Such great advice. I was crying 10 minutes in and cried on and off throughout because I finally got some solid advice on how to help myself work on my yelling
Is it too late to start at the age of 6 or 8 ? Because from how i undestand the brain allready developed the things you mentioned(sorry my englisch) Im only at 15' in the video maybe you talk about that later🙈
My 3 yr. daughter keeps saying "dady is dumb"..."momy is stupid".. because she read the word in one of the books. We keep telling her that its inapproriate and to please stop. We ask her "why do you say it" and she sticks her tounge out and laughs, because she does not understand the word. How do you deal with that and let her understand, to not say that anymore?
At 32 min.. after your spiel and the kid has calmed down, I reckon you the parent can express anger or disappointment authentically and ask for an apology. (And without threats and consequences).. otherwise I think many parents just can't identify with this method as they see it as bottling themselves up. The mindfulness in yourself the parent I totally get and internalise, but if you're also upset at a bottle shattering it's not authentic to bottle yourself up the whole way. The child will understand your upset too, without the threats and consequences. Otherwise I'm a total fan on Laura Markham 😊
i do this. Always I'll breath and then say : "I'm sorry baby, I shouldn't talk like that" I always explain ( and that is every time i catch myself) that " mommy is learning to be better and we are a team and we can do this, when I tell you, you should listen and when you don't listen I should speak politely and remind you" Albeit looking at me with confusion she will listen then.
I would recommend giving it a go. You may be surprised at the results. I’ve used this with my children, aged 7, 13, and 18, and I am so happy with the results. 😊
@@oliviathatcher1459how does this work with interpersonal relationships among your kids? Particularly in conflict? I have a 6,5,2 and 1 yr old. The older two especially, are constantly pushing each others buttons
@@elizabethbrink476 sorry, but it seems you did not listen. Each kid wants to be heard. Are you listening to your kids? I guess its hard with so many in the house. Maybe THAT is the problem, listening to everyone and fullfiling their needs.
@@startobe07I’ve since started using self government with my kids, and essentially allows them to be heard and disagree appropriately. Game changer! The lady has a TH-cam channel. It’s pretty straightforward and takes the power struggle out of any situation. It focuses on being calm for both the parent and child.
Such great advice. I was crying 10 minutes in and cried on and off throughout because I finally got some solid advice on how to help myself work on my yelling
"Just stop and shut your mouth" - This is where I will start today. Great video.
If I would have heard this before.... This is so good and clear advice
Brilliant interview with the Queen of Peaceful Parenting!
Wow you're a blessed lady...thanks for the advice.
Underrated video!
Great tips thank you very much
10:18 gold. Stop yourself earlier and earlier in the process
8:30
Incredible advice!
Is it too late to start at the age of 6 or 8 ? Because from how i undestand the brain allready developed the things you mentioned(sorry my englisch) Im only at 15' in the video maybe you talk about that later🙈
What happens if Jasin still doesn't comply?
Be consistent bad habits are not usually changed overnight. We need to replace them with good habits.
My 3 yr. daughter keeps saying "dady is dumb"..."momy is stupid".. because she read the word in one of the books. We keep telling her that its inapproriate and to please stop. We ask her "why do you say it" and she sticks her tounge out and laughs, because she does not understand the word. How do you deal with that and let her understand, to not say that anymore?
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You tried what exactly?
At 32 min.. after your spiel and the kid has calmed down, I reckon you the parent can express anger or disappointment authentically and ask for an apology. (And without threats and consequences).. otherwise I think many parents just can't identify with this method as they see it as bottling themselves up. The mindfulness in yourself the parent I totally get and internalise, but if you're also upset at a bottle shattering it's not authentic to bottle yourself up the whole way. The child will understand your upset too, without the threats and consequences.
Otherwise I'm a total fan on Laura Markham 😊
i do this. Always I'll breath and then say : "I'm sorry baby, I shouldn't talk like that" I always explain ( and that is every time i catch myself) that " mommy is learning to be better and we are a team and we can do this, when I tell you, you should listen and when you don't listen I should speak politely and remind you" Albeit looking at me with confusion she will listen then.
There’s also of a- kissing happening in the video, hard to watch. It’s annoying. Stop worshipping this person and just get the content out.
Oh my god what a load of nonsense
I would recommend giving it a go. You may be surprised at the results. I’ve used this with my children, aged 7, 13, and 18, and I am so happy with the results. 😊
@@oliviathatcher1459how does this work with interpersonal relationships among your kids? Particularly in conflict? I have a 6,5,2 and 1 yr old. The older two especially, are constantly pushing each others buttons
@@elizabethbrink476 sorry, but it seems you did not listen. Each kid wants to be heard. Are you listening to your kids? I guess its hard with so many in the house. Maybe THAT is the problem, listening to everyone and fullfiling their needs.
@@startobe07I’ve since started using self government with my kids, and essentially allows them to be heard and disagree appropriately. Game changer! The lady has a TH-cam channel. It’s pretty straightforward and takes the power struggle out of any situation. It focuses on being calm for both the parent and child.