This Is Why You SUCK At Love | Adam Roa Speech | Goalcast
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- This Is Why You SUCK At Love | Adam Roa Speech | Goalcast
Dumped, cheated on or can't find love? Adam Roa shares THE SECRET to finding true connection...
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Don't swim oceans for people who won't even jump puddles for you.🙌
Which is hard when ur in love :'D
@@rogacz5966 wow you right
That's so true!
This is hard when u r in love bro
Didn't know until I lost my Job and looked behind no one was there.. being in hard time doesn't matter but when people dump you at hard times hurts more and it's more hard.
"Don't be a simp for them, be a simp for you."
Underrated comment😂 dont simp at all
Iann Grijmans - is he trolling? 😂
Words of wisdom
Simp for yourself, be someone who you’re responsible for helping.
Good wisdom
The most important relationship one can have is with the person you see in the mirror.
This is the best comment I have read.
Hay, u r everywhere :)
Anyways, very true
Proceeds to look at crush through the mirror
Instructions unclear, I have an date with myself.
Find your equal not your whole.
Indeed!
The right one shows up the right moment and when it's the right one you'll feel it inside :)
I hope so, 2 had Girlfriends first one cheated. Second didnt work out, now am just standing still
@@Courtesyyy hold strong. You are enough, mate.
Oh thanks bro love yourself too
I often feel like I want or need a Girlfriend but when I get one I don't feel good about myself
Why man
Because you feel like you can only love yourself if your girlfriend says so. Know that you are enough, because you are.
Agreed
Your desire to be with someone stems from the belief that you are unlovable or not enough and the guilt you feel because of it. Deep within, it’s the guilt you feel for not loving yourself first. That guilt will eventually manifest itself in the relationship through symptoms of negativity or distance knowing your cup is empty and perhaps looking for her to fill it up. This is why we turn down another’s authentic love for us. We often use the relationship to avoid our unhealed places, essentially hiding there, not growing.
This can be healed when we begin to know and trust that we are already complete!
Then try boys that’s what most gay people on tv do when they don’t know their gay
Put yourself first, above all. People are temporary in this lifetime.
I appreciate you
👌
This lifetime like if there are others
I literally forget and put her above and she isn't there now
666 its devil time
i thought he was going to rap after he said "palm sweaty"
Knees weak
Arms are heavy
@Elijah Snapp mom's spaghetti
i also thought that, considering he looks nervous
I thought of Eminem 😂😂
Yep 😂😂😂
Seems like it’s always chad
Always
Odraner yeeeeeet
or chuck
Chad is such a wasteman
Let's cancel chads
You can find love when you're not looking
you said truest thing .
You can ONLY find love when you are not looking. (otherwise you it's false, you sell yourself short, or come over desperate)
Ben Baker that’s very much true
I did. And i lost it
@@daminidam78 There are Days to Come when you know it's the One
I just spent 6 months on a girl that I cared entirely too much about for her to just drop me like I'm nothing... this recommended video couldn't have hit closer to home than it did
Cam don’t worry man...keep your head up. Just take time to heal up and find yourself a good girl. Take your time.
I spent 2 years. Feel me?
epikcyne of course chief, her loss not mine
Hassan Khan Niazi okay now that is a painful thing to hear
Happened to me 3 days ago. I feel like falling apart.
When my ex and I broke up I was devastated at first and I'll never forget what one of my best friends told me. He said: "Remember, with each heartbreak, we're one step closer to the person we're meant to be with."
Boyfriend's far away,Iam here waiting for my future "best friend" 😅...which u hav got...very lucky😇
More like with each heartbreak we get one step closer to give in, and accept love doesnt work for All humans.
I've been through this , I know how it feels like ...that pain just eats you inside out.....nobody cares ....love yourself .... You deserve love unconditionally than any one..
You can't make anyone fall in love with you. You cannot control anyone's decision making process. The only person who will always be with you is just you. Respect people's decision let them go. Put a price on your self respect don't chase anyone. Human beings are mechanised to move on. You do that too. Love yourself because you are 10 times more adorable than you think you're.
I think that nobody learned to be with....him/her and this is were the problem is
SYED JAFFER IMAM thanks
Honestly if someone broke up with me it’s not even worth putting up the energy of being hurt I just move on 🚘
I love myself a billion times more than I loved her from now on
Well that’s not true. People need to improve themselves and sometimes people are 10 times worse than they think they are and it’s not virtuous to just say the opposite.
Moral of the story is dont act like a door mat and dont be so quick to just jump into a relationship. Also yes there are signs
The moral is that people are incapable of loving each other. So stay alone in seclution and become a God.
The moral is that never love a hoe
Correction. Moral of the story is once you got dumped, stop. Stop as in completely stop. Pull All brakes. Quit. Give up. Learn relationships isnt a Thing for All humans. Embrace a life of involuntary solitude.
How can you love someone if you can’t love yourself
Accept yourself as whole. Good and bad. Everything. I know it's not easy. I strugle myself. But for me, i will try to forgive myself for every mistake i make and thank myself for every good thing i ever receive.
Trisha Sandhu you just have to gather your courage and leave him and heal yourself if he is really in love with you he will do the right thing and realize what he will lose if he doesn’t clean up his act but you must stay strong and work on yourself for a while and ignore him till you are ready and it doesn’t mean a week or two take a couple of months and if a person truly loves you they will reflect and know and will be clean as long as both are having clean lives like not having rebound relationships cause if they do that then they were never really what you thought they were and it was just a fantasy that you created in your head. What will be will be but you must regain yourself love so that you can love cause if you don’t love yourself or he doesn’t love himself then how are you going to love someone else if you don’t love yourself first.
Because they are the version of me which I failed to become
Just from that i can say u listen to eden.
Self hatred
This video is what i needed my dad just died a few weeks ago from lung cancer 52 years old and all my life ive been trying to make others happy. But no more im enough to love
THE LUCIANO FAMILY305 my uncle passed away just after his birthday, really is sad but always try and stay happy for them as that's what they would want
Try to make yourself happy too
@@vnx2738 God bless your uncle soul
God give Heave to your Fathers soul
I was crying during the entire video. This is something that resonates so much with me. It feels both sad and heartwarming to know that someone somewhere has gone through the same kind of pain and that i am understood. This is a very powerful inspiration for me.😢💕
At age six I didn't even know what love is. I was playing with mud and dirt. U kids gotta chill out 😂
before watching video: single
after watching video: still single.
😂😂
ERROR 😂😂🤣
Me too😂😂
Same. But at least I own my own house to be alone in!
after watching video: appreciating being single over a lie based relationship
To be honest at my 30, finally, I have come to understand that doesn't matter how much Love, Care, Time and Feelings you share with a person with whom you think will spend your life with and live a dreamed love life, but later (in my case it's 3 years) they will be bored, irritated, exhausted !! But this video is completely how I look into a relationship with another person now!! Thanks.
I needed this. Thank you TH-cam Algorithm
No doubt. Jabbed into me and took hold of something.
Definitely needed this 🙂
I can feel you! I was in the same situation, When I was 6 I had a crush on my art teacher in 3rd-grade she got married.
Haha
lols XD
Bachpan ka pyaar 🥺
This have been my whole life, trying to be perfect for girlfriends and ending up being disappointed, thinking there is something wrong with me.
I'm sure you've listened to this video and now see you are enough
If you do realise this you've found true happiness from the only person who can provide unconditional and monumental love as much as possible
To find the "right one" is not go have a perfect gf or bf bit rather the perfect friend that accepts your flaws and you accept there flaws and your own because looking for "The one" Is pointless because you are the one
@@MustardService thanks a lot.
0:21
Knees weak
Arms are heavy
There’s vomit on his sweater already , moms spaghetti
M_5 A00 he’s nervous, but on the surface he looks calm and ready
To drop bombs, but he keeps on forgetting
What he wrote down .. the whole crowd go so loud..
He opens his mouth, but the words won't come out
Don’t be loved for who you may become, be loved for who you are.
This
breaking someone's heart is as easy as throwing a rock in the ocean. but you never know how deep that can go..
I looked up sad videos bc I’m sad about my relationship and I’m weird like that...and I just found out I’ve got a lack of self love
Fingles
Me too I've been going through a lot because of quarantine and how I haven't seen my gf in 32 days and we've had struggles and barely held on but this video has taught me the complication I've had is being afraid to lose her and now I know I have allowed myself go hate myself but because of this video I know the more afraid I get to lose someone the higher the probability of me losing that person because of fear
Go out and stop being afraid of losing someone
Miss them yes
Love them yes
But if you're too afraid to lose them that's when it happens
@@MustardService this is exactly whats been happening to me man it sucks so bad
I’m 18. I’ve liked if not loved the same girl for almost 5 years. It’s the third time now that we’ve decided we shouldn’t talk to each other. I’ve been watching some videos posted by this channels after work or while working out and it’s given me motivation. But this... this hits home so hard
Love is really complicated It's like You have everything to give but they have so little to give you back. It really hurts when someone does that. It's their loss. They can never find someone like you. They will crave for such love and care when they get out of their childish games and they will never find it. So love Yourself You dodged a bullet YOU ARE ENOUGH!!
One thing I come to learn is that being in love is amazing but having a strong connection bought us together. learn from ur mistakes and see the world differently, make new things and let ur heart guide u
Ohhhhkkkayyyyyy...my gosh it feels like I was knowing it that's why every single time I'm getting hurt & betrayed but while watching this I acknowledged it !..tysm Roa❤️🥀
Bro this EXACTLY describes how I feel. I’m out of words. The story is so relatable, the story being almost exactly to the point
this story reminds me of the relationship i had with my daughter's mother.
MOTIVE T ISAAC this story reminds me of the relationship I had with my daughter.
Good Ol' Albama
This is beautiful and just what I needed.
Whatever I do I always feel I’m not good enough. This is still the narrative I picked up from my family and school.
But it was never about me. They projected their fears and insecurities onto me. Maybe it helped them feel better if they kept me down. Who knows.
I suffered immensely because of this. I grew immensely because of this.
Now, it’s time to let go of this belief.
Im beautiful and I am enough!
So are you!
"Self love is self discipline "
- Sandeep Maheshwari
One of the heart melting speech I ever listened on this channel
Wow wise words indeed, this bordering Borderline personality disorder, trying to be perfect for everyone else whilst denying yourself. To the point you don't even know who you are.
And my manly tears are flowing like a river. I have been bottling all these feelings for so long. really need to hear this. This is a wake up call. Thanks mate!
Whenever I heard him he makes me believe that I'm enough...we all did this for someone 💯
There is no traffic jam along the extra mile. Most people aren't willing to go the extra mile, so if you are, then you can set yourself apart from the crowd. This is my intention with my study and meditation music TH-cam channel. Many new TH-cam channels fail, but I believe that going the extra mile gives the best chance of success.
Chillout Meditation Music Go for it dude!
I have been denied by every girls I’ve asked out in my entire life so far. It really lowered my self-esteem. I began to believe that I was a loser and will never find love. I really needed to watch this video. It really boosted my spirits
Drew HQ hey king 👑 just want to say, you don’t have to ask out a lot of women. It would make you seem desperate and thus lowers your attractiveness.
There was a similar video, take care of yourself as the person as you love. When you have so much love in you, then you give it away to the person who needs it the most.
I'm seeing myself in that guy. Putting myself for others always, being the best, wanting to be the best in others life while I'm putting myself at worst for them when they leave. This video is kinda going to change my life and a reminder for me everyday
Best motivational video I ever saw in my life...
I'm speechless.
Really needed this, thank you for posting. ❤️
Why did this pop up in my feed? How did it know I needed this literally the next day?... Thank you so much...
I can relate to this guy so much , and I appreciate this speech. I’ve been through so much bro fr fr
After my night last night... this video just made me feel so much better, thank you for this!
I don't know you, but I'm glad 👊🏾🙏🏾
I cried listening to you... Every word is a truth...every word...💞
Love this! 💖
This story really touch something deep inside, a lot of us can relate to that experience....it was tough to hear as i felt empathy for him, but i really admire and commend him when he was at his lowest to find the strength and courage to pick himself up and recognize his self worth and value to himself.....a very uplifting and inspiration to us all that we can find within ourselves....we all have been there...i love this vid...
I‘m speechless... that was definitely the most inspiring video i ever saw...
I am enough and that's enough just by showing up
that hit hard
thank you man for this speech
it made me realise that i gotta start realising my self worth more and bond with others by being the real me not the perfect me others want me to be.
thank you
Develop your confidence, build it up like a castle of pride(not arrogance). Then if you have enough self-confidence to analyze people if you can trust them, start out with being friends…if that low level of connection doesn't work, what more if it's a higher commitment? You'll end up in divorce. See both good and the bad in every individual and ask yourself if you can live with their qualities.
I really love this message !
That was amazing! Life changing 🙏🏽
That's exactly like my story till I started realising that I'm just trying to fit myself in the vision of others. This video means so much to me now.
Thanks for sharing, Adam. 🙏🏻
Another great speech!!!!
Loved it!😍🥰😍🥰
I already know that I will watch it several times - as I did with the other one.😊
THANK YOU!!!
@Beast Perspective Nice videos on your channel! 😉👍🏻
Keep doing it!!!!
Shes the most beautiful i’ve ever seen in my life
Shows a kid
🤣🤣 yeah I never understood those reference.
Well he is six years old at that times🤷
Bruh. Pay attention to the relevancy of the story. As he said this he was referring to his six year old self.
hes not wrong, 6 years, that was his life
So many r/whoosh candidates
Amazing !!! I needed this 😊✌️
This video should be shown to every teen, I made the same mistakes when I was 16 not releasing the small things or the signs.
Absolutely incredible. Needed to hear this. ❤
I have had enough of living life for others. I now am living life for myself.
Be you, take yourself out and enjoy the world 😍
I wonder what these sound like without the sad or empowering music in the background
I stayed married 17 years always trying to see the best in him when all he was doing was seeing the worst in me. I will never again put someone above me. It isn't healthy. The right person will lift me up, not tear me down to nothing.
What did you do to make him seethe worst in you
@@SebastianRamirez-sm7zp Nothing. He was a narcissistic drug addicted alcoholic who used his childhood trauma to keep me hooked.
Hang in there
Uh rocked the site mister this is wat we were awaiting for long ......"dont ever try to make people happy while uh are still unhappy"....if life hits uh so hard every now and then then stop right there take a turn and let people now hit on you ...be the perfect you and people will hit on you instead of uh hitting on them now and then
I love how this video took a turn in the ending ✌️
You bring me back to my senses dude... U rock!
Simply amazing and this guy is so powerful.
This video hits me, im with a girl for 1 year and 2 months already. And everything changed when the lockdown started. I just cant see any reason why but she said she regretted everything on me.
If your young don't fall in love because it's fake.
Thanks for advice
Preach
Exactly bruh
As a teenager I recognize that teenagers do not understand the concept of love, and love only the concept
@@philipmartinez496. Not sure about that. I hated the concept but now my brain is hella fucked up, thinking about a girl 24/7. But she just loved the concept of being loved. Not loving. That make sense?
Thats all i needed to hear tbh. Thank you so much :)
This is basically my life story this has helped me realize a lot
I needed this ,thank you so much
mate im 17 and u just helped me to see what my problem is. Thank u
This is so me. I see the best in the persons I open up for. If she doesn't respond sometimes, I blame it on myself. something has got to be wrong with me is what I keep telling myself every time she doesn't respond or listen to me or whatever. and it's killing me because I'm very sad inside but don't show it because I don't want to make her feel sad. so I keep blaming myself and is slowly starting to hate myself.
But don't get me wrong. I know my girlfriend is the most wonderful person. I'm just too harsh on myself.
I love this Guy!!! Really love this words!!!! Thank you Adam!!! See you one day♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻💪🏻💪🏻
my eyes got opened thank u so much .
If someone is betraying you ..!!! You need to forgive yourself first for feeling how they project themselves they can't change about themselves in you...
EXCELLENT!! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU !!♥️♥️♥️
Adam..you are so influenving..i loved the way u talk..great...your speech is awesome..adam roaa👍❤😍
While listening this I realized im sad and im so lost
I know what heart break feel . when you even don't have to share your feeling with . Crying silently on midnight every dream of that person who is not yours. the moment You put all your energy but they don't feel thae love even don't value you your love
Well said.... perfect for my situation 💯😇😍
there is too much in this video that I can relate too... thx man
I can't have enough words...to describe...but what ur story has 💯 similar to me..I went through all this and from months m doubting myself why all this happened ...
Thx .for telling me.
Congo for you ...u have become u.
Now m becoming me.again for me.
Love - is when you wish all the best to the people you love, when you put their interests and well-being above their own. Always.
-Angelina Jolie
🤩
black ghost! 69 when you put their interests and well being being above their own? I’m confused
So true . Amazing
Thanks man, you got me on the right path
This story lines up with my situation so well.
this speaks so many facts into my life it coresoponds literally to everything in my life
Love you man!!! I was going through the same situations and I am happy because now I know what I was doing wrong. 🤘
Thank you so much 😢😢 really ...this is very much related to me ...and whatever you said ... everything is true...😢
Dont be sad bro😊
This is what I need I am currently going through a breakup of 7 years with a daughter I feel like my life is crumbling. But I know she is not good for me but i still go back. After all the things she did to me and we did to each other I keep running back when I know I shouldn’t...
Put yourself better than her cuz she probably not gonna try to put any effort for the relationship and you will for no reaosn. Just be in love with yourself then with someone who doesn't even love u back
I assume all the dislikes are from the people who lacks fidelity & honesty!
I am glad to have this video in my suggestions..🔥💯✨
Thanks a lot, this just helped me in my first relationship
You just told my story. Thank you.
Thank you for this ♥️
Am 21 years old and I have been through 5 relationship...i relate so much to this guy I always try to put others first and if one relationship ends I will be like maybe I did something wrong and try to find miss perfect I put her so high that I can do anything and I mean anything to see her smile and laugh but they don't do that for me and I still continue to believe in others but no more am gonna try to change myself
N how you ll try to change?
man you really make me cry because i been thru it