I'm here to remind the babes who download to watch later...lets appreciate that we are able to do that but also as you download remember to like and on the process of download let them ads run so our girls continue to bring us all these rich episodes...Ameeeen sambarry?
Imagine because of watching tmi I feel so matured in my twenties. No way im people pleasing ...im extremely intentional about the dating. Its about my self worth on the line😑no wasting any bit of myself 💯😐😐
Im I the only one who has noticed Lyds jeans have one thigh looking like the African continent? Anyway I digress, real conversation here. Dating in your 30s is definitely very different. Especially when one has done the internal work and understood themselves and what they want.
I love your shows ladies! Good job. Being a single lady, never dated, very financially stable and own my own house in a gated community....I can't imagine sharing my beautiful space with a man, with all the inconveniences that would come with that.
Shiv and shiku met in their 20s and it still worked , so did most of our parents. You can meet the love of your life at 21 . There's no age limit for finding a lifetime partner, it just takes a lot of work and understanding each other.
Is it just me or I feel like Murugi is always targeting Lydia for things that she thinks Lydia "should" have. Lyd is so matured and has grown and I love to see that about her😍
This episode is eye opening. Take home message: 1.) Don't assume. Define who you are to each other early on in the relationship. 2.) Ask those difficult questions like are you going to marry each other. 3.) Date other people as you wait to find a suitable partner for you to marry . 4.)Meet family and friends of each other early 5.) If you removed money as a factor, would you date the person you are with now?
About the cheating, it's rampant. I personally turn down more married men than single ones. And running into people's husband's on dating sites is what got me to leave dating sites 😂. I am not saying there are no good men, I am saying majority are vile and don't even think they are.
Dating outside Kenya is worse especially in the Gulf nations. It's hard to know if the guy is truly interested in you or he's just interested in company (sex) and that has worsened my avoidant nature.
Weeh and the fact most are married back at home and cheating on their wives without even a hintof guilt. I couldn’t do it always wondering whether you are just a placeholder?!!
Yes I would still get married to my husband if he didn't have money. Because that is not what attracts me to him. I am attracted to his genius mind, maybe because I am a sapiosexual. Never met a man like him. Then couple it with he is kind, composed, honest, good in...🤭many years later, I still look back and smile that I landed him😍
am like lyd rightnow...more intentional..im on bumble and the experience is nice,,not yet gotten anyone compatible like that but am more vigilant and not just dating
Funny thing if you wanna search it up there is a trend called gwababa which is the fear of approaching women so when you talked about are men still approaching women sometimes you don't to be put in a humbling experience
Just to add on, the ugly in dating, when money is involved. You've gotten to a point you are comfortable with one another and you lend him money out of goodwill then hapo kwa malipo!!!Yooh!sh*t becomes the ghetto 😢
I agree with Lydia 💯.Dating in your 30s is totally different from the 20s.What I know and what now at 32 is totally different from what I wanted when I was younger.And about the high level of prostitution on dating apps it's totally true aswell.Its so sad when all men see their on the sites is a booty call.I am a high value woman I have my boundaries and men get shocked when I tell them am not on the app for prostitution.And all yes its raining everywhere even here in Zambia the dating pool stinks.
Hapana hapana I shiver when you do the compromised TMI statement/song 😢 it's good to compromise on some things but somethings are just good. Plz go back to singing not singing feels boring like an intro to a boring lecture 😭😭😭😭
Interesting episode as usual. However the ending was abrupt, Lydia was cut off mid sentence and there was no montage after the episode. Error during editing in post production ? 🤔.
Don't subscribe to the "men are this and women are this" your believes attract exactly that. If you believe life is hard don't expect it easy. People should know that bad news spread faster and is louder.
Me i just want Lydias Therapist I know she has posted like 44 Therapists in her IG Stories but Lydia Please share the therapist you use and whose helped you Please dont Gate Keep 🙏 We all need help.
😅😅😅😅😅Lydia please.....tell me why I am listening to this podcast, single for 1 year now and then you mention The Kitchen when I'm busy cooking in my goddamn kitchen😂😂😂😂😂why though
True true, what you focus on grows... that's why I am always a fan of kina Wajesus and Dominion fam for being loud with their working marriages and relationships... they are fr standing in a gap, and despite any drama, they're being brave. Loved this episode❤
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I'm here to remind the babes who download to watch later...lets appreciate that we are able to do that but also as you download remember to like and on the process of download let them ads run so our girls continue to bring us all these rich episodes...Ameeeen sambarry?
Love you ladies!!! ❤
Normalize having a fall back husband 😂😂😂😂 when all ends fail
Imagine because of watching tmi I feel so matured in my twenties. No way im people pleasing ...im extremely intentional about the dating. Its about my self worth on the line😑no wasting any bit of myself 💯😐😐
Righttttt
Me to gosh I feel like I know everything, 😂I love tmi😢
Ikrrrrrr tell me about it. I feel so mature for my age and mind you I'm just 20
Now I really miss the singing tmi 😂
Me too😂
Me too 😂😂😂
Same
Me three😂
Me one hundred 😢
One thing about Murugi, “I feel like we should do an episode on….” is always at the tip of her tongue!😂 I love it!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Im I the only one who has noticed Lyds jeans have one thigh looking like the African continent? Anyway I digress, real conversation here. Dating in your 30s is definitely very different. Especially when one has done the internal work and understood themselves and what they want.
Met my man on bumble, marrying him in a month 😌
gurlll congratulations....am on the app trying trying
Ah😮 After I uninstall it jana😂😂
Congratulations hun. All the best❤
That's nice congratulations
I love your shows ladies! Good job.
Being a single lady, never dated, very financially stable and own my own house in a gated community....I can't imagine sharing my beautiful space with a man, with all the inconveniences that would come with that.
gurlllll tapping into that financial stability
There is something about Lydia's honesty ❤❤❤
Okay, u have prooved your point..you were right singing is better!! Lets do that. Let's go back to singing...we apologize
Murungi whoever does your make up does phenomenal job!
And phenomenal is just the word😂😂
Shiv and shiku met in their 20s and it still worked , so did most of our parents. You can meet the love of your life at 21 . There's no age limit for finding a lifetime partner, it just takes a lot of work and understanding each other.
Please do a episode on online dating ❤❤
Kindly invite Benjamin Zulu Global for a collaboration 🎉❤
Yeesss to Benjamin
Loving Lyd's blazer😍🔥🔥🔥
did @Lyd say she's dating 🎉🎉 yaaaaay.. congratulations big sis..
Naaaa...let's go back to singing 😂
Ikr🥲
Is it just me or I feel like Murugi is always targeting Lydia for things that she thinks Lydia "should" have. Lyd is so matured and has grown and I love to see that about her😍
Yaaay! It's Definitely TMIIIIIIII 💃🏿. Happy belated birthdays Queens 🎂🎂🎉🎉. Aki mapenzi wewe😅🤭.
This episode is eye opening.
Take home message:
1.) Don't assume. Define who you are to each other early on in the relationship.
2.) Ask those difficult questions like are you going to marry each other.
3.) Date other people as you wait to find a suitable partner for you to marry .
4.)Meet family and friends of each other early
5.) If you removed money as a factor, would you date the person you are with now?
If you remove number 5 many women will run away
I think Ivy's point was pretty much clear, most of us just got triggered 🤣🤣🤣.
That woman is really triggering intellectually,very wise,she leaves me with panick attacks anytime I listen to her😂😂
Foreal foreal 💯💯@@petronillahmueni7577
About the cheating, it's rampant. I personally turn down more married men than single ones. And running into people's husband's on dating sites is what got me to leave dating sites 😂. I am not saying there are no good men, I am saying majority are vile and don't even think they are.
Not 62 tomorrow 😂. Lyd you have a way with words.
I really love this conversation cause i really need it as a single 27yr lady
met my fiancee on ok cupid cheers to finding our people!!!!
Did you pay
I feel like the chances of a woman staying unmarried after they hit 30 are very high cos they are soo much aware
It's not about them being aware.. it's about many men's preferences as they age. Her age mates and even older will always go for the younger babes
Why do I usually envision Eli as Lyd's match!? 😂😂😂 y'all tell me it's not just me please
Same😊I swear they can make a cute couple
@@ReneeKe-hx4ih soo cute
Lyd, your outfit is it hunny!🔥
Sometimes i worry am just too healed 😂😂😂 it will take a miracle🙏🏽😜
Dating outside Kenya is worse especially in the Gulf nations. It's hard to know if the guy is truly interested in you or he's just interested in company (sex) and that has worsened my avoidant nature.
You are right
Weeh and the fact most are married back at home and cheating on their wives without even a hintof guilt. I couldn’t do it always wondering whether you are just a placeholder?!!
Gulf also has the worst type of ladies to date. I tried dating two of them and they are the worst type of exes I ever got in my life
Belated Happy Birthday, girls..and yes, it's definitely Tee-Mmm-Iii
Let's keep it at singing, ladies ❤
Dating in my 30s and YAS! No time to dwell on what’s not working 👐🏽
imagine saying the intro with you guys and there's no singing!!! please bring it back. Hii ya sahi haibambi!
Yes I would still get married to my husband if he didn't have money. Because that is not what attracts me to him. I am attracted to his genius mind, maybe because I am a sapiosexual. Never met a man like him. Then couple it with he is kind, composed, honest, good in...🤭many years later, I still look back and smile that I landed him😍
Love this for you ❤😊
am like lyd rightnow...more intentional..im on bumble and the experience is nice,,not yet gotten anyone compatible like that but am more vigilant and not just dating
I'm at work but I can't miss watching your episodes among the first people😍
😊 I love how Lyd had grown
Funny thing if you wanna search it up there is a trend called gwababa which is the fear of approaching women so when you talked about are men still approaching women sometimes you don't to be put in a humbling experience
I was used to 'its definitely tmiiii... ' I'll get used to though 😭😂😂
Wonderful wonderful wonderful intro 🎉🎉love it love it .... we're back to it😊I won't stop reminding you guys 😭❤
Just to add on, the ugly in dating, when money is involved. You've gotten to a point you are comfortable with one another and you lend him money out of goodwill then hapo kwa malipo!!!Yooh!sh*t becomes the ghetto 😢
A man who loves you will never ask you for money hunnie... Run!
Lyd you look amazing in this episode. Love the fit.❤
I agree with Lydia 💯.Dating in your 30s is totally different from the 20s.What I know and what now at 32 is totally different from what I wanted when I was younger.And about the high level of prostitution on dating apps it's totally true aswell.Its so sad when all men see their on the sites is a booty call.I am a high value woman I have my boundaries and men get shocked when I tell them am not on the app for prostitution.And all yes its raining everywhere even here in Zambia the dating pool stinks.
I stream live to like and comment...then download for my data😂😅😪
Topic on how to get feminine/femininity energy back😅..am on my masculinity energies ever
In love with this already ya'll look stunning ❤
I hope someday I can be in contact with the one in the black T shirt when I do come again to Kenya looking great 👍 ❤colonel Jamal from dubai
How do you change your mind about those beliefs of men you have seen around you growing up .
Y'all are preaching!!!
These are the good old days❤🎉
Not lydia pushing it even further from 40 to 62 for Murugi😂😂😂😂
Personally I miss the old old intro, the sass in its DEFinitely Tmi was it!😂
We can download now again🎉 am I not a happy subscriber, I've been missing episodes cause of work buuut now we back!!!
My biggest question has been ..What would you do if your boyfriend was asking another lady for a chance to date them and even named you a bestie?
He is still looking,. Maybe also keep looking
Sasa now that you’ve removed the singing part, what I am I supposed to do with my life?🤔 Please bring it back abeg.😀 Much love from Uganda.🇺🇬
I met my fiance on tagged. It's been 10months n going strong ❤
Is it just me or did this ended abruptly? Lydia got cut off mid sentence.
I met my husband on Bumble 🐝🥰
Me in the comments section…. Mtangaze msimamo in betweers, are we singing or doing the news stance 😂 or we can have half of both worlds😄
Unlike most of you, I don't miss the singing part 😂 and that's okay.
It's definitely TMIIIIIIIIIII❤🎉
Hapana hapana I shiver when you do the compromised TMI statement/song 😢 it's good to compromise on some things but somethings are just good. Plz go back to singing not singing feels boring like an intro to a boring lecture 😭😭😭😭
I missed the part when you started dating
You should now start doing movies or documentaries. Its such a joy listening/watching you guys i need waaaaay mooooore tiiiiiimmmmmeeeeee lol
Its Lydia's Hair For me 🤩🤩
Interesting episode as usual. However the ending was abrupt, Lydia was cut off mid sentence and there was no montage after the episode. Error during editing in post production ? 🤔.
Don't subscribe to the "men are this and women are this" your believes attract exactly that. If you believe life is hard don't expect it easy. People should know that bad news spread faster and is louder.
Now am left singing alone
We can call it a Wednesday
I'm heree🎉🎉 Wednesday made check☑️
Lydd that wig hairstyle looks perfect on you.
Did the episode just cut off at the end? No good bye 🤨🤭
Was wondering why too😅
😂😂😂I have repeated that laar part thinking I clicked the following video
@@petronillahmatheri3947Giiirl 😂 if I hadn’t seen your comment 😅
I thought i would be the first
At least you’re among them 😂
In my introspection about dating I was thinking of the same thing..... extending grace. Literally a few minutes ago 🤯
Me i just want Lydias Therapist I know she has posted like 44 Therapists in her IG Stories but Lydia Please share the therapist you use and whose helped you Please dont Gate Keep 🙏 We all need help.
Why are we not singing "it's definitely tmiiiiii," 😢😢now there goes one of my underated pleasure of life 😂😂
Is it me or did the video just cut abruptly mehn 😭😭😭
I love you guys so much 😫❤️
🫶🏽🫶🏽
Happy birthday to you my loves though it's late 💞💞💞 nawapenda sana
I have been sleeping on this channel😮 time to set camp ❤😂
i can hear your whispers lydia☺
That men are not capable part, weh. Felt it to the core.
I need the song😢😢
Happy new year ladies🎉
Another beautiful episode...Related so much ❤
The conversation about removing money from the equation 🥴🥴
pertinent indeed.. Ladies need to ask that question... And be willing to humbly listen to the answers
This is really the best episode. I'm definitely making wiser dating decisions.❤❤
I'm happy with the intro it's giving 35
Can we bring back the singing?
Can we sing please 🥺😢😢 eeeey!
When Lyd mentions ' Lizard'😂😂😂
Murugi I love your top❤
Happy 😊 birthday 🍰 hunnies ❤❤❤
We hate change😂😭😭 you've changed everythingg
Waaaa. .we stopped singing TMIiiiiiiiiiii😢
Congratulations Lydia 😊
😅😅😅😅😅Lydia please.....tell me why I am listening to this podcast, single for 1 year now and then you mention The Kitchen when I'm busy cooking in my goddamn kitchen😂😂😂😂😂why though
Lyd you look amazing 😍
Did this episode really end, or is my TV broken?
❤❤love you
Love you right back 🫶🏽
The big head😂😂😂
True true, what you focus on grows... that's why I am always a fan of kina Wajesus and Dominion fam for being loud with their working marriages and relationships... they are fr standing in a gap, and despite any drama, they're being brave.
Loved this episode❤