What Can I Do to Stop My Kid’s Aggressive Behavior?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 พ.ค. 2022
- When our child is kicking or biting someone, our first thought is probably, "How do I protect the other person?!" But here's something to consider: We also need to protect our child from associating their bad behavior with being a bad kid. In this episode, Dr. Becky advises three parents on how to respond to aggressive behavior while keeping everyone safe. She walks through distancing "the urge" from "the action," emotionally vaccinating kids for frustrating moments, and enforcing boundaries instead of punishments. In every situation, she gently reminds each caller that they're a good parent with a good kid.
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This hit home! My youngest has gotten stitches because of aggressive older sister. It's hard! "I won't let you!" is my new favorite advice. The way you break this all down is so helpful. New listening to you, but I've already learned so much. I love the good inside thought. It's spot on! I have been leading my kid nothing she's a bad kid. Thank you for sharing this!
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I liked because I’m learning English and I have to learn how to take care of boy of 7 years in school the school gave me the opportunity to work there and take care of this child and you teaching me so much because you put the subtitles and when something I don’t onderstend lol in my own lenguaje God bless you
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Love love love...love Dr. Becky and how she answered that first question! So helpful to role play being on their level and being an ally. On a personal note, I have a lot of activation and trigger to the term "emotional vaccination. That really doesn't land well for me at all... only because vaccination has so so so much around it in this day in age....and for me note positive!
Im sesrching through ur posts trying to find answers to my situation. My 2 boys went from being gentle with each other and being each others cheerleaders to saying things like I hate u, do u want me to hit u, if you dont play with me im not going to stand up for you. And i know me and my husband say things in this structure ! Helpp!!
My focus is on eating organic ripe fruits and vegetables. Clean and easy to digest protein sources and good well rounded fat sources.
Do you have research to support the efficacy of this approach on decreasing aggression? What happens with neurodivergent kids or kids with language delays that may not be able to process all this language you are throwing at them?
There is so much language, and many of the kids I work with don't have that capacity yet. I agree that other strategies than verbal/auditory processing are needed for kids.
Aggression in our case was an unknown sensitivity to artificial food dye. We cut the dye, the aggression (and the hyperactivity) went with it.
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My 4yo grandson was born 3 months before covid started. He went to family daycare from 9 months old and only associated the 2 other children and never displayed any problems with other kids but when he started kindy he was fighting the his peers. The kindy managed this with re-sets, where he was pulled away from the other kids until he calmed down. What we see now that we didnt see before is a 4yo that is terrified of other children. Any child that approaches him sends him into a panic. His fight/flight response is triggered with children. He talks to unfamiliar adults e.g asking a shop assistance for an icecream but if a child approaches him he has a look of pure terror on his face, we have never seen him speak to an unfamiliar child. Recently I took him to a playground and there were 2 children who were about 2 or 3 and he wouldnt go on the equipment until the chilren had left the playground. It is heartbreaking to watch someone so little be socially isolated. 😥
I spoke to his Peadiatrician about this and he said he is seeing so many kids born during the covid years with social anxiety. Is anyone else noticing this amongst their children?
Omg! This is absurd! How would a 2 1/2 year old be able to take in these type of words? and you can “practice “ all you want but when the child bites they are in “fight or flight” meaning they can not reflect and think oh I better bite my chew toy rather than my brother. It’s very obvious from watching this that she has not actually worked with children.
the only oneway is bhagwat gita . becz spoken by god 5000 yrs ago and the perfect knowledge .human knowlege is not sufficient in this case so read bhagwat gita