Patrick Bet David Talks Being A Top Tier 1% Man, Masculine Leadership, Best Marriage Advice + More

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  • @TheRoommatesPodcast
    @TheRoommatesPodcast  2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sign up for Shortform here: shortform.com/theroommates

    • @Calvinmob681
      @Calvinmob681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to thank you and Patrick doe doing this. Many of us didn't have father figures or big brothers to help us navigate the world, business, and what a takes to be a man.

    • @maxmuller2769
      @maxmuller2769 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What advice would you give to 19years old student

  • @ybatoba
    @ybatoba 2 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Oooweeeee!! Everything he said about relationships. Managing expectations, looking at both sides, creating timelines, etc. My goodness, this guy is ON POINT!

    • @Lo-to7zh
      @Lo-to7zh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No you are wrong ! Not everything is said about relationships. He does not explain the importance of physical appearance and height...

    • @ybatoba
      @ybatoba 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lo-to7zh ok.

    • @Lo-to7zh
      @Lo-to7zh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ybatoba these people brainwash you

    • @reddunk3744
      @reddunk3744 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He does say physical attraction is important

  • @marvinfrancois1
    @marvinfrancois1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    PBD is 1 of 1. Everytime he talks, I listen. Period. The conviction is his eyes, the passion he conveys, but more importantly the principles he stands on, he is truly a role model for me in my entrepreneurial journey.
    If you haven’t already, buy his newest book, definitely a great read. Looking forward to meeting this man and getting the chance to speak with him in the near future

    • @blehbleheh
      @blehbleheh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Seriously. He's the kind of man who makes no apologies for being a man.

    • @Cardcitysports
      @Cardcitysports 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here man!

    • @alainportant6412
      @alainportant6412 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Y'ALL A BIG FAN OF THE BLACKS... RACISM END SHITE

  • @chasingmypinnacle
    @chasingmypinnacle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    PBD is a man I aspire to be. He has the temperament, work ethic, discipline, vision, relentlessness and open mindedness I so desperately need.

  • @angellorenzoa
    @angellorenzoa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    PBD is a super hero! I don’t care what anyone says. Also, I love what he said about being passionate and fulfilled. I’m a 25 year old gym owner. In my book, I already beat the odds. I’ve been on this journey for the last 4 years. Everything that I accomplish from here on out is icing on the cake. I have nothing left to prove. I already proved everyone wrong. But! I’ll continue to grow, learn, and teach. My purpose continues…

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Congrats bro. What was the process in acquiring the gym?

    • @angellorenzoa
      @angellorenzoa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@michael43567
      Group trainer
      Personal trainer
      Renting a private studio for a few hours
      Save money to open gym

    • @michael43567
      @michael43567 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angellorenzoa nice. Keep thriving!

    • @chasingmypinnacle
      @chasingmypinnacle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep it up brother!

  • @92thegoat
    @92thegoat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’ll be real. Pbd brought me to tears. He holds the mirror up and makes you have honest discourse within. We have to take control of our own lives

  • @idinahuy6929
    @idinahuy6929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hafeez has a gift to make himself sound super smart and passionate while saying completely obvious things

    • @drhwei
      @drhwei 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao. Bro chill out 😂

    • @shutop7321
      @shutop7321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😂😂U right

    • @ripscrewzu
      @ripscrewzu ปีที่แล้ว

      Lot of people that sound smart who are average- they ain’t in Custom suits choppin game with PBD

    • @idinahuy6929
      @idinahuy6929 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ripscrewzu Kardeshians also get to talk to many famous people and are also always dressed well. But that doesn't mean that anything that they ever say is special. All this shows is that we live in truly bizzare times

    • @ripscrewzu
      @ripscrewzu ปีที่แล้ว

      @@idinahuy6929 this is true, but I think this perspective is lacking root cause thinking. For both Hafeez and the Kardashians (who morally are deplorable but one can learn from their advertising and marketing without doing porn) what you are seeing is a moment in time. Hafeez sitting here with PBD in a custom suit is a symptom of something much bigger that nobody sees. He didn’t just arrive at this interview. It took years of building his business and working on himself professionally and personally. The type of work Most people never put in. Same for Kardashians. Behind all the wealth is massive action and planning. We’re seeing the fruits of work done when nobody was looking and saying WOW. But putting on a fly outfit doesn’t get you here. The fly outfit is a byproduct

  • @MsKingwa
    @MsKingwa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was the best of everything. Nobility, intelligence, idealism, vision, realism, pragmatism. Great interviewing skills, great insights from PBD. Videos like these make me feel there is hope for humanity.

  • @silungile3022
    @silungile3022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This is the type of podcast one needs to keep coming back to keep soaking up the wisdom! Thanks Hafeez and shout out to the big G, Patrick! Great work!

  • @knywtn
    @knywtn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I got emotional when he talked about his kid living in his shadow. Such great parenting tips

  • @sentiasatransformasi
    @sentiasatransformasi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    PBD is underrated. he collects information from both sides n present the facts as it is.

  • @erickt9415
    @erickt9415 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    can't help to see PBD as some type of super human. very inspriationl and moving. I see hes a genuine person. Wishing him and his family all the best. Also wishing everyone on here the best!

  • @ryanjtolbert
    @ryanjtolbert 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    3X with the GOAT. Really appreciate y’all for bring Pat Bet David to the show once again! So many practical gems here.

  • @putyou0ngame
    @putyou0ngame 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "God has given me the power to bully the bullies and i am well qualified" if you know, you know. PBD the Goat.

  • @mondieki
    @mondieki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Every episode Patrick has been on is a certified banger! He is such a positive influence.

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Patrick is the king of analogies

  • @techman2192
    @techman2192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love this guy, especially about the part of managing expectations, spot on!!!

    • @stephankekana4080
      @stephankekana4080 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is genuinle of the best, not only as a Business Man, but as a Man of worth! The kind of people MEN can learn & actually look up to in all aspects of live, watching many influencers and millionares, but must sy i feel Him & Vusi Thembekyo are rock solid! Must admit the Older Patrick gets the more detailed he becomes with his leadership & approach to life!!!

    • @techman2192
      @techman2192 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stephankekana4080 I don't think I heard Vusi before

  • @aaronhumphrey3670
    @aaronhumphrey3670 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Patrick Bet David is the GOAT! Humble yet so much practical wisdom! Love it when he is on the podcast.

  • @thabisotobedzaothusitse5395
    @thabisotobedzaothusitse5395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This has by far been the best high-quality conversation I have heard in my life
    Thank you so very much, Hafeez and Patrick Bet David!!!!

  • @Defeat_Doubt
    @Defeat_Doubt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Best virtual mentor I’ve ever had! Thanks for having him on the show!

  • @aqua0150
    @aqua0150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m a simple guy. I see PBD, i like the video.

  • @larrialtylerjr4795
    @larrialtylerjr4795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This episode was eye opening and enlightening. I love the tenacity and the respect you 2 have for one another’s opinion. That’s true masculinity. 10 of 10 experience.

  • @emmanuelrodriguez3066
    @emmanuelrodriguez3066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    oh yea oh yea. I was literally watching both "20 rules for young men" from both channels.

  • @IrvOfficial
    @IrvOfficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a certified gem dropping episode

  • @lisasligh1577
    @lisasligh1577 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Notice how he is a very confident established successful man who is married and settled. Who doesn't have any children out of wedlock. Who comes from an intact community. Who has two parents homes. He had his struggled but he does not play victim like AA men do when they are more than capable to rebuilding their communities when they choose to work together as a collective to do so.
    This man Provides for his wife and children. Amen. Love you Patrick. You remind me of my father and grandfather. Real men .
    Like me, his children are born in wedlock. He is extremely masculine. He engages real men who are actually building industry. This is a wonderful example of the manosphere culture.
    . I watch his show ...he competes with men ..he goes told to toe with men which is something that many of the manisphere platforms do not do. The victimology that he discusses is quite common and the cornerstone of the exploitation of the poverty lack of resources fatherless crisis and crime that is quite rampant within our culture. Much is always blamed on racism, the white man , the black woman, cointelpro, MK ultra etc etc the victimology he discussed.
    Normally men in that manosphere culture come together to talk about women and what they need to do. Or they focus on the smallest minority of women and exploit the dysfunction in their communities that have no resources, no good schools, no good agricultural services or health services, no financial investment that has been brought to the community within the culture. That role is usually held by The gatekeepers the men in the community.
    He is a real man whog oes out into the world and takes on other men and doesn't sit around complaining about what women need to do to help him become a man. He does not whine about submission and seek out blame like the AA male culture.
    This man is extremely positive. Something that many males in the manosphere culture struggles with. He's extremely disciplined focused and has sound Mental Health. I do not see narcissistic or histrionic tendencies when I watch him on his platform or see him in countless interviews.
    I guarantee you his community looks nothing like the typical low income AA community dominated by AA males, single exhausted mother's, poverty, no marriage , no fathers, women and children left behind in poverty.
    No gang violence or massive male participation in intergenerational drug dealing or drug war.
    I am proud to see this host attempting to strive for some assemblance of true manhood. I applaud you for this move in the right direction. I hope that this is the beginning of seeking and learning what it means to be a man and not a male.
    I hope that men and women in our community can go their separate ways in peace build amongst themselves and maybe after Generations they can eventually find their way back to each other I do believe that there's always exceptions to the rule that it is beautiful to see healthy intact black men and women married with children in wedlock but we all know that's a very rare and special gift too much damage has been done by the masculine counterpart and now the damage to the feminine counterpart of the community is a very deep wound I believe some time apart and healing through the generations will restore and repair.

  • @traciesplace
    @traciesplace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing interview Hafese!!! Patrick for President 2024- this type of leadership is what this country needs 🙌🏽 Also congratulations on your new marriage! 🎉

    • @products4less409
      @products4less409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice thought but ain't happening. He wasnt born in the United States.

  • @kotiandeyomo
    @kotiandeyomo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This interview changed my outlook on life PERIOD

  • @jdolo4670
    @jdolo4670 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im 28 and I NEEDED to watch this Im trying to improve my career and conquer all my vices

  • @demetriusd1476
    @demetriusd1476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    One of the best interviews thus far!! I listened to this twice!

  • @coreyjoyner1372
    @coreyjoyner1372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This conversation was exactly what I needed to hear. So much to digest!

  • @adrianhernandez6845
    @adrianhernandez6845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Definitely shed a tear on a couple subjects here ! The wisdom and strategy in this is so so good !

  • @deathrune139
    @deathrune139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yesss sirrrrr, great podcast - great perspective ^^ one of the things I had to right down was when Patrick was speaking about his son - about what to pray for - courage - wisdom - tolerance - you pray for that - 100% you will find your definition of success 🙌

  • @michael43567
    @michael43567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No one:
    Patrick to his newborn: But let me ask you a question....

  • @alexf4941
    @alexf4941 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of PBD’s best interviews, absolutely on fire! BUT also some of the most thoughtful and respectful responses and questions from the interviewer. 10/10

  • @naumsennicov9388
    @naumsennicov9388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    48:05 - "totally respect it, go get em" had me inspired

  • @Ermagerd2000
    @Ermagerd2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really appreciate the positivity you guys bring. Keep up the awesome work!

  • @realmikeshear
    @realmikeshear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    INCREDIBLE conversation! had to almost watch/listen to each section two times to really grasp everything. So many sections had a "ah hAAA" moment to it that had me thinking through it and not listening to the next. World of wealth here especially in the marriage portion in the last 15 mins.

  • @aymen3789
    @aymen3789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Was waiting for a third interview of the goat for a long time.
    Thank you Hafeez.

  • @geraldselorm509
    @geraldselorm509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One word for this podcast, Impact

  • @Terrell_D
    @Terrell_D 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anytime you have PBD on it’s insightful and feeds the soul, keep up the great work 👍🏾

  • @DelgadoSpeaks
    @DelgadoSpeaks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy is phenomenal. Great interview.

  • @lovev9904
    @lovev9904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm an Independent Latino. Thank you The Roommates!!!.. 7:37 This is why Patrick is KING!! Poor, who wants to be poor? Ask one of my many hero's Queen actress Viola Davis.

  • @otsam1050
    @otsam1050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I might disagree with the MLM insurance thing, but Patrick speaks some great gems

    • @wesb287
      @wesb287 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like the MLM distinction. I’m an agent and I’ve hated that part of every company

    • @otsam1050
      @otsam1050 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@wesb287 for sure man, I'm an engineer. Back when at college I did a quick stint with similar companies. It basically is setup to reward guys at the top like Patrick, without having to invest in any product, or workers like a traditional company does. Most of their emphasis is just personal development/motivation which you'll realize is Patrick's strong point.

  • @federicogiller5741
    @federicogiller5741 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb interview. Thank you for the questions. I am listening through the loudspeakers, and my 13 year old son asked me to pause it when he left the room - because he was listening too and getting so much from it. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!

  • @reganxmas
    @reganxmas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Incredible interview!!! I'm going to watch the whole thing again right now!

  • @Gregory8732
    @Gregory8732 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing video. Thank you Hafez and Pat.
    Congrats on 500k!

  • @ugwuokechukwuemeka3041
    @ugwuokechukwuemeka3041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is Gold, one for the ages!

  • @scottsmith2724
    @scottsmith2724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Loved this episode! So cool how just basic topics of purpose, values and work ethic are so powerful.

  • @ultimatelatina
    @ultimatelatina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm excited to see PBD speak live in Vegas 🥳 He is a wealth of wisdom & knowledge

  • @kwanelengwekazi
    @kwanelengwekazi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This man is incredible dude.

  • @Realizinq
    @Realizinq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This dude PBD is my dad lol been watchin him since I was 14, feels like he made me who I am. True G

  • @e.f5431
    @e.f5431 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like that idea to have debates as a form or education. This is exactly why we have TH-cam. It's all on TH-cam!!
    This is a wonderful episode!!

  • @imdee9024
    @imdee9024 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who is this MACHINE! What a man!

  • @user-bz8zq4mk3l
    @user-bz8zq4mk3l 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Patrick is a class act lovely fella 👊🏽💯

  • @74mykael
    @74mykael 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great interview , PBD is an amazing man ...loved the topics

  • @abdulazizalmaneea177
    @abdulazizalmaneea177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So much wisdom from both of these gentlemen! 🙏🏼👍🏼

  • @mylesmikieal
    @mylesmikieal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great conversation brotha

  • @Damontk1d
    @Damontk1d 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That story with his son 😢. I’m not crying you’re crying.

  • @personalleadershipmastery
    @personalleadershipmastery 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes we spend too much time looking at the logical things we need to perform at a high level. We spend way too much time on thinking about skill_ we do not spend enough time talking about will. That was deep. It hit hard👏🏽

  • @ivanoshanahanvalentine4657
    @ivanoshanahanvalentine4657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Legendary interview, thanks for bringing out so much wisdom from Pat

  • @joeyq.5606
    @joeyq.5606 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved the overall message.
    Only notifier is his Joe Burrow speach. (Running with someone’s business opportunity at first sight. You can be taken advantage of if you don’t filter the person involved. (Hands on experience)

  • @IAmMrNotes
    @IAmMrNotes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The wisdom in these interviews are golden

  • @Wolfenstein69924
    @Wolfenstein69924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This guy is dropping straight facts! Sounds a lot like my dad.

  • @ironman54724
    @ironman54724 ปีที่แล้ว

    Monumental conversation 🔥

  • @wilfigs9705
    @wilfigs9705 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hafeez great interviews on a consistent basis!💯

  • @k-clarke5375
    @k-clarke5375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing questions, and amazing conversation. I was certainly blessed by this dialogue, keep up the good work.

  • @driveneco
    @driveneco 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PBD is the man but i was more impressed with your composure and the depth of your questions. awesome interviewing skills.

  • @pradippun5801
    @pradippun5801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Greatest of all time patrick bet david

  • @neighborhoodchris2212
    @neighborhoodchris2212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This interview was a gift. Thank you

  • @lyngrey4186
    @lyngrey4186 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love it when Patrick says "Kay"...I just love.

  • @MahdiTidjani
    @MahdiTidjani 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That colour really suits Pat

  • @clg076
    @clg076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are an absolute “great interviewer “ !! I wish I could be in Dallas participating in The Standard events !! Love your station and all platforms. I am a patreon

  • @Wwesvr11bestprojects
    @Wwesvr11bestprojects 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    37:20 this put me back on track

  • @jonnymarciano
    @jonnymarciano 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Top work on this one boys! PBD always delivers!!

  • @healthywildfree
    @healthywildfree 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gold.

  • @faceluckcell9484
    @faceluckcell9484 ปีที่แล้ว

    one for the ages Loved topic this episod

  • @Diskihub
    @Diskihub 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Had to come back again

  • @renxoramos4465
    @renxoramos4465 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have to rewatch this Podcast! Too many great insights by pbd !

  • @thatkatia
    @thatkatia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved every minute of it

  • @ShameenYakubu
    @ShameenYakubu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a great show. Patrick was an excellent guest.

  • @67502realestateambassador
    @67502realestateambassador 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your Managing Expectations!!!
    Genius!!!🙌

  • @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee
    @MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You knocked this out the park brotha.

  • @juandelarosa9432
    @juandelarosa9432 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations, great interview to a great man 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @ThuIaniNgobeni
    @ThuIaniNgobeni 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love PBD.. the subject about really touched me 100%!!!! wow

  • @erictheovercomer7060
    @erictheovercomer7060 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the episodes with Patterson, PBD and Jose Juniga!

  • @gymboy2119
    @gymboy2119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is amazing! Thank you for this content

  • @boxingrican
    @boxingrican 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love pbd. I do envy his going over it attitude. I tend to doubt myself a lot. Bro a Christian it bothers me bc gods word says a double minded man is unstable in all his ways. God Bless you guys and may we walk in healing that Jesus provides. Peace

    • @triplea6174
      @triplea6174 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry what do you mean by going over it attitude?

    • @boxingrican
      @boxingrican 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@triplea6174 I think I meant to say going above it attitude it. Like not being content

  • @SADDIQ-ALI
    @SADDIQ-ALI 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was head of security at Harlem Children Zone , that’s a absolute fact at HCZ

  • @RyotheRogue
    @RyotheRogue ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite part 36:53

  • @THEADISPLAY
    @THEADISPLAY 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Underrated interview

  • @AG-hl1ni
    @AG-hl1ni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Patrick Bet David for president.

    • @jonfavale
      @jonfavale 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately he can’t be

    • @AG-hl1ni
      @AG-hl1ni 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jonfavale its always the good ones.
      Dang.

  • @davidlakhter
    @davidlakhter 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    47:25 so competition is just that animating drive that'll sustain you

  • @apotheekkaaikhofbv
    @apotheekkaaikhofbv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    great content. tnx alot

  • @samuelyor9017
    @samuelyor9017 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Roommate are 500k Subs 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @OraneenarO
    @OraneenarO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven't watch it yet but I'm going to predict that PBD is going to be the one to conduct the interview. This man is an interviewer at heart and his curiosity knows no bounds. Can't wait to watch it.

  • @DavidAzua
    @DavidAzua 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1st video I've seen of this channel and I'm subscribed... @The Roommates I think I see where Pats headed as well. I think he has a bigger purpose than his businesses and wouldn't be surprised if he does something crazy and run for President. I know it sounds crazy af but he's not one to set boundaries.
    Great interview 👍

    • @products4less409
      @products4less409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice thought but ain't happening. He wasnt born in the United States.

  • @EscapedTheMatrix
    @EscapedTheMatrix 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pastor Hafeez!😂 keep up the good work bro💪

  • @neodaltiair8624
    @neodaltiair8624 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Epic episode....PBD is great.

  • @The_future_looks_bright
    @The_future_looks_bright 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview!!

  • @loarmaylo8371
    @loarmaylo8371 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview thank you 🙏🏿