I mean the dude will literally haul ass on them some are even killing they own girl friends and wives nobody is safe frfr
Re: I give myself too early That’s only a problem if you ain’t got nothing to make them stay. Quality women do, LV broads don’t “I have my bills paid” These LV females are so used to dealing with other LV individuals that just being a basic functioning adult is an achievement for them. The bar is in hell
Pursue a 38 year old with 2 kids... can't deal with an ex... but she has 2 baby daddies. 🤦🏿♂️🤣🤣🤣 Has kids by men she can't remember a relationship with... and sleeps around with men without requiring a relationship... Only a fool would go for this foolishness. She is not a prize.
@@newtrollaccount384 most men are the prize... which is why y'all want em after y'all waste ypur lige and body on men with zero potential. Its also the reason BM have higher marriage rates than BW. Women of all races in multiple countries love BM... but NOBODY is lining up for baby mamas... and the 25% marriage rate is proof. No matter what you say... BM are more desired than BW based on marriage rates alone.
But weren't yall on here saying that yall want 18 to 20 years so you can teach them to being the woman you want? So why is having the mind of a 18 year old such a bad thing? Shes easy to teach according to yall.
@AmberJailee if you're seriously comparing an actual 18 year old to a 38 year old who acts 18 and don't know the difference as to why a man would prefer one over the other, there's nothing I can say to make it make sense to you. I hope you're trolling though because I really hope you're not that simple minded.
@@Go-Getterfacts bro. A 38 year old childless mature woman with her looks could get married. She has a bubbly 18 year old personality but with the baggage of a 45 year old woman which is a bad combination. Most men would take a childless 18-25 year old over her especially if they are childless even off the sheer time factor you assume the younger woman has less sexual experience and she’s more coachable. Truth is this older woman can get married it’s just he will likely be at least 10-25 years older than her and have grown kids himself. And probably not in great shape but she could get a 55 year old man in good shape. But then again how many 55 year old men are in good shape not a whole lot.
@@ceeb107 well that’s not accurate entirely bc I’m a RN in mother baby and women her age are getting pregnant and presenting a ring on their finger from men her age all day so somebody lying…and I travel to work & rotate through 3 cities. 38 yo men are with 38 yo women, y’all gotta go outside.
She’s definitely going to find someone very similar to her on her level just off of looks, but you don’t remember your relationships that led you to your pregnancies? She’s the problem. Tolerating games, but says she doesn’t tolerate games. Too old to operating with that logic.
She needs therapy. Would she just please stop having sex. 🤦🏽♀️ she seems like she says one thing but her actions say the opposite. I really hope she gets therapy and stop looking for a man.
Bro this is the majority of females who praise being single. All the strong independent i don't need no man females operate the same way. They aren't celibate. Don't let them lie to you most are in situationships JUST LIKE HER
Yuck! It's clear she has been hurt...by men who think just like this. men who feel powerful because they can get over on vulnerable women=predators. Hide your young daughters ladies, these pervs are just looking for a wet hole!
Kendra, you are so right, I'm 51 and have no children. We as women can't think we can play the same game men play. Cause we get stuck with the babies and we can't continue having babies with people we are not married to. It's showing that you are having sex with guys without protection, we have got to stop this.
Why TF would a “fine” 85k plus earning man want to “pursue” a middle aged two time baby mama who was unwanted by all her baby daddies? Delusional thy name modern woman SMH
Put her in roatation, fellas! Nothing more, nothing less. Thursdays and/or Saturdays, 8pm to 1am is a good fit for her. Maybe TGI Fridays once in a while.
I swear the excuse of “I was really young” never gets old does it 🤷🏾♂️ I do love how Kendra exposes peoples rationale and gets serious when it’s needed. Good work Kendra 🙏🏾
If her son is 10...then she was like 27 or 28...that's not super young. I had my own apt, a master degree & was into my career by that age. I knew how to manage my personal life & work life etc by that age. Long story short, 27 & up isn't young to me. She's very beautiful, I just hope she learn how a man should court her before having intimacy. It's a lot of Black men and Black women just like her.
I’m recently divorced and I’m ready to move for love ❤️. I told her and I quote: “Well keep it moving. Cause you ain’t about to move in with me.” Second one told me I’m a teacher and I have no children. She showed up on the date and her gas tank was leaning on the E. While we were eating at a fancy restaurant after a round of miniature golf ⛳️. Her kid called and started swearing 🤬. She said and I quote: “You don’t talk to your mother like that.” and my jaw dropped. I said: “ I thought you told me you have no children.” She told me: “If I told you I had children I know you wouldn’t have shown up.” She took most of the food. I ended up paying for Gas, and she stole from me. It’s hard in these streets for single dudes.
This chick is delusional...there's no reason for a man she particularly wants, will pursue her. She will have to share the type of man she wants. He's the prize and has way too many options especially in Cali.😂😂😂
"I hear you, Kendra. I hear you"
- girl who ain't hear shit
There are a lot of people in her life not being honest with her. Kendra was 💯 on.
Because women don't hold each other accountable. It's always a, "yassss" when they do hoe shyt thats detrimental in some form. 🤣
Or she just don’t listen I have a friend like this and she has 4 kids 😢
@@kimuknwamda1 That’s true. There are people that don’t listen to good advice, but will listen to stupid stuff all day. It’s because it’s what they really want to hear.
She's 38 years old, has two kids by two different men and don't remember their names?? Fam 🤦🏾♂️
You don't need a boyfriend you need a therapist.
And she says she was "young" when she had her 10 years old when she was damn near 30
I’m sick and tired of people saying individuals need therapy. Tbh if your not ready to change why waste your time, the therapists time, and your money. At a certain age your set in your ways. It’s a wrap trying to fix someone
@@PrettyPreciousGin modern times, young and dumb can be used until you're 65 years old...
She's a Dog Mom too. Good Lord!
Imagine letting 2 Men get you pregnant and forgetting who they are. The price of Vagina is at an all time low, thanks to silly women like this. She even thinks she can do what Men can do. Meanwhile, She's getting stuck with Babies and not being in a fulfilling relationship.
Thank you, Kendra, for getting serious and telling her the truth about her actions. We women are trying to behave as men, but we have different goals than men. Being in the streets is not empowering, especially if we are not getting what we want out of it, a relationship. I hope this trend ends soon. Smh
Sista you told no lies I hope women get it that we ain’t shaming y’all we are tryna put y’all on games when we tell y’all something opposite of what y’all think
It sounds nice but it will never end. Biologically only so many men are “fine” in women’s eyes. Height muscle confidence nice facial structure etc. I didn’t even mention income personality type addictions etc. Think about if how many fine men do you see in a year maybe 2-5 if you’re lucky? And most women want the fine men and most women are at least average. Their are more fine women than their are fine men. Women are born with beauty big booties an breasts since they are 12-14 men have to earn a nice body over years of effort. Just like how men can have kids till they 80 years old and women can only till they 47. Women have a short clock to reproduce and they overly fixated on looks and those men are in short supply thus like how this woman you end up with multiple kids by multiple men. Women overlook character and commitment when a fine man enters the room cause she knows there’s only a few fine men she will encounter so they go all out for them. But men don’t marry women left and right why? Cause they know there are plenty of nice looking women around and men don’t need a fine woman average will do just fine for most men.
@@andrebundy3773 If a woman has a job that's taking care of her basic needs (housing, food, etc), then she doesn't have to change her behavior. Her job is undergirding her.. And this gives her the ability to break relationships with every man she encounters.
@@ceeb107women are having children past 47 what the hell are you talking about?
@@cheyb2257 in general most cannot but some can have them past 47 yes. I agree but no one would tell a woman to wait till she’s 47 to start having kids.
She done told everyone that she’ll let you hit it before she asks for commitment. Ma’am, don’t give the answers to the test and then expect them to study 🤷🏽♂️
Lmao spot on analogy. Honestly all the single strong independent i don't need no man operate the same way. They don't need a man however that doesn't mean their celibate. She just made the mistake of saying this out loud but the same ones who are always talking about they don't need a man and are single ate absolutely still fkn. Hell most of the women i dealt with were career having, strong, independent, i don't need no man type
Yasssssss!!!!
She didn’t have to say it. Most women who are single mothers with multiple baby daddies who never married her tell on themselves. Plus based on her description of her life most men who are worth a damn won’t take her serious. This is why women gotta protect their womb and marry before you carry and vet these men
What a silly bird 🐦
@@jfelton3583 What’s weird about it is she definitely doesn’t act like she doesn’t need a man, but she puts a front that she doesn’t let them play her lol 😂. She is truly lost and doesn’t even comprehend that 🥴🤦🏾♂️
Kendra, your perspective on this one was A1. She has manipulated her mind to think she's beating the game while the game is literally f*cking her then leaving her. Imagine how ran thru she is. Yikes.
Whew 😰 hope she changes the trajectory for herself
and she resented the advice too 😂 to not remember who you've had kids with smh
This is sad. She doesn't date much, but she will have sex and children with men who are not committed to her...and she doesn't seem to see the reality of her situation.
It’s giving “free samples” if you come back you buying 😂😂😂😂
💯 My G
I wish women would take their womb more serious.
She says she doesn't play games but gave two men she "can't remember" if she was in a relationship with a baby.
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Smh fax
Sad we gotta pray for our girls
The way she looked around in confusion was just so weird 😂
The way she is just racking up her body count and acting like SHE HAS THE BALL is hilarious lmao
Lmao
It’s actually kinda sad. I hope she watches this back and gains some new level of insight.
thank you ladies
I don't even think she has a high count. I think she just asked herself to be a "toy" for the guy she's infatuated with to have their way with her
I'm glad you said that as a woman. Women for whatever reason think they can play a man's game when ur comes to body's and they can't. Kendra made a few good points. 1 is basically the man u want may not be the man u need. Especially if ur seeking a relationship, companionship.
I HATE to see our black women look this bad out here. This is a sad case right here. 🤦🏿♂️
She just likes sex and this is a BIG issue in our community.
Ladies are so sexually charged, men are so sexually charged and just out her making kids and broken families.
Therapy is a great place to start
I wonder if her father was in her life
@@kingtchala6832yup
Most them don’t value fathers that’s why they will let any man lay with them
Why we acting like having a child(ren) isn’t the biggest commitment relationship wise? This is not a flex to say you don’t date but pop out babies for dudes
Not at all. Honestly, your best bet is to lie to him and avoid telling him about your kids until he's really committed. How? Only you and God would know how to do that. Otherwise, just stay with the men you had babies with.
@@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI The man will eventually find out, like you said she needs to work it out with her babyfather or she needs to do some reflecting and change her mindset. I don’t think single babymothers/fathers should never date again but they definitely need to date when they are in a better position mentally. Nobody is responsible for your children but the parents and you would think after 1 kid they would avoid the same mistakes
@@vegannn7178 You seem solid. I like you. S/O to you!!!
women dont give men kids (pop out for dudes). They have babies for their own personal reasons. Companionship, financial gain, running out of time etc.... The phrase "giving a man a child' has been outdated!
That yu don’t remember
So giving yourself too early is your ONLY flaw? The only one? Fellas, avoid women like this like the plague. 🚩🚩
You sound hurt. Do you know her😅
@@mercylinemoindi4815 I dont need to know her. None of us are perfect. Not you. Not me. Not her. Thats the point
@@mercylinemoindi4815 Common sense isn’t common I see. A woman that can’t identify more then one red flag in itself is a major issue not to mention other stuff. Y’all women love to come to each other’s rescue but if she was a man you would be singing a different tune.
@@04ccarroll and this is absolutely your opinion,tf
Did she say giving herself too early is her only flaw? That sounds good on paper but of course she has more flaws, she just figures she’s said too much already and don’t wanna tell any more than she has already put in the atmosphere
To be 38 yrs old and COMPLETELY clueless is devastating, we as a people are destroyed
She doesn’t represent black people. She represents herself.
BM are destroying the community....they are DEVASTATING!🤦🏾♀️
This sounds so goofy😂
This is taking social media to seriously. You will run into this if you have this energy. But for me n my bros these are the "she fine as hell" we fuckem n dumpem. Yall niggas wonderem
I wish she was an outlier. I afraid she falls into the 80% of black children being born out of wedlock. In my opinion black are well past the point of returning to traditional values. Without a large number of healthy 2 parent homes, there is no way we can advance as a people. We are judged as a group, based of the behaviors of the worst! Sad! Only God can save us ! 🙏🏽
This show is better than watching tv.
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Yup I’ve been hooked for two years. 💯😄
Lol
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We’ll have to keep this lady in prayer. This is what happens when a person has no self awareness.
Or self respect..
Right! I keep saying it's the best thing since sliced bread!
This is what you call immature no self awareness and CONFUSED as HELL… LORD PLEASE forgive! Repent for the kingdom of GOD Is @ HAND. REPENT
This is what you call immature no self awareness and CONFUSED as HELL… LORD PLEASE forgive! Repent for the kingdom of GOD Is @ HAND. REPENT
@@K42023Ew, I hope you don't have daughters
Usually, if a Kendra G interview is 20 minutes or more, then buckle up, it's going to be a wild ride.
🎢 it was
@@daphuckuwant😂😂😂
This was so sad to watch. 😥A gorgeous woman of almost 40 years, 2 kids with 2 men, can’t remember her relationships with either of the men she had kids with, never has been in a committed relationship, opening her legs for every Tom, Dick and Harry. I truly wish her peace & healing and hope she’s able to change her ways to get what she desires.🙏🏾
She a ho3 she got exactly she has, nothing
She's getting exactly what she asked for. My sympathies for her kids her trifling ass I couldn't care less.
Once she reads these comments, she’ll have time to reflect, especially when she get to view the video over again..💫
I don’t feel bad for this.
What she didn’t say she’s eighty -three. She’s clearly capping
"she said she's weird, I know I'm a virgo" 😭😭🥴🥴.. Yikes , blaming her behavior on a sign. I don't get it
Anything to avoid accountability
I hate when women do that. That's a huge red flag.
It’s weird!
Why do they even ask this question?
Bra I think it some kind of mental illness Fam I think it really is. I dnt see the logic plus I’m the type that dnt even play them zodiac sign games so I can’t give her a pass on being weird she gotta own up to it this reality we live in not fairytale land 😂
Kendra: “So, you don’t play games, but you’ll have sex with a person who plays games.”
Amberly: “And then I’ll leave them. Yeah.”
Me: 💀
🤡🤡🤡🤡 world. With a teenager mentality.
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.
Mark Twain
Nice quote!
I’m not a literary scholar, but this doesn’t read like ANYTHING I’ve read that is attributed to Mark Twain. I did a quick search and a few others agree with me, but the sentiment is understood and agreed with.
She been 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♂️
@@Roccofan if you do a basic web search you’ll see all of the pictures with him dropping the exact same quote. I cannot confirm if it’s from him or not but it’s still a good quote for this video. Just soak it in and keep it moving.
@@etuitivemillionaireI don't like your responses all the time 😂 but you always leave some food for thought on every video
Kendra was going to give her the game regardless if she wanted to hear it or not 😂😂
She's a fun girl, that's it !!
Exactly! She having sex with no commitment from the guy. She just be smashing
That body count is in quadruple digits at a minimum.
Facts!!! 💯
She open her legs and popped out two whole kids from two different baby daddies and want to have standards now. Booty call!
The vast majority of them are.
She’s trying to say all the right things to come across as a “good girl” instead of just being authentically her.
this is the verbal equivalent of trying to “polish a turd 💩 “ The situation isn’t good and she’s trying to make it sound better… this is laugh to keep from crying…
She doesn’t need to say anything. The fact she is 38 with two kids explains it all.
Its Baby mama babble!!
@@moblack5883she's good to keep around for a short time
She got caught in too many lies. Who she is and who she wants to be are two completely different things.
Very common these days
Delusional
Blame social media... it allows people to get on there and become whoever they would like to be seen as through a myriad of perfectly cultivated pictures, videos, and situations. Then they go back to their real lives where they are sleeping on an air mattress, riding public transportation, living on government assistance, and eating ramen noodles for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. All the world's a stage...
Whew Chile 🧐
Having one kid and never being in a committed relationship is one thing. But why did it happen a second time?
That’s what I’m saying ? How many times you gotta be burned before you wake up
Beautiful Virgo sister, please hear Kendra out. She told you not one lie. Watch this on repeat 🔁 because you couldn’t hear past your defenses when it happened live and then review this film with a psychotherapist. Best wishes ❤
This woman is the red flag of all red flags.
It’s unfortunate, that she doesn’t value herself because she’s beautiful and seems like a genuinely sweet person. Best luck to her though.
She's lost
Couldnt find a man to commit but you can commit to being a single mom, TWICE😢
You got a brutal point 🫣😬
Yup backwards mentality for some women lol
😅 Tragic but true
I’m glad it was a woman that made this comment. Thank you Ma’am
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If you’re single and watch this show, I’m here to announce that all the decent people are already taken. This is what’s left. 😂
They don't have anything to offer lol.
It's funny when Kendra asks "what are three flaws you have to work on?" when most of us can see their flaws during the video, but the person doesn't realize their flaws.
IKR?!! Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is enlightenment.
Everyone has flaws including you shut up
Self reflective isnt most peoples traits
@@PorscheAbrahamoh that’s a dope quote 🤔 gotta remember this
That’s called “Lack of Self Awareness”
Standards, boundaries, and expectations are necessary prior to intimacy!
@MoPerspective. Relevent word is “prior”
@@alm1992 all of them!🤣🤣🤣
I honestly don’t think she’s even
Been on a date with the guy she’s sleeping with. Really hope she grows self-worth. She’s beautiful
I think a lot of Black ppl need help with dating and marriage. This includes both Black women and Black men. At Louis Farrakhan mosque, they have "How to be a Wife" and "How to be a Husband" courses. They make their members go thru these mandatory courses. I think ALL BW and BM should go thru these courses too. This will help w how to properly for a woman for men and their roles they should play. For men's they also learn how to provide & be a dad. For women, they learn the wife duties ,how to be a good mother & not to give ur body up to any man who didn't court them exclusively. This is what I recommend.
Kendra you did a great job breaking it down for her
Yes, she did.
She did it in a way that wasn't disrespectful! I prefer her method than KS. I think women are more open to hear the facts in the way Kendra explained it w/on being condensing or disrespectful/mean. I wish this woman the best. And she isn't the only one like this, they're are a lot of Black men & Black women who never been in a relationship, don't know how to court or be courted etc
The Gag is, she still thinks that she's in control, when in reality, she's on a dating show looking for a man 🤷🏾♂️
She wasn't listening. She stuck in her ways and wiol likely end up with another baby before she turn 40. Kendra was giving good game. Great segment.
This is what low self esteem and lack of paternal support looks like
Never been in a committed relationship, but created life with 2 different individuals
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Same as a lot of men on this channel.
@@newtrollaccount384 but genders are delusional
@@newtrollaccount384 Those aren't men their adult males. There's a difference.
She doesn't remember her relationships with her TWO baby daddies?
Stephen Spielberg and M. Night Shyamalan couldn't make this up.
I was thinking the same thing.
She can't remember what didn't exist!
@@PrettyPreciousG ✅
@@PrettyPreciousG🔥 🔥
They weren't significant.
She is in her late 30's, she has never been in a relationship, she popped out 2 KIDS (still no relationship), and she is currently casually sleeping around . . . . But now ready to be a WIFE??!! 🤔🤔🤔 DELUSIONAL!!!!😂😂😂
Quit acting like men are doing women some sort of favor.
@@newtrollaccount384 “Then die Alone” KS 🤣😂
@@newtrollaccount384when’s the last time you heard a man say “I want to be married” or “I need a woman” I literally need a woman for one thing and that’s it 😂.
@@newtrollaccount384no
Kendra is wasting her energy and breath 😂😂😂😂
She said she dont play games... then says if he comes back after sex the ball is in my court 💀. Straight clown. ZERO self awareness!
Lol
38 year old mother of TWO that’s never been in a committed relationship is crazy. We’re looking at an eternal side chick that all of a sudden wants to be “pursued”… FOH
Why are yall so offended by someone else’s desires???
@@Lmao10752 at what point does a desire become a delusion? That's the biggest problem with y'all. Y'all delude yourselves and attack anyone who tries to snap you out of it and bring you back to reality. Maybe if you get your head out of the clouds and you might find it's actually been up your ass the whole time.
@@Lmao10752 Who's offended lol... I saw someone state facts. This lady has been a side chick for 20 years and at the very late age of 38 wants to be taken seriously. Shorty said she pays her bills on time as an attribute lol. Come on now. She need to head to Pet Smart, buy a dog, die alone... It's not looking great. Maybe Kendra can help though so we'll see...
That should be a good thing that she has opened up. How long did you want her to remain a side chick?
Our choices come with consequences that we have to accept good/bad. And here's how most us men see it.Because she has two kids by two different men and had never been in a relationship means she be letting dudes smash wit no commitment which means she lose wit her body and a poor decision maker and the visual evidence of this is her 2 kids by 2 different dudes so because of all that she can't turn around and require things of the new man that she didn't for 2 dudes she had children for. It's like y'all tryna punk us when y'all do that shit and a lot of us ain't going and going for it whether she claim she can't change the past
You don’t remember if you were in relationship while you were pregnant on either occasion?
Lol
I’m still mentally stuck there!!! She said she didn’t remember?! Bish what
I’m thinking she may not know who the father is 😕 sad
Who cares idk why people expose they business it’s a lot of females out here that’s in relationships creeping around putting babies on me that ain’t they kids so this relationship mess don’t be holding no weight lol
Kendra told her something that maybe no one else took the time to say to her. I hope she can receive it. It's what she needed to hear. It's the truth Sis. Please listen. Thank you Kendra. 💕
Kendra tries to give people lessons but they don't listen🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
But hated on Kevin Samuels for trying to do the same
She is a very beautiful woman. She’s 38, but looks 28 and has never in her life lacked for male attention. I’m thinking her father was not in her life , and now at 38, if we were to peal back the layers, all we’d see is pain and longing. Kendra took the easy way out by saying looks and money. Love Dorsey would have gotten to the tear soaked heart of this quickly.
You can be a great writer ✍️ I’ll read your books, you draws the reader attention quickly
@@divinepurpose-kadi7958 Thank you. I read a lot, that helps. 😊
@@Roccofanwhat are some of your favorite dating books you have read? You a love Dorsey fan I know you know some good ones. I’m just looking at y’all while y’all looking at me. Breathe b*tch let that marinate. I love love Dorsey !!💯💯
@@ceeb107 No dating books for me. I’m on the side lines observing. I’ve been married for 25 yers. I’ve only dated about 5 girls/women in my life. Love has her lane and while her “clientele” inhabit different circles, her advice is always the right way to go.
I love Dorsey!!
She not for the streets,, she for the freeways...
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-"I don't play games"
- but still let men smash without commitment.
You really cannot make this shit up 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Technically she doesn’t play games. She just gives you the prize in the beginning. Imagine a carnival that just hands out free stuffed animals.
WORD! SMHND
Good job Kendra you can see the growth you've made good for you
I've known and back in the day dealt with girls like her she's the super cool chick never took life too seriously that never gave you any grief that would always down to get smashed.... But now she's finally realizing 40 is upon her
FACTSSSSSSS!!!!! Trust me 😂😂 had a few, they're cool, fun, available but that same no stress vibe about them is the red flag why you don't wife because you know how easy going, social and care free they are and so easy to smash..lol
Another #.
So let me get this straight she let men bust her down back in the day now she wants a man to get on one knee and marry her & accept two mouths to feed foh
Definitely, the type of chick men be smashing casually: airhead 😂
@@l.t.3857literally story of my life. Men think I don't care about them because I don't nag them or go through their phones smh that let's me know they used to drama and that's the only way they feel loved lol men really feel some type of way when u not jealous about them. They think u don't care. I had a guy purposely post a picture on Instagram with his shirt off and had all the girls liking and commenting and he admitted he did that to see my reaction lol I was like o no I don't need those problems. Imagine what u would do when I really don't care lol sis trust being single is a badge of honor
The fact that she thinks her being committed to a relationship is the highest honor and not her allowing men in her womb and risking her life birthing their children isn’t WHAAAAAT tells me she’s listening to the wrong people.
She got it backwards . It’s sad to think how many other women there are out there who think like her getting used up.
She probably doesn’t have close friends or parents didn’t teach her anything.
It’s sad to know that she has been taken advantage of most of her life she’s gorgeous and looks young for her age. And on top of that immature. She barely understood what Kendra was trying to tell her. It went in one ear and out the other . I can already tell the predators are going to FLOOD her dms because she is attractive and said she isn’t asking for a man to pay her bills and etc so they are going to get what they want for free and be out the door on their merry way. I wish her luck. Can’t save everybody.
Your comment is spot on. Those was My thoughts exactly.
Very beautiful woman but older women need to educate young women on reserving your body for your husband.Kendra definitely starting to understand what’s going on out here.
She part of the "older women" group and you can still see she has no clue.
Reserving their bodies for their husbands? Boy bye!!! You can have responsible sex and not have a high body count or kids. That woman wanted her kids. Most baby mommas WANT to be baby mommas.
@@spb8039facts
As long as these husbands are reserving themselves for their wives which most are not
@@vegannn7178 We are not the same, my lady.
She is a broken little girl and her looks have been her down fall. She is beautiful but she needs to heal. Baby girl you are 38 with no real plan and still given kitty to dudes that don't value you. You have to learn to value yourself before someone else can. Men keep telling women the same thing, we don't want to marry y'all if you have too man bodies. So if your desire is to get married, you should stop or be intentionally with who you sleep with. She seems to be a social butterfly, but needs to learn a simple fact. Just because you can sleep with whoever doesn't mean you need too. Everyone that shows you attention is not good for you.
Men need to worry about their own bodies. Where are women getting all these bodies? If men exercised some self control, valued women and had some good intentions this wouldn't be an issue.
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@@newtrollaccount384 I completely agree with you but we can't ignore her ignorance at 38 and many others, men and women alike. That's truly unacceptable.
She didn't receive anything you said...
But hopefully someone else watching, will.
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I’m sure Kendra G has always been smart and wise, but man doing this show has really increased her wisdom soooooo much. She is so spot on with the advice. This is what happens when you talk to different people(male and female) and just gain a wealth of knowledge! This young lady way of dating is not working for her for 38 years, she may want to try a different approach❤
Kendra isn't spitting any new wisdom. If people followed God's wisdom they would avoid a lot of heartache and pain and diseases. No sex before marriage, no kids before marriage. Respect yourself and your body. Just basic moral principles makes life a lot easier.
@@ariamason9324preach!!!!!
@@ariamason9324 I respectfully disagree with your statement but you're entitled to your beliefs.
@ameej2u it's not my belief it's the truth. What part do you disagree with as I'm curious. You don't have to be a Christian to live a moral life, but it's OK not to either...you just have to deal with the consequences.
@@ariamason9324 I have been watching Kendra Singles live since she started and I have seen the evolution in her assessment and her wisdom on certain topics. Never said she was spitting any " new wisdom". I simply was making an observation of her assessment skills.
I also disagree that following this moral rulebook makes life easier, it sounds good but in reality, it does not. I'm a Christian and a good person overall, but I know that doesn't make me or anyone immune from problems.
I told a guy I was seeing that I was not having sex with anyone without a serious commitment and I am not sleeping with my friends. He said I am not like any other woman he has met. We have been together and married 10 years in January. A man will only commit if you make it a requirement.
Man, this lady is playing the game in reverse. She sleeps with men and then waits to see if they'll come back to chase her 😂😂. Chase what? 😵💫
Kevin Samuel's is in heaven right now tapping his 'slap' soundboard sound furiously.
She gave 2 different men the highest honour a woman could give to a man, yet she didn't demand a relationship from each, nor did she demand these men marry her. Yet she wants the new man to come in and pursue her and do everything that previous men didn't have to work for.
This woman is delusional. Just admit you like sex and move on.
Tell men to stop being wh0remongerring trash.
Bro she didn’t even remember they names that kinda spooky no lie
I think that she thought that this would make her sound cute and innocent. This conversation did not go the way that she thought it would.
My grandma would say “shes smart as a worm on a hook thinking she gone catch a fish.”
She keeps saying the ball is in her court after giving up the goods. Ma'am, you're not even playing the game. What ball?? She got a softball on a basketball court. This is very embarrassing
She is what my grandma was talking about when she said a hard head makes a soft behind 😂😂😂
Ironically this interview was like a relationship. It was good in the beginning and turned out terrible 😂
Lmao right
She wouldn’t know… she’s never been in a relationship
Lmao real talk! The very beginning I was like damn she’s beautiful, and then from then on I was shaking my head in disbelief 😂🤦🏾♂️
I feel like we all get to experience what the men experience with her.
This interview was tough
The inability to self reflect is a serious flaw amongst our women. Our women seriously don’t think they have flaws and it’s so problematic. Our relationships, families, and communities cannot sustain when one party believes they are flawless and unable to be humble.
Well I have MANY! List 3 is not enough for me lol. I'm working on them though...
Neither does men. Love the finger pointing at just the women. When men lay with these women because they can’t bear children and choose not to participate in raising the child.
It’s not just women though. Many people, male and female have a hard time with self awareness. It hard for many to look in the mirror and admit their flaws. Many times we are the problem and admitting it
Is getting closer to being better.
This is not just women
When men say "accountability is kryptonite" to western women, THIS is what we mean...
This woman has had kids with men whom she don't even remember being with, sleeps with more men without them committing, then has the NERVE to say she wants a relationship and doesn't play games...smdh...
And then when called on her hypocrisy, she tries to rationalize that nonsensical position...
WOW...
I mean people are allowed to change right? After realizing the error of her ways she's decided to change the direction of her life and adjust things moving forward, is that so bad?
@@ASerrant2 Of course people are allowed to change, grow, adjust, evolve, etc....whatever other synonym you can come up with. I agree with you...
But put on your critical thinking cap. You heard her....does that sound like what she is actually doing? Based on the man she is 'dating' now, it sounds like she is doing the exact same thing she has been doing all this time. Did her current situation sound different to you?...
@@ASerrant2if you fail most of your courses and drop your GPA to dismal levels, then start to bust your ass to bring it back to passing, you still can't demand high honors, class president, and magna cum laude. And that's exactly what these when are trying to do by fking up in dating, having casual sex and out of wedlock children with jokers and then claiming they got their ish together and demanding the highest achieving men who didn't play around and who all these other women also want. Get realistic.
@@ASerrant2most women don’t want to change until +35 with 2 kids
@@KingNug304 so?
That's false bravado on display. People like this pride themselves on leaving first but they're really afraid of getting left or being taken advantage of by someone they really open up to. I knew a girl like this that would talk about how relationships are overrated and how she'd rather just "rotate" guys. But guess what? Months later she was talking about how she really wishes she could find that one special guy to commit to her instead of guys that just act like it until they sleep with her.
That speaks volumes about men.
@@newtrollaccount384 all it really shows is that in a culture where sex is handed out like grape juice at church on a Sunday morning, men that women want to sleep with will always benefit the most
She started off so good then BOOM massive red flag. You have two children but never been in a relationship at 38? Basically you are difficult to deal with and it’s not always the man. trust she met a man she wanted but he didn’t want her
Bad deal
All red flags!!!& getting played over over how you got two whole kids and no one dated you?! And you not even embarrassed
If a 38 year old woman's never been in a serious relationship she's either a nun or a floozy
Factual
Men don’t be ish . Sleeping with men behind the scenes while they married and etc …. If you ask me this whole world is damaged frfr idk why people sitting around point fingers judging 😂
She just out here amashing guys. This is not a serious girl. Better listen to Kendra if you want a different outcome
She called Kendra G but accountability answered and she wasn't ready!! 🚩
💯🎯
To say you don’t remember not only one, but two different men you were pregnant by for 9 months says so much more than she realizes. Another commenter hit it on the nail pointing out that she’s got some deep-rooted issues that she’s buried behind that bubbly personality. The fact that her looks work to her favor to attract short-term sexual attention from men (which has a double effect of satisfying her sexual desires/urges) works against her as she’s giving the milk away for free time and time again. A lot of what she said suggests her body count could be very high because there’s no way a woman who looks like that should be able to say she’s never been in a relationship. I pray she finds the direction and discipline needed to get a better outcome for her hopes of marriage.
4:19
She has two kids by two different dudes and said that she has never been in a relationship 🤔
And then she said that she doesn't really remember the dudes that she had her kids with 🤯
She was facing the wall while they were hitting it from the back
She tried to clean it up because it sounded embarrassing. After all SHE START out saying, "this is embarrassing ." Then she says "let me think ." Listen, no matter the age of the relationship, one doesn't have to think if he/she was in a committed relationship or not. Whew chile, pleeease!!
Damn that’s crazy 😢
Yikes!!!
@@Flash413😂😂😂😂😂😂
The tree in my backyard said the lady said she had only one red flag but this entire video red flags been flying all over the place like a Chinese perade.
Dear Kendra,
Don't save her. She don't want to be saved. 😂
Even the dog was barking "meaning his agreeing" when kendra was giving this women advice
Hush😂😂
My mouth DROPPED WIDE OPEN WHEN SHE SAID SHE DIDNT EVEN REMEMBER THE FATHERS OF HER CHILDREN . JUST WOW
Random sleeping around and bragging about never being in a relationship. I PROMISE YOU THAT I CAN MAKE THIS UP 😫
Kendra dropping gems on the girl but she rather read comments! SMH man she don't get it.
Laughing My Ass Off. Kendra, you gave great sound advice. The caller fully understands what you are saying... Here's what Kendra should learn during this conversation. Your advice should be for the unsuspecting man that encounters her. I completely doubt she would be faithful. She is who she is and she knows it. As Project Pat said back in the day, and what J.Cole reiterated more recently...
Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved
Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved
Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved
Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved
Wow u really typed out “lmao”?
@@NobodyscoolI don't think so, he most likely copy/paste from the lyrics or must have a template which might sound crazy to me. 😄
She is my old self. I had no boundaries and was overly sexual.
I wish I had stop having sex & told those dudes never.
You’re body count must be CRAZY!!!! You sitting in a pool of old semen. YIKES!!!!
You live and you learn don’t beat yourself over it
When you look up the word delusional in the dictionary it has her picture with her name right there 😂
You have to be unconsciously purposely avoiding a commitment to make it to 38 without any, IMO
I agree. She's not being honest.
Why not be in a committed relationship before having two kids 🤔 she definitely working backwards. The dads didn't have to be serious and was just smashing but the next guy she looking for will require marriage and now she have standards 🙃
She should definitely have kept that shit to herself. Women these days seem to always require more from their future partners than from their previous baby daddies.
Most black men don’t do commitment. Most black men don’t marry and when they do it’s by their 40s and up. She could have been child free had she been dating out. Most non-black men don’t play games about condoms and having children out of wedlock. Black men however don’t care about having kids out of wedlock. They are the main demographic who doesn’t like using condoms😂😂.
Seems like she finally learned from her previous mistake in my opinion
It don’t always work that way . I see females get left with kids all the time I mean the dude will literally haul ass on them some are even killing they own girl friends and wives nobody is safe frfr
Her and Kendra favor each other alot so at first Kendra was like, "my sista!" ...but then she started talking gibberish and Kendra was like WTF?😅
Re: I give myself too early
That’s only a problem if you ain’t got nothing to make them stay. Quality women do, LV broads don’t
“I have my bills paid”
These LV females are so used to dealing with other LV individuals that just being a basic functioning adult is an achievement for them. The bar is in hell
Its the last part for me.
You cannot make anyone stay. That's a decision the individual makes on their own. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar.
What does LV mean? Lol
Lmao the bar is in hell 😂
@@R.Yvette.X.reak it down then. Make them WANT to stay lol, they can't even do that
Kendra trying to save these chicks. "Dont save em, she dont want to be saved" 😂
Pursue a 38 year old with 2 kids... can't deal with an ex... but she has 2 baby daddies. 🤦🏿♂️🤣🤣🤣
Has kids by men she can't remember a relationship with... and sleeps around with men without requiring a relationship... Only a fool would go for this foolishness. She is not a prize.
This actually sad feel sorry for her
Neither are most men. It's a matter of meeting your match.
@@newtrollaccount384 most men are the prize... which is why y'all want em after y'all waste ypur lige and body on men with zero potential.
Its also the reason BM have higher marriage rates than BW. Women of all races in multiple countries love BM... but NOBODY is lining up for baby mamas... and the 25% marriage rate is proof.
No matter what you say... BM are more desired than BW based on marriage rates alone.
Single woman who says she wants to be pursued OK,single woman with children saying that is blasphemous 😅
38 with he demeanor of a 18 year old 🤦🏾♂️ ladies, acting like a little girl is not cute to a mature man.
But weren't yall on here saying that yall want 18 to 20 years so you can teach them to being the woman you want? So why is having the mind of a 18 year old such a bad thing? Shes easy to teach according to yall.
@AmberJailee if you're seriously comparing an actual 18 year old to a 38 year old who acts 18 and don't know the difference as to why a man would prefer one over the other, there's nothing I can say to make it make sense to you. I hope you're trolling though because I really hope you're not that simple minded.
@@Go-Getterfacts bro. A 38 year old childless mature woman with her looks could get married. She has a bubbly 18 year old personality but with the baggage of a 45 year old woman which is a bad combination. Most men would take a childless 18-25 year old over her especially if they are childless even off the sheer time factor you assume the younger woman has less sexual experience and she’s more coachable.
Truth is this older woman can get married it’s just he will likely be at least 10-25 years older than her and have grown kids himself. And probably not in great shape but she could get a 55 year old man in good shape. But then again how many 55 year old men are in good shape not a whole lot.
@@ceeb107You wouldn't treat her any better if she had no children. You're hypocrites and liars.
@@ceeb107 well that’s not accurate entirely bc I’m a RN in mother baby and women her age are getting pregnant and presenting a ring on their finger from men her age all day so somebody lying…and I travel to work & rotate through 3 cities. 38 yo men are with 38 yo women, y’all gotta go outside.
She’s definitely going to find someone very similar to her on her level just off of looks, but you don’t remember your relationships that led you to your pregnancies? She’s the problem. Tolerating games, but says she doesn’t tolerate games. Too old to operating with that logic.
A whole damn bird 🦅 … And she’s raising a daughter
She needs therapy. Would she just please stop having sex. 🤦🏽♀️ she seems like she says one thing but her actions say the opposite. I really hope she gets therapy and stop looking for a man.
This woman will die alone😂😂. Fellas we up on this lady. Hit it and keep it moving let her think the “ball is in her court” 😂
Bro this is the majority of females who praise being single. All the strong independent i don't need no man females operate the same way. They aren't celibate. Don't let them lie to you most are in situationships JUST LIKE HER
13:46 Well, she has the first part right 🤣
Yuck! It's clear she has been hurt...by men who think just like this. men who feel powerful because they can get over on vulnerable women=predators. Hide your young daughters ladies, these pervs are just looking for a wet hole!
StephIsCold meme here...
You're a user and a phony and you'll never make anyone a good partner because you don't value women.
Kendra, you are so right, I'm 51 and have no children. We as women can't think we can play the same game men play. Cause we get stuck with the babies and we can't continue having babies with people we are not married to. It's showing that you are having sex with guys without protection, we have got to stop this.
Why TF would a “fine” 85k plus earning man want to “pursue” a middle aged two time baby mama who was unwanted by all her baby daddies?
Delusional thy name modern woman SMH
They all believe they will get a SIMP to come save them like Ciara did with Russel Wilson.
@@dentreveal3820The mythical “fine” simp that pays all of her bills. Lol
Hahahahhahahahhaha
😂😂😂
Clearly your bitter and lonely get a life
Straight facts
I'm glad Kendra startin talk that real to her, getting gamed at 38 is crazy.
Put her in roatation, fellas! Nothing more, nothing less.
Thursdays and/or Saturdays, 8pm to 1am is a good fit for her. Maybe TGI Fridays once in a while.
😂😂 we need more men to start treating women like her the same way.
@@dentreveal3820
I have a Thursday opening right now. 😂
I'm free on Friday.
Damn SMH
I swear the excuse of “I was really young” never gets old does it 🤷🏾♂️
I do love how Kendra exposes peoples rationale and gets serious when it’s needed. Good work Kendra 🙏🏾
If her son is 10...then she was like 27 or 28...that's not super young. I had my own apt, a master degree & was into my career by that age. I knew how to manage my personal life & work life etc by that age. Long story short, 27 & up isn't young to me.
She's very beautiful, I just hope she learn how a man should court her before having intimacy. It's a lot of Black men and Black women just like her.
This is exactly what men are talking about. Now she’s 40 and wants an accomplished man to take care of her and her kids.
Exactly. 9 years ago when I first got my tech job I had to dodge them like I was Neo in the Matrix. One of them lied 🤥 and stole from me.
But she isn’t 40
I’m recently divorced and I’m ready to move for love ❤️. I told her and I quote: “Well keep it moving. Cause you ain’t about to move in with me.” Second one told me I’m a teacher and I have no children. She showed up on the date and her gas tank was leaning on the E. While we were eating at a fancy restaurant after a round of miniature golf ⛳️. Her kid called and started swearing 🤬. She said and I quote: “You don’t talk to your mother like that.” and my jaw dropped. I said: “ I thought you told me you have no children.” She told me: “If I told you I had children I know you wouldn’t have shown up.” She took most of the food. I ended up paying for Gas, and she stole from me. It’s hard in these streets for single dudes.
Just cuz a woman wants to settle down doesn’t mean she need or askn someone to take care her kids. She been doing it
@@GeechieGorgeous lol no woman with kids is just gonna sit there and her man doesn't pay for anything for the kids. Best to avoid.
I hope her 17 yr old dont see this
Same🥴
7:45 “If he come back”
If he EVER does come back he only want to hit it. Ain’t like he come back for YOU bish
This chick is delusional...there's no reason for a man she particularly wants, will pursue her. She will have to share the type of man she wants. He's the prize and has way too many options especially in Cali.😂😂😂
After a man hit, you have no more bargaining chips
4:49 - "i dont really remember them" .. ROFLMAO @ Kendra's facial expression!!