if you love the guy already, say yes already. tama yun, hindi naman sinabing love him or love them and say yes. pwede namang manatiling matalino analyzing how you really feel. kasi if you really love the guy and you already felt it deep within you, then what are you waiting for? but if you don't really love the guy, why would you say yes? of course you shouldn't... you also have to be wise, you don't need to say yes to everybody, you just have to be true. it's always depending upon the situation, at marami na rin ang nagsisi dahil sa hindi pag-take ng chance. hindi dapat matakot if you know your direction and if you know how to handle it. after all, nasa 'yo rin kung pahihintulutan mo ang katarantaduhan within your relationship.
I just wanna say thank you dahil sayo naging kami ng boyfriend ko. Simula nung nirelease tong video na to pinapanood niya to sakin nung nanliligaw siya sakin. And now, 3 years and counting na kami hahahaha. Hindi naman sa minamadali yung pangliligaw o papatagalin syempre kikilalanin muna. Mas naging kilala namin isat isa nung triny naming maging kami and yes super okay yung desisyon namin. THANK YOU!
"I can only fix you if you want to be fixed" Iba din Sir. Hahaha! Kalokohan. Ewan pero natawa lang ako sa sinabi n'yang 'yan. Peace po! Mga lalaking takot/inis sa standards. Hays. Brad naman, man up! Anyway, ang standards po ng mga babae ay hindi sa pagiging maarte, etc. It is also to protect them from being hurt by the wrong person. Para po sa mga babaeng may mga standards: Please, don't put your guard down. Hayaan po natin ang mga lalaking akyatin ang mataas nating "standards" and with that, malalaman nga natin kung karapat-dapat nga ba si guy. Dahil isa po ako sa mga believer ng "Real Love Waits". Makikita natin si right person if we patiently wait for him. Trust God's plans for you.
Wow test on water.. I agree ate.. dapat as much as possible you'll end up in the right person.. don't commit in many relationship before ending up to the right one :)
Totally agree with you po. Kaya tayo may standards kasi yung igigive back natin na love is worth it din. Karamihan kasi ngayon pag sinabing standards sasabihing pang kpop, leadingman etc. Hindi nila alam simple lang standards natin' isa na dun yung taong seseryoso satin. At ang pagkakaroon ng standards ay isang test sa lalaki na hindi siya matatakot sa standards na yun kasi alam niya sa sarili niya na seryoso siya..madali naman tayong ma.fall ei. Consistensy is the key pero unfortunately sa panahon ngayon mga lalaki hindi na kayang maghintay kasi gusto nila agad2 sagutin. Like what??? Hindi basta2 yung iinvest natin pag mamahalin natin sila. Mahirap ibalik ang dating sarili pag sa maling tao ka mapunta kaya dapat lang na maging sigurado tayo. Thank you. 💙
Well doesnt the girl deserve to be given that 'best' part of the guy? And if the guy is genuine, kahit tapos na ang ligaw stage, he'd still give his best for the girl. CONSISTENCY. Wala na bang decent na lalaki sa mundo??!! Nag-yes lang, wala nang effort AMP. Dapat nga mas umeffort pag kayo na eh. Kasi the trust was given by the girl wholeheartedly. Break that trust and it's going to be hard to earn again.
Students nowadays are becoming more gullible . Imagine they actually believe that you should lower your standards and easily commit yourself into a relationahip? Whats wrong with you? Entering into a relationship is a commitment , only those who are easy to get will follow this guy's advice. Young women know your self worth because believe me if you follow this guy's courtship advice , your parter will loose his respect for you. A guy who really loves you will be patient enough to understand your hesitations. This guy clearly does not understand whats the difference between a person who likes someone and a person who loves someone.
Jonathan Pacifico you clearly didn’t understand his narrative, he didn’t say that girls should let their guard down for a guy just to get her a bf, the context is both the guy and girl LIKE each other, you should already take the chance. You shouldn’t let the guy wait especially if the feeling is already mutual. It’s calles striking the iron while it’s hot.
@@blackstewiegriffin thats exactly why it is wrong. Entering into a relationship is not a matter of feelings . Its about commitment. I understand his narrative, and yes he said that you should not lower your standards or atleast make some limitations , however the fact that he is telling the lady to go enter a relationship by mere feelings already belies his disclaimers on not lowering womens standard. Before entering into a relationship first ask yourself the question why do you want to enter into a relationship in the firstplace . is it just to satisfy your craving to be a part of a relationship or do you really want to enter into a commitment. Take note that to enter into a relationship is one foot forward towards marriage. His statements actually decreases mutual relationship values . Imagine by mere mutual feelings of liking each other you are already pursuaded to enter into a relationship. Ask yourself first are you willing to commit to the person you are about to say yes to. Its not a matter of compatibility concenr its a matter of commitment. Ito nalang example ko if a lady has been in so many relationship. In terms of repect . do you think na mataas parin respect sakanya nung guy na susunod. You may say na that men should not not act that way , and I agree if ganun sasabihin mo . pero masisisi mo ba sila if ganun mafeel nila ngayung alam nila na kung sino sinong kamay na ang hinawakan ng gf nila. No need na ung kissing eh ung simpleng holding hands nalang eh mat impact un . so dont listen to that guy my goodness pinapababa lang nya ung value ng relationship. Palagay ko nga ikaw di nakaintindi nung narrative nya eh , and what does it imply . nakinig ka lang merely dun sa sinabi nya on its face pero di mo naintindihan ung impact nun. Sa mga nakikinig at sa mga susunod
@@bernieblink22 I agree hindi talaga relatable ung sinabi ko kasi I am telling what is right . people really does not want to listen to what is right but rather listen to things that they want to hear . parang ung sinasabi nyang speaker. If want mo nga naman na may karelasyon or in love ka eh talagang maniniwala ka sakanya pero if alam mo na ang relationship is a matter of comitment alam mong tama ung sinasabi ko. Kasi you would consider its after effect and not just to satisfy ones cravings to enter into a relationship
When I first time to hear your talks, my mind was like BOOM! "I need to watch more of his videos" then I decided to search it on YT more videos please!!!
Binge watched your vids and I'm a fan now. You're the best, Mr Speaks. I hope you continue on making meaningful contentd like this one. Not so lengthy/wordy but straight to the point. Plus points yung pagiging prangka mo 💯
@@darkangel7071 but it doesn't mean na palagi nalang itataas ang standards. Hindi naman lahat ng lalaki na papasok sa buhay nyo ay sasaktan kayo. Masyado lang talagang inihahalintulad nyo sa mga k dramas na pinapanuod nyo.
FEBRUARY 8, 2021 I Don't know kubg bakit bglang lumabas to sa youtube home page. Pero I can still remember na ito yung nagpaisip sakin kung dapat ba wag na ako matakot magmahal ulit at sagutin ko na sya. The fact that he's the one who sent me this, ansarap alalahanin. After 1 month na niligawan nya ako, sinagot ko sya. And now, 2 YEARS AND 8 MONTHS na kami. Thanks to you dear creator . Ngayon masasabi ko na I am very happy na hinayaan ko ulit sarili ko na ma-inlove after my first heartbreak. I love my man so much. One thing na gusto ko mangyari, matupad lahat ng promises at wag sya mapagod sakin.
my wife too sinagot nya ako agad pero nag set kami ng rules. nagumpisa pa kami sa LDR at naka LDR kami ng one year tapos ngayon ito may anak na kami. 😍 mayasang nagsasama sa iisang bubungan
Shit! I am already a big fan of yours, Mr. Speaks!! 😂❤ I just watched this video for like... 10 minutes ago? And I kept on replaying it! OMG! HAHAHAHA. 😂 Your words are so enlightening and convincing. Ibaaaaa! Ang galing nyo po! 😍 Looking forward for more videos to watch. At sana ma-meet ko po kayo personally. Mwehehe. Love u po! ❤
guys no need to brag someone's will to share something.. i have read some of the comments.. some do repects what the speaker was trying to establish and some just wanted to say anything that will be against his opinion.. actually anyone who gives you their wisdom or what is their outlook to anyone's situation like this case? at the end of the day its you who will carry on with your life..
I have been telling girls the same line since college..u like me, i like you, bt p natin pptagalin..pg niligawan kta magpipigil aq ng utot pg ksma kta..kung tayo na ipapakita q sau na kya qng umutot sa harap mu..hehe..plastikan nlng ang panliligaw ngaun e..un ung dahilan kung bkit sinasabi ng girls sa guys na "nagbago ka na" pg mtgal n sila..props to you @MR Speaks ..#speakthetruth man
In my opinion people should not settle for less or early lalo na kung sa online lang na kilala. I think napaka immature nun settling for someone you have just knew.
wow totoo to seryoso may niligawan ako halos mag iisang taon nya kong sinagot then isang taon lang nag break na dn kame then isang araw may babae akong nakilala flirt flirt lang kunyare sweet sweetan ganun ganun pero may mga joke sa huli pero d namen alam na isang araw totohanan na pala yung mga ginagawa nameng kalandian haha unexpected talga na totoo na pala lahat lahat wala ng ligawan na nangyare ayun 4 yrs na kame ngayon go with the flow lang .
nag share ako nito sa fb.. sana mapanuod to ng babaeng crush na crush ko at gustong gusto ko maging girlfriend... sana magkaroon ako ng chance sa kanya kapag mapanuod nya to.. 😊
Well some if the girls,wait actually majority of girls are like her waiting for the guy to make a wrong move then everything will fall apart then the girl will turn you down.. Even tho you do and give anything for her. The longer it takes for us boys the lesser we have feeling forcthe girl masi baka isipin natin paasa o merun ibang gusto or worst d natin nameet standard nya.. Db ang hirap ng ganun.. Been there.. Waiting for the girl yes then all of the sudden she turn me down cuz she already like someone who doesnt give a shit about her.. Well good luck to her...
True!... Right now may liniligawan ako nganito pero they are in a relationship pero linoloko n sya ng guy and this girl is a single mom at age 20.... I hate guys who will commit to a woman but will keep cheating on the woman
The speaker doesn't understand that every person has emotion. Once emotion got stirred then anything can happen along the way. The fact of the matter is that all guys will surely show himself goody-goody from the start until the time he takes advantage of her. And if sexual fornication happens between the two of them then it only adds up to another emotional pain that is pass on to their next generation in the future. I suggest that the young lady continue to wait until the right godly guy appears. It is not about a "standard" but it's about waiting for the kind of guy that has the right priorities in his life. If you want to call that as a "standard" then "standard" it will be. Better do the right thing than be sorry and go through the consequences later in life.
Can a single woman read the heart of every man? If that young lady is in an ongoing relationship with a guy, do you think petting was not done in their private moments? Unless that person is a God-fearing person not to mention that they are surrounded by close friends to whom they could be accountable with, in the area of morality then there is a huge possibility of a restraint.
Real love doesn't have any standard. Remember that. To the people who have yet to fall in love with the right person, you won't understand this. So it's better to wait and let your heart talk to you than letting your mind feel. The only goal for having standards in choosing who you want to be with, is guaranteed security, but unguaranteed love. Now woould you rather have that or vice versa? because you can build security and make it better over time, but love isn't built. It's felt. And you need that unconditional love in every moment of your life.
Justyn M. To me life is now, if she were to wait and sit for the godly guy then that won't happen. Because let's face it, there is no such thing as a person completely 100 compatible with you or me. When we think that that person is enough then just continue to make it work and if it doesn't then just move on. Life is short, we have a choice when to or not to accept. Patience is a virtue but just because you waited doesn't always mean that the outcome will be beneficial. The world will be unfair but we were always given a choice so why not now?
sa mga down na dyan isipin mo mga kasalanan mo dami dba? pero hindi ka kinukuha ng Diyos ibig sabihin may silbi ka, may gagawin kapang mabuti sa mundo kaya kapit lang mga ate, kuya. napakasarap ng buhay pag kasama mo si Jesus sa bawat paghihirap mo:>
Sir mali ka doon. Kasi even guys should have standards din. Yes we both agree na we both dont believe in best foot forward pero kailangan alam din naming mga lalaki kung ok yung girl o hindi. Kasi interested kami in more than just their looks. May standards din kami. Pano kung dating palang toxic na itutuloy mo pa? So it comes in stages... Agree to go out on dates and get to know each other, talk about exclusive dating and this is the stage where you talk about negotiables and non negotiables, then tsaka palang magiging kayo. May Degrees din iyan. Say YES to EXCLUSIVE DATING and GETTING TO KNOW but Hindi naman ibig sabihin LOVE na kaagad.
san yung open forum nato ? hahaha nakita ko lang to sa fb eh .. simple lang eh .. maging kayo kung gusto mo talaga makilala kung sino sya .. hindi ka makakasigurado na kung sya ba talaga yung ipinapakita nya habang nanliligaw sya sayo .. hiwalayan mo kapag nalaman mo yung tunay na ugali or hindi talaga sya yung hinahanap mo .. kesa naman paasahin mo ng taon tapos hindi mo pala sasagutin tapos pagsisisihan mo dahil d m sinagot kase niloko ka nung sinagot mo .. simple lang talaga .. sagutin mo kung gusto mo .. try nyo din manligaw girls mahirap maging lalake umaasa sa isang "oo" na hindi namin alam kung makukuha ba namin o hindi ..
Not sure if these "anti" got his point. Gaya ng sabi niya sa dulo, sagutin mo na and have rules and everything. Obviously those rules are to protect the girl. Kasi pagmanliligaw, obviously hindi magpapakita ng badside.
Mr. Speaks paano liniligawan mo ung babae n may Boyfriend n pero ung Boyfriend nya meron ibang babae (ex girlfriend ng boyfriend ni girl)? tapos ung babae confronting his Boyfriend kung nagkabalikan sila ng ex nya
pag ang guy at girl ay naging mag-on ,hindi lang naman ang guy ang dapat inoobserve maging si Girl,malay ba natin guys na yung nagustuhan nating Girl eh may kakaiba palang sikreto or what so ever ..
To each his own! I think this is great advice! But its up to you if you wanna follow. Is this really bad advice? If you think it is, keep it to yourselves nalang. Opinion ni Mr. Speaks ito eh. Who are you to say his opinion is wrong? Respeto lang.
Paano kung ayaw ng parents ko. Gusto ko na siya pero natatakot ako. Gusto ko approve ng parents ko pero wala eh ayaw nila. 7 months na siyang nanliligaw at gusto ko na siyang sagutin
Maybe how he explained it was poor, but he gave the right advice to the girl FYI. The first part was for the girl, the second part about 2 people liking each other and just saying yes to the guy, is just an additional advice. He said that the best way to know the guy is to say yes already. Which is true. Especially if the guy is just someone you met recently. But that's not the only way. You can also be friends first. but that friendship risks the guy's chances of being liked back by the girl. We all know women have standards. But the truth is, real love doesn't have any standards. This is what keeps women from choosing the right guy and they don't even realize it until later on in their lives when they might regret it. So Mr. Speaks gave the right advice to the girl. Standards need to go away in order for you to find the right person. Longing for security isn't the answer to that.
Honestly speaking, nowadays you cannot identify if a person is sincere or not and that is the scariest shit you could ever go through.
if you love the guy already, say yes already. tama yun, hindi naman sinabing love him or love them and say yes. pwede namang manatiling matalino analyzing how you really feel. kasi if you really love the guy and you already felt it deep within you, then what are you waiting for? but if you don't really love the guy, why would you say yes? of course you shouldn't... you also have to be wise, you don't need to say yes to everybody, you just have to be true. it's always depending upon the situation, at marami na rin ang nagsisi dahil sa hindi pag-take ng chance. hindi dapat matakot if you know your direction and if you know how to handle it. after all, nasa 'yo rin kung pahihintulutan mo ang katarantaduhan within your relationship.
AHAHA mag pinang huhugutan
I just wanna say thank you dahil sayo naging kami ng boyfriend ko. Simula nung nirelease tong video na to pinapanood niya to sakin nung nanliligaw siya sakin. And now, 3 years and counting na kami hahahaha. Hindi naman sa minamadali yung pangliligaw o papatagalin syempre kikilalanin muna. Mas naging kilala namin isat isa nung triny naming maging kami and yes super okay yung desisyon namin. THANK YOU!
"I can only fix you if you want to be fixed" Iba din Sir. Hahaha! Kalokohan. Ewan pero natawa lang ako sa sinabi n'yang 'yan. Peace po! Mga lalaking takot/inis sa standards. Hays. Brad naman, man up! Anyway, ang standards po ng mga babae ay hindi sa pagiging maarte, etc. It is also to protect them from being hurt by the wrong person. Para po sa mga babaeng may mga standards: Please, don't put your guard down. Hayaan po natin ang mga lalaking akyatin ang mataas nating "standards" and with that, malalaman nga natin kung karapat-dapat nga ba si guy. Dahil isa po ako sa mga believer ng "Real Love Waits". Makikita natin si right person if we patiently wait for him. Trust God's plans for you.
yung standards niyo na hawig sa mga disney characters?
Wow test on water.. I agree ate.. dapat as much as possible you'll end up in the right person.. don't commit in many relationship before ending up to the right one :)
Kai Serafica yung standards niyo na pang Kpop?
Totally agree with you po. Kaya tayo may standards kasi yung igigive back natin na love is worth it din. Karamihan kasi ngayon pag sinabing standards sasabihing pang kpop, leadingman etc.
Hindi nila alam simple lang standards natin' isa na dun yung taong seseryoso satin. At ang pagkakaroon ng standards ay isang test sa lalaki na hindi siya matatakot sa standards na yun kasi alam niya sa sarili niya na seryoso siya..madali naman tayong ma.fall ei. Consistensy is the key pero unfortunately sa panahon ngayon mga lalaki hindi na kayang maghintay kasi gusto nila agad2 sagutin. Like what??? Hindi basta2 yung iinvest natin pag mamahalin natin sila. Mahirap ibalik ang dating sarili pag sa maling tao ka mapunta kaya dapat lang na maging sigurado tayo. Thank you. 💙
@@myjiltheegallego HAHAHAHAHA
Well doesnt the girl deserve to be given that 'best' part of the guy? And if the guy is genuine, kahit tapos na ang ligaw stage, he'd still give his best for the girl. CONSISTENCY. Wala na bang decent na lalaki sa mundo??!! Nag-yes lang, wala nang effort AMP. Dapat nga mas umeffort pag kayo na eh. Kasi the trust was given by the girl wholeheartedly. Break that trust and it's going to be hard to earn again.
Students nowadays are becoming more gullible . Imagine they actually believe that you should lower your standards and easily commit yourself into a relationahip? Whats wrong with you? Entering into a relationship is a commitment , only those who are easy to get will follow this guy's advice. Young women know your self worth because believe me if you follow this guy's courtship advice , your parter will loose his respect for you. A guy who really loves you will be patient enough to understand your hesitations. This guy clearly does not understand whats the difference between a person who likes someone and a person who loves someone.
Exactlyyyy💯
Jonathan Pacifico you clearly didn’t understand his narrative, he didn’t say that girls should let their guard down for a guy just to get her a bf, the context is both the guy and girl LIKE each other, you should already take the chance. You shouldn’t let the guy wait especially if the feeling is already mutual. It’s calles striking the iron while it’s hot.
Actually may point sya. Yung perspective mo is not relatable.
@@blackstewiegriffin thats exactly why it is wrong. Entering into a relationship is not a matter of feelings . Its about commitment. I understand his narrative, and yes he said that you should not lower your standards or atleast make some limitations , however the fact that he is telling the lady to go enter a relationship by mere feelings already belies his disclaimers on not lowering womens standard.
Before entering into a relationship first ask yourself the question why do you want to enter into a relationship in the firstplace . is it just to satisfy your craving to be a part of a relationship or do you really want to enter into a commitment.
Take note that to enter into a relationship is one foot forward towards marriage.
His statements actually decreases mutual relationship values . Imagine by mere mutual feelings of liking each other you are already pursuaded to enter into a relationship.
Ask yourself first are you willing to commit to the person you are about to say yes to.
Its not a matter of compatibility concenr its a matter of commitment.
Ito nalang example ko if a lady has been in so many relationship. In terms of repect . do you think na mataas parin respect sakanya nung guy na susunod.
You may say na that men should not
not act that way , and I agree if ganun sasabihin mo . pero masisisi mo ba sila if ganun mafeel nila ngayung alam nila na kung sino sinong kamay na ang hinawakan ng gf nila. No need na ung kissing eh ung simpleng holding hands nalang eh mat impact un . so dont listen to that guy my goodness pinapababa lang nya ung value ng relationship.
Palagay ko nga ikaw di nakaintindi nung narrative nya eh , and what does it imply . nakinig ka lang merely dun sa sinabi nya on its face pero di mo naintindihan ung impact nun. Sa mga nakikinig at sa mga susunod
@@bernieblink22 I agree hindi talaga relatable ung sinabi ko kasi I am telling what is right . people really does not want to listen to what is right but rather listen to things that they want to hear . parang ung sinasabi nyang speaker.
If want mo nga naman na may karelasyon or in love ka eh talagang maniniwala ka sakanya pero if alam mo na ang relationship is a matter of comitment alam mong tama ung sinasabi ko. Kasi you would consider its after effect and not just to satisfy ones cravings to enter into a relationship
Alternative title: "How to get more exes"
HAHAHAHAHAHAA pag gusto kita gusto moko,tayo na. 4 weeks after* sorry crush lang pala nafeel ko sayo sige break na tayo HAAHAHAHAHAHA
HAHAHAHAHAHA same thoughts.
Ano naman kung madaming ex?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Mas maganda Yan, mas mabuting Marami ka na subukan ano ba Akala mo sa Mundo perpekto na pag may na kilala ka forever mo na ba Yan?
When I first time to hear your talks, my mind was like BOOM! "I need to watch more of his videos" then I decided to search it on YT more videos please!!!
Binge watched your vids and I'm a fan now. You're the best, Mr Speaks. I hope you continue on making meaningful contentd like this one. Not so lengthy/wordy but straight to the point. Plus points yung pagiging prangka mo 💯
Yung iba kasi andameng standards, ng dahil sa lintek standards ayun di na nagka bf :))
Tumandang single in other words 🤣🤣✌️✌️
Ndi naman sa standads po eh, ndi lahat ng babae ganun ndi ba pwede mas tumaas lang yung pader namin dahil minsan na kaming naloko at ginago po.
@@darkangel7071 but it doesn't mean na palagi nalang itataas ang standards. Hindi naman lahat ng lalaki na papasok sa buhay nyo ay sasaktan kayo. Masyado lang talagang inihahalintulad nyo sa mga k dramas na pinapanuod nyo.
FEBRUARY 8, 2021
I Don't know kubg bakit bglang lumabas to sa youtube home page. Pero I can still remember na ito yung nagpaisip sakin kung dapat ba wag na ako matakot magmahal ulit at sagutin ko na sya. The fact that he's the one who sent me this, ansarap alalahanin. After 1 month na niligawan nya ako, sinagot ko sya. And now, 2 YEARS AND 8 MONTHS na kami. Thanks to you dear creator . Ngayon masasabi ko na I am very happy na hinayaan ko ulit sarili ko na ma-inlove after my first heartbreak. I love my man so much. One thing na gusto ko mangyari, matupad lahat ng promises at wag sya mapagod sakin.
my wife too sinagot nya ako agad pero nag set kami ng rules. nagumpisa pa kami sa LDR at naka LDR kami ng one year tapos ngayon ito may anak na kami. 😍 mayasang nagsasama sa iisang bubungan
Well he has a point. Its very common in todays society.
excited to see more videos with this man mr.speaks
If HE/SHE is worth the WAIT, then WAIT...
Shit! I am already a big fan of yours, Mr. Speaks!! 😂❤ I just watched this video for like... 10 minutes ago? And I kept on replaying it! OMG! HAHAHAHA. 😂 Your words are so enlightening and convincing. Ibaaaaa! Ang galing nyo po! 😍 Looking forward for more videos to watch. At sana ma-meet ko po kayo personally. Mwehehe. Love u po! ❤
Angelica Santos Same😂
Angelica Santos hi
agree ako sa knya about ligaw. di ako naniniwala sa ligaw. pero i disagree sa "gusto mo sya, gusto ka nya, tayo na"
galing 👏 ala kong masabi. nasaktan ako sa ibang sinabi pero nagising ako sa ibang sinabi niteys. galing mr. speak 💞
He has a point hahaha !!!!
This is reality
guys no need to brag someone's will to share something.. i have read some of the comments.. some do repects what the speaker was trying to establish and some just wanted to say anything that will be against his opinion.. actually anyone who gives you their wisdom or what is their outlook to anyone's situation like this case? at the end of the day its you who will carry on with your life..
Not if they try to get cash from people.
I have been telling girls the same line since college..u like me, i like you, bt p natin pptagalin..pg niligawan kta magpipigil aq ng utot pg ksma kta..kung tayo na ipapakita q sau na kya qng umutot sa harap mu..hehe..plastikan nlng ang panliligaw ngaun e..un ung dahilan kung bkit sinasabi ng girls sa guys na "nagbago ka na" pg mtgal n sila..props to you @MR Speaks ..#speakthetruth man
Pero mas masakit pag kayo na tapos sinaktan ka mas ok kung saktan ka nya kahit nanliligaw ka pa lang
sobrang galing mo MR Speaks on point lahat
Grabe idol na agad kita MR speaks! 👍👍👏👏
Galing mo sir realtalk lahat... Very nice...
My point nga nmn!!! Wg na patagalin.. malalaman mo lng yan pg ayan n
In my opinion people should not settle for less or early lalo na kung sa online lang na kilala.
I think napaka immature nun settling for someone you have just knew.
Di Naman settle trial and error lang relationship na Yan eh, pag alam mo na sya na talaga pwede na yan kahit mag kasalan pa
i like it.. hands down so far..
Paps never stop mag boom to account na to... 👆
More power
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I really like your words @mr.speaker
Ang ganda ng opinion niya pre..
wow totoo to seryoso may niligawan ako halos mag iisang taon nya kong sinagot then isang taon lang nag break na dn kame then isang araw may babae akong nakilala flirt flirt lang kunyare sweet sweetan ganun ganun pero may mga joke sa huli pero d namen alam na isang araw totohanan na pala yung mga ginagawa nameng kalandian haha unexpected talga na totoo na pala lahat lahat wala ng ligawan na nangyare ayun 4 yrs na kame ngayon go with the flow lang .
Ka mango!!!..ma hibi² ka daun? Think before mag desisyon. Lawsi!🤣
nag share ako nito sa fb.. sana mapanuod to ng babaeng crush na crush ko at gustong gusto ko maging girlfriend... sana magkaroon ako ng chance sa kanya kapag mapanuod nya to.. 😊
OMG sobrang relate ako dito
Truth Truth!
Well some if the girls,wait actually majority of girls are like her waiting for the guy to make a wrong move then everything will fall apart then the girl will turn you down.. Even tho you do and give anything for her. The longer it takes for us boys the lesser we have feeling forcthe girl masi baka isipin natin paasa o merun ibang gusto or worst d natin nameet standard nya.. Db ang hirap ng ganun.. Been there.. Waiting for the girl yes then all of the sudden she turn me down cuz she already like someone who doesnt give a shit about her.. Well good luck to her...
True!... Right now may liniligawan ako nganito pero they are in a relationship pero linoloko n sya ng guy and this girl is a single mom at age 20.... I hate guys who will commit to a woman but will keep cheating on the woman
I am inspired. 😄🙏🏻❤️
natauhan ako nung napanood ko to hahahahahahha
Kasi hindi naman ligaw ang pinatatagal, relasyon ang pinatatagal.
The speaker doesn't understand that every person has emotion. Once emotion got stirred then anything can happen along the way. The fact of the matter is that all guys will surely show himself goody-goody from the start until the time he takes advantage of her. And if sexual fornication happens between the two of them then it only adds up to another emotional pain that is pass on to their next generation in the future. I suggest that the young lady continue to wait until the right godly guy appears. It is not about a "standard" but it's about waiting for the kind of guy that has the right priorities in his life. If you want to call that as a "standard" then "standard" it will be. Better do the right thing than be sorry and go through the consequences later in life.
not all guys are like what you said.
Can a single woman read the heart of every man? If that young lady is in an ongoing relationship with a guy, do you think petting was not done in their private moments? Unless that person is a God-fearing person not to mention that they are surrounded by close friends to whom they could be accountable with, in the area of morality then there is a huge possibility of a restraint.
Real love doesn't have any standard. Remember that. To the people who have yet to fall in love with the right person, you won't understand this. So it's better to wait and let your heart talk to you than letting your mind feel. The only goal for having standards in choosing who you want to be with, is guaranteed security, but unguaranteed love. Now woould you rather have that or vice versa? because you can build security and make it better over time, but love isn't built. It's felt. And you need that unconditional love in every moment of your life.
He gave her a choice right? Doesn't matter whatever he said, it's still depends on her if she will do it or not.
Justyn M. To me life is now, if she were to wait and sit for the godly guy then that won't happen. Because let's face it, there is no such thing as a person completely 100 compatible with you or me. When we think that that person is enough then just continue to make it work and if it doesn't then just move on. Life is short, we have a choice when to or not to accept. Patience is a virtue but just because you waited doesn't always mean that the outcome will be beneficial. The world will be unfair but we were always given a choice so why not now?
sa mga down na dyan isipin mo mga kasalanan mo dami dba? pero hindi ka kinukuha ng Diyos ibig sabihin may silbi ka, may gagawin kapang mabuti sa mundo kaya kapit lang mga ate, kuya. napakasarap ng buhay pag kasama mo si Jesus sa bawat paghihirap mo:>
i really appreciate
Nakalimutan ata ng karamihan dito ung sinabi nya n "have rules and everything" part 😂😂
totally agree!
Idol! hahaha san ba yang lugar mo? makaattend nga.. nice!
Post pa madaming videos, kahit clips and highlights lang. Salamat :)
2020? Anyone? 🥰
EXACTLY WHAT I FEEL RN HUHU
Pano naman pag gusto niyo isat isa pero hindi pwede kasi may masasagasaan
Mr. Speak can i ask po? Sana mabasa mo po ito. Pwede po ba kayo maglabas ng vid about how to build a strong relationship
keep posting pleasseeeee
dude soo freaking true 😉🤣😂
Please, make more vids mr. speaks.
Sir mali ka doon. Kasi even guys should have standards din. Yes we both agree na we both dont believe in best foot forward pero kailangan alam din naming mga lalaki kung ok yung girl o hindi. Kasi interested kami in more than just their looks. May standards din kami. Pano kung dating palang toxic na itutuloy mo pa? So it comes in stages... Agree to go out on dates and get to know each other, talk about exclusive dating and this is the stage where you talk about negotiables and non negotiables, then tsaka palang magiging kayo.
May Degrees din iyan. Say YES to EXCLUSIVE DATING and GETTING TO KNOW but Hindi naman ibig sabihin LOVE na kaagad.
Omg! Super relate 😑
#iSaidYesAlready
san yung open forum nato ? hahaha nakita ko lang to sa fb eh .. simple lang eh .. maging kayo kung gusto mo talaga makilala kung sino sya .. hindi ka makakasigurado na kung sya ba talaga yung ipinapakita nya habang nanliligaw sya sayo .. hiwalayan mo kapag nalaman mo yung tunay na ugali or hindi talaga sya yung hinahanap mo .. kesa naman paasahin mo ng taon tapos hindi mo pala sasagutin tapos pagsisisihan mo dahil d m sinagot kase niloko ka nung sinagot mo .. simple lang talaga .. sagutin mo kung gusto mo .. try nyo din manligaw girls mahirap maging lalake umaasa sa isang "oo" na hindi namin alam kung makukuha ba namin o hindi ..
damn straight
Bruhhh I finna make sum decision
i can relate
i want to listen to your talk
Pano kung dimo sya gusto pero gusto ka nya?
Not sure if these "anti" got his point. Gaya ng sabi niya sa dulo, sagutin mo na and have rules and everything. Obviously those rules are to protect the girl.
Kasi pagmanliligaw, obviously hindi magpapakita ng badside.
more vids po
Tama
Please update some more videos. I really like your vids xD
paano ka mananalo kung dika susugal #sugalero
Kelan ka kaya ulit babalik kuya
Pa add sa parami ng praming fans mo! Sana maka visit aq sa next talk mo.
What if po someone is courting me but his gay?? 😧
Kung gusto mo naman siya eh di sagutin mo na. Kung ayaw mo sa kanya prangkahan mo na.Simple naman eh
trueee
i love her but
Mr. Speaks paano liniligawan mo ung babae n may Boyfriend n pero ung Boyfriend nya meron ibang babae (ex girlfriend ng boyfriend ni girl)? tapos ung babae confronting his Boyfriend kung nagkabalikan sila ng ex nya
tama eh,
I have a boyfriend...pero silahis po sya...what am I gonna do?
Okay, "Mr. Love Expert" hahahaha
ano sabi kc ng mundo? ryt
i hope mag karon ako ng chance na makinig sa mga talk mo :(
Tenchu tiktok
"Gusto kita, gusto mo ko" sobrang wack naman non hahaha
Ung ibang babae ung standards nila sa isang lalake ung pang KDrama e, kinaen ng sistema haha
Anong name nung girl mr. Speaks?
pag ang guy at girl ay naging mag-on ,hindi lang naman ang guy ang dapat inoobserve maging si Girl,malay ba natin guys na yung nagustuhan nating Girl eh may kakaiba palang sikreto or what so ever ..
Kuya pwede po bang mag tanong kahit dito lang?
Heey, could someone translate what he is saying to English, please?
You need to adjust.
This is me 😑
To each his own! I think this is great advice! But its up to you if you wanna follow. Is this really bad advice? If you think it is, keep it to yourselves nalang. Opinion ni Mr. Speaks ito eh. Who are you to say his opinion is wrong? Respeto lang.
Anong name ni ate?
Natawa ako sa ""
hahaha masyado akong relate ditey
hehehehe
name ng girl?
Jommar Soria half korean siya eh name niya
Deh Khua Lam
HAHAHA
Jommar Soria wala parin ba haha
di ko mAhanap😂😂
No if u really want an advise just accept the fact. Even though it hurts, cause pain is the main ingredients of LOVE
Paano kung ayaw ng parents ko. Gusto ko na siya pero natatakot ako. Gusto ko approve ng parents ko pero wala eh ayaw nila. 7 months na siyang nanliligaw at gusto ko na siyang sagutin
Naging kayo na ba?
Single ako since born lmao
That was the poorest advice someone could give to another person who said they don't have a boyfriend for 2 years. tsk. sad.
Maybe how he explained it was poor, but he gave the right advice to the girl FYI. The first part was for the girl, the second part about 2 people liking each other and just saying yes to the guy, is just an additional advice. He said that the best way to know the guy is to say yes already. Which is true. Especially if the guy is just someone you met recently. But that's not the only way. You can also be friends first. but that friendship risks the guy's chances of being liked back by the girl. We all know women have standards. But the truth is, real love doesn't have any standards. This is what keeps women from choosing the right guy and they don't even realize it until later on in their lives when they might regret it. So Mr. Speaks gave the right advice to the girl. Standards need to go away in order for you to find the right person. Longing for security isn't the answer to that.
Edi ikaw mag advice
Objective Truth di mo ata naintindihan eh? dba sabi niya have rules... syempre may condition yan na pag sinira niya ibig sabihin yan gago siya hahaha
Di mo gets yung logic
Bobo mo nag comment kapa
May Punto cnabi nya
ANONG MESSENGER NAME NI KUYA?
THIS GUY DOESN'T KNOW WHAT HE'S SAYING. PEOPLE ARE SO GULLIBLE NOW. JUST GIVE SOMEONE A MIC AND PEOPLE WILL START BELIEVING THEM.
Isa pa to. WOKE MASYADO AMP