You're doing a great thing reposting all these. It can't be easy reuploading so many. I learned so much from him, especially when I first found his channel in late 2019
Yes, he is probably the best narrator I've seen on youtube. But he had very questionable moral values as you can also see from this video. So take his advice but always filter it through your own values before acting on those advices.
Gozalo is good at explaining at decadence but is that what you want in life? He died whilst being a lonely man. Do you think you would rather get advice from someone who has an actual relationship or a man whom failed because of his ego?
The less you do, the better. You don't talk, just "do" what you want, and she will follow ... "We'll see how it goes" is your mantra, always - challenge.
Apparently, my grandfather referred to my grandmother as his “girlfriend” throughout the 47 years of their marriage. He said he did it to keep her “right”
Makes sense, the title of wife means alot to them in the sense that they think it makes them irreplacleable. A healthy amount of insecurity in a woman is needed to keep them honest.
Any effort involved in order to keep a person around is out of fear and deep rooted insecurities. If you have to do a song and dance for anyone in order for them not to leave, that just means they are and never were truly into you in the first place. Relationships between two people are extremely fake and what drives this is fear. All Relationships are toxic on some level. They are full of lies and manipulation with or without a narcissist. It’s one person using the other for their own selfish needs and wants all for the fear of being alone. Everything we do is out of fear and love. Humans by nature are very fake and only show you their representative side. If everyone new what everyone truly thought, then nobody would have no one in there life
Applies to dating, too: always let the woman do 80% of the talking on a date. I've talked so many girls out of liking me because I simply talked too much on dates and dissolved any mystery about me.
This would be toxic behavior in my opinion…no matter if its the woman or the man in the relationship. Just be honest in what you want. This type of behavior creates jaded/toxic people.
One of the biggest factors in this type of scenario is the status of your available options regarding other females. If you're swimming in brauds, it's easy to draw a line in the sand and then respond accordingly to their reply not caring if you're with them or not as you'll have the relationship on your terms or nothing at all. If you have way less options, you're way more likely to compromise and be flexible with your relationship requirements and the above advice is very solid.
There are plenty out there that don't mind the 'friends with benifits' aka 'I'll keep you around until someone better comes along' thing. Why string someone along?
Hmmm. So the thing I’ve thought about with this is. What if the woman you meet is the best you’ve ever seen. The best you’ve ever met and know of at the time. Best meaning. Highest level of character, beauty, intelligence etc factors that are high. But then a few months later or years you meet a new woman who is better than woman. Or you believe to be better. Is it wrong to get rid of that woman you’ve been with until then for a trade of the new woman who you now think is the highest perception of your values you’ve ever seen? I don’t know. This happened to me recently. Where I was with a girl and then not long after I met a better girl. Not just beautiful but everything. But the first girl at the time, maybe cause I hadn’t met anybody higher quality. Was the highest quality woman I had ever known. The highest quality I thought possible. But the new girl I found proved me wrong. Showed me that there is better. And she is it. That I didn’t know was possible or even existed. So I got rid of the old girl and traded her for the the new girl who I believe is the highest value woman I can find. Because I realized now that I’ve seen better. I now feel like I am sacrificing to stay with the girl I was at the time. Which no relationship is good to keep if it’s maintained on sacrifice. But was I stringing that first girl along then? I wouldn’t say so. Because at the time she was the highest value woman I thought was possible. And wasn’t intentionally looking to trade her at a moments notice because I thought she was it. She was the best. So I would say it would be immoral to enter a relationship with a person you know is not the highest possible value person you know exists. Because if you don’t you know you will trade her at a moments notice when that higher value person comes around. That is wrong
I do see where you are coming from. But isn’t having someone around who wants something serious while you don’t wasting their time ?. If this is the way one has to act that would explain why I don’t get laid as much. I just don’t have the consciousness to do such a thing.
I agree that you shouldn’t argue, but I have to disagree with you on the ambiguity when she asks. You don’t have to define if no need arises. However, if she demands to have clarity, quietness is not practical. The worst is that she goes away and the best is that she stays.
This never works long term. Just be clear with her and don't get clingy. Too much games will only create resentment in her. It's sad to hear this kind stuff these days.
Agreed. You have to be very careful how much of this you actually apply to a certain situation. Tact Tact Tact. That's what it boils down to. I understand the main premise of what he's saying but do not apply it blindly and use it wisely.
Agree But what about if you keep it ambiguous until she realise later that earlier you don't know what you want in life. I prefer define myself if a lose it I will gain time to find another girl that suit me better about what I want in life. Thank you any way for your videos, good tips about girls
Jaja eso porque no se cruzaron conmigo...te recuerdo que las mujerrs tambien tenemos videos en you tube de amor propio y sabemos que si en 3 meses no quiere estar de novio..next siempre llega alguien mejor...primero yo segundo yo y tercero yo!! El que no se juega un poco que se valla x donde vino.
Those focus racks were editing genius. I imagined a hot chick in the back washing dishes or reading a book in the background while you narrated. The beauty of aperture.
You're doing a great thing reposting all these. It can't be easy reuploading so many. I learned so much from him, especially when I first found his channel in late 2019
What happened in 2019, why is he reposting?
@@pete531 it's TH-cam agenda & censorship
same here buddy
Same. His advice is golden. Things my incompetent ass of a father never bothered to tell me.
He died @@pete531
somehow this guy explains better than any other human i've been talking with. thanks to whoever he is
He just died
Yes, he is probably the best narrator I've seen on youtube. But he had very questionable moral values as you can also see from this video. So take his advice but always filter it through your own values before acting on those advices.
Gozalo is good at explaining at decadence but is that what you want in life? He died whilst being a lonely man. Do you think you would rather get advice from someone who has an actual relationship or a man whom failed because of his ego?
@@WW-nk7wgSounds like what the guy in the video would tell you.
We will miss you!
He can't hear you or read your comments!
There's no point talking to him! 🙄
The less you do, the better. You don't talk, just "do" what you want, and she will follow ... "We'll see how it goes" is your mantra, always - challenge.
Apparently, my grandfather referred to my grandmother as his “girlfriend” throughout the 47 years of their marriage. He said he did it to keep her “right”
Makes sense, the title of wife means alot to them in the sense that they think it makes them irreplacleable. A healthy amount of insecurity in a woman is needed to keep them honest.
Your grandfather is a sharp man!
Any effort involved in order to keep a person around is out of fear and deep rooted insecurities. If you have to do a song and dance for anyone in order for them not to leave, that just means they are and never were truly into you in the first place. Relationships between two people are extremely fake and what drives this is fear. All Relationships are toxic on some level. They are full of lies and manipulation with or without a narcissist. It’s one person using the other for their own selfish needs and wants all for the fear of being alone. Everything we do is out of fear and love. Humans by nature are very fake and only show you their representative side. If everyone new what everyone truly thought, then nobody would have no one in there life
Wow, interesting
My only real teacher..
I miss him so much..
R.I.P.
Your relationship videos are something else in terms of value. Straight to the point, pure wisdom
Omg, 2 years have passed since my comment. Rest in power😢
I’d rather just let her go. I feel guilty stringing a woman along.
Exactly
dont. they are masters at this.
R.I.P Coach Red-pill
You are such a genius, it makes so much sense what you are saying
You are a legend for reposting these!
I learnt a lot from my dad but your teachings are just thr icing on the cake. Good job
Watched and SAVED to re watch as much as I need to never forget… Thanks Coach!
Applies to dating, too: always let the woman do 80% of the talking on a date. I've talked so many girls out of liking me because I simply talked too much on dates and dissolved any mystery about me.
A man that talks as much as women or more than a woman looks truly pathetic.
7:00 don't define yourself, let the other person define themselves
Being ambiguous, elusive and non-commercial is important for keeping your FREEDOM Gentlemen! Cheers for 2022 and beyond 🙌🙏
RIP
This would be toxic behavior in my opinion…no matter if its the woman or the man in the relationship. Just be honest in what you want. This type of behavior creates jaded/toxic people.
Yeah, men should avoid damaging women for thier own sexual gratification. But if she's damaged, she's damaged.
Some of the best red pill/relationship advice I’ve learnt since subscribing a few days ago. Much appreciated
.......So, what i have learnt is that i must shut up😀.Life saving coaching from the only Coach😁
If she wants to move up with you, she will. Check actions not words. F brilliant
One of the biggest factors in this type of scenario is the status of your available options regarding other females.
If you're swimming in brauds, it's easy to draw a line in the sand and then respond accordingly to their reply not caring if you're with them or not as you'll have the relationship on your terms or nothing at all.
If you have way less options, you're way more likely to compromise and be flexible with your relationship requirements and the above advice is very solid.
Agree like one guy said on tou tube never talk about your gf or bae posting on social media ppl will try mess it up
There are plenty out there that don't mind the 'friends with benifits' aka 'I'll keep you around until someone better comes along' thing. Why string someone along?
Hmmm. So the thing I’ve thought about with this is. What if the woman you meet is the best you’ve ever seen. The best you’ve ever met and know of at the time. Best meaning. Highest level of character, beauty, intelligence etc factors that are high. But then a few months later or years you meet a new woman who is better than woman. Or you believe to be better. Is it wrong to get rid of that woman you’ve been with until then for a trade of the new woman who you now think is the highest perception of your values you’ve ever seen? I don’t know.
This happened to me recently. Where I was with a girl and then not long after I met a better girl. Not just beautiful but everything. But the first girl at the time, maybe cause I hadn’t met anybody higher quality. Was the highest quality woman I had ever known. The highest quality I thought possible. But the new girl I found proved me wrong. Showed me that there is better. And she is it. That I didn’t know was possible or even existed. So I got rid of the old girl and traded her for the the new girl who I believe is the highest value woman I can find. Because I realized now that I’ve seen better. I now feel like I am sacrificing to stay with the girl I was at the time. Which no relationship is good to keep if it’s maintained on sacrifice.
But was I stringing that first girl along then? I wouldn’t say so. Because at the time she was the highest value woman I thought was possible. And wasn’t intentionally looking to trade her at a moments notice because I thought she was it. She was the best.
So I would say it would be immoral to enter a relationship with a person you know is not the highest possible value person you know exists. Because if you don’t you know you will trade her at a moments notice when that higher value person comes around. That is wrong
Miss you Coach.
Perfect timing I needed this today
Damn… mr. Gonzalo Lira is just a God messenger for men.
Nah guy. Lol had too many friends with benefits. The approach seals the deal. Neither is it worth complicating crap to this degree
Powerful coach
Fantastic!
This is GOLD
Great video.
I do see where you are coming from. But isn’t having someone around who wants something serious while you don’t wasting their time ?. If this is the way one has to act that would explain why I don’t get laid as much. I just don’t have the consciousness to do such a thing.
same here
The mind of a woman is really a wondrous thing. A man has little chance of understanding it.
It’s really simple, a spoiled child
I agree that you shouldn’t argue, but I have to disagree with you on the ambiguity when she asks. You don’t have to define if no need arises. However, if she demands to have clarity, quietness is not practical. The worst is that she goes away and the best is that she stays.
Spot on Gonzalo. Ground Truth. You should have dated Neuland for Cruft.
Damn...i made the same mistake. Thank you bro! No more defining
A fish HANGS by the mouth, but a man hangs by the neck
Thank you coach. I learning so much
This never works long term. Just be clear with her and don't get clingy. Too much games will only create resentment in her. It's sad to hear this kind stuff these days.
Agreed. You have to be very careful how much of this you actually apply to a certain situation. Tact Tact Tact. That's what it boils down to.
I understand the main premise of what he's saying but do not apply it blindly and use it wisely.
nothing lasts forever. the aim is to make a situation last as long as possible
Wonderful tips
at 12:00 is exactly what he did in ukraine . sad but true :(
Elaborate.
Omg so true what he is saying
*This just happened to me in a different way.*
CRP was killed by the Ukrainians / NATO in his prison cell two weeks ago
Dude. She wants a relationship. Why string her along? For sex? That’s pathetic and small. Get someone else if you’re a man.
She's an adult. She can leave if she wants to.
no guy should ever have the talk.....if you get emotional you become the chick
Good advice
Real deal👌
Disagree on being ambiguous. You must let her know what you want. Period. Take it or leave it.
If you're saying that then you clearly don't have a lot of experiencing in managing multiple women.
You have a lot more fun and exploring to have.
Ambiguous with hard lines. Like a ninja. There's no contradiction.
you look great!
Wonderful
Agree But what about if you keep it ambiguous until she realise later that earlier you don't know what you want in life. I prefer define myself if a lose it I will gain time to find another girl that suit me better about what I want in life.
Thank you any way for your videos, good tips about girls
Hey Coach
Tell what the game plan is when your woman is playing by your rules .
Perfect woman or perfect player.
Coach might be dead..look it up
Gonzalo lira (CRP) was killed by the Ukrainians/ NATO in his Ukrainian prison cell because of his wrong think. NATO / ukraine is run by demons.
Unless ….you want to get rid of here.
Good one dude
Friends with Benefits? I thought that was mostly a myth.
This reminds me of school. Where the teacher had to repeat the same principal numerous times until everyone understood. Can I go to the washroom now?
Jeez! , even I knew not to do that and I’m shite at relationships .
What about what the girl wants??
11:00
This is the worst type of man for a women. Ambiguity kills trust and respect.
Jaja eso porque no se cruzaron conmigo...te recuerdo que las mujerrs tambien tenemos videos en you tube de amor propio y sabemos que si en 3 meses no quiere estar de novio..next siempre llega alguien mejor...primero yo segundo yo y tercero yo!! El que no se juega un poco que se valla x donde vino.
Wish I had seen this 2 months ago, should not have had a talk about it
Thanks...lol
Been trying to get ahold of you for a long time. I don't know if you are ignoring me or not
👋
Those focus racks were editing genius. I imagined a hot chick in the back washing dishes or reading a book in the background while you narrated.
The beauty of aperture.
✅✅✅✅
Do you only post the youtube videos or patreon also?
Are you for real ?
Sometimes he says strange things.
@@AzureSymbiote yup
Disagree with you this time,,, unless is a month or 2.... otherwise I would not waste years of dating with a dead end.
"Never discuss a relationship", says the clown who got divorced by his wife. Way to go!
Yes, lets all follow some post wall boomer (with piss poor advice)on how to become a post wall boomer at the age of 20. Pure cringe.
Terrible advice
Damn...i made the same mistake. Thank you bro! No more defining