She’s Not As Into You As Before | Avoid The Passion Trap | Tests, Power Plays, and Pull Aways

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    If you want a girl to feel excited over you, then you need to increase space and anxiety. It's that simple you cannot get a woman excited over you if you are texting her all the time. It doesn't work that way. You must get comfortable with bringing space into the relationship and controlling the space. This is important, especially if she asks for space-you must give it to her! Also, don't let her control the space and pull away from you and upset you.
    Instead, it's better to be in control and pull away from her so you control the space (this is psychologically easier and less stressful if you take control of the situation). If you want respect and adoration and high attraction, you must maintain distance and space to get her thinking about you. There are no exceptions to this rule.
    If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.
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    Chris Canwell

ความคิดเห็น • 131

  • @ellyKelly77
    @ellyKelly77 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    The less you invest in them, the more they invest in you. That line hits hards... That's the alpha mentality

  • @ojmsn
    @ojmsn ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I just avoid tests and relationships all together. Much more peaceful life this way.

  • @BigS4mu_
    @BigS4mu_ ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I just asked a girl out, she said she was busy with work. I told her to take care and tell me when she's free. She didn't reply for 3 days, then suddenly messaged me saying she's sorry. I needed to practice my patience but YOU'RE THE MAN BRO!

  • @anthonykiprotich6862
    @anthonykiprotich6862 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Your advice is spot on. Letting the woman pull away and do your thing is the best move no matter how uncomfortable it is.

  • @sandeeppalla004
    @sandeeppalla004 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    The exact situation I'm going through.. Everything was perfect & suddenly she pulled away because of work and there's no more passion during this phase. Your videos help me to not text, call or want her attention for the major part, She finds her way to come back and that's when I respond, to keep it going & believe things fall in place eventually.

  • @dbo1111
    @dbo1111 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Guys this shit is real, but realize if she is hot guarantee there are many guys fighting for her attention. That's why don't be outcome dependent. Move on and think abundance. Oneitis is tough to overcome but if you could attract her you can do it again. Peace and blessings kings.

  • @Luigi-xg7hx
    @Luigi-xg7hx ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Guys listen, If you keep all day texting her, telling her compliments and the most of the time available, soon she is gonna get boried of you, thats why soon or later she starts acting with less interest. This is like if you eat your favorite dish everyday, 3 times per day, soon you will get boried of this. The secret is just to be no constant with the attention to her, just take it easy. Greetings

  • @mrkeitt
    @mrkeitt ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm currently reconciling with my ex gf. We broke up in December and I made all the mistakes as far as insecurities and etc leading to the break-up. I was acting needy and trying to fix things and my attempts were futile. I finally fell back and got my affairs in order as well as my self respect. She gradually started reaching out and expressing herself that she misses me and etc. One thing she said was that she didn't like how much we texted and spoke during the day. That was enlightening because Chris has stressed this in a few videos. She loves how I've changed to the point where my short delayed texts give her anxiety which creates attraction. Of course she didn't say that part. But it's obvious. I love the direction we're headed and the way the tables turned. I had no idea how much I was messing up for the last year until the distance gave me clarity. Between reading " Atomic attraction" , " no more Mr nice guy" and " Love unfucked" I'm gonna be alright. It's discipline or lack thereof caused so much damage. Good luck fellas. Take your time and focus on the betterment of self. The woman is merely a byproduct of growth and maturity. I can honestly say I do have a good woman so I don't mind being a loving man but still keeping her anxious and on her toes. She's a gorgeous Italian female and my 1st interracial relationship. Andddd as I typed this she called and said " I just wanted to say I appreciate you and the efforts you're making and I love you " So with that being said. Take your time but use it wisely. Good things happen when you remain calm and regain your masculinity.

  • @lokey987
    @lokey987 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    that's why it's better to get intimate asap, all that long waiting lowers your chance.

  • @fernendo4
    @fernendo4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Don’t cave in. Be a man. When she does come back don’t be rude but be critical of her disrespect and hold her accountable.

  • @maxtechmax
    @maxtechmax ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Chris - EVERY SINGLE PIECE OF ADVICE YOU'VE GIVEN... HAS COME TRUE. Thank you so much, man.

  • @accountant02130
    @accountant02130 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    In women .. the less effort you put in .. the more you get out ......

  • @morty8659
    @morty8659 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He’s not wrong…listen to him. Trust the process

  • @mannusingh1115
    @mannusingh1115 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Brilliant advice Sir! Absolutely spot on. Been there & done that ....they always come back. Patience is the key

  • @sound-engineer
    @sound-engineer ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It just happened to me a day before. I didn't even ask her anything. I just moved on.

  • @HolySpirit911
    @HolySpirit911 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s best to focus on you 100% of the time.

  • @hassanhassanoo
    @hassanhassanoo ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Ur the best coach Chris thank you so much i appreciate ur work keep it up

  • @nvn__
    @nvn__ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Cutting edge video as usual.

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happening to me right now. This is facts💯

  • @oppahadventures114
    @oppahadventures114 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The most brilliant dating coach ever give Chris a million subscribers