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  • @goalcast
    @goalcast  6 ปีที่แล้ว +196

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    • @sujitaher7106
      @sujitaher7106 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow !

    • @mnjisun
      @mnjisun 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm just speechless...

    • @helpcrazy
      @helpcrazy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Do you have an spanish version of this video? I love this video and i wanna share it with my friends but they dont understand english, thank you

    • @valeriasedano33
      @valeriasedano33 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@helpcrazy I agree whit you

    • @valeriasedano33
      @valeriasedano33 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@helpcrazy si lo llegas a tener avisame porfavor. Thanks😉

  • @-genesis-182
    @-genesis-182 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4028

    "Treat yourself like someone you loved" thats next lvl

    • @lordmysaviour5738
      @lordmysaviour5738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What’s the point I want nice ass treatment for myself n others

    • @dharmendraprasad2430
      @dharmendraprasad2430 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      - Genesis - it means ..like your self

    • @craftworld7530
      @craftworld7530 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Treat yourself like someone you loved

    • @callmeandy5402
      @callmeandy5402 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you liked that, read 12 rules of life by Jordan Peterson and be baffled

    • @the_hanburger
      @the_hanburger 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      tHaTs nExT Lvl...
      Well now that's r/iam14andthisisdeep

  • @thesfnb.5786
    @thesfnb.5786 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1968

    These people are the reason for why humanity has hope.

  • @kanieswanson9677
    @kanieswanson9677 5 ปีที่แล้ว +959

    "Treat yourself like someone you loved" and that's where I started crying. I just went through a breakup where I believed I wasn't enough and I wasn't worth it. It's hard to not find your validation in someone else's eyes, but it's so satisfying once you find your own inner worth. Thank you for this

    • @nirbhikasachdev3373
      @nirbhikasachdev3373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It will get better. Hang in there. Going through the same. Just know we'll somehow make it.

    • @tomwanders6022
      @tomwanders6022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I feel you bro my ex broke up with me for another guy a little bit more then 2 months ago and it still hurts but by far not as hard. Cause it did one thing and that is working on my self I started doing sports changing my diet doing drivers lessons I go to school again and I am generally trying to get what the teachers are saying my arm almost never is down in a lesson no matter which Subjekt and after all this time I can finally say, I am very proud of my self. I can finally FINALLY start improving because I let my self try out stuff I mean yeah it still hurts when I think about my ex and it most likely always will but at least I can say I love my self because I worked for my self.

    • @aanchalcharan7544
      @aanchalcharan7544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      see it's okay,i can feel you but you don't need the social validation, think about the people who are still with you in your life, those who never left you.

    • @nirbhikasachdev3373
      @nirbhikasachdev3373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tomwanders6022 I'm so proud of you. Hoping I reach this stage soon. Thanks for sharing your progress.

    • @workingboss7030
      @workingboss7030 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww.. You'll be fine

  • @margaretsmith5119
    @margaretsmith5119 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I heard my 6 year old daughter talking to herself. I said to her, "who are you talking to, Jessica." Her reply, "Myself. You know mummy I will never be lonely as long as I have myself." Very wise at 6 years. She is now 50 years old

  • @sahilgoswami4145
    @sahilgoswami4145 6 ปีที่แล้ว +679

    Love is the answer, love is the key, but if you can't love yourself , how can you love me ? 🖤 🖤

    • @DarkAce1
      @DarkAce1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i woke up eating air cuz i was dreaming of eating 😦

  • @saiful4244
    @saiful4244 6 ปีที่แล้ว +733

    This guy need to produce a song. I want his album so bad

  • @thetruthbetweenthelines8521
    @thetruthbetweenthelines8521 6 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    This reminds me about: do the things right and right things will happen to you. We get what we are and what we will become. Everything starts with our transformation.

  • @the_hanburger
    @the_hanburger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1265

    Thid guy is practically rapping and telling a motivative message 😂

    • @syundown6005
      @syundown6005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Yes, I believe they call it "poetry" :)

    • @museenergy
      @museenergy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@syundown6005 yes, spoken word poetry!

    • @lanizzlefoshizz951
      @lanizzlefoshizz951 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      it’s called poetry my guy

    • @miekaxiii
      @miekaxiii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @onelasttime5959
      @onelasttime5959 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Slam poetry

  • @corexdraconem8632
    @corexdraconem8632 6 ปีที่แล้ว +750

    I am a huge fan of Poetry Slams and wasn‘t expecting one here, but man you killed it!

    • @lordmysaviour5738
      @lordmysaviour5738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh poetry slams it iswhat this is about ..

  • @PratyushSkywalker
    @PratyushSkywalker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    No matter how many times I see this video, it always ends with tears of joy.

  • @ItWasPain32
    @ItWasPain32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've been watching this video now for like 3 month every day before I sleep and I promise you: This video is the real deal. Embrace it, let it power you and never forget YOU ARE ALREADY ENOUGH

  • @MyraValdez
    @MyraValdez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Today is my birthday and I've been looking for a partner my entire life. After many failed relationships, I now need to focus on me .This is exactly what I needed to hear, especially on this day. Thank you for this amazing video. I am everything that I need & very grateful.

  • @forthejoyfit
    @forthejoyfit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    “You can be a lover not a fighter” ❤️👊🏼

    • @nitishroy153
      @nitishroy153 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey what's up?

    • @lordmysaviour5738
      @lordmysaviour5738 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sdont quite get this line.. tell me what u think 😊

  • @M7mdeltohamy
    @M7mdeltohamy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    And so today, I hope I leave you with a direction correction ..
    Away from the flaws you see in your reflection ..
    They aren't flaws to me, they are simply protection ..
    Against all the doubt you have of your "Perfection" ..
    Some of the best words ever said .. ❣️

  • @tylermurphy9551
    @tylermurphy9551 6 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    “I am who I’ve been looking for”

  • @idkok5747
    @idkok5747 6 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I feel like these days in a society that profits from your insecurities,loving yourself is a true act of rebellion.

  • @j3tstep
    @j3tstep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video has brought an end to my war for belonging. I belong to myself, and that's enough.

  • @domi1889
    @domi1889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "Treat yourself like someone you've loved". That made me cry instantly out of nowhere. I'm right after a break up. I know how much I've done for her. We love each others but can't go on together. I've always made her feel good when she didn't. But I never thought about that advice. That's such a great one

  • @coryburson3192
    @coryburson3192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think for most the hardest part, once ppl accept its ok to luv themselves is knowing the difference between loving themselves as opposed to being selfish...many confuse the two....as well as confusing arrogance with confidence...not the same thing at all.....Well done everyone! Well done!

  • @koustabhchoudhury7907
    @koustabhchoudhury7907 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This dude made me cry every word he said was true and so pure. I'm who I've been looking for .Thank you for this

  • @kartiksharma2756
    @kartiksharma2756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "If you can't love yourself how could you love someone else"
    So True.

  • @PandaManPlaysFifa
    @PandaManPlaysFifa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    I really needed this today ❤️

    • @lordmysaviour5738
      @lordmysaviour5738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️

    • @ILoveYou-bv7mf
      @ILoveYou-bv7mf 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too ☺♥

    • @mikehunthurts3558
      @mikehunthurts3558 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      🍺

    • @alelamanna8084
      @alelamanna8084 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too ( I owe you a beer ) jajajja

    • @5.0steph
      @5.0steph 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dan the directions are down the hall and to your left and you will find... ❤

  • @anthonyyesudas
    @anthonyyesudas 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Treat yourself like someone "YOU" love. ❤
    This one sentence is enough to love yourself. ❤️

  • @mikoo-353
    @mikoo-353 6 ปีที่แล้ว +579

    But there is always room for improvement. Don't lie to yourself and neglect your mistakes, telling yourself that you are perfect when you're not. Because you wouldn't lie to someone you love, right? There is nothing bad about admitting that you can treat people better, that you can loose some weight because it may affect your health, that you can give up bad habits, smile more, be more social etc. Work on your mistakes and you will love yourself more and more every day.

    • @jamestan362
      @jamestan362 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Funny how you put desire as a benefit to one.

    • @lordmysaviour5738
      @lordmysaviour5738 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ya man ^ the above is more acceptable to me.. to my mind

    • @МадиЮсупов-ю7ф
      @МадиЮсупов-ю7ф 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You are right, I live myself but I am not narcissistic and I am not crazy about myself, so being with yourself is healthy, try to change so you can love yourself more.

    • @nickherbin8094
      @nickherbin8094 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I think you are missing the point, that every imperfection in someone is what makes them perfect, that you would rather have someone you love be imperfect because THAT is perfect in itself rather than be perfect, never make a mistake, because mistakes are what make those good moments even more perfect.

    • @sunn129
      @sunn129 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah...i am always confused with this two concepts..they seem contradictory.

  • @aditya.24.sharma
    @aditya.24.sharma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Legendary speech ♥️ i have been coming here every now and then since last 3 years to listen to this... Self love best explained :)

  • @elisabethstabel2082
    @elisabethstabel2082 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I know this is the truth. because every men i fell in love wih was someone i wanted to be. so instead i choose to persue the person i wanna be

  • @rottenaj1654
    @rottenaj1654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i just sent this to my mom❤️ i hope this makes her feel better

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      massage him on WhatsApp

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +1=2=0=.4=8=0=.8=2=2=3=4.

  • @saarthaksabhijnan1354
    @saarthaksabhijnan1354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Adam Roa ❤ he just won my heart. Infact he cleared all these years of, tons of illusions which blocked my way in just 5. Thank you for helping me to find happiness within.

  • @trme872
    @trme872 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All I can say is that "you saved my life"! God bless you...

  • @kapkap7315
    @kapkap7315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this video changed my life i’ve been depressed about my girlfriend and i was thinking what did i do wrong.

  • @Nettie.89
    @Nettie.89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Adam Roa I cant tell you enough how this has changed my life... I can look in the mirror and say I’m beautiful and good enough !! Keep doing what you do

  • @runninginsept
    @runninginsept 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This kept coming up in my recommend, and I tried to ignore it for the longest time.
    Till I couldn't anymore.
    And now I'm in love ❤️

  • @mailynguyenvideodiary7159
    @mailynguyenvideodiary7159 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Videos like this , make me realize that I have all I need , all i got, I just need to love myself , and treat myself right ... its hard ...yeah it is hard , but we need to try ...

  • @bollywollyxD
    @bollywollyxD 6 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I just needed this thanks.😭

  • @arlenemelendez8904
    @arlenemelendez8904 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've used this in therapy with clients that have problems with self esteem. It has been great.

  • @asharockz7
    @asharockz7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Treat yourself like someone you love! "

  • @jenny5109
    @jenny5109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Honestly speaking, I was just thinking about any future relationship I’ll be in. I shut myself down fast, because I feel like I can’t relate to no guys when they all chase the same girls. Then this video came up, thanks Big Brother. I immediately was shook. I’m like this is just what I needed.

  • @Neerajkumar-tv4yo
    @Neerajkumar-tv4yo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Treat yourself like someone you loved

  • @stepforward4365
    @stepforward4365 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Exactly. I was resisting the idea of self love because I always thought I love myself but I was far from self love. I was loving myself from the outside but inside I didn't know my worth. We're God creation, how come we treat ourselves that way

  • @bridgetdraper8671
    @bridgetdraper8671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My husband and I needed this! Then, we shared it with everyone possible! God! Thank you is NOT enough! Saved our lives!

  • @ruwaydraffa3763
    @ruwaydraffa3763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like one of the biggest reasons why what he is saying is so persuasive is the fact that he is using poetry to convey his message!

  • @derekmoody8256
    @derekmoody8256 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I will have to hear this everyday for a long time. I spent so long trying to love the wrong people. I need to be in a relationship with me for a while!

  • @reginahuber
    @reginahuber 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes, it's beautiful, and... you don't need to deserve anything because you created everything and you are everything in your universe. You are perfect just because you are. So there's no need to deserve anything.

  • @sha_la007
    @sha_la007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is my 2020 video. I am who I have been looking for. This video is AMAZING!

  • @Hjulia79
    @Hjulia79 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tack!

  • @shirleyakpelu1831
    @shirleyakpelu1831 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Excellent poem. I needed to be reminded of this. We have to love others as we love ourselves!

  • @doughboy_503
    @doughboy_503 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Someone who grew up being on the spectrum. These videos help me threw negativity, unlike high school. I consider these motivational speakers my teachers.

  • @secondemail8242
    @secondemail8242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Pursue the person you want to be.”

  • @TheOriginalWB
    @TheOriginalWB 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was there when Adam was asked to come on stage and give us a poem, its was wonderful!
    It still has power, Thanks again Adam.

  • @deeb3272
    @deeb3272 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Im in depression. Thank you so much.

    • @aureliemarie4225
      @aureliemarie4225 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dee B depression. Sucks ... I know. But you can be happy again

    • @layshethiya4178
      @layshethiya4178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May God bless you and take away all your miseries

  • @anan-drea
    @anan-drea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I will watch this video whenever I feel lost, or irritated. Sometimes you solely forget what you are worth. Thank you for this beautiful message 💙

  • @anastasiakarpova651
    @anastasiakarpova651 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I got so many chills from this. Just wow

  • @yashchandak8016
    @yashchandak8016 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your world can be brighter,your load can be lighter. You are enough ❤️❤️

  • @Lonewoft
    @Lonewoft 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm the broken one and i need this. Thank you.

  • @HoudaBetsyPS3
    @HoudaBetsyPS3 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    “She gave me a hug and said treat yourself like someone you loved” 🥺🌻💛

  • @PracticalInspiration
    @PracticalInspiration 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    So powerful. Just incredible to listen to!

  • @marioz4198
    @marioz4198 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This gentleman is brilliant.
    Whoever doesn't listen to take advice from this gentleman as a whole lot to learn.
    Because everything what he's talkin about it's the way Society is today. We are so blind so dumb between social media and the TV that we don't even know who we are anymore.!!!!

  • @paulheyman8049
    @paulheyman8049 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This video deserves millions of views...👍👌

    • @paulheyman8049
      @paulheyman8049 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @HiDiMo Enterprises thn nw its tym to hit billion😉

  • @i_mobasshir
    @i_mobasshir 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stop thinking about what you do not have and start appreciating what you do have as it is Precious. Treat yourself like someone you Love. Wow
    That is pretty powerful stuff

  • @BMF-bq9xn
    @BMF-bq9xn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is so true. I finally figured myself out and this was exactly what I told myself. Perfectly putforth and simply portrayed for those who are just watching this. This will really change if you allow it do so within yourself😊

  • @erikmorris872
    @erikmorris872 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the most inspirational, moving and truly important videos I have ever had the pleasure of watching. Thank you. I am very blessed to watch this everyday!!!

  • @MikeKollin
    @MikeKollin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So Powerful... I am a Personal Development coach. And I teach men it's not about the money or things you buy or own... she wants to connect with you but you need to connect with your - "Self" first so she can connect with your "self". Once you learn how to connect with yourself, others can then connect with you! Once you truly Love yourself then and only then can others love you. If you can't Love your "SELF" how can you possibly Love someone else??? Be compassionate towards yourself because then others will see that you can also be Compassionate with them... Love to you All... 💕

  • @charleywalker9272
    @charleywalker9272 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish macklemore or some rapper could perform this and let it go viral on radio; because the world needs to hear this. You are who you've been looking for.

  • @jdubisbest6204
    @jdubisbest6204 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "Sooner or Later a Person begins to notice, that everything that happens to him or her is perfect ..." ~Paul Williams : Das Energi

  • @anoosha9963
    @anoosha9963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Treat yourself like someone you loved" and that was the time that I start crying so hard

  • @ispitmygumonthesidewalk9753
    @ispitmygumonthesidewalk9753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of the best motivational speakers out there

  • @tajcin.2769
    @tajcin.2769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This clip is from the 2017 Life is a Playground event by Kyle Cease.
    Kyle is a comedian and transformational speaker and Adam Roa was in the audience of this event. Just before this clip, Adam was telling Kyle how he is used to preforming to audiences of 50-10 people, but that he would love to preform infront of larger crowds. However, he feels like he can't because he doesn't know the right people or have the right connections. Kyle was saying how the connection to ourself is the only connection that truly matters and then he invited Adam onto the stage to preform his poem.
    I was just watching the event and when I saw Adam, I remembered seeing this clip a couple of years ago. Its so amazing to see how just a few moments before he walked up onto that stage, Adam was so unsure and insecure in his own ability. If anyone is interested, I really recommend watching the whole event. You can find it on Kyle Cease' official page and it is truly life changing. Much love to everyone ❤

  • @veero8130
    @veero8130 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    How does this not have 5mil views?!
    More people need to see this

  • @emmaputt2183
    @emmaputt2183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So needed to hear this beautiful piece of poetry. I have personally felt unworthy for so many years. Dealing with PTSD and Depression.

  • @ngljaani
    @ngljaani 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh...god I started loving myself after watching this video😭😭😭😭 i loved it

  • @jenniferpiper4293
    @jenniferpiper4293 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is truly tragic how many wonderful people walk around every day feeling insignificant and troubled with sadness. This was a beautiful video and the world will be a brighter place and filled with more hope because of it. Thank you!

  • @jaibay5877
    @jaibay5877 6 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    Im sad this generation of dating and breaking up is too easy

    • @sieannesantis5786
      @sieannesantis5786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah

    • @mev7709
      @mev7709 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Yep apparently forever means 4 months now

    • @mementomori502
      @mementomori502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      There wasn't even dating back then, only courting. You know why relationships today don't last long? It's because dating came to us. The idea that we can leave when we can sounds good, BUT IT IS MORE DAMAGING THAN WE CAN EVER IMAGINE AND WE DON'T EVEN SEE IT. Put dating in the trash bin, start courting

    • @caribaez5711
      @caribaez5711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      When people end relationships, that means they were not that caring towards you. Love yourself.

    • @caribaez5711
      @caribaez5711 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jai bay the right people will come to you.

  • @ujjwalroy1691
    @ujjwalroy1691 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    How relative it is to humanity where in every religion we have a soul awekening message which has the only motive to bring peace. Maybe some glitches in our myth has lead people to misunderstand the motive. This video taught me the real pleasure of life is to love yourself first and yeah that's the key. You're awesome.

  • @khushboojhamnani6337
    @khushboojhamnani6337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can listen to this everyday of each year.🖤

  • @olgavbondarenko
    @olgavbondarenko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this gem. I literally wanna wake up everyday and remind myself this over & over again till I start thinking this way! Wish everybody who sees this a wonderful self-loving life.

  • @ephraimmoye4772
    @ephraimmoye4772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This found me in time of need... And I never needed anymore.

  • @ameliacastel916
    @ameliacastel916 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got the quote ‘treat yourself like someone you love’ tatted on my thigh so when I look down it reminds me I am enough. Adam Roa changed my life the day I listened to his speech. He is the reason I am still here, I am A mother because I stumbled across his work &Listened. Thank you Adam! We all adore you keep changing &Saving lives ❤️

  • @Sneha-rc6hh
    @Sneha-rc6hh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "treat yourself like someone you lovED"

    • @Laura-q2k6p
      @Laura-q2k6p 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      in such case think of the cute innocent child you were and love that.

  • @nicolaaslouw9945
    @nicolaaslouw9945 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I tend to only give likes to things I think are meaningful contributions to humanity. This is one such a thing.

  • @circehelen
    @circehelen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    “ _You are who you’ve been looking for._
    Stop looking for more unless you’re looking in a mirror because it’s about time for you to see clearly that you are who you’ve been looking for.
    And that empty feeling you got, that hole in your chest? You only got that feeling because you think you’re not blessed with everything you need.
    You see, we live in a consumerist society, which means they need you to buy stuff. And the easiest way to sell it is to tell you you’re not enough.
    _Buy this car, you’ll get girls_
    _Buy this bra, you’ll get guys_
    And we’re seeing it so much that we start believing these lies but the truth is; the make up they’re selling you to feel prettier is the same make up you buy to stop feeling shittier about this lie they keep telling you.
    _That you are not enough._
    And what about the movies we watch, all the shows on TV? The more I watch the more I see I need you to complete me.
    And yes, love is the answer, love is the key but if you can’t love yourself, how could you ever love me?
    And loving yourself, what does that even mean? Like massages and selfies and that sort of thing?
    Because the more I think about it the more it feels weird; I've always been taught that self love was something to be feared, I’ve been taught that arrogance is bad and vanity? It’s not good. And even my bracelets are telling me to act how Jesus would.
    So what should I do?
    How should I act? I'm supposed to love myself but how do I even do that?
    Well I got a trick that I picked up from a friend, who noticed that I was quick to defend, her when she would say something negative about herself.
    She'd say, “I'm so dumb.”
    I'd say, “You're so brilliant.”
    She'd say “I'm so weak.”
    And I'd say, “You’re so resilient.”
    And when she said, “I feel ugly.”
    And I said, “You look beautiful.”
    She asked me why I was so dutifully filling up her cup constantly and yet treating my own cups so irresponsibly?
    Because when I looked in the mirror, my voice was quite clear;
    “You're ugly, you're too thin, your hairline’s receding, you got a pimple on your chin.”
    And that was when she gave me a piece of advice that changed my life. She gave me a hug and she said, “Treat yourself like someone you loved.”
    _Treat yourself like someone you loved._
    Now I had been standing but I need to be sitting because I couldn't believe that I had been letting myself keep forgetting that I was who I had been looking for.
    And deep in my core I knew it was time to stop looking for more until I could look all through my fear and look into a mirror and see clearly, that the man looking back at me was the only one who could make me happy and I'm already enough.
    And I'm not any more special or unique than you.
    That's why I'm here to speak to you.
    _You are already enough._
    And when you start to see that, you will be that, your world will get brighter, your load will get lighter and you see that with life you can be a lover not a fighter.
    And that life; you deserve it. Because you're worth it
    And there is no point in letting yourself keep forgetting because no matter what you say or do; You are perfect.
    And so today I hope I leave you with a direction, correction away from the flaws you see in your reflection; They aren’t flaws to me, they’re simply protection against all the doubts you have of your perfection.
    So start today.
    Take a good look of yourself in the mirror.
    And say, “I’m who I’ve been looking for.””

    • @theitalianscorpio
      @theitalianscorpio ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for posting this. I was about to start listening to it slowed way down so I could write it down.

    • @michelamonicafergnani5065
      @michelamonicafergnani5065 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you❤️❤️❤️

  • @lorenaanais
    @lorenaanais 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Treat yourself like someone you love. It's a wonderful perspective and a way to improve. Those we love are not perfect and not enough to fulfill all our needs, and neither are we. We are all imperfect, we are enough only when God makes us enough. Only when God becomes our one, unending source of love. Because love from anywhere else is limited, temporary, & ephemeral.

  • @sachinb.v3151
    @sachinb.v3151 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    These videos are always uplifting and makes me to believe in miracles ..

  • @julieramos3723
    @julieramos3723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this. this is a message i need to hear and remind myself every single day to find my path to happiness and love.

  • @kaileedelossantos
    @kaileedelossantos 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This has been my favorite video I saw today by far..thank you! So beautiful!

  • @kara6320
    @kara6320 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I finished watching this video with a smile on my face because of all the truths he just spilled.....im left speechless at the same time because if only all consumers watched this video, companies could no longer make us feel like we are not enough!!!!! and instead have to use empowering messages to market their products i hope and think that that is the future of advertising

  • @yashchandak8016
    @yashchandak8016 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So much of goodness in 5 minutes. Wow this is the video I have been looking for. Love and peace.

  • @deadlykiss827
    @deadlykiss827 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is literally the best speech i 've ever heard in a lifetime.

  • @conversionperspectivesbyva4772
    @conversionperspectivesbyva4772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Exceptional, Thought Provoking, Inspiring & Empowering!

  • @rachelloy6942
    @rachelloy6942 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    currently watching this for the third time in an hour because i just kEEP coming back to it. this is so impactful and amazing and so beautifully crafted together!

  • @tothemoon222
    @tothemoon222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Adam Roa, this made me cry. You are amazing for sharing this. 💛💫

  • @Piduhooj
    @Piduhooj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These words carry a different meaning once you start to see what loving yourself means.

  • @amiralimonshizadeh6541
    @amiralimonshizadeh6541 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2658

    The people who disliked this video work in bra shops or car dealerships

    • @candysparkles5016
      @candysparkles5016 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😄😄😄

    • @brookekelly2596
      @brookekelly2596 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I liked this video and i sell cars. Helping people find a car they actually like and assisting them in a way to get to and from work/running family and kids where they need to be/errands/doctor's appointments/etc is not only a sense of pride in a good day at work, but joy when they drive away with a big burden lifted i helped them with. Not every car salesman/woman are sleaze bags. The spirit of this video was supposed to be positive. Way to be negative.

    • @Annaanna-tx5mu
      @Annaanna-tx5mu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂

    • @jennguyen678
      @jennguyen678 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brookekelly2596 if I meet you in life, I will make you fee full set french gel nail! Cause of your generous!

    • @أبومطلقآلمردوف
      @أبومطلقآلمردوف 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amirali Monshizadeh I bet

  • @Maryam.Helall
    @Maryam.Helall 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    As the old saying goes treat others how you wish to be treated but this is a new saying and I hope it goes on forever treat yourself like someone you love

  • @LifeMantraForBetterLife
    @LifeMantraForBetterLife 6 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Awesome... You are perfect... My fav line 😇

    • @stefansimovic6707
      @stefansimovic6707 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nobody is perfect

    • @MoAlnaseri
      @MoAlnaseri 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha but no one is perfect

    • @lordmysaviour5738
      @lordmysaviour5738 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wai

    • @meganjustice2608
      @meganjustice2608 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You should love yourself even though you're flawed and NOT perfect. You can always work on improving yourself. That's part of loving yourself unconditionally.

  • @PHEONIX-w2y
    @PHEONIX-w2y 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bcoz of people like you there is still hope in humanity. 🙂

  • @SHARmainEHOPE
    @SHARmainEHOPE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you. God spoken to me through this.

  • @uwamahoroesther5669
    @uwamahoroesther5669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U changed My life forever

  • @c0wpredator
    @c0wpredator 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Thank you so much, I needed this very badly.

  • @alimuzaffar5281
    @alimuzaffar5281 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks fellas, you people make humanity or allow humanity to breathe even this day. People love to test them went hard on themselves, it's crack them from the inside. Made room for optimism and happiness because, testing will go forever, until you are alive.