@@heathermcalpine802 let's just say I have been physically and mentally abused for most of my relationships because I WAS codependent (caring for everyone but myself). Treated very badly by men.
Sis, please block 🚫 I just done mine last November, i blocked and deleted, and I'm at peace . Don't look back , move forward for your peace and sanity ❤
So true. Once my heart changes, there's no going back. My ex valiantly bought me 36 roses only after I served him papers. He missed multiple opportunities to celebrate Mother's Day up to that time and treat me well. The roses were proof that he knew all along what to do. Well, too little, too late. I no longer believed, nor cared.
100% True. Just needed him to step it up, focus on me, so we could elevate to next level. He cant support my goals like I did all his. Instead I get sabotage
I….. in a relationship for 23 years and he has changed so much but you are right, I have quietly checked out and don’t want to go back! I’m done. Can’t look at him the same. He hurt me so bad….😢😢….
Best way that I can describe it is that I just don't feel connected to him any more. I don't know if you can get that back after everything that they DON'T do when you communicate what you need. You get the ick, for lack of a better phrase.
Derrick Jaxn, I am truly amazed at how wise, deep, and knowledgeable you are about relationships and people. I'm blown away as I listen to you saying the many things that women need to hear and see in our men. Thank you so much for helping us see ourselves more clearly!
I, I and continued I's.. traumatized and so much more to the core..married abandoned left for everything in the world all even after years of even taking him back and married after forgiving, after he already kicked my foot in and tried to kill me for no reason. I still after years went by he looked for me for years after getting out of a few years going to prison for that. Me knowing from back then what he done to me. I gave him another chance to my heart, time, life believing he changed like he claimed and married just to break everything I built even more. So much it's a book needing written.
I gave the ex hubby of 18 yrs the best of all of me, and he gave me the worst of himself. I ended up in a domestic violence shelter. It was so painful but I've learned to love myself and see myself as how God sees me. I'm worthy of love, honor, and respect ❤.
Thank you for the replenishment. For the reminder of clarity. Sometimes us ladies are so deep in our emotions that we have a hard time seeing things for what they really are. I appreciate the helping hand.❤
ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!! Accepting weaknesses and focusing on the strength!! Whoaaaaa I'M SOOOOO GRATEFUL FOR YOU AND THIS CHANNEL!!! I CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR THIS MESSAGE!!!!!! KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK. I'M PRAYING THAT JESUS WILL CONTINUE TO USE YOU MIGHTILY FOR HIS GLORY 🙌 👏 👏 👏 Very Grateful 🙏
Again............the 100% TRUTH!!!! It's exactly what GOD loves!!! I gave him a long-assed time to get it right. I was as patient as JOB. He didn't come into the 'understanding' until I turned and left for good. You're right...too little, too late.
So true and since I was a teenager, I’m a senior now, everyone of those men I said no to because of my standards, would show up later but it was too late.
Here's a crummy thought: Once you are so bitter and "scalded" (great analogy) and cannot receive him the way you wanted to, and did for so long, NOW he changes and you break up because the spark is dead. Then the next woman gets to enjoy those changes, and so on until some other woman down the line finally gets his relationship-ready self. It can be frustrating for the ones he chewed through while he was growing up. Took your innocence, left you jaded then settles with someone who can treat him how he wants to be treated BECAUSE he treats her the way he should have done Girl #1.
Thank you for your videos you have helped me wake up and realize so much. This new road is a little scary but I value myself way more than staying because it’s “comfortable”
The bomb! So many truths! Thank you for sharing this content! Somatic therapy is amazing! I’ve had myself and kids in it for years. Need to get the body out of hypervisualance into peace.🙏 True healing. Men and women need to come together our family unit depends on it! Cheers to the men out their doing the work! Your Queens are too…. Codependent no more is another great book. 🙏🥰❤ Peace and love everyone!
Checked out for 10 years, met someone new...ended up the same situation even though I tried to be my best healed self, retraumatized me and Im checked again.
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Some men play with women like there toy and treat a relationship like its a game I really enjoy being single
Me to ❤❤
@@SharelleCountzI agree 👌🏼
Same here I'm with ya sis
I'm now starting my training to be the female version of John Wick.
Get it!! 💪
He was an assassin, why would you want to train to become that?
@devinesent7696 maybe just maybe her last relationship mutated her perception. It's really not a hard concept to understand.
And actually . . . I'm already there.
@@heathermcalpine802 let's just say I have been physically and mentally abused for most of my relationships because I WAS codependent (caring for everyone but myself). Treated very badly by men.
TRUTH! I am so done with him and he calls randomly like nothing is wrong.
Sis, please block 🚫 I just done mine last November, i blocked and deleted, and I'm at peace .
Don't look back , move forward for your peace and sanity ❤
Yeah, why do they do that ? 🤔🤯
It’s scary how they take no responsibility and act like it nothing happened
Isn’t that wild?! They act like nothing happened. It’s like, what planet have you been on bc it sure wasn’t mine
It's been 50 years, and I still don't care, and he still doesn't get it 😮
First, I lost love, then I lost respect, and then I lost all feelings.
Same after 31 years of being together. I'm 51 and never been happier and at peace❤
40 yrs now I'm well n healed. Peace my sisters
I can't ever look or be with him ever...no love left
So true. Once my heart changes, there's no going back. My ex valiantly bought me 36 roses only after I served him papers. He missed multiple opportunities to celebrate Mother's Day up to that time and treat me well. The roses were proof that he knew all along what to do. Well, too little, too late. I no longer believed, nor cared.
Yes. This is why we ladies put up BRICK walls for sheer protection!!!
THIS
You know it. When I'm DONE I'm DONE! FACTS 💯. Thankyou Big Brother!
Big FACTS
No
Thank you Derrick-you are dropping gems! I walked away, because I had to be in my masculine energy to get things done-It was hurting my soul.
Exactly, the love changes from a verb to a noun
Facts
100% True. Just needed him to step it up, focus on me, so we could elevate to next level. He cant support my goals like I did all his. Instead I get sabotage
I….. in a relationship for 23 years and he has changed so much but you are right, I have quietly checked out and don’t want to go back! I’m done. Can’t look at him the same. He hurt me so bad….😢😢….
You are truly on POINT!! YOU TRULY KNOW WHAT YOU TALKING ABOUT. NO, YOU NOT TRIPPING AT ALL .
You are so correct. I gave my all to my ex fiance and he took it for granted and now, I'm so done.
He ran around and I never did and he forced me to the point that I couldn't stand for him near me. SO HE IS WITH A WOMAN just like him now
You are so right, when a woman gets tired of giving she stops caring after that she has nothing left to give sadly that's when men want in.
I thank God you exist sitting here telling us how it is!! You are definitely the big brother I never had ! Thank you 🙏
Complete truth. This is wisdom
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY 100000% CORRECT!!!
Best way that I can describe it is that I just don't feel connected to him any more. I don't know if you can get that back after everything that they DON'T do when you communicate what you need. You get the ick, for lack of a better phrase.
King you preaching better and saving lives more than dem bishops in pulpit 😢
I can't thank you enough . God bless you and your home ❤
It’s like running out of love, and it ain’t nothing you can do about it! 😅 They better hear you, bro. On point
Derrick Jaxn, I am truly amazed at how wise, deep, and knowledgeable you are about relationships and people. I'm blown away as I listen to you saying the many things that women need to hear and see in our men. Thank you so much for helping us see ourselves more clearly!
I, I and continued I's.. traumatized and so much more to the core..married abandoned left for everything in the world all even after years of even taking him back and married after forgiving, after he already kicked my foot in and tried to kill me for no reason. I still after years went by he looked for me for years after getting out of a few years going to prison for that. Me knowing from back then what he done to me. I gave him another chance to my heart, time, life believing he changed like he claimed and married just to break everything I built even more. So much it's a book needing written.
Yes you make total sense
I gave the ex hubby of 18 yrs the best of all of me, and he gave me the worst of himself. I ended up in a domestic violence shelter. It was so painful but I've learned to love myself and see myself as how God sees me. I'm worthy of love, honor, and respect ❤.
I think you are channeling my spirit guide, Beatrice
Yes Derrick. Men listen to him he’s on point on every word.,
I love what you have to say! I Wish all men thought like you.
Yesssss change of ❤️ and I am glad the Lord showed me who he was
Thank you for the replenishment. For the reminder of clarity. Sometimes us ladies are so deep in our emotions that we have a hard time seeing things for what they really are. I appreciate the helping hand.❤
You are exactly right, enough is enough
AMEN. You can love him, but it’s different now.
You’re speaking truth
You get it. You are totally correct. Thank you
Once the respect is gone, I am out of there.
Currently in this situation after 17yrs. I feel like an idiot.
Mine was 11 years, I relate. And my life immediately changed for the better when I left! Go figure
Well don’t make it any more I wasted 32
20 years I know I’m done😢13 year of bull before he got it right and every now and then the old him peaks out.
I am in this position now.
When I am done I am done. Will never feel the same again
Thank you for validating my feelings and making me realise there’s nothing wrong with the way I’m feeling right now.🙏🏾
ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!! Accepting weaknesses and focusing on the strength!! Whoaaaaa I'M SOOOOO GRATEFUL FOR YOU AND THIS CHANNEL!!! I CAN'T WAIT TO HEAR THIS MESSAGE!!!!!! KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK. I'M PRAYING THAT JESUS WILL CONTINUE TO USE YOU MIGHTILY FOR HIS GLORY 🙌
👏 👏 👏 Very Grateful 🙏
This is RIGHT on! Straight up THE TRUTH
Absolutely correct
I wish I knew your program before I came back into this toxic environment
You are so on point it brought me to tears.
True…done, done at absolutely done!!!
Derrick you speak my language..
The trash takes itself out of our life. So true!!! ❤️🙌🙏
DAMN... THATS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS..
EXACTLY ❤
You just gave a full disclosure. PERIOD.
Word of the day RESPECT
Omg this is the truth I’m so there now. Everything you’re saying is 💯💯💯💯 facts.
GOING THROUGH THAT RIGHT NOW
working on TOTAL ABSENCES 😊👌👍
Again............the 100% TRUTH!!!! It's exactly what GOD loves!!! I gave him a long-assed time to get it right. I was as patient as JOB. He didn't come into the 'understanding' until I turned and left for good. You're right...too little, too late.
So true and since I was a teenager, I’m a senior now, everyone of those men I said no to because of my standards, would show up later but it was too late.
You are not tripping!
When I get triggered I immediately feel my blood pressure go up and feels like my body is on fire and uncontrollable
So true brother!
Yes it does make sense and I love the way you express yourself and these healthy concepts
Here's a crummy thought: Once you are so bitter and "scalded" (great analogy) and cannot receive him the way you wanted to, and did for so long, NOW he changes and you break up because the spark is dead. Then the next woman gets to enjoy those changes, and so on until some other woman down the line finally gets his relationship-ready self. It can be frustrating for the ones he chewed through while he was growing up. Took your innocence, left you jaded then settles with someone who can treat him how he wants to be treated BECAUSE he treats her the way he should have done Girl #1.
Thanks sooo much! Ur literally speaking to me personally!
Derrick, deepest thank you
Absolutely right
Truth, You Tell !!!!! Ok !!!!!
SORRY ABOUT THE OTHER DAY, GOT IT TOGETHER NOW 2024
Thank you for your videos you have helped me wake up and realize so much. This new road is a little scary but I value myself way more than staying because it’s “comfortable”
Thank you so much!🙏 for helping me understand why I feel the way about him.
Keep TEACHING,!!
Yes to all of this!!!
The bomb! So many truths! Thank you for sharing this content! Somatic therapy is amazing! I’ve had myself and kids in it for years. Need to get the body out of hypervisualance into peace.🙏 True healing. Men and women need to come together our family unit depends on it! Cheers to the men out their doing the work! Your Queens are too…. Codependent no more is another great book. 🙏🥰❤ Peace and love everyone!
You know exactly what you are talking about.
U are not tripping! U're 100% real(& soooooo right about everything U say! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Exactly where I'am now. He is changing & it seems I don't care either way. It's a hard place to be.
So very true for another of people. You were on point. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
This got me crying
THANK YOU...THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO! BEEN SAYING THIS FOR A LONG TIME ❤
You are so Right
Wooh, this is soooooo good and so true!!!💥💥💥
True🎯💯
Checked out for 10 years, met someone new...ended up the same situation even though I tried to be my best healed self, retraumatized me and Im checked again.
This relates to my story so well…😒
Truth!!!
Everything you have said is 💯.
Thank you for your time and for this video this is so true. May MHNC bless you and your family.
I can relate to the fullest...
Ugh this hits….🥺24 years and I only feel disappointment now..
Yes, you are 100% right.
All that you are saying is absolutely true and no i’ve never done any of those things
Tell it!! You on point with Adam being accountable. Very good!!
Again on point little Brother 👌
If the shoe fits!
So true. Please listen men all is facts
wow Derrick you sure on fire your best content yet thanks
I am experiencing that now
Thanks for the truth 😊
YES SIR.. U SAY IT LIKE IT IS.. I HAVE NO TIME FOR THOSE GUYS WHO WANT A ONE NITE STAND.. WITH AN. EMPRESS.. NO WAY...PERIOD 💙 THANK YOU DERRICK
Extremely accurate 👏👏👏
You are so right Big Bro
Yay!!! Imma look out for him!!
💋💋💋❤🙏 FROM EMMETT TILL COUSIN... AMEN TO THE AMEN ! YOU ARE ON POINT .
JUST RESPECT THEM SIMPLE