Red Flags During the Honeymoon Phase (Too many, too soon)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 พ.ค. 2018
  • Having a difficult time from the onset of your relationship. RED FLAGS have meanings. Listen to Coach Mac tear some down for you....
    In any relationship you shouldn't be dealing with red flags in the first four months. This is the honeymoon phase and, in most cases of a relationship, is the time when you should be getting along the best. It's your honeymoon phase! Everything is perfect, right?
    Coach Mac McCarthy gives his spin on a story that has red flags in every corner. Listen to the Coach tear down the flags and give new perspective to the troubled new lover.
    Do you have a story where ignoring those red flags proved to be mistake? Were the red flags there for you to see but you chose not to? If you have a story you would like to share visit writemac.com/Stories to tell Mac your story and hear his take on it.
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  • @sj122s
    @sj122s 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    logic! Thank you!

  • @ForzaTerra89
    @ForzaTerra89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The honeymoon phase is it normal to want to spend all your free time with your partner. I still see friends and make myself make time for other people but is it normal to feel so intensely for somebody

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, it's common especially in the beginning when it's all so fresh.

    • @ForzaTerra89
      @ForzaTerra89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Coach Mac McCarthy okay that’s reassuring
      It didn’t work out and I’ve been blaming myself thinking maybe I was too much but now I think maybe it’s as simple of we weren’t on the same page.
      I feel head over heels in love with him. Just felt like there was something wrong with me. He was so calm and I just couldn’t relax. Any advice for me? Been a tough heartbreak

    • @bendover5105
      @bendover5105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      dont put a woman in a pedestal, she will break your heart

    • @ForzaTerra89
      @ForzaTerra89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ben Dover nobody does that on purpose. That’s what love feels like

    • @bendover5105
      @bendover5105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ForzaTerra89 been there i know, piece of advice dont do it. just fuck that bitch to sleep

  • @TheObliviousRhino
    @TheObliviousRhino 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah I’m in a year long relationship so far . I’m starting to loose interest due to her being moody a lot more and it just ring less fun. Also don’t feel we have much in common then I once thought . The honeymoon phase for me lasted about 6 months . It’s just few good times after that that have kept me going to now . But these are getting farther and farther in between

  • @Sgturningpoint
    @Sgturningpoint 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Mac, my question is : what if you didn't have a honeymoon phase?

  • @amberashley7559
    @amberashley7559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Agreed!!!!

  • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
    @StandupGirl-ym3ey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    HIM constantly accusing me of things I'm not doing! Being with different men! Flipping things on me! Calling me crazy because I react to his accusatory actions!!! 3 months dude! We can't even get thru the honey moon phase!! How can we move forward if I'm always walking on egg shells?? I'm not interested in his bullshit!! I ignore him for days and he love bombs me the whole time !! Smh claims he's so in love with me and I'm his future!!! How???? I call bullshit

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like you got your clarity. Time to move forward.

    • @iambaked1537
      @iambaked1537 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girl Run....

  • @krisg2640
    @krisg2640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What was he doing that was causing her to nag, and get moody?

    • @CoachMacMcCarthy
      @CoachMacMcCarthy  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes woman just get more moody than guys, but nagging comes from a different place. That can be built into a person. Thanks for the question. Send your story into writemac.com if you want my take.

    • @clyubove
      @clyubove 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nagging is such a demeaning and wide spectrum term. Like using the word narcissist. You have very limited knowledge and awareness.