The HARSH TRUTH About Fame, Money & Success NOBODY SHARES... | Steven Bartlett

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    Today’s guest is Steven Bartlett. He is the 29-year-old Founder of the social media marketing agency Social Chain. From a bedroom in Manchester, this university drop-out built what would become one of the world’s most influential social media companies when he was just 21 years old, before taking his company public at 27 years old with a current market valuation of over $600M.
    Steven is a speaker, investor, author and content creator, hosting Europe’s biggest podcasts, ‘The Diary of a CEO’. Steven recently released his debut book, ironically titled ‘Happy Sexy Millionaire’ which is a Sunday Times best seller. Steven joined BBC’s Dragon’s Den (UKs version of Shark Tank) for Series 19 this January 2022, as the youngest ever Dragon in the show’s history.
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    If you’re ready to learn how to lean into your truth, how healing can become the best investment you’ll ever make in your life and in your business, and so much more, then this episode is for you. Let’s dive into Episode 1,259 of The School of Greatness!
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  • @lewishowes
    @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

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    • @starrgirl88
      @starrgirl88 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being peaceful (and present) in the pursuit of my dreams 😌

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙌

    • @idaliahernandez1083
      @idaliahernandez1083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Being conscious and ask to myself "why". Also, learning how to maintain my inner child regardless of the circumstances.

    • @vahinipillay2660
      @vahinipillay2660 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You feel the walls crumbling down while watching this interview. The inner child climbing out to heal.

    • @michaelcrook9596
      @michaelcrook9596 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lewis please read what I wrote in the comments, many thanks bless you 🙏

  • @TheDiaryOfACEO
    @TheDiaryOfACEO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Thank you for having me on!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're welcome! Had a blast!

    • @bongafulpeeps4660
      @bongafulpeeps4660 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so very much for these interviews. I am currently listening to everything you've put out there

    • @teresaamanfu7408
      @teresaamanfu7408 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for the honesty. You are very brave.

    • @germanylicious
      @germanylicious 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You have a great head on your shoulders.

  • @arleneperez8864
    @arleneperez8864 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I am 55 years old and I am sitting here and listening to these two amazing individuals . I am taking so much from this conversation and absorbing all of it. Regardless of our age, we learn something new everyday and I will definitely apply it to my life. Thank you for making me a better person. We never stop growing 🙏🏼

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

  • @flaviodfalcao
    @flaviodfalcao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    It is so important to see 2 successful men talking about topics that are not normally talked about. Thanks for it

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @dublingirl1691
    @dublingirl1691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    “Communication in a relationship is like oxygen to life” a quote from Tony Gaskins. Amazing to see the conversation on the grown boy behavior vs the grown man behavior. Maturity showing up! Wonderful interview. Love this!

  • @romeodesepida
    @romeodesepida 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Love it when my favourite podcasters, content creators and inspirations collaborate together!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
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    • @blessingsbest6838
      @blessingsbest6838 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too! I clicked so quickly x

  • @MompreneursUNCENSORED
    @MompreneursUNCENSORED 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I watch just about all the interviews. This by far is one of my favorites. I think the greatness in you both brought out something beautiful. At one point, I didn’t realize who was interviewing who. I think you guys connected on a deeper level that was so awesome to see two men do. Thank you both. Thank you Lewis for doing this. I promise I learn something new and different from each guest and yourself 💝

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
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  • @mooknlisa09
    @mooknlisa09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This was sooooo good. I just loved how open and real this conversations was. I had several self realizations through this! Thank you!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @TeeAntoinette
    @TeeAntoinette 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Blown away by this conversation. Thank you both your your vulnerability and transparency. Very interesting and insightful. Thanks for sharing!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @giantonamission
    @giantonamission ปีที่แล้ว +12

    One of the most powerful conversations ever. Such wisdom in one so young and such capacity to express it. What made the conversation so great was the awesome match of Lewis and Steven; two wise men.

  • @JohnDoe-sk6wy
    @JohnDoe-sk6wy 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, the way Steven is so open and vulnerable and sharing things that would make anyone feel scared to let other people know, is mind blowing.

  • @DS-fh6ey
    @DS-fh6ey ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I don't know if I have ever witnessed a more, pure and honest conversation/interview before!!! I really appreciate this episode. Thank You Both 🥰

  • @ajiawillis7447
    @ajiawillis7447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This conversation between you two men was absolutely amazing. And the vulnerability and sharing between men was something to see. I'm in tears after watching this. So many gem's was dropped here in this hour and a half. Wow. I'm glad I clicked on this video this morning.

  • @muddyshoes4517
    @muddyshoes4517 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Watching these two young handsome successful men having this conversation is absolutely amazing and powerful!!!❤

  • @desertforest2221
    @desertforest2221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow, his story around 6:00, with the "love was prison" lesson really hit home, and I just realized I'd been kind of indirectly taught the same thing. Similar experiences, here, too.

  • @GoRoglins6
    @GoRoglins6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's nice to hear men talk about their feelings and insight into our younger selves effecting our everyday now lives now. You and Ed Mylett are my favorites. Wish I could like it 100X!

  • @lables3693
    @lables3693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You two MEN are absolutely beautiful in the self discovery that you share with others!

  • @igw6467
    @igw6467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Did anyone else cheer when Steven said “I’m back with her now” ?

  • @lindav1189
    @lindav1189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "pursuit of validation" YES!! soooooooo true! We don't need "those things" to prove we have value. Well said.

  • @bibibecause
    @bibibecause 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Here's what I love about these 2 gentlemen......at the same time they're both madly in love with their girlfriends and sharing the pure transparencies of their beautiful experiences, I just love it. LOVE.....this is the color of its' quality at its' best, prideless love.

  • @genbeaudry5063
    @genbeaudry5063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You guys .. if there is one thing i know, is that if you in a relationship the same person you were with your ex, you will attract the same people over and over again. You have to be alone for years before you realize what you want in a relationship. Thanks for your wisdom you 2❤🙏👌i just really loved hearing you guys have a great mature conversation!😇🙏
    Wish i was talking with you guys😁🤗such emotional intelligence coming from 2 men!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @bonganimathebula5780
    @bonganimathebula5780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lewis and Steven what your talking about is deep ,it's touching me deep inside, it reminds of a Dr Phil Macgraw book that I read back in 2005 called "SELF MATTERS" I didn't know I could be changed by a book like that, it changed me to the core in more ways than words could explain, I mean after reading it and doing the very intense exercises in it,I knew that I was never going to be the same, this conversation your having reminds me of that moment, you what I still have my notes from that book and the book is still in my library, My goodness what a book, Thank you Dr Phil

  • @kimmiep628
    @kimmiep628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I appreciate Steve’s honesty

  • @connierosecoaching
    @connierosecoaching ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THANK YOU!!! Omg I resonate with soo much of this!! I'm also the youngest of 4, and I too asked my parents to split up when I was 12, and I'm so glad they actually did! My mum was the repeating shouter, (no blame of course, it's just trama patterns passed on from her dad and so on and so on...)
    And I first went to therapy when I was at rock bottom in my early 20s when I had got sober, and then developed bulimia... going to therapy set me on a spiritual awakening path that completely changed my life and it's why do what I do now as a coach. Knowing our own mind is the most important thing we can do, for ourselves and society at large!
    And I also recently realized my biggest fear is people thinking things that aren't true about me, so thank you also for the discussion on that! I know I'm holding back because of this!
    I love you both so much, thank you sooo much for being such amazing examples of conscious heart-centered men, you are setting off such powerful catalysts of influence, thank you, thank you! It gives me great hope about the future of humanity to see you two. I would love to see you do more podcasts together.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for being here!

  • @jaymiewright526
    @jaymiewright526 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are very fortunate to have that awareness that young. Some people never get it! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @nancyroll1602
    @nancyroll1602 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Best interview ever!! Lewis and Steven were both amazingly open and honest. Thanks!!!

  • @michellekatarina17
    @michellekatarina17 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a humble interview ❤Thank you. 🙏🏻All the best for you two and much success in your professional and personal life.

  • @judihopewell2499
    @judihopewell2499 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All you both need is discernment and integrity. Being genuine will draw people to you. Integrity is what you do when no one is looking. Discernment is a life long learning. With an intellect like yours with a good dose of honesty and being loved fully you are gonna fly brother…

  • @raziahzaman996
    @raziahzaman996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Interviewing someone who talks about have to deal with guilt would be a great pod cast.

  • @donnajulliet
    @donnajulliet 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg Lewis, I just read about the abuse that happened to you as a young child and I want to hug you and thank you for talking about it, I relate to you so much more, thank you so much ❤️🤗

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Appreciate you! 🙏

  • @rachelm.keyser4902
    @rachelm.keyser4902 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Lewis this was hands down for me one of the best Sessions done: The opening up, the Vulnerability and lots of learning that I have to look within to ask those questions.
    I learned about Steve just literally last week when his book was a suggestion on AMZ Audible. So to see him on here and learn more is inspiring.
    Thanks so much for sharing so much!
    🙏🏽🙏🏾💜🤗💙

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy to hear this :)

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @rachelm.keyser4902
      @rachelm.keyser4902 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lewishowes will do

  • @sharondixon7153
    @sharondixon7153 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glancing through his book at Barnes and Noble and saw the TH-cam channel. Wow, very interesting conversation. Not many people at any age is this open and honest.

  • @michaelcrook9596
    @michaelcrook9596 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I coached Steven when he was a boy at Hooe Rovers and new in my heart he would go on to great things, he was a fabulous rebel in a very good way. If you speak to him again please give him my love a say I'm very proud of him 🙏 thanks MC

  • @charm5455
    @charm5455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is so inspiring to listen to. This sounds a little of myself and whats happening to me.. I don't love easily, I'm an introvert I don't trust people so I avoid forming any close friendships/ relationships in my life.

    • @omkexotics6663
      @omkexotics6663 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow, this is so me, it's crazy.🤞🏽😶‍🌫️

  • @jocelynnelake41
    @jocelynnelake41 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a wonderful conversation between two men. I love how raw you are both able to go. No mean feat for men and also how much you acknowledge the role your partners have played in your growth. Thank you x

  • @Rima-ll5pe
    @Rima-ll5pe ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing guys. Beautiful sharing and openness. Thank you both.🧡

  • @th8298
    @th8298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am so proud of you both. You both inspire me to heal different years of my life, so I can be a full woman who can learn to love and forgive.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much!

  • @masegokatisi5713
    @masegokatisi5713 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just got a diamond of a lesson from Steven and Lewis!! You two young men are great together!! Young as you are, you have lots of wisdom to share!! Thank you😍😍

  • @elizabethc5133
    @elizabethc5133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You seem to have an amazing therapist. I wish My family member had such a therapist. Thanks for all your videos and all the honest and open individuals you bring on your show who share in the discovery of ourselves and to be the best we can be.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome🧡

  • @ashleylugardo4967
    @ashleylugardo4967 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My condolences about your dad Lewis! I’m going to make more of an effort to see my mom more now. She’s far from perfect, and it’s hard for me. However, I’m going to try more now. Thank you!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

  • @ColetteBasley
    @ColetteBasley 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! A mindblowing insight into the male perspective of relationships, family, work. The honesty, openness, maturity and vocabulary of Steve for his young age is just amazing and completely holds my attention. I'll have to watch this again. Great, great viewing.

  • @malakaitaumohaapai6591
    @malakaitaumohaapai6591 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Lewis. You're such a light. Blessings to you both

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @mannyatyourcorner4043
    @mannyatyourcorner4043 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i just discover this channel in love with it in the 5 min man i love the way u ask all the right questions and they ur guest have freedom to ask u interesting questions as well i loved every sec of it every sec trust me its life changing i m right not taking note learning so much that only my mistakes cud have taught me but u people are so raw i a gonna learn from the mistakes of other be conscious thanks alot for all the richness you have provided its life changing ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you enjoy the channel! Thanks for being here!

  • @voicevamp
    @voicevamp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    At 75 years of age, I am dumbstruck at Steven's wisdom‼️
    I, too, overcame a FUGGED up childhood, but didn’t the time or freedom to work on myself until I was much older.
    You are a beacon of light in the age of the quickening.
    You deserve every atom of your success. ⚘️💜⚘️

  • @sheilakelley1516
    @sheilakelley1516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I was a kid in school I too was made fun I was the skinny unpopular girl and hearing others who have gone through that who are doing better in life now makes me realize others have gone through the same and life’s journeys in the way we feel about ourselves is what is important. These shows are helpful.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sorry you had to go through that🧡

  • @DirectorAtSomaya
    @DirectorAtSomaya 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One of the best interviews i have seen in a long while. Thank you

  • @ronniegladden7387
    @ronniegladden7387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    sharp, well clarified talk and insights -- perfect timing and thanks for posting this!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @winstonk400
    @winstonk400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My gosh this is soooo good! "healing creates the foundation for real ambition..."...mind blown!

  • @user-hv7fl9ie2y
    @user-hv7fl9ie2y 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic interview. I appreciate all the open honesty!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🧡

  • @mitziepessoa4799
    @mitziepessoa4799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this
    So raw,Honest &Real!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @winniealwayo700
    @winniealwayo700 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a beautiful, raw, honest conversation with two awesome humans

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🧡

  • @natalieaxl804
    @natalieaxl804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love his honesty ❤ thank you!!🙏

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @sharonkachel
    @sharonkachel 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lewis and Steven, thank you for sharing your experience of the nervous system reaction and your experience of overcoming it. It helps 🙏🏼💛

  • @zoebourgogne167
    @zoebourgogne167 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a great conversation, so instructive and enjoyable!!! Thanks Lewis and pelease, give a huge 20 secondes hug to our beloved STEVEN!🤗

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @brendapolar8506
    @brendapolar8506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pure GOLD! Thank you Lewis and Steven!👍💜

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
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  • @idaliahernandez1083
    @idaliahernandez1083 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are awesome, Lewis! Thank you so much for bringing awesome interviews with such a great insight from the guests. Every time I watch one of your videos I feel empowered. 💪

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
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  • @mellmoi7571
    @mellmoi7571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    An amazingly honest and totally engaging conversation! between two very brave men. Thank you!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
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  • @silkyruby
    @silkyruby 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys have great chemistry

  • @vaishalivaidya7978
    @vaishalivaidya7978 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a ton Lewis and Steven for putting across such an insightful, open, vulnerable conversation. Feeling blessed today after hearing you two talk.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @SM-qb7ce
    @SM-qb7ce 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Woow Lewis this really helped me self reflect regarding healing childhood issues/ traumas. Even though they weren't sexual abuse it's still something that should be addressed at times because it does affect your relationships as an adult!!! THANK YOU & STEVEN BARTLET FOR SHARING! 🙏

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @adamousoumana3937
    @adamousoumana3937 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very inspiring !! Thank you so much🔥

  • @hienlam6498
    @hienlam6498 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a great interview/talk! Indebted to your openness, honesty and wisdom that you shared Steve

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for watching!

  • @thespicegift6912
    @thespicegift6912 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have somehow become obsessed with Steven Bartlett and I hope to meet him one day and be on his podcast! What a great conversationalist, a great story teller and an inspiration for our generation! Each interview or podcast episode of his i watch I go away feeling amazing and drawn to him and his message. Amazing episode Lewis. :)

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @josh1992lanky
    @josh1992lanky ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Possibly the best podcast I have ever watched. Amazing. Thank you.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome, thank you for being here 🧡

  • @farializ
    @farializ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am sooo touched by the conversation of your childhood Lewis, I know the feeling I have now put my childhood picture as my screen saver. Thank you so much I am still healing ❤️‍🩹 every day 💯❤️❤️❤️

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

  • @seho1363
    @seho1363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very brave and very honest. I enjoyed the whole interview.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

  • @MBVXONIDE
    @MBVXONIDE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what a remarkable soul this guy has...most men don't ever get to the place where is. "service to others" ? wisdom--- that's what it is... he's blessed with wisdom. that's the rare gift i see in this one.

  • @AAXS-op1vo
    @AAXS-op1vo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lewis, I am just so proud of you. You have no idea . . .
    The person you are becoming will eventually blow your mind because you are actually committed to going through the viciously hard work of facing those terrors, those ghosts from your past.
    That therapy piece is CRUCIAL. The fact that you were not afraid to face “the opening and sifting of the dreaded box” (well, you WERE afraid, but did it ANYWAY) is the KEY.
    I went through something similar, but with a sad ending because the other was not ready to face truths, go through therapy or be accountable. It’s was a devastating loss . . . Half a life really. But I truly feel that continuing to pursue TRUTH, no matter how painful, will still be the best course, for me anyway.
    I used to say “Once you take the head off of the BEAST, it is dead, dead, dead.”
    Keep going, keep digging, keep facing the beasts, until they have no more power over you. A better life and more authentic love (even if it is just for yourself) is on the other side of that battle!
    Great conversation . . . Carry on!⚔️

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

  • @ef5842
    @ef5842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A person who screams as a means to be heard has not been heard growing up, and usually needs hugs. If that was their way with others. Yhen It's defensive out of fear. I confirm that and I am a changed person because alk through the years, my son listened to me and taught me that its okay to speak softly and I can still be heard. One hug a day with a Mom or sibling, or mate, is survival, two for communicating, three and four to be happier and it shows acceptance. A hug validates and shows we care. Boundaries show we care, and speaking softly and paying attention show we care. Neighbors don't need hugs, but friends sometimes do, but everyone needs a smile, and everyone needs word validation, especially family. Try saying I love you to family all day long. It becomes the polite thing to say and that shows we care. I enjoyed the interview. Our mission should be clear, service to those we love. I like the book The five love languages. Mine is word validation and hearing others voices, and food gifts. Everyone is a little different.

  • @shashankberry
    @shashankberry ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome episode!! This is what you get when two great self aware podcasters get together!

  • @TheEmilkka
    @TheEmilkka 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you both guys, keep discovering your greatness. World is better with people like you two ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🧡

  • @QuadeCrabtree
    @QuadeCrabtree 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, very eye opening and helping reflect to see things from an outside but inside perspective 🙏🏼

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome🧡

  • @elenaursachianu1074
    @elenaursachianu1074 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You two have an aamazing conecction, one of the truest, vulnarable, full of life wisdom, podcast episode.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

  • @travelandtash
    @travelandtash 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow… I love Steven’s honesty.

  • @cristinaolteanu9487
    @cristinaolteanu9487 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you both, and I would love to listen to you both, I think you are two amazing persons. I do love it how Steven is interviewed here, but he so easily goes into the interviewer and change the discution towards Lewis. I love it. Keep doing what you're doing guys. Thank you for everything that you do. I'm grateful that I came across both of you. ❤ Lots of love. xo

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

  • @safooranaaz
    @safooranaaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Incredible conversation.... First time I heard/watched more than 1hr talk... Really loved it!! 😍

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

  • @angelsd4004
    @angelsd4004 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so amazing Lewis for this show of openness and vulnerability. I hope many can learn from this interview. Great respect to you and Steven.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

  • @michelle_cen
    @michelle_cen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a vulnerable and beautiful interview ❤ Thank you

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

  • @vanuza222
    @vanuza222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very inspiring and helpful conversation. It’s very touching, amazing, insightful,and beautiful to see, listen, and experience two men open up, being vulnerable, and connect in the most authentic way. You are such great role models for young people therefore setting the bar high for the next generations. You are such an inspiration to all💯👌🙏🏼❤️

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

  • @Khanyisile3
    @Khanyisile3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this, such a beautiful interview.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome🧡

  • @christelnielandt5117
    @christelnielandt5117 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Superb podcast. Truly hope more men listen to this and open up as well. Not only because we women love this, it will improve mental health and overall well being of men. Big thanks. Love you both. Big hug from Belgium ❤

  • @patrycjazak4528
    @patrycjazak4528 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! What a great video. You guys are both amazing! I would love to meet you both someday just to thank you in person 🎈@ best wishes and thank you for sharing and being so open and vulnerable. Please know you are changing lives every day. I personally shared that video with 3 of my closest people.
    Thank you!
    Patrycja

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for being here!

  • @W.C.F.L
    @W.C.F.L 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really enjoyed this honest and authentic conversation. I love how you both are interviewing each other ...😂❤

  • @Lynnesings
    @Lynnesings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this conversation! I feel like I need to put a photo of myself on my phone and tell myself young self how precious and valuable I am.

  • @filizcaran8430
    @filizcaran8430 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So sincere and beautiful.

  • @mobin4133
    @mobin4133 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a wonderful profound conversation
    Thank you steven for the honesty and transparency 🙏🙏

  • @tiffanymarks4577
    @tiffanymarks4577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    😊🎉 Well done Lewis, and a big thank you to your guest for being so inspirational 😊🎉

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

  • @mariaalaverdyan2512
    @mariaalaverdyan2512 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "definition of greatness: being present in the pursuit of my personal dreams" I really enjoyed this episode, thank you!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @ethelynblackmore1205
    @ethelynblackmore1205 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The fact that you mastered ego, you chose better, therefore you got pure results.

  • @allwellandgood8547
    @allwellandgood8547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chills watching this! Did not know Steven's story but admire his strength of character on Dragons Den here in the UK. Could listen to you both all day, please interview him again soon. Got to say it is so refreshing and appreciated how you both talk so openly and vulnerably about your pasts. I'm going to listen to this one again, so much to learn from it. Thanks both 🙌💙💙

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

  • @lightyourway4929
    @lightyourway4929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great insights and thank you for sharing. Lewis you are a great interviewer. Every interview is excellent and I thoroughly love the guests for their inspirational journeys.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate you! 🙏

  • @kendramoorelife
    @kendramoorelife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! This is a powerful conversation. His transparency is moving and insightful.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here:
      podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

  • @chrisdelafuente8489
    @chrisdelafuente8489 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome Podcast!!! I got so much out of this conversation. Thank you

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @janejeffery2615
    @janejeffery2615 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this

  • @tiaramist
    @tiaramist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lewis, I am one of your fans that watch but never comment on a video.... until this one. I have learned sooo much from the many of people you have interviewed, however, I want to comment on this video. The exchange between the two of you have been so refreshing and authentic that I am grateful that you had this young man on your show. I am a woman hoping to wed a black man and to know first hand (via your podcast) how they view hurt and past and future, I am thankful that you are being faithful in your calling to provide such content. I watched your interview with Jason Wilson, and I have referred his book to several people because we don't know what men, specifically black men, go through on a daily basis. Thank you for your openness and vulnerability. Women like myself are learning a lot so that we can properly love the man we are to wed. Martha is a blessed woman to have found a young man like yourself. Forever a long time listener, Tiara.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

  • @jessicasantossilva4207
    @jessicasantossilva4207 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing interview ❤

  • @julissadeleon3710
    @julissadeleon3710 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how transparent these guys are. Lewis you are an inspiration. Thank you for all you do.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡

  • @muddyshoes4517
    @muddyshoes4517 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow. I'm a women & I have the same story about relationships. I have a similar family history that he shared (except it went both ways with the parents), and I have the hardest time bc I struggle with boundaries & responsibility in relationships, more specifically with romantic ones. I have guessed this, but haven't seen it this clear until hearing Steven tell his story. Thank you! 🌟 ❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome, thank you for watching! 🧡

  • @gaynellebeckles1329
    @gaynellebeckles1329 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    There truly are levels to self awareness. Great discussion!

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Happy to hear this :)

  • @fadumayusuf3018
    @fadumayusuf3018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow what a powerful conversation,thank you .

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡