This woman has reminded me of the path I was on in the 1990s. I met the man I dreamed of, envisioned my whole life, and only to lose him to cancer. THIS reminds me of the path I was on and to refocus my energies where I was in my 30s. Personal self development 🙌🏻🫂❤️
LOVE THIS, Right here, RIGHT now for such a time as this Took me 65+ years to KNOW , I've done the WORK, still Studying to show myself approved, RIGHTLY dividing the truth, Loliness vs Lonely is so Profound, First time years ago I heard the statement We attract who we are , I got busy on ME , my journey my WORK inside of self With the help of the ALMIGHTY LIVING GOD This is SOOOOOO GOOD, Lisa and Dr. Cindy Trimm ❤❤❤❤
Many marry for the wrong reasons. I have so many friends who are unhappy in there marriages. People ARE AFRAID TO SPEND TIME ALONE WITH SELF! I travel by myself, I shop, got to the movies, have dinner all by myself. You can have some of the best experiences just being with self. You can’t wait on anyone to be happy!
Exactly!! I've witnessed the same but in relationships Most of my friends aren't married. It's really sad to witness the codependency in relationship and friendships these days. The last few years I have been doing solo adventures and it's not as scary as I thought it was gonna be. Best of luck to you on your self love journey 🙏🏾💞
So why are you on this platform if you want to be alone find a place and be alone For you to be here shows that being alone it's not good that's why you are on this platform but we ❤❤❤❤❤❤ you
At some time You get fed up doing everything yourself; You have nobody to share Your memories with, nobody that knows Your history bc they/he/she was there with You. Yes, we need to be independent, to learn to what we enjoy in our own, but that is basically a learning process…… At some point we need to find the one or persons that are compatible with ourself and share with eachother or better still, builder together. We were created for relationships not for consumption!
Most women would say they dream of meeting Oprah or Beyoncé or some other celebrity but I hope that I could one day rise to the level to be afforded the opportunity to meet this woman Dr. Cindy Trimm! She reminds me of king Solomon with her level of wisdom. I have learned so much from her. She may have chosen to not have children in the natural but she is like the spiritual mother to me that I hope to one day meet!
I’m a sapiosexual . Attracted to smart men. I’m also a woman that has had a few narcissistic men in my life . I know what I don’t want. It’s difficult to meet a man that has the same intellectual interests as me. It’s rare to meet a guy that has morals and respect for women’s boundaries. Bullshitters are a plenty. I’ve been single since 1993. Have not been with a man (physically) since 1998. I’m 70 now. Self respect is what I have been working on. I will not give up/share my body with a man unless he loves me and I love him. No more one-sided relationships for me. I may die without ever discovering that one sincere guy, but oh well. Better to be alone and happy than be in loneliness in an unmatched relationship.
Fair play to you - much respect. I completely agree. Dont sacrifice your self and your energy just to be with a man. I am in the same boat, I feel the same. I am a straight woman.
@@Justonevideoplease …. No. Not “tried” woman. Does not interest me in the least. I had to service a man I hated for 19years 11 months. That doesn’t make me a lesbian wanna be. I believe males and females balance each other. We need that. Women on Women don’t provide balance. I do not have recreational sex. I’m never going to be a semen receptacle for another man that does not love me. I have self respect.
@@CrownofBeauty_ we all deserve that loving relationship with our hearts desire. No more one sided relationships. Women want security and love. Men want sex and a maid/mother.
Dr. Cindy Trimm has to be one of the most authentic and inspiring humans on Earth! Who else thinks Lisa is such a phenomenal interviewer?! Her questions are so spot on.
Hmmm, for me, the Webster definitions are the exact opposite... I am actually ok alone (without people). Because I have purpose; emotional & spiritual peace within so I don't experience loneliness... 🕊 🥰 🌳 💐
@@lusiamatavesi1177 what I feel she meant was to pay attention to your ear gates and what we allow in. Where our attention goes our energy flows so we need to examine what we are listening to and taking into our spirit 😃
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things..
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters...
Wrong. Those are the words of people to cowardly to cut losses and stop literally wasting the other person's life and their own. Enjoy your business partner/sibling. Try to enjoy all the unpaid labor of the person who does tons of boring endless crap so that you never have to learn how to take care of your own extremely basic needs, and remain a child.
Helping folks looks like, The 1st time they’re happy The 2nd time they’re grateful The 3rd time they expect it The 4th time they’ll resent you IF YOU DON’T DO IT. THAT POWERFUL!!
1:02:20 @jasminejoe7768 - that's the trajectory of OVERgiving! *Reciprocal relationships* are key! Even Jesus had help (disciples), time away, & frustration.
@@theresas.3808 Yes. Just think the person you are comparing yourself to is also comparing themselves to someone else. They are not what you are perceiving them to be. No one has it together. Oprah is one of the richest woman in the world and she has her struggles. Just appreciate you and live in gratitude. Celebrate your victories and learn from your traumas. Don't live in your traumas live in your triumphs. My dad taught all his 10 girls. " life is what you make it".
Its only RIGHT to acknowledge reality. If you are VICTIMIZED say it and fight it. That doesn't mean you don't work on pursuing your dreams. But lets stop telling VICTIMS not to acknowledge it and not to call out victimizers VEHEMENTLY. That in itself is adding to the abuse.
Lisa, you are an amazing interviewer. You sit quiet and give them the floor. Thanks for not interrupting your guests. That way they can stay focused on what their talking about to get their full message out. You’re wonderful. ❤❤❤
i know right, i love her shows and she has a great sense of humor. It's the way she says 'fucking ' for me had me laughing even though i hate it when people curse but she sounds she funny and it is so normal for her, lol. however keep up the great shows, they are very inspirational and helpful.
I totally agree with you. That’s why I don’t watch’s lot of interviews, because quite few facilitators are talking about themselves or their opinions on what the guess speaker is saying. Thank you for your post and thank you Lisa 💜
38 haven't been married yet and glad I saw this video before I do! No settling. Be who you are going to be because you'll marry a person who is only suited for the younger, undeveloped you. I don't want to outgrow my spouse but I never want to stop growing!
I'm 61 and look a bit younger. It's all about taking care of yourself from your youth on, with healthy diet, yoga, meditation, no meat, no smoking, no alcohol. Waiting till age catches up with you is too late. We all make our own choices...
I think she’s turning 66 - in 2016 she was 58 according to an article. To me she looks this good because she’s living in her truth that’s forever give you a light spirit/energy.
Something that resonates…you want to be married to an amazing person you need to become an equally amazing person…work on you first then you will attract who you are…an amazing adventurous person
At the age of 53, I found the man of my dreams on a dating site. I fell for his profile before I ever met him. I felt he was the male imbodiment of myself. When we met the first night, we both knew that this was the beginning of something amazing. I agree wholeheartedly with Cindy's powerful presentation. I am a wholesome, authentic, decent, self loving individual and my partner matches these characteristics. Neither of us could accept anything less.
@@42LajWho in their right mind would want to get married at that age? Unless there are kids involved it's completely pointless. It's too risky especially when men are good at playing the long game.He could literally do all of that and still be a monster in the end. Too many women married for eons just for the man to pull the gotcha, never loved you card, lol, no way josè.
@portiadefleur7818 - Thanks for your comment. I'm actually attending the 2nd marriage ceremony of my cousin in October. She is 56, and her husband to be is 60. She never had kids, but he has grown kids and grandchildren. So it is possible. You have a blessed day.
I am deciding no longer to be a victim of my past. And that means stop talking about being a victim of my past. Just STOP talking about it. It’s the very first step. ❤
1:30:00 This is my grandmother. Raised 7 children in poverty all alone and helped raise me too❤I help take care of her today and she’s 101! I’m an entrepreneur as well. Grateful for all the powerful women🙏This has been a very impactful episode.
The greatest gift to me has been to not have a boyfriend, and instead for the past six years after twenty years of complicated and distracting and energy consuming relationships, to finally be alone, not lonely, alone, and see my circle of friends and even family expand. my work life expanded, my dreams started coming through and they still are . i have never felt more loved, more free and more happy.
This video is amazing. I am 59, single for 30 years, and I had all my possessions stolen by my narcissistic family. This was a hard fall, and it's getting harder to get back up after fighting the battle of life for so long. I need to start over, again. I need to learn to love myself and set better boundaries.
I hear you dear sister! 😢 My story is VERY similar. Stay strong and true to yourself! And know that you aren't the only one out there who is so true to her heart and soul that she would rather walk her path alone than with a toxic, abusive partner.
I just had my 3rd interview with a Global company. They just advised me they are making me an offer. I was being criticised by my family for turning down other positions. I was just waiting for the right one to come along. Hope this is it.
22:26 "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he..you're emitting a frequency and you're influencing the entire universe with your thoughts. Unless you make the unconscious conscious the unconscious will continue to direct your life and you will call it fate." This is gold.
"Who controls your ears controls your destiny." Your podcast, Lisa, has changed my life, and just within a year I became the strongest version of myself. Thank you very much!
Cindy Trimm came to my church years ago for a womens meeting and said so many beautiful things. One thing that stuck with me was when she said "If anyone say something to you or about you that does not align with Phillpians 4:8, (“Summing it all up, friends, I'd say you'll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious-the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse.”) Do not repeat it.❤
I cannot agree! We would not plan or make a strategy if this was the case. So, yes you can certainly mess it up, we often do, but you can decide to fix it or leave it behind and rise above it going forward, or you can stay stuck in the mess. In the same way you can build today for tomorrow. In both cases though life can surprise you apart from your lack of efforts or fuck you up apart from your many efforts. So just show up everyday and make the best of it, if it gives you apples or lemons, take it and make something nice for you.
I will forever be blown away by how Dr Trimm grew in beauty and looks so flawless. Her testimony is encouragement to all single women that God hears and answers prayer ❤
I wished decades ago there were these powerful messages given to young women. I’m finally on my journey in my 50s and wonder how much more dynamic my life could’ve been if I started in my teens and 20s.
"A better Me is a better We. A better I makes a better Us, So let me work on myself so I can bring to the table, the best of who I AM." Brought me to 😭. Everytime i say it or read it, i 😢.
I can listen to Dr. Trimm all day.😊 "What happens if your husband's kids from a previous relationship don't like you? "You are not the supporting actress in the unfolding of anybody's life." You are the lead actress in your life."~Dr. Trimm. I love how she said that if his kids don't like her, she will allow them not to. That it doesn't change her. "I'm the leading actress". Yaaass! So empowering! Love that she makes sure to keep her relationships with everybody off limits.😊 Important for me to practice!
Jesus , Jesus Jesus, not that I need validation but this is validation. I was appointed the President of an organization. I was the first to be appointed and then, being a woman some of the guys got together and said you should be the secretary. I resigned and told them I had no time to waste with 50-year-olds who had not evolved beyond their secondary school days. It's a waste of time. I quit. They begged and appealed I stood my ground and now I'm a difficult /rigid person. This was probably over 7 years ago, and till now, they are yet to re-organize. Do not settle for less as a woman. No your worth!
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” Carl Jung . Thank you for facilitating this interview and knowing another amazing & powerful lady!
Love Carl Jung. I have this tattoo “Your vision will become clear when you can look inside your own heart. Who looks outside dreams, who looks inside awakens” ✨
This was very Powerful! As a man (and a man of God), I extracted and absorbed what she conveyed with a spiritual and positive mindset. I need to listen to this podcast several more times to make sure I didn't miss or overlook anything. I truly enjoyed the information she shared. There are so many Golden Nuggets in this video. It helps me to understand a women who is operating in this mindset and how to flow and bring balance in a intimate and covenant relationship
One thing I love about Lisa is, she is such a good listener. She never cuts off her guests when they are talking. Such a contrast to Jordan Peterson. He cuts off the host when they are speaking.
This was the best episode I have ever seen. Dr. Trim literally gave a handbook for how you live your life. She exuded self-love and self-confidence. Thank you for sharing your gift of you with the world. Lisa, this episode was beyond great. Thank you for this.
Thank you Dr. Cindy Trimm for sharing this with me. It was as though I received power through this. I have survived a Massive Stroke and God spared my life. I’m trying to get back to myself. I haven’t driven again since. I was a single Parent and raised my kids y myself, Jesus and I, but I have faith that God is going to restore my vision and that I will drive again, in Jesus Name 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I love people like her! No victim crap no matter what she’s been thru no projecting no matter who or what and full autonomy not a women running around needing a man for an identity!! She’s winning that’s why she’s glowing and growing! Because she understood EVERYTHING including bad starts with her! That her world is solely hers and only she is responsible for it! And that things she experienced are based on her own personal design!
When she said, "nothing wrong with you" blew my mind at how long that's been my narrative. Thank God he brought me someone a year ago who helped me realize that nothing was wrong with me. And hearing this now was like the cherry on top. Just be your best self... and no one's perfect. But there's nothing wrong with us either... a paradox but if you get it you get it❤❤❤
I'm 47, divorced for 14 years, and I'm loooooooooovin' the single life. The more I hear, "You're still young, you NEED a man in your life", the more I feel singlehood was the best choice for me. I'm not looking, actively or inactively. This is my time for me and my kids. I don't want a relationship, and I don't need the drama nor do I need or want to answer to someone else other than my kids. I'm too independent and many guys don't like that. My narcissistic "mother", ex-husband, and daughters' father do not approve of my independence. If a man exists who is okay with me being my own person and not a lost puppy, he'll either be gay, traumatized by his last girlfriend, or stuck in a crappy relationship. There are very few "good men" out there now. I'm not so lonely that I need to have a smackdown with some spoiled brat over him. If he wants me, he'll find me. Then he'll have a LOOOOOT of work to do to convince me that he's legit.
@@KM-nq7ez Of course there are but everyone has a different shade of happiness : by yourself or with someone.. it doesn’t really matter if you choose from a place of authenticity.
@reneeparsonsNo desire to be cheated on again...that doesn't rule out a new relationship. And maybe you were not the marrying kind but after a year or two without a marriage proposal from a man...yellow flag.
This resonated. After my relationship ended. I began to heal by prayer and connection to my relationship with God again. God helped me to realize that I didn't know enough about myself and what I needed in a partner. That's truly important when you get older because you don't have time or mental capacity to go through traumatic relationships and cycles.
This is the exact woman I've always aspired to be, the kind I really respect. I've always struggled respecting desperate women who come across as living their lives just waiting for the next man. At 20 I knew a Toyota in the driveway and 1.9 kids would never satisfy me. I can proudly say I've never settled. I see I still have lots to work on but it will continue to be on myself, my education and my career, not on anything related to finding a man. One of your best guests ever!
My parents have been together for 48 years and they pretty much can “read” each other’s mind. Sometimes one starts one word and they finish with the same words. They laugh so much. I love that. There is a misunderstanding that women who “stay home” are not “A” type woman. Sometimes they are the ones who manage everything at home and outside home, and yes, they put boundaries with the blink of an eye.
I can say alot about this fantastic interview, but I'm just gonna sum it up as--She is a TRUE Boss. Thank you Lisa for introducing this powerful woman to my list!
"The way you think about yourself!" "The way you feel about yourself!" "The way you carry yourself!" You can change that about yourself without compromise!
Excuse me maam! Where have you been. I’m so happy I found this video! Just left my husband 2 months ago, and I am starting this self journey all over again. This is golden and priceless ❤
O dear, this podcast is for me.I just stumbled on this at a very low moment.Dealing with family, cultural, societal expectations and pressure on a woman is a terrible thing.I have always sought ways to had to navigate these horrible paths in live. I am that super Queen and I choose to determine what I want for myself moving forward. I choose to never feel like a victim.I don't compare my life with any one else.I have learnt to love myself first and detach from toxic environment and people no matter who they are
i am less than 15 minutes in and I am TOTALLY blown away. Lisa has had some great guests in the past but Dr, Trimm is bringing not only the heat but also necessary questions for women of all ages to ask themselves.
She has cleared up every thought and feeling I have had she has confirmed i am moving in the right direction. Putting up boundaries is hard and people make you feel bad about living your life. But either they get with it or exist the circle whoever it is. Love yourself over everything.
Wow!!! I used to listen to Cindy’s sermons/speeches/affirmations years ago and they really blessed me, got me through divorce, and grew me!!! This is the first I have watched her in a while and once again I am beyond impressed. She looks even more beautiful and well put together, she spits BARS, and soooo much WISDOM!!!!🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
This is my chapter & I’m looking forward to finding my person who can match my zeal for love and life. It’s taking a lot of introspection & recalibrating 🙏🏽🥂
Women, and Men need Cindy Trimm's supreme level of strength so that we ourselves can grow stronger in our immature or weakened places and prune our lives to health, self-preservation and abundance.
Can we all take a moment to appreciate how she matched the interior of the studio to PERFECTION!? 🤩😍 And yes, I did hear what she said first and foremost! 😅 Wise, strong woman! 💖
"I know where I end and where they begin" is powerful. It's a set boundary for life where if set to default, people can't over lap their wants and needs to surpass your own. Such an amazing interview and so many nuggets of wisdom .
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Love 💕 you Lisa, keep up the good work.
This woman has reminded me of the path I was on in the 1990s. I met the man I dreamed of, envisioned my whole life, and only to lose him to cancer. THIS reminds me of the path I was on and to refocus my energies where I was in my 30s. Personal self development 🙌🏻🫂❤️
Thanks thanks and a great thanks Lisa......I love love Dr. Cindy Trimm. H
LOVE THIS, Right here, RIGHT now for such a time as this
Took me 65+ years to
KNOW , I've done the WORK, still Studying to show myself approved, RIGHTLY dividing the truth,
Loliness vs Lonely is so Profound,
First time years ago I heard the statement
We attract who we are , I got busy on ME , my journey my WORK inside of self
With the help of the ALMIGHTY LIVING GOD
This is SOOOOOO GOOD, Lisa and Dr. Cindy Trimm ❤❤❤❤
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Wow. She said, “I wasn’t looking for a feeling, I was looking for a person that loved themselves just like I love myself…” man.
That part
Love that !! Really powerful
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Seriously? Words are just that, words. It’s he who finds a woman, it’s a good thing and that’s favor from the Lord.
This is Everything Iam seeking Lord I’m Praying For This It’s Very Fulfilling 🙏🏽
"Every crisis is a gift!"
"Every problem is an opportunity!"
"Every adverse circumstance is my most valuable teacher!"
I’ll try to keep this in mind-so I don’t get depressed over what I’ve worked in for the past year, beginning to crumble.
True
Many marry for the wrong reasons. I have so many friends who are unhappy in there marriages. People ARE AFRAID TO SPEND TIME ALONE WITH SELF! I travel by myself, I shop, got to the movies, have dinner all by myself. You can have some of the best experiences just being with self. You can’t wait on anyone to be happy!
Exactly!! I've witnessed the same but in relationships
Most of my friends aren't married. It's really sad to witness the codependency in relationship and friendships these days. The last few years I have been doing solo adventures and it's not as scary as I thought it was gonna be. Best of luck to you on your self love journey 🙏🏾💞
@@livinmabestlife Thank you! Good luck on your as well! It will only get better…..
@@VCD512 thank you
So why are you on this platform if you want to be alone find a place and be alone
For you to be here shows that being alone it's not good that's why you are on this platform but we ❤❤❤❤❤❤ you
At some time You get fed up doing everything yourself; You have nobody to share Your memories with, nobody that knows Your history bc they/he/she was there with You.
Yes, we need to be independent, to learn to what we enjoy in our own, but that is basically a learning process……
At some point we need to find the one or persons that are compatible with ourself and share with eachother or better still, builder together. We were created for relationships not for consumption!
Social media friends… they are not your friends, they are strangers.
Well said
Most women would say they dream of meeting Oprah or Beyoncé or some other celebrity but I hope that I could one day rise to the level to be afforded the opportunity to meet this woman Dr. Cindy Trimm! She reminds me of king Solomon with her level of wisdom. I have learned so much from her. She may have chosen to not have children in the natural but she is like the spiritual mother to me that I hope to one day meet!
Me too!!! She is a realist and I am all for it!!! ❤
She is life changing ..
So beautiful ❤
A woman who understands the truth about her body & soul, this is the most impact full interview of all time.
I have had the pleasure to meet her. She holds a confernce called End Your Year Strong in additon to Kingdom School of Ministry. AMAZING WOMAN!
I’m a sapiosexual . Attracted to smart men. I’m also a woman that has had a few narcissistic men in my life . I know what I don’t want. It’s difficult to meet a man that has the same intellectual interests as me. It’s rare to meet a guy that has morals and respect for women’s boundaries. Bullshitters are a plenty. I’ve been single since 1993. Have not been with a man (physically) since 1998. I’m 70 now. Self respect is what I have been working on. I will not give up/share my body with a man unless he loves me and I love him. No more one-sided relationships for me. I may die without ever discovering that one sincere guy, but oh well. Better to be alone and happy than be in loneliness in an unmatched relationship.
Haaaa
Fair play to you - much respect. I completely agree. Dont sacrifice your self and your energy just to be with a man. I am in the same boat, I feel the same. I am a straight woman.
This is great but also saddens me. You deserve the love you desire.
@@Justonevideoplease …. No. Not “tried” woman. Does not interest me in the least. I had to service a man I hated for 19years 11 months. That doesn’t make me a lesbian wanna be. I believe males and females balance each other. We need that. Women on Women don’t provide balance. I do not have recreational sex. I’m never going to be a semen receptacle for another man that does not love me. I have self respect.
@@CrownofBeauty_ we all deserve that loving relationship with our hearts desire. No more one sided relationships. Women want security and love. Men want sex and a maid/mother.
" A better ME is a better WE, a better I is a better US! " that's a good one.
Bars!!
Wicked, I love this. 💯
Yes, I love this message
Amazing
I will definitely use that
"Your feet will never take you where your mind has never been."
This is deep ❤
Wow too many words of wisdom in one conversation
Powerful!!!
Very great advice
“Stop making people a priority and myself an option.” - Dr. Cindi Trimm 💥
Dr. Cindy Trimm has to be one of the most authentic and inspiring humans on Earth!
Who else thinks Lisa is such a phenomenal interviewer?! Her questions are so spot on.
Lisa’s choice in guests is proof of what a beautiful, powerful soul she is.
She is 🥰 amazing!
My thoughts exactly
Agree!🔥
Na ...Christianity are always seeking who they can exploit! Now they want life coaching money! Vultures!
what a soul with a rich daddy🤣
“Loneliness the absence of ppl.. Alone is the absence of purpose”. Such an impactful statement!!❤
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Hmmm, for me, the Webster definitions are the exact opposite... I am actually ok alone (without people). Because I have purpose; emotional & spiritual peace within so I don't experience loneliness... 🕊 🥰 🌳 💐
Exactly!!! I had to listen 4 times to the same line💎!
That seems backwards to me.
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#ThatsWhatISaidAlso
*”Who controls your ears controls your destiny”*
Powerful word right there 👏👏👏
@@MyLadyMo amazing video
Can you explain this?
@@lusiamatavesi1177 what I feel she meant was to pay attention to your ear gates and what we allow in. Where our attention goes our energy flows so we need to examine what we are listening to and taking into our spirit 😃
@lusiamatavesi1177, whatever or whomever you are listening to, is what you will eventually do or become
“I come fully assembled, batteries included”.
Wow! Mic drop! Indeed, every woman should know their worth before entering a marriage.
Our lifespan is too short then. Most women get to know themselves at 40 and above.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things..
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters...
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now..
You definitely should. You wont regret it
Wrong. Those are the words of people to cowardly to cut losses and stop literally wasting the other person's life and their own. Enjoy your business partner/sibling. Try to enjoy all the unpaid labor of the person who does tons of boring endless crap so that you never have to learn how to take care of your own extremely basic needs, and remain a child.
I'm only 25 mins into this conversation and I already feel like I've received a HUGE wave of wisdom!!!
Yesss❤
@rachelharris I am only at 5 minutes and feel the same!
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4 minutes and am in school already.
girl you too. So mad I have to pause and go ti bed now but so many gems were dropped in the interview.
Helping folks looks like,
The 1st time they’re happy
The 2nd time they’re grateful
The 3rd time they expect it
The 4th time they’ll resent you IF YOU DON’T DO IT.
THAT POWERFUL!!
1:02:20 @jasminejoe7768 - that's the trajectory of OVERgiving! *Reciprocal relationships* are key! Even Jesus had help (disciples), time away, & frustration.
@@P_Belle facts, thanks for this insight. Blessings. 🫶🏾🫶🏾✨
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Had to screen shot that. Got some people to send it to
Never feel like you're a victim
Never compare yourself to someone else. Thanks a million for these powerful words
Any suggestions for stopping comparing oneself in its tracks? I do it constantly and wind up very depressed.
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Yes. Just think the person you are comparing yourself to is also comparing themselves to someone else.
They are not what you are perceiving them to be.
No one has it together. Oprah is one of the richest woman in the world and she has her struggles.
Just appreciate you and live in gratitude. Celebrate your victories and learn from your traumas. Don't live in your traumas live in your triumphs.
My dad taught all his 10 girls. " life is what you make it".
@@eileenwatt8283amen… live in your triumps
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Its only RIGHT to acknowledge reality. If you are VICTIMIZED say it and fight it. That doesn't mean you don't work on pursuing your dreams. But lets stop telling VICTIMS not to acknowledge it and not to call out victimizers VEHEMENTLY. That in itself is adding to the abuse.
Lisa, you are an amazing interviewer. You sit quiet and give them the floor. Thanks for not interrupting your guests.
That way they can stay focused on what their talking about to get their full message out.
You’re wonderful. ❤❤❤
So sure..Get the whole message out without interpretation
i know right, i love her shows and she has a great sense of humor. It's the way she says 'fucking ' for me had me laughing even though i hate it when people curse but she sounds she funny and it is so normal for her, lol. however keep up the great shows, they are very inspirational and helpful.
I totally agree with you. That’s why I don’t watch’s lot of interviews, because quite few facilitators are talking about themselves or their opinions on what the guess speaker is saying. Thank you for your post and thank you Lisa 💜
38 haven't been married yet and glad I saw this video before I do! No settling. Be who you are going to be because you'll marry a person who is only suited for the younger, undeveloped you. I don't want to outgrow my spouse but I never want to stop growing!
36 never been married. Lets find the rest of our folk and go party and get someone married!🤓
@@SultanOfThrones yes!
37 here !
ahahaha how pathetic.. come on.. you're not a serious person. You're already out the marriage consideration at your age. 38!!! Are you serious!
Single can you be my future wife
No way she's 60?!! Wow !! Speechless. What a powerful conversation
I'm 61 and look a bit younger. It's all about taking care of yourself from your youth on, with healthy diet, yoga, meditation, no meat, no smoking, no alcohol. Waiting till age catches up with you is too late.
We all make our own choices...
She’s actually around 64! Yea she looks fantastic!
“Black don’t crack” sweetheart!😉❤️
She looks 60 but a good 60. I think people forget that there's obviously aging that can't be avoided but it doesn't always look bad.
I think she’s turning 66 - in 2016 she was 58 according to an article. To me she looks this good because she’s living in her truth that’s forever give you a light spirit/energy.
I am 61...I'm worthy of happiness.
This woman changed my life with her powerful prayers that I have memorized and prayed over my children
That's beautiful!! God Bless!
Very powerful prayer warrior!
Yes! Her prayers are everything.
God bless you sis! 🙏🏽
Me too ❤
Something that resonates…you want to be married to an amazing person you need to become an equally amazing person…work on you first then you will attract who you are…an amazing adventurous person
" Tomorrow cannot be messed up in advance........Every day you can re-write the narrative of your life" ........OMG Loved this...........
At the age of 53, I found the man of my dreams on a dating site. I fell for his profile before I ever met him. I felt he was the male imbodiment of myself. When we met the first night, we both knew that this was the beginning of something amazing. I agree wholeheartedly with Cindy's powerful presentation.
I am a wholesome, authentic, decent, self loving individual and my partner matches these characteristics. Neither of us could accept anything less.
Love it!!😊
Which site, because all I see on these dat ing apps are scammers. 😢
Has he proposed marriage to you? Has he made you his wife? Have you met his family and get along with them? Does he have a spiritual foundation?
@@42LajWho in their right mind would want to get married at that age? Unless there are kids involved it's completely pointless. It's too risky especially when men are good at playing the long game.He could literally do all of that and still be a monster in the end. Too many women married for eons just for the man to pull the gotcha, never loved you card, lol, no way josè.
@portiadefleur7818 - Thanks for your comment. I'm actually attending the 2nd marriage ceremony of my cousin in October. She is 56, and her husband to be is 60. She never had kids, but he has grown kids and grandchildren. So it is possible. You have a blessed day.
I am deciding no longer to be a victim of my past. And that means stop talking about being a victim of my past. Just STOP talking about it. It’s the very first step. ❤
1:30:00 This is my grandmother. Raised 7 children in poverty all alone and helped raise me too❤I help take care of her today and she’s 101! I’m an entrepreneur as well. Grateful for all the powerful women🙏This has been a very impactful episode.
The greatest gift to me has been to not have a boyfriend, and instead for the past six years after twenty years of complicated and distracting and energy consuming relationships, to finally be alone, not lonely, alone, and see my circle of friends and even family expand. my work life expanded, my dreams started coming through and they still are . i have never felt more loved, more free and more happy.
She so calm and not stress. If peace was a person she fits it.
This video is amazing. I am 59, single for 30 years, and I had all my possessions stolen by my narcissistic family. This was a hard fall, and it's getting harder to get back up after fighting the battle of life for so long. I need to start over, again. I need to learn to love myself and set better boundaries.
You can do it. I started at 64 and the universe has totally backed me up! Find your life path, and they will lead you universe will guide
I hear you dear sister! 😢 My story is VERY similar. Stay strong and true to yourself! And know that you aren't the only one out there who is so true to her heart and soul that she would rather walk her path alone than with a toxic, abusive partner.
Find out how you self sabotage yourself and then become your best friend 💚
I just had my 3rd interview with a Global company. They just advised me they are making me an offer. I was being criticised by my family for turning down other positions. I was just waiting for the right one to come along. Hope this is it.
May God restore you
Wow, this woman is amazing!
I'm 52 and have finally woken up to the truths she speaks. Doing the inner work is everything.
22:26 "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he..you're emitting a frequency and you're influencing the entire universe with your thoughts. Unless you make the unconscious conscious the unconscious will continue to direct your life and you will call it fate."
This is gold.
Lll lmk
Please look up these famous quotes they are not fm Ms Trimm(.Rumi and Carl Jung )
Brilliant.❤
@@Staying_aliveforwomenfrom the Bible 😊
@@Staying_aliveforwomenIt's from Proverbs 23:37. "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he."
44 now and this this is the first time I have come across a conversation like this. I am right on time.
"Who controls your ears controls your destiny." Your podcast, Lisa, has changed my life, and just within a year I became the strongest version of myself. Thank you very much!
This woman has me in awe. She has my full attention. She said everything to inspire me at 59
Cindy Trimm came to my church years ago for a womens meeting and said so many beautiful things. One thing that stuck with me was when she said "If anyone say something to you or about you that does not align with Phillpians 4:8, (“Summing it all up, friends, I'd say you'll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious-the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse.”) Do not repeat it.❤
that's great advice. 💞
"No one is living a better life than you, they would have to be you!" Prodound! Soooo many golden nuggets in here!
That got me too!
"Tomorrow cannot be messed up in advance" - gold!
I cannot agree! We would not plan or make a strategy if this was the case. So, yes you can certainly mess it up, we often do, but you can decide to fix it or leave it behind and rise above it going forward, or you can stay stuck in the mess. In the same way you can build today for tomorrow. In both cases though life can surprise you apart from your lack of efforts or fuck you up apart from your many efforts. So just show up everyday and make the best of it, if it gives you apples or lemons, take it and make something nice for you.
Wow! You don’t really attract who you want but you attract who you are! That’s deep!!
You can attract a narc even when your a high quality person. You just don't continue to engage.
I will forever be blown away by how Dr Trimm grew in beauty and looks so flawless. Her testimony is encouragement to all single women that God hears and answers prayer ❤
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I wished decades ago there were these powerful messages given to young women. I’m finally on my journey in my 50s and wonder how much more dynamic my life could’ve been if I started in my teens and 20s.
I wonder about that for the women in my life, too.
@ambersnow....was thinking and feeling the same way as I'm listening to this. I'm in my 50's and WISH I had had all of this advice in my 20's.
@@Coco-og7zw Start living with faith. You still have time to build a life that meets your current needs and brings you into deep self-care.
Same here! I would have made so many different choices. From education to dating. My parents didn’t talk to us about any important life matters.
Your life is dynamic now. Forget the wistful thinking. Move now and fulfill your dreams. ❤️
Cindy Trimm “Commanding Your Morning” change my life! My life has been so bountiful and fruitful since believing what her book taught me
I'm in the process of reading the book & I can say it is so impactful
Me too ❤❤❤
I put it in my cart. Thanks 🙏🏾
@@rofhiwam2411 IMPACTFUL! Enjoy and get ready for a new abundant life SPEAK IT BELIEVE IT KNOW IT
@@wanjikukariuki285 Abundant blessings your way
"A better Me is a better We. A better I makes a better Us, So let me work on myself so I can bring to the table, the best of who I AM."
Brought me to 😭. Everytime i say it or read it, i 😢.
I can listen to Dr. Trimm all day.😊 "What happens if your husband's kids from a previous relationship don't like you? "You are not the supporting actress in the unfolding of anybody's life." You are the lead actress in your life."~Dr. Trimm. I love how she said that if his kids don't like her, she will allow them not to. That it doesn't change her. "I'm the leading actress". Yaaass! So empowering! Love that she makes sure to keep her relationships with everybody off limits.😊 Important for me to practice!
Jesus , Jesus Jesus, not that I need validation but this is validation. I was appointed the President of an organization. I was the first to be appointed and then, being a woman some of the guys got together and said you should be the secretary. I resigned and told them I had no time to waste with 50-year-olds who had not evolved beyond their secondary school days. It's a waste of time. I quit. They begged and appealed I stood my ground and now I'm a difficult /rigid person. This was probably over 7 years ago, and till now, they are yet to re-organize. Do not settle for less as a woman. No your worth!
If I may ask why not just say no. Sad that U had to quit... But context context
I'm 72 single for over 25 yrs and great wisdom imparted here.
Thats honestly sad ma'am
She had me at "you don't attract who you want! You attract who you are"! & she continued to enlighten me throughout this entire video....❤
I didn't know who Cindy Trimm was but I knew she was a woman of God as soon as she started speaking. Thanks for this interview. ❤❤
@1:04 "That is the Last time you will say that to me, Never say that to me Ever again!" We must do that the 1st time! I ❤ that!
No way this woman is 60…she loos 20 years younger! So much wisdom, grace, beauty and class
With that intelligence she can't age fast.
And money 😅
"It's the differences that make your marriage the best, Not similarities!"
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” Carl Jung . Thank you for facilitating this interview and knowing another amazing & powerful lady!
Love Carl Jung. I have this tattoo “Your vision will become clear when you can look inside your own heart. Who looks outside dreams, who looks inside awakens” ✨
Living now by "Don't ask me for what, you can't give me." 🙏
This was very Powerful! As a man (and a man of God), I extracted and absorbed what she conveyed with a spiritual and positive mindset. I need to listen to this podcast several more times to make sure I didn't miss or overlook anything. I truly enjoyed the information she shared. There are so many Golden Nuggets in this video. It helps me to understand a women who is operating in this mindset and how to flow and bring balance in a intimate and covenant relationship
Good luck
One thing I love about Lisa is, she is such a good listener. She never cuts off her guests when they are talking. Such a contrast to Jordan Peterson. He cuts off the host when they are speaking.
I love what she had said that we all have 600 potential abilities that are waiting to be discovered
“Your feet will never go where your mind has never been” bars ❤
The sky is not the limit, your mind is ❤
wow! Vowing not to be a supporting actress on someone's life that's really a wake up call for me!!
Who controls your ears, controls your destiny. 💜💜
I asked God a question and this video came to me 10 min after and I got the answer right away 😂❤❤❤
I was thinking about soulmates today and found this video.
This was the best episode I have ever seen. Dr. Trim literally gave a handbook for how you live your life. She exuded self-love and self-confidence. Thank you for sharing your gift of you with the world. Lisa, this episode was beyond great. Thank you for this.
Thank you Dr. Cindy Trimm for sharing this with me. It was as though I received power through this. I have survived a Massive Stroke and God spared my life. I’m trying to get back to myself. I haven’t driven again since. I was a single Parent and raised my kids y myself, Jesus and I, but I have faith that God is going to restore my vision and that I will drive again, in Jesus Name 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I am the main act in the movie of my life..Stop playing like you're supporting actress..Wow.This talk was just gold.Thank you
I love people like her! No victim crap no matter what she’s been thru no projecting no matter who or what and full autonomy not a women running around needing a man for an identity!! She’s winning that’s why she’s glowing and growing! Because she understood EVERYTHING including bad starts with her! That her world is solely hers and only she is responsible for it! And that things she experienced are based on her own personal design!
Yessss!!!❤
When she said, "nothing wrong with you" blew my mind at how long that's been my narrative. Thank God he brought me someone a year ago who helped me realize that nothing was wrong with me. And hearing this now was like the cherry on top. Just be your best self... and no one's perfect. But there's nothing wrong with us either... a paradox but if you get it you get it❤❤❤
I'm 47, divorced for 14 years, and I'm loooooooooovin' the single life. The more I hear, "You're still young, you NEED a man in your life", the more I feel singlehood was the best choice for me. I'm not looking, actively or inactively. This is my time for me and my kids. I don't want a relationship, and I don't need the drama nor do I need or want to answer to someone else other than my kids. I'm too independent and many guys don't like that. My narcissistic "mother", ex-husband, and daughters' father do not approve of my independence. If a man exists who is okay with me being my own person and not a lost puppy, he'll either be gay, traumatized by his last girlfriend, or stuck in a crappy relationship. There are very few "good men" out there now. I'm not so lonely that I need to have a smackdown with some spoiled brat over him. If he wants me, he'll find me. Then he'll have a LOOOOOT of work to do to convince me that he's legit.
Enjoy freedom & expand & grow and be authentic! At the end of your life this will matter the most and not what everybody else is saying.
I disagree…. There are in fact a plethora of “ good”men out there.
@@KM-nq7ez where are they hiding, then?
@@KM-nq7ez Of course there are but everyone has a different shade of happiness : by yourself or with someone.. it doesn’t really matter if you choose from a place of authenticity.
@reneeparsonsNo desire to be cheated on again...that doesn't rule out a new relationship. And maybe you were not the marrying kind but after a year or two without a marriage proposal from a man...yellow flag.
This resonated. After my relationship ended. I began to heal by prayer and connection to my relationship with God again. God helped me to realize that I didn't know enough about myself and what I needed in a partner. That's truly important when you get older because you don't have time or mental capacity to go through traumatic relationships and cycles.
1:25 a lot of people can accomodate to your now but not to your future self
47:45 every crisis is a gift
This guest does have an aura and a mission to influence other women and men positively.
My 45-year-old self says, thank you for this conversation!
I feel like I wrote your comment...
I'm 45 too
This is the exact woman I've always aspired to be, the kind I really respect. I've always struggled respecting desperate women who come across as living their lives just waiting for the next man. At 20 I knew a Toyota in the driveway and 1.9 kids would never satisfy me. I can proudly say I've never settled. I see I still have lots to work on but it will continue to be on myself, my education and my career, not on anything related to finding a man. One of your best guests ever!
I agree with you! Some men are vampires. They will drag u down to the pit latrine. Mine did this&I have started loving myself.
Not all @@batabairerobbie844
My parents have been together for 48 years and they pretty much can “read” each other’s mind. Sometimes one starts one word and they finish with the same words. They laugh so much. I love that. There is a misunderstanding that women who “stay home” are not “A” type woman. Sometimes they are the ones who manage everything at home and outside home, and yes, they put boundaries with the blink of an eye.
True, not for me but I do know different strokes for different folks.
I can say alot about this fantastic interview, but I'm just gonna sum it up as--She is a TRUE Boss. Thank you Lisa for introducing this powerful woman to my list!
Self awareness is when you learn where you end and where someone else begins. 💃🏽 Powerful
"The way you think about yourself!" "The way you feel about yourself!" "The way you carry yourself!" You can change that about yourself without compromise!
Excuse me, she is 60+???? She looks ABSOLUTELY DEAD GORGEOUS!!!!!!! And everything she says in on point!!!!
Wow! 8years old!🙋The power to change your destiny. And financially independent!
Never compare your life to somebody, give what ever you can give.
Excuse me maam! Where have you been. I’m so happy I found this video! Just left my husband 2 months ago, and I am starting this self journey all over again. This is golden and priceless ❤
I left my new husband pf 4 months, 3 months ago.
@@fromdoormattoflyingcarpetw407we got this ❤
O dear, this podcast is for me.I just stumbled on this at a very low moment.Dealing with family, cultural, societal expectations and pressure on a woman is a terrible thing.I have always sought ways to had to navigate these horrible paths in live.
I am that super Queen and I choose to determine what I want for myself moving forward.
I choose to never feel like a victim.I don't compare my life with any one else.I have learnt to love myself first and detach from toxic environment and people no matter who they are
Go for it!
This lady is incredible & full of authentic wisdom & power ❤
i am less than 15 minutes in and I am TOTALLY blown away. Lisa has had some great guests in the past but Dr, Trimm is bringing not only the heat but also necessary questions for women of all ages to ask themselves.
"I can't believe you got the Cindy Trimm interview! Great job!" this was an amaze conversation but men and women need to listen to this.
You dont require a degree to think,do not resent what has already manifested.Your feet will never go where your mind doesnt go.wow.
"Your feet will never go where your mind doesn't" That part!!!
She has cleared up every thought and feeling I have had she has confirmed i am moving in the right direction. Putting up boundaries is hard and people make you feel bad about living your life. But either they get with it or exist the circle whoever it is. Love yourself over everything.
This discussion was soul food to me.
Same. I clicked so fast when I saw the title.
Same he❤re
‘I could only attract who I was, not who I wanted.’
Wow!!! I used to listen to Cindy’s sermons/speeches/affirmations years ago and they really blessed me, got me through divorce, and grew me!!! This is the first I have watched her in a while and once again I am beyond impressed. She looks even more beautiful and well put together, she spits BARS, and soooo much WISDOM!!!!🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
Yes thank you Lisa for having my auntie Cindy Trimm on the show! I love this woman
This is my chapter & I’m looking forward to finding my person who can match my zeal for love and life. It’s taking a lot of introspection & recalibrating 🙏🏽🥂
This is by far the most powerful interview
Women, and Men need Cindy Trimm's supreme level of strength so that we ourselves can grow stronger in our immature or weakened places and prune our lives to health, self-preservation and abundance.
It's not about SKILL it's about WILL!! You betta come through with that positivity Cindy! Thank you for those life changing words
Wow..she looks 30 years younger than her age...amazing
This is a pure blessing in my life right now. In the past I felt guilty if someone asked me for help. Then it left me with nothing for me
Can we all take a moment to appreciate how she matched the interior of the studio to PERFECTION!? 🤩😍 And yes, I did hear what she said first and foremost! 😅 Wise, strong woman! 💖
"I know where I end and where they begin" is powerful. It's a set boundary for life where if set to default, people can't over lap their wants and needs to surpass your own. Such an amazing interview and so many nuggets of wisdom .