Dear Chhavi I admire you from your SIT journey. I come to know about your this channel when I lost my 5 weeks pregnancy which was an ectopic one. Being a mother you know how devasted I am now. Lying in hospital and crying for my unborn one. Being a mother without her child might be the hardest thing in the world.Please pray for my mentally recovery.
srabanti singha Dont cry srabanti. God will send your child very soon to you again. sending you love and peace. stand up get up raise and start shining . we need to make our own sunshine so that god also will help us. dont cry.
I wish i had this video an year earlier. I faced a lot of postpartum deppression. but couldnt get any help. Please take care of the new mother in your family. They really need your metal and emotional support..
Very true.. that's why they keep the mother in the mom's home for atleast 3 months where you can get the love and care utmost.. unfortunately I could not get that opportunity. My baby is 10 months now And still feeling lost many a times..
All the points mentioned were really spot on with what i felt immediately after delivery. However, i did not feel pain with c section stitches. I just wanted to mention that for the sake of mommies to be who are yet to undergo surgery and are afraid. It's differently for everybody but in my case c section stitches did not hurt at all. Infact I refused to have pain killers the next day since i just felt heavy in the abdominal area and not pain.but then i continued taking pain killers for next 15 days after my doctor convinced me that it was important for healing. And with the recovery, I did recover earlier than few of my friends who had normal delivery. Ofcourse i did take care of not picking up heavy weights till 3 months but apart from that i.just felt fine.
Chhavii plz make a video on postpartum depression for husbands.... It'll maybe help the mothers by their spouse.... As in my case my husband think there's nothing such thing as postpartum depression.... I m over thinking N also about sleepless nights a mother faces after delivering baby
Thank you Chhavi, this was really helpful. I lost my little boy at 20 weeks of pregnancy, 2 years ago. Now by God's grace I am 28 weeks pregnant and my due date is feb 7th. I am going through a high risk pregnancy with cervical stitches. I hope everything goes well!
This is exactly what I’m going thru...I delivered a baby girl just a month ago...all this while I was feeling very low thinking all the time that I’m not a good mother but your video really motivated me a lot....Also it will be very useful if you make a video on Night time routine for a new born Thank You ma’am
Hye Ms Chavi… I’m a new mother… just delivered to a baby girl 23 days ago.. There was something I experienced which was not mentioned in this video… of course, I knew labour pain is really painful, but it’s one thing to know and another to actually experience it… after my delivery, I was kinda traumatised by the pain I experienced… it affected me quite badly for at least a day until I spoke about it to my husband and he said that he’d read articles saying it’s quite common..
Very vital tips...i had the same experiences..just want to add that during c section delivery...pls drink sufficient water one day just after delivery to discard all the toxins and medicines used during c section..
Please make a video on c section delivery....and how long the body ll take time to heal??.when ll the body can perform the physical activity like excercise or yoga???
It’s very beautiful and important video that what i feel. But I have some questions 1. Weight gain and loss cycle when u just start breastfeeding , middle way and when it actually get wean 2. If someone planning for second baby and how many years gap is advisable 3. When u becam a mother your work gets stop what to do
This is so helpful Chhavi for all moms to be.. 3 months of being a mom and this all is so relatable. No doubt its blissful time but actually difficult for moms. I would say more for c section delivery as the pain is awful at times and so much time it takes for healing process :(
Hi mam... Thank you so so so much for this channel... much needed infor for people like me who live abroad far from family and any support system... I live in USA... even though here things are good but it’s different when come to postpartum care specially when you are alone! Please keep making videos on all tiny details of during pregnancy and post delivery... specially with csection ... I used to watch a lot of videos but all of them are from English women... I wanted some Indian channel where I could find, what to eat specially after c section recovery period and take care of yourself without additional help! I am so grateful once again! Thank you
Thanks a lot Chhavi ji for sharing this... Lots of new mothers need to know the matters you shared.. Very useful..i m having 3 months old baby and had experienced almost same... Really looking forward to ur video abt post-partum weight gain..lots of love and wishes 😃
Omg... I'm mother of 5 days baby n seriously today only I faced the problem of bleeding.... But now I'm really relaxed.. I thought I suppose to switch for Dr...
Loved this video !! I had a c-section in the 36th week as my bp was extremely high but the good part is my Baby is absolutely fine & healthy!! Things were extremely difficult for me as no one could come from India (I live in Canada) , no domestic help & I was in the kitchen on the 7th day of my surgery!! 😞
Hello chhavi madam. I am big fan of you and watched all your videos that come every weed Also i am following this chennel though i am not a woman. I would like to suggest you something If possible eade make all this video in hindi language. Becausr most of the girls and woman in rural masses don't understant english. And those who understand it are well aware about all the things you are exaining. Consider it and help the rural masses. Thank you for all your efforts
Emotions and postpartum depression... This is what husbands needs to understand... It hurts a lot that even though a whole year has passed I am keep listening that you were wrong that time you reacted wrong you over reacted...
Hi chaavi , Firstly I would like to say thankyou for giving us soo much good information about postpartum pregnancy. Because very soon I will be on the same phase and this is also my second pregnancy and trust me this time I m really suffering from tremendous types of mood swings . Please do suggest me what should I do . ☺️
Would love to knw what you did the first 40days post delivery. Like in us you have certain pills and kanji, dink laddoos etc... If for some reason we are not able to follow that, are we doing any damage in the long run. With changing times, and family scenarios, its difficult to keep up with the traditional 40days confinement and 40 days specific dietary requirements. What are your thoughts on it
Yes even I followed this 40 days ritual of my family but I guess there is no harm in it and it's a lot beneficial. We get to rest atleast and just spend time with our baby. Also, WHO guidelines also prescribe a 40 day rest period for all mothers post delivery.
Thank u so much chavi . This and all your other videos are really very informative and useful . I am a fan of urs and have watched all ur SIT videos . Also those which u have shooted with ur second pregnancy and kudos to that . Can u plz share some alternative healthy recipes that most women crave for during pregnancy .
When my baby born by ceaserian, after 5 days I feel shaking my body suddenly and have fever. I was feeling very emotional and crying too much. Please find and talk about it. I feel very low.
This is exactly what i was looking for yesterday itself. Thanks a ton for sharing. Extremely helpful. The one thing I wanted to know is when does the regular menstrual cycle start after delivery? I have heard mother's bleed continuously for weeks or month. Is it true?
Hello Chhavi..Your videos are so very useful..Can you please let me know that is it true that pregnancy causes a permanent change in feet size increase? Did you face any change in foot size..I am really worried..
Love you mam for this....can you also update on what things are needed once the baby is out....like wipes...to clothes.....also wen is it best to shop....can a mother shop for the baby or has the family members to shop....myths ....Plz guide
I want to know if C-section affects letdown. I was not able to breastfeed for almost 6months due to lack of milk. I was said that is was all due to C-section.
You are always inspiration for all mothers 😊 nd lots of love to your daughter plzz make video for those mother who are not being able to feed babies :(
My doc suggested to start solids from 5th month.. would start with “ragi seri “ or boiled and mashed fruits (apple) initially 1 time in a day and bf the rest of the day. Ebf till 4th month.
Please help us with weight loss tips like what to eat after delivering and when to start excersizing and what form of exercises are important....and what not to eat after delivering
Hi chavi mam i am 18 days old babys mother and i had a C section and now after started feeding my baby I have bleeding breasts so please tell me some tips to heal it so i can feed my baby again
My baby is now 4th month but my milk supply is too low.. Giving formula milk to baby with breastfeed. Tried all things jira n water intake eggs etc. Still not good luck😔
Swati Seth Store it in the fridge for 24 hours and warm it by placing it in a bowl of hot or warm water. You can use a bottle warmer also. You can freeze breast milk up to 3 months
Do u have any swellings or soreness on Ur legs or breasts side anything like that...acidity or constipation kind of issues even aftr walk or exercise or aftr taking lot of fluids also
Hi chhavi, Iam almost in the 9th month of my pregnancy, I don't know but I feel very tensed about how will I manage the delivery, is there any solution?
i had the same tension but don't worry. These movie have guided us in a wrong way. Pregnancy pain starts not like a huge pain. It just starts very mildly like periods pain and then slowly increases. Within hours we will cope up with the pain and get used to manage the pain. It is not unbearable at all.
Aparna Ranaware Just watch your body. There is no food to increase breast milk in the world. But you need to watch your diet and how your body reacts. We are not allowed to take coconut water after delivry usually but for me coconut water increased milk supply. Watch for the symptoms and change diet accordingly.
What you say about normal delivery is not always true. Every woman has different experience. I had normal delivery i felt a lot of hurt. I healed properly after 2 months of my delivery. About breast feeding you forgot to say using breast pump for new mom. It helps a lot for mom at night & mom can get extra time for rest.Breast feeding times prenatal vitamins are great. Please give important advices.
Every rule has an exception. It is common knowledge that a normal delivery is better than a C-section if possible. I'm wondering if you have any experience with a C sec to compare the two. Thanks for the pump and vitamin points
Hiii. Chhavi mam . I want to ask you my lo 45 days now. I m trying to put her on ebf but she is not gaining weight so dr said me to give her top-up milk after your feed I m ready to give her top up milk but the problem is my mil told me to feed her through bottle dat what i dont want. What should i do plz plz seggest me
1. What do you have against a bottle? 2. Why is your doctor suggesting top feeds? 3. Hope you tried ebf really hard. It usually takes a few weeks to set in
Aramita BasuSingh yes. Dont feel guilty about that. In indian community they shame us for not producing enough breast milk but we have nothing to do about it. dont get stressed emotionally be confident and breast feed or formula feeding and taking proper care of baby is important..
Please also look into vertigo or cervical spondylitis... i had gone thro continuous dizziness with unknown reasons until i found out i had the above...
Dear Chhavi I admire you from your SIT journey. I come to know about your this channel when I lost my 5 weeks pregnancy which was an ectopic one. Being a mother you know how devasted I am now. Lying in hospital and crying for my unborn one. Being a mother without her child might be the hardest thing in the world.Please pray for my mentally recovery.
srabanti singha Dont cry srabanti. God will send your child very soon to you again. sending you love and peace. stand up get up raise and start shining . we need to make our own sunshine so that god also will help us. dont cry.
@@gouthamisailesh6077 Thanks a lot dear. Please keep us in your prayers.
srabanti singha Sorry for your loss. Take care of your health. Hope you feel better soon. Prayers and lots of love!
I wish i had this video an year earlier. I faced a lot of postpartum deppression. but couldnt get any help. Please take care of the new mother in your family. They really need your metal and emotional support..
Very true.. that's why they keep the mother in the mom's home for atleast 3 months where you can get the love and care utmost.. unfortunately I could not get that opportunity. My baby is 10 months now And still feeling lost many a times..
All the points mentioned were really spot on with what i felt immediately after delivery. However, i did not feel pain with c section stitches. I just wanted to mention that for the sake of mommies to be who are yet to undergo surgery and are afraid. It's differently for everybody but in my case c section stitches did not hurt at all. Infact I refused to have pain killers the next day since i just felt heavy in the abdominal area and not pain.but then i continued taking pain killers for next 15 days after my doctor convinced me that it was important for healing. And with the recovery, I did recover earlier than few of my friends who had normal delivery. Ofcourse i did take care of not picking up heavy weights till 3 months but apart from that i.just felt fine.
Chhavii plz make a video on postpartum depression for husbands.... It'll maybe help the mothers by their spouse.... As in my case my husband think there's nothing such thing as postpartum depression.... I m over thinking
N also about sleepless nights a mother faces after delivering baby
Thank you Chhavi, this was really helpful. I lost my little boy at 20 weeks of pregnancy, 2 years ago. Now by God's grace I am 28 weeks pregnant and my due date is feb 7th. I am going through a high risk pregnancy with cervical stitches. I hope everything goes well!
Best wishes dear 😊
Tabassum Mohammed Don’t worry everything will be fine. Prayers and best wishes. Lots of love!💕
You and baby will be all right......all the best
@@rohimantripathi Thank you :)
@@manishai1203 Thank you :)
This is exactly what I’m going thru...I delivered a baby girl just a month ago...all this while I was feeling very low thinking all the time that I’m not a good mother but your video really motivated me a lot....Also it will be very useful if you make a video on Night time routine for a new born Thank You ma’am
Hye Ms Chavi… I’m a new mother… just delivered to a baby girl 23 days ago.. There was something I experienced which was not mentioned in this video… of course, I knew labour pain is really painful, but it’s one thing to know and another to actually experience it… after my delivery, I was kinda traumatised by the pain I experienced… it affected me quite badly for at least a day until I spoke about it to my husband and he said that he’d read articles saying it’s quite common..
Very vital tips...i had the same experiences..just want to add that during c section delivery...pls drink sufficient water one day just after delivery to discard all the toxins and medicines used during c section..
Water is not always allowed a day after c section.
Please upload postpartum weight loss after c-section
Please make a video on c section delivery....and how long the body ll take time to heal??.when ll the body can perform the physical activity like excercise or yoga???
Thanx alot dear... I m also pregnant that's why I watched this.... and your guidelines are really helpful...
Add something for baby care like best products ,skin care , economical budget .good healthy foods n all
It’s very beautiful and important video that what i feel.
But I have some questions
1. Weight gain and loss cycle when u just start breastfeeding , middle way and when it actually get wean
2. If someone planning for second baby and how many years gap is advisable
3. When u becam a mother your work gets stop what to do
Thank you so much chhavi for sharing your experience...how to stay positive during pregnancy and a separate video for new father do's and don'ts
This is so helpful Chhavi for all moms to be..
3 months of being a mom and this all is so relatable. No doubt its blissful time but actually difficult for moms. I would say more for c section delivery as the pain is awful at times and so much time it takes for healing process :(
Thank you. Hang in there, be strong. This too shall pass
Hi mam... Thank you so so so much for this channel... much needed infor for people like me who live abroad far from family and any support system... I live in USA... even though here things are good but it’s different when come to postpartum care specially when you are alone! Please keep making videos on all tiny details of during pregnancy and post delivery... specially with csection ... I used to watch a lot of videos but all of them are from English women... I wanted some Indian channel where I could find, what to eat specially after c section recovery period and take care of yourself without additional help! I am so grateful once again! Thank you
I have watched all videos in this sceries at once. Thank you.
you should have talked about sutures and stitches in both the cases and how to care for your stitches...
Can u Please add your daily diet after delivery? Daily exercise.
Thanks a lot Chhavi ji for sharing this... Lots of new mothers need to know the matters you shared.. Very useful..i m having 3 months old baby and had experienced almost same... Really looking forward to ur video abt post-partum weight gain..lots of love and wishes
😃
Omg... I'm mother of 5 days baby n seriously today only I faced the problem of bleeding.... But now I'm really relaxed.. I thought I suppose to switch for Dr...
I used cry to the core... because it so painful to me. But i was at it n then all got settled. Be there, you will do well. Take care
Loved this video !! I had a c-section in the 36th week as my bp was extremely high but the good part is my Baby is absolutely fine & healthy!! Things were extremely difficult for me as no one could come from India (I live in Canada) , no domestic help & I was in the kitchen on the 7th day of my surgery!! 😞
Oh my God! Hope you are doing fine now and had someone to support you emotionally through all that
this is one a very very helpful video... i’m 34 weeks pregnant..thanks for this....
You r very positive .after watch this video I also feels positive vibes thank you
Can u please share when to start buying stuff for the baby and the list of items including the stuff needed in the bag for the hospital.
Yes, I would also want a video on the same
Hello chhavi madam. I am big fan of you and watched all your videos that come every weed
Also i am following this chennel though i am not a woman. I would like to suggest you something
If possible eade make all this video in hindi language. Becausr most of the girls and woman in rural masses don't understant english. And those who understand it are well aware about all the things you are exaining. Consider it and help the rural masses. Thank you for all your efforts
It's good to share your experience. Thank you.
Emotions and postpartum depression... This is what husbands needs to understand...
It hurts a lot that even though a whole year has passed I am keep listening that you were wrong that time you reacted wrong you over reacted...
Hi chaavi , Firstly I would like to say thankyou for giving us soo much good information about postpartum pregnancy. Because very soon I will be on the same phase and this is also my second pregnancy and trust me this time I m really suffering from tremendous types of mood swings . Please do suggest me what should I do . ☺️
Beautiful video 😍 and amazing information
Wish this video came out a year earlier :) Very helpful for new moms
Would love to knw what you did the first 40days post delivery.
Like in us you have certain pills and kanji, dink laddoos etc... If for some reason we are not able to follow that, are we doing any damage in the long run. With changing times, and family scenarios, its difficult to keep up with the traditional 40days confinement and 40 days specific dietary requirements.
What are your thoughts on it
Yes even I followed this 40 days ritual of my family but I guess there is no harm in it and it's a lot beneficial. We get to rest atleast and just spend time with our baby. Also, WHO guidelines also prescribe a 40 day rest period for all mothers post delivery.
@@srushtigupta441 agreed its beneficial in the long run . However just wanted to know if for some reason we are not able to do it, how does it affect.
Thanks a lot chhavi...ur positive attitude really inspires all the ladies
Thank u so much chavi . This and all your other videos are really very informative and useful . I am a fan of urs and have watched all ur SIT videos . Also those which u have shooted with ur second pregnancy and kudos to that . Can u plz share some alternative healthy recipes that most women crave for during pregnancy .
When my baby born by ceaserian, after 5 days I feel shaking my body suddenly and have fever. I was feeling very emotional and crying too much. Please find and talk about it. I feel very low.
This is exactly what i was looking for yesterday itself. Thanks a ton for sharing. Extremely helpful. The one thing I wanted to know is when does the regular menstrual cycle start after delivery? I have heard mother's bleed continuously for weeks or month. Is it true?
It differs from lady to lady
Hello Chhavi..Your videos are so very useful..Can you please let me know that is it true that pregnancy causes a permanent change in feet size increase? Did you face any change in foot size..I am really worried..
Love you mam for this....can you also update on what things are needed once the baby is out....like wipes...to clothes.....also wen is it best to shop....can a mother shop for the baby or has the family members to shop....myths ....Plz guide
till what time do the postpartum weight gain continues and from which month is it ideal to start loosing it?
Chhavi, what should a mom to b pack up with herself for the hospital?
No doubt very Appreciable 👍
Plz make video on what we should carry in our hospital bag
Please do a video on pregnancy clothes and fashion.. What to wear
Santoor mom🤩
Hi @Chhavi Mittal plz tell us about post pregnancy iron and calcium supplements. Are they necessary?
Hi, can u please make video on packing a hospital bag, my due is in next week
Yes, all the best
Thank you!!
Pls tell the reasons and suggestions for pre mature delivery..
It's wonderful ❤️
Normal delivery Or C section..
Make a video on this
Chhavi why you are not uploading video at sit channel???
Please please please share some tips and to concieve and the prenatal diet....... pleaseeeeee
Plz share your story of 2nd child birth.you did a lot of exercise but u had c-sec , so what was the complications etc.share your story
I already did that on Instagram. Please do read it
It was helpful
Hello chhavi I'm due next month pls make a video while making hospital bag what all stuff should be taken.
Hi Rohini,plz share some diet plan to proton weight.
I want to know if C-section affects letdown. I was not able to breastfeed for almost 6months due to lack of milk. I was said that is was all due to C-section.
Very helpful di.. thanks
It's really helpful for me😊
Was expecting WIT series Tuesday... Pls post some...
I am 24week primegravida...🤗❤
shreya sen Congratulations!❤️
Also share how to set baby routine for meal
ur views helps a lot.... I want to ask some personal ques abt ovulation.... can u share some
U r really helpful....m 1st c section didn't hurt n in march m going to have another bby n TL..is TL good
Thank you so much 😘
How to improve baby's immunity?.my baby have frequent diarrhea.. should we give baalguti?
How to make baby chubby?
You are always inspiration for all mothers 😊 nd lots of love to your daughter plzz make video for those mother who are not being able to feed babies :(
Can you do videos on fitness.. Like general not for pregnant women
Have one doubt three to six months is this enough breastfeeding for baby if it's not what have to feed baby??
I have the same question as well
My doc suggested to start solids from 5th month.. would start with “ragi seri “ or boiled and mashed fruits (apple) initially 1 time in a day and bf the rest of the day. Ebf till 4th month.
Please help us with weight loss tips like what to eat after delivering and when to start excersizing and what form of exercises are important....and what not to eat after delivering
Hi chavi mam i am 18 days old babys mother and i had a C section and now after started feeding my baby I have bleeding breasts so please tell me some tips to heal it so i can feed my baby again
Which type of food is good after delivery?
I'm in third trimester plz need to prepare myself for normal delivery so plz advice
My baby is now 4th month but my milk supply is too low.. Giving formula milk to baby with breastfeed. Tried all things jira n water intake eggs etc. Still not good luck😔
Stop stressing. Do your best. Top milk is also fine, but stress is not
Hi dear chavi aapki Yaad aa rahe thi k koi video nahi Aaya
Lyo aa gaya 🌹🌹 happy children's Day 🌹🌹
Very beneficial thank you 🌸
Its really helpful..... thanks... can you please tell us,,,, Can i do threading my eyebrows in pregnancy
Of course you can. Threading will not affect you in any way during pregnancy or even afterwards. Well groomed eyebrows are a good thing.
How to store expressed milk and how to use it for next feed?
Swati Seth Store it in the fridge for 24 hours and warm it by placing it in a bowl of hot or warm water. You can use a bottle warmer also. You can freeze breast milk up to 3 months
Do u have any swellings or soreness on Ur legs or breasts side anything like that...acidity or constipation kind of issues even aftr walk or exercise or aftr taking lot of fluids also
After c section how to loose belly fat
Hi chhavi, Iam almost in the 9th month of my pregnancy, I don't know but I feel very tensed about how will I manage the delivery, is there any solution?
i had the same tension but don't worry. These movie have guided us in a wrong way. Pregnancy pain starts not like a huge pain. It just starts very mildly like periods pain and then slowly increases. Within hours we will cope up with the pain and get used to manage the pain. It is not unbearable at all.
Please share breastfeeding mother's diet.how to improve breastmilk
Aparna Ranaware Just watch your body. There is no food to increase breast milk in the world. But you need to watch your diet and how your body reacts. We are not allowed to take coconut water after delivry usually but for me coconut water increased milk supply. Watch for the symptoms and change diet accordingly.
Mujhe ab bhut Dr lg rha h ki Meri delivery normal hogi naa...ya fir c- section 😣
What you say about normal delivery is not always true. Every woman has different experience. I had normal delivery i felt a lot of hurt. I healed properly after 2 months of my delivery. About breast feeding you forgot to say using breast pump for new mom. It helps a lot for mom at night & mom can get extra time for rest.Breast feeding times prenatal vitamins are great. Please give important advices.
Every rule has an exception. It is common knowledge that a normal delivery is better than a C-section if possible. I'm wondering if you have any experience with a C sec to compare the two. Thanks for the pump and vitamin points
Amazing video chavi mam...Lv u I really like all ur sit videos.....
Me to zara sa workout kar leti hu usi me thak jati hu pata ni baby hone k baad kaise kaam karugi
Hiii. Chhavi mam .
I want to ask you my lo 45 days now. I m trying to put her on ebf but she is not gaining weight so dr said me to give her top-up milk after your feed I m ready to give her top up milk but the problem is my mil told me to feed her through bottle dat what i dont want. What should i do plz plz seggest me
1. What do you have against a bottle?
2. Why is your doctor suggesting top feeds?
3. Hope you tried ebf really hard. It usually takes a few weeks to set in
I have a dropper.
Because she is not gaining proper weight according to her age
Yes i tried hard but my in laws not supporting me.
Hey Chhavi❤
U r grt... I really like the vdo
U completely forgot the sleepless nights 😴😥
A detailed video on c -section please... please
Coming up. I'll be calling an expert to talk about it
Pls reply
Hello chavi di
My lmp date is 08/03/19
Why anyone don't talk about difficulties producing enough brest milk due to medical reason?? and they felt guilty all the time.
Aramita BasuSingh yes. Dont feel guilty about that. In indian community they shame us for not producing enough breast milk but we have nothing to do about it. dont get stressed emotionally be confident and breast feed or formula feeding and taking proper care of baby is important..
Is she ur daughter.
Yes
After c section I'm continuesly suffering from dizziness.what could i do plz tell me
Aparna Soni is ur iron and vit d upto the mark?
@@sumaiyaleemable yes
How long has it been? It does take a bit longer to recover from a surgery. Rest, eat well, take your supplements, stay calm.
Please also look into vertigo or cervical spondylitis... i had gone thro continuous dizziness with unknown reasons until i found out i had the above...
Doctor suggest me a vestibular rehabilitation..but there is no relief.
Constipation