expectations are important. I like what he’s saying but at the 8:55 mark I would disagree. Wife, then kids should always come before your business. If expectations are unreasonable for the family you gotta reassess imo.
One thing it’s helped us is Dr. Jordan Peterson’s advice to slay the dragons while they’re baby and not let them grow (in other words, address issues you find when they’re small enough and not let them build up so much they start creating bitterness, anger, and resentment).
What should you do if you did not slay the dragon because of laziness and fear and are now starting to feel bitterness, anger, and resentment? Is it too late?
@@eddy1537 In my personal experience, it's better to stop it from keeping on growing. Those conversations are never easy, and always unpleasant, but they help in the end. When I do this, the first thing I like to do is acknowledge my own flaws, and point at myself identifying things I could be doing better and where I fall short. Then what I've seen helps as well is not pointing fingers saying "you're terrible because you're doing this..." that never works, and it puts people on defense. It's really all about tact, and carefully-chosen words, and working to regulate emotions during the conversation with long pauses, and deep breathing lol. I won't say here that we handle these situations perfectly. Not at all. We're always learning, but listening to psychologists and other personal development figures definitely helps us deal with the situations better. Read the book How to Win Friends and Influence People and Extreme Ownership. I think we can all learn a lot from those two books in helping us deal with not just our spouses, but also people in general.
This is more powerful than most people realize. I met my now wife in university back when I was overweight and poor so the expectation was not corvettes and luxury vacations. Friends of mine who are single go on these lavish first dates to fancy restaurants or clubs and blow hundreds of dollars for no reason. MEN don't create a persona that you can't model consistently.
@She Knows Usually the person who puts in the most effort has the least power. If a man puts in a lot of work, the woman loses interest because she begins to think he's lesser quality and can do better.
No. All risk and no benefit for men and women have an incentive to divorce and reap cash, house and cars and prizes. Wake up old boy. Face reality... not bullshit that sounds good to you.
@@dijonpsalm6938 millionaire, tall, good shape for his 40's, well knowledgeable, great head on his shoulders and overall just a great dude. Sounds like 1% guy to me.
@neal cassady None of that matters. He us being upfront and getting what he wants out of the relationship while making sure he is managing expections. All that stuff you said is just irrational fear. You can never know what someone truly feels regardless of financial situation. You have to judge actions. Which I'm sure he does. Being broke or living check yo check won't garuntee you loyalty and true love either...so stop the excuses
@@CadillacBoss30 Makes you think if "True love" is even a real thing or something two individuals convince themselves into believing because of the benefits they receive from each other.
If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire. Challenge yourself and challenge back if you have other points of view. All the best to you!
I honestly cant say I did this knowingly. My Fiancée (recently engaged) and I have been together for 3 years and I have always kept things modest (she really appreciates the small things like opening doors for her and getting her flowers. These are things I know I can maintain indefinitely) I just never realized the importance of not "over shooting" and creating expectations you cant live up to.
Damn that example about business partners changing really hit home for me and the question of: "How long is that sustainable in business?" Not married yet but I am really learning a lot from this channel. Systems are really important for conflict resolution man!
I have honestly decided to model my future marriage base on PBD’s advice about managing expectations with my significant other. Love him and his amazing family.
I am so glad I figured this out before getting married. Some of what this guy said is something I should have considered, but my wife and I took time to talk about everything we wanted before getting married.
At times it can feel like it’s easier to love others than it is to love ourselves. If you don’t love yourself how can you expect others to love you? If you don’t love yourself, you might accept a type of love that is less than what you deserve.
When it's put like this, marriage is something I can strive for But to find someone to do it with... Well... My issue was never really the doing part. Moreso finding someone that I can do it with
It’s refreshing to hear a man say he was looking for a wife. The takeaway is communication between partners is key. Premarital counseling usually entails managing expectations and creating methods for conflict resolution. As a single woman who is still out here dating. I’m learning to see past what men show me and into who they really are. I try to get a true idea of what my life would look like with them…Basically knowing what to truly expect. Peace, love, financial stability, cleanliness, and similar standards for living are important to me
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I wanna grow up to be a man similar to them, I’ve been with a great girl for a while now and I’ve taken the roommates tips and things are working out really really well
@neal cassady With a couple who has children, each person is entitled to have a career/job. For many families to live well both parents must work. You are a narrow minded bigot
So the biggest take away here is be a millionaire like pat because that’s what made his marriage work. If you believe his have expectations bs you don’t understand life.
So accurate. I respect both of these guys, however this isn’t a great representation of how typical marriages play out. Taking away the stress of finances changes the hell out of this guys situations. A better take away on why this worked was bc he went in basically saying “I have money/women/status, if you want to be apart of that cool, if not you can walk I don’t need you”. That’s why his marriage has worked
You can still take away the managing expectations part of this though. The process of the partnership using their problem-solving skills. Conversation and communication, the importance of being on the same page. If you think finances define a successful marriage then marriage isn't for you.
@@dijonpsalm6938 I totally agree. Managing expectations is key in any kind of partnership you ever enter. That has nothing to do with marriage that’s simply a business mentality which he is obviously elite at. My point is simply if you listen to the entire thing it’s him setting the tone and her complying with said tone. He’s calling all the shots(new ring/vacation/etc). This isn’t working bc of managing expectations, it’s working bc she’s submitting to his expectations. If she had any leverage then managing the expectations would be a lot more difficult, the average marriage is gonna have way more push/pull then this guys relationship 👍🏻
@@JeffMcclain3 aint no women “managing expectations “ with yo ass if YOU NOT RICH 😂😂 dont let her make more money than you too… this dudes wife is probly getting piped by the pool boy while he’s gone, these married folks swear marriage is the life bcus it makes their image and status looks good
Build yourself into a man of character, a man of your word, loyal and trustworthy and expect the same qualities from the woman that you care about. AS rare as such people are, both men and women, there are a bunch out there, and if you will connect with one, you will have a great relationship in which both of you will thrive. If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire. All the best to you!
Build yourself into a man of character, a man of your word, loyal and trustworthy and expect the same qualities from the woman that you care about. As rare as such people are, both men and women, there are a bunch out there, and if you will connect with one, you will have a great relationship in which both of you will thrive. If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire. All the best to you!
If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire. Challenge yourself and challenge back if you have other points of view. All the best to you!
He WAS already ballin. Lol But the principal is to have knowledge of self, standards, and men know ya "love language" so to speak because it establishes ya value to a woman from jump so she knows exactly how to look out for you. Women do it do us so why aren't we giving them OUR VALUE AND MISSION STATEMENT. It needs to be established first.
Fantastic advice, but the Engagement book on the 2nd date will scare off 90% of women guaranteed. I think his now wife stuck around because he was already successful when he gave her the book. He already had something to show for, so his now wife was willing to wait. The OTHER thing is that she was the type of sensible woman to be willing to wait and not be resistant to this man growing his business! Good luck trying to find a patient Gen Z woman or Younger Millennial!! Most are too impulsive and don't have patience/ vision
spot on! i was on a date with a girl, she said I had my life "figured/planned out" too well it sounded scary.. she wanted to live life day by day.. she didn't like to plan things... needless to say.. she didn't want to pursue a relationship with me.. as much as I like Patrick i must say that being direct with a woman nowadays is pointless and useless.. they are just in for the Vibe and the sparks nowadays.. Patrick is from another time/generation... this type of advice won't apply to 90% of us men
It’s not for a woman to ‘stick around’ and have patience. Women often suffer from taking a man on his word and his potential as opposed to what and who he really is. Another fault of women is often projecting what they hope for and see in a man and not taking him for face value. A lot of men leave their ‘starter wife’ or supportive gf once they achieve success. Many of whom claim they associate that woman with their struggles coming up and want a woman they can view as part of their new found success. It’s too much of a gamble for a woman to wait and have patience. Biological clock doesn’t wait. If she gets pregnant during the patience stage and he cannot help support the family financially or physically as he is ‘chasing his dream’, the woman is left with the burden of both of their decisions. Ride or die is dead. It’s unfair and not realistic to expect of a woman.
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I get the point being made but my gosh, I would hate to have to depend on my man to buy me a handbag and set rules/timelines around it. Sounds like parenting/control tactics as opposed to an equal partnership.
Boil all this advice and most of this kind of advice into two phrases: stand up straight, have a spine. Embody that kind of spirit and you’ll be fine kids.
Patrick says that he only lives in his marriage one year at a time to me that seams like he is giving himself an out like his marriage doesn't matter if I was his wife I would be in fear that he would wake up one day and decide that he didn't want to go another year.
Yes, they can. Every woman is different when it comes to details and specifics but when it comes to the grand scheme of things, the majority of us want a guy who is kind, loyal, respectful, mentally, emotionally, financially, spiritually, and physically stable with room for growth.
What makes a man is his character and his word. It doesn't matter if you have millions or just a normal job. Money does not make you more or less valuable. Build yourself into a man of character, a man of your word, loyal and trustworthy and expect the same qualities from the woman that you care about. As rare as such people are, both men and women, there are a bunch out there, and if you will connect with one, you will have a great relationship in which both of you will thrive. If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire. All the best to you!
That is exactly the case - I don't know why so many people even other with the vows if that is their thinking process. Not sure if I would call it Western but perhaps contemporary.
Kevin Samuels got all of these young lost men dressing up in suits and thinking they’re “high value”…man take that goofy shet off and just be yourself bro🤦♂️
As an investing enthusiast, I often wonder how top level investors are able to become millionaires off investing. I do have a significant amount of capital that is required to start up but I have no idea what strategies and direction I need to approach to help me make decent returns
Before investing. I would highly recommand you to read a few books before. Books like Common stock and uncommom profits and the intelligent investor. They will help you alot.
If you are not conversant with the markets, I'd advise you to get some kind of advise or assistance from a financial/investing coach. It might sound basic or generic, but getting in touch with an investment broker was how I was able to outperform the market and raise a profit of $250,000 since last year sep, For me, its the most ideal way to jump into the market these days.
@@andrewwiggins3190 My consultant is *Stacey* *Lee* *Jamieson* I found her on a CNBC interview where she was featured and reached out to her afterwards. She has since provide entry and exit points on the securities I focus on. You can look her up if you care supervision. I basically follow her trade pattern and haven’t regretted doing so
The only advice I want is to how to prepare for the divorce and win in family court. All this advice about how to date and stay married sounds nice albeit unrealistic is great but if you are a successful man and get married, and heaven forbid have some kids, the wife now has a gun to your head ready to use at the optimum time-divorce and family court. How to handle that is what needs to be shown whether it be hiding your money while married or in fact try to marry a woman who is richer or more successful than you are which goes against what most men want, which is not a career first woman.
Build yourself into a man of character, a man of your word, loyal and trustworthy and expect the same qualities from the woman that you care about. As rare as such people are, both men and women, there are a bunch out there, and if you will connect with one, you will have a great relationship in which both of you will thrive. If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire. All the best to you!
@@kingvan143 Good to hear. Respect to you. I hope you will serve as an example for others and share your knowledge with the younger men around you who might be searching for answers. All the best to you!
Problem with this is he got LUCKY and met a really good hearted selfless woman….That’s like trying to find a needle in a field of 100 acres so this video is pointless unless you get lucky…..Most of us WONT! Good luck trying to present this concept to these birdbrain modern women 😭💯😎
@Jasmine Blush That's very true and I agree with you. The one thing I will say is that not all women are the same. You have women of all races that can be easy to deal with and some not so much. Same goes for men as well. The key is finding that person who is willing to have that discussion about expectations. Sometimes people throw all black women or white women or any color into a certain box and that isn't fair.
Focus on yourself, they will literally fall into your lap if you have something to show for. Take it from someone that has dated way more than is healthy. Women will watch you from a distance. Your looks help, but it's your status and accomplishments that will pull them in by the dozen
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expectations are important. I like what he’s saying but at the 8:55 mark I would disagree. Wife, then kids should always come before your business. If expectations are unreasonable for the family you gotta reassess imo.
Kevin Samuels is dead?
One thing it’s helped us is Dr. Jordan Peterson’s advice to slay the dragons while they’re baby and not let them grow (in other words, address issues you find when they’re small enough and not let them build up so much they start creating bitterness, anger, and resentment).
Amen
Did that work with his ho ho bag daughter?
What should you do if you did not slay the dragon because of laziness and fear and are now starting to feel bitterness, anger, and resentment? Is it too late?
@@eddy1537 In my personal experience, it's better to stop it from keeping on growing. Those conversations are never easy, and always unpleasant, but they help in the end.
When I do this, the first thing I like to do is acknowledge my own flaws, and point at myself identifying things I could be doing better and where I fall short. Then what I've seen helps as well is not pointing fingers saying "you're terrible because you're doing this..." that never works, and it puts people on defense.
It's really all about tact, and carefully-chosen words, and working to regulate emotions during the conversation with long pauses, and deep breathing lol.
I won't say here that we handle these situations perfectly. Not at all. We're always learning, but listening to psychologists and other personal development figures definitely helps us deal with the situations better.
Read the book How to Win Friends and Influence People and Extreme Ownership. I think we can all learn a lot from those two books in helping us deal with not just our spouses, but also people in general.
@@alexisidro very good advice man! Interested to check out that book you mentioned. 👍🏻
1) Managing expectations straightforwardly and upfront + some insight
2) Taking it one year at a time. (no pressure from relatives/society )
Thank you!
This is more powerful than most people realize. I met my now wife in university back when I was overweight and poor so the expectation was not corvettes and luxury vacations. Friends of mine who are single go on these lavish first dates to fancy restaurants or clubs and blow hundreds of dollars for no reason. MEN don't create a persona that you can't model consistently.
This is a gem!
@She Knows Usually the person who puts in the most effort has the least power. If a man puts in a lot of work, the woman loses interest because she begins to think he's lesser quality and can do better.
Hey, I took a girl on a date to Subway whilst balding and overweight and she never called me back. What did I do wrong?
@@netflixandreels2529 Strength of Character. And if she left then she did you a favor 😜
The challenge is finding a woman who hasn't had men do this in the past and now expects it.
"Let’s get married for one year and see if we can do it next year"
One year at a time. Best marriage advice ever.
No.
All risk and no benefit for men
and women have an incentive to divorce and reap cash, house and cars and prizes.
Wake up old boy. Face reality... not bullshit that sounds good to you.
Indeed Logan
@@TheRoommatesPodcast 💖
How is that good advice? Marriage is not something that should be subject to renewal. Revival, yes, but not renewal vs. divorce.
@@themirrorflattersnot Have you been married? How many years in are you?
Patrick is a such a brilliant man. True definition of top 1%.
LOL
@@TheSanityMachine33 Maybe explaining your point of view of disagreeing with him is a better idea than laughing like an ignorant?
Thanks Ryan
Is he really the top 1 percent??
@@dijonpsalm6938 millionaire, tall, good shape for his 40's, well knowledgeable, great head on his shoulders and overall just a great dude. Sounds like 1% guy to me.
Its unfortunate how many people will say how good this interview was and how good the advice was while not applying a single thing from the video.
Lazy dna in every other human being.
Hopefully not the men of this channel!
Just don’t be one of them. 👍🏽💯
@neal cassady None of that matters. He us being upfront and getting what he wants out of the relationship while making sure he is managing expections.
All that stuff you said is just irrational fear. You can never know what someone truly feels regardless of financial situation. You have to judge actions. Which I'm sure he does. Being broke or living check yo check won't garuntee you loyalty and true love either...so stop the excuses
@@CadillacBoss30 Makes you think if "True love" is even a real thing or something two individuals convince themselves into believing because of the benefits they receive from each other.
35yrs..Of Age An I’m Just Now Hearing This,But Like They Say You Learn Something New Everyday Lol Best Advice On Today’s Modern Society On Dating 💯👌🏽
If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire.
Challenge yourself and challenge back if you have other points of view.
All the best to you!
I am amazed by the growth of this channel, and so proud to be in the club.
Thanks Jeff
I honestly cant say I did this knowingly. My Fiancée (recently engaged) and I have been together for 3 years and I have always kept things modest (she really appreciates the small things like opening doors for her and getting her flowers. These are things I know I can maintain indefinitely) I just never realized the importance of not "over shooting" and creating expectations you cant live up to.
Step 1. Is finding someone even worth considering to marry.
Facts
@neal cassady and what happened?? did you get with her?
I have really appreciated all guests on this show but jeez! This man is really dropping bombs!!!
Manage expectations early, love that
Crucial conversations rules for the taking. Read it twice. First chapter insulted me. I loved it
Changed my way of approaching all conversations.
Great conversation and great advise! I didn't know that Hafeez got married. CONGRATULATIONS Hafeez! That's what's up.
Damn that example about business partners changing really hit home for me and the question of: "How long is that sustainable in business?" Not married yet but I am really learning a lot from this channel. Systems are really important for conflict resolution man!
Agreed
This video covers a lot of topics, but it's clear that managing expectations in marriage is key.
I have honestly decided to model my future marriage base on PBD’s advice about managing expectations with my significant other. Love him and his amazing family.
Im a single woman and this!
Real strong women love this
I’m getting prepared for my husband hopefully he is doing the same
Patrick dropping some priceless gems! Thanks for sharing
managing expectation upfront. Solid advise.👏👏👏👏
Blessed is Patrick Bet-David who is an expert on all matters of life.
I definitely soaked up this information. By far the best advice I’ve heard. Great conversation.
I am so glad I figured this out before getting married. Some of what this guy said is something I should have considered, but my wife and I took time to talk about everything we wanted before getting married.
I like how he staying both parties there no one side that is all perfect
This is so good..! Thanks guys for great content..!
I take a break from the internet for 1 year and now I find out Hafeez has gotten married. What on earth..
Best Advice right here for sure need a million views on here
Damn, this man dropped some serious gems! Thanks Hafeez for this great podcast.
I needed to see this & hear this
Best advice is: Sometimes she is right and sometimes you are wrong..
Congratulations on 500k subscribers!
loved this conversation and Patrick had great insight. I am definitely taking notes!
Another great video from you guys
At times it can feel like it’s easier to love others than it is to love ourselves. If you don’t love yourself how can you expect others to love you? If you don’t love yourself, you might accept a type of love that is less than what you deserve.
Damn bro, that was beautiful
@@traywaters1575 Appreciate it 🙏
I can apply this ideology to all relationships.
When it's put like this, marriage is something I can strive for
But to find someone to do it with... Well... My issue was never really the doing part. Moreso finding someone that I can do it with
The bragging with the wealth made it impossible for me to relate to this story.
It's ridiculous
Then you must have a pea for a brain, even if you make 50k a year you can set expectations
It’s refreshing to hear a man say he was looking for a wife. The takeaway is communication between partners is key. Premarital counseling usually entails managing expectations
and creating methods for conflict resolution. As a single woman who is still out here dating. I’m learning to see past what men show me and into who they really are. I try to get a true idea of what my life would look like with them…Basically knowing what to truly expect. Peace, love, financial stability, cleanliness, and similar standards for living are important to me
Great advice PBD
Title should be: Greatest advice for male millionaires today.
If you keep repeating the same behaviors, patterns, and choosing the same so-called "type" in a person, you'll keep attracting the same type of relationships. If you want to attract differently, you have to choose differently.
💙TH-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
thanks for sharing
this guy is the best
Great interview 👍🏿
I wanna grow up to be a man similar to them, I’ve been with a great girl for a while now and I’ve taken the roommates tips and things are working out really really well
@neal cassady
Why are you assuming all women want to be stay at home moms?
It's not the 1950's
@neal cassady
With a couple who has children, each person is entitled to have a career/job.
For many families to live well both parents must work.
You are a narrow minded bigot
So the biggest take away here is be a millionaire like pat because that’s what made his marriage work. If you believe his have expectations bs you don’t understand life.
So accurate. I respect both of these guys, however this isn’t a great representation of how typical marriages play out. Taking away the stress of finances changes the hell out of this guys situations. A better take away on why this worked was bc he went in basically saying “I have money/women/status, if you want to be apart of that cool, if not you can walk I don’t need you”. That’s why his marriage has worked
You can still take away the managing expectations part of this though. The process of the partnership using their problem-solving skills. Conversation and communication, the importance of being on the same page. If you think finances define a successful marriage then marriage isn't for you.
@@dijonpsalm6938 I totally agree. Managing expectations is key in any kind of partnership you ever enter. That has nothing to do with marriage that’s simply a business mentality which he is obviously elite at. My point is simply if you listen to the entire thing it’s him setting the tone and her complying with said tone. He’s calling all the shots(new ring/vacation/etc). This isn’t working bc of managing expectations, it’s working bc she’s submitting to his expectations. If she had any leverage then managing the expectations would be a lot more difficult, the average marriage is gonna have way more push/pull then this guys relationship 👍🏻
@@JeffMcclain3 good point in all honesty. I see what you're saying and evaluating. Makes sense too. Their advice could of been broader for sure.
@@JeffMcclain3 aint no women “managing expectations “ with yo ass if YOU NOT RICH 😂😂 dont let her make more money than you too… this dudes wife is probly getting piped by the pool boy while he’s gone, these married folks swear marriage is the life bcus it makes their image and status looks good
Thank u 🙏🏾 I have the same mindset just wish females will understand also 🤦🏾♂️
Help em' understand it 🤷
I'm loving this perspective!
Build yourself into a man of character, a man of your word, loyal and trustworthy and expect the same qualities from the woman that you care about. AS rare as such people are, both men and women, there are a bunch out there, and if you will connect with one, you will have a great relationship in which both of you will thrive.
If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire.
All the best to you!
Excellent Work
Im 23 yet this staff is so powerful…Its hitting hard 😭🙏🏾😤🔥
Are you from South Africa gent
Build yourself into a man of character, a man of your word, loyal and trustworthy and expect the same qualities from the woman that you care about. As rare as such people are, both men and women, there are a bunch out there, and if you will connect with one, you will have a great relationship in which both of you will thrive.
If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire.
All the best to you!
KS got these men wearing suits now lol
To put it simple, I think he’s talking about frame and that goes a long way even deeper
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR SHARING THIS... 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼👏👏👏
If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire.
Challenge yourself and challenge back if you have other points of view.
All the best to you!
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Very good advice
I LOVE this
This brudda has stepped his suit game up
Great advice
Here’s what heard… Patrick established and maintained his frame in his relationship with his wife from day one.
FACTS
He WAS already ballin. Lol But the principal is to have knowledge of self, standards, and men know ya "love language" so to speak because it establishes ya value to a woman from jump so she knows exactly how to look out for you. Women do it do us so why aren't we giving them OUR VALUE AND MISSION STATEMENT. It needs to be established first.
6:50 women expect change from men, men expect women to stay the same
Easily one of the most poignant 15 minute clips you've ever posted Hafeez. Much love. Catch you at Citi! lol
6:43 I've been saying this forever.
The real goal
Listen to Rollo !!
Don't be in a relationship unless it's business
Fantastic advice, but the Engagement book on the 2nd date will scare off 90% of women guaranteed.
I think his now wife stuck around because he was already successful when he gave her the book. He already had something to show for, so his now wife was willing to wait.
The OTHER thing is that she was the type of sensible woman to be willing to wait and not be resistant to this man growing his business! Good luck trying to find a patient Gen Z woman or Younger Millennial!! Most are too impulsive and don't have patience/ vision
So true! You said everything!
spot on! i was on a date with a girl, she said I had my life "figured/planned out" too well it sounded scary.. she wanted to live life day by day.. she didn't like to plan things... needless to say.. she didn't want to pursue a relationship with me.. as much as I like Patrick i must say that being direct with a woman nowadays is pointless and useless.. they are just in for the Vibe and the sparks nowadays.. Patrick is from another time/generation... this type of advice won't apply to 90% of us men
It’s not for a woman to ‘stick around’ and have patience. Women often suffer from taking a man on his word and his potential as opposed to what and who he really is. Another fault of women is often projecting what they hope for and see in a man and not taking him for face value. A lot of men leave their ‘starter wife’ or supportive gf once they achieve success. Many of whom claim they associate that woman with their struggles coming up and want a woman they can view as part of their new found success. It’s too much of a gamble for a woman to wait and have patience. Biological clock doesn’t wait. If she gets pregnant during the patience stage and he cannot help support the family financially or physically as he is ‘chasing his dream’, the woman is left with the burden of both of their decisions. Ride or die is dead. It’s unfair and not realistic to expect of a woman.
Exactly. Women will just be disappointed in men. Only way is to be independant, have your own money and never rely on a man.
@@ruseangirl your response was amazing. You found a way to say so much yet say so little.
Manage Acceptations Upfront
Wonder if Jennifer is truly happy deep down???
Very Nice
all great advice, except its dependant on luck
Yep
Keep it up! I am dropping 1 song a week for the next 3 years straight. It has never been done in music. Come along for the ride if you want. Stay blessed ! - Bryan
I get the point being made but my gosh, I would hate to have to depend on my man to buy me a handbag and set rules/timelines around it. Sounds like parenting/control tactics as opposed to an equal partnership.
Their goal is to control women considering they call them children.
They have no interest in mature partnerships
Boil all this advice and most of this kind of advice into two phrases: stand up straight, have a spine. Embody that kind of spirit and you’ll be fine kids.
Dang I think I just got it.
I’m proud to be the first comment
Our guy !
Patrick says that he only lives in his marriage one year at a time to me that seams like he is giving himself an out like his marriage doesn't matter if I was his wife I would be in fear that he would wake up one day and decide that he didn't want to go another year.
@10:36 you leave.
I noticed the guest on your show have their own businesses. Can men working 9-5 ever be high value? Thanks
Yes, they can. Every woman is different when it comes to details and specifics but when it comes to the grand scheme of things, the majority of us want a guy who is kind, loyal, respectful, mentally, emotionally, financially, spiritually, and physically stable with room for growth.
Yes some doctors and lawyers and other careers work 9-5 and they have high value men in those fields
What makes a man is his character and his word. It doesn't matter if you have millions or just a normal job. Money does not make you more or less valuable.
Build yourself into a man of character, a man of your word, loyal and trustworthy and expect the same qualities from the woman that you care about. As rare as such people are, both men and women, there are a bunch out there, and if you will connect with one, you will have a great relationship in which both of you will thrive.
If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire.
All the best to you!
In western culture marriage is like a girlfriend relationship, break up if u not feeling it like a piece of cake!!
That is exactly the case - I don't know why so many people even other with the vows if that is their thinking process. Not sure if I would call it Western but perhaps contemporary.
its called negotiating desire and its f%king terrible
Kevin Samuels got all of these young lost men dressing up in suits and thinking they’re “high value”…man take that goofy shet off and just be yourself bro🤦♂️
Haha too funny👍
He looks like a lawyer
Dressing up is one step of many..dont deter ..instead encourage..we are in a time where feminism is fckng up many men and women..wake up..
You should ask him if he has side chicks cuz high value men don't deal with just 1 women right?
Well FYI, “esposa” means both wife and handcuffs. Latina wives are different. Ambiguity at its finest!
Explain plz 🤔
10,000 whatttt? 4:31
He said 10,000 chanel purse it's a luxury brand purse
140 lbs to 280 lbs is crazy! 😂
As an investing enthusiast, I often wonder how top level investors are able to become millionaires off investing. I do have a significant amount of capital that is required to start up but I have no idea what strategies and direction I need to approach to help me make decent returns
Before investing. I would highly recommand you to read a few books before. Books like Common stock and uncommom profits and the intelligent investor. They will help you alot.
If you are not conversant with the markets, I'd advise you to get some kind of advise or assistance from a financial/investing coach. It might sound basic or generic, but getting in touch with an investment broker was how I was able to outperform the market and raise a profit of $250,000 since last year sep, For me, its the most ideal way to jump into the market these days.
@@karynplumm878 please who is the broker that assist you with your investment and if you dont mind, how do i get in touch with them?
Those investors usually got a IPO or are sophisticated.
@@andrewwiggins3190 My consultant is *Stacey* *Lee* *Jamieson* I found her on a CNBC interview where she was featured and reached out to her afterwards. She has since provide entry and exit points on the securities I focus on. You can look her up if you care supervision. I basically follow her trade pattern and haven’t regretted doing so
The only advice I want is to how to prepare for the divorce and win in family court. All this advice about how to date and stay married sounds nice albeit unrealistic is great but if you are a successful man and get married, and heaven forbid have some kids, the wife now has a gun to your head ready to use at the optimum time-divorce and family court. How to handle that is what needs to be shown whether it be hiding your money while married or in fact try to marry a woman who is richer or more successful than you are which goes against what most men want, which is not a career first woman.
He's talking about a certain type of women though. Not what's mostly out here now
Build yourself into a man of character, a man of your word, loyal and trustworthy and expect the same qualities from the woman that you care about. As rare as such people are, both men and women, there are a bunch out there, and if you will connect with one, you will have a great relationship in which both of you will thrive.
If you are interested in topics on manhood, feel free to use the resources I share on the Mastery Order channel to build yourself into the kind of man you would admire.
All the best to you!
@@MasteryOrder I agree with every word. But I already consider myself that very thing
@@kingvan143 Good to hear. Respect to you.
I hope you will serve as an example for others and share your knowledge with the younger men around you who might be searching for answers. All the best to you!
3rd kid and wife gets $10k bag? Wow, now I know how I can make my relationship work
😂😂😂
PBD
Best advice is to try to look like the guy in the thumbnail.
the best expectation is to expect to not marry
Expect nothing
my mandem needs to stop yelling into the mic
Problem with this is he got LUCKY and met a really good hearted selfless woman….That’s like trying to find a needle in a field of 100 acres so this video is pointless unless you get lucky…..Most of us WONT! Good luck trying to present this concept to these birdbrain modern women 😭💯😎
Finally, a sensible comment. Thanks
Tryna manage expectations with a black woman is impossible.
😂🤣🙌🏽
@Jasmine Blush That's very true and I agree with you. The one thing I will say is that not all women are the same. You have women of all races that can be easy to deal with and some not so much. Same goes for men as well. The key is finding that person who is willing to have that discussion about expectations. Sometimes people throw all black women or white women or any color into a certain box and that isn't fair.
It’s not about race it’s about cultural differences and values.
why waste time with a relationship, the juice ain't worth the squeeze
NEVER ever deal with chad's bootey calls that ONLY sees you as a living paycheck period 💪
okay playa
I really want a perfect wife of my dreams
Become the perfect person for yourself and that perfect wife will come into your life.
People aren’t perfect my guy. Find a woman you can work with.
Focus on yourself, they will literally fall into your lap if you have something to show for. Take it from someone that has dated way more than is healthy.
Women will watch you from a distance. Your looks help, but it's your status and accomplishments that will pull them in by the dozen
@@blackwealthpower7877 nope. Or tell more women to give me a chance 😜
@@blackwealthpower7877 Ok then marriages won't last forever 🤣