First Date Etiquette | TMI Podcast KE | Episode 26
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ม.ค. 2022
- We are starting a new year and if you listened to us and left that dusty man in 2021, then you may just be ready for your first date!😁
If we are honest, a lot of our ghetto relationships were probably giving us signs from the first date. So this episode is all about the etiquette to make sure you are putting your best foot forward but also making sure you’re not being sold short!
From sex on the first date, who pays for the bill and the mentality we need to date with. We spill the tea on our first date experiences too and what we learnt in the very often ghetto first dates!
Share with is your first date etiquette in the comments.
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I resonate with Murugi regarding my place. I don't want random strangers knowing where I live (or work) plus who knows whether he'll even earn a second date???
Topic Ideas for the next episode ladies. Can you give us a guide on how to single and content and dating casually without getting anxious or desperate about getting about finding a life partner. So far seeing anything titled ‘how…husband’ triggers me. Ninakosa amani.
Interesting topic! Thank you
The first time losing your virginities
I wouldn’t want any sort of intimacy on the first date I don’t care if we vibe or not I actually expect you to drop me home or offer to get me a cab.
I didn't know about Murugi until Hudda. Through her I learnt about TMI. And honestly!!! What a babe!!! I'm glued. I followed her Instagram and Lydia's too. What a wholesome Person!
Since I found this podcast like just a week ago I’ve been binge watching episodes just like I do in Netflix. Love the great content ladies. Happy to be an in-betweener 🥂
Lydia with her pearls of wisdom... "
You don't want to change the ending, change the beginning. "
Joan, do more of that style, it suits you so beautifully 😍
I am 22 and u guysss ,by the time I'm in my 30's I'll be so wise thanks to you big sisters 😂❤️
Same sis♥️🥺21
I love this , the year just got better TMI FOR LIFE
Went for a date with this guy and when I asked him his views about spoiling a lady. Like random acts of service. And he said things like paying for your nails, hair or fueling a car is a no! He said he’s not your father to be doing all that. Best believe as he was talking I blocked him.
Weh!!
😂😂😂he really deserved it 💯🚮
He was right though🤷🏾♀️ if you are the wife then yes. But dating? Come on. Let everybody handle their needs, too much pressure on the boy child!
@@nairobikenya_ Kindly read what I wrote carefully. He said he’s not your father to be doing all that. The narrative wouldn’t change regardless of marriage
Looool
I’m learning this is great 👍 keep teaching us moreee big sis 🥰❤
My first date etiquette is DO NOT GET DRUNK! Beer googles and tequile deafness are real!
Murugi you just said it right that first smash says it all gosh!
It’s the twinning hair styles for mee❤️
It's the honesty for me, can't wait for more content this year I'm all yours.
Content coming!
Couldn't wait to come see what you gorgeous ladies have in store for us this new year.❤️
Bigger and better sis!
Since dating nowdays is like acquiring a PhD.I made it simple.Make many friends at workplace, school,church,and all social places and make it deep that you know much about them for a period and by the time you are dating one of them you will not even realise things will be flowing and it worked 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Love that!
I love listening in…. Keep it going . I got my to go place after work … 🏃♀️😅😅😅
Great topic in betweeners🥳🥳its been a while. I feel like if you have a health issue and it might stay for long they should know like the cancer thing, so they can make a decision of staying or leaving or the gherroooo ghosting😂. Health is crucial like are they willing to stay and support you or not it feels like its part if the honest convos for me. Always an in-betweener❤💫
Yaaaaay!!! I'm always looking forward to new episodes.... Lakini the 🍰 we saw on IG 😋😋😋😋😋
We love you
Love you right back
loving the channel
Yes be who you are 💯💯💯
I really laughed on this one and i bet I have to start on the right foot once again. Mob loooooooove.
For me first date ,a hug is good enough.
😄 yessss! And that’s just right. Whatever feels right, go for it
Wow 💙.Wise words here 👏 🙌.
Getting back into the pool after 2 years 😌. Taking notes 📝 aki .
Good luck hun
I remember this guy, he was driving us with his siblings for lunch and we alighted, stood for a second but whatever he said...it was a turn off and it was over..the way you talk portrays who you're are
I love how the we growing as a channel from the intro to the liking of our comments woooow guys I love you🥰🥰
Aty are my kids here,no it's just Lydia 😂😂😂
I love y'all❣️
You are now giving them a mwakenya ....we will never know who they are on the first date since they will come prepared with tips from this video...... good thing Stephen won't Keep up the act for long 😊
Joan the hairstyle makes you look 21❤️
Lydia's sense of humour is A1...hahha. bye Stephen
Watching you twinning has made me remember how i thought you look alike in the very first episodes!!P
2022 is about to be awesome here @TMI
Yaassssss
Steve is my new favorite phrase
I really love your dress code 😍 you guys look amazing
Thanks girl
Steve was just chilling lmaoo
Thanks 😊 sharing
This was a fantastic episode!
Not the Milly WaJesus laugh🤣🤣
I soo love this episode. Am also never paying for a bill on a first date. This year inbetweeners should focus on paying attention.
Hey babes-I absolutely love you ladies. My favorite podcast in the whole world!!❤❤
But if you ain't gonna see someone again please let them know.
Ghosting should be so 2021 aki.
Milly was just chilling🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes, what you meet face to face is usually different from what is shared online.
I'm dreading that because i've been chatting someone online and its awesome and i'm afraid when we finally get to meet we wont have the same vibe or they wont like me that much.😩😩😓
@@Tata-bd9nx just try and meet and see ..
More strength to you
murugi thank you for that point, that whether I invite him or he invite me a man should always pay,
I genuinely feel creeped out when a man tries to touch ,kiss or just do anything to me.its super weird unless we've known each other for a long time or If I intiate it.
Rewatching 😂😂😂😂
Hey i'm lucy ,new subscriber love your content alot
Thank you!
Good tips 👍
The video was bomb as always however the sound is not as great as when using mics like in other videos
Thank you for the feedback.
Bill paying!!! Heeeeeh I have paid for many a dates!!!! And never again! I used to actually get anxiety if going out or invited anywhere. Kweli the way it starts is the way it continues!!!
Sis!!!! Stay woke
Hey fellow -in-betweeners 😹.
A topic suggestion: The importance of regular ladies reproductive checks,fibroids ( they actually affect 70% women of reproductive age) and how to manage/treat, endo etc.
My word from the year is self
It's always, the honesty and energies for me 😊😊😊😊😊
Miss the games though 🥲
Steve was just chilling then bam! TMI happened 😄😄😄😄😄
😅😅😅😅
😂😂
Why is this happening...?
@@stevenowen9631 😂😂
This was so much fun ......loving the energy I want to be a better version of myself and with the tips I fetch here weekly definitely I will ......I always feel lke I know you so closely hii mwaka meet and greet ikam.
Inakam babe 😄
A good one as usual ..who did you mention? Melissa who?
Marissa Peer
Murugi: Smelling nice is different for different people. Lydia: NO 😭😭😂😂😂😂
Yeeeeiy today's episode was epic.. the sound was a bit low 😭😭
Thank you for the feedback
@@tmipodcastke Your welcome.. You are guys are mean't for our time💯♨️
You ask me out for a first date? You are the one paying. We plan together for a date,we are planning for everything together. I'll pay the Uber to and fro you are paying for the food, who's got the drink and who got the waiter's tip?Such things...😂😂😂📍
😅😅 sawa Deborah!
...not a thong on the second date 😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀
Lydia is a clown and we love her!!!!!❤😂
I died when she said his Murderous friends emerging from the seats and then put her hands up like a monster😂😂
Joanne Munyi. That make up was made for u. So natural and blends with your skin. Wish all black gals cld emulate this.
Wish all men would mind their business regarding womens makeup,especially women that are not theirs😩😂
@@Tata-bd9nx Its was a complement 🤦🏿♂️ all i meant was that you are proud of ur skin color thats why u never applied a brighter shed unlike a lot of ladies who apply makeup. 🙄
My word is Thrive
And may your year reflect that!
Ati when your real laugh is for Milly was Jesus 😂😂😂😂😂
I think the physical attributions or like the HIV one is a second date thing. Unless you were chatting online before for a while then your first physical date that should be something you bring up.
Makes sense
A
Comminicate the results of the date. If you didn’t feel the date let them know. If you don’t wanna see them again be straight about it. You don’t need to explain your decision, but communicate it so as not to lead someone on. Also, don’t ghost if you didn’t feel the date
Ouch..i can imagibe someone telling me they didnt feel me on the date😩...honestly i would prefer they pretend to be busy and i would get the hint😓😂
Milly wa jesus was just chilling🤣
Hahaha... whatever Steve did😂😂😂
TMI 2022
Yessss
I'm going on my my first date with this new guy today... Hahaha nimefurahia kuona hii 😂
Thank you ladies for such an amazing podcast ❤ 👏 💙 I learn so much from this sessions..more like therapy😊😊
The sound/volume is somehow low ama is it just me?
Thanks for the upload though 😊
Thank you for the feedback
True was struggling to hear in some sections
Poor Steve 🤣🤣🤣
Murugi, today I disagree with you. Please dont have sex on the 1st date, even if it feels like the right thing to do and the dude is good. It tends to cloud your judgement going forward, about the person you're dating because you are hardly able to make an objective judgement of him/her. Unless ofcourse you're just dating with no end purpose and doing so just for the sake of, which in that case, you're just 'scratching an itch'
I totally agree with this. I wouldn’t advice at all! A lot of girls out here are confused with what they want because of habits like this. I can count girls who can really do that without being emotionally attached👐🏾 most of us are not built like that, we lie to ourselves that we can handle it but we can’t.👐🏾
Today I've also disagreed with some things around sex. Bt I guess we are different
A solid point because we are all different. There are women who feel confident and in control even after having sex while some feel overwhelmed emotionally. The point is hold space for everyone’s way of doing things in order to empower us all in our decision making.
I disagree with you..saying that sex clouds your judgment is an excuse i feel. No matter how good sex is, allowing it inform your judgement is actually a red flag on your side
@@gracethuku4555 Hey girl, personally I don’t think it’s a red flag. There’s so much that happens during sex, it’s not just an exchange of physical pleasure. Some people are very in-tuned with their emotions, like tmi said, some feel empowered I suppose but yeah some do feel emotionally overwhelmed and doesn’t mean there’s something to fix about themselves. I mean there’s reasons why premarital sex is not encouraged, coz of the possible dysfunction it may bring. Why is adultery so hurtful? If it was just about the physical? It’s cause emotions and energies are getting mixed up, I don’t think that’s something we can avoid.
Amazing content here. Is it possible to include story time in your segments where one can draw lessons.?
Our own story time ama?
Sex on a first date...nah.I also believe there's a reason premarital sex is discouraged.
Nice conversation
Is it just me or the sound in this episode is kinda low
I remember this guy who insisted on meeting me then when I went he said I pay like tf...then he had the audacity to tell me to go home with him to have sex
Hey ghurls,, loving your content as always,, suggestion for a future topic,, could y'all maybe discuss sexual harassment,, I've experienced it so often lately,, I'm almost going nuts,,like two months ago I had about 6 incidents and it has reached a point where I don't know how to react, I'm actually avoiding going out at all,, it happened in Eldoret,, please shed some light on how to go about it because I'm getting traumatized to the point that I'm almost getting panic attacks when I'm in public,, more info on the assault,, all happened in broad daylight, 99% of the time I was in jeans, so let nobody come at me for dressing, it involved groping, spanking, grabbing, and also I wasn't actually walking alone, let's talk about this please 🙏,, thanks in advance,, I love y'all ♥️😘🥰
A great topic!
Oh my God! What? By complete strangers?
Sending love and light your way🤍 . I hope you are healing 💓.
@@wambuikamau5918 Thank you so much ❣️,, I'm at a much better place now,, I relocated from that neighborhood
@@betty541 yeah, from men across all ages, youngest was a teenager, oldest was about 35
Steve amesema niwaambie atasue 😭😂😂😂
😂😂😂
if both you both invited yourselves, you pay your own bills💁
🤣 if we are having sex coz the "vibe is right" we'll be bed hopping 🤣
😅😅
Coz the vibe damn right most times🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Men.. stay woke.
Great episode! Sound is rather low though
Thank you for the feedback
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Hey Ladies,
the volume was low, I struggled to hear.
True
Thank you for the feedback guys. We’ll work on it
I miss the vibrant background
I got here late.. I feel like having sex on first date could crowd you judgement. What if the sex was a bomb? Now you're drooling for the second date, just because...
Where did the games go😩
We loved games too but we removed them for upcoming segments. We promise you’ll love them
Steve didn't deserve this😂
😅😅
Washing dishes😂😂😂not in 2022
BUT YOU GUYS ARE NO LONGER PLAYING GAMES😊
We are not guys! We promise we are bringing more segments you’ll love
He should pay on the 1st date
Joan is sometimes too judgemental towards Lydia.
Guys consider using mics , I feel that you not audible enough
I think the bill should be shared from Day 1 until you have shared way of financing! it allows for NOT gender roles.
Talk about a woman need to have on a first date , eg in her handbang.
Guys stop complaining hakuna body image issues like the LGBTQ
I left him because of the way he chewed....his mouth was curved weirdly and his teeth were disgustingly brown...he was a single dad and I loved his daughter *only saw her pictures" didn't even like him😂😂. Khae I almost puked at that sight