Should you always forgive cheaters?

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  • WTF - Where's the Fork - is a series of exchange with MR Speaks and an invited guest to discuss important topics on life.
    This is part 1 of of this episode's WTF - Cheating

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  • @kennethdelmundo2049
    @kennethdelmundo2049 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mr speak well first of all thank you for the past few months you thought me soo much and keep doin what your doin use your words of wisdom to inspire more people in this world thank you once again!🙂

    • @Roses4ann3
      @Roses4ann3 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      its not thought its taught* :)

  • @VansAlva
    @VansAlva 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this MR Speaks...

  • @joshuasapungan5406
    @joshuasapungan5406 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mr.Speaks nalinawan ako 😊 more videos please!

  • @gringostuart7055
    @gringostuart7055 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes I caught my gf cheated on me and I break her but when my wife cheated on me and we already have 2 kids. I ask her what she wants and did she still want our relationship going since we have kids already? and I forgive her.. I still remember that stage in my life and I can say it's really hard to forget because until now, I can't forget it but FORGIVING is something everyone must have because it's the only way you can have PEACE inside of you.

  • @prodbydrl
    @prodbydrl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nagselos ako sa isang taong nakalaro nya lang sa ML, nung una wala lang naman daw yun sa knya kasi laro lang. Pero ako lagi ako nagdedemand ng moment/time na gusto ko kami lang magkalaro lagi. Ngayon, may nakilala sya sa ML, lagi ko nakikita na lagi sila magkalaro, gusto ko sumali pero hindi ako ma-invite ng gf ko nun. Kaya dumating sa point na nagseselos na ako, feeling ko naaagawan ako ng time, feeling ko mas gusto niya kalaro yung iba. Hanggang dumating din yung poing na naging magfriends sila sa FB, kapag tulog na ko nagkakaChat sila. Pero ang totoo, hindi ako tulog, inoOpen ko messenger ng GF ko. Nakikita ko usapan nila, ngayon nararamdaman kong nagkakagusto yung lalake sa GF ko. Oo hindi pa umaamin yung lalake, pero alam ko na may ganung nangyayari.
    Una pa lang pinapaiwas ko na sya sa lalake na yun ksi alam ko nagkakagusto na sya sa GF ko. Naging madalas ang pagseselos ko sa pag-uusap nila, kasi ayokong may iba syang kausap. Hindi ko alam kung pagdududa na ginagawa ko, pero nag-eexplain naman sya na wala lang yun at laro lang focus nila.
    Hanggang dumating din yung point na di ko alam lumalala na pala, akala ko okay lang sa kanya na nagseselos ako. Di ko alam, unti-unti na pala syang nanlalamig saken. Lumalayo na loob nya saken, ngayon may nangyari. Nahulog loob nya dun sa lalakeng kinaiinisan ko, nagkagustuhan sila.
    Dahilan ba yung pagseselos ko para iwanan nya ako kaagad?
    Ngayon break na kami, ang masakit dun sya napunta sa lalakeng yon. Di daw nya naiwasan na hindi magkagusto dahil sa ipinakita nung lalake. We're almost the same naman daw, tinanong ko saan kami nagkaiba ang sagot ng Gf ko, "ML" high rank na rin kasi yung lalake.
    She cheated on me ba? After ilang days bumalik sya sakin, pero nabasa ko na nag i love you sya sa lalake. Pero may iba syang account at dun pala sila nag-uusap. Ang sakit lang at di ko matanggap, ngayon nagpapanggap ako na hindi ko alam namamagitan sa kanila. Nahulaan ko new pass ng fb ng GF ko, lagi ko nakikuta pag-uusap nila. Hindi pa sila ngayon pero matamis sila kung maglambingan. Lagi sinasabi sa akin ng ex/gf ko na babalik sya, hindi lang daw muna ngayon dahil nanlalamig pa sya sakin dahil sa nagawa kong pagseselos at pagdududa.
    Mahal na mahal nya ako, pero sa isang iglap nanlamig sya. Napunta loob nya sa iba.

    • @kennitsuga2880
      @kennitsuga2880 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Parang rebound na yan pre kaso ang masakit parang ikaw yung pinapaasa hindi si ML boy.
      Nangyari din yan saken 3yrs kami ganyan din babalik daw pero sa huli sinagot din nya yung kawork nya na pinagselosan ko.
      Di ko sinasabi na ganun din yung mangyayari sa inyo pero parang ganun na nga.

    • @breatheliveandthrive7404
      @breatheliveandthrive7404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude, you may not know me but lemme give u some priceless as gold asvice:
      1. Jealousy is natural.Nothing to be embarrassed about.
      2. Women are in general are emotional creatures. They act on how they feel at the moment and explain their behaviors later.
      3. She is being selfish by nkt considering how you feel as her boyfriend by talking to that other dude considering the fact it makes you jealous.
      4. Your situation is not unique.You could have confronted her when your gut tells you HEY I SMELL A FUCKING DEAD RAT ABOUT THIS!
      Be a MAN to confront a disrespectful girlfriend by saying HEY, I KNOW THERE IS SOMETHIG GOING ON.IF YOU DONT STOP, I WILL START TALKING TO OTHER GIRLS! By saying this,make sure you MEAN IT! ALWAYS MIRROR GIRLS BD BEHAVIOR TO GET RESPECT! IF A GIRL DOESNT RESPECT YOU, SHE WILL NOT LOVE YOU!
      5. NEVER EVER EVER EVER BE A BACK UP! DONT BE HER WIMP DOORMAT! WALK AWAY from the situation and let her feel you are no longer there when she comes back.
      6 Dude, most women out there by nature always monkey branch! believe me, they always line up options just to make sure they dont end up alone once their current relationship goes south.
      7. Remember this: A POOR WOMAN NEVER THROWS AWAY HER ONLY PAIR OF SHOES" and that shoes is YOU!

  • @opppsygaming6377
    @opppsygaming6377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watch your every videos mr,speaks so I can give my friends some advice about love. thanks a lot mr.speaks!

  • @erinsanjuan8094
    @erinsanjuan8094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MR. Speaks. I need to talk to you. 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @seandeniega9278
    @seandeniega9278 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yung messenger hahaha akala ko saakin xd

    • @zyronacuario797
      @zyronacuario797 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      same us😂😂

    • @marfi8963
      @marfi8963 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahahaha same. hello from 2018

  • @knzcyrus
    @knzcyrus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    once he cheated on the other girl, u think he wont do the same way again?

  • @vincentjaydejesus7490
    @vincentjaydejesus7490 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    qt ng babae. while discussing a problem she's eating hihihihi

  • @zeddtolouse7821
    @zeddtolouse7821 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sulit ang panonood :)

  • @knzcyrus
    @knzcyrus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i have a question sayo lods, dun sa vid about flirting na Mr Speaks Official pero 500 subs lang ata. please answer it

  • @TonyStark_1399
    @TonyStark_1399 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video! 😊 I feel satisfied of what I have today.

  • @kathewing1459
    @kathewing1459 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sana po one day ganyan den, maka one on one den po kita😅 ang dami ko pong gustong inatanong sayo😊

  • @Angellopez-bb1gt
    @Angellopez-bb1gt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is it okay to give 2nd chance? 🥺

  • @datisana6951
    @datisana6951 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    many reason,why cheated happen,emotional physical financial etc,becoz of weakness

  • @conybrv3989
    @conybrv3989 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hly cow i adore you mr. speaks

  • @Pgue25
    @Pgue25 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    More videos please!

  • @datisana6951
    @datisana6951 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    lahat nmn may dahilan nangyari ang ganyan pangalunya or what,kailangan mo nang emotional stress assistance,then people came to you ,then well happen bcoze of weakness.

  • @alviniabalisi2964
    @alviniabalisi2964 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    sana meron kang gc for querries ,, it can a help a lot

  • @lancecalabines7317
    @lancecalabines7317 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😥😥😥😥

  • @peinsumalabe7738
    @peinsumalabe7738 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    💖❤

  • @rageshkumar9796
    @rageshkumar9796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ano po masasabi niyo sa mga babae na iniisip na cheater ang lahat ng lalaki?

    • @breatheliveandthrive7404
      @breatheliveandthrive7404 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      "ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT"
      "MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS BY NATURE"
      "THERE ARE NO GOOD MEN LEFT"
      dude this is a huge red flag that when you make her as a girlfriend, she i going to bring overwhelming drama on your table. She has been trapped in a Trauma. She has got DADDY ISSUES. Which means that she was not getting pleasant relationship with her father which js the first man in her life.

  • @melodiastarks204
    @melodiastarks204 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I forgave her 4 times ^_^ what should i do in next? if she lies again

  • @breatheliveandthrive7404
    @breatheliveandthrive7404 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would rather not. As what spiderman 3 said, "YOU WANT FORGIVENESS, GET A RELIGION!"
    I am not here to judge anyone but if you want to be her second best or a wimp beta male doormat and sleep with your one eye open then that is up to you and good luck to your fantasy that one day they will change for you because hell truth is THEY DON'T!

  • @oliver6659
    @oliver6659 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    masmaganda to kung walang music

  • @icevargas58
    @icevargas58 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    😢

  • @andressdaquial3535
    @andressdaquial3535 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    bolero!

  • @straightouttaarea5119
    @straightouttaarea5119 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know why I'm not impressed by this guy. He seem like a con-artist to me.