Narcissist's Sexual Identities (ENGLISH responses)

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  • @brendaplunkett8659
    @brendaplunkett8659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you. It was helpful to know he is emotionally and sexually 9 years old max.

  • @borg-borg-2015
    @borg-borg-2015 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Narcissists have no ego and are max 9 years old internally - that makes a lot of sense to me now. That's, imho, the core of it!

  • @mexicanbeautyqueen7988
    @mexicanbeautyqueen7988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The best Dr. ever!! His changing lives

  • @romepix
    @romepix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Painfully accurate - I am floored by the fact that the handful of serious narcs ive has as family, married family, partners, etc become less and less unique personalities and rather a collection of symptoms and textbook list of these personality disorder checklists. Who the fuck did I spend my entire life with?

    • @georgehunter2813
      @georgehunter2813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes. A collection of symptoms. That is all there is. A collection of symptoms.

    • @vincentwilliams8685
      @vincentwilliams8685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same 10+ years makes me feel ill

    • @georgehunter2813
      @georgehunter2813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Out of context.

  • @smunnerlyn4737
    @smunnerlyn4737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Thank you so much. This really explains a lot about what was happening in my 20 year marriage. There was no actual relationship, only “business like transactions.” He also had porn/object fetishes and would prefer objects and idols to real relationships. Given an ultimatum, he quickly chose his porn/toys and money/success over his family. Good riddance!

    • @oscarwilliamson1128
      @oscarwilliamson1128 ปีที่แล้ว

      S Munnerlyn,You look cute 🥰,You don’t need a narcissist in your life….

  • @ameliabad7642
    @ameliabad7642 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is an absolute eye opener 😳😳😳 it’s makes soooo my much sense to me now

  • @andaydeniz
    @andaydeniz ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is an absolute gold. Thank you.

  • @tracyrodgers5179
    @tracyrodgers5179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    When my narcissistic ex crashed and he knew I was going to leave him (married almost 20 years) he started injecting testosterone and human growth hormone and had an affair. Thank u for helping me understand what narcissism looks like and making my life make some sense.

  • @khadidjamoulai6370
    @khadidjamoulai6370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank God I've had seen this video that answer a lot of questions in my mind

  • @zandraleezee
    @zandraleezee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Excellent! I wondered about all of this fluctuation. This certainly clarifies what I suspected. Again, thank you!

    • @oscarwilliamson1128
      @oscarwilliamson1128 ปีที่แล้ว

      Zandra Lee,You look cute 🥰,Hope you are not with a narcissist…..

  • @justme-xe2un
    @justme-xe2un 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ok that was very logical and very clear thank you so much as i am trying to descorver who i am living with and here are some answers!

    • @tammywallace5611
      @tammywallace5611 ปีที่แล้ว

      You will probably find that now it will all come together.

  • @GabrielB7369
    @GabrielB7369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    MyNPD spouse is pansexual.At some point,I thought he was gay the way he hates intimacy.He will fullfill his needs everywhere while depriving me"

    • @MaryNewmanFayard
      @MaryNewmanFayard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This^^^^

    • @TakerMJCSfan
      @TakerMJCSfan ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mine said at first I think I’m gay and now he thinks that he’s transgender but I told him I think he does this for attention and he says no this is who I really am and I explain to him that he would do anything even if it meant hurting family members to go through with the process but again, I think it’s for attention

  • @sueszoo777
    @sueszoo777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It explains why they can be hoarders too!! My ex collected everything and preferred buying things to collect to intimacy

  • @francinesmith8109
    @francinesmith8109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    These sick ppl are even more predictable now. So much information in this video.

  • @ragnar999tobi
    @ragnar999tobi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Is possible that a female narcissist, can play with both genders? To get material support, carrer support and money from men while using women more for emotional support and for cleaning her aparment and cloths etc.? So that she may jump between men and women depending on the situation and her momentual needs? So that she jumps always to the source that gives her the most support, attention and resources she needs? And when they dry out she moves on to the next one.

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Whatever it takes with whoever can give.

    • @ash1277100
      @ash1277100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@samvaknin absolutely!

    • @jeffreyexposito3803
      @jeffreyexposito3803 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@samvaknin So is it true that narcassists whether male or female are disposed to bisexuality?

    • @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh
      @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe they are,my ex had women and men.​@jeffreyexposito3803

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jeffreyexposito3803 No.

  • @12Ansah
    @12Ansah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sam Sam!! This is text book knowledge. Am even overdosed! 😀

  • @mkrl3844
    @mkrl3844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Good video. Sam helped me realize so many things. My father is undoubtedly a narcissist. I'm 50% sure I'm one myself due to the all the time I've spent with him and his influence on me in life. I only relate to some of the things Sam mentions when he explains the psyche of a narcissist. How can I know for sure If I'm a full blown narcissist?

    • @evka24
      @evka24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      there is a check list ..look online...if u have empathy and can love u r not a narcisst

  • @zakariyaadeel2862
    @zakariyaadeel2862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This was really interesting. I've had these ideas about narcissists I've dated and sone in my family - this allowed my mind to go places I felt I shouldn't previously.

  • @ralu1651
    @ralu1651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    No reality test \ ego = my thoughts were always: “this person has no morality/ shameless” following by blaming perhaps my “narrow views”.... until some years laters required to “wake-up”...

  • @GabrielB7369
    @GabrielB7369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I also know someone, he was divorced 3 times guess what his wives say about him? They are jealous of his relationship with his daughter, its not just being pansexual, its also incestous too, they will get supply even from their kids

    • @marciloni12
      @marciloni12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup, I noticed that as well. They use female and male family members to compete with their partners. The more uncomfortable you appear, the more they amp up the behaviour.

    • @MaryNewmanFayard
      @MaryNewmanFayard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@marciloni12 .. yes I’ve saw this !!

  • @maryc4463
    @maryc4463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sam you have enlightened me amazingly in the last couple of hours of watching your videos.
    Is there a correlation between necrophilia and narcissism by chance? I discovered my ex was into necrophilia on his phone one time and it was around the same time I was waking up after a night out (up to 24 hours later), having no memory of getting home etc, to discover I had been quite brutally violated. This happened a number of times.

  • @go_off_Sis
    @go_off_Sis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you for your research work on this matter 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Giorno.
    @Giorno. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What do you think about Blanchard and Freund (1993), regarding erotic target identity inversions?

  • @Fakeid-p3o
    @Fakeid-p3o 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What is “ infantile sexuality “ ? Thank you

    • @Fakeid-p3o
      @Fakeid-p3o 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True so true . Got the answer by listening to the all video

  • @Makewayproduction
    @Makewayproduction 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A great example is "Ezra Mccandless". It's like Sam is talking exactly about her in this video!

  • @carolynmanning1347
    @carolynmanning1347 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Brilliant

  • @ms.nunnayabizness9020
    @ms.nunnayabizness9020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m wondering if there is a corollary between the transgender trend and the rise in narcissism in that generation.

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      samvak.tripod.com/faq19.html

    • @ms.nunnayabizness9020
      @ms.nunnayabizness9020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sam Vaknin that all makes complete sense. I suggested (quite unpopular opinion) that they suffered from body dysmorphia and that it was bullshit similar to pro Ana websites. The fact that they obsessively draw attention to the dysmorphia sorta negates the idea that they do not see themselves accurately. On the contrary, this is how they get attention. They are obsessed with they attention and are hyper reactive to NOT getting attention rather than people not accepting them for who/how they believe themselves to be.

  • @jaderiley747
    @jaderiley747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    They are the true transgenders!!! Wow

  • @vickimartens8960
    @vickimartens8960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Could a dominantly somatic narcissist display cerebral narcissism through constantly communicating his 'know-it-all-ness' in every subject with nominal trivial information gathered from Google? The attention garnered from the listeners considered cerebral narcissist supply, by the collapsed somatic narcissist? Can the somatic narcissist also be covert?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes to everything, as you would have known had you listened to previous vids.

    • @vickimartens8960
      @vickimartens8960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@samvaknin I'm watching them as fast as I can. I just have to guess it what order to watch them in.

  • @majarasovic7389
    @majarasovic7389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh my.... I would love to tell you my life story, just to confirm your words...

  • @JS-em8lz
    @JS-em8lz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg