We as a society need to really consider birth control options and push for economic stability before children. It’s also very important to build families.
Either that or not have children. Going child-free has become more popular and preferable these days. Many have kids without thinking about financial, emotional, and physical sacrifices.
Why not consider practicing abstinence instead of being in somewhat relationships where one will be used and abused in every way, emotionally and sexually and abandoned or installed into so called wives and husbands without marriages
He literally told Karamo he settled down because he felt it was time for him to do so. Not because he felt like he loved her. This is why women are deciding to be single.
This is very well the reason why a LOT of these women AND kids come up d** because of situations like This. Having babies because " this is what I want" Ok then.
I honestly have to say I’m so thankful that, for the most part, my life is drama free! I couldn’t take the level of stress that I see people endure on this show.
I’d rather drag my pum on the street, on a hot summer day with gravel, than to beg a man to stay with me and stop cheating on me. Y’all be easy out there. 🥴
Girl….biirthcontroolll! After he did wrong the first time don’t break windows, tell him to kick rocks. Why keep him? If you going to keep him. Forgive him or be ok with sharing him.
I said the same thing. It's borderline unbearable. 😩💀 It's ridiculous. Being from the south doesn't make you ignorant and inarticulate. It only means you have a southern drawl. These two are slow. I mean, snails pace SLOW!!! 🐌
Sounds like he was honest. He wanted to live his life. He wasn’t ready for a family. Probably wouldn’t have stayed with her if she wasn’t pregnant. Not giving him an excuse for being irresponsible, just saying i see where his head was at. She was probably picking up wrong signals or blinded by love. Now they’re both trying to make it work but he’s still not ready.
He was honest about not being ready. She perused it anyway and acting like she surprised he’s not there. Girl stop it. Let him sign over his damn parental rights, learn to love you, find your something to do, eat fruit, and be happy.
@@thegirldaina Which is probably the same thing she tried to do with her other two kids. People need to understand that they are responsible for getting themselves together before they start willy nilly bringing new human beings into the world.
@@bfields112 I love it-cheatahs! Lol. Why do people, mostly women, have issues with holding other women responsible for the choices they make? I'm a woman and I know that I allow myself to be impregnated by a man who's been cheating on me since day 1 and I already have 2 others kids whose daddies aren't around, the only person who's the common denominator is me.
He was already leaving and that’s when she decided to tell him she was pregnant m. She knew he wanted to leave and then gonna say “you can’t leave cause I’m pregnant!” WHAT?! He told her he was done and then she expected him to stay with her cause she was pregnant. Sis a baby will NEVER make a man stay! And I’m sure she knew this from previous baby daddies
He said he wasn't ready for any kids he was already taking care of two of her kids now she could say you lay down with me that both should have been using birth control
VERY GHETTO!!!🤦♀️🤦♀️They don’t even know BASIC KINDERGARTEN GRAMMAR. “I talk-ted to myself”, you knew the consequences-ses”🤦♀️ As an MD PhD this just killed some of my brain cells😭 WHYYYY is this in my recommendations😫
Idc what nobody say yes he needs to step up his father skills & should’ve been there for her pregnancy but I don’t feel bad for her.. you knew what it was in the beginning idk why y’all believe men when y’all think they’re gonna leave other females for y’all you’re gonna get done the same way. You knew he was seeing people when y’all met & he never stopped.
Women are very strong. You can put on your big girl pants, lift your head high and step forward with your children. A relationship is not that important at this point. Love yourself and children first.
First- Young woman, you got two children, get your life together, instead of having a third child for a man, definitely saying he is not ready to have child Secondly- This man is saying, definitely, he is not financially ready Third- woman/Men: listen to what each other is saying by listening Listen, what the person is saying, it's very, very, very, important, by listening, you will achieve more and loose less.
Im sorry but she irritated me. I hate women who be like well you should've been having sex with me. No hun you should've told a man to wrap it up or get in birth control. Then decided to have a baby with a man who clearly said he not ready & I bet she one of those women who be like I dont wanna be controlled. My bf is like that.
In order for Rae Rae and Quanesha to survive as a couple, they need to have more trust with each other. When the mother of your children is pregnant with her upcoming child, you should accept, NEVER reject her pregnancy. And as for her, breaking windows of his family's house is not the answer to getting your point across. Communication is the necessity to keep a relationship going.
Yeah, but it's obvious this isn't her first rodeo, seems she needs to focus more on self, so she can be the best for herself and her children... I wish her WELL!!!🤗
@@modest8782 nah its not even close to a "FACT" for reasonable people that have a brain. There are legal ways to progress. I'm giving up custody if she is forcing it on me. It's stupid antiquated and hypocritical for people to think like that and that is actually a FACT.
Chileeee they’ll do anything to not work an actual job.. perpetuating a dancing job to just get girls that they don’t want and can’t provide for… you can tell he was lying while the audience just clapping 🤦🏾♀️
Right! Talking about "I gotta choose between you and my career." What career? Nigga you shaking your feet and shoulders on social media...ain't making no money in that 😂
These men keep saying saying they not ready for a child. So stop going in these women raw. Wear protection and require them to use some form of birth control or you not touching them. Pregancy can be prevented
He told her he didn’t want a child and way he wasn’t ready so why you mad he acting up? She had that baby to hold on to him 😢 and it still didn’t work out smh 🤦♀️
It’s just crazy to me how he bypass all the cheating he was doing like it’s nothing like of course she gone buss some shii down bc you playing in her face
And her breaking windows and all of that if she would have did a little jail time . Because she's hyped just by sitting on the stage she's breathing hard I believe she would do it all over again if she had
Nobody takes time to heal and get their lives together they just move on and keep having kids with ppl . Their relationship was not ready for a baby at all especially what was already going on before during and after . That’s why the relationships don’t work .
True. But you're going to be the one carrying and giving birth to it, so it would be wise to act as a gatekeeper and shut out men who don't want a child.
Bustin windows out the house? Come it’s not worth you riskin your life and your kids life you will go to jail. Trust me! If a man makes you act out of character let it go . It’s toxic.
Omg! I'm so tired of hearing people speak soooooo poorly. Ugh! 😩 I feel like the longer I listen the dumber I get. 7:12 "He knew the consequencesess." 😳 That was the absolute worst. I screamed and covered my ears!🤢🤮
Why MAKE a man be a father that doesn't want to....your mad he's elsewhere when you are the only one making the decision to keep a baby. She definitely chose to be a single mom..
If you're like me scrolling through the comments to see anything about the Pink Sauce issue, don't bother. Comments are now being deleted. If you see this, please stick to just downvoting like normal. Don't watch more than 30 seconds of this. This man needs to be held accountable.
I am soooo tired of seeing desperate wmn accepting poor treatment just to say they have a man...like it or not, Love is NOT enough to hold onto a sh*tty relationship. She's out here acting a whole fool over a dude that has no respect for her. She needs therapy and a self-love guide NOT a relationship.
I want to know why do woman always tell men if they didn’t want kids they sho be having relations!! My question to woman if you don’t want to be a single mother why have relations unprotected?!!
I just dont understand why men and women keep having unprotected sex and then say, " I didn't want a baby or don't want the responsibility". It doesn't make any sense, she already had two kids and said he wasn't ready to have a baby then. Stop having unprotected sex!!! Men, you can't leave your seed in a woman and say I don't want the responsibility you had a choice before having sex after that its no longer your choice.
I'm all for anybody having the right to do with their body as they choose. Because that is a choice that they have to live with and they have to face on a day of judgment on their own. The man tells you he's not ready for children you already got two children never been married so their illegitimate why would you dare want to have a third one with a man that's obviously not into you. 👀👺🔥👺👎🏼🤬🤦🏻♀️😳🤡🤡🤡
We as a society need to really consider birth control options and push for economic stability before children. It’s also very important to build families.
Either that or not have children. Going child-free has become more popular and preferable these days. Many have kids without thinking about financial, emotional, and physical sacrifices.
Well said!!! Some people are extremely reckless when it comes to this, so guess who really suffer in the end...😔
And mental/ emotional stability too. Heal before you deal
this exact notion got me raped and tortured 30+ years ago in foster care because I was too savage to be raised with my own people.
Why not consider practicing abstinence instead of being in somewhat relationships where one will be used and abused in every way, emotionally and sexually and abandoned or installed into so called wives and husbands without marriages
His audience claps for ANYTHING!!!!!!
Just like any other bum ass talk show 🤦🏾♂️
Lmao right
That’s typically what many audiences do lol
YES😂
🥴🤣😂
His name is Ray Ray, enough said. Now we just need Pookie. 😂😂😂😂😂
LMAOOOOO
Thank you! I literally said that myself. 😂 And the girl is pookisha!
And Them! Lol 🤣
Never let a man tell you TWICE he don't want you
Amen, and don't beg him to stay!!
He made it VERY clear.
In my Judge Vic…..Lynn 😂😂😂
100% run million miles away from him.👋👋👋👋👋
YES
She deliberately connected herself to him thinking a child would keep him. I bet she’s done it before and needs to accept the fact it NEVER works
She had 2 kids prior so yeah she knows, but obviously care.
well men are the only ones who can control where their sperm goes 🤷🏾♀️ if he knew he wasn’t ready wrap it up
He literally told Karamo he settled down because he felt it was time for him to do so. Not because he felt like he loved her. This is why women are deciding to be single.
Future said the same thing about Ciara and then they broke up.
This is very well the reason why a LOT of these women AND kids come up d** because of situations like This. Having babies because " this is what I want" Ok then.
Right!Dudes play too much
7:11 "YOU KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES-eseses"😂😂😂
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
I'm going to put this on a shirt 😅
I honestly have to say I’m so thankful that, for the most part, my life is drama free! I couldn’t take the level of stress that I see people endure on this show.
Facts. Like when I watch Steve wilkos during his episodes he asks are you in the same situation and need help? No sir, I DO NOT 😂😂
I’d rather drag my pum on the street, on a hot summer day with gravel, than to beg a man to stay with me and stop cheating on me. Y’all be easy out there. 🥴
😂😂😂
😭😭😭😭😭
U CAN SAY THAT AGAIN 💯💯💯💯🤣🙌🏾
That part!!!
Uhh ma’am 🫢🤭😂😂😂😂
These women are delusional..if he told you he did not want a child then protect yourself from getting pregnant!
It's a two way street stop blaming everything on women. That's why men don't ever have to take responsibility bc of comments like this.
Heal yourself girl!! Don’t worry about a relationship. A man doesn’t define you. But you can’t love someone if you don’t love yourself!!
As a North Carolinan, all I can say is...bless their hearts! ❤
Girl….biirthcontroolll! After he did wrong the first time don’t break windows, tell him to kick rocks. Why keep him? If you going to keep him. Forgive him or be ok with sharing him.
Facts Lmaooooo.
She is so pretty, just gorgeous! 🤩🤩
This audience is worst than Paternity Court with the clapping 😂😂
😅😅
😅😅
Their Speech Is OUT OF THIS WORLD 😂😂😂😂😂💀
Seriously…I’m like why do they sound like slaves 🥴! I admits my wrong 🥴
@@kilowlow8691 They Sound Slow 😂😂😂
I said the same thing. It's borderline unbearable. 😩💀 It's ridiculous. Being from the south doesn't make you ignorant and inarticulate. It only means you have a southern drawl. These two are slow. I mean, snails pace SLOW!!! 🐌
He’s just from the south they are very country my manager talks like that and he’s from South Carolina professional but he’s just country talking
*Consequenceses* was literally how she said this word! 😂
Sounds like he was honest. He wanted to live his life. He wasn’t ready for a family. Probably wouldn’t have stayed with her if she wasn’t pregnant. Not giving him an excuse for being irresponsible, just saying i see where his head was at. She was probably picking up wrong signals or blinded by love. Now they’re both trying to make it work but he’s still not ready.
He was honest about not being ready. She perused it anyway and acting like she surprised he’s not there. Girl stop it.
Let him sign over his damn parental rights, learn to love you, find your something to do, eat fruit, and be happy.
Facts
I missed where he said he wanted to sign over his parental rights.
Fr!!!! He kept it real with her but she thought she could change him n that wasn’t the case😕
@@thegirldaina Which is probably the same thing she tried to do with her other two kids. People need to understand that they are responsible for getting themselves together before they start willy nilly bringing new human beings into the world.
@@adreanmims2891 he didn’t ever say it. I think for a complete buffoon that would be best.
He needs to face the truth. He cheated and abandoned her when she had just had a baby. She needs to leave him. Be strong.
@@bfields112 I love it-cheatahs! Lol. Why do people, mostly women, have issues with holding other women responsible for the choices they make? I'm a woman and I know that I allow myself to be impregnated by a man who's been cheating on me since day 1 and I already have 2 others kids whose daddies aren't around, the only person who's the common denominator is me.
Nah she trapped him with a baby for sure. She knew he didn’t want to commit so got pregnant to keep him. That’s terrible
He was already leaving and that’s when she decided to tell him she was pregnant m. She knew he wanted to leave and then gonna say “you can’t leave cause I’m pregnant!” WHAT?! He told her he was done and then she expected him to stay with her cause she was pregnant. Sis a baby will NEVER make a man stay! And I’m sure she knew this from previous baby daddies
@@lillies2011you can't trap nobody with a baby when it takes a man to plant his seed in you cut this narrative out.
He said he wasn't ready for any kids he was already taking care of two of her kids now she could say you lay down with me that both should have been using birth control
Let me find out Yo audience ghetto Karomo😅😂clapping for the crowbars lol I think they bout tht life lol 😆
VERY GHETTO!!!🤦♀️🤦♀️They don’t even know BASIC KINDERGARTEN GRAMMAR. “I talk-ted to myself”, you knew the consequences-ses”🤦♀️ As an MD PhD this just killed some of my brain cells😭 WHYYYY is this in my recommendations😫
Idc what nobody say yes he needs to step up his father skills & should’ve been there for her pregnancy but I don’t feel bad for her.. you knew what it was in the beginning idk why y’all believe men when y’all think they’re gonna leave other females for y’all you’re gonna get done the same way. You knew he was seeing people when y’all met & he never stopped.
Look u take up for her when she was out there cheating to and Ik tha for a fact
Women are very strong. You can put on your big girl pants, lift your head high and step forward with your children. A relationship is not that important at this point. Love yourself and children first.
My name is Quenisha…and it’s so funny to hear them say it like mine over and over🤧love this show😵💫
I love how Karamo checked the audience clapping for the crowbar. Not cute! Especially while high risk pregnancy!
First- Young woman, you got two children, get your life together, instead of having a third child for a man, definitely saying he is not ready to have child
Secondly- This man is saying, definitely, he is not financially ready
Third- woman/Men: listen to what each other is saying by listening
Listen, what the person is saying, it's very, very, very, important, by listening, you will achieve more and loose less.
Facts.
This B.S. will continue to happen because of low self love on both parts..
Im sorry but she irritated me. I hate women who be like well you should've been having sex with me. No hun you should've told a man to wrap it up or get in birth control. Then decided to have a baby with a man who clearly said he not ready & I bet she one of those women who be like I dont wanna be controlled. My bf is like that.
In order for Rae Rae and Quanesha to survive as a couple, they need to have more trust with each other. When the mother of your children is pregnant with her upcoming child, you should accept, NEVER reject her pregnancy. And as for her, breaking windows of his family's house is not the answer to getting your point across. Communication is the necessity to keep a relationship going.
Yeah, but it's obvious this isn't her first rodeo, seems she needs to focus more on self, so she can be the best for herself and her children... I wish her WELL!!!🤗
She can force him to be a father but no man can't force a woman to be a mother? Seems reasonable.
@@evanmorrison3232 Reasonable or not it's most definitely a FACT, therefore men should always mind their P's & Q's when it comes to this...🤷🏽♀️
@@modest8782 nah its not even close to a "FACT" for reasonable people that have a brain. There are legal ways to progress. I'm giving up custody if she is forcing it on me. It's stupid antiquated and hypocritical for people to think like that and that is actually a FACT.
@@evanmorrison3232 ok!
Karamo preached a sermon at the end. Great advice.
I absolutely love the melanin in their skin, simply beautiful 🤩 😊 Black love 🙌🏽
Omg i said the same thing just beautiful for both ❤️
Not "You New The Consequencesces" - 🤦🏾
😂😂😂
Chileeee they’ll do anything to not work an actual job.. perpetuating a dancing job to just get girls that they don’t want and can’t provide for… you can tell he was lying while the audience just clapping 🤦🏾♀️
Right! Talking about "I gotta choose between you and my career." What career? Nigga you shaking your feet and shoulders on social media...ain't making no money in that 😂
😂😂😂😂
He told her no to a kid she forced him
Hi Karamo , I love you ! You have so much empathy for people, the things you say on your show is very encouraging . Thank you ! ❤❤😊😊
she loud asl and she definitely trapped him.
She needs healing from her past and he needs healing also
Calling a grown ass man Ray Ray chyyy please
We won’t forget the pink sauce.
What's with the pink sauce?
Great advice Karamo...the hard facts!!
People really act like cheating is nothing 😅
It’s weird you know
yea because everybody normalizing it now and it's weird asf smh
The problem is,the people cheating do until they get cheated on.
@@babieatiti7259 this
@@user-bv7cy6pv9v right like he really be saying it like it’s not a whole person with feelings that he’s dealing with
These men keep saying saying they not ready for a child. So stop going in these women raw. Wear protection and require them to use some form of birth control or you not touching them. Pregancy can be prevented
shes so pretty tho! she has the prettiest skin ive ever seen !
He don’t want u he told u this multiple times
Love 💝 your dancing son!! James Brown is from my era and he was clearly the God father of soul.
I was not expecting the move from her😂😂😂😂
Hehe me either
Did we run out of condoms⁉️
THANK YOU!!! If they're not suitable, there's other options...👍🏽
insurmountable immaturity...
Oh u talking about 87% of Americans!? 🤣
@@crystalc820 Yeah but some utilize family planning...😊
Stay away from the pookies an ray rays 🤣
Consequenceses 🤣 girl it's just Consequences wth 🤦🏽♀️
She has two babies already I don’t understand why she would want a third one in a fucked up situation .
Birth control ladies heeeeeelooooooo👏👏👏
He told her he didn’t want a child and way he wasn’t ready so why you mad he acting up? She had that baby to hold on to him 😢 and it still didn’t work out smh 🤦♀️
It’s just crazy to me how he bypass all the cheating he was doing like it’s nothing like of course she gone buss some shii down bc you playing in her face
Such a gorgeous lady she deserves better
Why? She's just as wild and trifling as he is. People don't deserve anymore than they can give.
How so? Please explain
@@longbranch11207 Let's see. Three kids with no fathers in their lives, damaging other's property with is criminal and also cheating like him.
Unrelated to the topic of the video, but 2:17 that parade video one of my fav videos "uh oh panda you better go head panda!" 😭😭😭
You can do it mama!! 💕 gosh she’s so beautiful
He’s so sweet and honest
And her breaking windows and all of that if she would have did a little jail time . Because she's hyped just by sitting on the stage she's breathing hard I believe she would do it all over again if she had
I just feel sad for the kids for having parents like this
That man told her countless times he didn’t want to be with her. Why is she surprised? The guy was calm and cool. She was doing the most.
BMORRE IN THE 🏠 😂😂😂
Nobody takes time to heal and get their lives together they just move on and keep having kids with ppl . Their relationship was not ready for a baby at all especially what was already going on before during and after . That’s why the relationships don’t work .
Some men just want to have fun and be players
Not all the time women play men too
It definitely goes both ways!!!😉
I was in the audience for this. I dub this a condom commercial.
If I tell you I’m not hungry . Don’t get mad I didn’t eat your cooking 😂
Consequencesessss😂
We don't get out selves pregnant.
But we are responsible for our own womb….😊
True. But you're going to be the one carrying and giving birth to it, so it would be wise to act as a gatekeeper and shut out men who don't want a child.
I’m saddened that it’s come down to this. I can’t with how immature these individuals are.🙆🏽♂️
Bustin windows out the house? Come it’s not worth you riskin your life and your kids life you will go to jail. Trust me! If a man makes you act out of character let it go . It’s toxic.
"You knew the consequenceseseses" 7:13
Did u forgot the pink sauce?
She is gorgeous
The consequenceseses 😂😂
She’s so pretty
If he don’t want you let him go and focus on loving yourself First
Omg! I'm so tired of hearing people speak soooooo poorly. Ugh! 😩 I feel like the longer I listen the dumber I get.
7:12 "He knew the consequencesess." 😳 That was the absolute worst. I screamed and covered my ears!🤢🤮
why did you need to learn the third time hun. He said he met you with 2 kids , he wasnt ready for nothing like a family.
Why MAKE a man be a father that doesn't want to....your mad he's elsewhere when you are the only one making the decision to keep a baby. She definitely chose to be a single mom..
She is beautiful!
They need speech classes
🤔 consequenceses🤯
its the adding letters to words “argrue”
If you're like me scrolling through the comments to see anything about the Pink Sauce issue, don't bother. Comments are now being deleted. If you see this, please stick to just downvoting like normal. Don't watch more than 30 seconds of this. This man needs to be held accountable.
I actually still see pink sauce comments, I think you need to set it to new rather than top comments maybe 🤔
I learn a lot from this episode
I am soooo tired of seeing desperate wmn accepting poor treatment just to say they have a man...like it or not, Love is NOT enough to hold onto a sh*tty relationship. She's out here acting a whole fool over a dude that has no respect for her. She needs therapy and a self-love guide NOT a relationship.
Quanesha is gorgeous!!!
I want to know why do woman always tell men if they didn’t want kids they sho be having relations!! My question to woman if you don’t want to be a single mother why have relations unprotected?!!
I just dont understand why men and women keep having unprotected sex and then say, " I didn't want a baby or don't want the responsibility". It doesn't make any sense, she already had two kids and said he wasn't ready to have a baby then. Stop having unprotected sex!!! Men, you can't leave your seed in a woman and say I don't want the responsibility you had a choice before having sex after that its no longer your choice.
Where are they from?
She thought that baby was gonna keep a man that had 3 women when they met..... yall need to start teaching these young girls to require protection.
Not the audience clapping when she said she went to the girl house wit a crowbar but if it was a man he wouldve got booed so bad 😂
I'm all for anybody having the right to do with their body as they choose. Because that is a choice that they have to live with and they have to face on a day of judgment on their own. The man tells you he's not ready for children you already got two children never been married so their illegitimate why would you dare want to have a third one with a man that's obviously not into you. 👀👺🔥👺👎🏼🤬🤦🏻♀️😳🤡🤡🤡
When he started dancing….
Thanks
It’s the way vex acting out his story 😂😂😂😂
How old are these people😩😩😩 this society needs to be cleansed
You go boy 👦🏿
First of all' Little RAE RAE. wouldn't have been in My CAR.
What happened to the pink sauce video?
They love the ray rays and pookies smdh. Facts
Why she say instagram like that 😂
Why are they here? If a man tells you he doesn’t want to be a father, then take your baby and raise them alone. He literally told her.