My Ex Is Hot & Cold. I Want Her Back, But She’s Dating Other Guys

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  • @ralf4k
    @ralf4k 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    Coach I came across your work 10 years ago and you were uploading videos daily, 10 years later you’re still uploading daily, I respect your discipline and consistency

  • @A.P.-ji1xt
    @A.P.-ji1xt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    We don’t give ex’s second chances 🤮🤮

  • @chriscarr7397
    @chriscarr7397 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Dude, if your ex-girlfriend is dating other guys, don't even think about trying to win her back. It's not even worth fighting for. Let her go!! "It's over!!" Move on!! Wake up and have self-respect for yourself. You need to completely cut all ties with this young woman. Because, she doesn't love you!! Find someone who will love, respect and treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

    • @ChadOliver-b7y
      @ChadOliver-b7y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Omg "weather report " Coach had me laughing hard.

    • @ChadOliver-b7y
      @ChadOliver-b7y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The sad thing is that soo many guys in the world are still like this. I use to be one of them until I saw the light and bought the book. Thank you Coach Wayne.

    • @chriscarr7397
      @chriscarr7397 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ChadOliver-b7yYou know, you should think about maybe writing an email to SSM and have your story read and he'll put it on one of his three channels that he has.

  • @dakotarudow
    @dakotarudow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Did this crap for 3 months finally got smart and when she didn’t say happy bday or try to see me I said screw it.. a girl I know wished me happy bday and she’s a genuine good person and I’m going on a date with her tomorrow.. done with the games, know your worth guys

    • @dakotarudow
      @dakotarudow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      For sure lol gotta bring that A game.. asked her yesterday haven’t texted her since, her friend messaged me saying she brought me up when they were having coffee earlier

    • @Vaishak-b3f
      @Vaishak-b3f 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Good luck soldier

    • @connork6003
      @connork6003 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@dakotarudow you got this man, walk in with confidence and be you

  • @waynesworldizm
    @waynesworldizm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Great video and I can relate. I just got out of a five year relationship and immediately started dating someone else but when I’m in this mode, my options are very open so dated others. Never spoke to my ex for over three months and since last week, she has been messaging me daily wanting to get back with me. For most of you youngsters listen to this guy because most of what he preaches about, I have lived it. He speaks nothing but facts. Read the book as well over and over. I still have mine. 👍🏽✨

    • @waynesworldizm
      @waynesworldizm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I’m open to seeing her as friends but I don’t think it would be wise to get back in a relationship but also aware she is clearly not over me. A lot of guys can’t handle that Now this is advice I would not give to others but it backs what Coach Corey Wayne says when you back away and have zero contact with Women, they always end up reaching out to you. I’ve been through this situation several times before. You are not seeking validation from her it should be the other way around. I don’t speak to my ex unless she contacts me. Remember Alpha males do not chase Women.

  • @omagicman13
    @omagicman13 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I was just in the same situation and I decided to remove myself from the picture. Don’t just be a choice for your ex, be THE choice and if she doesn’t reciprocate that energy then walk away like I did. Respect yourself enough to be a priority and know that she’ll come back down the line when she realizes what she’s missing. The real question is will you want her back at that point? 🤔

    • @thiagomg95
      @thiagomg95 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@RonInTheUSA222Why?

    • @Digitalizedx
      @Digitalizedx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Damn bro I did the same left her alone back in Dec 22nd.. Jan 28th the new guy txted me asking over a lie that she hid from me and him.. they still I think together.. ran into her car nd his car at the gym they go too.. after he sent an apology.. back on the 29th of Jan

    • @princeandthief8193
      @princeandthief8193 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@RonInTheUSA222Wasn’t BPD was it by any chance? My ex was hot as hell, but suffered from BPD. She would split up with me and come back continuously. There was no way to keep that girl happy as the dysfunction in her brain was just projected onto our relationship. I’ve got to own the fact I was stupid and thought I could ‘fix’ her. I couldn’t.

    • @Digitalizedx
      @Digitalizedx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@RonInTheUSA222 I’m thinking it was that.. first it was her msging me “ I assume it was the new guy” asking what happen the last time me and her went to night life “she came back home with me hang out had fun hook up” and asked me what was last snap I sent her.. then I stopped cause it was fishy like she knows this so I let be.. then on mlk day it was a 2 call and a text asking from a random number what is the truth between her n me.. I ignored it.. this was one month nc and it turned out she was accusing me of taking advantage of her that night at the club.. she @i think threw me under the bus” at the time lining up him as a replacement towards me and me still trying with her “was giving her time away “ then on Jan 28th is when.. she called 2 am.. she sounded drunk and asking me what I did to her and if we used protection that night, I quickly just was like hey it’s 2am why u calling over this.. next day the guy text saying we were both being lied to blew up my phone twice.. and I let it be never msg him.. and yet.. last Sunday I went by the gym she goes too n boom there’s the dudes car and hers..” guess they decided to work it out” and she blocked me on all socials I never once moved the dice
      This was also a “friend” situation ship random on and off for 4 years. I learned my lesson it still stings in taking time off to heal but can’t say it doesn’t bother me.. I did dodge a bullet but damn she was doing 100% of pursuing back in October drove 7 hours to see me and when she moved back here to our home state started getting cold feet n indirectly mentioning another dude so I cut myself off back in Dec 22

  • @MiniKITT1989
    @MiniKITT1989 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    He's got a case of oneitis going on

  • @jhonwayne1003
    @jhonwayne1003 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    She is just a toy at this point. Move on. Used goods.

  • @massacci
    @massacci 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The best move it's not to move.

  • @CruiseReviews
    @CruiseReviews 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Best man coach!
    Special thanks for your book. Read it guys it has everything in it that you have to know.

  • @elvinnieves3527
    @elvinnieves3527 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    No groundhog day text 😂😂

  • @Champ1988
    @Champ1988 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Happy Groundhog Day Big Head 😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @amrmostafa2637
    @amrmostafa2637 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love you, Coach coray. I learned a lot from you

  • @LulaRoberts
    @LulaRoberts 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The video, as well as the comments, speaks for themselves. Read the book and move on.

  • @reidherman5573
    @reidherman5573 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Corey the older I get the more I align with you

  • @mafund5776
    @mafund5776 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Time to move on

  • @Hexadecimal_QueenofChaos
    @Hexadecimal_QueenofChaos 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    why pursue a woman who literally doesn't want you....

  • @darthcodzombie38
    @darthcodzombie38 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What qualities questions we should ask on the first date in a serious way. To be straight up this is who I am what I want. What are my expectations from my partner. But in a way that is direct.

    • @wizardlyninja3713
      @wizardlyninja3713 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Watch his other stuff about this. You don’t really bring up your expectations on a date, you be fun to be around and allow her to be vulnerable and for her to understand that you arent someone who judges. That way she will just tell on herself and she will show you the type of person she is and then when she brings up “what are we” you can then bring up your expectations and what your requirements are for a relationship

    • @darthcodzombie38
      @darthcodzombie38 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wizardlyninja3713 I wanted to take a moment to express my sincere gratitude for the thoughtful advice you provided. Your insights on navigating the early stages of a relationship are truly valuable.
      I appreciate you emphasizing the importance of being fun and non-judgmental on a date, rather than immediately bringing up expectations. As you rightly pointed out, this allows the other person to open up and reveal their true self organically. By focusing on creating a comfortable, vulnerable environment, you create the space for her to share more about who she is.
      Your suggestion to wait until she brings up the "what are we" conversation before discussing your own relationship requirements is also very wise. This approach ensures that the dialogue feels natural and collaborative, rather than one-sided or confrontational.
      I will definitely take your advice to heart and apply it as I continue exploring this relationship. Your perspective has given me a lot to reflect on, and I'm grateful for the time you took to share your insights.
      Thank you again, I appreciate you taking the time to share your wisdom with me.

  • @spartanares4345
    @spartanares4345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "It's like a weather report".....and it's usually wrong long term LMFAO Coach is the man

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    An ex is a leftover. The only thing that’s good hot or cold that is a leftover is pizza

  • @adamsaldana5462
    @adamsaldana5462 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never went no contact because I wanted her back. I went no contact because they broke my heart

  • @legrandfromage6450
    @legrandfromage6450 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Been listening to Corey's videos for years now; they never get old. Some of them are pretty damned funny. Check out "the illusion of strength" 😂

    • @TheButcherGorr
      @TheButcherGorr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      His one-liners are GOLD.
      I cannot remember the video but he mentioned if a woman brings up her cat died (making excuses) he was like “great! I liked that cat. When are you free to get together?” Lmao 😂

  • @oroville12345
    @oroville12345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Dude she's an ex for a reason move on.

  • @JohnSmith-ij4xe
    @JohnSmith-ij4xe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes yes like when she says she doesn’t trust you 🤣.

  • @jonshawunited
    @jonshawunited 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Morning coach for your daily wisdom. :) Have a great day. Jon

  • @simonthepukkapieman1387
    @simonthepukkapieman1387 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks Corey, aswell just watched your video "Broken Dates: Blown Off & Stood Up" as it was relevant to a recent situation for myself.
    Its a masterpiece in altering your perception on the matter.
    Another example of why you are one of the best at what you do.

  • @johnq4520
    @johnq4520 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Women usually throw insults at me when they want me to leave them alone and that is when I walk away and don't look back. Um wonder is he getting the same treatment and over looking it or is the woman being passive aggressive and not being directed with him.

    • @rhalppalanca3273
      @rhalppalanca3273 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm out the book designed for this kind attitude to bounce out into your life. Period On to the next one.

  • @edwinalmanza1427
    @edwinalmanza1427 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So literally never validate ever

  • @ROCKSTAR123620
    @ROCKSTAR123620 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just move on

  • @michaelabbott8248
    @michaelabbott8248 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The daily tale of the naive simp ……………………

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❄️🌡️🏜️🌅🌬️ weather

  • @gp9071
    @gp9071 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What if you had depression and ErecDysf.(ED) for like 6-7 months, you were negative, alcoholic or else, gaining weight , you were not doing anything to help yourself and she felt like she wasn't attractive and she decided to leave because she couldnt stand seeing you destroying your life? What if you REALLY do love her, and make the changes to try to get her back because you know you fked up, then what.. would you try to give her another chance ?..

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    An ex is a leftover. The only thing that’s good hot or cold that is a leftover is pizza