When will people realize having a child with someone is way more of a commitment than marriage. I can divorce you, I can’t get rid of a child. All those kids and not one wedding.
EXACTLY! It blows me away how irresponsible people are with their reproduction. Who you decide to lay down with and have a child with is the most important decision you will ever make. It literally changes the course of your life and generations to come. But, people will say you're judgmental for saying that you should make smarter choices 🤦🏾♀️
@Tavi-Vision.... I know right. He probably doesn't have a chance to be a normal kid. Always have to run and grab a bottle or diaper to help out. Poor baby. I know he be happy when he goes to school for a break 😮💨
Somehow I doubt it. The males are almost never put in the position of having to help take care of his younger siblings. I bet money it's the oldest girl that never gets the break. A significant reason why girls are opting out of motherhood.
@@mr.simmtheprofessor2919 so that means 90 percent of BM impregnate multiple women and don’t take care of them sooooo there’s that. BTW EYE DO NOT HAVE KIDS.
@@beedubbya2278 90% of men in history period didn’t have children, let alone just BM. It’s the same group of BM with multiple kids by multiple women. These women have unprotected sex with men who already have multiple kids and baby mommas and complain later. I swear y’all hustle backwards and complain about your own choices
Makes no sense. It’s just further evidence of zero accountability. She could have made him wear protection but didn’t, AND she chose to carry the pregnancy to term.
@@qcarter396 She didn't " let him" do anything. Isn't this was submission looks like? Lol but yall are on that " SHE LET HIM". Or "SHE SHOULD HAVE MADE HIM" LOL Maybe while yall are at it you can tell those women that got stabbed 16 times or shot 9 times by a black man that they LET HIM murder them lol! Maybe they are in a casket SLEEPING. Go wake them up and tell them to stop playing dead! 🤡
I'm convinced Kendra is just scribbling on a piece of paper because the way she repeat asks questions while looking down at her "notes" be confusing me.
Well.... The reality is...These are the real people of the world we live in....THIS IS IT .... We all have some sort of issue, problems, or situations that are not so great in our lives. And the rich and famous are even worse so......
No accountability. This happens because as a community we don’t put any social pressure on people for making terrible decisions. The culture is broken and women putting up with this is a huge part of the problem.
How is this no accountability? She stayed. She’s taking care of these children. She could have put them all up for adoption. Should she walk around depressed and say it’s over for her in order to make you feel she’s being accountable? Yes she’s in a messed up situation but saying she lacks humility and is not accountable is a reach.
@@Glamorus126 she is not accountable. Accountability is her not having this many kids with a drug addict. She could have stopped at 1 child. And by making excuse for her behavior, we will never break the cycle of evolving. It’s just never ending excuses.
Excuse me their are over 20 forms of birth control she could have used but no the D was that good she allowed a drug addict to impregnate her 6 times were are her parents this story is embarrassing for BW.
Hey Storm! Actually, the law of diminishing returns kicks in after the 3rd child. There is a cap on how much you get in Earned Income Credit. Also, if she isn't making a ton of money, that is also a hinderance. The only way she'll get any money after the 3rd kid is if she allows the fathers to carry them, or some other family member that is contributing to the household. These children can only benefit her by getting on section 8 or food stamps smh. She really just needs to sit down somewhere because it seems that everybody that comes in here now is a "nurse", "home health aide", or "entrepreneur." She's so embarrassing 🙄😒
But she's an "excellent mother"...Meanwhile, kids flying all over the damn car! Anita arse mess. This is what happens when you allow people to rate themselves. A hot mess!
You know our standards are low as a community when the first thing I thought of when she started listing the ages of her kids was "Oh, at least she was 18 when her first child was born”🤦🏾♀️
I respect Kendra giving everyone a chance but we need sections of this dating show. Like straight people night, single people with no children night, people with careers and degrees night, wealthy people night… and this should be on certain days. Respectfully and this will make things easier for the regular normal people.
LMFAO! Nope.....won't happen! Kendra knows exactly what she's doing and what videos to post....to make money. KG accepts many calls per show but she "Highlights" these for a reason. She makes more money when she shows the disfunction and delusion in OUR community. Read between the lines. FACTS!
Lord take the wheel. I'm married 38 with a 17 year old son in college and an 8 year old with the same father. And I'm done 🙄 As a Social worker I see this everyday.
When Kg asked her about the car, I immediately thought why 😱 because I've seen it before, there is no safety for so many small kids. (Too much car seats would take up space) Every journey is 🙏
She not doing nothing but opening the door for predators to come and take advantage of a single mother. Now she wants to bring a stranger around her kids. Why can't these women just wait until there kids are grown they obviously make poor decisions 🙄
Not everyone is built to have patience with children..... especially very young children. She has 8 that she must be mindful of....If I'm not with the father of all my children, I wld be too exhausted to deal with any other man.
Monthly on the news I see stories of children who were killed due to physical trauma by “boyfriends” (sometimes girlfriends) of the mother while they are at work or out of the home because the child did something children do. Most unrelated strangers don’t have the same patience for children that SOME related loved ones have.
I was wondering if somebody caught that! That shit isn't funny at all! That's extremely dangerous. My child is 7 and still in a car seat! I'm scared anytime she isn't buckled in correctly. Wtf wrong with these ppl man
Either that or they’ve never watched an episode because……..WTF?!! I have a one year old, and if I was single I can’t imagine trying to date, my son takes so much of my time, my man barely gets the attention he needs. I find it hard to believe you can be a “active “parent of 8 with 7 of them under 10 and date!
In any other community you would straight-up assume she's trolling, but in the black community you know she's being deadass serious. She really expects a good brotha to step up and take care of Pookie's kids. FOH
Not all black women are like this. In most foreign countries this is a sin. Only America it’s okay to keep producing kids with several men w/out commitment. And the men that keep leaving her are black men.
@@F3f3333, it's true, I'm partially of Jamaican descent (Grandfather was from Spanish Town) and yes it's rife on the islands too. More women need to understand how much it lowers your relationship value in the eyes of respectable men. Having kids as a divorcee is bad enough, but having kids out of wedlock with low value riff raff is pretty much a game ender.
She says the amount of kids doesn't matter, and she's a good woman. Her past decisions will help determine her future choices. Fellas run don't walk away from this woman!!!
My mother had 9 kids & she found love! He was a 6 figure earner and worked for the government. He married her after a year of them dating ! My stepfather was amazing and taught me so much about life. He spoiled my mother with a car and a stable home . He paid for everything while she still worked as a retail manager . He passed away 3 years ago 😢 He was definitely heaven sent
How many kids did he have before your mother came? Also, that was probably decades ago that's most likely not going to happen today because men are smarter and life is way more expensive. But salute to that superhero stepfather. he's one in a billion literally.
how does she not understand that someone with 8 kids is an INCREDIBLE liability and commitment whether theyre taking care of them or not. just the fact you have to tell your mother or father "yeah i'm seeing this women and she has 8 kids" 😂😭 everyone's gonna be like GET OUTTA THERE 😩
It's only natural to try to paint her situation better than it actually is. Otherwise she would have to accept the reality that no man with his wits about him and himself together would get into a serious relationship with her or any other woman with that many children.
She’s a liability financially, emotionally, personally. Her baby daddies are liabilities to the new partners safety. The fact that she is already looking for a new partner already. Insane.
Right. Girl you have 6 kids with the same man that couldn’t get his act together? Then why keep trying to work things out and having more children while you are trying to work it out? Do something else instead of getting pregnant each time.
@@odog76543 that's such a good point, she is just a person after all and we all do that in some sense but at some point you just have to wake up like you said. when she accepts the reality of it all it's gonna sting like nothing else 🙃🥲
Was going to date w/ a chick with 6 kids lol. Bruh. She told me since she bartends it’ll be $300 to take her out on the weekends (That’s what she averages). I told her Good Luck with that. Her response was “I don’t like cheap men”. Told her there’s a reason I have money and you don’t. Being smart with your money doesn’t mean cheap. She was super pissssssed lol. Hung up the phone mid rant and was like “Why would I date a bitch w/ 6 kids”. Pussy clouds the mind sometimes lol
This is kind of sad😢 there is no way that she’s able to properly raise 8 kids in todays world. If all 8 kids wanted to play sports, join a club, go to college, etc is she able to afford that? On top of that I’m assuming she’s going to work a lot to be able to somewhat afford these children so how is she mentally and emotionally there for all 8 kids? & she sees nothing wrong at 28 having 8 kids & worried about a man
The fact that she’s laughing that she doesn’t put her one year old and three year old in car seats is terrible. A friend of mine cousin did the same thing and her three year old went through her wind shield, and died when she got into a car accident WTF😮
About a year ago, I had my 4 year old daughter in the back of my car in a car seat. A police convoy escorting a funeral on the oncoming side of the 2 lane road was approaching, so I pulled over on the partial shoulder and stopped, along with cars in front of me. I noticed an SUV in my rear view mirror flying towards us like it didn't see me or the police convoy. It slammed into the back of my car, pushes us into the grass past the shoulder. Turned the back of my car into an accordion. Fortunately the car seat did its job and my daughter was checked by paramedics and was uninjured. I was ok as well. Totalled my car and the people who hit me. Those car seats and seat belts will save lives, and it ain't no joke driving around with your kid unprotected by one.
@@alexisjankowski3281 they just trying to hit her and quit her. The more kids you have the more easy you are in a man’s mind, especially if they’re by multiple men. 8 kids means she looks to fuq
8 (illegitimate) babies, not one Husband, unbelievable... This Baby-Mama is apparently only good for hitting the sheets, but "not" good for meeting at the Altar- (Proof's in the Pudding)... Thank you for sharing, Ms. K.G!💌
Her laughing at the fact that sometimes her toddlers are not in car seats all the time shows her maturity level and you are wondering why men don’t take you seriously 🙄 Girl get your life pls
My husbands grandmother had 8 kids by 25 & divorced , she was able to find a stepfather for her kids that was a good provider & loved everything about her, it was also in the 60/70s when u could put 8 kids in one station wagon with one seatbelt. I don’t even know how people manage logistics of a large family now a days. Good luck to her & her kids.
@@perrymcnee7365 TRUE! His auntie told me, once Willie came around we never had to worry about food or school clothes again, I can’t imagine but God bless him 🙏🏽 Same auntie talked about her (not so great) food when she passed, his reply was she was a GOOD woman, she was, chocolate with dimples & a sweet voice.
That was back than when willie earl was cheating also and didn’t have any standards. Men know have a little bit more standards and shit, which is a good thing.
I was childless till I was 36. I'm very thankful I only have 1. I also am a home owner, have a good career, and take care of my kid. Unfortunately fathers not in picture like he should. I loath companionship, however getting into a relationship with someone without kids is difficult and prefer not to because there's always this feeling that you have an expectation you want them to play step dad, which is never the case with me or just made a bad decision. I'm also never bringing any man around my kid unless I'm marrying the person. The world's just different nowadays.
Her decision making skills have left the chat cuz she thought having 6 kids by an abusive, substance abuser was logical and proceeded. This is a liability..
She doesn’t deserve any chances. She had babies with a druggie and is saying the new man needs to have his own car and house already. She’s looking for help and sympathy
I have a 10 yr old and still have to be diligent and cautious while dating. I couldn't imagine having that many kids and still worried about dating. I'd personally be too exhausted
Exactly. I have a 5 year old and I don’t even date. Like why risk the kids well being? Just get your life together and make friends doing what you love. That’s when the right person usually comes along anyway.
😳 she literally said “sometimes” to the car seat question… she’s not right in the head. Something is seriously wrong and she needs help. God please lay your protection over her and them children.
take it from me... there is something going on (emotional and/or psychological) with her. There's trauma SOMEWHERE within her. I truly hope she finds the help she needs as well as the kids
When does she have time to date? I don't understand how that is going to work. Kids in that age group need a lot of love, nurturing, guidance and attention.
@@randlestevenson That's what dating is today?I thought dating was actually going out to a museum, concert, the park, poetry reading, regatta or somewhere to talk and learn about each other.
@james smith yea it should be that, but who's got the space to watch 8 kids all under the age of ten for you and her go to a museum. she most likely can't actually date but I'd bet she doesn't want to go without intimacy regardless if that
The amount of kids doesn't really matter 😂😂😂 I only have 2 baby's fathers 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 She's a comedian! She's convinced she's the prize, with no liabilities, and hence no humility. But she seems nice so you go qween!
Give it up lady You’ve done your mission in life by having 8 children, its time to grow in your spiritual life so you can raise those kids the best way you can. The only relationship you need is with yourself.
@lizettemuna3234 LMFAO! That woman's actions doesn't need to be "coddled". She deserves every reaction she gets.....from women and men and respectful or not! FACTS!!! That sounded good though! 🤣🤣🤣
I been saying this for the longest, we need to implement sex education and family values in our community because clearly they're nonexistent, she has a great spirit about her but her decision making was less than impressive. All we need is love in the world, anybody looking for it shouldn't get penalize but at the same time a relationship should benefit both two ppl not one. Good vibes only
It's sad but I think it's an intelligence issue at this point. If you have half a brain you know having 8 kids with no plan or husband is a terrible idea. I don't think she has the foresight to stop having kids. I'm 100% sure she knew what condoms and plan B were when she had them. She really needed people who would hold her accountable and get her into a better environment. What community allows it to get that far?
How can she laugh at not putting her kids in safety seats? Then call herself a great mom?? She says she works she goes to school, there's no way she has enough time for the kids and to make time for another man. This stuff is unreal
She seems like such a wonderful woman she just has too much baggage 😢. Having 1 or 2 kids is do-able; A real man by nature is going to want to take care of you & your kids but that many children is too much time, money, and energy to invest is someone who can walk away at anytime. I wish her the best 😊
When will people realize having a child with someone is way more of a commitment than marriage. I can divorce you, I can’t get rid of a child. All those kids and not one wedding.
Kevin Samuels once said, "Each child is a husband"
Mama you have 8!
EXACTLY! It blows me away how irresponsible people are with their reproduction. Who you decide to lay down with and have a child with is the most important decision you will ever make. It literally changes the course of your life and generations to come. But, people will say you're judgmental for saying that you should make smarter choices 🤦🏾♀️
FACTS!!!!! I don't understand how women are so ok with having any man's baby and just moving on to the next
NOT ONE DAMN WEDDING!!! 😀🔫
Just shitteing them out.
I’m extremely curious how a single mother of 8 young children can afford life
Your tax money. Government assistance.
Bigger question is how she has time to date?? 8 kids??!???
She cant we are paying for those kids.
@@bigsnacks6485 Govt assistance cannot afford 2019 Ford Expedition.....
With the taxes you and I are paying! This is what our community is made up and no one is saying Stop!
8 kids at 28? I’ll be damned. You don’t need a man, you need to choose a sport and start training them all
😂😂😂😂😂 good one
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She is not 28...she is above 30...like most women she is lying as it may dry her dating pools...🎉
This is FACT!!
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Mother of 8 kids looking for love ! Girl you have all the love you need with all them damn kids
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Fa sho 😊
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I wish my son would come to me and say, “mama I met this girl and I like her a lot but she has 8 children” I would tell him he better unlike her.
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OK
Same.
Omg😂😂😂😂
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“The amount of kids doesn’t really matter” this woman is the definition delusional
Right. Male or female the amount of kids matter
the little old lady who lives in the shoe😔
It's all they hear from other women
@Nacholuva 😆 🤣 😂 😹 you're funny for that..
It doesn’t matter to her because it’s not her problem to deal with, the man has to tolerate it, and she could care less about that
Man, I know that 10 year old never gets a break 🤦🏾♀️.
@Tavi-Vision.... I know right. He probably doesn't have a chance to be a normal kid. Always have to run and grab a bottle or diaper to help out. Poor baby. I know he be happy when he goes to school for a break 😮💨
Poor baby
@@313GodIsMyBestie 😅😅😅
And he won't have children of his own for a long time coz he's already experienced fatherhood
Somehow I doubt it. The males are almost never put in the position of having to help take care of his younger siblings. I bet money it's the oldest girl that never gets the break. A significant reason why girls are opting out of motherhood.
8 kids at 28 years old is WILD!!!!
8 kids at 28 is wild!
Women used to do this in past generations, but they had a stable household.
It’s deplorable
It’s wild only because she’s not married and her situation isn’t stable. Had she been married to a man doing something, not wild.
Damn I’m 28 and now I don’t feel so bad about not having any yet. 😮
Like being catholic, but without any damn religion/guidance in sight.
I can't imagine spending my teens and 20s spitting out kids for a man that isn't my husband. Sheesh
Amen
That’s what 90% of our young BW do though
Exactly. There’s just no way!
@@mr.simmtheprofessor2919 so that means 90 percent of BM impregnate multiple women and don’t take care of them sooooo there’s that. BTW EYE DO NOT HAVE KIDS.
@@beedubbya2278 90% of men in history period didn’t have children, let alone just BM. It’s the same group of BM with multiple kids by multiple women. These women have unprotected sex with men who already have multiple kids and baby mommas and complain later. I swear y’all hustle backwards and complain about your own choices
Gurl, get off this show NOW!, focus on your kids!
This! ;because I don't buy her story .
How do you have kids then act like you don't have kids.
Girl, after 8 kids you HAVE to make it work with your baby dad. No man in hell is going to accept you and all that baggage. There’s no other option.
You don’t want those options who would find this situation beneficial.
Some of the men she dates will abuse her children
She is asking for it
You know our community is in the trash when a woman thinks saying "I only have two baby fathers" is in any way a positive attribute. Smh.
It's even sadder that I was thinking oh it's only 2 that's not bad. Even our expectations for each other are low.
😂😂
Literally!!!!
For 8 kids, I mean……
Facts
Well even a 6 figure man won’t be able to afford this 😂
Lol
"Then he's not a real man " they'll say
I need time to work on myself 😃 will probably be his response 🙃
a 6 figure man would be broke if he decided to take on that 🤔
Hahahaha
I like how she said her children's father had drug problems and was abusive, but she kept having kids by him.
You mean he kept knocking her up.
@@GoddessBlueYozakura7 what? She let him in unprotected.
Makes no sense. It’s just further evidence of zero accountability. She could have made him wear protection but didn’t, AND she chose to carry the pregnancy to term.
@@qcarter396 She didn't " let him" do anything. Isn't this was submission looks like? Lol but yall are on that " SHE LET HIM". Or "SHE SHOULD HAVE MADE HIM" LOL Maybe while yall are at it you can tell those women that got stabbed 16 times or shot 9 times by a black man that they LET HIM murder them lol! Maybe they are in a casket SLEEPING. Go wake them up and tell them to stop playing dead! 🤡
@@GoddessBlueYozakura7 accountability is like kryptonite.
Notice she never left him. He moved out. She still in love
Please concentrate on raising your precious children, they really need you❤️
I'm so grateful to have been born into the family I was. Having good parents is a blessing
Yes!!!!!
i was raised in a 2 parent married household and i give thanks for my traditional upbringing these modern woman have no control and loose
I swear
THIS! I remind myself of this every time I see stuff like this.
Sometimes parents do the best they can but kids choose their own crazy paths
I'm convinced Kendra is just scribbling on a piece of paper because the way she repeat asks questions while looking down at her "notes" be confusing me.
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They think that she listens, but she just hears them.🤣🤣🤣
I found her notes: 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Seriously!! Lol. Like what is she even writing
All due respect, Kendra needs to set minimum standard for this so-called "dating" show.
Kendra is about the money she makes from the show. It has nothing to do with dating at all.
Well....
The reality is...These are the real people of the world we live in....THIS IS IT .... We all have some sort of issue, problems, or situations that are not so great in our lives. And the rich and famous are even worse so......
Kendra: What do you do for a living?
Caller: Have kids😫
Facts… with 8 kids you ain’t got no job, talking about your a health aid, your strictly living off of us tax payers.
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Lol
@@A-Thomas and a student! I’m like: “HOW”? 🤷🏽♀️
@@NubianP6 Right 🤣🤣🤣
She works, goes to school and dates. You cannot convince me that these kids are properly cared for, hell, she can't even use a car seat.
Facts! Its sad with what little time she has she would give any man attention.
The logic with alot of single mothers is as long as the kids aren't dead they're properly being taken care of
She's too busy chasing pookies around
Her laughing at that car seat question was odd.
Great mom she says? Aight.
@@jamgee3069 women know that. They love lying to themselves🤔🤔😭😭😭
No accountability. This happens because as a community we don’t put any social pressure on people for making terrible decisions. The culture is broken and women putting up with this is a huge part of the problem.
Yet we aren't allowed to criticize them.
How is this no accountability? She stayed. She’s taking care of these children. She could have put them all up for adoption. Should she walk around depressed and say it’s over for her in order to make you feel she’s being accountable? Yes she’s in a messed up situation but saying she lacks humility and is not accountable is a reach.
@@Glamorus126 she is not accountable. Accountability is her not having this many kids with a drug addict. She could have stopped at 1 child.
And by making excuse for her behavior, we will never break the cycle of evolving. It’s just never ending excuses.
Excuse me their are over 20 forms of birth control she could have used but no the D was that good she allowed a drug addict to impregnate her 6 times were are her parents this story is embarrassing for BW.
This comment wraps it up!
How the hell do women with all these kids find time for anything other than their kids? I have two and I’m losing my mind and I’m married…
I know her income tax refunds are lit!!
Storm 😂🤣
Hey Storm! Actually, the law of diminishing returns kicks in after the 3rd child. There is a cap on how much you get in Earned Income Credit. Also, if she isn't making a ton of money, that is also a hinderance. The only way she'll get any money after the 3rd kid is if she allows the fathers to carry them, or some other family member that is contributing to the household. These children can only benefit her by getting on section 8 or food stamps smh. She really just needs to sit down somewhere because it seems that everybody that comes in here now is a "nurse", "home health aide", or "entrepreneur." She's so embarrassing 🙄😒
She make more off income taxes than she does in annual income.
@@ShaeJ_Shae lmao, girl you savage for that lol
DJ Torch would be perfect for her
8 kids sounds like 80 kids to a guy with no kids
It probably would feel like it too🫤
I agree, I'm a woman and it's still cringe. The ages of the kids, geesh!
I agree. I am coming home to all that is a bit much. Oh snaps, she wants more kids.
I have 3 and 8 still sounds like 80 to me.
@@angelacleveland75three sounds like 80 also.
28 with 8 kids 😮 ma’am you don’t have time to date. PleSe focus on your kids and heal.
The no car seats showed the ULTIMATE level of recklessness!!! 😮
She's too concerned about her baby daddy to make sure her children are properly secured.
Bingo
Yes she would be the same one saying she was just going down the street
But she's an "excellent mother"...Meanwhile, kids flying all over the damn car! Anita arse mess. This is what happens when you allow people to rate themselves. A hot mess!
I was so disappointed when she admitted this. Why are people so willing to admit their recklessness for everyone to know? This is sad.
You know our standards are low as a community when the first thing I thought of when she started listing the ages of her kids was "Oh, at least she was 18 when her first child was born”🤦🏾♀️
The first thing I said was at least she only had 2 instead of eight baby fathers 🤦🏿♂️
@@Thatbul that’s exactly what I thought 😂😂😂😂
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@Rodd 🇭🇹 I’m right there with you!
@Rodd 🇭🇹 Real talk, this show is an unofficial sociology of the black community.
I respect Kendra giving everyone a chance but we need sections of this dating show.
Like straight people night, single people with no children night, people with careers and degrees night, wealthy people night… and this should be on certain days.
Respectfully and this will make things easier for the regular normal people.
Totally agree!
And a " 0 to none" night. For people like this. So the other 0 to nones can tune in.
@@zionb5342 🤣
i agree!!!!
LMFAO! Nope.....won't happen! Kendra knows exactly what she's doing and what videos to post....to make money. KG accepts many calls per show but she "Highlights" these for a reason. She makes more money when she shows the disfunction and delusion in OUR community. Read between the lines. FACTS!
She needs to curse out every older women in her life that didn't pull her to the side and tell her to stop
FACT
Lord take the wheel. I'm married 38 with a 17 year old son in college and an 8 year old with the same father. And I'm done 🙄 As a Social worker I see this everyday.
Most times the children grow up and continue the madness
She thinks this makes sense …
@@sistrenyogigal3813 thats the crazy past. She's so happy and casual
Please spread your knowledge to younger black women.
Damn you had a baby at 21? That sucks.
"I'm a good mom"
The same mom who laughs at not having her kids in a car seat
Right!!! I caught that! That was sickening
Pretty sure it's illegal to have young children in a car without a car seat.
That car fits 8 so one kid gon have to stand or sit on the floor in that car. AND SHE WANTS MORE KIDS!
When Kg asked her about the car, I immediately thought why 😱 because I've seen it before, there is no safety for so many small kids. (Too much car seats would take up space)
Every journey is 🙏
Listennnnnnnnnn!!!
She not doing nothing but opening the door for predators to come and take advantage of a single mother. Now she wants to bring a stranger around her kids. Why can't these women just wait until there kids are grown they obviously make poor decisions 🙄
Facts!!!
Not everyone is built to have patience with children..... especially very young children.
She has 8 that she must be mindful of....If I'm not with the father of all my children, I wld be too exhausted to deal with any other man.
I agree
Exactly desperate goofball
Monthly on the news I see stories of children who were killed due to physical trauma by “boyfriends” (sometimes girlfriends) of the mother while they are at work or out of the home because the child did something children do. Most unrelated strangers don’t have the same patience for children that SOME related loved ones have.
The worst part of this, in my opinion, was her laughing about not putting her kids in car seats. 🤦🏾♀️
Very irresponsible of her‼️
Trifling
El sicko
I was wondering if somebody caught that! That shit isn't funny at all! That's extremely dangerous. My child is 7 and still in a car seat! I'm scared anytime she isn't buckled in correctly. Wtf wrong with these ppl man
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Let me answer the question for you…YES….1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8 KIDS MATTERS!!!!!!! End of discussion
Six kids by a druggie , 2 by another what sense does that make 😑🤔. Home health aid can’t possibly take care of a household of 9. Madness
She had a LOT of nerve calling into Kendra's dating show 🤦🏾♂️
lmaoo😂😂😂😂
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Nah she fits right in. Only like 2% of callers are actually viable anyways.
It was worth a try
well obviously she cant find a sucker locally so this is her best bet
Absolutely zero accountability smh
Zero
Kendra: Does he need to make a certain amount money
Me: Kendra, stop asking stupid questions. She got 8 god damn kids 🙄
Right, he just has to have a pulse!
...and no brains
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He would have to make atleast 100k at bare minimum! That's unlikely.
Screaming 😂😂😂
@@corasbloom and live in Alabama cause 100k in certain cities ain’t going far.
If “oh baby i like it raw” was a person 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Give me your phone Joe!!! Right now! Lmfaoooo. 😂😂😂😂😂
Shimi shimi yo shimi yo shimi yeah give me the mic so I can take it away 🤣
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Great. Now its in my head. Thank you, Sir. 😞
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She got 8 children... talking about she wants more because she only has one girl. So you gonna keep popping out kids until you get that girl??🤔🤦🏾♂️
Well I know the old saying one is not enough 😂🙂😂🙂😂🙂
dammm
Just straight up irresponsible especially in this economy. 🙄
Does she want to be the female Nick Cannon?
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8 kids and never married. Thats embarrassing sweetheart.
28 with 8 & looking for a serious date? Too Late! ✌🏿
Who's watching 8 kids while she go on a date🤔
6 go to the first bd & 2 go to the second bd, while she get her dating on ....NOT
WWWWAAAAAAYYYYYYY TOOOOOOOOOOOOOO LATE!!!! SMH
I’m starting to think these women like embarrassing themselves coming on this show😩
Either that or they’ve never watched an episode because……..WTF?!! I have a one year old, and if I was single I can’t imagine trying to date, my son takes so much of my time, my man barely gets the attention he needs. I find it hard to believe you can be a “active “parent of 8 with 7 of them under 10 and date!
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They so 🗑 🚮 and surrounded by other 🗑 women they don't even think it's weird.
It’s women nature.
Exactly my thoughts smh unbelievable 😒
In any other community you would straight-up assume she's trolling, but in the black community you know she's being deadass serious. She really expects a good brotha to step up and take care of Pookie's kids. FOH
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Not all black women are like this. In most foreign countries this is a sin. Only America it’s okay to keep producing kids with several men w/out commitment. And the men that keep leaving her are black men.
@@joannpost5209 Nah in Jamaica it is the same multiple kids with multiple daddies, the children are menace to society and lack social skills.
@@F3f3333 oh okay,. I didn’t know that. Very interesting. That’s very sad.
@@F3f3333, it's true, I'm partially of Jamaican descent (Grandfather was from Spanish Town) and yes it's rife on the islands too. More women need to understand how much it lowers your relationship value in the eyes of respectable men. Having kids as a divorcee is bad enough, but having kids out of wedlock with low value riff raff is pretty much a game ender.
"Only 2 baby fathers." That's wild that we have gotten to this point.
How many baby mommas do you have?
She says the amount of kids doesn't matter, and she's a good woman. Her past decisions will help determine her future choices. Fellas run don't walk away from this woman!!!
She will find one ( might be the wrong one ) but these women always find another to add more babies to the list .
@rogers5622 well he'll that's the problem she should know what to not do at this point
The way she said "Drug problems.", as if she didn't give that man 6 kids. 😳
MY GOD 😮, The amount of kids doesn’t matter ??? TWO sets of twins under 5 !!!! Just wow.
These are the moms that kids get molested they want sex so bad they bring anyone around their kids
Yes!! She don’t have the time to date fr!! I have twins and they are almost 10
8 kids,works and goes to school... wow... when does she find the time to date...
don't forget the 1 year old
@@cuzzitsmee father of twin boys here and they are EXPENSIVE and we a mid 6 figure household, couldn’t imagine two set of twins under 5.
My mother had 9 kids & she found love! He was a 6 figure earner and worked for the government. He married her after a year of them dating ! My stepfather was amazing and taught me so much about life. He spoiled my mother with a car and a stable home . He paid for everything while she still worked as a retail manager . He passed away 3 years ago 😢 He was definitely heaven sent
Pftt I’m happy it worked out for you, genuinely, but let’s call a spade a spade, that man is a sucker 🤦🏾♂️
@@grindseason7728Sad they think what he did is some sort of flex
God rest his soul . He was on in a trillion
How many kids did he have before your mother came?
Also, that was probably decades ago that's most likely not going to happen today because men are smarter and life is way more expensive. But salute to that superhero stepfather. he's one in a billion literally.
I love your comment ❤
how does she not understand that someone with 8 kids is an INCREDIBLE liability and commitment whether theyre taking care of them or not. just the fact you have to tell your mother or father "yeah i'm seeing this women and she has 8 kids" 😂😭 everyone's gonna be like GET OUTTA THERE 😩
It's only natural to try to paint her situation better than it actually is. Otherwise she would have to accept the reality that no man with his wits about him and himself together would get into a serious relationship with her or any other woman with that many children.
She’s a liability financially, emotionally, personally. Her baby daddies are liabilities to the new partners safety. The fact that she is already looking for a new partner already. Insane.
Right. Girl you have 6 kids with the same man that couldn’t get his act together? Then why keep trying to work things out and having more children while you are trying to work it out? Do something else instead of getting pregnant each time.
@@odog76543 that's such a good point, she is just a person after all and we all do that in some sense but at some point you just have to wake up like you said. when she accepts the reality of it all it's gonna sting like nothing else 🙃🥲
Was going to date w/ a chick with 6 kids lol. Bruh. She told me since she bartends it’ll be $300 to take her out on the weekends (That’s what she averages). I told her Good Luck with that. Her response was “I don’t like cheap men”. Told her there’s a reason I have money and you don’t. Being smart with your money doesn’t mean cheap. She was super pissssssed lol. Hung up the phone mid rant and was like “Why would I date a bitch w/ 6 kids”. Pussy clouds the mind sometimes lol
These females are so bold! 8 kids! 28 y/o!Momma you need therapy and a long time of self reflection and being honest with yourself.
6 of the kids are from the same man, the other two are from 2 have a different Dad. I had to rewind to make sure I understood fully lol
She said "I only have 2 baby daddies"... like that's an accomplishment. She also said the amount of kids doesn't matter.
She is delusional as hell.
She said "I only have 2 baby daddies"... like that's an accomplishment. She also said the amount of kids doesn't matter.
She is delusional as hell.
She has six by one man and two by another, not six different men.
@@DanteFortson In all fairness she had 2 sets of twins lmao
Cautionary tale ladies: this is what happens when you lack standards boundaries and expectations!
Finally,someone that says what I am thinking
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Some people do not live like that and we would not have to if society wasn't so oppressive. Having kids is natural.
@@bopbop11 Yes, having kids is natural. However, lacking standards, boundaries, & expectations will come with a HEAVY price tag.🏷️
Sooooo true
Audacity is at an all time high!! Focus on those kids!!!! Be an amazing mother!!! Pray for strength!! No man will save her SMH
Alllllll time high!!!
Them 7 boys about to wreak havoc in the black community.
The gas alone in an Ford Expedition would eat up the income of a home health aid. FOH!!
So she got dumped by an abusive , unemployed drug addict whom she has 6 kids with 🤦🏽♀️. Damn
Right 😂😂😂
Girl you ain’t got to give EVERY man a baby
This is kind of sad😢 there is no way that she’s able to properly raise 8 kids in todays world. If all 8 kids wanted to play sports, join a club, go to college, etc is she able to afford that? On top of that I’m assuming she’s going to work a lot to be able to somewhat afford these children so how is she mentally and emotionally there for all 8 kids? & she sees nothing wrong at 28 having 8 kids & worried about a man
Oh, you better believe we're financially raising her kids!
😁8 dependents does look great during income tax time
Exactly shameful.
@@drinkwatereatmelons7048The money won’t last long. The cost of raising them far exceeds the refund.
She needs SOMEONE to help She NEEDS a man
The fact that she’s laughing that she doesn’t put her one year old and three year old in car seats is terrible. A friend of mine cousin did the same thing and her three year old went through her wind shield, and died when she got into a car accident WTF😮
Oh wow, that’s terrible. It’s definitely not a joke and unfortunately it takes these type of situations for people to learn.
My cousins Grandma didn't put her in her car seat either, she also died at 4 years old 🙏🏼🥺
About a year ago, I had my 4 year old daughter in the back of my car in a car seat. A police convoy escorting a funeral on the oncoming side of the 2 lane road was approaching, so I pulled over on the partial shoulder and stopped, along with cars in front of me. I noticed an SUV in my rear view mirror flying towards us like it didn't see me or the police convoy. It slammed into the back of my car, pushes us into the grass past the shoulder. Turned the back of my car into an accordion. Fortunately the car seat did its job and my daughter was checked by paramedics and was uninjured. I was ok as well. Totalled my car and the people who hit me. Those car seats and seat belts will save lives, and it ain't no joke driving around with your kid unprotected by one.
Same happened to my cousin. Had her Newborn in a 2 Door truck (In the Front) , got into an accident, the baby flew through the Windshield and died 😢.
My heart goes out to all the young ladies and men in the world who didn't have a good role model. No judgment, just heartbreaking 💔
I feel bad for her. And she has no idea.
Everybody without role models don't do things like this
People have role models
People just do what they want and don't care about the kids
Some women think having kids is a flex
Glad my mom was born in a different era, different generation, I’m so grateful.
Amen
Me too. I’m glad all the women in my family get married before having babies
8 kids??? She puttin' up Pookie numbers.
The delusion of some of these women is incredible. No quality man that has anything going for himself is going to come into this situation.
She said the amount of kids she has doesn’t matters 🥴 I’m sleep who would want to sign up for that. 😂
Exactly! She’s extremely delusional!!
What gets me is those dings going off after she gave her info. If those are messages from men, there is a significant number of delusional men, too.
@@alexisjankowski3281 right
@@alexisjankowski3281 they just trying to hit her and quit her. The more kids you have the more easy you are in a man’s mind, especially if they’re by multiple men. 8 kids means she looks to fuq
8 (illegitimate) babies, not one Husband, unbelievable... This Baby-Mama is apparently only good for hitting the sheets, but "not" good for meeting at the Altar- (Proof's in the Pudding)...
Thank you for sharing, Ms. K.G!💌
Her laughing at the fact that sometimes her toddlers are not in car seats all the time shows her maturity level and you are wondering why men don’t take you seriously 🙄 Girl get your life pls
My husbands grandmother had 8 kids by 25 & divorced , she was able to find a stepfather for her kids that was a good provider & loved everything about her, it was also in the 60/70s when u could put 8 kids in one station wagon with one seatbelt. I don’t even know how people manage logistics of a large family now a days. Good luck to her & her kids.
My mother was the same. She met my dad with 7 kids and my stepdad with 8 kids after having me.
@@ebonyessence8 damn. Bless his heart, bless his heart.
And also kids listen to step dads back then
@@perrymcnee7365 TRUE! His auntie told me, once Willie came around we never had to worry about food or school clothes again, I can’t imagine but God bless him 🙏🏽 Same auntie talked about her (not so great) food when she passed, his reply was she was a GOOD woman, she was, chocolate with dimples & a sweet voice.
That was back than when willie earl was cheating also and didn’t have any standards. Men know have a little bit more standards and shit, which is a good thing.
Imagine being in a house with 8 kids, how could you sleep for work? Groceries must be 2k per month, weekends 10 box of pizza 🤦🏽
A sleep routine & you make homemade pizzas when you have that many kids😊
Way more than 2k
Then imagine doing it with eight kids that aren’t yours… delusion is at an all time high
@@Sensoredcensored who wants pizza with hotdogs on them?
She's her very own Brady Bunch. "Here's the story, of a reckless lady, who was raising 7 boys and a little girl."
Baby #9 in the near future!
😂😂😂😂 lol why did I actually sing the song using the words of your post 😂😂
Lol, me too
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 why did I sing in in my head with the Brady Bunch melody
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I was childless till I was 36. I'm very thankful I only have 1. I also am a home owner, have a good career, and take care of my kid. Unfortunately fathers not in picture like he should. I loath companionship, however getting into a relationship with someone without kids is difficult and prefer not to because there's always this feeling that you have an expectation you want them to play step dad, which is never the case with me or just made a bad decision. I'm also never bringing any man around my kid unless I'm marrying the person. The world's just different nowadays.
When Kendra asked her what her deal breakers were, I wanted to chime in and say "dudes that wear condoms apparently" 🤷♂️
She really said the amount of kids doesn't really matter. Definitely don't take her seriously.
She probably got a Costco Card.
She's one of those ppl who can't be by themselves. This whole story is just sad.
and that is dangerous for her kids a lot of sexual predatory men out there that will zone in on her to get to her kids
We women need to have higher relationship standards for ourselves.
Five kids under the age of six is “nothing to worry about”? 😳🥴
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Her decision making skills have left the chat cuz she thought having 6 kids by an abusive, substance abuser was logical and proceeded. This is a liability..
Don't forget he didn't work !!!!
And he left her 🙄
8 kids raised by a single mom… the apples will unfortunately not fall far from the tree. Poverty & struggle….
NO! She must be KIDDING!!! 😱
School, job, 28 years old, EIGHT kids (oldest is 10!), no car seat, etc…. Extremely difficult to believe!!! 🤔
She’s fertile af… I think she needs to focus on her & the kids until they get a little older. But everyone deserve a chance…
She had eight chances and still choose wrong. Some people just don't ever learn.
@@dreykuslowe6128 Preach
She doesn’t deserve any chances. She had babies with a druggie and is saying the new man needs to have his own car and house already. She’s looking for help and sympathy
Stop giving women like this false hope. She had many chances already. It’s over for her
I agree she definitely needs to focus on her kids and maybe wait until they’re grown up to date
I have a 10 yr old and still have to be diligent and cautious while dating. I couldn't imagine having that many kids and still worried about dating. I'd personally be too exhausted
Exactly. I have a 5 year old and I don’t even date. Like why risk the kids well being? Just get your life together and make friends doing what you love. That’s when the right person usually comes along anyway.
😳 she literally said “sometimes” to the car seat question… she’s not right in the head. Something is seriously wrong and she needs help. God please lay your protection over her and them children.
take it from me... there is something going on (emotional and/or psychological) with her. There's trauma SOMEWHERE within her.
I truly hope she finds the help she needs as well as the kids
"I ONLY HAVE TWO BABY FATHERS..."
WTF??? ONLY huh? This is sad...
I guess we should be ...proud of her for that? 🤦🏾♂️🤨
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When does she have time to date? I don't understand how that is going to work. Kids in that age group need a lot of love, nurturing, guidance and attention.
dating her is gonna be coming over while the kids sleep and turning the TV up loud.
@@randlestevenson That's what dating is today?I thought dating was actually going out to a museum, concert, the park, poetry reading, regatta or somewhere to talk and learn about each other.
@james smith yea it should be that, but who's got the space to watch 8 kids all under the age of ten for you and her go to a museum. she most likely can't actually date but I'd bet she doesn't want to go without intimacy regardless if that
The amount of kids doesn't really matter 😂😂😂
I only have 2 baby's fathers 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She's a comedian! She's convinced she's the prize, with no liabilities, and hence no humility. But she seems nice so you go qween!
This what others are feeding them so they believe that
@Day Love he’s being sarcastic lol
🤣🤣🤣I had to go back and watch that part again. It really made my day.
That’s what I said. She has enough for a starting five basketball team and 3 reserves
Wait I'm confused I thought she had three baby daddies.....😵 You know what nevermind I need to start minding my own business 💩
She said I only got just two baby daddies🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly at this point men don’t care if it’s just 1 father, 🤦🏽♀️
It's More than one smh
Give it up lady You’ve done your mission in life by having 8 children, its time to grow in your spiritual life so you can raise those kids the best way you can. The only relationship you need is with yourself.
28 with 8. Ouch. I wish her the best of luck.
Thank you for such a respectful comment. Manners maketh man.
@lizettemuna3234 LMFAO! That woman's actions doesn't need to be "coddled". She deserves every reaction she gets.....from women and men and respectful or not! FACTS!!! That sounded good though! 🤣🤣🤣
Meanwhile I refuse to pay 5$ for a dozen of eggs can u imagine the amount of just eggs she has to cook for a hot breakfast for 8 kids 😮😮😮😮
Doubt them kids have a hot morning breakfast, more like cereal, or free lunch ticket at school to get something.
GIRL 😂
Girl over here it’s $7 😂😂
I can imagine the amount of foodstamps she get a month probably $1200-$1300🤷🏽♀️
😂 I love that Kendra doesn’t have to clickbait us with the title.
I been saying this for the longest, we need to implement sex education and family values in our community because clearly they're nonexistent, she has a great spirit about her but her decision making was less than impressive. All we need is love in the world, anybody looking for it shouldn't get penalize but at the same time a relationship should benefit both two ppl not one. Good vibes only
They know better but do anyway next plan...
It's sad but I think it's an intelligence issue at this point. If you have half a brain you know having 8 kids with no plan or husband is a terrible idea. I don't think she has the foresight to stop having kids. I'm 100% sure she knew what condoms and plan B were when she had them.
She really needed people who would hold her accountable and get her into a better environment. What community allows it to get that far?
implement jeses n common sense its 2023 !!! they know about sex n condoms !!
I remember taking sexual education class in the 5th grade! Now they're teaching elementary school students LGBTQ 🤦🏿
@@Magnolia3720Slim they are teaching that love is love. They aren't teaching how to have sex ....don't be ignorant
8 kids...7boys 1 girl...whatever man thinks to get with her better be ready to fight 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 he better call on the bloodline
Plus she’s likely breeding the type of men that women hate
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That’s like me failing an open book test 8 times.
No not when someone took a black marker and put lines all over the words.
Lmfaooooooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
That part 😆😆😆😆
Exactly! Find the damn cheese already!😂
I’m a great mom…15 seconds later not all my babies are in car seats.
THIS
And it’s funny!
How can she laugh at not putting her kids in safety seats? Then call herself a great mom?? She says she works she goes to school, there's no way she has enough time for the kids and to make time for another man. This stuff is unreal
“I don’t know….could it be because of my EIGHT children?” YES, Madam baby factory, it is because of your eight kids!!! FOH!
LMFAOOOOO
She seems like such a wonderful woman she just has too much baggage 😢. Having 1 or 2 kids is do-able; A real man by nature is going to want to take care of you & your kids but that many children is too much time, money, and energy to invest is someone who can walk away at anytime. I wish her the best 😊
A real man knows his value and knows better than to try and raise pookie and Ray Ray's kid's when he can start his own family
She's better off accepting the lay up and playing the lottery for the next 18 years.
lol right
This is what happen when you choose a man based off looks and swag.
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