Karamo, Help My Mom & Sister’s Toxic Relationship! | KARAMO
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- Jessica is caught in the middle of a family feud between her younger sister, Taylor, and mother, Brenda. Taylor is a mother of four and is accused of being a terrible parent by her own mother, Brenda. While Taylor admits she could do better as a mom, she’s juggling a lot as a single parent and needs support. Can Karamo help this mother and daughter relationship before it’s too late?
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Asking her mother to watch her kids while she takes a nap, go to work, or gets a drink with friends doesn't make her a bad parent. If it's overwhelming for her mom, her mom has to be honest and say "no" when she asks for a hand. She'll figure something else out.
And then the mom gets backlash 🤷🏾♀️
That’s not fair
🎉😂
They’re really kicking her while she’s down, trying to get up. This is sad.
It made me sick to my stomach like and she haves depression and they triggered an anxiety attack
she is a new age instagram woman..havin a million kids and think grandma is going to take up the slack. a reality check is not kicking her down. To much people is getting a pass for doing shit.
literally :(
How is having the responsibility of being a parent of 4 children you created and birthed being down? The grandmother being forced to take care of 4 children after surgery is cruel.
The young lady & the fathers are the only ones responsible for those children.
Any time you want someone to be accountable especially when their lack of it is straining you ..that's a problem..smh
That lady in the audience always got sum to say like pls be quiet hunny. And I can tell she's trying her best
She’s still depressed! I understand baby and I’m gonna pray for you! Counseling/ Therapy can help!
The way that girl in the crowd started bashing her was so messed up like she doesn’t know what’s going on in the poor women’s life. I honestly feel so bad for her cuz everyone is saying she’s a bad mom and shit but I think she’s trying her hardest like omg she been/going through so fucking much like give her a break omfg🤦🏽♀️
She's fake and manipulative
@@geoffgarland410 that doesn’t mean they should’ve treated like that it’s just wrong
rightt
Agreed
Karamo is so knowledgeable. I hope someone’s checking up on him & asking him how he’s doing & how his mental health is cause he’s always rescuing all these people, I would hate for him to not have his own support system picking him up when he’s down. Love you Karamo!
Exactly 🗣️👏🏾❤️🩹
I think the daughter is truly trying to be better. She admitted that she wasn't the best mother beforehand but she's battled addiction and is in school. It's gonna be a process to become the mother she needs to be.
If she is almost 30 it's been time
That girl is 30. In a minute she will be 40 she's has been candles far too long. It's ridiculous❗️ then she makes babies by dead beats🙄
The daughter is really the only one in the family with the awareness to self reflect…the others seem to just want to use her as a garbage can for their own problems.
but deep inside she still a littel girl some People never grow
The daughter is taking advantage of her mother
She has a job and goes to school, she's a recovering addict that's has her kids and doing better then what she was last year. And Admitted her mistakes. I'm proud of you and keep up the amazing growth. You might not be where you want to be but your dam sure not who you use to be and your fighting to do better then where you are now !!💜💜💪🏾💪🏾💯💯👏🏾👏🏾🥺🥺🤗🤗🥰🥰🥳🥳.
That’s all she needs to hear from her mom and older sister this comment is beautiful 🤩
agreed i’m so proud of her
she’s openly admitting to what she has done in the past and she’s proud of her growth today, and obviously isn’t proud of her decay in the past. It’s obvious she’s trying, i’m not defending her but i feel her mother and her sister are stuck in things in the past and bring it up to make her same like a even worse mother. Bc we know she’s not a great mother
Taylor is a beautiful soul. She’s dealing with a lot and at the same time trying to change. I wish her family would continue being patient and supportive to her. She’ll turn out great and they’ll proud of her
She needs to be proud of her self end of the story. If her family cannot see the change she is going through, they are blind!
A lot of you guys are missing the point, and calling her out on things that she already acknowledged. She’s trying to get better and that’s what matters. Judging her based on her mistakes is not fair, because she’s trying to grow. And just because she is her mother doesn’t mean anything. What means something is the fact that she helps her. As someone in a situation like this (not having the best mother-daughter relationship) judging people like this makes them close up; hence why she ran backstage. It’s just crazy to me how many people in here are willing to criticize others but not support them.
This‼️she acknowledged her shortcomings ,she wants love for what she’s doing with herself now.
People always want people to change hut when they change the support isn’t their ,just reminders of the past
Agree wholeheartedly.
Calling her mother a FCKing Bxxtch is not a mistake. My oldest sister is just like her, she's a narcissistic bully who plays the victim when confronted, but goes right back to being a narcissistic bully, she victimizes other people and then blames the victim. She'll continue to take advantage and use her mom for free rent and childcare. Mom should cut her loose, let her find her own apartment and pay mom for daycare, don't enable her.
Exactly
I agree as well and her hurt is obvious. The sister and the mom need to stop tearing her down.
Y’all fr missed the mark. She’s acknowledging what they’re calling her out on. She’s actually trying to change. And it hurts that no one’s acknowledging that for her.
That's life. Nobody is gonna pat you on the back for doing what you're supposed to do.
@@markydan1232? No you got it fucked up. As her FAMILY, they should be giving her her flowers. Nothing they said she did made her a bad mom, so please stfu 😂
@@markydan1232 but reassurance can go a long way . This mama needs the pat on the back.
I used to be her with my mom. Those tears are tears of guilt. She’s hurt because it’s the TRUTH!!! I know because she was me. I do think she’s doing better but her better is regular adults norm.
I get pissed when people want to throw in their two scents without knowing the full situation!!!! Especially when they have no clue nor experience of what it's like to be in that person's shoes!! Working and going to school while raising kids is mentally, emotionally, physically, and sometimes psychologically exhausting!!! My Own Mother Had To Do It!!!
Meanwhile I could barely get my mom to babysit my only kid for a night lol be grateful for your mom & just keep improving so you don’t rely on her too much
The entire family needs healing. I can tell they love each other.
It's something deeper with them and it start with the mom
Karamo stop letting the women attack and say anything they want . And the audience is talking bad to her but you let it why?
Mom is just Exhausted! Can she live. Imagine what she went through during her daughters addiction and she has raise her grandkids! It’s a lot.
This lady seems very overwhelmed emotionally - I hear that she is depressed first and foremost. I pray for peace and a clear reflection and compassion, firm guidance for this younger mom. I feel for each family member - grandma, kids, the daughter mom, and the frustrated older sister.
I'm sorry but I don't understand why she is not being congratulated for doing her best. I definitely get it. I too went through everyone trying to scrutinize and now I'm doing better than those who had a lot to say...I think it's awful and it's important to someone such as herself to see the others will be in full support. They are attempting to make her look bad and my heart is on my sleeve for her. She is young and instead of them ridiculing, they need to support her more. I don't know her but honestly...I AM TRULY ALL FOR THIS YOUNG LADY!
Gloria I am sorry for your struggles and I am glad that you were able to figure out how to manage and balance motherhood and life. I disagree with you on this, the 30 year old mom has a lot of support, maybe too much. I get that she is overwhelmed, but her mom and her kids need her to do more. I would not want to burden anyone with taking care of my children. I wouldn’t sleep all day or stay late after work. I would try my best to lessen my impact on other peoples lives. Kids aren’t suspended in time children have needs daily. Her mom needs to set a side a set time for helping and limit that time to specific activities only; or else the daughter will never learn to juggle life with four children.
@@Marg_Williams hi there. I understand what you are saying and you are truly entitled to the way you feel. Yup…there is a but…but, the truth about an addiction to any substances stunts your maturity, not to mention how one thinks. The age she began her addiction plays a major role in her current phase of recovery. Although she is 30, she doesn’t currently have the ability to think like a 30 year old. Her family does need to really take that into consideration. The overwhelming feeling she has is truly unbearable for her and can cause her to relapse. She has to truly take one day at a time and patience, understanding how addiction works, and support is much more important at this critical stage of her life. She doesn’t have the ability to make good decisions but she will if she can learn and understand sobriety as a whole. She needs to hear the words, ‘you got this and I’m proud of you. It appears this is somewhat new being sober. Stopping the use of any drug albeit alcohol, pills, etc., does not mean immediate sense of mature thinking skills. It comes with time, work, and effort. I do feel she does need to do more by becoming more present in her children’s lives but then in recovery, depression is a major major issue in recovery. Currently her mindset is not mature enough to take on complete control of her children. She could get so overwhelmed that she could hurt herself and those children. Unless one has been through it, been close to an addict, or studied addiction, no one can judge her for how she feels. She doesn’t think like a mature 30 year old. There also is an underlying issue she most likely needs to work through in order for her to thrive the way a 30 year old thrives. Personally I commend her for trying to get her life back. I also commend her mother for hanging in there with her. Also, there are no struggles at this time thank God. I earned my Masters in Psychology and am currently working with persons that are in recovery. Blessings.
@@gloriatalley8295 Thank for your insights, I completely understand and hope that this mom gets better soon. Your response is great 👍🏾 and I have more empathy for the daughter and her struggles. I am glad that you are thriving 🤗 you are a warrior and although I don’t know you, I am very proud of you . 🤗
@@Marg_Williams thank you. Blessings to you.
I really wish people in the audience didn’t make comments. I don’t see how it benefited the process
I am a Mother and I think this is one ☝🏾 of the Saddest shows that I have watched in a long time!! The Sister needs to get a life!! This Girl is TRYING and they have their FOOT on her BACK !! I’m PRAYING 🙏🏽 that she will keep it together and God will continue Blessing her ❤
What people don’t understand is when you keep having kids with no help from the other parent, no matter how much you say you take care of your kids, the struggle spills over on other people. You can’t take care of four kids by yourself. The sacrifice is uncomfortable but getting upset because your sacrifice is now spilling over on other people is unfair to the person who didn’t decide to make 4 children with no assistance. You decided in those moments to do what you want but what you don’t get is that just because you decide today to straighten up your act doesn’t mean that spill over doesn’t continue to affect other because you will never be able to fully maintain four kids by yourself. But kids having kids don’t understand the long lasting affects so they keep doin what they want to do. I was 30 with a college degree and a good job when I had my daughter out of wedlock and I still need help.
The struggle is real. I don't have children but I'm always loaning/giving money and babysitting for a sibling who's a single parent. It really gets tiresome at times, especially when they start placing expectations on you that should be designated for the person they laid up and created those babies with.
She has plenty of assistance.
I agree with all of this. I had my first child at 33 my last at 42. Never intended to be a single mom twice but thank God I had all my schooling and Masters degree at 23. Still not easy.
Everyone here is speaking the truth. But these the uncomfortable conversations people will throw tantrums for when they have to hear the harsh reality
@@geoffgarland410 but they help then throw it in her face because she needs a nap
And the sister and mother have their own problems, by the way, but use Taylor as a distraction, a “scapegoat” to avoid having to look at themselves.
How? She in HER house!
@@sabrina21clark she can also tell her to get out.
They're not setting boundaries at all and communicating then use her as a scapegoat. It's not hard to see, trust and believe it's not as simple
The mom and even some of the audience think that cooking meals for kids and cleaning
MAYBE helping doing homework is raising a child
That's not the only way to raise a child
Plus she said she's asked before she rests or does anything, and the mom let's her do whatever then gets upset.
That's the mom's own fault.
If it's hurting you or making you feel bad?? Then just tell her to get out...
If she really were to get “healthier” and be independent, then the true nature of the mom and aunt would be revealed, as well as all of the problems that they’re projecting/distracting with Taylor.
Naw Taylor's trifling and a user, she needs to get her own place & stop treating her mom like a nanny and a slave. Of course she should pay some bills if she's living at home. She's taking advantage of how good she has it. Free childcare, no rent, coming home at five in the morning. Yeah cry me a river.
So...the mother has a problem and her daughter is living in her house not cooking , cleaning or taking care of her own children
I feel her pain on so many levels…. I went through a deep depression after conceiving my second child… I was S.A when I did… so of course I was traumatized. I love my mom to death, and she DOES help me, but for the most part she would always talk about everything I’d do wrong…. Yell at me if I don’t do something the way she wants…. Expects me to walk around with a smile on my face 25.8… I’m a single mother, trying to work, going through mental issues… and rather than lifting me up, I would get knocked down. Lately things have gotten better because she has started to acknowledge and take accountability for the things negatively caused in my life that she contributed to. I’m just at the point more so now… if you see I’m about to break, just grab the kids for 30 minutes. Let me take a breather. But… what I will say, is that she always looked at me as the “strong” child and she says it all the time it’s why she handles me the way she does. But I had to remind her that I’m still human, and at some point I’m going to explode. Smh I pray this family heals… I pray ALL families heal.
I feel you, and I can relate to this. I hate being the "strong" one. That actually is toxic because even strong ones need someone to lean on
Who else drew tears for this one....Still wiping up now.
#TheyGonnaBeGood
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I am my moms oldest child, and I am the only one out of us 3 who has kids. My mom damn near had to beg me to help me with my kids lol. There is nothing more that I love, other than being a wife and a mother to my 3 beautiful kids. I pray for this family & that beautiful young lady. She admitted where she was wrong, now give and allow her the space and time to change that.
But your a wife your not doing it alone..
You only had your ish together for a year and bragging? Chile please. Disrespecting your mother when she is and was there for you? Please keep those crocodile tears with ya no manners self! 😑
I truly understand this mother. The lady is tireddd. My mother is going through the same thing with my sisters. My mother is 70 years old. Curse at her, disrespectful, & demanding of her. No one deserves to live this way. If you make grown decisions you need to live up to your grown decisions.
Absolutely! And tell your mother the only way they're gonna learn is to make them leave, go into a shelter that will help them get their own place and tell them they can't come back home to stay ever again and mean it! I know it's heartbreaking with kids but she has earned her right to peace. If they can't be respectful they have to learn the hard way. It's the audacity, the entitlement but especially the disrespect for me! Three strikes your out! The babies will understand and still love grandma.
THANK YOU!
jeje azy to see wen nobody leur you how to be grown up
@@sabrina21clark thank you and you are absolutely correct. However, they do not live with her which makes no sense how my mom let them do her like this. But my mother need to put a stop to it. I try my best to encourage her to stop. They live in the same city. I don't.
@@staciehorton8149 that's sad.
This feels like the same story different cast. I’ve seen this type of co-dependent dynamic play out in real life. It’s a very hard cycle to break. The daughter seems very immature and stunted emotionally. The mother is overly involved because she doesn’t want her grandchildren to be neglected. They need extensive family therapy to right the ship.
The people in the audience have not been in her shoes so they should not have anything to say if you have been a single mother before you should know exactly how she feels respect goes along way and if they are not given respect why should she y’all need to grow up i understand exactly what she is going through
If she cannot respect her mother she needs to take her grown self out of the woman's house and go take care of herself and raise her children. There is no excuse for disrespecting her mother. She has gotten a free ride and the lady is getting old. She does not need her disrespect and stress.
She disrespected her mom and making everybody else watch her responsibilities she needs that stop feeling sorry for her
This is exactly why women need to protect them selves go on birth control and prevent having children if you can’t nor want to take care of them period.
100%
The _moment_ i found out my 17-year old was having sex, i took her to get an IUD. I was not going to allow her to ruin her life with an unplanned pregnancy and i knew she wasn't responsible enough to be on the pill. It was my job as her mother to see to it that she didn't make any life altering mistakes or even have to suffer the trauma of an abortion.
I commend you Karamo, I'm going to stop watching you I always end up crying! Lol, keep up the good work.
I feel for the grandma. The first boundary I would set is, to stipulate a set amount of hours in a day that I would set aside to help her with the kids to give her a break. I would specify exactly what duties and activities I will assist the daughter with. The reminder of the day will be the daughter’s responsibility no exceptions. And if the daughter did not respect those boundaries I would ask her to move out and take her children with her.
That lady needs to get kicked off stage immediately that wasn’t her place to judge her
Bless up to this young mom ~ its sooo hard to be dependent on others and be alone ~ she just needs love and support • any1 can do anything with support. Hope she can get n give compassion and the family can get help. She just needs to say i cannot do this on my own ~ and figure out a schedule tht works for everyone.
WHERE IS THE CHILDREN'S DAD, THAT WILL BE ANOTHER SUPPORT SYSTEM
You can never call your mother or Dad F***words or B****words never never
Daughter, grow up and take care of your children. U r lucky you have family that support your trail and errors of life!
Exactly it’s women out here who had or have kids and never raised em like the woman who birth me as women I know we go through a stage where we get happy n experience but she made those. Choices but ur big draws on woman n take care of ur kids
@@Vdub481 seems like ain’t no tough love going on in that family because daughter def showed her true colors on this segment
The struggle is REAL stop having kids and letting these men go free without paying child support. Mrs. Rhonda you are one of a kind the day she called me a B would of been her last. She needs to be held Accountable and responsible for her actions. She’ s a manipulator and the mother looks stressed and is FED Up dealing with her attitude,
If they don't want to help at all, just say that. Your daughter is obviously a young mom who has had and acknowledges her problems in the past. They're making it seem like helping her means she is doing nothing for her kids. It seems like the mom gets annoyed/angry with her daughter for not parenting the way that she thinks she should be, then gets mad when she takes over. The whole family needs healing. Mom should've told her to go be on her own if helping her was not in the cards for her. Dont try to help someone then get mad when you actually do.
Say what you will , but those are her 4 kids and tears and excuses don't cut it. Get your own place and raise your own kids! She is to entitled! Not feeling those tears ar all! Her mom is tired of raising her and her kids.
It seems to me that they are blaming her for her past mistakes. I believe she is trying and I also think they treat her different. She needs to save up for an apartment so she don't have to deal with so much negative support from her family.
Playing devils advocate here, but the mother and sister do seem to overstep to the extent that they have made Taylor dependent upon them, and then play martyr. Mom should give her a hard deadline to get out, and consider getting her done case management assistance to help with identifying resources and moving toward independence. Follow through, mom, with boundaries and wean her off of the support without the shaming and blaming.
Right?? Like if u got a problem with how she raises her kids and what she's doing-- just tell her to leave. I don't think you're playing devils advocate at all, you're right. It seems like some MAJOR overstepping here and it just feels like
Not just feels like but there IS more going on
Your comment...wow. she has overstepped the bound living rent free in her mother's house as a big woman and being mad disrespectful. And her mother and sister are to blame ? Ha
@@YonUndone3064 I get that part, and I don’t disagree with you. I just think that that’s a very surface level way to perceive this, and that there is more than meets the eye.
@@YonUndone3064 she's in college...and she just said she's battling an ADDICTION... I'm not saying it's ok to be disrespectful but she's trying to changed and she's ASKED what she can do in the house to earn her stay for her and her kids, and the mom decides to take over everything just to say that she can't take care of her kids well
Don't you see that's manipulative???
@@epsilonlove9867 addiction is no excuse.
The older Sister is right this woman need to go somewhere and take care of her kids that’s not her Mother’s responsibility 😑
Jesus you are the only one who has made any sensible comments ...she choose that life she needs to deal with her choices ... those kids are not her mother responsibility if chooses to help out thats fine but she's not her baby sitter
Agreed
I’m her, single mom, the burden that puts on the people around me is huge. Effective communication helps
If that was my Daughter she would have to go. She thinks she is entitled
I agree. Stop the crying, put ur grown panties on & get ur own place.
She better call 211 for housing
If Mom is bothered... She needs to learn to say "NO!"
Her decisions as a teen caught up with her. Now she a mother of four at a young age that she can't take care of. She made her bed, and she doesn't want to lay in it she should have thought about it before she made four human beings. Yes, she is overwhelmed but she had a choice after the first and second and third child. It's too late to not want the life she created. Those are your kids, and they are your responsibility not your mothers. Her mother can help her, but she is not going to take that responsibility off of her hands.
No one can talk to my mother like that.... Including my siblings. I would deal with you... Never
It's amazing how people always got a what my parents do did to me. Yet they leave their kids with their evil parents
Taylor am so sorry for the tears you dropped
Big baby with kids
Yep
Just as her sister stated accountability. Running away isn’t going to help. It’s hard to hear the truth. It’s ONLY HER responsibility TO BE EVERYTHING for her kids (mom’s baby/dads maybe). We chose parenthood so it’s up to US to RAISE THEM. Just by saying they’re old enough to cook for themselves IS EXACTLY what her mother is saying. Telling someone the truth isn’t beating them down. If she can’t handle work, Motherhood and school she needs to drop school. I didn’t finish school until my daughter was 18. You put your CHILDREN FIRST if it’s too much to handle. No excuses.
She’s her mother’s twin.
Yeah, this could have been a conversation at home. And this older sister is the biggest part of the drama, and I'm almost certain she has said all those things about their mother and much worse
A meth head too, you can tell mom is tired overall
Who needs a enemy when you have a sister like that.
I have nothing but respect and admiration for Karamo. He is an exceptional understanding and compassionate t.v host. I liked how he didn't allow the audience to attack and berate Taylor. Instead he turned that into a learning and growing moment. Way to go.
What that’s exactly what he did …. Did you even watch the vid 😂
yes, he did. everytime the audience completely judges the person, he just stands there OR tries to tell the PERSON not to argue.
he gives his audience WAY too much freedom.
She’s full of it..u don’t like it…MOVE.. u can’t mother when it’s convenient..if mom closed her eyes today..WHAT WOULD SHE DO??? Too old for excuses..just because u decided NOW is the time to go to school to “get ur life on track” is not ur moms issue, she is NOT obligated to be there.. get dad(s) involved..LIFE.
OMG,I can relate to Taylor SOOOOO MUCH,I've been(still going)through the exact same thing VERBATIM with my mom and some other family members!! Dealin with this type of bs makes you angry,it hurts and will cause you to lash out. I know EXACTLY how and what she's feeling.
yyou need bounderies too...family is not supposed to pick up all your shit.
I agree I was the same way . Moving to another state helped me
She’s trying to be responsible for herself and her kids she’s working going to school the work is much for her. At least she’s contributing financially as well. Unlike my step brother that left my mum wit 4 kids he don’t work he dose nothing but just depends on my mum for everything.
I see both sides. Taylor wants them to acknowledge the facts that she is doing a lot better and to be praised for that but at the same time she also has a lot more work to do. The thing is that you're under your mother's roof, and it's stressing your mother out because she's picking up the slack (which she doesnt have to do). Truth is, you need to move out. Sounds like she may need a different job as well with the type of hours she has. I wonder where baby daddy is in all of this... is he alive and well? If so, he needs to step up. Grandma shouldn't have to deal with all of this. I'm not gonna lie I feel for her as a single mother but I HATE the way she talks to her mother. You're not owed anything sweetheart.
She sounds like those dads who aren't there. "I bought groceries, I bought clothes." Girl stop crying, if it's embarrassing to have your truth out, then change your truth! Get yourself together and figure it out. YOU had 4 kids before you were 30, so be present for those kids. Wake your ass up and be there with them. Yeah you'll be tired, we all are. That's what happens when you choose to have 4 kids!!
Preach sis! 🙌🏽
Thank you
How you gone tell her to stop crying when she is being crucified by the likes of you and everyone else. Last I checked, you aren't perfect nor exempt from hard times. At least she is trying to change and become better.
… this girl was a teen mom & addict. She’s turned her life around and is trying. She works nights, is in school, pays bills and gives her mother anything she needs. They have absolutely no boundaries and kick her while she’s absolutely down. I can’t believe some of the comments…
It's good to carry your cross young lady. Your mum is aging she needs peace in her old age.
My God, they are attacking her like crazy…I do believe race May play a part in the way the dynamics of the family work. She made mistakes but she’s trying.
i could not have been as calm as she was with her sister and her mama, y’all not tryna see her side. 3 kids+addiction+depression+night shift job. that is a lot and she obviously needs help and her mama and sister are not helping her overcome any of it. watching her kids and doing wtv isnt an excuse to call her a bad mother. and if she acknowledges her growth then she would try with her to overcome these challenges that are still there. and they need to apologize to her cause this is also gonna cause her so much stress and issues. this is on tv now for the whole world and she can never let this go, so everyone is at fault. but the sister definitely shouldn’t have initiated this without being present in these so called situations she didn’t even witness. and try to see her sister side too.
just because someone is family or your mother doesn’t mean their your best-friend or have your best intentions at heart. Obviously they need to work on that. This girl admitted her faults and y’all still tryna over talk her and not let her tell her truths without judgement and that lady in the stands should’ve not been tryna be slick and provoke her cause that’s just unnecessary?
I can't believe I have to do this in all caps SHE MADE DOES CHOICES THAT ALTERED THE TRAJECTORY OF HER LIFE ,NO ONE I REPEAT NO ONE IS OBLIGATED TO HELP HER IF THEY DID NOT WANT TO ...omg stop being entitled ..
Her decisions that she made cannot be used as an excuse for her disrespectful behavior to her mother. There is no excuse for dishonoring a mother who has helped her and basically spoon fed her all her life.
@@opeyemiadegoke361 Thank you! 👍
That's not their job to help her. They are doing so out of kindness. She need to find the kids daddy put him/them on child support. Get counseling for her addiction and depression and find a job she can work. Her mom has raised her kids.
this is my bestfriends mom and shes so kind. the girl in the crowd needs to chill out because she doesnt even know what a quarter of what shes dealing with so she needs to chill out and stop shes overwhelmed god
I just hate how much it got brushed off that she WORKS NIGHTS ANNND GOES TO SCHOOL. When is she supposed to sleep?? Smh
She would have to move out!! If she acts like this in public, I can't imagine how the conversations at home would be. Move!!
Exactly! She is disrespectful and there are comments on here supporting her behavior.
This girl act awfully privileged and she expects help from her mom. If she wants to live that life she need to stop having kids. She acting like a roommate not a mom. Tgey are your kids. You have to have the forethought to not even ask anybody to watch her kids. Sad situation all around. Mom, don’t say you’ll do it and then complain later or to the sister.
I don’t think criticism towards her as a mom. I think other people should not antagonize her by saying she is a bad mother
I had my first at 15 had my second at 20 that was it for me. I never left my kids now I’m 39 years old and I have no minors. My kids are all adults I knew better.
she can't sleep
she can't go out when the kids aren't around
she can't relax just because she's staying with her family
and of course she's the one black daughter too
You said a mouthful and the sister look like she in the world now trying to talk
Enough with the color thing
She needs to take responsibility she’s lucky she has a parent that supports her a lot of parents would have put her out
She needs to find the father for these kids
Or maybe she needs to move out of her white parents house🙄🚮
This isn’t even about color is about making an elderly woman pick up after both you and your kids. Like how? You made a bed of four lay on it hunnay
@@iiammakayla If you let the Leah Lipps phenotype suck you up you will become aware or if you let your bitch suck you up like the Leah Lipps phenotype you will become aware also little village.
It's crazy but I wonder where her children's father is at. She's a single parent, stressed to the core, a night job getting off at 3 in the morning and no where for her and her kids to live. I feel her pain. Hopefully her mother & sister will ease up a bit and realize and recognize that this mother is putting in work but things take time 👌🏾 🎯💯
I couldn’t be on a show like this cause let someone say something in the audience like they know everything I’ma be mad asf , I don’t see how coming on these shows be helping.
They need to set boundaries, expectations and timelines for her to be independent with her kids and the mom needs to be realistic with her about the weight she carries instead of complaining all the time to the older sister.
Wow I wrote this before watching the entire segment - he said the same thing 😅
It sounds like her family is not very supportive. Mom is tired and sister is jealous. She should seek out other help outside of the family. She seems to be trying to figure it out. She is working, contributing to the household financially. I think she needs to step away from them and take new steps.
You have no idea how wrong you are.
Allow her to say what she knows is true about herself then ask her to provide a solution for her situation! Her sister isn't the one that is drama. She is the one that is drama-filled. THAT IS YOUR MOTHER!!! ACKNOWLEDGE THAT! COMPREHEND THAT! YOU BETTER APPRECIATE EVERYTHING YOUR MOTHER IS DOING FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN!
Well said!
Mother's love is so powerful.
I hate when the audience gets involved. Before she said she was depressed it was so obvious she was.
This drama can be solved if her grown daughter moved out of her mother house. She might be paying some bills, but if you fully want to be responsible get your own place.
I think she would if she could, she stated in the video she had nowhere else to go
She’s in school and a single mom clearly living with her mom insures she keeps a roof and safe place for her kids so she can also take care of them my mom lived with her parents for a long time and we kept going back does that mean knock her for it
Yeah the whole reason why she's in this season is so she can save money. 🙄🙄 go away somewhere.
Right, because it's just that easy 🙄
Never the less U are trying to make something for yourself, tears are in my eyes, looking at U hug your Mum
As a mom who was 19 awuth small kids and battling depression i was a crappy mom but now that im older and i have decided to parent my now grown ass kids with tough love my mom feels like i should still treat them as babies.
That girl uses tantrum and money to get her way but there is a level a of respect this girl obviously has not fully obtained. She still isn't ready to be a mother and that's what she needs to be able to admit so she can move forward. She has a 14 year old that could be her sister and even if, she needed guidance to learn. There are many mothers who have that age difference and were able to grow properly. Her mother still treats her like the "baby" and she's really the MOTHER of those kid"s".
My mom raised four girls. None of us lived with her when we had our kids. We all had our kids in our early and mid 20s. We all was out her house. My mama didn't play that. When I became pregnant, I was living with my mom. When I hit 7 months, I was out her house with my own apartment. I'm glad she did that because she showed us responsibility! And to let us know, she will not be on this earth forever to baby us. We made those adult decisions, it's time to woman up. She always there if we needed help with anything, but we didn't live with her. Mama didn't play that, lmao. 🤣
Ok…good for you.
@@rtp1968 Baby, get a life. Replying to a two month old comment.
How much you want to bet the mom hasn't been supportive of Taylor when she became a teen mom, *_nor_* has the mom had to have been the single mom. 🙄🙄 If the family has a hard time with her asking her mom for help then they need to help her pay for a babysitter because it's unfair for them to get mad at Taylor when she's just trying to do the right thing.
Bro, the lady in the crowd always got something to say bru, shits really pissed me off .
Why have FOUR kids if you can't even take care of yourself? 🤯 After the 1st one she should of got her 💩 together... you can still have "protected" relations... like wtf? Almost 30 with FOUR kids living at home with your mom! I'm surprised she isn't on section 8 about to have her 5th 😒
I can’t say that I know what she feels but I think they need to give her the chance to grow and change. It seems like she is trying to change. I have never had anyone help me do anything with my kids
She need to grow up and take responsibility and when she get off from work she need to go home and tend to her children that should not be her mother's job
The oldest sister is telling her the truth your mom is not supposed to be taking care of your kids you had 4 kids so take care of them you talking about everything your mom not doing but you living with her and she see you not doing what you suppose to do on a regular. Don’t put all that weight on her
I feel for that poor girl I was that girl except I took care of my kids and my sister's kids and all my moms problems but my mom passed away in October and I would give anything to have her back but my mom did to me what they do to that poor girl..
Lady in audience... Wrong show Sis. 😏 Karamo leads with love and not judgment. The girl is clearly trying to stand up! She just needs her family to help in this season and even though society sucks now because everyone's "perfect", it's totally ok to need a helping hand when you're down.
We need a Karamo fix my life lol
Karamo❤❤😩🔥🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌I wish you would come to South Africa for just a month
You can’t expect your family to support you, all the time I respect her growth and change but. it’s still opportunity to grow and push yourself throughout all means necessary. Even family get tired of giving a pity party when they gave so much to try and help before. Now it’s a bitter sweet situation
Karamo has matured so much from his time in The Real World.
is he your son lol
Oh wow, I never knew he was on Real World. Dang…
@@lidevries493 😆😆😆
@@lidevries493 😂😂😂😂 yeah that joke was dry
Let me go back cause I don't remember him
The only boundary that needs set is around momma's property line! She too grown and needs to get it together QUICK! Momma doesn't need the headache, the heartache nor the body aches from cleaning up behind her and her kids! Grandparents are for a visit here and there and pure love & joy. They don't need to be disrespected and called out of their name! They've earned far more respect than that!
Why no one understand these grandparents are tired. That's what I hear her mother saying. I see a lot of y'all taking advantage of the grandparents. They don't get to retire and kick they feet up. Watching kids until the day the die
@@Cyrinthia7 she literally pays bills towards living there and ask her mom does she need help before she lays down. the mom wants to be nice by saying yes but throw it in her face when she gets tired THAN SAY THAT
How dare Taylor call her mother, Brenda, who has taken care of her in her younger years, has taken care of her grandchildren a B****? Taylor needs to thank her mother for taking care of her children when she was physical unable to take care of her children and herself. She needs to appreciate the fact that Brenda was looking out for her during those tough times.
I hope this family can work out their issues. I hope counseling will bring them back together.
She needa the hard truth to realize what she had impact onto her kids and her family