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  • #302: This is the last of the footage we have of our son. Saying goodbye to him was the hardest thing we've ever done in life. Please be kind to one another and to us.
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  • @WatersWife
    @WatersWife  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1595

    For those who don’t understand why we share this footage of our son...
    Being vloggers, we had our camera there anyway, and I didn't know if I was going to publish any of this footage. But I sure as hell wanted to film every second of my son for us to keep. While going through my 42 hours of labor, I was scared and feeling very alone. I felt like no one else was going through what I was going through and I turned to the internet to find people who could relate. I couldn't find anyone who had been willing to film and share their journey. I decided then that I would share what I felt comfortable - in hopes that it would be there to comfort others who followed us in this horrible nightmare. I don't regret one second of our decision to share. I didn't do this for fame. I did this because I will not be silent about my son. I will not hide my grief. This is real life. This happened. My son was real. Our story was real. That is why we shared this.

    • @mrmvpvip
      @mrmvpvip 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      If it weren't for videos like this, I would probably never feel emotions like this. I'd never thought about how it feels to lose a child and this footgae has brought emotions and feelings that I don't even know existed. There's no textbook to teach us how to mourn someone's death and sharing this little boy's short but precious life to the world is an amazing way to remember him. I'm from China and logically I wouldn't cross path with this boy, but now because of this video, I'm proud to say: I've seen you and I'll remember you Beckett!

    • @justiceskelton2864
      @justiceskelton2864 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      WatersWife Vlogs I'm so sorry for your lost 😢
      I miscarried my child 4 years ago and its truly horrible to lose a child💞 I wish I had the chance to hold mine! I hope you and your family heal and ovbs you can't fully heal from something like this but I can see you're stronger then me.
      And at this moment I may be pregnant again with my fiance 😔 and tbh its really scary after the last time.
      Hope the best for you and your family,
      Justice xoxo

    • @calleigh-jaybailey237
      @calleigh-jaybailey237 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry

    • @chloeoneill7719
      @chloeoneill7719 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      You’re right don’t be silent about your son I have never and never will be silent about mine. I gave birth to my son Leo on March 21st 2017 at 22 weeks and shared pictures of him and always will. He lived for 3 hours and passed in my arms. Watching this video brought back so many memories spending my last moments with him 😔 Such a haunting and soul destroying thing to go through but we have grown from it as that’s all we can do and our baby boys live on in our hearts♥️♥️♥️

    • @BeccaBeeMe
      @BeccaBeeMe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      WatersWife Vlogs Bless your hearts! I'm bawling with you now, such a precious soul! I completely "get it" , I wasn't given the chance to do much more than take a few blurry Polaroids when I lost my baby.....he was wisked away from us so quickly, this was in the mid '80's, so much different now days.
      You're all in my prayers. 💙😇

  • @lorenmarie2471
    @lorenmarie2471 6 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    Pregnant with my first child, my heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry for your loss... 😟 couldn't imagine losing my baby

    • @angelc.7592
      @angelc.7592 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Loren Cooper I see u had the baby. Congrats

    • @bananaturtle4466
      @bananaturtle4466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Is that ur babies feet in ur pic? IF yes, Congratulations!

    • @alexandraruth8524
      @alexandraruth8524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Loren Cooper so it’s nine months later how’s the baby boy or girl

    • @paisgumma4243
      @paisgumma4243 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelc.7592 it is not nice to be talking about this over here right now

    • @asupercoolsealwithasunhat1979
      @asupercoolsealwithasunhat1979 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Angel C. I was literally going to say the same thing lol. But yeah, congratulations 🎉

  • @Darkcanada
    @Darkcanada 6 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    U will never forget him. I have lost 3 to an incompetent cervix.. it's been over 20yrs since I lost my last baby who was a boy as well. His name was Ethan. I did have 1 child a girl. She had a son and named him after her brother Ethan. But I grieve for my babies everyday, and always will. Cherish ur memories. Keep them close that's how they live on.

    • @kaelynjade8026
      @kaelynjade8026 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tracy Arvelin I'm so sorry, keep going strong :). And so sweet of your daughter to name her boy Ethan.

    • @slaviapolandia7541
      @slaviapolandia7541 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am so sorry for your loss Tracy. Please forgive me for not knowing what else to say

    • @kimnamjoonkimseokjinjinmon9255
      @kimnamjoonkimseokjinjinmon9255 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tracy Arvelin im sorry

    • @laylaodle1750
      @laylaodle1750 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are so Brave and I respect you for sharing your story! I hope you are doing good

    • @JustNatax3
      @JustNatax3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry for your losses, that's a lot for one lifetime... I hope you, your daughter and grandson are doing great. I wish you the best!

  • @Fa6uumiii
    @Fa6uumiii 8 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    Im muslim, I don't know you, i never seen your vlog, this is my first time watching you. I just wanna let you know, that your baby is an angel, your baby now is between gods hand, your baby is living spiritually, once your baby stop breathing hes going to play in heaven with the other kids and watch over you, did you know that your baby is always going to be standing on the heavens door for you? Did you know that he's never going to let go of you? And wont accept entering heaven without you? He is gonna stand there and tell god i want my mommy and daddy with me, im not gonna go in until i hold my mommy and daddys hands in? Of course he is in heaven hes an angel in heaven not a normal person in heaven, and did you know that he is going to marry the most beautiful angels of heaven? Hes special, and hes gonna make u special the day of the judgment and will be waiting for you defending you insisting of holding your hand into heaven with him, he is going to bless you ask for forgiveness 4 u

    • @Fa6uumiii
      @Fa6uumiii 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Keep strong young lady, be proud! You're one of those special mommies out there. I lost my first child in January miscarriage! Because i have sickle cell anemia and some organ failure im a high risk but i would give any and everything to have a child. Im still struggling with depression after my miscarriage but everything happens for a reason. I just wanted to share my belief in your situation. Love you and bless your family!

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      +Amanda Carusone #CureBreastCancer We are just taking the religious comments as what they are. A beautiful sentiment of support. We may not all believe the same, but I hope that we can all have respect for one another. I appreciate all of you caring and loving us and our son.

    • @Fa6uumiii
      @Fa6uumiii 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      WatersWife Vlogs i don't mean anything bad from my comment, i just wanted to give you hope and faith and to feel better, so i told you what we believe when a mom in ur situation. even if you don't believe in it, trust me when i say its for the best and its a huge blessing. thank you for understanding! you don't have to be religious for you to be special in the after life. :)

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      +Tooma bh no worries at all. We weren't offended by your comment. Like I said, we took it as it was - a sweet sentiment of support. Love and respect make this world a beautiful place.

    • @schulyeraverill7803
      @schulyeraverill7803 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +WatersWife Vlogs I am so sorry that that had to happen he was so cute and cool and aswsome he will always be with you guys I will pray all night :-)

  • @elizabethvargas2001
    @elizabethvargas2001 6 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    The tears just started flowing watching this 💔

  • @novaray7894
    @novaray7894 6 ปีที่แล้ว +713

    My brother Becket almost died when he was a week old from extreme illness. Thankfully he lived and is now almost 8 praise god. And I’ll be praying for you.

    • @sarahamza6613
      @sarahamza6613 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mayra Oquendo what a miracle

    • @novaray7894
      @novaray7894 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you but don’t feel sorry, feel over joyed and grateful that Beckets are strong and amazing.

    • @devynnkliner9511
      @devynnkliner9511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Demo-Dog how do they have almost the same name

    • @devynnkliner9511
      @devynnkliner9511 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does becket mean is it a name

    • @devynnkliner9511
      @devynnkliner9511 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry dont know

  • @TSUNAMI-MAMI
    @TSUNAMI-MAMI 8 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Gosh, the part where you're talking about "Beckett's Beetle" is so heartbreaking and beautiful. Beautiful because of the love you have for your son. Your husbands reaction to hanging his converse in it, "I'd love that" made me break down. Oh gosh I wish I could hug you.

    • @tSf1011
      @tSf1011 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me tlo

    • @MissDressage11
      @MissDressage11 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah, i stayed strong the whole time until he said that!

    • @TSUNAMI-MAMI
      @TSUNAMI-MAMI 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      jess w Yep, I was misty eyed but no tears... but with that... I started bawling. My heart hurts so badly for these wonderful people.

    • @heathermahaffey7930
      @heathermahaffey7930 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +SPERTS exactly I'm crying right now :(

    • @camrynnicole1379
      @camrynnicole1379 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SPERTS i couldn't hold it in i had to cry . r.i.p BECKET

  • @KP-zq8sf
    @KP-zq8sf 8 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    Ive never cried or grieved so much for people I don't know before.

    • @fuseileter
      @fuseileter 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same... I'm so heartbroken

    • @avery__n1527
      @avery__n1527 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I literally have tears running down my neck 😰

    • @greatbrittanyy
      @greatbrittanyy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @DBEJCKFanCluB
      @DBEJCKFanCluB 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah me too

    • @ansleymcnabb9698
      @ansleymcnabb9698 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +GreenCarribean me too

  • @normasanchezimatrix
    @normasanchezimatrix 8 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    awe I'm 40 weeks pregnant and I couldn't imagine the pain his loss cost you. So sorry.

    • @Chloee234
      @Chloee234 8 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I hope when you give birth that both you and your baby are safe, healthy and well!xxx

    • @naomie4748
      @naomie4748 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      not something I would write on someone's video who has just lost a child bit insensitive don't you think

    • @Chloee234
      @Chloee234 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Naomi E Fuck off.

    • @atz00m7
      @atz00m7 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Naomi E rlly

    • @naomie4748
      @naomie4748 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +life's hard ni need for that just think about it did she realy have to say she is 40 weeks pregnant when this poor woman has sadly just lost her son I think a I'm sorry for your loss would suffice

  • @reapeck
    @reapeck 8 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I just want to say how important this is, and frankly, how brave. Talking about miscarriages, still births, etc. is still a very hard and taboo thing in our society and it's often so, so difficult for those going through it. Honestly, when I came across these videos, I was a little confused and apprehensive, but I realize that I only feel this way because I have not gone through what you have. I quickly realized that this will be helpful to those who need to feel that they're not alone. I didn't want to look at the comments because I knew people's response, but I don't think they'll ever get how important this is and I know it's going to be hard with that backlash. So, I just wanted to say thank you for doing this.

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Thank you for watching and responding with an open mind. The comments are 98% supportive, loving, and understanding and we know we made the right decision. Wonderful souls like you only reaffirm that decision. Thank you.

    • @arleybalderas9090
      @arleybalderas9090 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      is her baby gonna die I fell so bad

    • @stephaniealisonfoss
      @stephaniealisonfoss 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Arley Balderas their baby was born still... Meaning he never breathed...

    • @arleybalderas9090
      @arleybalderas9090 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Stephanie Foss oh well I am very sorry

  • @amybaby04
    @amybaby04 6 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I know I'm a few years late with my condolences but I'm so sorry for your loss.. No parent should ever have to say goodbye to there baby I'm so sorry ❤️

  • @calico0cade
    @calico0cade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    “I just wanted Becket to ride with me” that made me cry 😭

    • @xddionysus6075
      @xddionysus6075 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      TheGamerTurtle same

    • @avawallace1691
      @avawallace1691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know same😭

    • @annhughes1503
      @annhughes1503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My heart goes out to you and your husband and family so sorry for the loss of becket lovely tribute to your becket

    • @tameraa94
      @tameraa94 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cadence Anthony Yes I was heartbroken when he said that I’m continually praying for this family

  • @abbeyrose4675
    @abbeyrose4675 8 ปีที่แล้ว +301

    It's made me tear up when he started crying ☹️☹️

  • @tylerepperson6269
    @tylerepperson6269 8 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Honestly. How can you dislike this video. This is so sad. And I am truly, deeply, so sorry for you two. Many prayers and much love..

    • @lessthanxthreebeauty
      @lessthanxthreebeauty 8 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I think anyone who disliked this video, they mean they 'dislike' what happened and what they're going through.

    • @kateylouise8555
      @kateylouise8555 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +lessthan_three beauty let's hope so

    • @josieann1342
      @josieann1342 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      s S

  • @sjacksonwalker1
    @sjacksonwalker1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    Thank you for sharing your story and sorry for your loss. I am 14 weeks, my baby girl has Turner's Syndrome. I found out yesterday that she doesn't have a heartbeat and I will be going into labor and delivery tomorrow morning. Your videos have really helped me.

    • @CrimsonRose18
      @CrimsonRose18 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      sjacksonwalker1 I'm so sorry

    • @sjacksonwalker1
      @sjacksonwalker1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PinkStar Gaming Thank you.

    • @briannayoung2816
      @briannayoung2816 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I just watched this video and saw your comment, its been a month now since you've posted and I've prayed for you. I hope you're doing better, and keep your head up.

    • @sjacksonwalker1
      @sjacksonwalker1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thank you Brianna. I'm taking it day by day. Going back to work has really helped. But I do think about her all the time and miss her growing in my belly. Thank you for your prayers!!!

    • @leahmae172
      @leahmae172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My little sister had that. She made it in there till 17 weeks :')

  • @rachellarson9500
    @rachellarson9500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I may be 4 years late, but I'm so so sorry you lost your beautiful baby boy. No parent should ever feel that kind of pain.

  • @kaylic4445
    @kaylic4445 8 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I sobbed. Your son is so beautiful and it's so amazing you have these moments to cherish forever. I'm going to honor your son and make sure I give back. I'm thinking about you guys and sending so much love and positivity your way. You guys are helping so many people by sharing.

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much. That means the world to us that you will give back.

    • @susandelorenzo1355
      @susandelorenzo1355 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So very sorry for the loss of your son. Sitting here crying.. I cannot imagine how you had the strength to share such a personal situation with the world.

    • @jennab4370
      @jennab4370 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +WatersWife Vlogs I am praying for u and your family #godblessbeckett

  • @brittanyclark3734
    @brittanyclark3734 8 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    I know you've probably heard so many"I'm sorrys" from so many people, but I truly am so so sorry. I lost my baby at 14 weeks, and I never got to meet my baby. Watching you hold your son brought so many emotions flooding in. I almost have no words other than I'm so so sorry. I'm so happy you have this footage forever.

    • @vivianl1253
      @vivianl1253 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry for your lost😧

    • @jjennalehtonenn
      @jjennalehtonenn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am truly sorry for your loss ❤

    • @brittanyclark3734
      @brittanyclark3734 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you all so much for your support, for someone who lost a child it truly means so much. A lot of the time we do feel so alone 💖💖💖💖

    • @jjennalehtonenn
      @jjennalehtonenn 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤🙏

    • @JulieR73
      @JulieR73 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Brittany Clark I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost a baby too. The pain is crushing.

  • @courtneyf5497
    @courtneyf5497 8 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    I don't know who you are and I came across your channel via the suggestive video page but I just wanted to say sorry for your loss and I think it's great that you guys did this for Beckett 💙 I'll keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers

  • @keelyleilani1326
    @keelyleilani1326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I started crying watching this. My baby girl was born sleeping at 22 weeks and she looked so much like your son. So tiny and so innocent. I love these little angels so much. To quote God's scripture , “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”

  • @KyleLara1231
    @KyleLara1231 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I'm 32 weeks pregnant with my 2nd, I can not even come close to imagining what this is/was like for you. To say "sorry" feels pointless when experiencing something of this magnitude. I am sorry that you are grieving...and hurting...and feel things no mother ever should. I'm only hoping that this small comment somehow reaches your heart, knowing there is a person on the other side of this screen, crying tears with you, loving Beckett with you, and wanting you to know how amazing, brave, and so damn strong you are for allowing other people to witness this part of your journey. By you sharing this, you have encouraged and healed many, you have shown what the power of love looks like, and you inspired all of us moms or moms to be, to never ever take for granted what has been gifted to us. God bless you, your family, and your bright bright future.

    • @nesl5342
      @nesl5342 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Your beautiful words brought tears to my eyes because you captured what I think a lot of us moms have tried but couldn't find the words to. I feel the exact same way.

    • @NatalieBrownMusic
      @NatalieBrownMusic 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Such heartfelt, spirit filled words xo

    • @roci111
      @roci111 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      very nice comment :)

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so, so much for your amazing comment and you support of us. It means more than you know.

  • @BurritoMassacre
    @BurritoMassacre 8 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    sending you so much love, I haven't been following your story I just happen to stubble upon it. I cannot imagine the pain of losing Beckett. Sending you , Beckett, and your family many positive thought, hugs, and kisses.

    • @CrazyPeople62789
      @CrazyPeople62789 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +PizzaDonutCAT same it showed up in my recommends

    • @ericaklaver3275
      @ericaklaver3275 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i cried with you, i have so much respect for you both !, wish i could do someting for you guys, wish you all the love and strengh in the world !

  • @fionamason7194
    @fionamason7194 6 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Im so sorry . I started crying . Your son is so cute . Im sorry you had to let him go

  • @mariesmith599
    @mariesmith599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I know its been four years since this vlog. I lost my first baby when I was 20. This was back in 1972. I was serving in the Army during Vietnam. I remember every detail of my miscarriage. I never saw mine again once I brought him to the hospital (I miscarried at home) Everything has come forward in life to be able to spend time with a baby now. Back then you never even imagined to ask where your baby went. People should never be unkind because of choices you got to make. Thousands of mothers like me never even got to say goodbye. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @franniefargo9454
    @franniefargo9454 7 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    it will never get better but eventually it begins to get more tolerable. 40, 38, 34 and 27 years later i still say a prayer every day for my dead babies and thank God every day for my two live ones.

    • @maijamcnogiven9484
      @maijamcnogiven9484 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Debra Cole Sorry for your loss I will keep you uplifted in prayers. Pray for your continued strength and health....

    • @kieracespedes438
      @kieracespedes438 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Granny I believe in god so you can’t just go any be rude of people of what you believe or what you don’t believe

    • @fartman3065
      @fartman3065 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Granny yet you said some believer an idiot, oh how ironic 😂

    • @hannahwilkinson9664
      @hannahwilkinson9664 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Granny listen u are calling someone an idiot either deal with it and keep your opinions to your self and not someone rude for calling u out or f*ck off

  • @cammybear1288
    @cammybear1288 8 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I've never seen your videos before I have no idea who you are but I started crying so hard 🙁

    • @oliviaohm5231
      @oliviaohm5231 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same, i cried so hard.

    • @khiraknowles1222
      @khiraknowles1222 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too

    • @lindibannon6706
      @lindibannon6706 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same. This is the first video, of theirs, that I have seen and when it got to the part where they were saying goodbye to their son I was crying really hard.

    • @arianaanderson1748
      @arianaanderson1748 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me as well and I am so sad he was so cute.

    • @irenenjano7959
      @irenenjano7959 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      me too..

  • @chandrabrown5804
    @chandrabrown5804 6 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    He was so beautiful! I mean very beautiful! I also have a baby in heaven and me and my husband went thru some extremely sad times. Seein u guys reminded me of my memories,but ya know, those are the only memories that I have and I cherish them. Thank u so much for letting us watch ur video of ur beautiful child. I feel very privileged. I pray God blesses u beyond what u could ever contain

  • @nahorams
    @nahorams 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I have 2 kids... And this video made me cry so much 😢 God bless you all!!

  • @JenniferGentle88
    @JenniferGentle88 7 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    My heart is shattered for you. I cannot imagine your pain, sending you love and light.

  • @Christilive4
    @Christilive4 7 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    I'm in the same shoes. I just lost my daughter last month due to Dr not listening to my concerns. Hope God heals your heart as He is healing mine. I have to say this has been so hard and the tears haven't stopped but it's getting better. We will try again soon and I pray you don't give up. No baby can replace the one we lost but we are looking forward to the one to come. God bless you!

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  7 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      +Christilive4 I'm so sorry you're in this awful club. I hate that there are so many of us missing our little ones. I'm so sorry.

    • @bethj2590
      @bethj2590 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WatersWife Vlogs are you all Christians?

    • @celestepagliuca489
      @celestepagliuca489 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      C

    • @alyssaisiconic96
      @alyssaisiconic96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So sorry for your loss.

    • @alexiapeach7693
      @alexiapeach7693 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christilive4 awww thats so sweet

  • @abbyretz9697
    @abbyretz9697 8 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Rest in peace baby Beckett

  • @taylorw8843
    @taylorw8843 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I had my daughter at 20 weeks gestation on Saturday morning at 3am. I am still broken, but I know it will be better. Thank you for sharing for moms like me who are having a hard time.

  • @333AllyA
    @333AllyA 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    im so so sorry for your loss. I cried all through this video with you. My heart aches for you; i recently just lost a best friend so i can understand a fraction of your pain. The world is so cruel sometimes. I hope you can find happiness again soon

    • @stayingood
      @stayingood 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am so sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you in my prayers. ❤

  • @alexangeloni9786
    @alexangeloni9786 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    i'm so sorry for your loss. this video actually made me cry with you. i hope you and your husband are doing alright. im sending my love to you. rip Beckett❤👼

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We are doing our best. It's been almost 8 weeks now and we are just taking it day by day.

  • @Feethehe
    @Feethehe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    ughhh i clicked on the video but chickened out..i just cant watch it. i have two kids and just the thought of it kills me! im SO sorry 😢

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      All I ask is that you hug those little ones a little tighter, be a little slower to lose your patience with them, and savor every moment. If you do that, you don't need to watch our vlog. Thank you for just commenting and supporting us. ❤️

    • @Feethehe
      @Feethehe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +WatersWife Vlogs i actually watched it anyway and now im crying :( i have to say though you are a strong women to be able to go through this! i know it was hard but i could tell you were trying to be so strong and thats what mothers do for their babies no matter what! you will always be a mommy!

    • @Feethehe
      @Feethehe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +WatersWife Vlogs also your right ive lost my patience and yelled countless times and those little things dont mean anything at the end of the day!

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Cassandra Southerland you're human!! It's totally normal to have frustrating moments. I'm just grateful that you appreciate even those frustrating moments. That's all I meant.
      Thank you for watching. I know it was difficult. Your support means a lot.

    • @Feethehe
      @Feethehe 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +WatersWife Vlogs sorry yea what i meant was your right all the times i get mad at them they are such little things compared to what other people go through! and im thankful i have them..even more thankful now. God bless you both in this hard time!

  • @andyfoxmario
    @andyfoxmario 6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    As we lose the ones that we love, they no longer suffer and they are now in the hands of God.

  • @rxxrcousin
    @rxxrcousin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    So sorry for your loss. What a little angel. He was a beautiful baby and will always be a beautiful soul. He will always live in you and your husband's hearts. I hope you can one day be at peace, but if you're not, that's okay. Much love.

    • @rxxrcousin
      @rxxrcousin 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I commented before watching the video. I'm in so much heartbreak, I can't even imagine what you and your husband are feeling. It's not fucking fair. It's really not fucking fair. That boy deserved a whole long life and for some reason, was not given that. I'm so very sorry. I hope you can find your hearts in repair one day, and a new blessing comes to your family. Stay strong.

    • @alejandroguereca4067
      @alejandroguereca4067 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      rxxrcousin this is my first time watching but when I grow up me and my wife will name one of our kids Beckett R.I.P Beckett he is such an angle and right now he is looking out for you I know how it feels except my was a dog his name was Lightning and a TH-camr who lost his dog a few days ago so R.I.P Beckett R.I.P Lightning R.I.P Zeus Atwood Aka Romanatwoods dog also his mega best friend so plz do not said tennis balls to Roman his dog loved them and Roman will cry

    • @piconjojo32
      @piconjojo32 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      He as a adorable tiny being 💔💔💔💔

  • @ChrisandLyss
    @ChrisandLyss 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is my first video and I am bawling. I have a 9 month old and am so sad that your sweet baby isn't here with you. You are so strong, I am so proud of you two and praying for you

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your support. We really appreciate it.

  • @texaslady1973
    @texaslady1973 8 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I am truly sorry for your loss.

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you.

    • @arrianamedina8405
      @arrianamedina8405 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +WatersWife Vlogs just know that he will be in your heart and in heaven with God and Jesus they will keep him safe and he loves you and in Spirit watching over y'all so sorry for your loss I know it's hard and you can have a picture of your baby with you while you sleep hold that picture like if you were to hold your baby😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇

  • @mcribbin3000
    @mcribbin3000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i don’t know how i ended up here but i’m crying so much. i wish your family the best. beckett is so beautiful and he deserved such a wonderful life with wonderful parents.

  • @teresasimpson6192
    @teresasimpson6192 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hello. I came across your video this morning. It's the first time I've met you. I am so sorry to hear what you're going through. I want to share with you a little about me. I was adopted at 6 weeks old. My adoptive parents suffered the loss of 6 babies before they got me. Through the years my mother has been able to share their story. I can't say I know how you feel. What I can say is that I think you are both amazing parents. I believe there will come a day when you will be with your precious son again. I will send prayers and keep you in my heart.

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for your comment and for sharing your story. I was adopted when I was 9 days old. Although my adoptive parents have other children, they suffered a lot of miscarriages also. I'm grateful your parents have you and that you share your story!

  • @nourorfali7374
    @nourorfali7374 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    i'm so sorry for your loss i can't imagin how hard it must have been for you 😭😭 but you know it's still easier than losing him when he's older i mean i know a mom who had two sons only and they both passed away after airstrike in syria one of them is 18 and the other is 25 and there are plenty more of this case and it just breaks your heart 💔💔 god bless everyone

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I know what you're trying to say, but there is no comparison when it comes to any loss. It's not easier to loss a baby at 8 weeks or 26 weeks or 15 years. There is just no easy. One could say that that mom had time with her kids while I never even saw my baby breath air or cuddle him. No parent should lose a child, ever.

    • @nourorfali7374
      @nourorfali7374 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +WatersWife Vlogs oh i'm so so sorry i know it can't be easy ... but i know that he is in a much better place than this world he is a little angel in heaven

    • @debbie7771
      @debbie7771 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      One thing you should never say to someone grieving is "well at least.... ". Just for future reference. All loss is awful and very personal and can not be compared. I'm very sorry for your loss.

    • @nourorfali7374
      @nourorfali7374 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Debbie Tessier ok i said i'm sorry and i apologize again if what i said botherd her or anyone else i know it's so so so hard

    • @debbie7771
      @debbie7771 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Nour Orfali no worries. It's hard to know what to say.

  • @namineanimals282
    @namineanimals282 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I've never watched your vlogs, I don't know who you are but I have just cried my heart out for you both, watching this video and the one before. Beckett looked so much better in this video, as you said, and I can really see his Daddy in him! You both seem so lovely and I wish you both all the best, Beckett will always be with you, always, through his converse in the car, through his bracelet, through your memories and love. You are such a strong, good Mum for choosing when enough was enough for Beckett after he was born, even though your heart wanted to hold him for always. Be strong, be proud parents, be together x

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

    • @7papaya2
      @7papaya2 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same..this was the 1st vlog I've ever seen and I did the same :,(

    • @Perfectlyjaden
      @Perfectlyjaden 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +7papaya2 me to

  • @mackenziekarsonovich1073
    @mackenziekarsonovich1073 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’ve never wanted kids, but this had me weeping. Just know that he’s with you and he loves you so much. I’m so sorry. Thank you for sharing such a powerful, intimate moment. You guys are incredible parents.

  • @michelleernst2375
    @michelleernst2375 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a truly beautiful Angel Beckett is, thank you for sharing your story. May you and your husband find peace and happiness in the moments until your family is together again.

  • @Klutzyduncan
    @Klutzyduncan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    First, I am SO sorry for your loss. I myself have had many miscarriages, so I can somewhat relate, I'm sure it's MUCH harder in your situation though. My deepest sympathies to you & your family.
    Second, HUGEEEEEE KUDOS to you & your hubby for making these videos. I am sure it was difficult during such a tough emotional time. However, people going through a similar situation can watch your videos & not feel alone, they can feel comfort. IMO that is such a BEAUTIFUL thing, & also why I love TH-cam so much.... for the community that allows people to relate, bond & form relationships on a level that was never possible in the past. So, again, big kudos & thank you for sharing your story.
    Finally, again, SO SORRY for your loss. My thoughts are with you & your family. Best of everything to you & your family. Much love. oxox

  • @gshiesty.
    @gshiesty. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    😭😭THIS MADE ME CRY😭😭
    Beckett will be in a better place. His dreams will all come true in heaven. He will spread his kindness in the best place ever.❤️❤️

  • @halima1968
    @halima1968 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sorry for the loss of your child. I wish you both a lot of strength.
    "Rest in Peace Little Beckett!"

  • @caseybarron6611
    @caseybarron6611 7 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    Hugs I have 5 angels playing with beckett

  • @tittyfingers9
    @tittyfingers9 8 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I just stumbled on your channel and just wanted to say my heart breaks for you. I wish you the best during this truly awful time.

    • @busybody19
      @busybody19 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm crying my eyes out. Poor beautiful baby😢

    • @jennyn5692
      @jennyn5692 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +busybody19 Same. I just can't even imagine.

    • @LeslieNegrete
      @LeslieNegrete 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +busybody19 SAME!

    • @jessicawilkins193
      @jessicawilkins193 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ekwm3

  • @montana_watson4761
    @montana_watson4761 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I've lost so many pet, I cried for day, weeks, I can imagine how it feels to have this. I am so sorry! God bless

    • @meaganhijazi6788
      @meaganhijazi6788 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      How do you compare a child that you create and birth to a pet

    • @pinehillk9
      @pinehillk9 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +Meagan Hijazi she is a child. She meant no ill will obviously. Her heart was in the right place.

    • @gardenofeden123
      @gardenofeden123 8 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      +Meagan Hijazi Uhm because to a lot of people including me losing your pets is like losing a child because you love them so much and how dare you try to belittle someone else's pain as if it's insignificant just because you can't relate

    • @gardenofeden123
      @gardenofeden123 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +FAG098 I'm not trying to start an argument however I agree this is not the time or place to be speaking about that and I'm sorry. just makes my blood boil how ignorant people can be. Wish these parents all the best and send my condolences

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Guys, please be kind to one another. I can tell you that when our cats pass on, I will honestly cry just as much as with Beckett. No, the grief journey will not be the same, but the tears and sorrow will be. I know the intent of the comment and compared to others I've received today, this was sweet.

  • @butternutscotch
    @butternutscotch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm 8 months pregnant with a little girl and I can't imagine how I'd survive something like this. Bless you guys. That boy knew so much love in his short life. You guys are so strong.

  • @ShaileenandKurt
    @ShaileenandKurt 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    So glad we got the opportunity to meet Beckett. I love that you are posting these to remember your thoughts. Love you guys. See you tomorrow for your move.

  • @greenstonegrits4864
    @greenstonegrits4864 8 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    I'm so sad to hear your story, but thank you for sharing.

  • @jamien2874
    @jamien2874 7 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I'm sorry for your loss:( I lost my son Asher from SIDS he was only two months old and my heart is broken for Beckett and Asher but their both in a better place now

    • @sarahamza6613
      @sarahamza6613 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jamie N Sorry for your loss

    • @munchkin6178
      @munchkin6178 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry to here that

    • @munchkin6178
      @munchkin6178 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jamie N ur a beautiful woman keep moving fowerd

  • @Justagirlnamedshawn
    @Justagirlnamedshawn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Don't ever apologize for being sad, or your voice sounding sad....don't ever be sorry. Everyone grieves in their own ways. I commend you for being strong enough to do this. What a precious little boy. Much love to you.

  • @bandchild5638
    @bandchild5638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I watched this when you first recorded it. I came back to it so I could remember beckett. He was adorable and will always be with you. I hope you’ve healed and I love you all. 💕💕

  • @kylam143
    @kylam143 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My son passed away at 23 weeks I miss him so much thanks for sharing Beckett story I know I am not alone I am just sorry others go thu this pain :(

  • @brittanyramos8612
    @brittanyramos8612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I balled my eyes out. You have so much freaking strength to go through this let alone post this. God is taking care of him and he will always be your baby boy who will watch over the both of you

  • @clipclop7962
    @clipclop7962 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a special education teacher and I've worked with children with severe disabilities for over 28 years. Even the most profoundly disabled child is a gift from God. They are all children to be cherished and loved. Your son is blessed to have parents like you, and is was a blessing for you to have him.

  • @katelinhite6042
    @katelinhite6042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The way the dad cried while hugging him, it broke my heart.

  • @emilybutz681
    @emilybutz681 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just want to say how incredibly brave & strong you two are to post this video. I couldn't hold back my tears as I watched. I wish your family nothing but happiness & love

  • @datssuspiciousdatsweirdheh2494
    @datssuspiciousdatsweirdheh2494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He's a cute baby angel awwww I love you beckett may god put him in heaven god bless you

  • @lilyccornell
    @lilyccornell 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i’m crying right now this is so touching i’m so sorry for your loss i hope you are doing better now! love you 💜

  • @harpershattuck1025
    @harpershattuck1025 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m so sorry. I’m crying and I hope you know how much he loved you. He’s in a better place even though you don’t see it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @LindseyMHull
    @LindseyMHull 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your video randomly popped up for me to watch. I just wanted to say that I am incredibly sorry for your loss. This video has made me understand what my mom went through before she had me. She had two stillborn children, one boy and one girl, before she had me. She never really talks about it and I can see why. But your video has really opened my eyes a lot and it makes me appreciate my mom and her strength even more. And I think you both are so very, very strong.

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your comment. I'm sorry your family has been through this. Hug your mom for me!

  • @keketayv1111
    @keketayv1111 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My first child was stillborn, natural breach delivery, so I know how you feel. RIP Mailk D. Scott. '99

    • @whatishappening1761
      @whatishappening1761 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your loss bless his soul 😞🙏🏻❤️

    • @robloxroundhead3934
      @robloxroundhead3934 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your angel.

    • @aguapunk
      @aguapunk 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing. Such sad circumstances, but it's always good to find people who have travelled this path before. Much love to you, and RIP Mailk.

    • @keketayv1111
      @keketayv1111 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Tyson Waters Thank you, guys!

  • @cozmicstar2k3
    @cozmicstar2k3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Dear, Your son is beautiful. We endured the same recently and my heart is with yours. Our sons are worthy of being shares, loved and grieved! Bless you all!

  • @itsmeagancasssey
    @itsmeagancasssey 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My heart. I'm so sorry. I want to give you the biggest hug ever.

  • @SasuSakuChronicles
    @SasuSakuChronicles 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am so sorry for your loss, remember to take however much time you need to mourn. Take the next few months to make sure you and your husband are OK above anyone, and anything else. Be selfish, allow yourself to have days off of work when it feels like it's all too much, and love eachother. You will have a beautiful, healthy child one day, Beckett was just not destined to be exposed to this world. His short life inside of you had meaning though, the lessons his life and his death will bring you are things that you and your husband will treasure forever. He never spoke a word, and yet he was an inspiration.
    Rest in peace Beckett Waters.

  • @kellygoricki1656
    @kellygoricki1656 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    One of the hardest things I ever had to do was see my infant son in a casket, then leave him there for cremation. The absolute hardest thing I ever heard was that my son really was dead, even though I knew he was gone when I saw him. He was 4 days old, and died unexpectedly, and in my arms at that. That was just over 6 years ago, July 4, 2010. I miss Nate every day.
    You can find me on Facebook, this is my real name, if you like. The best support group I have found on FB is Grief Recovery- My Child Has Wings. Avoid "I Am a Mother to an Angel", it is run by a scammer. Grieving Mothers is so-so, but they can get really catty. Also, check out Molly Bears. My Nathan Bear really helps me, and I think maybe a Beckett Bear could help you, too.
    I am so sorry you have had to join this awful Angel parents club.There are an awful lot of sweet Angels with sweet, beautiful Beckett.
    Hugs.

    • @kellygoricki1656
      @kellygoricki1656 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I had some of my son's ashes placed in a necklace charm so I can keep him physically by my heart always.

  • @corinebaker2734
    @corinebaker2734 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so incredibly sorry for the loss of your sweet angel.

  • @Sayyestoheaven31
    @Sayyestoheaven31 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I gave birth to my son at 5months he was so tiny tiny but perfect the pain is horrific and never goes away!!!!!!!!!RIP are sweet babies💞

  • @Sweetiepiexo87
    @Sweetiepiexo87 8 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I'm so so sorry for your loss! May God heal your hearts. He has you both in the big palm of his hand! Do you have a cremation necklace to put some of his ashes in it so he will be with you always?

    • @abyica
      @abyica 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, send it as fan mail

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, we both have necklaces. We show them in the Autopsy Results video. ❤️

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, we both have necklaces. We show them in the Autopsy Results video. ❤️

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes, we both have necklaces. We show them in the Autopsy Results video. ❤️

    • @abyica
      @abyica 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +WatersWife Vlogs 👍🏻👍🏻♥️

  • @heididixon9964
    @heididixon9964 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm so sorry for your loss of your beautiful angel he will be looking down on what amazing parents he has x

    • @kyeb2440
      @kyeb2440 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      heidi dixon this IS so true

  • @angelderoche1160
    @angelderoche1160 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Firstly, from A mother who lost her 2 year old and her 4 year old, I want to say with tears in my eyes, thank you for sharing this with us. Its helped me remember my babies and the horror I went through loosing them both.
    I pray that some day I'll see them again, and be able to kiss and hug them, and I pray the same thing for you and your beautiful baby boy.
    He looks so peaceful and knows what wonderful parents he has.
    This was hard to watch, but much needed.

    • @angelderoche1160
      @angelderoche1160 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also, to add when I say hard to watch I dont mean anything malicious by that, I mean I just know exactly what you're feeling.

  • @stephanyevaldez6291
    @stephanyevaldez6291 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm sending all of my love and positive energy to you guys. Stay strong and always remember little Beckett will be looking after you guys. Much love x

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @katrinacatrell6319
    @katrinacatrell6319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m crying my eyeballs out over here 💗 rip and I wish you all the healing in the world

  • @shannonl5692
    @shannonl5692 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this popped up in my suggested box and I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I'll be praying for your hearts to be more at ease

  • @gailcaldwell1512
    @gailcaldwell1512 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so sorry for the pain you’ve suffered. I’ve been there, and losing your baby is the worse thing a couple can go through. I hope you’re doing better today. Please take care of yourself and each other. You are amazingly brave to share this with everyone. GOD Bless you and your family.

  • @kaelynjones6194
    @kaelynjones6194 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I cried watching this I could not do it so I took a minute break got my tears done then finished it and then I keepted thinking about beckett

  • @erinm0058
    @erinm0058 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This made me cry,,,sending a lot of love to you and your family at this time....😭😪 xx

  • @pamelaruiz835
    @pamelaruiz835 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    what a little baby he's is I'm so sorry for your loss it is okay he is always going to be in your heart it's OK to be crying I really know how that feels we will always love him he is so adorable

  • @kelssmitchellt
    @kelssmitchellt 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    That little boy is a hero is a wonderful baby love you Beckett I hope to see you soon my heart is truly shattered

  • @charmainenagle2086
    @charmainenagle2086 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm only nine and my baby sis died and that's why I get so furious at my mom and dad and they shut at me cause they think I'm being naughty but it's cause I miss my dear sis affyiah I am in tears right now you don't understand how sad I am she was only two or one week old until I heard the sirens of an ambulance suddenly when I was at the hospital I found out my sis passed away please pray for her blessing for his and one day I know she'll be waiting at the gate in heaven after I climb the ladder up to heaven

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      If you’re only nine, I strongly suggest that you go talk to your parents about how you are feeling. They are grieving too.

    • @dawnwelch6579
      @dawnwelch6579 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      WatersWife Vlogs Yes, what WatersWife said, whose suggestion reminds me of the ending of Pixar’s “Inside Out,” when Riley finally starts talking about her feelings; this encouraged her mom and dad to share theirs as well.

  • @jennifercastle1206
    @jennifercastle1206 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Tears streamed down my face as I watched and followed your heartbreaking yet beautiful tribute for your precious angel baby Beckett. My prayers are with you and although words can never take the pain away fully, I hope you get some comfort in knowing that he was loved by so very many people thru your story. And one day i know God will bless you again by making Beckett a wonderful big brother, and loving guardian angel watching over, and protecting his baby brother, or sister from Heaven! I thank you so very much for sharing your story with the world, your strength and willingness to openly share your most intimate, heart wrenching, yet loving personal moments are helping other families deal with their darkest moments! God bless you and your husband!!! You both are in my prayers, and I hope as each day passes your love for each other, and God continues to heal the heartache and pain you feel! God bless you and your family!!!

    • @WatersWife
      @WatersWife  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +jennifer castle Thank you for your support! 💙

  • @catherineellzey4452
    @catherineellzey4452 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This broke me. I cannot even imagine what you're going through. I am so sorry.

  • @selfloveisloading7777
    @selfloveisloading7777 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m going to be completely honest. I just found this video. I got to about 7:30 minutes before I started crying uncontrollably. I can’t imagine how hard and absolutely heart breaking this is/was to go through. I’m sending you both so much love and prayers.

  • @Evelynscloset389
    @Evelynscloset389 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m sorry for your beautiful baby loss he’s in heaven!

  • @sarinasisneros
    @sarinasisneros 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I am so very sorry for what you two had to endure. I have never followed your story, I just happened to stumble upon it and I am so very glad I did. Beckett was a beautiful babyboy and you two are the strongest people ever. I admire you for your strength and your calmness in answering everyone's harsh questions. I hope everything works out for you two in the near future, take care.❤

  • @kimk8365
    @kimk8365 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just happened to stumble across your video, I'm sorry for the passing of your child.
    May the Lord hold you and keep you and may the sun always shine upon your face, until you come to stand before Jesus where there is no end but everlasting life.
    You were chosen to be the parents of this child and to give us all a message of compassion, acceptance, life and a passing. You very well may have shared this and someone else has experienced your grief and now you have calmed theirs.

  • @Indyrm03
    @Indyrm03 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so sorry for your loss of your very handsome son!!!! I too had a stillborn son at 24weeks. Watching this video brings me back to the days and weeks following Micah's birth almost 5 years ago. Your son even looks like Micah. Once again so many thoughts, prayers and hugs!!!! You are not alone

  • @samanfersilyk
    @samanfersilyk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    my god this is heartbreaking, i wish you and your family the best

  • @clviane2994
    @clviane2994 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I Cried Seeing It..It Looks So Cute,And I Cant Believe That Hes Gone 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @NONAME-kr9gf
    @NONAME-kr9gf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Whoever unliked this is cruel I am so sorry you guys r amazing I love you guys

  • @spookscrew4651
    @spookscrew4651 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't ever apologize for doing what helped you threw this we were blessed to see you're son he was so beautiful.Its completely impossible to watch this without getting emotional,you're beautiful baby boy will be waiting for the both of you in heaven.Thank you so much for sharing you're life even the sad moments with all of us.

  • @zahrarezai2889
    @zahrarezai2889 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Man I don't know why I watched this, this hurts to watch, Iam so sorry

  • @robloxroundhead3934
    @robloxroundhead3934 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am just so sorry for your loss. There are no words sometimes but sending lots of love and prayers. God bless you all

  • @matthiasgreen7545
    @matthiasgreen7545 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You know that you’re a strong man when you cry R.I.P Beckett

  • @xbeautiful_nightmarex
    @xbeautiful_nightmarex 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lost my son due to a miscarriage 5 years ago. Looking at your beautiful son made me tear up so bad and get so upset and emotional because I know how hard it is. Jake looked so peaceful too. He was only 14.5 weeks so probably younger than your son but your son is beautiful and he knew he has a loving family. Be strong. I know I’m trying to be!!