I’m 54 years old and I can tell you that $100k men are not seeking us anymore than women our age are being abducted. 💯 I walk by white vans without any concern AT ALL! Let’s be realistic ladies 🤦🏾♀️
Speak on it again!!!! ... This is the one time I have to say that the entire comment section is on the same page that this woman is delusional!!! Both men and women young and old are all saying the same thing... She doesn't have the looks the physique running this right circle and her age is playing against her She has way too many negatives to be asking for what she's looking for....
And then Kendra asked her have you ever dated anyone that made that much money and she says no has she ever dated anyone that made $75,000 a year before and she said no.... Like make it make sense 😉
I am in my 60s. I see so many women around my age that will be alone forever because they are not rooted in reality. I enjoy being single, but if I wanted to be in a committed relationship, I would have a more realistic approach. In other words, ain't nobody checkin for a 61 year old woman who has decided to "raise her standards". Girl, please...
@@robinsnestradiowomen that are more realistic with themselves are more likely to find love from the right man a lot faster than the ones who are proud of being delusional and unrealistic. YOURE a beautiful soul and you will find a good man when you’re ready!! Salute 💯💯💯
No disrespect but you look GOOD for 68 🎉❤, wise too, if you wanted to YOU probably could find someone but you're based in reality and not Disney land, social media land , like 90 percent of women of a certain type no matter the age. I salute you 🫡
@@mr.culturefreedom2073 Y'all? We were talking about her. Isn't it funny how you deflected my question bc you didn't have an answer? If you must know, I'm 5'3. I would very much prefer to date a man closer to my height bc it's harder to be affectionate when I can't even reach him. I am also not concerned about looks bc those good-looking men are the ones that cheat the most. But broke, no sir. They can get violent when they don't fulfill their potential. What are those broke men that I refuse supposed to do? Get money! But just like I said earlier, she can't turn back the hands of time, but you men can always make more money.
You're absolutely right It's not a whole lot of money but with her age factored in most men that make six figures that's near 60 years old are not looking for older women They're looking for 40-year-old women 35-year-old women... And then on top of that you can definitely tell that she's going to have some kind of attitude and some kind of entitlement no man at that age wants to deal with that kind of foolishness
If 100k isn't a lot of money like some people are saying, then their would be more people making it, as oppose to the only 10 to 15 percent of population that does. It really kills me how people be down playing that amount of money.
@campbell2179 I think youngest people are getting there more quickly because they set a goal of getting there. Those percentages are going to increase soon. I think it used to be a lot harder to breaker the 100k barrier. Now lawyers, gvt employees, engineers, people in tech, nurses, etc. can get there and are getting there.
I dont understand myself. Those truly looking for love should be more interested in your character than income. I have never cared how much a man makes. Just be self sufficient, ambitious, and stable.....
This is gonna be the future for so many women in todays era and going foward old, alone and delusional thank God I found my person this dating market is absolutely insane.
What are you talking about?? You think these men are getting snatched up like that?? YOU ARE DELUSIONAL!! They out here too!! ALONE!! And terrorizing everybody at the nursing home🤣🤣
Facts. My mom just had to take her friend to 3 doctor appt in the morning because she got diagnosed with breast cancer. Both close to 60s n single. They gonna have to be the man to each other.
@@Pretti_Lucky If lots of men are alone then so are women, and by your own logic, the reason for this is because of the 'standards' of women. What's wrong with just a companion who can pay for his half of a date, phone call, movie or walk in the park? Why does a 61 year old woman need to be spoiled? She isn't over the need for frivolous things?
She been caregiving for these wealthy people and has gotten a glimpse of a different lifestyle. However, you shouldn’t bring your work home and vice versa. Best of luck 🌹
@@meloran2571People of that ilk don’t normally date or form intimate relationships with the help especially if they’re 61. Now if she was 21 or even 31 it could be possible yet still not probable.
He spoke truth and so many hated him for keeping it real, remines me of my Lord Jesus Christ, when He spoke the truth & those that disagree started seeking to crucified Him for speaking to them the true!
Even at 60, a Black man making 100K can get women in their 30-40s. At 61 its time to LOWER your standards, and find a man with some health insurance and life insurance and owns his own place to live.
Same!! The fools who believe there’s always better out there have been sold a dream by corporations who profit off of their misery. Unless it’s abuse or extreme circumstances there isn’t better. You won’t be anymore fulfilled alone either.
I met my wife back in 2012 when i was 25 and wasn't making anywhere near 100k. We had a lot in common and built our relationship off of that and didn't care how much either of us made. We just grew together and always supported each other when in need. There's nothing wrong with having standards but please just make them more realistic. Don't let social media and reality TV ruin your chances of finding someone.
@@ShannonsBibleStudy it’s about her requiring 100k instead of looking for pure happiness at that age she’s only putting more obstacles in the way of an already difficult situation
@@ShannonsBibleStudydid he just die ...no! A widow that's not widowing , most widows don't remarry or even look for love again,she's a single woman,her husband died around 20 years ago, if she were a traditional widow she wouldn't be looking for another man at 61 , and even if she was the widow excuse flies out the window after about ten years if you trying to get back in the game, she's just who she is
@@brandonlongdikjones8117what is “traditional widow”? You sound silly, when a spouse dies you are no longer Bound and at liberty to love again, y’all really be saying anything but facts.
Raising your standards when it has already been hard for you to find someone is literally counterproductive. That social media babble got to her because she says the same crap verbatim 🤦🏾♂️
They throw out that manifestation word around to deflect against the obvious delusion in their thinking. In their mind, they have to know these standards are crazy, but to deflect they call it a manifestation.
Spoke nothing but facts😅... Is very counterproductive If you can't get somebody at $75,000 why would you try to go after somebody that makes even more money😅😅😅... And then at her age and she's not that good looking for her age as I have seen some amazing looking 65-year-old women lately that actually have taken care of themselves.... She's not going to get what she really wants
@@A_Well_Traveled_Man Lol No seriously, makes no sense. It’s like if I could barely get bbws and require only fit women. A lot of nerves! 😂🤦🏾♂️. Yeah at her age, she better be happy if she could find someone who’s trying to deal with her for the years he has left 😂🥴
You would think at 61 she’d have more logical and reasoning skills but here is a woman who just doesn’t get it. She’s been single since 1999 but has deducted that she should raise the standard for the men who were not pursuing her in the first place. Lady, you just need someone to live the rest of life with i.e. companionship. There are many retired men who are done with the rat race and probably living off social security or budget their retirement savings. This is the man for you because he’s looking for companionship as well. What you gone do is stop with these delusional thoughts about upping your standards for men who are not checking for you. Life should have told you this by now but apparently you didn’t hear life like you couldn’t hear Kendra.
I have to say that she is delusional at 61 cuz most men that are in her age bracket are going to date down meaning younger women that make that kind of money So she's going to have to probably settle for a younger man that doesn't make as much money that wants to date an older woman unfortunately not too many older men looking to date older women
lmao! she raised her own price. it wasn't like she getting so many men that she just gotta filter them out by asking for more , no she just said fuck it . i'm worth more in my old age lol This is hilarious , women in their 40s want the same , if i qualify for her, i'd be just as delusional at her age and try shooting my shot for a 40 year old woman shit
This is sad. She is literally years away from retirement. Retirement meaning, mostly living off an accumulated income. If this man is retired, his annual income may be $30K. God willing, if I make it to 60, I would hope that my house is paid off and I no longer have any major bills. I would not need make anywhere close to 100k to ball out to live a fun life.
As Kevin Samuels used to say.. name a product that you can charge higher prices for after it has been heavily used. This show has went from being a dating show to a fantasy show.
@@Bree48646 everything in this world gets rated and ranked. When you go for a job interview you are most definitely a product marketing yourself to some company. Putting yourself on a dating site or dating app is no different ... you're a product trying to sell yourself.
I would think at 61 years old she would just want a nice companion who was able to travel with her. He might be retired with a nice retirement egg, but to put an amount on what he has to make at this point in time I think is unnecessary.
Exactly and people who say it's not a lot live in some expensive asS state like California where 100k gets you a closet space😅and skid row. There's 340+ million people in the US and the 18% are spread across 50 states. Its simple math. Those people are concentrated in select cities. So what seems like it's normal and easy to do is because people don't know what stats are😅 I took a statistics class. Hated it. But ks brought alot of info to light and I was able to research for myself
@ultimatepower65 facts folks always say "its not that much" then come spend it. I probably spend $60k out of about $85-88k take home i literally would have to go down an irresponsible hole in order to spend it all
The only way to really raise your standards is to apply higher standards to yourself. Because then you're on the same wavelength with people of higher standards. If you change nothing about yourself for the better then nothing changes.
Kendra's commentary at the end was the Gospel. Don't pass over a great person who will truly love you and may even be God-sent just because of their salary. You could be missing your true Blessing. 💯
"Can you see my legs?" *Walks outside* "Can you see my legs" (same pose) "Oh, you can't see because I'm outdoors" No, we can't see your legs because you're literally doing the same pose you did when you were inside the house. Then, she wasn't talking but kept asking "Kendra, can you hear me?" What are we supposed to be hearing? Silence?? Kendra asked you a question. She'll be able to hear you when you answer it. Chile, I can't with some of these elders. Playing little games at 61.
The last sentence in this video is what a lot of people don't have the capacity to comprehend. There's a lot more sustainability in building what you want out of life together with someone you love & vice versa, as opposed to feeling like you deserve what you desire and attaining that through "manifestation" by simple request while not being introspective on why you haven't attained that which you seek yet. Simply wanting a high figure person so you can live in their tax bracket is not conducive to having a long-standing relationship with that individual because you're just entering into what they've built for themselves and haven't proven how you would be an invaluable piece in their life other than possibly becoming another expense. That's one of the reasons why the question "What can you bring to the table?" became such a popular metaphor because so many people have these audacious requirements in their dating prospects without feeling like they need to work on themselves or show how they can improve someone's life (even minimally) without becoming a liability. It's better to build success together as a cohesive unit instead of trying to grasp the coattails of someone else's success, and when you become flippant or a better option presents themselves, you're left at where you started before.
No man who makes 100k a year would pursue a 61 yo woman who tends to overtalk & be bullheaded. That is truly impossible. Something that cannot happen. She said it is not impossible & she is wrong. It is impossible.
Women love to hold on to that 1 percent possibility as opposed to the 99 percent probability that they aint never going to get what they are looking for
@@ejay2075 Absoutely. What is that about? They love to dream about the possible. And life passes them by while they are dreaming. And social media certainly hasn't helped.
6:42 that lady knew damn well what Kendra sled she just didn’t have a good enough answer to reply then she kept acting as if her phone was cutting up three times she bugging frfr.
@@awesomehigames Yup! ladies in your 20s and 30s , hell bent on following this "i dont want to settle" modern mindset this is what yall gonna look like in 30 years working to survive alone and raising your price steadily til your excuse for being alone just becomes 'no one can afford me'
THE internet has detroyed society. Even the elders have even lost their sense, let alone wisdom. Its truly sad especially because this is very common even at her age. She should playing with grandchildren and greatgrandchildren spoiling them. It so easy for a woman to get a man but they put every obstacle they can think of in their own way.
I know right! The BM she is looking for DO NOT have that kind in f money😂. She need to specify she is open to all races of men and Nanna will easily find what she is looking for.
I usually don't go against what women want, but I feel like if you're not at the age where you're going to extend your family (have children/saving for tuition and everything else that goes with that) 100k shouldn't be such a strict standard. You can still live a happy and fulfilling life with less. At this point asking for 100k has become a trend.
Especially at 61. Men who want to talk to her are likely to be retired or close to it. So it’s less about income and more about money management and what you are living off of. But she’ll overlook all those men living comfortably off their retirement with their house paid off and minimal bills. Can’t tell these women anything.
I can think of a whole lot of things empty nesters can do with 100k. Besides travel, they could be fattening up insurance policies for those children that they paid tuition for. They could have an old house to remodel. They may need to start handling some health issues that they put off. They may want to spoil their grandchildren. Yall gotta stop it man. Possibly having a nice excess of money doesn't turn into a bad thing just because you're older. I can't believe yall are really saying this.
These chicks dont want help. Helpful advise has been flying around for the past 3-4 years & all we have seen is them fight against the help & shame the help. This is why soo many will die alone. Which I think they want because they know they cant even give the bare minimum of what most men want. They just want to be the ones shooting out demands & expectations.
@@slangtang6671 Yep its so sad they really won't learn , keep repeating the same mistakes expecting different results and its always someone elses fault
Traveling caregivers make a lot of money and with black women the more money they make the more money they expect the man to make. That’s fine. She can have her standards but I feel so bad for her.
That is a lie! She is not making a lot of money and is on the show trying to make a come up. It’s amazing how the stats in America say one thing BUT everyone on Kendra’s show are the top 5% and commentators.
I like this attitude. However you should set some bars. If you haven't met him and married by age 40 are you still going to wait on God? What if the Man God has for you will never make 100k? Are you okay with no man at 62?
You think God is going to be supportive of someone looking to be "spoiled" and having a 100K income requirement? You think God views those men of being more worthy than men who have less means? Lol. According to her standards Jesus wouldn't even be qualified yet you believe God is going to satisfy her worldly fantasies 😂
@@R.Yvette.X. Some get married at 70, point with women over 50 & not married they settle for anything, because the fear of age…. But when you wait on God you will know when that’s the one & you get the Very Best! 😃
@user-dn6vg6mk6h I don't doubt she can get married. I doubt she can get married to someone in their 60's and still making 100k annually. Consider the soil.
She is beautiful and she doesn't look no where near her age. Good luck Lisa on your dating journey. I have seven years to get to your age, I pray I still look that good when I become that age. No one thinks I am 53 I will be 54 in six months. Good luck again in your dating journey. Wow I wonder does traveling care givers make good money like traveling nurses? I know that regular care givers don't make that much money.
She kinda resembles my great aunt a little bit. All the middle age adults that come on here is surprising because most older individuals are not in tune with social media. And they complain about how our generation stay glued to cell phones all the time.
See how she said she didn't have standards b4 because she was "God fearing" ? Pay attention gents! Notice as of recent all the women want a God fearing man? I've been saying it... it's cuz they believe that type of person will put up with their nonsense and lack standards! Pay attention!
Anything and everything is possible but here you are at 61 still single and delusional. Anything is possible but that doesn't make it probable. too many people get on the show thinking they're the exception to defy logic, economics, and simple math.
It's not a bad strategy, it's just annoying. A woman can come on and cast a wide net and shoot for the stars.. Of course when the interview is done she'll just take what she can get. When Kendra called her on it, she admitted these requirements are just her talking. Lol 100k tuned into 50k real quick. Most of them are like this. None of them are turning down dick.
There is no way im talkin to her on the phone for months without physical interaction while she is putting her career in front of me. She wants a relationship, leading to marriage as she's traveling the world. I couldn't be faithful doing THAT.
she gonna be waiting for that backstock for a long while. why get a high mileage car when you can get a new car for the same price and runs better without any hiccups, no check engine light
🙂 there’s that passport bros, MGTOW, red pill, 1 fish 2 fish no fish talk lolol comparing women to cars 👍🏽 Next up! “Market value, fit feminine and friendly, and 304s.” Lord Jesus come quick 😅
In this episode titled "What you say Willis?" Friday Foster (Kendra G) has an enlightening conversation with Lisa from Chicago. Lisa, a 61-year-old caregiver with a kind heart, is looking for love in her golden years. Lisa desires the fundamentals in a man, but she admits to wanting to be spoiled. What was she thinking when she said that in front of Friday? Lisa shamelessly blurts out $100,000 when Friday asks if she has a salary requirement.The KOUSINS' fingers begin to burst as they type "chile please!", "get in line!", and "I know you're lying!" Lisa giggles her way down to 70k, but Friday suspects she's just attempting to placate the audience. Friday presses this salary requirement after a couple of follow-up questions. Lisa employs an age-old diversion technique (pretend you can't hear, static on the line, English as a second language), but you can't get past Friday's pursuit of a great story.Lisa must eventually admit that she is merely dipping her toe into the cashy waters. Friday explains that they are not giving out 100,000 men like Now and Laters, which takes the sting out of it. Friday delves a little deeper into the difference between creating your reality and acknowledging your reality, and Lisa has never seen a $100,000 bill, but she's sticking to her guns. Lisa admits she can be a little stubborn, and Friday gives her the smiling eyes face. Friday brings the episode to a close by enlightening everyone. When you're scrolling through social media, your eyes widen and you start wanting what others have, but the grass isn't always greener on the other side. 💜
Just think about how many women stand in their own way of potentially being able to have a meaningful relationship by having this type of unrealistic way of thinking. 🤦🏾♂️
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She has the right to raise her standards. Men have the right to ignore her.
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Okay?! 😅🤦🏾♀️
Facts
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Here, Here.. WOFF WOFF
I’m 54 years old and I can tell you that $100k men are not seeking us anymore than women our age are being abducted. 💯
I walk by white vans without any concern AT ALL! Let’s be realistic ladies 🤦🏾♀️
Speak on it again!!!! ... This is the one time I have to say that the entire comment section is on the same page that this woman is delusional!!! Both men and women young and old are all saying the same thing... She doesn't have the looks the physique running this right circle and her age is playing against her She has way too many negatives to be asking for what she's looking for....
And then Kendra asked her have you ever dated anyone that made that much money and she says no has she ever dated anyone that made $75,000 a year before and she said no....
Like make it make sense 😉
@finishingTouchesWithAngel, You Funny I Love That Comment 😂
@@carolwinrow9489 😂🤣
hahah! hilarious
I am in my 60s. I see so many women around my age that will be alone forever because they are not rooted in reality. I enjoy being single, but if I wanted to be in a committed relationship, I would have a more realistic approach. In other words, ain't nobody checkin for a 61 year old woman who has decided to "raise her standards". Girl, please...
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it took someone in their actual 60's to get it
@@Iknowyoumadnow yep, I'm 68 and ain't no man stressing over a woman in her 60s. Sorry, not sorry. 😁
@@robinsnestradiowomen that are more realistic with themselves are more likely to find love from the right man a lot faster than the ones who are proud of being delusional and unrealistic. YOURE a beautiful soul and you will find a good man when you’re ready!! Salute 💯💯💯
No disrespect but you look GOOD for 68 🎉❤, wise too, if you wanted to YOU probably could find someone but you're based in reality and not Disney land, social media land , like 90 percent of women of a certain type no matter the age. I salute you 🫡
@@brandonlongdikjones8117I was abt to say the same thing. She looks good for 68. She could easily get away with late 40s n early 50s.
It’s so annoying when they act like they can’t do the Kendra Kam. Then she all of a sudden became deaf when KG asked her a tough question. 🤣🤣
Lisa pretending she didn’t hear that question is hilarious
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KG held up a mirror and Lisa was hoping KG skipped that question. 😂😂😂
That audio went out as soon as Kendra asked her why men of that caliber aren’t courting her 🤣🤣🤣
A 61 year old man making 6 figures doesn't want a 61 year old woman.
That's a shame that they always date younger. It's not like she can change her age. What is she supposed to do, realistically?
@SweetEssie It's a shame yall don't like short men or balding men or broke men....what are they supposed to do?
@@mr.culturefreedom2073 Y'all? We were talking about her. Isn't it funny how you deflected my question bc you didn't have an answer?
If you must know, I'm 5'3. I would very much prefer to date a man closer to my height bc it's harder to be affectionate when I can't even reach him. I am also not concerned about looks bc those good-looking men are the ones that cheat the most. But broke, no sir. They can get violent when they don't fulfill their potential.
What are those broke men that I refuse supposed to do? Get money! But just like I said earlier, she can't turn back the hands of time, but you men can always make more money.
@SweetEssie I see you intentionally missed the point. Sounds about right.
@@mr.culturefreedom2073 And you intentionally didn't answer my question AGAIN
100k is not alot of money to people that makes it..however 80% of the population doesnt.
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You're absolutely right It's not a whole lot of money but with her age factored in most men that make six figures that's near 60 years old are not looking for older women They're looking for 40-year-old women 35-year-old women... And then on top of that you can definitely tell that she's going to have some kind of attitude and some kind of entitlement no man at that age wants to deal with that kind of foolishness
If 100k isn't a lot of money like some people are saying, then their would be more people making it, as oppose to the only 10 to 15 percent of population that does. It really kills me how people be down playing that amount of money.
Too me it is
@campbell2179 I think youngest people are getting there more quickly because they set a goal of getting there. Those percentages are going to increase soon. I think it used to be a lot harder to breaker the 100k barrier. Now lawyers, gvt employees, engineers, people in tech, nurses, etc. can get there and are getting there.
Most men her at her age range making 100k are more than likely married with their own family.
Exactly 💯
There are some they just not going for this women to be honest
She 'raised her standards' right before she's about to be on SSI 😂😂😂😂
Savage Truth! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
soo true 😂
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😅😅😅😅😅😅oooooooo nice one!!
There are so many broken children
Living in grown bodies
Mimicking adult lives
Great statement
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@Chris-hz3bt thank you Traveler, There will be more on the channel🙏🏼
What is this obsession with 100k? Whatever happened to love, compassion, commitment? Are they all wrapped up in the 100k? It’s a wild thought .
Modern women are just expensive prostitutes lol
To be honest kendra started that
I dont understand myself. Those truly looking for love should be more interested in your character than income. I have never cared how much a man makes. Just be self sufficient, ambitious, and stable.....
I am a woman who makes 6 figures and I am trying to figure out where this 6 figure thing came from.
Imagine having money to trick off and giving it to a 61 year old woman. Bonkers...
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But if you 61 yourself what’s the problem?? Who want saggy balls and hot old man breath in their face for a couple dollars??
Lmao @ bonkers
Granny done lost it
This is laughable 100k men are not looking for a 61 year old women.
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Lol Right! The only 61 year olds they're dealing with are their wives that have been with them since the beginning.
Sure they are 😂😂😂
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@@WonOldSoul 😳
This is gonna be the future for so many women in todays era and going foward old, alone and delusional thank God I found my person this dating market is absolutely insane.
I agree I found mine and holding on tight😅
She's a widow. This is going to be the future for a lot of married women because men die sooner.
@@ShannonsBibleStudy Her husband died 24 years ago when she was 37. That's a long time to find someone else.
What are you talking about?? You think these men are getting snatched up like that?? YOU ARE DELUSIONAL!! They out here too!! ALONE!! And terrorizing everybody at the nursing home🤣🤣
Facts. My mom just had to take her friend to 3 doctor appt in the morning because she got diagnosed with breast cancer. Both close to 60s n single. They gonna have to be the man to each other.
I love how she got deaf when Kendra was trying to give her the real 😂😂💀💀
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It’s easier to pretend like you can’t hear than it is to take a swing from a tall glass of refreshing accountability.
@@etuitivemillionaire Her connection was so clear until Kendra start checking her 😂😭😭
@@nmmboyExactly. I’m surprised the call didn’t get miraculously disconnected. That’s another one of their favorite tricks.
@@etuitivemillionaire Man I really thought she was gonna hang up on Kendra! She must’ve changed her mind and took the L 😂😂
Does anybody date a person for love anymore? Just worry about what he makes yearly?
Nope 🤷🏽♂️
Women in the real world. This show is just full of clowns.
It certainly seems relationships are all about transactions these days. Love be damned.
@Kwadzo I think when you look online. But in your social circle things are the same?
Yeah these times are messed up
Raising standards in your old age is a recipe to be single the rest of your days. How do women not get this..
What do you want her to do though? It's probably better to be single than deal with a mess. That's especially true for the older one gets.
Idk how men don’t get this either.. because lots and lots of them grow old ALONE!! Lots!! And I mean lots!!
what she should do is be realistic and honest with herself
@@ShannonsBibleStudy Why does she need a man to spoil her? What is wrong with a man who is willing to spend time with her?
@@Pretti_Lucky If lots of men are alone then so are women, and by your own logic, the reason for this is because of the 'standards' of women. What's wrong with just a companion who can pay for his half of a date, phone call, movie or walk in the park?
Why does a 61 year old woman need to be spoiled? She isn't over the need for frivolous things?
So I now have to make 100k to even date the women I don’t even want to date……FIX IT JESUS!!!
😂😂😂 terrible
How old are you?
@@God-Love-Freedom -0 age, with an air head
@@Nature-ep5cu
Your answer doesn’t make sense. Please clarify.
@@God-Love-Freedom ....he was on your side fool
She been caregiving for these wealthy people and has gotten a glimpse of a different lifestyle. However, you shouldn’t bring your work home and vice versa. Best of luck 🌹
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so she should be dating their relatives
Lmao
@@meloran2571 Yup. It seems to me that she is in a position to get what she wants.
@@meloran2571People of that ilk don’t normally date or form intimate relationships with the help especially if they’re 61. Now if she was 21 or even 31 it could be possible yet still not probable.
RIP Kevin Samuels ⚰️🙏🏾Delusion is real👀👀👀
You can’t make this shit up 😂
Thank you Paulette…
He spoke truth and so many hated him for keeping it real, remines me of my Lord Jesus Christ, when He spoke the truth & those that disagree started seeking to crucified Him for speaking to them the true!
When I’m 61, I will raise my standards to billionaire super models only.
AND NOBODY CAN CONVINCE ME TO SETTLE!!!!!!11
😂😂😂😂😂😂 screaming!!!!
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She has selective hearing
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To be clear, yes, anything is possible..even the possibility of no man going for this nonsense..
Right! 😂😂😂
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Even at 60, a Black man making 100K can get women in their 30-40s. At 61 its time to LOWER your standards, and find a man with some health insurance and life insurance and owns his own place to live.
Your faith is almost sealed by that age!!!!! Let’s start being honest. She will be working the rest of her days.
@@jrock7561 Unless she hits the Multimatch- 401K is important, you see those old azz people working at walmart?
@@Piper-Down-EZ 😂😂😂
Facts
This 40 something wouldn’t date a 61 yr old no matter how much money he has , that’s too old !
I’m so glad I’m happily married because it’s wild out here.
The dating pool is full of crap
Same!! The fools who believe there’s always better out there have been sold a dream by corporations who profit off of their misery. Unless it’s abuse or extreme circumstances there isn’t better. You won’t be anymore fulfilled alone either.
I met my wife back in 2012 when i was 25 and wasn't making anywhere near 100k. We had a lot in common and built our relationship off of that and didn't care how much either of us made. We just grew together and always supported each other when in need. There's nothing wrong with having standards but please just make them more realistic. Don't let social media and reality TV ruin your chances of finding someone.
yes but you went ahead and got married. There are too many men now still playing the field and they are over 50yrs old.
@jasonwynnart you were young. Ain’t nobody trying to build up no 55 year old man. Major difference
25 and 61 are different.
@God-Love-Freedom is very different and difficult
I agree
Raising your standards shouldn’t be based in money..should be primarily about the character of a person
Raising your standards at 61 is crazy 😂😂😂ladies look this is your future if you don’t humble yourself 🤣🤣🤣good luck lady
She's a widow. It looks like everyone is going to be in the same boat regardless.
@@ShannonsBibleStudy it’s about her requiring 100k instead of looking for pure happiness at that age she’s only putting more obstacles in the way of an already difficult situation
@@ShannonsBibleStudydid he just die ...no! A widow that's not widowing , most widows don't remarry or even look for love again,she's a single woman,her husband died around 20 years ago, if she were a traditional widow she wouldn't be looking for another man at 61 , and even if she was the widow excuse flies out the window after about ten years if you trying to get back in the game, she's just who she is
@@brandonlongdikjones8117what is “traditional widow”? You sound silly, when a spouse dies you are no longer Bound and at liberty to love again, y’all really be saying anything but facts.
@@Ash2beauty You slow
She heard you Kendra, reality set in and she couldn't handle it. 😂😂😂😂😂
Yes she definitely did 😂😂😂😂
These chick's think it's just about saying I want 100k, like it means u will get it, chill granny
Raising your standards when it has already been hard for you to find someone is literally counterproductive. That social media babble got to her because she says the same crap verbatim 🤦🏾♂️
They throw out that manifestation word around to deflect against the obvious delusion in their thinking. In their mind, they have to know these standards are crazy, but to deflect they call it a manifestation.
Spoke nothing but facts😅... Is very counterproductive If you can't get somebody at $75,000 why would you try to go after somebody that makes even more money😅😅😅... And then at her age and she's not that good looking for her age as I have seen some amazing looking 65-year-old women lately that actually have taken care of themselves.... She's not going to get what she really wants
@@A_Well_Traveled_Man Lol No seriously, makes no sense. It’s like if I could barely get bbws and require only fit women. A lot of nerves! 😂🤦🏾♂️. Yeah at her age, she better be happy if she could find someone who’s trying to deal with her for the years he has left 😂🥴
@@nmmboybig BEAUTIFUL women have standards, too. It's the ones that are big but not beautiful 😂
@@GreyMann2 lmao oh Yeah I know, I was just giving an example 😂
This is pure comedy
Im gonna start pretending Im broke, thats gonna save me a lot of trouble
Ok
Why do people come on and not have place to stand the phone.
She somebody's big momma and she wants 100k. Fellas, there is nothing left for us to do here. We should have seen enough.
100k is required for marriage at 61. The effrontery.
You would think at 61 she’d have more logical and reasoning skills but here is a woman who just doesn’t get it. She’s been single since 1999 but has deducted that she should raise the standard for the men who were not pursuing her in the first place. Lady, you just need someone to live the rest of life with i.e. companionship. There are many retired men who are done with the rat race and probably living off social security or budget their retirement savings. This is the man for you because he’s looking for companionship as well. What you gone do is stop with these delusional thoughts about upping your standards for men who are not checking for you. Life should have told you this by now but apparently you didn’t hear life like you couldn’t hear Kendra.
💰🐕🐈👵🏿⚰️☠️ = Buy a dog/ cat, grow OLD & DIE ALONE.
You said that 100% facts
Totally Agree!!!! I'm 56, and that's what I'm looking for
@MaricusLovePhotogdon't feel bad for her. There's no fool like an old fool. Age is supposed to bring wisdom. For her it has brought delusion
I have to say that she is delusional at 61 cuz most men that are in her age bracket are going to date down meaning younger women that make that kind of money So she's going to have to probably settle for a younger man that doesn't make as much money that wants to date an older woman unfortunately not too many older men looking to date older women
An old fool was once a young fool👀🤷🏾♂️😑. Babylon 2023 living at its finest.
At the end if Kendra goes solo and starts with "Let me say this" grab ya popcorn its bout to be good
100k doesn't want her.
She's gonna get a retiree who's gonna force a budget.
Definitely gonna be a guy in his 70s with ED
She might be looking for a retirement plan. If he makes $100k, maybe she doesn't have to work anymore
Should have raised your standards 30 years ago.
She’s 61. Maybe 40 years ago.
She was married then.
😂😂😂😂😂
She done lost her French toast mind! What man with all she requires, would want her? In the words of the late KS, "Buy a dog and die alone!"
That isn’t nice
Well he followed his own advice
😂 RIP
"I raised my standards" at this point she'd be lucky to get someone with a beating heart and can blink their eyes.
lmao! she raised her own price. it wasn't like she getting so many men that she just gotta filter them out by asking for more , no she just said fuck it . i'm worth more in my old age lol This is hilarious , women in their 40s want the same , if i qualify for her, i'd be just as delusional at her age and try shooting my shot for a 40 year old woman shit
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Damn 😂
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Her "accountable chip" malfunctioned when reality hit her with that logic question.. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂. I think she heard everything kendra was tryna tell her. She just didn’t wanna hear it
I agree . The reality check is where she "lost connection" girl get outta here .
@@tayloralliease8013 😂
This is sad. She is literally years away from retirement. Retirement meaning, mostly living off an accumulated income. If this man is retired, his annual income may be $30K.
God willing, if I make it to 60, I would hope that my house is paid off and I no longer have any major bills. I would not need make anywhere close to 100k to ball out to live a fun life.
...Nah, she looking for an old deacon earning 40k a year as a janitor @Chicago Public Schools 😂
As Kevin Samuels used to say.. name a product that you can charge higher prices for after it has been heavily used. This show has went from being a dating show to a fantasy show.
"YOU CAN'T MAKE THIS SHIT UP!"-K.S.
It’s not a man, but it can be a woman. prostitution proves him wrong. He would know that since he paid for that tranny he became deceased with
People are Not Products. She can raise her standards
@@Bree48646 everything in this world gets rated and ranked. When you go for a job interview you are most definitely a product marketing yourself to some company. Putting yourself on a dating site or dating app is no different ... you're a product trying to sell yourself.
@@bernardtalbert6729 Yes and she can also be over Qualified for the job. That’s not a good comparison
I would think at 61 years old she would just want a nice companion who was able to travel with her. He might be retired with a nice retirement egg, but to put an amount on what he has to make at this point in time I think is unnecessary.
A $100K isn't alot of money but only 10% or less make that much. See how that works. 🤦🏿♂️
100k isnt necessarily “a lot” of money , but it puts you in the top 18% of all earners in all of the US. Its still a rare salary in comparison.
Exactly and people who say it's not a lot live in some expensive asS state like California where 100k gets you a closet space😅and skid row.
There's 340+ million people in the US and the 18% are spread across 50 states. Its simple math. Those people are concentrated in select cities. So what seems like it's normal and easy to do is because people don't know what stats are😅
I took a statistics class. Hated it. But ks brought alot of info to light and I was able to research for myself
As a single guy with little debt and no kids in Texas, 100k a year is allot of money
@@kanamekiyru yes sir! I am from Oklahoma and i just hit the 100k+ mark, no wife or kids and i live like a king.
@ultimatepower65 facts folks always say "its not that much" then come spend it. I probably spend $60k out of about $85-88k take home i literally would have to go down an irresponsible hole in order to spend it all
At her age, thats slim. Best of luck to her. I love your honesty and truthfulness Kendra.
That is anorexic at that point. She is looking for 2 pensions.
To none
Kendra stepping up the truth.
Slim to zero is her reality she has hit the wall a billion times over
@@slinkiegirl2001 that wall beat her azz
Even at 61 they are still insane.
"Ancient spirits of evil, transform this decayed form to Mumm-Ra, the Ever-Living!" - Thundercats
Bruh....you got me falling out😂🤣!! You jeopardizing my attempt at a GodlyLife!!!
SMH. Log off. Just. Log off now.
Stop it!!!🤣🤣🤣
I see we have a 90s baby 😁
This young lings will never understand the joy of watching ThunderCats on Saturday mornings 😁
Gold!! You win!!
The only way to really raise your standards is to apply higher standards to yourself. Because then you're on the same wavelength with people of higher standards. If you change nothing about yourself for the better then nothing changes.
Kendra's commentary at the end was the Gospel. Don't pass over a great person who will truly love you and may even be God-sent just because of their salary. You could be missing your true Blessing. 💯
"Can you see my legs?"
*Walks outside*
"Can you see my legs" (same pose)
"Oh, you can't see because I'm outdoors"
No, we can't see your legs because you're literally doing the same pose you did when you were inside the house.
Then, she wasn't talking but kept asking "Kendra, can you hear me?" What are we supposed to be hearing? Silence?? Kendra asked you a question. She'll be able to hear you when you answer it. Chile, I can't with some of these elders. Playing little games at 61.
The last sentence in this video is what a lot of people don't have the capacity to comprehend. There's a lot more sustainability in building what you want out of life together with someone you love & vice versa, as opposed to feeling like you deserve what you desire and attaining that through "manifestation" by simple request while not being introspective on why you haven't attained that which you seek yet. Simply wanting a high figure person so you can live in their tax bracket is not conducive to having a long-standing relationship with that individual because you're just entering into what they've built for themselves and haven't proven how you would be an invaluable piece in their life other than possibly becoming another expense. That's one of the reasons why the question "What can you bring to the table?" became such a popular metaphor because so many people have these audacious requirements in their dating prospects without feeling like they need to work on themselves or show how they can improve someone's life (even minimally) without becoming a liability. It's better to build success together as a cohesive unit instead of trying to grasp the coattails of someone else's success, and when you become flippant or a better option presents themselves, you're left at where you started before.
I agree with everything stated 👍
FACTS!!!!
Tldr
You worded this perfectly
perfect
No man who makes 100k a year would pursue a 61 yo woman who tends to overtalk & be bullheaded. That is truly impossible. Something that cannot happen. She said it is not impossible & she is wrong. It is impossible.
And not even a GOOD looking 61 year old no offense😬
Women love to hold on to that 1 percent possibility as opposed to the 99 percent probability that they aint never going to get what they are looking for
@@ejay2075 Absoutely. What is that about? They love to dream about the possible. And life passes them by while they are dreaming. And social media certainly hasn't helped.
there are a lot of men making $100K; who don't want anymore children; and who are looking for a companion.
$100k at 61 years old isn’t really that big of a deal.
6:42 that lady knew damn well what Kendra sled she just didn’t have a good enough answer to reply then she kept acting as if her phone was cutting up three times she bugging frfr.
She's in her 60s and wants to quit working. She wants a man to financially support her indefinitely
That's 100% her fault. Should have gotten a Union job in her 20's with a Pension. Or, she should have acquired a useful degree.
@@R.Yvette.X.The correct answer is she should've found a husband in her 20s
@@awesomehigames She should have done both at the same time. Job is for herself. There's no guarantee on the husband.
@@awesomehigames Yup! ladies in your 20s and 30s , hell bent on following this "i dont want to settle" modern mindset this is what yall gonna look like in 30 years working to survive alone and raising your price steadily til your excuse for being alone just becomes 'no one can afford me'
@@awesomehigames She did say that she was once married. Idk what age she did marry
THE internet has detroyed society. Even the elders have even lost their sense, let alone wisdom. Its truly sad especially because this is very common even at her age. She should playing with grandchildren and greatgrandchildren spoiling them.
It so easy for a woman to get a man but they put every obstacle they can think of in their own way.
This world is doomed. Ladies fairytales dont exist. Never have.
If men of all income levels were nicer it would be a lot different.
Hoooooool-Up.......👵🏾Nanna, who told you that there were a group of 🧑🏾💼HVM in line to spoil you????
I know right! The BM she is looking for DO NOT have that kind in f money😂. She need to specify she is open to all races of men and Nanna will easily find what she is looking for.
she watched so many get one her and repeat the same lines so why not
If she didn’t get a 100k man between the ages of 18-60 what makes her so confident now
It happened for someone else so now she wants to try and they told her that they meant online dating 😂😂😂😂
I usually don't go against what women want, but I feel like if you're not at the age where you're going to extend your family (have children/saving for tuition and everything else that goes with that) 100k shouldn't be such a strict standard. You can still live a happy and fulfilling life with less. At this point asking for 100k has become a trend.
Facts!!! Sadly Most don't qualify
Especially at 61. Men who want to talk to her are likely to be retired or close to it. So it’s less about income and more about money management and what you are living off of.
But she’ll overlook all those men living comfortably off their retirement with their house paid off and minimal bills. Can’t tell these women anything.
Sheep regurgitating what they believe they're supposed to seek.
I can think of a whole lot of things empty nesters can do with 100k. Besides travel, they could be fattening up insurance policies for those children that they paid tuition for. They could have an old house to remodel. They may need to start handling some health issues that they put off. They may want to spoil their grandchildren. Yall gotta stop it man. Possibly having a nice excess of money doesn't turn into a bad thing just because you're older. I can't believe yall are really saying this.
@@karmengreene9611 Okay, good point!
Girl at your age look for a good man that don’t come with 2 much baggage. U should already have your own bag
The message at the end👏🏿Kendra is truly trying to help y’all women out… Hope y’all in a place to receive it 👍🏿 well done Kendra
nah, not at all.
These chicks dont want help. Helpful advise has been flying around for the past 3-4 years & all we have seen is them fight against the help & shame the help. This is why soo many will die alone. Which I think they want because they know they cant even give the bare minimum of what most men want. They just want to be the ones shooting out demands & expectations.
@@slangtang6671 Yep its so sad they really won't learn , keep repeating the same mistakes expecting different results and its always someone elses fault
They can't accept it thinking Kendra is over 45 and never been married nor have had children. Thinking unrealistically. Ijs
You raised your Standards on that 60 year old Box that Collect Years of Dusty. Bye Grandma you half Hundred what man wants your old Box.
At 61!!!! 😂😂😂😂 church or homeless shelter your best bet.
She needs to go to steppin events. Her best bet to find someone her age.
@@mayaaisha facts and she's in Chicago !!
@@mayaaishaAgreed!
EXACTLY!!!!! and i'm 56@@mayaaisha
Acting like she can't hear Kendra when she asked her about her unrealistic standard of a man needing to make atleast 100k .... 😆
She's a 61yr old caregiver, wants him to make $100K. HOW much does she make??
She is so far out the game it’s going to take God.
😂
@6.36 Lisa went deaf when Kendra try to advise her
Traveling caregivers make a lot of money and with black women the more money they make the more money they expect the man to make. That’s fine. She can have her standards but I feel so bad for her.
That is a lie! She is not making a lot of money and is on the show trying to make a come up. It’s amazing how the stats in America say one thing BUT everyone on Kendra’s show are the top 5% and commentators.
She has a better chance winning the Powerball or Mega Millions 😂😂😂😂
Her train has left the station a long time ago.
I noticed when Kendra asked her about wanting men in that tax bracket her attitude and facial expression changed.
Anything is possible, thru God..... He will do it, continue praying for that special someone Lisa
I like this attitude. However you should set some bars. If you haven't met him and married by age 40 are you still going to wait on God? What if the Man God has for you will never make 100k? Are you okay with no man at 62?
You think God is going to be supportive of someone looking to be "spoiled" and having a 100K income requirement? You think God views those men of being more worthy than men who have less means? Lol. According to her standards Jesus wouldn't even be qualified yet you believe God is going to satisfy her worldly fantasies 😂
@@R.Yvette.X. When U pray to God u don’t have to pray for smaller things, U pray for bigger things
@@R.Yvette.X. Some get married at 70, point with women over 50 & not married they settle for anything, because the fear of age…. But when you wait on God you will know when that’s the one & you get the Very Best! 😃
@user-dn6vg6mk6h I don't doubt she can get married. I doubt she can get married to someone in their 60's and still making 100k annually. Consider the soil.
She is beautiful and she doesn't look no where near her age. Good luck Lisa on your dating journey. I have seven years to get to your age, I pray I still look that good when I become that age. No one thinks I am 53 I will be 54 in six months. Good luck again in your dating journey. Wow I wonder does traveling care givers make good money like traveling nurses? I know that regular care givers don't make that much money.
At 61 still delusional at best
Wants a man in the top 17% of incomes and one in Chicago. Good luck to her on this journey
Absolutely amazing she should be looking for basic companionship at her age six figures to do what really doesn't matter cause he ain't out there
She kinda resembles my great aunt a little bit. All the middle age adults that come on here is surprising because most older individuals are not in tune with social media. And they complain about how our generation stay glued to cell phones all the time.
FINALLY Kendra was 💯 Instagram has everyone desiring what someone else has. Particularly their LIFESTYLE!
See how she said she didn't have standards b4 because she was "God fearing" ? Pay attention gents! Notice as of recent all the women want a God fearing man? I've been saying it... it's cuz they believe that type of person will put up with their nonsense and lack standards! Pay attention!
Anything and everything is possible but here you are at 61 still single and delusional. Anything is possible but that doesn't make it probable. too many people get on the show thinking they're the exception to defy logic, economics, and simple math.
It's not a bad strategy, it's just annoying. A woman can come on and cast a wide net and shoot for the stars.. Of course when the interview is done she'll just take what she can get.
When Kendra called her on it, she admitted these requirements are just her talking. Lol 100k tuned into 50k real quick. Most of them are like this. None of them are turning down dick.
There is no way im talkin to her on the phone for months without physical interaction while she is putting her career in front of me. She wants a relationship, leading to marriage as she's traveling the world. I couldn't be faithful doing THAT.
she gonna be waiting for that backstock for a long while. why get a high mileage car when you can get a new car for the same price and runs better without any hiccups, no check engine light
🙂 there’s that passport bros, MGTOW, red pill, 1 fish 2 fish no fish talk lolol comparing women to cars 👍🏽
Next up! “Market value, fit feminine and friendly, and 304s.” Lord Jesus come quick 😅
1000 right
@@mrenae6798 you mean like 6 figures, 6 feet, travel, narcissist, god fearing, emotionally available 😂
Young and cute likes young and cute. It's not just a matter of what is available. It's a matter of what you can get.
She's at work and on a internet dating show, is she serious!
*Katt Williams voice* UMM…. MAM… 🤦🏽♂️
To be straight up with you ,the 61 year old guys I know that makes 80k or better want younger women.
In this episode titled "What you say Willis?" Friday Foster (Kendra G) has an enlightening conversation with Lisa from Chicago. Lisa, a 61-year-old caregiver with a kind heart, is looking for love in her golden years. Lisa desires the fundamentals in a man, but she admits to wanting to be spoiled. What was she thinking when she said that in front of Friday? Lisa shamelessly blurts out $100,000 when Friday asks if she has a salary requirement.The KOUSINS' fingers begin to burst as they type "chile please!", "get in line!", and "I know you're lying!" Lisa giggles her way down to 70k, but Friday suspects she's just attempting to placate the audience. Friday presses this salary requirement after a couple of follow-up questions. Lisa employs an age-old diversion technique (pretend you can't hear, static on the line, English as a second language), but you can't get past Friday's pursuit of a great story.Lisa must eventually admit that she is merely dipping her toe into the cashy waters. Friday explains that they are not giving out 100,000 men like Now and Laters, which takes the sting out of it. Friday delves a little deeper into the difference between creating your reality and acknowledging your reality, and Lisa has never seen a $100,000 bill, but she's sticking to her guns. Lisa admits she can be a little stubborn, and Friday gives her the smiling eyes face. Friday brings the episode to a close by enlightening everyone. When you're scrolling through social media, your eyes widen and you start wanting what others have, but the grass isn't always greener on the other side. 💜
Lisa know good and damn well she heard Kendra the first time 😂
Just think about how many women stand in their own way of potentially being able to have a meaningful relationship by having this type of unrealistic way of thinking. 🤦🏾♂️
Plot twist...... this is the future of every modern day 304 city girl, that winter ❄️ long and brutal as hell
A woman's test of loyalty is presented when her man is unsuccessful.
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@@IlllIlllIlllIlllbetter bachelor for sure. Oshay is steady chasing clout and scandals or what he perceives as important scandals.
@@IlllIlllIlllIlll
*PsycHacks* with Orion Taraban
When you support them when they’re unsuccessful they leave you for their preference.
A man's test of loyalty is presented when he becomes successful.
It's the knowledge at the end of this video Kendra was dropping for me....❤❤
Caregivers dont make 100k...unless she is a RN..or the sort...
Am just confused at this point even grandma you have to be making 100k to date her. If i should be honest she don't even looks like 2k