I love y’all’s vibes and how easy it is for you guys to express. Helped me see through a lot of the jealousy in my past relationships. Keep crankin the videoss
My partner recenly came to me that she wants an open relationship. And to be honest it hit me like a wall, but i promised her that i would give it a legitimate chance. So ive been putting in alot of research and personal growth, but tbh the more i grow snd the more i learn im starting to realize that this life style isnt for me. That isnt any hate towards yall because yall have been a massive help to me. But i dont think i can ever find true happiness in an open relationship
That's straight be patient, understanding, your time will come to. It's all about balance. It was hard for me to understand at 1st, but our relationship definitely 100% better and way better communication now.
Keep this up y’all. Thanks for being who you both are and expressing yourselves. I’ve been looking for more poly people to discuss their experiences and this is good stuff y’all fr.
Reece my husband has for a while wanted to explore polyamory nd recently he’s become to actually want to do it I wanna b supportive bt I’m feeling just like u said u were in the beginning how did u go on ur self love journey I dnt want being mad nd jealous nd scared to break my marriage
Own your journey. Decide what it looks like and what it feels like and put it in writing so you can see it daily. What kind of partner do you want to be ? How much contact and info do you want to have about his partners? What’s your ideal dynamic? Is it KTP or a parallel dynamic where you don’t really cross paths with other partners, or something else??. After that, dig deeper and decide how your personal journey will look. Ask yourself: who is my support system. Someone you can confide in without judgement when you need to vent (can also be a journal). What is my physical outlet (gym, yoga, dance, painting, etc…)? What are my boundaries and have they been communicated clearly? Build your knowledge of polyamory and your knowledge about yourself. Master your self-care. Find out the things you love to do that make you feel good. Fall in love with you. The happier you are with yourself, the better you’ll be as a partner. There’s many more things you can do to support your journey, but the point is to nurture and care for yourself as much as you’re caring for the relationship. You want to make sure you know who you are with and without the relationship. Be patient and compassionate with yourself when you get jealous or upset about something. Allow yourself time to process your feelings about situations. Every part of it is a learning process. Thank you for your comment and I wish you lots of love and patience in your journey ❤️❤️
Maaan....shes kinda toxic....He's being reasonable and trying to articulate and the whole time she's here like "WRONG"....man of patience and steel here.
She might have a dissociative attachment style, and getting validation from her other partners has made it easier for her to not be too attached. I've listened to 3 episodes, and I can't help but feel like he is more into her than she is into him. I like how they open their podcast by saying, "Where you can have your cake and eat it too." I'm getting that energy from her. To be fair, they may both have the dissociative attachment style or may have developed that attachment style as a way to cope and deal with the jealousy in the relationship.
Binging every episode right now ! This is great .
Thank you for tuning in!!!!
I love y’all’s vibes and how easy it is for you guys to express. Helped me see through a lot of the jealousy in my past relationships. Keep crankin the videoss
Thank you sooo much for watching . More videos to come!
Thank you for this content guys- you are doing a service to society with these episodes!
@@AnitaAngelica Thank you 🙏🏽 !!
My partner recenly came to me that she wants an open relationship. And to be honest it hit me like a wall, but i promised her that i would give it a legitimate chance. So ive been putting in alot of research and personal growth, but tbh the more i grow snd the more i learn im starting to realize that this life style isnt for me. That isnt any hate towards yall because yall have been a massive help to me. But i dont think i can ever find true happiness in an open relationship
You put in the effort to learn and understand and that’s all that matters. You have to be true to yourself
Comparison is the thief or joy. That's what they say.
Fact 💯
My girlfriend is on a date right now while im here watching this.
😧
Glad we can entertain you while you have you have some free time. lol
Shiddd....
That's straight be patient, understanding, your time will come to. It's all about balance. It was hard for me to understand at 1st, but our relationship definitely 100% better and way better communication now.
This conversation was soooo helpful. I'm only half way in
Thank youfor watching!!!
Keep this up y’all. Thanks for being who you both are and expressing yourselves. I’ve been looking for more poly people to discuss their experiences and this is good stuff y’all fr.
We really appreciate the support!! Thank you 🙏🏽
Reece my husband has for a while wanted to explore polyamory nd recently he’s become to actually want to do it I wanna b supportive bt I’m feeling just like u said u were in the beginning how did u go on ur self love journey I dnt want being mad nd jealous nd scared to break my marriage
Own your journey. Decide what it looks like and what it feels like and put it in writing so you can see it daily. What kind of partner do you want to be ? How much contact and info do you want to have about his partners? What’s your ideal dynamic? Is it KTP or a parallel dynamic where you don’t really cross paths with other partners, or something else??.
After that, dig deeper and decide how your personal journey will look. Ask yourself: who is my support system. Someone you can confide in without judgement when you need to vent (can also be a journal). What is my physical outlet (gym, yoga, dance, painting, etc…)? What are my boundaries and have they been communicated clearly? Build your knowledge of polyamory and your knowledge about yourself. Master your self-care. Find out the things you love to do that make you feel good. Fall in love with you. The happier you are with yourself, the better you’ll be as a partner.
There’s many more things you can do to support your journey, but the point is to nurture and care for yourself as much as you’re caring for the relationship. You want to make sure you know who you are with and without the relationship.
Be patient and compassionate with yourself when you get jealous or upset about something. Allow yourself time to process your feelings about situations. Every part of it is a learning process.
Thank you for your comment and I wish you lots of love and patience in your journey ❤️❤️
what can you find in other guys ??? A LOT
I'm not the only one that notices that😂
Maaan....shes kinda toxic....He's being reasonable and trying to articulate and the whole time she's here like "WRONG"....man of patience and steel here.
She might have a dissociative attachment style, and getting validation from her other partners has made it easier for her to not be too attached. I've listened to 3 episodes, and I can't help but feel like he is more into her than she is into him. I like how they open their podcast by saying, "Where you can have your cake and eat it too." I'm getting that energy from her.
To be fair, they may both have the dissociative attachment style or may have developed that attachment style as a way to cope and deal with the jealousy in the relationship.
If Shots in the dark were a person❤😅