I Left Her: HER REACTiON

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  • @tribetyler
    @tribetyler  5 ปีที่แล้ว +14187

    If you would like to support Haylee, you can grab a sticker from her new website here.
    www.hopefullnutrition.com/shop/stickers
    •••
    Watch the original video here:
    th-cam.com/video/5PJ8Tz3_vy8/w-d-xo.html

    • @jnlione1
      @jnlione1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Awesome, awesome video guys!!!! Totally amazing!!!!

    • @jnlione1
      @jnlione1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Definitely , hands down THE BEST VIDEO to ever come from your channel!!!

    • @mcfishyfirst253
      @mcfishyfirst253 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Tyler Shelton omg it’s like the movie #canthardlywait

    • @clearcontentment3695
      @clearcontentment3695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Can’t wait for the sequel

    • @amandakay789
      @amandakay789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I just stumbled on this video and wow.. Absolutely Beautiful....
      She has one of the most amazing smiles I've ever seen, what power she holds in that alone... If she only knew..

  • @britniburdon7601
    @britniburdon7601 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31770

    The way he kept looking at her during the “film” he made to make sure she was okay it the purest thing I’ve ever seen. You can tell how much he really loves her.

    • @sebastianskii7512
      @sebastianskii7512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      This Xmas I wish I could experience the 'love' thing. I never felt loved or loved someone in my entire life.

    • @mittelinak.9595
      @mittelinak.9595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      Mr. Devor does that matter 🙃🙂

    • @kabeisha7664
      @kabeisha7664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Mr. Devor why? because they misspelled ONE word? you sir, are ugly for that.

    • @kabeisha7664
      @kabeisha7664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Mr. Devor okay rewrite it then

    • @kabeisha7664
      @kabeisha7664 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Mr. Devor lmfao idk if you noticed sir but i haven’t been capitalizing anything because it’s the internet and i’m not worried about it like you are :)

  • @tiffaraffi7749
    @tiffaraffi7749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8984

    He teared up when it said "Haylee almost died." And how he is looking at her. True love.

    • @imhighduded8386
      @imhighduded8386 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      TIFFA RAFFI and she didnt even react

    • @sabserab
      @sabserab 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      She regrets not being thin anymore lol that vid got her so pissed. She doesnt deserve this man

    • @allergictohumansnotanimals5671
      @allergictohumansnotanimals5671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      sabserab dude you don't know that stop judging how people react to emotional things not everyone sobs their sadness away

    • @NoMoreQQ
      @NoMoreQQ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@allergictohumansnotanimals5671 how she talks about still fighting it every day and catching her limiting herself still, means even though she says she technically is recovered I do believe she does still want to be skinny but she also wants to be healthy and happy. It goes both ways, I also do believe she was very sad from the video, not mad in any way like the other person said.

    • @mel-mz5se
      @mel-mz5se 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      sabserab what the actual fuck

  • @torrirenee826
    @torrirenee826 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30978

    the fact that he keeps looking at her to make sure she’s okay literally melts my heart.

    • @laughlater4562
      @laughlater4562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Seriously. 😫😳

    • @xasprinn8044
      @xasprinn8044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yee

    • @zm8077
      @zm8077 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      He’s perfect for that. Unconditional love

    • @user-gi6sn6cv9z
      @user-gi6sn6cv9z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Literally? Are you okay? Cuz, that's not a good sign :/

    • @StarsNight123
      @StarsNight123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      chill_tf_out yeah alright “relationship expert”. Just stick to yourself

  • @carolinerangen478
    @carolinerangen478 ปีที่แล้ว +4351

    For her husband to understand her fight and keep cheering her on IS WONDERFUL and he too is a fighter.

    • @kevingerlach7517
      @kevingerlach7517 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Love is like that, does not want to let go. Seeing beyond a moment of frustration, hurt and helplessness. Love is more than a Moment, it is a lifetime.

    • @yvonnerolley9676
      @yvonnerolley9676 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      And dependency

    • @suzymoroka297
      @suzymoroka297 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yvonnerolley9676very dangerous codependency

  • @arinapopa3754
    @arinapopa3754 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27249

    Imagine having somebody who loves you like this man loves this woman

    • @sharonruff3837
      @sharonruff3837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      Yeah. Wow.

    • @annaunverhaun4943
      @annaunverhaun4943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      very unlikely for me XD

    • @lordmongo511
      @lordmongo511 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I hope this isnt a diss to your man

    • @katclayton3163
      @katclayton3163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Arina Popa I’ve got that and I’m so extremely grateful. My fiancé has never left my side. Fast forward we’ve been together for two years, and we’re having our first baby. He was there through the thick and thin, literally, and still loved me every step of the way. I wanna be like him.

    • @takemetomarz
      @takemetomarz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Arina Popa ikrr

  • @mexbiuri
    @mexbiuri 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11922

    It kills me how emotional HE gets, you can clearly see how much he loves her.

    • @wishtheyunderstoodme
      @wishtheyunderstoodme 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      If you dont love someone like this, you've never really been inlove. Its simple

    • @olive8693
      @olive8693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      @I like Potatoes doesn't feel like a lot of work if you're making it for your favorite person

    • @jasminelove101
      @jasminelove101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I like Potatoes when u love someone, your effort for them becomes timeless. You don’t focus on the time,u focus on how they will feel. A love like tht is just so special

    • @tracey72610
      @tracey72610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      sensitive guys are very sweet and caring, i suppose

    • @jon222-r4j
      @jon222-r4j 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/DbPm5EG8-QI/w-d-xo.html

  • @redvorchannel
    @redvorchannel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2159

    This hit so hard. My husband stuck with me through my 15 year battle with drug addiction mixed with anorexia. The hell I put that man through but he refused to give up on me. Today I have 2 years clean/sober and healthy and we have been married 20 years. This was a beautiful video & it reminded me how blessed I am to have my husband and my life.

    • @jigglehugs
      @jigglehugs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Sounds like a great man and congrats on your sobriety. I hope you’re both living your best lives.

    • @axxli29
      @axxli29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      redvor channel 1076 congratulations on being drug free and healthy for 2 years! That takes a lot of strength ❤️

    • @redvorchannel
      @redvorchannel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@axxli29 Thank you so much ❤

    • @Jfeliner
      @Jfeliner 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      redvor channel 1076 I wish I had your strength. I’ve been with my partner for going on 7 years now, we began dating at 19 and my ED began when we began dating. He’s been there for me since day one, I don’t know why he’s stayed with me this long, like you, ive put him through hell when I was at my worse, we’re both very lucky ❣️

    • @e2renee
      @e2renee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love sees what we often fail to see in ourselves

  • @ljslw
    @ljslw ปีที่แล้ว +4274

    There is a saying “behind every successful man stands a strong woman”. This video is proof that behind every successful woman stands a man who loves her, and together their love can conquer all.

    • @ti20g
      @ti20g ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Such a beautiful comment ❤

    • @stinkfinger1942
      @stinkfinger1942 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's true, that's how Women have always been the ones in power.

    • @mikey92362
      @mikey92362 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      That makes no sense. A huge percentage of successful men are single. Especially if they're smart.

    • @kindofschinzelphrenic
      @kindofschinzelphrenic ปีที่แล้ว +61

      @@mikey92362 blah blah blah and meh meh meh

    • @idksmthng
      @idksmthng ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mikey92362 Source: Trust me bro

  • @brandon1437
    @brandon1437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2275

    Be honest. We all clicked on it thinking he’d be recording her reaction of them breaking up. And we all left with near tears in our eyes

    • @saraj.amann.52.71
      @saraj.amann.52.71 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah... wth?

    • @Boroboo1
      @Boroboo1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why near 😇

    • @denachtconducteur7070
      @denachtconducteur7070 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes and also he promoted her company at the end and put more than enough commercial moments in the video.. bet he studies marketing haha

    • @Lauren.335
      @Lauren.335 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me

  • @foxyroxy2712
    @foxyroxy2712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5697

    Who else was holding onto their breath waiting for her to tear so it wasn't just me and the boyfriend crying in the background ...

  • @joinmeforasmile4464
    @joinmeforasmile4464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9596

    She’s so tense.. I can see how intensely she focuses on absorbing everything in this video and how she’s restraining her emotions.

    • @slitzch0_0
      @slitzch0_0 4 ปีที่แล้ว +442

      @@alejandronunez7650 bruh you obviously arent able to notice the body language, instead of insulting her be more observant of not just her face, watch the full thing attentively. She's not heartless or fake, nothing is wrong with her. If anything you are in the wrong for speaking like that about her for no reason. The video is literally about her, she was trying to maintain her emotions so she wouldnt start crying. Stop being an asshole.

    • @practicalgrowthacademy3189
      @practicalgrowthacademy3189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      @@slitzch0_0 well said❤️

    • @joaquimmiguel8910
      @joaquimmiguel8910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@slitzch0_0 I respect you so much you said it right with all the words RESPECT

    • @enquvist
      @enquvist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Alejandro Nunez How can she be both heartless and fake ? You’re saying her heartlessbess is fake ? Someone who suffered anorexia and nearly died is shown a video detailing it and you decide she has to act a certain way. You’re calling her heartless because she didn’t cry watching a video about how she nearly died? You’re an absolute deadshit. You’re the asshole not her.

    • @lovedandlanguished
      @lovedandlanguished 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@slitzch0_0 maybe calling him an a-hole is a bit harsh, not everyone is wired the same: studies find that more empathetic people are more accurate at reading emotions, so maybe it's a skill that not everyone can just "get" or "see" or innately be good at. As for the "a-hole" in question I hope he just takes what's written here as a way to maybe not leap to conclusions in the future, cause maybe there's more to the picture than he thinks he sees. Obviously. We all can't be so ignorant.

  • @ericmann2303
    @ericmann2303 ปีที่แล้ว +1702

    She is a miracle!!!! My wife almost died of anorexia. They had no idea what or how to treat her in the eighties. She no longer struggles with her disorder, but she came close to death several times. Your wife is miracle of God. He blessed you both with each other.

    • @livmarlin4259
      @livmarlin4259 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She"s a MONSTER!

    • @b.j.loveislove9090
      @b.j.loveislove9090 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      It makes my heart feel good that your wife battled and eventually won being still with you. My niece did not... the disease won 🙏

    • @USER-ZB2YT
      @USER-ZB2YT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm glad she's doing better now

    • @USER-ZB2YT
      @USER-ZB2YT 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@b.j.loveislove9090I'm really sorry for your loss.. Rest in Peace🪦

  • @GRiDSWiFTZ
    @GRiDSWiFTZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5974

    Him looking over at her almost every second. That’s what gets me.

    • @09Nipz
      @09Nipz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      He doesn't know how she will react. He's also maybe nervous about the finished work. Then she's really stoic, though, rigid and tense. It's interesting. Many read it as lack of emotion -- as if the outward reaction is all there is to emotion -- but some emotions cause us to be like this. Her lack of reaction to me says it was hard to watch and she doesn't want to share those emotions with outsiders.

    • @cassandrahughes2897
      @cassandrahughes2897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@09Nipz that might be plausible if she knew the camera was there. He recorded her reactions without her even knowing so this is just her genuine reaction..

    • @ang3licfire843
      @ang3licfire843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭❤️❤️💞💞

    • @808stateofmind2
      @808stateofmind2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, the mix of emotions and thoughts... the unseen effort it can take to control them or even know which emotion are okay to let in and which thoughts may lead down a toxic path.. it can be all overwhelming! I wish I could be with the girl I love right now.,,,, wish we could be married, wish I didn’t isolate myself to such an extreme once she left, wish I wasn’t so loyal that as soon as she said she hated me, I hated me too,,,

    • @nellieshoals
      @nellieshoals 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He wants to see her reaction. To validate that he can emotionally affect her... idk that that's a good thing.

  • @xbrix94
    @xbrix94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3886

    that is one lucky girl. that’s a man who loves his woman.

    • @spoiledmilky.
      @spoiledmilky. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      bri herigan yes so lucky

    • @mimachka
      @mimachka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! I was thinking the same. She is so lucky

    • @leannmarie3687
      @leannmarie3687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You can FEEL the love in his face

    • @thr4iam151
      @thr4iam151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly!!!💞 Love is a key to epifanies! Are there any more like him out there????? 🙄

  • @alicemnightingale
    @alicemnightingale 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32813

    Imagine having someone who notices how broken you are inside

    • @Revilo-zo1bf
      @Revilo-zo1bf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +360

      If only

    • @Shay-ul2bg
      @Shay-ul2bg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      I think a lot of people can relate

    • @Steph-wt1gp
      @Steph-wt1gp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +126

      Alice Nightingale my "boyfriend " helped me through wat I was secretly suffering he helped me get my self esteem up

    • @aisha-hh9rp
      @aisha-hh9rp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Alice Nightingale never had that

    • @cocokaka8183
      @cocokaka8183 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Never in my entire life someone notice

  • @KeyboardPlaysGames
    @KeyboardPlaysGames ปีที่แล้ว +930

    "what we were struggling with, was so much" - It wasn't her Anorexia, it was theirs. Powerful perspective to tackle issues as a couple.

    • @a.deadgirl
      @a.deadgirl ปีที่แล้ว +11

      My man helped me too. There are still good people out there. His problems are mine, mine are his. He taught me that

    • @shaym4306
      @shaym4306 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Endless good people out there 🤍

    • @AtomicDog-v2d
      @AtomicDog-v2d 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Every health or mental disorder is a shared experience with whomever the ill person is close to.

    • @lillilyyyy
      @lillilyyyy 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Made me sob. Thats a husband right there.

  • @lulubreadddo
    @lulubreadddo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1785

    I think "she's a fighter, and now she's a leader" hit differently, I'm crying

  • @ivynjoki
    @ivynjoki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9295

    He keeps looking at her the same way you look at your friend when you make them watch something and eagerly wait for a reaction.

    • @jillianesguerra7
      @jillianesguerra7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Ivy Njoki and he aint getting any 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @ivynjoki
      @ivynjoki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Jillian Modelo him on the inside->😠

    • @Dafairkidd12
      @Dafairkidd12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It’s almost like that’s what the point of the video is

    • @ivynjoki
      @ivynjoki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Darien fair it’s right in the captions.

    • @bardarians
      @bardarians 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She had no reaction my dude

  • @LilJeepgirl81
    @LilJeepgirl81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6276

    The fact he could see her beauty in the worst time and helped. What a good man.

    • @febca6920
      @febca6920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      totally agree 🦋 We all need someone who sees beyond the debris and help us get back up to save ourselves. 🦋💗

    • @Justa25000
      @Justa25000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Do you have a brother or twin? I Want someone like you in my life

    • @user-ib7wy4oq9e
      @user-ib7wy4oq9e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Justa25000 LMAOOO

    • @alexandramouhou5919
      @alexandramouhou5919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So rare these kinda men nowadays

    • @praveshmaharaj4387
      @praveshmaharaj4387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you can find that too but since women only go for looks and only want model tier men you wont get true love since you base your relationship decisions of something shallow.

  • @infjjedi3335
    @infjjedi3335 ปีที่แล้ว +272

    I’m a 50 year old woman sitting with her first cup of morning tea crying like
    a child. THIS is SO BEAUTIFUL and my tears are prayers for both of you ❤

  • @therealjesterguys
    @therealjesterguys 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3886

    As someone who currently has a girlfriend with anorexia, this means a lot to me. And I’m sure it does to her too
    Edit June 2023:
    Hey this 3 years ago wow! Just a little update for everyone, my partner is considered to be fully recovered from anorexia nervosa. She enjoys her food again, has developed a love for cooking home made meals and is a healthy weight and is eager to gain more around her thighs. I'm very proud of her :)

    • @mj4r
      @mj4r 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Della Sheri can you explain what anorexia means, I’m not sure and don’t make fun of me for it

    • @bunnie168
      @bunnie168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Teent u can still have anorexia even if ur overweight or at a healthy weight

    • @claraharris1793
      @claraharris1793 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@mj4r anorexia isnt just being underweight. It can be intentional or not. Theres anorexia (non intentional) so people who think they're just going on a diet or people who are so stressed they cant eat, and theres anorexia nervosa( intentional) where, in most cases, people struggle with body dysmorphia(unreal depiction of your own body) and believe the only way out is to starve. It is a mental Illness that can be super dangerous and hard to over come( I know first hand).

    • @kurniadichandra
      @kurniadichandra 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      fighting !
      u can do it 🤗

    • @mj4r
      @mj4r 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      clara harris thank you for explaining ❤️

  • @ChizurUBabY
    @ChizurUBabY 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2265

    "she's a fighter.... And now she's a leader." i burst into tears.

  • @andredinhus6687
    @andredinhus6687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7865

    "Love isn't about finding the one. It's about being the one"
    -My Grandpa
    Edit: I just learned that the quote was originally by Creig Crippen, but I first heard it by my Grandpa

    • @liatariwidodo3674
      @liatariwidodo3674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      How sweet.. 😊

    • @blkbarbie2671
      @blkbarbie2671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Your grandad is inspirational damn

    • @bobbyweirddick6556
      @bobbyweirddick6556 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah but if you don’t get on with the person or love the person, you can’t truly be the one. Be honest with your self.

    • @liatariwidodo3674
      @liatariwidodo3674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@bobbyweirddick6556 thats why we should being the one. Dont you get that?

    • @heiditownsend5865
      @heiditownsend5865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww

  • @joyjones8782
    @joyjones8782 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +177

    That was incredible! He found his person early. She is lucky to have someone that loves her so much!

    • @lisalarouge6309
      @lisalarouge6309 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      And he is lucky that she loves him so much also.

  • @sirih4085
    @sirih4085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6644

    Oh poor thing. She was trying so hard to hold her emotions in.

    • @babymammoth6254
      @babymammoth6254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Do you think holding emotions in might have been part of why she got anorexia in the first place?

    • @rikiforever420
      @rikiforever420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@babymammoth6254 Yes, I do.

    • @arismatold_me6753
      @arismatold_me6753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I've always thought the term poor THING is pretty derogatory.

    • @sirih4085
      @sirih4085 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@arismatold_me6753 oh no you poor thing

    • @drewdavis4207
      @drewdavis4207 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

  • @sumayyaamos8069
    @sumayyaamos8069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8056

    Imagine being loved by someone this much.

    • @CasinoGin1
      @CasinoGin1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Imagine that someone is out there looking for someone to love this much. You just need to find each other.
      Be a good person, be amazing, be happy, be kind to others, be comfortable in your own skin, be out there doing things with other people. You will find each other. ;-)

    • @lilykelley2290
      @lilykelley2290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @Jim Blogs not true at all. i’ve been with my partner for almost 3 years. in the happiest i’ve ever been. you just have to find your person

    • @bc7319
      @bc7319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      We have been married for 32 years. It can happen. But, truth of the deal: Imagining and expecting to be loved that much cannot be an entitlement, everyone has to strive to become that person that can be loved first as much as possible. Too many people jump in and out of relationships without working to make themselves the best possible version of a good person first or learning how to give expecting nothing in return.

    • @Ass_of_Amalek
      @Ass_of_Amalek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      B C yeah, I've seen a lot of people spreading this idea of "they need to love you as you are, if they want you to change they don't love you" and it's always sounded like a really counterproductive excuse to avoid self-improvement. everybody who is good at anything got there by striving to be better, and they still are.

    • @Anon1370
      @Anon1370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i cant never imagine that in all my years ive never once felt it so i dont know anyway my cat loves me lmao

  • @jonmoneymaker329
    @jonmoneymaker329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2092

    I'm a therapist, almost 40 years in the profession. This is an amazing story, well told, and most importantly a message of hope. Also, the bond and commitment you have as a couple shows that together you're better equipped to handle whatever life has challenged you with. Thank you for this.

    • @mikdadis
      @mikdadis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Moneymaker=therapist 🤫

    • @jonmoneymaker329
      @jonmoneymaker329 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      That's really my last name....

    • @user-hw3nq5vb3h
      @user-hw3nq5vb3h 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jonmoneymaker329 PFTTT bad last name

    • @docthorr
      @docthorr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jonmoneymaker329 daym... hopefully you have the skillset to cope with the inevitable mockery people might throw at you.
      Cheers ! :-)

  • @markf9871
    @markf9871 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    I'm 63 man & had quiet tear all the way through this.
    (don't hold in tears...)
    So So so good.
    She's amazing & Man, So are you.
    Good Man.

  • @telliiii2289
    @telliiii2289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3682

    The way she admires your work is so sweet she looked so straight faced the whole time but she wasn’t being emotionless she was simply taking in your work for every thing that it was making little remarks that she noticed which was beautiful you two have a true connection and that’s amazing I bawled my eyes out watching this video and you’ve gained a new subscriber I absolutely loved this video

  • @edsanchez6173
    @edsanchez6173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3115

    Beautiful. Thanks for that.
    “Kindness is the language the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” - Mark Twain

    • @Herocaa
      @Herocaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️

    • @zahraf5367
      @zahraf5367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s such a beautiful quote that’s actually very true too❤️

    • @kayceewhite
      @kayceewhite 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ed Sanchez
      What a great quote!

  • @cadenhoogeveen8175
    @cadenhoogeveen8175 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4281

    Her reaction isn’t bad. It shows how much she’s paying attention and listening to every word.

  • @gracehills5986
    @gracehills5986 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    i’m 4 years late but i found this at the perfect time. i’ve been “recovered” from my eating disorder for about 5 months and im seeing myself slip back into that life and i needed this to flip that switch and tell myself that i can’t almost die again. my heart is not doing good (i also have a disability that affects my heart) and adding an eating disorder onto it will only cause my body to get closer and closer to the last straw. thank you for posing this and sharing it, you truly don’t know how many people you’ve helped with this.

    • @barborella5420
      @barborella5420 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You deserve every seconds life has to offer to you so pls be safe and kind to yourself. I wish you a long, healthy life, full of love and happiness 🤍

  • @thepotato1141
    @thepotato1141 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1815

    This is how many times he looked at her to make sure she was ok
    ⬇️

  • @SeguralooVe
    @SeguralooVe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3904

    This guy is a total keeper. Wow, she is beyond lucky to have a guy like that by her side. He loves her indeed.

    • @praveshmaharaj4387
      @praveshmaharaj4387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you women just go for looks you too could be this lucky if you didnt friendzone guys you dont deem attractive enough

    • @softiesofiesoso
      @softiesofiesoso 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@praveshmaharaj4387 not all woman acts like this, sometimes we just didn't meet someone that we could get along, me myself didn't have the opportunity to have any male friends or anything..

    • @tyffaneelavely8087
      @tyffaneelavely8087 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      no it shouldn't be looked at like that. This is what every person should be, and expect from those they love, and chose to share their life with.

    • @matthews852
      @matthews852 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He left her for an 18 yr old Polish exchange student 6 weeks after this video..

    • @doudoulefol
      @doudoulefol ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@matthews852 seriously??

  • @Rustypoptartt
    @Rustypoptartt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3232

    She’s really good with holding her tears back I couldn’t

    • @breathoffreshair7795
      @breathoffreshair7795 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Deja Arguello you can tell shes def trying. Deep frown and big eyes, unmoving, i do the same lol

    • @choppinmywaydowntown6144
      @choppinmywaydowntown6144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @maryjane you're a sad person

    • @Smittenx3
      @Smittenx3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @maryjane are you stupid?

    • @pierrearr
      @pierrearr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @maryjane Have fun being a bitter asshole for the rest of your life.

    • @nellieshoals
      @nellieshoals 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Parts Unknown Seriously. How do people not see this??

  • @zapbck8492
    @zapbck8492 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Nice to see a wholesome loving couple overcoming obstacles together. Also props to her for overcoming her eating disorder.

  • @TraceyJeanne
    @TraceyJeanne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2462

    “I left her”could be what he named the video she’s reacting to
    And the video is talking about her anorexia, she left her
    & Often people refer to anorexia as Ana, that’s also where ‘her’ can come in

    • @luxxury9736
      @luxxury9736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      or maybe 5:05

    • @thesmellofpizza
      @thesmellofpizza 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank u

    • @uj12678
      @uj12678 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tracey Jeanne ah

    • @LarryS378
      @LarryS378 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Abby-uk7rv dude is clearly making the video about himself. i don't know why or if there's some context i'm missing but... her story is her story mate - why does it have to focus on him so much (i ignored my problems and it was so bad for me; I left her; I see her as strong etc.)

  • @bula138
    @bula138 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7593

    “I met my wife when I was 12 years old”
    Instant tears

    • @jesslane4363
      @jesslane4363 5 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      I met my husband when I was 6

    • @qlvinc
      @qlvinc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Jess Lane what... 🥺🥺😱😱

    • @kaiserbeelzebub4th
      @kaiserbeelzebub4th 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      I met my wife when i was still a sperm....
      Wait a minute... Then that means...

    • @jotomato
      @jotomato 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      FBI OPEN UP

    • @DrPebis
      @DrPebis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Y'all get married young

  • @gingin4663
    @gingin4663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14552

    I get so scared of marrying the wrong person because it is possible, I’ve seen it happen. I just don’t want that to happen to me. I really hope I marry the right person in the future

    • @SuperTzippy
      @SuperTzippy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +106

      Amen!!!

    • @AndiPandiBee
      @AndiPandiBee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +553

      Thing is they won't be the wrong person in the beginning. That's something that comes after. When you're with someone and you want to marry them. They are the right person. But life changes people and can pull people apart. You're never guarenteed an great life at all times.

    • @ulosen
      @ulosen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      Maybe if you are scared you are predetermined to hold onto a bad relashionship in the future. Breaking up or a divorce is not the end of the world. If you get remarried to a better fitting person it is a positive thing

    • @lv5310
      @lv5310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      And if you marry the wrong person it's not the worst thing that will happen. You could overcome that.... unless they kill you lol....

    • @C-SD
      @C-SD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Take your time! You don't have to get married because you've been dating for xxxx amount of time, or because you've gotten pregnant, or anything really. You don't ever "have to be" married. Its OK to take your time, and its OK to not ever want to get married. Do it for you, not anyone else, and you have to keep communicating; keep working together on your relationship. More info than you cared for, I'm sure. Nm me if it bothers you, that's not what I meant to do.

  • @K33LMACHINE
    @K33LMACHINE 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    As a husband married to his wife suffering from anorexia and bulimia, this made me immediately start crying. Thanks for making this.
    My wife is now healthy and pregnant, and we expect our first child to be born in just a few weeks.
    It's possible to beat an eating disorder with the right support system. Don't ever abandon someone you love. It will always work out. Keep fighting.

  • @suhailldiaz1616
    @suhailldiaz1616 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4509

    Your storytelling and cinematography is top notch. Haylee's reaction was the same as all of us watching it for the first time. The message delivery was so powerful and it will help others out there who are struggling. Both of you should do speaking engagements to schools and bring more awareness to the situation.

    • @tiffanyroseangeles7517
      @tiffanyroseangeles7517 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Suhaill Diaz absolutely agree w you!!

    • @diper911_
      @diper911_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      o9oi0o89oo889jo78i8oi8i8u8ooioiioo[>(ooĺoo[i6o9i8458m77o89u9i998ooo99jj76i9o8ooooo9o998oo7o89i8o3ti9ooo99jj76i9o8ooooo9o998oo7o89i8o889oiooio999io8i9o8989oilo9o989o8

    • @ironres2cue169
      @ironres2cue169 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Stfu you ugly skinny bitch not everyone is not eating it’s only girls who do this think about everyone’s else’s opinion

    • @MsSomeKT
      @MsSomeKT 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! I've been saying this for years! True master of his artistry.

  • @ilysebell7074
    @ilysebell7074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2438

    This guy's parents did an amazing job raising him. It shows.

    • @shoejoe3518
      @shoejoe3518 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ya they raised a real narcissist and mediocre film maker!

    • @michaelstimpfl9814
      @michaelstimpfl9814 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@shoejoe3518 no need to be jealous of someone else. why are you hating on others? you could spend your time doing something to become more successful, so you don't have to be jealous.

    • @inTruthbyGrace
      @inTruthbyGrace 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      adults need to take responsibility for their own behavior.
      you know NOTHING about his parents .... all you know about here is HIS BEHAVIOR so... credit grown-ups for being grown-ups quit blaming mommy and daddy for all your problem,

    • @isabellaperezcadiz3646
      @isabellaperezcadiz3646 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      ​@@inTruthbyGracebro, are u ok?

    • @durimuramon1620
      @durimuramon1620 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@isabellaperezcadiz3646 His succes is his succes. You can have best parents and still be idiot or opaque.

  • @anamiladze9587
    @anamiladze9587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3146

    Him looking at her whole time to get her reaction is the cutest thing ever. just look at his eyes and heart in them

    • @acer696969
      @acer696969 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes i saw that, he even started to cry a couple times,,,,but the thing that concerned me was she had no reaction at all during the whole film

    • @DIHANSvsv
      @DIHANSvsv 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes... I notice it. I love how he cares about her reactions.
      He was almost crying when he said she almost die...

    • @maceydowner9461
      @maceydowner9461 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know 🤩

    • @indigoblue4791
      @indigoblue4791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      He shows more emotion on his face but you can still see the deep effect it has on her. Love is a wonderful thing and when you can look back and see it demonstrated for another, given fully and completely it warms the heart and whole body. They have a strong story and l hope it keeps them both strong and united. 💟💟💟

    • @Green-lk1cp
      @Green-lk1cp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That video was moving. He is so perceptive and aware of what she has suffered. The film itself is beautifully constructed. Such a respectful, artistic tribute. He really honours his partner. It’s a sort of therapeutic gift.

  • @fr1g1db1tch
    @fr1g1db1tch ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Its great to see something so positive on youtube. This is not just a story, but a reality for many people.

  • @armenis7
    @armenis7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2110

    To all those saying she is not crying. That girl has ran out of tears.. Been through a lot..

    • @lizarapp243
      @lizarapp243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      It’s also incredibly hard to listen to how your actions have caused pain. Either for yourself or others. I try not to cry so I don’t burden them anymore with my own pain

    • @OnyxMoon81
      @OnyxMoon81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Heloise O'Byrne Maybe but if you can't see the sadness on her face at times you must be blind.. anyway, you either feel it or you don't ✌🏼

  • @fynnroberts3392
    @fynnroberts3392 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6501

    Just as it hit the emotional part, where he said “I love her” it switched to an ad and instantly shouted “let’s play shadow legends” and I burst out laughgn

    • @wuthemaurine735
      @wuthemaurine735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      reid shallow leggings

    • @Elisa-wn3im
      @Elisa-wn3im 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SAME HAHAHA

    • @shilox
      @shilox 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Welp, I had a stick figure dancing for a game

    • @criplydickly1309
      @criplydickly1309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      mine was “i love her” then it switched and said “9/11”

    • @kailao6507
      @kailao6507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I got a why don't we ad 💕 ten what am I song 🌹

  • @dreama7673
    @dreama7673 4 ปีที่แล้ว +694

    As a survivor of an eating disorder, I understand her reactions. She was holding in that emotion so much, waiting to see what the video was about.

    • @candi4202
      @candi4202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Glad you survived 💜

    • @helenbekind8486
      @helenbekind8486 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was thinking the same thing.

  • @maylaasperachiorean6303
    @maylaasperachiorean6303 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    She is so lucky to have him. The way he looked at her is, he truly cares and love her❤

  • @asdw3341
    @asdw3341 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11478

    He is one in a million or a billion even. She is one lucky woman let me tell u.

    • @SR-xk5ih
      @SR-xk5ih 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      NA. AF. I know I wish I could find a truly good man like this

    • @ubayyd
      @ubayyd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Hope everyone was like this with their relationships 💔

    • @yume5441
      @yume5441 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      its not that rare, you just have to find the right person for you 💕

    • @haileyandgabistyles
      @haileyandgabistyles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      So is she. There honestly aren't a lot of people as open minded as she seems

    • @snipeuallday
      @snipeuallday 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm not trying to belittle anyone as this may seem but this a completely inaccurate statement, anyone who thinks this hasn't explored themselves or others to truly find their significant other. This is one of the hardest things in life to find, that's why people think it's 1/1,000,000 whether its just a thrown out statement or not.

  • @esther1765
    @esther1765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4334

    "...3 years..." and then that little smile in the back after realizing he got the number of years wrong...
    HAHAHA love this

    • @C-SD
      @C-SD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      "Literally no øne will know" lol

    • @ErikGrimsmo
      @ErikGrimsmo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I assume he laughed because it took a year to produce the video and Haylee didn't know there was a camera recording her reaction. I bet he told her right after

    • @whitty1232
      @whitty1232 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ErikGrimsmo she knew she was on camera

  • @TronciM
    @TronciM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2922

    This shows how emotional males really are; we just keep it all inside. There's nothing wrong with opening up about your emotions people, it makes you stronger :)

    • @Baky_T
      @Baky_T 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Women who really grew up know this already 😊
      That's what I always say:
      As long as a man is himself, there's no need to pretend emotional expressions 😊

    • @Lucy-wd4bm
      @Lucy-wd4bm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      I wish men didn’t feel the pressure to keep it inside

    • @ZekeNacion
      @ZekeNacion 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Which is wrong and needs to change.

    • @tomhendri1933
      @tomhendri1933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Baky_T thank you

    • @matthewstreacker7402
      @matthewstreacker7402 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don’t keep it inside

  • @Willo_1647
    @Willo_1647 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    That's her story, his story, their story.. what an amazing story it is. The strength she found to battle, the help he gave when others didn't and the love they have for one another just shows in the video he's made and on her face as she watched. He kept checking to make sure she was on and you could see that love.. Keep on going Haley, you're an amazing woman ❤️

  • @abriannarodriguez9030
    @abriannarodriguez9030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3176

    She’s so blessed to have a husband like him they are so cute

    • @Sasuga_Skky
      @Sasuga_Skky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      They are blessed to have each other

    • @connorbell09
      @connorbell09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Who tf is they

    • @flaminga_x7627
      @flaminga_x7627 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      mz daily fan page I’m saying 🤣🤣🤣

    • @rq1716
      @rq1716 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed a great man amongst men.

    • @tyffaneelavely8087
      @tyffaneelavely8087 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how we all should be to one another. Shouldn't be seen as a blessing. That's just sad. Everyone should be this loving, and thoughtful to the ones they love, and even more so to strangers who may be going thru something even worse.

  • @MrKillroy26
    @MrKillroy26 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9524

    I dont know how this ended up in my recommendations but I’m glad it did.
    Edit: I’m glad so many people feel the same way.

  • @icecreamisMine
    @icecreamisMine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2404

    Why did TH-cam recommended this to me? Why does TH-cam want me to cry? Wtf TH-cam

    • @namastemoon7442
      @namastemoon7442 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You made me laugh through my tears. Thank you!

    • @CatGarthley
      @CatGarthley 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m currently watching this at 4 am and I’m feeling the same way

    • @coraxoxo
      @coraxoxo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      it was recommended for me too

    • @ZombieMan1997
      @ZombieMan1997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TH-cam wants me to recover.... But it's hard when I'm alone.

  • @m.canida96
    @m.canida96 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    What a God send he is for her !! That is the true definition of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!! Prayer to Hayley to stay on her path of healing and prayers to her Husband for standing by her side !!💕🙏🏻

  • @turtlesovertrains3667
    @turtlesovertrains3667 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92101

    Lol I thought you were going to divorce your wife and record her reaction

    • @hybridstarlet7844
      @hybridstarlet7844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1726

      Lol me too! 😂😂😂

    • @shelovevanilla
      @shelovevanilla 5 ปีที่แล้ว +666

      Same 😷

    • @raksh9
      @raksh9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1889

      My thoughts exactly. Feeling a bit ripped off.

    • @alejo3acosta4
      @alejo3acosta4 5 ปีที่แล้ว +744

      Same, I'm disappointed.

    • @tobieeck9676
      @tobieeck9676 5 ปีที่แล้ว +480

      Ah this gonna be some good content.
      ...wait a sec what is this?

  • @JoJoMaMa_
    @JoJoMaMa_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4011

    She’s got herself quite a man there... beautiful.

    • @summernights1555
      @summernights1555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      3.2k likes but no comment 🤔

    • @WillieGee1970
      @WillieGee1970 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True Genuine Man

    • @mrunique4871
      @mrunique4871 ปีที่แล้ว

      It certainly is .

    • @JohnJr901
      @JohnJr901 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone should find a connection like this. Working through things can be difficult and some let challenges push them apart. For those that find the courage and humility to fight through the tough stuff… they get to enjoy another level of love.

  • @gabm1707
    @gabm1707 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27730

    him: “I met my wife when i was 12 years old”
    me: *starts crying*

    • @Ang3lBag3l
      @Ang3lBag3l 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      ME TOO

    • @zyprexza
      @zyprexza 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      LMAOO

    • @555-h1u
      @555-h1u 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      lmao can’t relate but must be nice :’))))

    • @rq1716
      @rq1716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🤗

    • @k1onie421
      @k1onie421 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      .
      p
      e
      n
      I
      s.
      Periodt

  • @Psychiatricnerd
    @Psychiatricnerd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The part where the friend says that just like an alcoholic “it’s still something you have to battle everyday” is spot on. It creeps in the back of your mind like a shadow. Just when you think you’re past it, something provokes the old habits.

  • @b068593
    @b068593 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13200

    she’s so lucky to have a man like this, i want to be this lucky too

    • @buttersbunt
      @buttersbunt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      he's lucky to have her too Q_Q

    • @drinkwateryoudumbydumb9380
      @drinkwateryoudumbydumb9380 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Bro! It’s true I sadly have to break up with my girlfriend because she is the completely different then these nice people!

    • @CMchyy
      @CMchyy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      blessed🙌🙌🙏❤

    • @shqipe4801
      @shqipe4801 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thats what i be sayin bruh

    • @MabelRD08
      @MabelRD08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too!

  • @c.reneecourtney5171
    @c.reneecourtney5171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2591

    The way he is looking at her while she watches this is so touching.

    • @koppilork
      @koppilork 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is called acting, he is the one who set up the camera.

    • @sagittariuslady2846
      @sagittariuslady2846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@koppilork you people never have anything nice to say shut the hell up

    • @hahah4305
      @hahah4305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@koppilork you gal tell that it comes from his heart why would he make such a emotional and real video and then act on it? You clearly have no respect

    • @hahah4305
      @hahah4305 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      *can

    • @ceaddacasarin3015
      @ceaddacasarin3015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The way he is looking at her while she watches this is so creepy.

  • @nicoleb1475
    @nicoleb1475 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15576

    People saying she’s not reacting obviously can’t read body language.

    • @laststanding5791
      @laststanding5791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Nope

    • @aveaillium8754
      @aveaillium8754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Who is saying that?!

    • @nicoleb1475
      @nicoleb1475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      People in other comments...

    • @aveaillium8754
      @aveaillium8754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@nicoleb1475 That's just weird.

    • @linnyroro3177
      @linnyroro3177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +262

      Dumtum42 you never get over an eating disorder just like he described in the video. You deal with it everyday and everyday is a struggle not to slip back into it. I’ve been fighting mine off and on for almost 20 years. It got really really bad about 8 years ago and I almost died but that doesn’t mean that I still don’t struggle with it everyday. Its always in the back of your mind calling your name and telling you that you’re failing because you’re enjoying a meal or your pants look like crap on you. Its f-ing hard!!!

  • @derryshore5586
    @derryshore5586 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Hey girl hang on to him, he is a keeper, and a lovely young man

  • @feelitnowmrkrabs1840
    @feelitnowmrkrabs1840 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4859

    him constantly glancing over to see her reaction is me when i show my friend a funny video

    • @gummywazhere7435
      @gummywazhere7435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      total me too lol

    • @weetardedcat2112
      @weetardedcat2112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      And them you realise the video isn't as funny and you thought it was...

    • @justinbelling9321
      @justinbelling9321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@weetardedcat2112 then you think alittle more and realise the twisted humour you posses 😰

    • @cheeselover4351
      @cheeselover4351 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@weetardedcat2112 ikr

    • @pc6054
      @pc6054 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@weetardedcat2112 and then u desperately try to cover it up by searching for another funny video but the moment is over and now he looks at your other friends phone and u just sit there like '' why am I not funny''

  • @a.l657
    @a.l657 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2677

    Anyone else thought he was going to break up with her on camera from the title?

    • @ukaramuslasher464
      @ukaramuslasher464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      A. L yeah bruh you’re not alone I thought the same thing I thought she was scared because he was going to break up on camera😭

    • @Bobbiii0.2
      @Bobbiii0.2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Proper clickbait title

    • @latjjtal
      @latjjtal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I don't think it's meant as clickbait. Overall I got the feeling that the guy has a serious ego. First, he decided it's his job to tell her story and he tells it from his perspective. He talks about how it affected his life and his relationships. He kind of implies that he saved her from her own social isolation. This definitely distracted me. Overall it's a good video and it brings attention to serious issues. But, it would have been better if he was less of a focus. It's kinda creepy how he keeps looking at her for reaction. I started to count how many times he drank coffee and tried to measure how much coffee he'd get each time. Is he fake drinking by the end while looking at her for reaction? That's insane! ;)

    • @princessstarwatcher4652
      @princessstarwatcher4652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A. L same

    • @sodisgusteen
      @sodisgusteen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A. L ya that’s called clickbait 😂

  • @drteddy2609
    @drteddy2609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1493

    In his defence, he said "we've been married for OVER 2 years" when you're married for 40 years, that's still over 2 years, so he wasn't lying! 😅

    • @mxbuns8454
      @mxbuns8454 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      40??

    • @leilaa1235
      @leilaa1235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      PrincessPetals no no. They’ve been married for OVER 2 years, so that includes any number above 2 :)

    • @KikiF7
      @KikiF7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s called double speak

    • @mxbuns8454
      @mxbuns8454 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leilaa1235 ohhh pftt im dumb lol

    • @reledpeak3324
      @reledpeak3324 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      PrincessPetals don’t worry I read it 7 times to realise what she meant

  • @sarahm.1632
    @sarahm.1632 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Haylee, I’m so proud of you for overcoming this extreme hurdle in your life. It proves you are strong minded and strong willed. You and your husband make an excellent team. Keep fighting the good fight. Even though those of us stand in solidarity with you, because we know that everyday is a battle, just know you’re not alone. Best of everything to you both.🥰🥰🥰

  • @daisydinah2852
    @daisydinah2852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3344

    "she almost died " ... he scratched his eyes trying not to cry

    • @lemongrab23
      @lemongrab23 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      time stamp?

    • @3213-d4o
      @3213-d4o 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You probably already know but 6:31

    • @ddaisymartinn
      @ddaisymartinn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Daisy Dinah my name is Daisy too!

    • @avabird01
      @avabird01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He loves her!

    • @nefariousnymph8622
      @nefariousnymph8622 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I teared up when he said that

  • @hollyniederer8581
    @hollyniederer8581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5787

    To everyone saying she isn't crying. She is. Inside.

    • @ebok98
      @ebok98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      Sometimes it’s too deep to cry

    • @johnwill8980
      @johnwill8980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      How do you know??

    • @hollyniederer8581
      @hollyniederer8581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      @@johnwill8980 she seems to be a very strong person who is fighting showing her emotions. But she has them .

    • @tyrawoodruff9835
      @tyrawoodruff9835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Women are so good at masking their emotions you generally won't know

    • @krisnnademillemariano3941
      @krisnnademillemariano3941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      At the end she did say she was holding back tears

  • @dylanthepickle6428
    @dylanthepickle6428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7611

    Hey kids. THIS is what love is. Not that romantic crap you see in the movie.

    • @michellemichelle5202
      @michellemichelle5202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

      Well, there’s nothing wrong with romance. But yes, there needs to be sacrifice and true attentiveness

    • @psylopanda2841
      @psylopanda2841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      This Is some crappy romantic thing that could be on a movie or something stupid like Gilmore Girls...
      No hating tho... The guy is a really creative dude and im happy that they have a good marriage...

    • @mandoky1647
      @mandoky1647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Well him caring about her and her condition is romantic in a way.

    • @haa4990
      @haa4990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@mandoky1647 for everyone to see him the way he portrays himself. That whole thing is strange..

    • @daniellakshan
      @daniellakshan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      true true

  • @i_sly_4479
    @i_sly_4479 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Had to stop myself from crying like 7 times. This was so amazing and it hits hard because it's so true. Great job on the editing and material for this video! Your both gorgeous souls and I'm so happy she's recovered and where she belongs, right next to you!

  • @rellcapone2763
    @rellcapone2763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2982

    Who else clicks and goes straight to the comments while watching

  • @soccerkylie202
    @soccerkylie202 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1402

    Not even kidding my church played this video during a service. We did a week of mental illnesses. Amazing video

    • @kiara_7822
      @kiara_7822 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      i love your church

    • @2ndchannell
      @2ndchannell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haha church 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣sheep

    • @hibye-by3yb
      @hibye-by3yb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@2ndchannell I wonder if what you say corresponds with what you truly believe after giving it a good deal of thought or you're simply saying what everyone around you says.

    • @waleedahmed8010
      @waleedahmed8010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @ekim andersom it isnt! People have different approaches to it.

    • @waleedahmed8010
      @waleedahmed8010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ekim andersom its funny how im born in finland as a muslim i guess then. Plus as i said people have different aåproaches on religions and you clearly are against religions, that can be considered as racism.

  • @iffi5303
    @iffi5303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7962

    so no one's talking about how he looked 25 at 14

    • @nissan2829
      @nissan2829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Or it could be that those pictures were taken when they became adults.

    • @sacredalien8011
      @sacredalien8011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      @@nissan2829 they were adults when they first met in school?

    • @kingjulian9069
      @kingjulian9069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      hair does that to us dudes honestly we’d rather look 5 years older than look like a little kid it’s why most boys try to get facial hair we hate getting treated like a little boy we’re men ladies ;)

    • @JustMe-mz3te
      @JustMe-mz3te 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Who cares?

    • @glingo2glingo988
      @glingo2glingo988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JustMe-mz3te 👌🌹

  • @coffee1207
    @coffee1207 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Just saw this tonight, 8/25/23...I'm so tired from work today.. emotionally spent.. this made my WHOLE day worth it ❤ sending my best, best wishes, and hopes to you all. Thank you

    • @wesna213
      @wesna213 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay strong, you got it all :)

  • @thayevangelista
    @thayevangelista 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5980

    tyler: "we have been married for over 2 years"
    haylee: 3 years
    ~delay~
    tyler: :)

    • @coraljones537
      @coraljones537 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      me: reads comment
      ~delay~
      me: :)

    • @uriapark8848
      @uriapark8848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      11:36
      Tyler : :) ...☕️... :))))))

    • @allyaltanhan7604
      @allyaltanhan7604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thayevangelista 2.9k

    • @ladyjay5551
      @ladyjay5551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      haha my thought process is, it was 2 years when he was filming, but with editing etc, it was probably close to 3 years by the time she actually saw the video.

    • @nextime6071
      @nextime6071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He said “ over 2 years “ so its technically more than 2 years

  • @that_missing_link
    @that_missing_link 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1251

    This woman is so lucky to have someone like him

  • @sophia-sb8bm
    @sophia-sb8bm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2689

    The way he keeps looking at her to make sure she’s okay is 🥺

    • @tribevibe9209
      @tribevibe9209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💙💙💙

    • @kyndness
      @kyndness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      He totally was trying not to cry. I’d be doing the very same thing.

    • @cjschmitt4882
      @cjschmitt4882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      He was looking at her for reaction; approval of what he created...sorry

    • @nanetteb4038
      @nanetteb4038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is so sweet!

    • @acegamer2220
      @acegamer2220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cjschmitt4882 fact bro🥺

  • @evelynelder307
    @evelynelder307 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Coming from someone who struggles with an eating disorder for 20 years, this hit home so deeply ❤

  • @NazeMayo427
    @NazeMayo427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1451

    Everyone needs to stop hating on her reaction. The emotion is in her eyes. I can see it.

    • @glrogers67
      @glrogers67 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      My wife is the same, she dont show much but she absorbs it. She was in a really bad relationship, and she has a hard time showing emotions, but I can pick it up. That's what matters!

    • @mrviewtiful3859
      @mrviewtiful3859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Where exactly?

    • @NazeMayo427
      @NazeMayo427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@glrogers67 yeah. Everyone is different and absorbs things in different ways. More people should try and be aware of that.

    • @shanecevitate8393
      @shanecevitate8393 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Not to mention the fact it’s really uncomfortable having people mention mental illnesses that you’ve struggled with. It’s embarrassing and painful when my partner brings it up. I’m so ashamed of what I did to myself and I can’t really show how bad it hurts, it’s just drowning inside my head in my own shame

    • @cl3109
      @cl3109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Americans are used to people screaming and faking it af. She was moved and happy and I guess he knows it, that's good enough.

  • @dalilahtrevino6793
    @dalilahtrevino6793 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5978

    lord give me patience to wait for a man like this one.

    • @statixlaw5675
      @statixlaw5675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      In the meantime, become worthy

    • @nicolasreyes2190
      @nicolasreyes2190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      You can help your partner improve. If you're waiting for the perfect partner while you yourself are not perfect it won't work. This couple grew together for years and years and years... They're together since 14. I guarantee you he wasn't so perfect from start... He grew and she had a big role on that... And viceversa.

    • @yeshalloween
      @yeshalloween 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      You have to BE and SEEK and GROW and IMPROVE. Then you’ll attract

    • @odetothemasses
      @odetothemasses 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Aside from the people above, be yourself. Someday you will find someone, whether Male or otherwise, and you will fall in love. If you feel you have some things to fix, go ahead! But not to the point where you lose yourself inside. 💕

    • @davidsizemore718
      @davidsizemore718 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Give me the patience to be a man like this one.

  • @hannahjohnson808
    @hannahjohnson808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +740

    Her face clearly shows that she’s holding back some tears. My face almost looks sorta mad like that whenever I do at least.

  • @scottbouley8204
    @scottbouley8204 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    That was the sweetest thing I’ve seen today, bravo guys

  • @esperanzaserrano8608
    @esperanzaserrano8608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6109

    “Literally no one will know”
    Now everyone knows

  • @913.Gabbyy
    @913.Gabbyy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1716

    THIS IS NOT A DIVORCE VIDEO JUST LETTING EVERYONE KNOW

    • @lucygillan19
      @lucygillan19 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s what I thought 😂

    • @shaunrocks12
      @shaunrocks12 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I honestly thought that's what it was gonna be, lol.
      Good thing it wasn't.
      I'm glad Haylee is doing better today.
      Keep it up, Haylee!

    • @angelmamma8635
      @angelmamma8635 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought the i left her was a brake up video

    • @krisspring3759
      @krisspring3759 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was hoping she would be on the market now.

    • @lukasschulze7764
      @lukasschulze7764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Tenacious_Tibbs uh oh

  • @tactnastyv2
    @tactnastyv2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2408

    Video: “she’s a fighter, and now she’s a leader”
    Ad: “MIKE BLOOMBERG FOR PRESIDENT”
    shit let me slightly tear up in peace.

    • @baileyburns6226
      @baileyburns6226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Garrett Vincent so inconsiderate 😂😂

    • @zeldeus6803
      @zeldeus6803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      G e t P r e m i u m

    • @sugamylove2954
      @sugamylove2954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Meeeeee 😂😂😂

    • @bellal3167
      @bellal3167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yo, that happened to me toooo😂

    • @julianvillegas6058
      @julianvillegas6058 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ew Bloomberg

  • @Theodicy101
    @Theodicy101 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    As a healthcare provider with also a master's in psych, I applaud your video. It was excellent...a wonderful, loving tribute to your wife, but also educating everyone and giving hope to those with eating disoders and to those who care about them. I notice that this was posted 4 years ago, and I'm hopeful that the years have been kind to you both and that you all are still together and still just as much in love--or more.

  • @daniellemartin6374
    @daniellemartin6374 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1132

    The love he has for her.. need that in my life

    • @sophearyouk4129
      @sophearyouk4129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sometimes we have that but we let them go

    • @Surelinefoams
      @Surelinefoams 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Like with myself I waited for her like 15 yrs then moved to states and the end was from her and she still regrets...

    • @sophearyouk4129
      @sophearyouk4129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @TAKKAS DERMAWAN PASARIBU oh never, I was talking about guys who let me go lol

    • @nv8949
      @nv8949 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sopheary Ouk lmao

  • @ethand7854
    @ethand7854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +693

    I can’t thank you enough. This opened my eyes to a whole new world. Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 months ago due to some severe PTSD from a past abusive relationship. Like he said it just became harder and harder to understand and I began to get frustrated with the situation instead of helping in the ways I should have. It’s not about me it’s about her and she made me so happy. I don’t know where we’ll end up but thanks for waking up my pathetic self centered butt to go and support the most amazing girl on this earth. I cannot thank you enough. God bless you guys

    • @shqipe4801
      @shqipe4801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      i hope you guys find eachother again :)!

    • @edenelisa
      @edenelisa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You’re a good person

    • @iiBandage
      @iiBandage 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That bean boy Hope your doing well.

    • @sunleo6161
      @sunleo6161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      My heart 😭 Please go and try to understand. I have the same thing and many guys will feed off of it so Ive been single for years now. Try to be understanding for her

    • @teeqolegend1909
      @teeqolegend1909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Go get her

  • @caitlindean4682
    @caitlindean4682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2141

    I wanna say girl marry him; but she already did

  • @soyburglar77
    @soyburglar77 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These guys just seem so sweet. The way that he watched her for cues about how she may be feeling, her compliments at the end and just how supportive and encouraging she was about the overall piece…so good!

  • @picklesbruh
    @picklesbruh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2225

    Where did u order him😭😭he’s literally perfect, i wish i had a person that cared for me like this

    • @theunicorn621
      @theunicorn621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      There's some super kind and beautifull person out there. But they are not many !!

    • @AlbaDoggy
      @AlbaDoggy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For real!!

    • @Hearbout.c
      @Hearbout.c 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Clorox Bleach same

    • @brrrrrrrrino
      @brrrrrrrrino 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too 😔

    • @MacenW
      @MacenW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And I wish I had a girl to hang out with me everyday like she did... Just to be comforted and loved, I'm just worried I don't have the money...

  • @AlbaDirectionerHoran
    @AlbaDirectionerHoran 5 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    The way he is looking at her while watching the video melts my heart. She is so lucky😭😍

  • @anggel999
    @anggel999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3573

    I didn’t actually think it was possible for people to marry their 7th grade crush but ig it’s true

    • @kellysutherin7548
      @kellysutherin7548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Lonely Shoelace I’m engaged to my 7th grade crush ❤️

    • @comeonheydaddy2921
      @comeonheydaddy2921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@kellysutherin7548 how

    • @kellysutherin7548
      @kellysutherin7548 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ashlie Ace sheer luck that late in life we meet again after high school

    • @stefuhni
      @stefuhni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm married to my 7th grade crush. We started dating at 16, and we are 29 now.

    • @SiSi-oi2or
      @SiSi-oi2or 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      my parents did !!!

  • @annaliadesigns
    @annaliadesigns 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Its amazing how in her darkest time when she was alone and visibly sick, that was when he knew he loved her. Not when she looked her "prettiest" or did something super nice for him, but at a moment when she needed help and he knew that he needed to be the one to help her. Thats true love right there 🥺

  • @YasuTaniina
    @YasuTaniina 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4090

    I'm really annoyed at the title. It's been recommended to me for ages and I've been avoiding it for months because it sounded awful and full of too much drama. If I had known it was going to be a sweet story I would have watched it earlier.

    • @lilanholy
      @lilanholy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Same!

    • @She-gribble
      @She-gribble 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Bruuuhhhh, i've been ignoring so many times.

    • @mariebernier3076
      @mariebernier3076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@She-gribble I'm still ignoring this clickbait sh"t bcuz of the deceit.

    • @bicooo1
      @bicooo1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Omg same! I’m not mad anymore because it’s so beautiful but it maybe should have another title

    • @jason.simone
      @jason.simone 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I felt similar but also wondered if it had some deeper meaning to him. It seems like the guilt that he carries is that he left her alone when she was battling one of the toughest times in her life.

  • @warmdusk
    @warmdusk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1437

    The way he looks at her throughout the video is crazy. You can just see the loving tenderness flooding from his eyes..

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Would be nice if women could have those eyes too now a days..

    • @gisellehooks
      @gisellehooks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honestly!!

    • @celt3331
      @celt3331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TheyCallMe Doug we do ? Stop generalising us

    • @celt3331
      @celt3331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TheyCallMe Doug stfu

  • @jenniferfitzgerald1796
    @jenniferfitzgerald1796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1198

    Her face told it all. She was really paying attention and processing all that. Great video.