I think one of the major issues with men using books, and video's is they see them as strategies instead of a mindset. No contact for example is meaningless if you don't really mean it. If it's a strategy it means you're suffering, and waiting for her to reach out. If it's a mindset it means you don't contact her, and your focus is on moving forward with your life.
Bingo. The reason Corey wants you to read and make it subconscious is that it needs to be second nature. Guys look at dating and pick up like they are watching a TH-cam video telling them how to change their brake pads. Like once you get where you need to be you don’t need to go further
I stuck to the principle of walking away and NEVER looking back. Funny how two women I was talking to came back in the same month with the “hey you” text and the other completely blew me up (11 messages and 6 phone calls). I could care less, moved on and found a better woman. Even then I know just to enjoy the moment with her because nothing lasts forever. Love is playful and fun, love in a way that she feels like she’s free. Women make it easy when they like you. Remember guys there is ALWAYS another bus every 15 minutes.
My brothers, great supplements to Corey’s book and content include: 1. Listen to the audiobook called Can’t Hurt Me, by David Goggins 2. Becoming a life long student of the stoic philosophy. There’s plenty of content on TH-cam about it. 3. Learn martial arts and train hard physically. You’ll easily gain a base sense of confidence and courage, plus you’ll be more dangerous. Be dangerous, but kind. Thanks Corey for sharing your knowledge.
Ive done this.. huge mistake. Best thing to do is walk away and mean it. They always end up reaching out at some point. But when that time comes, I've been long gone and with a better woman.
I broke no contact after listening to fake coaches online she came back but with twice the amount of disrespect and slept with my best friend. Never break no contact Never
Always focus on personal growth. Re-read the book another 10 to 15 times. I understand that initially, it's hard; you tend to overthink everything, and anxiety runs high. However, it's precisely in those moments that you must exercise emotional self-control. Remind yourself that you must respect yourself enough to declare, "Either she returns, or I'll find someone better." If someone breaks up with you, the last thing you should do is stay at home, moping about it. I suggest attending dancing classes or events where women gather. Trust me, you'll soon realize, "There are plenty of beautiful women out there.
Coach is right. I’ve read the book 4-5 times over the course of the last 4 months and still find myself slipping up/losing center sometimes. This guy only reading it twice doesn’t surprise me. Gotta keep reading it lol.
Guys who still, for some reason, want their ex-girlfriend back. I get it it hurts. The betrayal, the broken promises. Trust me, i know i, too, got betrayed. Im young already have 3 heartbreaks by 2 girls. I admit i been reaching out and reaching out after my last relationship dumped me. I still dont understand why knowing i just want to talk and fix anything. I eventually gave up. Harden my heart. Freeze my heart. Thank guys and girls who helped me heal with their talk. I still want her because she is also my close friend, but i can't keep chasing someone who dont want me to catch her. Yes, all this is recently. Sorry for the long comment. I move on and talk to other girls. Some respond back. Some dont at all, but i learn not to take my feelings out anymore
Bro I am going through a break up from 2 months ago from a 3 year relationship. We were best friends 2 years prior as well. But i still aint, and will never, reach out to that b*tch. You dont do that. You respect yourself and find other women. It doesnt matter who your ex is, I get the close friend thing trust me…
@@Meditations1776 Not after this type of sh¡t. Trust me, I've done similar and only one time the girl tried to comeback. I completely pushed the others away.
Love your videos coach, currently going trough a break from a 4 year relationship. She broke it off, told her to let me know if changes her mind and have not contacted her since.
@@Tobinounet i know, it also depends on HOW you say it, but i wouldn’t say that anyways, i’d say something more like ‘thats what you want? fine’ and walk away
You can’t use no contact off the bat if you hurt her really bad. Cheated, lied, broke her heart and realized it was a mistake. You gotta show change and sorry, but you cannot beg. There’s a difference. If she won’t listen or give you a chance to show them change, then you go no contact, wish they well and move forward but you can’t just expect a girl you crushed to come back, think it depends. If she walks away and you were a solid dude, then yes no contact all the way.
Only thing I have to add is if he was a secure and manly to begin with, he would have stayed that way. Someone was just playing at being manly and found out you have to be consistent with your words and actions.
It could be that he had never been with this caliber of woman where he is so into, so he may have been manly to the other women he deals with because they don’t knock his socks off like she does
Guys trust me, no contact works like a charm. But instead of counting on the days, focus your energy towards you, set new goals, build your physique, hangout with friends, find new hobbies, etc. When you focus your energy on yourself, youll probably even forgot about how long shell contact you. But when youve pulled your energy back and become the best version of you, she will sense that vibration of energy no longer lingers to her. At that time, most likely shell contact you again. But it all depends on you, if she hasnt changed, and you take her back, its like playing the same song over n over again. And trust me when youve levelled up and she hasnt, you wouldnt even wanna take her back.
My only issue with no contact it's hard when you work with the chick you liked Because you see her interest change on you in real time and it's extremely weird considering yall where hooking up every week at one point. Good video as always 😂
When she “in the spur of the moment” asked to come over, your response should have been: Great to hear from you. I’m busy tonight but I’ve got next Friday free. Are you available then?
That works a lot better when you are actually busy. Pretending to be busy to try and trick her is dumb. She was drunk, she would have slept with him if he wasn't trying to be Mr nice guy.
@@jasonkobos3850Agree. Especially because she had already hung out with him on a regular basis for several months at that point. SO SHE KNOWS HE AINT THAT BUSY lolll.
@@jasonkobos3850 Yes. That’s the point. You’re supposed to be busy. On your goals. Meeting and exceeding your targets. Some random punani ought to be 11th or 12th on your totem pole. Somewhere between your 4th set of pull-ups and a real solid dump.
Nobody on here has done everything right with women or we wouldn't be here so don't get too down on yourself, it's a lesson that you and all of us needed to become that 3% man that is our God given right. Listen to the man Corey Wayne.
@@DeltaTempest Been there done that my friend... Half these guys wouldn't say this to someone's face especially mine, so I keep it real. always remember we are the prize no matter what!!! Listen to Corey and you got this !!
@@Mr.Yang823i do feel bad I took her off snap. Should've just swallowed my pride and kept her on with the lines of communication open. Just no initiating. But I think ive already dug this hole.
@@DeltaTempest the past is the past we just have to learn from those mistakes so we can be wise for our present moment my friend.. it's all lessons for our journey and growth.
@@DeltaTempesthey man I’ve been reading and following Corey’s work for years and I still fuck up - especially the ones that we really like. It’s funny how quick we can disregard what we know to do when we really like a woman. Just use the pain of watching this as motivation to read the book religiously, and continue to make courageous decisions to overcome your fears. One day you’ll look back on this and laugh!
I broke no contact after 4 months since we stopped communicating and it backfired. I didn't wanna waste my time waiting no more. She's done with me so I'm done with her. Moving along without worrying about some1 else who doesn't care.
You were a day away never reach out first you could have won her back bro especially!! If you had been good to her and took good care of her previously!!!
I know enough to not break no contact, (I realize it can be difficult). If she never tries to reconnect then might as well move on...and write it off. (again, it can be difficult, but there's really no choice)
@@HolyRollerTV I think that would be a mistake. You have to leave her an opening if she wants to reach out. And you can't act like you're angry or pissed off. You have to show indifference. IMO.
I've met so many women that complain about the fact I don't initiate more conversation via texting at the beginning stages, after setting up a date at a specific place and time they expect for so much fluff in between, at first it made me question the Coach's teachings and thought perhaps I should break the pattern and do as they request but if you think about it, if a woman misses you, wants to talk with you and instead of initiating a conversation she is getting angry and offended it means she's not a good communicator to begin with and better find someone else..
This was painful to listen to. This dude fucked up so bad lol. In his defense, she sounds like she has attachment issues/possible PD. I went NC with mine and she came back apologizing after 4 months. Back in NC again after she reached out and was lukewarm at best. Oh well... If she comes back around, she comes back around. If not, I'm doing my thing.
Honestly I cried with laughter when I watched this with Corey and the gyno references 😂 aside from that, hope the guy in this video cleaned his act up and is doing well, and will post a success story here one day 👌🏼
I get a feeling these married guys who have affairs left and right are emboldened by the fact they’re married and have a woman to fall back on. They are living the abundance mindset (immorally)
Dealing with this girl now we’ve been in a relationship for 6 months now. Been following your practices. She keeps complaining I don’t spend enough time with her. That I treat her like a FWB. That she feels she has to beg to hang out with me … (we already hang out twice sometimes 3x a week)… idk what to do I try to throw her a bone for a day or two but don’t want to turn into some simp she starts taking for granted
She's testing you subconsciously for how strong you're as a man and how strong your frame is. If you give in into her demands, she will lose attraction for you and will start taking you for granted. You're doing great, keep doing what Corey Wayne teaches.
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I was in the same boat, and I tried to fix things by hanging out with her more and that was a mistake. I should have moved on regarding how painful that might be, but that might be the only way to take the interest back and opportunity for her to chase me.
Laughing about it really helps not beating yourself over it, not make it dramatic if it happens again even to a lesser degree, because changes dont always come all of a sudden but can be gradual
It's ok if you've done it once 😬 just learn your lesson and never do it again 👌 that's how I've learnt, I cringe every time I think about my past behaviour, NEVER again!!!😅
The moment we say she is gone … we are saying we are not worth and end up giving her power .. my say is … we are gone for good and it’s her loss … Peace bro ✌️
The fact that he bought the 'not feeling well after seeing the gynaecologist' excuse even though he knew she went out with a previous bf the same night, shows how utterly stupid he is.
Thanks coach, I had a pretty good laugh about that one. "Why don´t you love me, mommy" and "But wait, there is more, just wait" :D This is pure comedy.
The problem is: women let their emotions ruin their own dating lives. I’m set financially at a pretty young age and also in shape/ attractive, but yet I’ve had women who are literally desperate for a provider end things with me just because the modern woman’s ego is empowered and “they don’t need a man”. I genuinely think some women date ugly/ unsuccessful guys because they want power in the relationship and would rather be able to get away with being man hating feminists instead of dating an attractive guy who holds more power and has boundaries/ will leave them if they act crazy
Well I’m a 49 year old male going through a break up I got dumped on my ass , currently in no contact it’s hard but pushing through and focusing on myself as much as possible, but fuck me dead this story has made me laugh 😆 so hard I nearly pissed my pants
We've all been there, did that but it have to come a point in life as Men that we learn how to respect ourselves. Because can't expect any one to want to invest in us if we'er being super eagered for someone attention. Best to have hobbies and self fulfillment before getting out here and dating
Guys, 49 days of strict NC and she has finally reach out! Very indirect asking about a shirt that she left at my house. At this point in time I am quite happy with my dating life and am in no rush to get back right now or if at all. But I'll keep that door cracked to see what happens. Remember, surrender to there request (breakup) confidently walk away and hold the initiative, making them come to you.
@@eppsislike During her journey back, she did 100% of the contact for 6 weeks and we hooked up once in that time. One convo, we were talking about our past relationship where things went wrong and she told me she was "in love" with a married man. A dude whom she told me was "just a friend" throughout our relationship (2 years). I had speculation she was seeing him again and confirmed my intuition she'd had been seeing him during the 49 days and had feeling for this guy who was "just a friend" all along. I ended up telling her not to contact me ever again. This happened almost 3 weeks ago now.
See I was wondering can you do this if the girlfriend takes your daughter away and won't let you see her. Cause I don't want the girl back just want to see my daughter.
She might have had a sore hooha but it wasn’t because a gynecologist visit. It was from the married dude she posted a pic with. This guy needs to read the book 30 times.
Corey, how do you handle a woman you work with, who you know has interest in you, but you (me) over pursued? It's harder when you have to see her 3-4 times a week and she's constantly testing you. Nevermind the fact that she talks about you to everyone in the same workplace.
@Lucy_14141 We work together, so by over-pursue I mean I overreacted to her initial signs of interest towards me. I started asking questions about her to get to know her, and once that happened she started testing me non-stop. I also asked her out on a date at one point, to which she said she "has a BF". I didn't really believe her, but I didn't overreact and kind of just brushed it off by making a joke. The thing is, she still kept testing me after that and even showed blatant signs of interest and flirting. She is a very confusing individual to say the least. I am beginning to think she is a narcissist though and just loves the attention. Seeing as she gets attention from everyone, especially other guys we work with. I pulled away at one point and didn't talk to her for a week or so. I noticed her get progressively irritated and she started to be blatantly disrespectful to me in front of other people. She still shows interest from time to time and can still be very overtly flirtatious.
@Lucy_14141 I do get the sense she has genuine interest and part of the issue is she is not good at communicating it. She is a bit younger than me as well. So, that can obviously play into it. She is a very beautiful girl. So I know she has a lot of guys all clamoring for her attention. So, it could also be her naturally having her guard up.
I think one of the major issues with men using books, and video's is they see them as strategies instead of a mindset. No contact for example is meaningless if you don't really mean it. If it's a strategy it means you're suffering, and waiting for her to reach out. If it's a mindset it means you don't contact her, and your focus is on moving forward with your life.
Bingo. The reason Corey wants you to read and make it subconscious is that it needs to be second nature. Guys look at dating and pick up like they are watching a TH-cam video telling them how to change their brake pads. Like once you get where you need to be you don’t need to go further
This!!!!!!!
4:12
Words matter.
I never let a woman fuck me.
They get fucked _by me._
I do the fucking, they get fucked.
Wow it's really eye opening , hope people understand it
I stuck to the principle of walking away and NEVER looking back. Funny how two women I was talking to came back in the same month with the “hey you” text and the other completely blew me up (11 messages and 6 phone calls). I could care less, moved on and found a better woman. Even then I know just to enjoy the moment with her because nothing lasts forever. Love is playful and fun, love in a way that she feels like she’s free. Women make it easy when they like you. Remember guys there is ALWAYS another bus every 15 minutes.
Those sayings are surely right out of the book. You must be a good student.😇
Where the route at?!
Very well said !
women make it easy when they like you. this is the truth, i fed-up playing this game.
If she’s emotionally damaged this dynamic plays out differently
Don’t feel bad brother. I was just as pathetic
We’ve all done it😂
Trial and error. Live and learn!
It happens.
Yep
So was l.
My brothers, great supplements to Corey’s book and content include:
1. Listen to the audiobook called Can’t Hurt Me, by David Goggins
2. Becoming a life long student of the stoic philosophy. There’s plenty of content on TH-cam about it.
3. Learn martial arts and train hard physically. You’ll easily gain a base sense of confidence and courage, plus you’ll be more dangerous. Be dangerous, but kind.
Thanks Corey for sharing your knowledge.
Amen brother
Ive done this.. huge mistake. Best thing to do is walk away and mean it. They always end up reaching out at some point. But when that time comes, I've been long gone and with a better woman.
I broke no contact after listening to fake coaches online she came back but with twice the amount of disrespect and slept with my best friend. Never break no contact Never
Bro I'm sorry, that's not a "best friend" that's your fuckin enemy my guy, my best mates would never....fuck my ex or any of that disrespectful shit
even when they are texting 'are you still angry' and sending hot iphone vids, they are scamming your brain.....
Bwahahaha
Women always respect you more if they reach out to you first.
Your "best friend"...where are you finding your friends bruh??
Chad Thundercock is a gynecologist 🧐😂
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And, and IUD appointment:P
Always focus on personal growth. Re-read the book another 10 to 15 times. I understand that initially, it's hard; you tend to overthink everything, and anxiety runs high. However, it's precisely in those moments that you must exercise emotional self-control. Remind yourself that you must respect yourself enough to declare, "Either she returns, or I'll find someone better." If someone breaks up with you, the last thing you should do is stay at home, moping about it. I suggest attending dancing classes or events where women gather. Trust me, you'll soon realize, "There are plenty of beautiful women out there.
100% bro
I love Corey's girl voice over, it adds all the necessary fun to keep me engaged in learning
Coach is right. I’ve read the book 4-5 times over the course of the last 4 months and still find myself slipping up/losing center sometimes. This guy only reading it twice doesn’t surprise me. Gotta keep reading it lol.
Guys who still, for some reason, want their ex-girlfriend back. I get it it hurts. The betrayal, the broken promises. Trust me, i know i, too, got betrayed. Im young already have 3 heartbreaks by 2 girls. I admit i been reaching out and reaching out after my last relationship dumped me. I still dont understand why knowing i just want to talk and fix anything. I eventually gave up. Harden my heart. Freeze my heart. Thank guys and girls who helped me heal with their talk. I still want her because she is also my close friend, but i can't keep chasing someone who dont want me to catch her. Yes, all this is recently. Sorry for the long comment. I move on and talk to other girls. Some respond back. Some dont at all, but i learn not to take my feelings out anymore
Bro I am going through a break up from 2 months ago from a 3 year relationship. We were best friends 2 years prior as well. But i still aint, and will never, reach out to that b*tch. You dont do that. You respect yourself and find other women. It doesnt matter who your ex is, I get the close friend thing trust me…
I don't want her back coach, I just want her off my mind 😴
Man this dude completely ruined his chances. He has no self control!!
Not my proudest moment.
@@DeltaTempest She will be back.
@@Meditations1776 Not after this type of sh¡t. Trust me, I've done similar and only one time the girl tried to comeback. I completely pushed the others away.
@@Meditations1776 are you this slow in real life?
Love your videos coach, currently going trough a break from a 4 year relationship. She broke it off, told her to let me know if changes her mind and have not contacted her since.
You just gave your power away by telling her that. “Hey im just gonna hold my balls until you take me back”. Come on dude
@@terrodar19 Except it is exactly what Corey tells you to do "Let me know if you change your mind"
@@Tobinounet i know, it also depends on HOW you say it, but i wouldn’t say that anyways, i’d say something more like ‘thats what you want? fine’ and walk away
@@terrodar19 I see. I'm always OK with them coming back but then it will be as fuck buddy, not more.
@@TobinounetThis
You can’t use no contact off the bat if you hurt her really bad. Cheated, lied, broke her heart and realized it was a mistake. You gotta show change and sorry, but you cannot beg. There’s a difference. If she won’t listen or give you a chance to show them change, then you go no contact, wish they well and move forward but you can’t just expect a girl you crushed to come back, think it depends. If she walks away and you were a solid dude, then yes no contact all the way.
Only thing I have to add is if he was a secure and manly to begin with, he would have stayed that way. Someone was just playing at being manly and found out you have to be consistent with your words and actions.
You gotta fake it until you make it.
It could be that he had never been with this caliber of woman where he is so into, so he may have been manly to the other women he deals with because they don’t knock his socks off like she does
@@dreamshakegaming thats pretty much it
I think she meant she has crabs not likes crab.
Girl does sound like trash
Ffs😂
😂
Guys trust me, no contact works like a charm. But instead of counting on the days, focus your energy towards you, set new goals, build your physique, hangout with friends, find new hobbies, etc. When you focus your energy on yourself, youll probably even forgot about how long shell contact you. But when youve pulled your energy back and become the best version of you, she will sense that vibration of energy no longer lingers to her. At that time, most likely shell contact you again. But it all depends on you, if she hasnt changed, and you take her back, its like playing the same song over n over again. And trust me when youve levelled up and she hasnt, you wouldnt even wanna take her back.
This is where I was going wrong
Anxious attachment ruins everything
A learning experience for sure. I made some of these mistakes early on before I read your book. Things have improved since.
Girl sounds like she was touched by daddy, step daddy and at least 2 uncles.
This video was basically a comedy. Couldn’t breathe for 8 minutes halfway through… live and learn, y’all!
Hahaha!!!!! Right!? 😅
My only issue with no contact it's hard when you work with the chick you liked Because you see her interest change on you in real time and it's extremely weird considering yall where hooking up every week at one point. Good video as always 😂
Yeah that is rough. Best of luck to ya
so stop lusting after women you work with ..simple
18:42 this absolutely killed me🤣🤣
Stella! Waaaaargh😂😂😂😂😂
When she “in the spur of the moment” asked to come over, your response should have been: Great to hear from you. I’m busy tonight but I’ve got next Friday free. Are you available then?
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That works a lot better when you are actually busy. Pretending to be busy to try and trick her is dumb. She was drunk, she would have slept with him if he wasn't trying to be Mr nice guy.
no that's stupid. you're overthinking it just see her.
@@jasonkobos3850Agree. Especially because she had already hung out with him on a regular basis for several months at that point. SO SHE KNOWS HE AINT THAT BUSY lolll.
@@jasonkobos3850 Yes. That’s the point. You’re supposed to be busy. On your goals. Meeting and exceeding your targets. Some random punani ought to be 11th or 12th on your totem pole. Somewhere between your 4th set of pull-ups and a real solid dump.
Nobody on here has done everything right with women or we wouldn't be here so don't get too down on yourself, it's a lesson that you and all of us needed to become that 3% man that is our God given right. Listen to the man Corey Wayne.
The one kind comment. Thanks bro.
@@DeltaTempest Been there done that my friend... Half these guys wouldn't say this to someone's face especially mine, so I keep it real. always remember we are the prize no matter what!!! Listen to Corey and you got this !!
@@Mr.Yang823i do feel bad I took her off snap. Should've just swallowed my pride and kept her on with the lines of communication open. Just no initiating. But I think ive already dug this hole.
@@DeltaTempest the past is the past we just have to learn from those mistakes so we can be wise for our present moment my friend.. it's all lessons for our journey and growth.
@@DeltaTempesthey man I’ve been reading and following Corey’s work for years and I still fuck up - especially the ones that we really like. It’s funny how quick we can disregard what we know to do when we really like a woman. Just use the pain of watching this as motivation to read the book religiously, and continue to make courageous decisions to overcome your fears. One day you’ll look back on this and laugh!
Coach Corey maybe that married dude was a gynecologist?? So technically she's not lying 😂😂
Exactly. Only man touching her vagina.
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I broke no contact after 4 months since we stopped communicating and it backfired. I didn't wanna waste my time waiting no more. She's done with me so I'm done with her. Moving along without worrying about some1 else who doesn't care.
What?
@@allhailzamasu69 re read
Your life bro. Meet plenty of girls and create an abundance mindset.
you dudes are hilarious, always running behind women...
You were a day away never reach out first you could have won her back bro especially!! If you had been good to her and took good care of her previously!!!
I know enough to not break no contact, (I realize it can be difficult). If she never tries to reconnect then might as well move on...and write it off. (again, it can be difficult, but there's really no choice)
real no contact means .she is blocked on everything...
@@HolyRollerTV I think that would be a mistake. You have to leave her an opening if she wants to reach out. And you can't act like you're angry or pissed off. You have to show indifference. IMO.
This video has all my favorite impressions and critiques of the emailer.
“What are we your highness?” 👸
😂😂😂
🤣😂😂
I've met so many women that complain about the fact I don't initiate more conversation via texting at the beginning stages, after setting up a date at a specific place and time they expect for so much fluff in between, at first it made me question the Coach's teachings and thought perhaps I should break the pattern and do as they request but if you think about it, if a woman misses you, wants to talk with you and instead of initiating a conversation she is getting angry and offended it means she's not a good communicator to begin with and better find someone else..
This was painful to listen to. This dude fucked up so bad lol. In his defense, she sounds like she has attachment issues/possible PD. I went NC with mine and she came back apologizing after 4 months. Back in NC again after she reached out and was lukewarm at best. Oh well... If she comes back around, she comes back around. If not, I'm doing my thing.
Talk to other women too
Do your thing regardless. Don’t wait on her because she definitely ain’t waiting on you!
I was about to call her.. came here to get my mind right
Bro I was about to call for Christmas. Never
"Stella !" Is crazy
Thanks
This had me laughing so damn hard! Talk about a comedy show! But seriously I hope the guy learns from this. We've all been here, to some degree.
Whenever I’m feeling like a feminine bitch not in my masculine.. I just watch these videos and feel like I’m doing just fine 😂
😂
Why want you love me mommy 😭😭😭
This only works if she hasn't started dating other dudes, if she has, you aren't even a thought
Honestly I cried with laughter when I watched this with Corey and the gyno references 😂 aside from that, hope the guy in this video cleaned his act up and is doing well, and will post a success story here one day 👌🏼
Ive had it bad a few times with being dumped, but this sounds way worse. This is a harsh lesson for all of us
Plot twist: The married man IS the gynocologist! No wonder why she was sore.
I get a feeling these married guys who have affairs left and right are emboldened by the fact they’re married and have a woman to fall back on.
They are living the abundance mindset (immorally)
Wow Corey, I don't even dare show you the friendzone I was in, you would need to bring tissues either to cry or to laugh...
Dealing with this girl now we’ve been in a relationship for 6 months now. Been following your practices. She keeps complaining I don’t spend enough time with her. That I treat her like a FWB. That she feels she has to beg to hang out with me … (we already hang out twice sometimes 3x a week)… idk what to do I try to throw her a bone for a day or two but don’t want to turn into some simp she starts taking for granted
She's testing you subconsciously for how strong you're as a man and how strong your frame is. If you give in into her demands, she will lose attraction for you and will start taking you for granted. You're doing great, keep doing what Corey Wayne teaches.
I was in the same boat, and I tried to fix things by hanging out with her more and that was a mistake. I should have moved on regarding how painful that might be, but that might be the only way to take the interest back and opportunity for her to chase me.
Bro, don't fall for this mistake. I did and got dumped. Guess what she said, I liked you before you became my bf. Stay on your purpose.
Laughing about it really helps not beating yourself over it, not make it dramatic if it happens again even to a lesser degree, because changes dont always come all of a sudden but can be gradual
It's ok if you've done it once 😬 just learn your lesson and never do it again 👌 that's how I've learnt, I cringe every time I think about my past behaviour, NEVER again!!!😅
I am doing the same thing and now I know how pathetic it is. She is gone and it's time to move on as fast as she did!
The moment we say she is gone … we are saying we are not worth and end up giving her power .. my say is … we are gone for good and it’s her loss … Peace bro ✌️
Good morning from sunny Temecula California!
I figured there would have been a few more come on man’s than what there was. Excellent video coach!
One thing is for certain, i sure did have some good laughs with This One, coach once again not disappoint 😂😂
I am a board certified IUD adjuster!
Good morning sir, I have just bought your book
The fact that he bought the 'not feeling well after seeing the gynaecologist' excuse even though he knew she went out with a previous bf the same night, shows how utterly stupid he is.
We have all been there my dude, you need to learn testicular fortitude (self control). Look at yourself as the prize that needs to be won over by her.
I love you man! I laughed a lot 😂😂😂 that dude is hilarious!
A clasdic and very important advice. This video is very important and to the point
Thanks coach, I had a pretty good laugh about that one. "Why don´t you love me, mommy" and "But wait, there is more, just wait" :D This is pure comedy.
This will be a good video ! 🎉🎉
Honestly no contact is hard the first day or two but afterwards it’s super easy so I believe anyone can do it and it’s only to benefit yourself
I'm enjoying the comments only because I've been there.
Thank you Coach Corey! This worked and we are literally going out in a few days
Well played bro. How long NC.
That sounds word for word like those ex back systems I used to follow 🤦🏿♂️
If you make your mind/body/money great, you won’t need to even worry about women. You have to value yourself, not women.
16:25 cracked me up 😂 ...BUT THERES MORE! 😅😂😂😂
26:16 LOL Captain Save a H_ E - E40
Great Song lol
This is one of my favourite videos you’ve done Corey
I’ve been down bad before, but never this down bad. They only dated for 5 months.
The problem is: women let their emotions ruin their own dating lives. I’m set financially at a pretty young age and also in shape/ attractive, but yet I’ve had women who are literally desperate for a provider end things with me just because the modern woman’s ego is empowered and “they don’t need a man”. I genuinely think some women date ugly/ unsuccessful guys because they want power in the relationship and would rather be able to get away with being man hating feminists instead of dating an attractive guy who holds more power and has boundaries/ will leave them if they act crazy
Well I’m a 49 year old male going through a break up I got dumped on my ass , currently in no contact it’s hard but pushing through and focusing on myself as much as possible, but fuck me dead this story has made me laugh 😆 so hard I nearly pissed my pants
We've all been there, did that but it have to come a point in life as Men that we learn how to respect ourselves. Because can't expect any one to want to invest in us if we'er being super eagered for someone attention. Best to have hobbies and self fulfillment before getting out here and dating
Guys, 49 days of strict NC and she has finally reach out! Very indirect asking about a shirt that she left at my house. At this point in time I am quite happy with my dating life and am in no rush to get back right now or if at all. But I'll keep that door cracked to see what happens. Remember, surrender to there request (breakup) confidently walk away and hold the initiative, making them come to you.
Update?
@@eppsislike During her journey back, she did 100% of the contact for 6 weeks and we hooked up once in that time. One convo, we were talking about our past relationship where things went wrong and she told me she was "in love" with a married man. A dude whom she told me was "just a friend" throughout our relationship (2 years). I had speculation she was seeing him again and confirmed my intuition she'd had been seeing him during the 49 days and had feeling for this guy who was "just a friend" all along. I ended up telling her not to contact me ever again. This happened almost 3 weeks ago now.
@@master328m1 good on you brother ... No integrity should never be tolerated and you'd let her known.
@@master328m1dam bro woman are worst that us men lol. So she admitted to also seeing this guy when u guys were together?
@master328m1 Well done bro, appreciate the update.
Did even worse than this in highschool.
But God's blessings, at 24 , I'm a strong, centered man.
jesus the burn on the new guy is rough
I don't think that I've ever laughed so hard at a CCW vid before.
I hate to admit it, I was worse before I found Corey.
corey cannot remove the b'tch from a mans heart...
This guy didn’t help himself, but this girl is one of those “wine from bad grapes” situation.
18:48 Marlon Brando in A Streetcar Named Desire 😂
Sounds to me like Chad Thundercock was the "OBGYN" that made her sore 😄😄
🤔 currently reflecting on past relationships decisions 🤦♂️
See I was wondering can you do this if the girlfriend takes your daughter away and won't let you see her. Cause I don't want the girl back just want to see my daughter.
She might have had a sore hooha but it wasn’t because a gynecologist visit. It was from the married dude she posted a pic with. This guy needs to read the book 30 times.
LMFAO I love the girl impersonations hahahaha best
I have no self esteem
She gave you a lot of chances 😢
Whenever I go no contact they lose interest and never contact me again.
They sense you have not improved your life.
@bbc20231 I always improve, every time. My money, look etc. I think it is their ego or total loss of feelings. Cheers
This is the funniest shit I’ve heard in a long time
Lol she texted me all drunk
I come for the voice
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Cheers coach!
Chad Thundercock strikes again!
hahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 STELLA‼‼‼
Genius work Coach
Corey, how do you handle a woman you work with, who you know has interest in you, but you (me) over pursued? It's harder when you have to see her 3-4 times a week and she's constantly testing you. Nevermind the fact that she talks about you to everyone in the same workplace.
Pretend to be busy, act aloof, be nice but only when she approaches you, never approach her first! Act like you don't care😊
@@flower_7890 Sounds about right. Thanks.
@@jhamilton1007 how did you over pursued? What did you do exactly? 🙂
@Lucy_14141 We work together, so by over-pursue I mean I overreacted to her initial signs of interest towards me. I started asking questions about her to get to know her, and once that happened she started testing me non-stop. I also asked her out on a date at one point, to which she said she "has a BF". I didn't really believe her, but I didn't overreact and kind of just brushed it off by making a joke. The thing is, she still kept testing me after that and even showed blatant signs of interest and flirting. She is a very confusing individual to say the least. I am beginning to think she is a narcissist though and just loves the attention. Seeing as she gets attention from everyone, especially other guys we work with. I pulled away at one point and didn't talk to her for a week or so. I noticed her get progressively irritated and she started to be blatantly disrespectful to me in front of other people. She still shows interest from time to time and can still be very overtly flirtatious.
@Lucy_14141 I do get the sense she has genuine interest and part of the issue is she is not good at communicating it. She is a bit younger than me as well. So, that can obviously play into it. She is a very beautiful girl. So I know she has a lot of guys all clamoring for her attention. So, it could also be her naturally having her guard up.
Perhaps funniest video ever😂😂
Lmfao this was brutal
Sounds like an interesting book to read
she's just getting free food lol.
Why don t you love mee🤣 that was funny
The punani had to be out of this world for him to act like this. Ridiculous. It’ll make him wiser though