Bride In Tears Over Mother's Disapproval | Say Yes To The Dress Lancashire
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This mother and bride has a history of disagreeing, and when the tears start flowing, Gok has to step in with some comfort.
"We have to find the right words to tell her it's not the one..."
"You don't look as thin!"
Nailed it.
😂😂😂
my name is Shelby too :)) aye
just what I thought -.-'
Exactly my thoughts
Indeed! It wasn’t me and I felt deflated!!!
The people said "MOAR GOK!" and they heard us.
🤭😂😂
Mystic...is MOAR Gok's first name? LOL
Mysicjc, the TH-cam algorithm asked me to rate your comment. Strange. I don't understand your comment but at least now it feels less surprising that there are some comments with 10000 likes.
this is not enough gok, I NEED MOAAARRRR
@@hiraethatelier1205 Thank you for clarifiing! 😊
The 3 dresses looked awesome on her, but the first one was *chef’s kiss*
Agree
The first one was the best.
I really preferred the third myself
i wish i could take the top from the second dress and put it on the skirt from the third dress. i really liked the flowy "woodland princess" feel of #3's skirt but was not digging the open applique "sleeves."
She looked like a magical princess! Wow
Lancashire location is a first class boutique and I'm not talking about money. The way auntie Gok and his staff do their job is amazing, professional and emphatic, they make every bride happy and special, respecting everyone and the budget with emphasis; also the dresses selections are impressive most of the times. In this case, the bride received a golden experience from Gok and the disagreement was managed with class and keeping calm but also giving her an option for her dress. I just loved everything here.
He is the absolute best, isn't he?? I would honestly fly in from the U.S. (if I were getting remarried) to get my dress from them, just because of the respect with which they treat everyone, and the incredible designing skills of Gok. He is a Master in the art of ^Class^.
From my understanding Gok doesn’t actually work at the boutique, he is only there for the show. Even without him the boutique looks lovely and the staff seem nice so I would like to visit when I’m getting married.
I'm happy that I live in England so I could go there to get my dress if I get married.
The shop is called Ava rose and is where he films ! Belongs to Paula Chappell and her two daughters Ava And Niamh nothing to do with Gok
That’s how all bridal shops should create the experience! I work in a shop like this and the number of brides who come in and say, “now THIS is what I wanted it to be like!” makes me so sad!!
The first dress on her was everything!
Agree
Right
I also agree. It was just so fantastic.
I just "snipped" and pasted all 3 side by side and the first one absolutely looks the best on her BY FAR - however, it is more about how the bride feels in the dress than anything.
@@BasicYTHandle avsolutely!
When the bride says “I don’t care” when you ask if the entourage will like the gown as well, that’s the gown. At the end of the day, it is what the bride is wearing the dress. It is about what makes them feel like the best version of themselves.
Exactly. This is how i want to fwel
I was so happy when she said that. She had thought she needed their approval but she didn't.
That's why I don't understand why brides bring anyone with them. I feel like she loved that second dress more then the one she picked, given she cried and felt like she needed something different because of their opinions. If you love a dress and you think it's perfect, it doesn't matter what the others say. It's your dress, they shouldn't have a say. If you do bring someone, their opinion shouldn't matter. I've seen so many brides now pick something else because of what others say and it's just sad.
The second dress was kind of a comfortable dress, but didn’t do much for her current figure. The first was fabulous!
She did seem happier in the third, though.
I love how Gok asked her if she thought it will be enough for the mom and friends with the 3rd dress and she just said "i don't care" because she loved it so much. You knew that was it.
Gok is just so amazing. Not only does he help these brides to find the perfect wedding dress sometimes he helps them to find their self confidence, their beauty and I love it. More Gok please!
When I was at my friends bridal appointment I didn’t critique the dresses like this. The only question I asked the bride was “can you drop it low and dance all night in it?” 🤣 it’s all about how she feels my personal style and taste has nothing to do with it.
❤
"Can you drop it low and dance all night?" is the single best question to ask at any occasion for any reason.
YOU are a great friend! It's not about anyone's taste but the brides! I'm glad you were there for her.
The first dress looked the best.
I like that this consultant listens, doesn't give up, and doesn't pressure a decision. Kudos to this team
I love that he asks what the bride's think about the dress, but almost always follows it up by asking how they feel about their bodies, because he knows that if they don't love themselves in it they won't truly love it
What a shame that she didn't go back and try on first dress again after seeing herself in the other two (without a doubt, the first one that made her look the best in every respect, IMHO). She was STUNNING in the first dress.
People are saying this but I felt that way about the third actually!
I'd love to see the 3rd dress after the sleeves were in and all alterations done.
Wrong. The first one was the worst and she knew she preferred the third so trying the first one on again would have been a waste of time.
@@nk47100 The third one was incredibly stunning on her in every way.
0:42 -- The intro set up an extremely tense situation, and then... Gok Wan arrives. I'm 99% sure this one is going to have a happy ending. Gok is a designer, therapist, and diplomat all rolled into one fabulously unique life form.
Doesn’t design wedding dresses
She actually, in my opinion, looked best in the second dress. I didn’t think it was too plain at all. I am blown away by the dresses in this particular place of all the bridal places I’ve ever seen this place has the most stunning gowns and the people that work there are absolutely brilliant!
I love Gok doing so much work with the pins. The dresses then fit so well even though they are not the right size. So much more effort than other SYTTD editions.
I'm already married but I'd have a second wedding just to wear one of the dresses from this boutique! How can every dress be so lovely? And Gok, with all the customisation to make sure every bride gets their dream dress. 💗
You know where to get a dress if u do a vow renewal 😝
Renew your vows!! There’s your reason!!
I would love to pretend I’m getting married just to have a consultation with Gok ! He is beyond perfect !
Essence of Australia has the best n affordable dresses .. 2000£ isn't cheap either , but u get my point..some of these dress would way more expensive elsewhere.
That first dress.... Absolute wow 😍😍😍 absolutely perfect on her
The first dress was just WOW
She is stunning! AND, how could you not LOVE Gok!! What an amazing man he is! So compassionate. Thank you Gok for what you do!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Goc was born for this job...he is blessed with the compassion of making EVERY bride feel absolutely beautiful. He instinctively knows what every bride needs to hear.
I'd bet he's a loving, loyal friend.
Read his life story💙 then you will see why he is like he is ❤️
That first dress was a showstopper. She looked perfect. The third was lovely too.
I love that when she said ''I don't care'' to Gok asking if the others would find it princess-y enough, the other stylish suddenly had a major smile on her face! So fun!
i don't understand why friends and family think their opinions on a dress are anywhere near as important as the bride's opinion and how she feels?? it's so weird how entitled family and friends get when it comes to weddings and dress shopping.
I think the issue is they come from 2 different perspectives. They want her to look her best. And she wants to feel her best. I agree that dress #1 flattered her more than second one. But from the comments she made towards the end about last dress I gather the bottom of the first dress felt heavy and restrictive.
If the bride doesn't want her friends and family's opinions, she should go dress shopping alone.
@@AFAskygoddess there's a difference between giving an opinion, and expecting that your opinion be the main influence on the decision of whether or not to buy the dress even though it's not your wedding.
@@renezra4886 YEP.
They were ok and just voice their opinions. And they were very careful to be considerate and honest without hurting her feelings. She needs to grow up.
Out of all the episodes I've watched, this was the only one that gave me goosebumps over just how beautiful she looks in those dresses. Absolutely stunning!
When is the people with the bride realize the dress isn't for them, it's for the bride and her groom?
I agree!!
Every mum wants to see their child look their very best. The second dress didn't do her justice.
If the bride asks people to come dress shopping with her, she should expect to hear their opinions. If I was told to come but keep quiet, I'd tell the bride that she really doesn't need me there.
This isn't just about how a dress looks. It's mostly about how the bride feels in it. 🤍
Yeessss!
And to many mothers refuse to accept their daughters. They expect them to be a doll they can dress up as they want and the doll bot allowed to feel anything
True.
Clearly.😨
For reals I feel like alot of people forget that.
From the title and the build up I was expecting a venomous monster mother, but I think she wasn't that bad, no one liked the dress, not just her, but she wasn't viscous like so many other mothers on SYTTD
I'm from Norway, but if I should get married to my husband again, I would defenately travel to Lancashire and Gok to get my wedding dress.
Hi petty lady
How are you doing today?
He only films in shop doesn’t own it !Paula Chappell and her daughters Ava and Niamh own it
She was a vision in that first dress! But the way her confidence rose in the 3rd was palpable. Beautiful bride.
The first dress was an absolute stunner! She looked beautiful as can be.
Stunning
The first one looked amazeballz on her
The fact that you said "Amazeballz" 🤣🤣🤣 I have not heard that in a long time.
@@Devin3Anthologie 😂
@@Devin3Anthologie right?!
I think Gok’s preparation with his brides is what gives them the confidence to love themselves. He really is love ❤️. What a great soul
She was so beautiful in each gown. There was no wrong decision. But, her reaction to the 3rd gown said it all. ❤
I do loved the first one on her, but her energy on the third dress was everything, that made her absolutely gorgeous 😍
All three dresses were so beautiful and feminine, but the third dress was the most unique. I Love how the bride's face lit up as she wore it. Much Love to her and her groom and family.
Two Gok episodes in one day !!! Hallelujah !
I love the second dress. She was right...so sorry she tried to please her friends..
She looked gorgeous in all three of them! Once the third dress is fitted it will (and was, don’t get me wrong) absolutely stunning!
Gok is the Chuck Norris of bridal gowns. No one else stands a chance. 💪🏻
Last gown was stunning💕
Gok always has such beautiful gowns
Real shame. Bless her. They were trying to kindly give her honest opinions but she seemed to really take it personally. She looked lovely in all three.
Yess.
Yessss
low self-esteem does that to people... that's so sad to see because she looks great in every one of these dresses!
Yes I agree
No, they were trying to push their choice on her.
I flipping hate it when the mums say 'it's just what I wanted' news flash - not your wedding sweet pea. 🙄
The bride looked stunning in all 3 dresses. I hope she chose the 2nd dress. That's the 1 she really loved, and didn't settle on the 3rd dress. What ever her decision she will look beautiful on the day.
I personally thought the 3rd dress suited her the best. And you could tell how happy she was! It was stunning and just perfect for her. ❤
I love the way Goks treating every customer with so much love. And all the dresses they've got are so gorgeous. I wish to get my wedding dress from them one day. But I'm so far from their country 😭😞 But i enjoy every brides experience with them every day 😍😘
Wow i love how Gok transforms these beautiful women to ethereal beings! I love it. It’s like a touch of grace and magic!❤️😍😘
I personally think she's got a great figure, and looked great in every pic. But it's gotta be what makes the bride happy 🙂
Gok is really a MASTER. Every dress he puts on to a client looks like THE DRESS
Most of Gok's beautiful dress is from Essence of Australia. And they are stunning!
Funny that in other SYTTD, sometimes (rarely) they have Essence of Australia too in some episodes, but we always see neverending dresses from Dando London, Hailey Paige, and Pnina Tornai
this is a smaller store so they stock smaller name brands
Yes, and the smaller brands are usually cheaper. When commenters complain about other versions being more expensive, this is one of the reasons.
Pinna tormei I think makes the gaudiest dresses. Too much sexiness to them
Love Essence of Australia dresses, they are stunning!
@@judithryle2113 true.. they hardly ever look bridal... No whimsical , magical any of that beauty to those dresses. Very rarely i hv liked any of her dresses.
I love how Gok seems to truly care about the brides to be!! Amazing human being!
The first dress was it!!
Mum’s *gasp* at seeing her in 3rd one was everything ❤️
Because she'd got her own way. Personally I thought the floppy lace bits on the arms looked messy.
@@cyflym11 maybe the lace bits were on-the-spot alterations which will then be done properly and won't look as messy
I actually loved the 2nd dress because it was more effortless. Not all brides want a heavy dress where they have to pick it up every time they walk.
me too ! the second dress was my favorite
I loved the skirt of the 2nd one. It was very Grace Kelly. I could see her floating around a dance floor in that
Hi Marcelina
How are you doing today?
It’s so soft and flowing. I don’t blame her!
@@cynthiat6505 Hi Cynthia
How are you doing today?
Gok listens, understands.
And delivers
I got all teary because she literally looks so beautiful in that first dress
Imagine getting dressed every day with Gok by your side! I need that kind of positivity ❤️
Hi Laurie
How are you doing today?
I just love how wonderful Gok is with his brides!!! Just lovely
“What do you think about your body?”
“It rocks.”
Yes it does darlin’ yes it does 💕
One thing that can make me sad on behalf of the bride is that she should always take care of what others think. The day is about the bride and not family and friends. The phrase I hear in all episodes from the bride is "Now I found something we ALL liked" like bruh! 😒
She isn't forced to bring people with her. Plus she chooses those herself. She brings them to help her. They did a fine job. The first dress was a dream come true. The second not. They were telling her kindly. Her tears had nothing to do with that. Just some build-up anxiety coming out.
The third dress was okay. Didn't like the weird sleeves though.
The first dress was stunning!!!!!!
The first dress was spectacular on her, and she has a wonderful shape! Beautiful sweet girl.
Beautiful Bride, I still liked the first dress on her.
💖💖💖 I need Gok to be my therapist!
The bride was so stunning in everything she wore! Such a beautiful personality and body❤️
When do you ever see a bride look great in the top 3 choices. Super flattering!! All of them.
I thought the first dress was the one --- but so glad the bride fell in love with something everyone else loved too.
Loved that last dress........The arms were everything
She looks like an angel without wings.
All 3 gowns were beautiful and looked amazing on her.
Honestly Gok say yes to the dress is the best. Like he listens to there wants and needs so much and knocks it out of the par
I like how the bride's mothers and the brides friends look like past and future versions of the same people, lol
🤣
She's a very beautiful young lady and looked absolutely stunning in all three of the beautiful dresses. I love how loving and kind the host was with her.
They're bonkers that second dress was perfection
Gorgeous Gok and gorgeous girl! She looked stunning in all three, but she chose the best for her happy day.
Every dress Gok chose for her was beautiful, she looked gorgeous in all of them. 💜
I loved the 2nd dress most on her because of how she lit up when she put it on. It was very romantic looking and it highlighted HER instead of the dress. Sad that he family couldn't see that. Still, if she's happy with that 3rd dress, then so am I.
She lit up the first time already. It made her feel like a princess. It was the only dress, that indeed enhanced her so much, that she even looked regal. Glad her family could see, that the second dress indeed did less for her, and they were kind and honest enough to tell her in a soft way. Her tears were nothing but build-up anxiety. Had nothing to do with how her entourage tried to help her make the best choice.
Gok is the best! Such beautiful dresses matched for the lovely brides.
That first dress gave me the feels. Its what I imagine I would wear
How is it that ALL the dresses in this shop are gorgeous???
Hi Christina
How are you doing today?
Essence of Australia makes the most wonderfully gorgeous dresses
I really liked dress 2 on her, she said she liked floaty and I found it really elegant in its simplicity while the top and bust were still lovely. Shame that the mother and Co were too blinded by THEIR visions of a princess dress to allow the bride to be happy in what she chose
they didn''t say she couldn't have it. They just said they didn't like it as much. They were brought to the appointment to give their opinions, and they gave them very respectfully.
@@MsJubjubbird I wouldn't say it was all respectful. One friend did say she looked thinner in the other dress. Not ok. Only made her feel more insecure. They just didn't like it wasn't what they wanted. They broke her confidence with it. They didn't have to say she couldn't have it, their reactions were enough to break her.
I hate it when the people who go with the brides say "it's not the dress for you"well your not wearing it are you.
Stunning! She an exceptionally beautiful young woman!!
I love how Gok supports his clients and helps them see past limitations… 🤗💕✨
💗 The first dress was absolutely stunning on her. I didn't like the second look. Ultimately the bride should go with what she loves, no matter when anyone else thinks or says
I just don't understand why the ppl who come with the bride think it's about them in ANY WAY. "What we wanted"?!
It's not ABOUT YOU. and it certainly isn't about what YOU want.
ffs. i love these videos. especially Auntie Gok. But i get tired of seeing family and friends being selfish and frankly very hurtful.
At least that one girl recognized it. and I hope they apologized.
When I eventually get married, I am not going for anything traditional. I wanna go for something Roman inspired given my Italian ancestry. I'd honestly probably go shopping alone because I don't care what my friends/family think. If they don't like it, too bad. They won't see it till my wedding and by then it would be too late.
Just wow--she's beautiful and her dress compliments her so nicely.
She had the cutest reaction to dress #3. WICKED! Love that for her
That first dress was absolutely STUNNING on her. I’m glad she found a dress _she_ loved though.
She looks amazing in all of the dresses. I thought the first brought more light to her eyes myself but whatever she chooses, it's her decision and right to be happy in her choice.
She has a wonderful beauty and first dress enhanced it all, and suited her so well
I personally loved her in the first gown, but at the end of the day it is how SHE feels in the gown. I agree that the first question and most important question should always be to the bride 'how do you feel in the dress?'
She is absolutely stunning in all of the dresses! 😍
Stunning she is absolutely stunning.
GOK totally rocks! There are no others like him! ❤️
Gok is just amazing in making the brides feel confident.
This is emotionally great!
Girl….you looked stunning in that first dress!! BUT, if the second dress is the one you LOVE….you get it for you!
Stunning dress and big congratulations for your hard work on self and weight loss, you look AMAZING......love the smile and mums tears of joy and love!!